My coming out story - Matt Daly
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 มี.ค. 2013
- well. here you go. we gettin deep into my life.
note: the reason my parents told me to take down the video was because i uploaded the conversation without telling them!
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This is seriously the best. I love how you are not afraid to be yourself and come out and that's a strong characteristic many people wish for! you should be proud and happy of who you are and not let anybody ruin your life or mood. You are who you are. and people will love you for the true you!
I liked how you started out with "boundaries don't exist", It surprised me to hear that you- someone acts and appears so strong- have been having an inner battle with yourself since the SIXTH GRADE! The Hannah Montana reference was amazing, your smiles you get when you started talking about finally getting in a relationship made me smile along with you, that rollercoaster you had with your parents sounds truly saddening, but I'm glad you're strong enough to go through it! Never stop smiling! :)
Hey, I used to watch you're videos all the time, but then I disappeared from youtube for a year and now that I'm back, I started watching them again. I really enjoy you're videos and I'm happy that you are comfortable with who you are after all that struggling. Stay strong dude :)
This is one of the best coming out videos I have ever seen. You're smart, thoughtful, and eloquent and you're describing your inner thoughts so detailed and precisely. For these reasons this video is definitely going to help many young people who are in a similar situation. I watched this video several times because I like it so much ... and your personality.
You should be so proud of yourself Matt. It takes a lot to come out, but in the end it's one of the best things you can do to no longer censor yourself in any way.
But I'm so glad that I can call myself your friend, and I'm so happy that I could be a part of your coming out in any way. :)
This is the whole reason I subscribed to you! This is like my all time favorite and helpful video on TH-cam! Thank you so much for your stories and being so open!
Oh when you started talking I was like, god the same exact thing happened to me, I was the same about not accepting it and not even acknowledging it. I think I am gonna make a video about my coming out story some day. You are so cute, I am glad things ended up fine with you! xx
I stopped this video within the first 2 min just to say wow, your impressive and very articulate!
I'm glad you're getting the encouragement from your friends. Hopefully, your parents will wake up eventually. It just sounds like they're having a tough time coming to grips with your news. :)
You know I'm proud of you and all that good ish. The video was super intriguing and I feel like your story in middle and high school will be able to correlate with other people and the world and everyone's just going to love this and I'm so proud of you, again. I just think you're awesauce and I know you know xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
Matt!! 3 so proud of you!
I agree 100% with the labels stuff at the beginning. Part of my whole acceptance struggle was trying to find a label that fit what I was feeling. Turns out, the labels are for OTHER ppl to classify you. They aren't for you to classify yourself. I like guys and girls, both to different degrees, but I wouldn't call myself bisexual. Others will call me that, I'm just being me.
Watching this video reminded me of so many steps I had forgotten in my own coming out story. Nicely put... and very thorough! :D
heyy matt. just wanted to say i loved the video. you are like the cutest ever :D. good luck in your studies.
Thank you for your story. I grew up in a small town in Idaho, and by the time I realized what I was, I literally thought I was the only gay in the state. It took every ounce of mental ability I had to watch myself to make sure I didn't act or talk gay. The burden of being on constant guard against my own nature was crushing. Please make an up-date, and finally re-post that live coming out video
hey there matt ! enjoyed your CO video best of luck for the future x
aww i got mentioned! Great video Matt, proud of you!
This is really inspiring, glad to hear you're coming out story!
Great video Matt! :) Thanks for sharing your story.
What a great story Matt! I've watched it before but thought I'd check it out again. I don't want to sound stalkerish, but this video makes me love you so much! You are amazing and for some reason everytime I watch your videos it makes me really happy! You are so smart and your thoughts are so well organized I get something from you everytime I watch your videos. Thanks for posting these they always have something that helps me in my everyday life. Your the best!
You go glen coco! Seriously tho, this is inspiring I think. I hope people will look up to you for this. You're an amazing person. I've been watching your TH-cam videos for so long now. And I've met you once actually lol. But this video is amazing. I don't even know what else to say besides that. Just wow c:
Words cannot describe how awesome you are..I love you Matt, you're like a mystical creature just spreading joy
I think its brave of you to post such an honest video. I can relate to a lot of the stuff you spoke about through your school years. I don't know how much it means coming from a stranger on the internet, but the coming out process is by no means an easy one and you should be proud of yourself.
omg, so relieved your parents were ok with it!! I was scared for u lol! so happy youve come out - I hate that society is the reason you had to go through that inner struggle for so long.. not fair, glad u r happy now!
I'm so happy + proud of you :) and I'm glad you could relate!
I found your video very moving and your experience of coming out to yourself very much resonated with my own many years ago - in particular the discovery of just how many layers of selves there are to come out to. Those layers are designed I think to be protective but, like a kind of emotional scar tissue, can prevent us from being fully sensitive to the truth of what we feel. You have bravely begun to dare to feel.
this video is amazing im literalyy crying because its so heartfelt and i just love it i wish u could come to my school
I'm so so so proud of you :)
I feel that you have gone through so much turmoil learning to cope with your sexuality that it cost you a precious part of your youth. But on the other hand that struggle build something strong inside you. Far too many gentle souls did not survive the struggle. I hope you have a wonderful life filled with love and happiness. You have earned it.
this is amazing...I came out last march and i watched this video and i was inspired to tell my parents, they didn't know and now they don't care. just wanted to say thank you x
Dude your videos are just amazing hope to watch more
I love reading your comments,your so sassy it makes my day
I'm so proud of you! Glad we are friends! I'm here for you whenever you need me! :)
well done dude you explained your coming out perfectly! one of the better stories you know yourself well.
I just found your TH-cam and I've already fallen in love with you. You are amazing and truly inspirational.
So inspirational! Wish I had enough courage to do it. Thanks for posting this.
Love you Matt!
Love you, Matt!
When you first posted this video, I never would have dreamed that I would have a coming out story...but now here I am...I just started the process 2 days ago. I've told 4 friends so far...my parents? I'll figure that one out later...it's been tough. This is, by far, the hardest experience of my life. I'm emotionally wrecked to the point where I'm not eating and losing sleep...I just want it to be over.
you are awesome
Dear, Matt Thank You for sharing your story. May God Bless you in all you do. Peace
ur so great! society sucks but with more people like you in the world, it rly could become a better place. thanks for sharing your story with us! its meant alot. THANK Y0U!
Thank you for sharing your coming out story.You're the best!!!
You have something to be proud of :) Great job Matt. You truly are so brave and inspirational!
It seems like this go's full circle. I admire you for the same things you admire other gays for and suddenly find myself feeling better about myself being gay because I see how inspiring different gays can be. It's like a brotherhood that supports each other and we all understand the pain and trials we all go through, and that makes us stronger, prouder and happier. Your so lucky to have Grant, he has the most gentle spirit and open heart of anyone I've me here on youtube. He is special!
that was really selfish of your parents that they made your coming out experience about themselves. thank you for being vulnerable with us ❤
Matt
I've always loved you and your videos and stuff and this video has only made me respect you more. I just want to say I'm so proud if you and don't ever believe you don't deserve love and support. :)
awe! I'm so happy to hear that! thank you for being brave :)
Proud of you, Matt!
loved watching this, learned so much about ya :)
You are an absolute delight to listen to. Your wisdom and intelligence is outstanding for such a young guy. You are so very and interesting... you kept me captivated. I'm 59 btw... and I've listened to a lot of people in my life but none as articulate as you. I wish you nothing but success in your journey in life.
THANK YOU for telling your story. you have help me
Amazing story Matt. Respect. You will be an inspiration to many, both straight and LGBT.
Thanks for the great video. What's been going on for the last 3 years?
I was inspired to create my own coming out story on my channel after watching this video, thank you so much for this! xo
I have to say you're very well spoken a pleasure to listen to coming out for me was different sometime a little older but I never really had any issues with it! I can listen to you speak forever :)
you are so strong and intelligent and super great person. You're parents are so concerned about what others think instead of their son's feelings. Hopefully they've come around. If not, they need time to accept it for themselves but it's not their place to put their thoughts on you. They're values aren't any better than yours. You're a fantastic human being.
CONGRATS! That's an amazing and surprisingly entertaining story haha :)
That is a great video! I think it is very inspiring and I think it will help a lot of guys out there. I was very nervous when I made my own coming out video. Anyways, I subscribed and I wish u all the best!
Glad you posted this video! Feel proud to be gay and feel happy that you posted your video! Tell straight to your parents that you feel gay and there is no reason to hate you because you posted this without telling them!
Wish you all the very best in your life being in a relationship with someone that deserve you as the best because you are an awesome person!
great video... thanks for sharing! i hope you put your parent video back up, i missed it.
you are kewl. you will be alright. love yourself. you are worth of love. love you !
You're amazing and I freaking love you!3
Matt, I am proud of U, be what you are...
Awesome story! And thank you for sharing it!! :)
Great story bud . We all have to face it sometime, but just remember; It is great to dream and look ahead than to look back and regret.
I respect you so much for this video
you're amazing :) so bravee!
Matt, I'll love you forever and always, baby. Never change. :3
very courageous!! your message of "unboxing" is important because we are not better/worse than others, it's like you said just for others to have a term for us. you are right about that no one is different & that we all should have the same value and treatement as anyone. looking forward to hear about your success in coming out. I think that you are doing a really great job with making all these funny and great videos! keep this positive attitute and never stop working on your future! regards :)
I'm 15 and i came out to both my parents just two weeks ago and it was really easy to relate to almost everything you said :)
Aw this was awesome. Congrats, sir!
I stand corrected! thank you for the link - very informative, i enjoyed reading that!
Great coming out video ! I loved the part about how you met Grant. You guys are the cutest couple
your a beautiful individual . your very brave. and honestly watching your video makes me feel better about being who i am. your going to change peoples lives ! fuck these haters.
Wow, your story is so much like mine! I remember looking at myself in the mirror when I was a senior and said "your gay". That's the first time I really accepted it. I remember the anxiety attacks and all. Life is so much better now. Your so lucky to know Grant, he is such a sweetheart! I have admired and respected him for a long time. He has the kindest and most gentle soul. I liked your story and have subbed to your channel. You seem like a very cool person!
Thank for sharing your story. i Agree that need to attach a label to everything( more so someones sexual orientation, race, etc) is stupid and not needed. I am in a very identical place of not accepting it in my head first, so i can start the whole "coming out" process and letting others know or being more okay if someone know even if i dont really care about the LABEL .... if you have any advice on becoming more okay with it in my head or more so the label , to move forward in my life journey i would really appretiate it.
Dude, you are so cool...thanks for your share.
Matt I love you so much, and I look up to you so much. I am so incredibly proud of you and I JUST WANNA HUG YOUUU
Thank you for accepting my apology. Again, I had no right.
awe :( i'm so sorry. i really hope they can accept you someday!
you'll honestly never know until you try! Be strong and love yourself and if you try something with a guy and end up not liking it, that is completely ok :)
They will accept you in time. 90% of the people freaking out now will forget about it in time. Just keep your head up and know that you're strong and beautiful. I know you are. And make sure to find some REAL friends that will love and accept you for who you are. they will stick with you through the tough times. I'm always here if you want to send me a message. Just stay positive and keep breathing
Aw, Matt. I loved you before this video, and I love you still--no more, no less. But I'm proud of you! Glad you've come to terms with yourself :) Go Matt!!
I totally agree with your opening monologue about sexuality !! :) your "mental war" was exactly what I went through (for about 8 years!!!)
Fantastic coming out video. I can soooooo relate to the early part of ur video.
~thumbs up~ Welcome to the family! thank you for sharing your coming out story and the struggles to accept yourself, also you are very cute!
My coming out has been so terrible. I really appreciate this video. Helps me feel I'm not alone.
Aydian Alexander did you really hate your parents
Sweet man love and hugs.You will help people
thank you
You can't pray away the gay! I love you so much Matt! I'm happy that your comfortable with yourself, its the best feeling in the world to be happy with who you are. I'm ,again, so happy that your getting the love that you deserve, and trying to help others get the same positive and supportive response that they deserve to! :)
EVERYONE IN SOCIETY NEEDS TO HEAR THE FIRST MINUTE OF THIS VIDEO!!!! Great job!
Hi there! Thanks for the comment. I'd just like to know where you learned that word and why you think it's ok to spread it, and say it. I'm really curious.
This is a really good expression .... we appreciate it thank you
Way to go kiddo, i never have understood why family feels this is a bad thing, their shame is deplorable, but i can tell your tough and smart, so Good Job!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
your story is so similar to my own, thanks for sharing
This was beautiful. Go you.
Wow! That was a great story! Good job! :D
Thanks, heart felt and real!
I'm a senior in high school, never really publicly "came out" but I've told some ppl. I've even told my parents (which I regret) but at this point I do not care who knows. I'd prefer for ppl not to know, but all the friends that I've told really didn't care which surprised me. If anything, they didn't want me to be flamboyant, which was fine since I am "straight-acting" anyways.
ajb2306 did you really hate your parents