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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ม.ค. 2017
- The year 2017 began on a very disappointing note. One the first day itself, the country woke up to the news of Bengalore mass molestation. Instead of condemning the incident, our politicians repeated the same old victim blaming. ‘Can’t keep ants away from sugar, said Abu Azmi from the Samajwadi Party.
This isn’t the first time when a politician blamed women for rape. From women’s short skirts to mobile phones, to their smoking and drinking, politicians have given absurd reason for why rapes happen. In this episode of Cab Mein Charcha we ask our cabbies whether they agree with them or not.
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The white shirt guy is what we all should try to become in India.
In my opinion girls,can wear what they are comfortable with! But while travelling at night they should be really careful and should take the cautions! Dress is not the problem, sick mentality is !
@THE ZOLDICS Aur tu chutiya :)
Idiots have no guts to blame Arab countries and china but blame at India for everything
@THE ZOLDICS simp how?
@@dracovirals7705 the difference is. That India is a democracy, and equality is key here . So that argument ain't gonna work . Also citizens of India must try to reform it and make it better . Criticism is a means for that so ...
girl should wear iron costume like iron man 😂
Usmen bolenge itna tight kyun pehen rakha hai
Makes sense actually, jaha bhi khatra dikhe udd janeka bas
And chastity belts
Hey man.... I'm a big fan of u.... See u at 8 on set max
@@adit8206 lol
For the first time the older generation looks more sensible than the younger generation...and this is actually a bigger problem since the youth is going to be the future of the country in the coming years...and it's really disgusting to see such a situation
The number of ppl interviewed is too few to draw conclusions. Better treat them as opinions of a few cabbies and not the trend all over
I was Wondering the same !!!!
This problem arose because many of the people being questioned here were uneducated. They were just repeating what they had been told by their parents. The elders however, were more experienced, so they knew what they were actually talking about.
@@shamtradtam3769 Although I do agree that the sample number was smaller, there is a slum only a walks distance from my home where most of the youth is illiterate. There, youngsters tend to be more orthodox, because again, they are just repeating what they were told. The elders however have more first hand experience.
You can’t expect the young generation to be more open if they weren’t exposed to a better level of thinking in the first place.
'larke toh aawara hai' 'larke toh drink kare ge' this is the mentality that needs to be changed!!!!!
Or I'll say this is the mentality that provoke rape and justify rapists. Pathetic.
👍🏻
Patriarchy 😑
Even if anyone drinks why can't the law be strong enough to keep them moral.
We girls grow up listening to these phrases at home😔
The white shirt cabbie's wife is one lucky lady! We need more men like him in the world.
True
Verrrrrrryy true
He looks educated the rest dont
Yes
@vic vic don't even waste your mind on trying to reason with him. Some people just come online to hate on others and feel better for themselves because their lives are that horrible. Also I'm pretty sure he don't understand half the things we are saying.
The guy who is wearing white shirt is an amazing person..👍👍
Karishma Bhadana coz he knows what he has to say in front of a camera.
I agree
Muslim hai
He doesn't look like a typical driver.. seems like he has had a good education... but he didn't get a good job in corporate sectors.. thus for earning the bread and butter for his family, he became a taxi driver.
Shaadi kr le usse😂
The host is epic and how surprising to see the older ones talking more sensibly
Jis ki Nazar gandi h, they don't need any provocation, they only need a chance. Whether it's a sari or skirt. Sick people.
TRUE
Or a diaper
That's the saddest truth 😢
@@jannatl9522 true😩
Absolutely
"Samne wala kuch kahe thoh muh thode uska" Epic reply
Yani ki veshya ka dhandha badhane ki koshish karen.
@@donbhai2094 veshya ka koi male version word dhundh pahle
@@indexcel5099 Gigolo
@@indexcel5099 Gigolo!
@@lavishsansanwal9375 aur ye bolta kon apni society me kisi male ko
The hailed younger generation is more regressive in thought than the elderly. Views?
Uneducated fellows. Only repeating what their mother has taught them. If u agree, hit the like button.
Bcz of the education and exposure they didn't get. Also bcz what they have been seeing since childhood. If a person sees only that through out childhood it becomes there mentality.
Awareness needs to be provided. That uncle must have been little educated or experienced ( having a girl chid at home).
@@cheenatalent i think you're blaming our film industry 🤔
@@AvinashSahai can't blame bjust the film industry but yes they also have a part to portray how it is so convenient to blame and point ladies for any situation just bcz they are meant to be inside house and men do all the work n they are karta dharta of house. ( In old days it was like that)
With age comes wisdom.
As per some of their comments its seems like a girl should wear a dress and then should come out of mother's womb or else she might get raped.😡😠
@Shiksha Maharaj true. Dressings isn't the problem. Women can wear the most concealing dress and still get raped. From babies to old women, it is happening to all age groups. Saying dress is responsible is like saying smoking does not cause cancer, people get cancer because they have lungs.
People are soo blind they don't even know how to identify the problem.
@Shiksha Maharaj I couldn't agree more. People act soo kind and compassionate saying death penalty isn't a solution, men should be educated that's all, do you really need education to know that forcing someone against their will is wrong? Defiling an infant is wrong? Touching a woman in crowded public place is wrong? Are men soo barberic that basics have to be taught to them? How is that girls from villages have the will to become IAS officers (same goes to some men) but men end up harassing girls.
@Shiksha Maharaj it's not just in the military, we can find men in position, like politics, actors (even actress) who have managed to voice out shitty statements. I guess the only way for a woman to protect herself is to become soo angry at that situation that she tears the muscles from her attacker with all her might and fury.
People who claim that older generation was regressive, this proves that older generation was much more empathetic, compassionate and responsible than today's generation. The so called young generation today can make tiktok videos, comment and troll on social media and do the best of activities to kill time. So obviously this is the expected result.
I don t mean to be offensive, but you can speak for yourself. You look at a small group of people and say they are good for nothing and only know how to waste their time. The society at this time has so many intelligent and talented individuals, and then people like you say the younger generation is a waste of resources. Honestly, before commenting such things it would be best to think about what you're saying a few times.
@@ruchitashah643 I DIDN'T say, young generation is a waste. We can't generalize anything like that, but for sure a fair section is irresponsible as they are way too much in their comfort zone than the older generation.
Secondly, one has the right to voice their opinion which is (I suppose) our fundamental right, nobody is asking you to agree with it. If you have a problem with anybody's opinion on a public forum, then it's your problem, not the other person's.
@@anjali7926 As were my first words, I don't mean to be offensive. And if you can voice your opinion, then I too have the right to disagree with that and voice my opinion to counter yours. Also, YES you did essentially generalize it when you said "so-called young generation" and then went on to talk about how they were all a bunch of good-for-nothings. The way you framed it, was offensive to me, and I'm sure many others because what your saying is that the younger generation is worse compared to the "older" generation, when you've only observed a small group of people to make such big assumptions like that
@@ruchitashah643 Lol as I said, if you get offended by people's opinions, then you've to deal with it.
You can perceive it the way you want.
As time is very precious and random discussion on a public forum without any productive exchange of ideas is futile, I wouldn't like to engage in any further discussion. Peace out! ✌️
@@anjali7926 I would agree to some of the things you said, but if you thought “random discussion on public platform ” is futile, then you wouldn’t have replied, or commented anything in the first place😁 Also I never got offended, and as you said all of us are free to have and express opinions. Though I would disagree that one must “deal with it” if they don’t agree with someone’s opinion, because that would simply mean expressing their own opinion. Anyways, as you said time is precious and I wouldn’t want to waste mine on this (you, not the topic or platform). Imma head out now :)
It's so unfortunate to see younger generations mind are so dirty....
They are so narrow minded .
@@kishorelaishram3784 They are uneducated man. They learn what their elders say and show. Their mindset cant change without we educated people bringing a change.
Exactlyyy.... infact the elder generation was comparatively less orthodox ....I salute those people who try to change with changing times👍
Not all!
But in the video only the young idiot is like that
What do you expect from porn and alcohol!
The man in white shirt is a pure gentlemen
White shirt cabbie is amazing person,plz find that person and award him.
I mean why should we glorify/award someone who is doing the right thing? I mean shouldn't that be considered normal behaviour
Sherin Elizabeth yeah, we are living in a world today where its so normal to be toxic , evil and inhumane. But being human is a rare thing.
Yes award him for doing the bare minimum. Award all the men that aren't actively going out to harass/rape/murder women and children because that's such a huge achievement.
majority of Indians have this mentality ...
and people want safety, growth, technology and so much more.....
1st let's grow mentally .... things will change then for good
Ever read behind a cab
"This Cab respects woman"
One thing needs to be added
"Driver Doesn't"
Basically the nation is hopeless. And women are indeed not safe. 70 yrs of independence and see the condition in the country. Pathetic. The basic quality of life is so poor
Easy to complain!Be the change yourself!
Let's make a better tomorrow for everyone together
@@ananyasingh6174 don worry about me. I am from a country which is way ahead of yours. Here people give respect to others and there’s no crime
@PIYUSH YADAV everything is not your home
@PIYUSH YADAV at least u keep quiet babe. People from UP do not talk about crime
The man in the white shirt 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
You guys seriously need to bring more "Cab mein Charcha" episodes
2:17 His mentality.🤮🤮
The whole man🤮🤮
He said one good thing in his entire conversation.
Intoxication is the main problem.
@@factshouse3690 no
@@factshouse3690 fuck no
@@factshouse3690 how so?
behind everything, there is the physiological reasons.on camera even rapist also say that women should get equal rights but in reality it is different na.i don't blame it fully to boys because somehow somewhere larka ho ya larki paida karne wali toh ek maa hi hai na so soch gar se aacha aana chahiye then only our girls will be same but in our society, some mothers don't teach their child to protect the girls rather say larka hoga to unnati hoga and larki hoga to unnati nagi hoga.so teach your son how to behave .
Exactly . There are mothers who teach their daughters to dress properly but they forget to teach their sons to respect girls
Your comment is appreciated. Thankyou.
i do agree, consent should be taught at home, although maa or baap dono ki responsibility h bcche ko acchi upbringing dena, not just the mother they both are to blame ✌️
It's a man's fault Totally..moral and value system need to imprint on the child's heart from the school age. APJ Abdul Kalam Sir was insisting these things from homes and schools
Seriously, we need more men you. Thank you. Your comment is appreciated.
Woh budhe Uncle aur woh white shirt Wala dono samjhdaar hai
The black jacket guy is probably from hariyana so no wonder his mentality is like that
Ashish Kumar he looks like he comes from a lower background and also has a 3rd class thinking.
@@natashathaker9425 not all lower background people think like that but yet it's a horrible truth
Phle toh haryana likhna seekho ache se..dusra tum bhi toh ladke jaise behave ke rhe ho..haryana walo ko blame kr rhe ho jaise usne ladkiyo ko blame kiya..toh tumme or uss ladke m koi difference nhi h..Saari baat education ki hoti h..na ki states ki..Apni mentality change kro bhai
@@Kanchankelasi kbhi gyi ho haryana tumahre delhu mumbai s jyada safe h
Kya pta tumhare up s ho bihar s ho
I lost it when she mentioned chowmein 😂😂😂😆😆
@Shruti Tripathy really, such a bullshit reason...idek what was going on in his brain...like how did he make the connection?
And they say rape culture isn’t real
Best were.
1. Surya devta hi bacheye gaye ladki ko..
2. Agar kacha dalna Hai toh ghar se Ghee and milk drink karke nikalo..
😂😂😂😂
Hats off cabbies..
Dodh ghee kha ka niklo Matlab to be strong .
😂😂😂😂😂
haan par jisne ye baat boli uss insaan k mann mein waise bhot tatti soch bhiii bhari hai....
@1:45 white jacket guy. And the uncle. You nice keep going mans!
Purple you ARMY💜💜
@@sumitabanerjee3274 purple deez nutz 🤡
after that rajgir rape case in bihar where a girl went at rajgir temple with her friends she got raped by villagers , i told my girlfriend not to go outside without her parents or without me, m no one to suggest what my girl should wear but what to do with those guys who have the mentality of girl being a only sex object, i have to protect my girl and my sister, the govt. the police has failed, so now I'm responsible for their safty...और मैं लड़को से बस ये बोलना चाहता हु की दुसरो की नही तो कम से कम अपनी बहन की ही ढंग से रक्षा करलो।।
Thankyou for existing. Very much appreciated.
Respect!!
@@factshouse3690 oh wow..so how many times have u done that to ur mom?..n r u planning to do that to ur daughter ?? wow..🤡👏
The question is: Did you slap the drivers before exiting the cab? (Except the white shirt wala dude)
@@factshouse3690 u fucking idiot.... Do u even know what's happening around.... U are a complete asshole.... I have seen ur comments and replies... U really have very cheap mentality....
@@factshouse3690 even the 7 month old babies get raped and even the younger boys too ... So now what's the valid reason behind them getting raped...???
No, she shouldn't
It's amazing how that driver uncle talked so sensibly! Kudos to his views.
Hume apni hawas wali soch se bahar nikalana chahiye,aur ladkiyo ko bhi utni aazadi deni chahiye jitni ladko ko h aur ladkiyo ko khud itni himmatwar banaye ki wo hr situation ko khud handle kr sake.
Well said
Amazing
@Abhishek Tanwar log toh Sci fi films b boht dekhte hai iska Matlab ye thodi hai ki chhat P Jaake udne ka try karte hai... Abe chutyie Sharam kar lode
@@tony-pc4kd ye epic that yr 😂
The white shirt guy is such a good person!!
Hats off to the host who dealt with them so patiently.. Look at me I have been fired for the fifth time from my sixth job because I retaliated their disgust mentality... You go girl you are awesome..
Don't you think she should have taken their consent before publishing the videos? Did they know girls like Pallavi will insult them on this platform? Would you think they will speak if they would have know that they will be scrutinize by random strangers like you?
Sir... Its not always like you have to portray yourself as role model on screen and devil inside... People will retaliate or as what you said insult them for kinda thinking they still uphold... Grow up man...
@@ashish282 would you hide your good qualities because people might asking you to show them off? no. should you hide your bad qualities so people will be lured to you and then you can destroy their lives? you can answer that for yourself, but my answer is no. and you so blatantly said consent, as if you understand the weight of the word...do you know most women don't even realise when their consent is being forced out of them/being over-ridden by people around them?
Chowmine, I dint knew rape is also a Chinese conspiracy
The white shirt man respect bro 🙏
I am trying to remember all these faces so that i would avoid those cabies.
Smart 😄
These people want safety for girls......actual predator are those who don't say these things in public.they are labour class who have no aim in life.they earn little and drink alcohol and rape whenever they find an opportunity.bcz they don't care for their future
Good observation
Gadget singh. These people are trying to protect girls by blaming those? Okay thanks
@@vanshikagaur1521 look,they are blaming but as a precaution way,your parents too scold you but they do it for your own good.if a women didn't go in night wearing skirts showing cleavage she has a better chance of not facing unfortunate condition as we are still backward in mentality.not you and me but the people around us are.
There is a big gap between '' a woman appearing sexy'' and '' a man making sexual advances'' and anyone who wants to bridge this gap can only do so by getting her permission!
Ishani Majumdar wow..You made perfect sense with half of the cycle.. The remaining half is something nobody knows that it exists..
Ajeet Albert In our country that ''remaining half'' is not as misconstrued as this half..and this ain't a cycle ..you may call it reversible
If only every girl was so understanding... This is such a nice comment... Worst part is guys and girls still considering sex a taboo... But then we have porn and stuff now... I guess generation is not able to cope up so fast with these developments... It'll take time... What you say?
The positive comments from the men in the comment section is what make me have a little faith in our country. That there 'are' men who have a good mentality. Thankyou to all. We need more people like you.
Majority of men have good mentality. There are only some men who do such kind of monstrous acts
@@vidishasansanwal6272 but those 'some men' are too many...too many for me to feel safe commuting to my classes, too many for me to feel safe taking my dog out for a walk in the mornings.
@@riordanfan6038 Men can also say the same due to thousands of false cases getting flooded in the judiciary..
And if you are feeling scared then it's really not the fault of men who have good mentality (which are in majority)..
@@vidishasansanwal6272 i'm not at all saying it's the problem of men with good mentality, it's the problem of the judicial system that is failing society in general - not punishing those who need to be punished, and not doing enough investigation in false rape allegations. maybe if the judicial system was tight enough, nobody would have to live in fear, either of being attacked and abused, or in fear of being falsely accused.
This old cab drivers are much wiser than this young cab drivers
And who gave this women right to slap them? Has she told them that she's publicity going to insult them of a video sharing platform? I think she's a lier
Have you noticed something as a person gets older his thoughts change too. See older men thinking is different from a young or may be illiterate people. Soch badlo desh badlega.
There's only one man who I think was sensible here.
Even the old uncles were sensible!
One of the reasons is BOLLYWOOD too.
It has changed the defination of Love. According to Bollywood, If you are a boy in love, follow that girl for days even if she says no...and MAGICALLY she says Yes after some days...This is what we call Sexual Harassment. And In India, there are 1000s of Andhabhakts of These Actors and they think if Actors do that, why not they? These things make them COOL. Item songs really need to be stopped in Bollywood
According to that cab driver odd even rule lagao
Ekdin ldke aawara banenge aur ek din ldke😂😂
Aadmi Ka soch
Mentality of boys is important rather than a girl 👧🏻 skirts and all 😇😇 this time there was no propaganda by quint 😇😇
Okay so what was the mistake of the 3 months child-like
She was wearing diaper and was playing with her rattle.
'Skirt pehena hai aapko tho ghar se doodh ghee khake niklo' this guy has a point... If a girl wants to stay safe they should learn to be safe... Learning self defences is a great way to protect it self.
this is india, new india, old india.. kya kahoege bhai. bhagwan bachaye is desh mein
people have lost their minds completely
The last advice uncle ka... Sayi bola uncle!!! Aapko dekh ke seekhna hoga kuch logo ko... 🙏🙏🙏
'Chowmein' lmao
3:24 क्या बात कही अंकल आपने। वाह 👍👏
See if a girls shows skin then it is not to attract boys but to be happy and confident about her curves and try new style... Just like boys like to flaunt theirs abs and shoulder after loosing weight or workout... My question if the world would be opposite and boys are raped, abused or molested just for showing their abs or wearing shorts to beach or pool party or staying long for night party then imagine wat girls go through... I am not being sexist or feminist but now I questions to all males asking why girls need to show skin to attract males.. Hope this is a wake up call...... I dnt support rape, molest or abuse of any kind irrespective of victims genders. In many parts of d world even small boys or guys are raped or abused and I think there should be justice and equal rights for all human beings of world irrespective of caste, race, gender etc...... Lets not divide ourselves but work and live together in harmony to make our world a better by respecting each other.....
Firstly women wear attractive clothes to be noticed, same goes for guys.. No one can change this as this sexual tension between genders is natural.
Point is to change Indian mentality and it cannot happen till the time we gather guts not to celebrate and question our religious texts full of misogyny and objectification of women like how can someone be considered great after losing his wife in betting twice and how can the act of Ram to ask for character proof from his wife on a single comment by an outsider...
The day we dared to challenge this, equality will start to blossom in our country...
Abhi Seth You can't change Indian mentality unless there is uniform growth where everyone has everything. We are born and brought up in the cities where we speak high morals in modern society. But the guys who come from rural areas for work or the cab drivers who see a lot more stuffs than we common people see, start developing that complex or hatred or whatever you wanna call it very soon. This is added with a situation with extreme lack of inhibitions and high sexual provocation. Very recently, I talked about this topic with my friend's brother who is a psychiatrist. He gave this different perspective which may or may not be right. But, he made sense when he said that I'm not a good person until I face the test to prove myself. With a clear conscious mind and inside a safe bubble, I can rant about how rape is bad for hours. But finally, it all lands down only to a few considerations... High social and financial gap, high sexual saturation in the society etc etc.. You cannot question it anymore here. It's natural law. Just like you said, we guys flaunt around with our abs or pick up lines to attract women. Women wear make ups and lovely dresses to attract men. But at any point, there will be leftovers right.. The leftover women will not even be talked about. They'll be depressed in their own world. This is where the trend of "Every woman is beautiful" came in. It's funny how people have created an artificial sense of beauty and then start a trend to boost the confidence of their version of average looking women..When it comes to men, it'll be the leftover men who tend to make the news coz these are the ones who work amongst all as the cab driver being interviewed here. We can't have a gray zone here. It must be black and white. I mean we should either be a conserved society where we strongly stand against premarital sex and free porn or we should be a free minded society like the west where almost everyone gets a date,love or sex and we forget these things and focus on improving ourselves.. India isn't like this.. We are in the middle zone or a transition zone as I see it. We are what we are as a product of consumerism. They(social devils as we call them) are and they will be so for a long time. In fact, this will worsen in the next generation. As I said before, you can't control it and there is no point too. Just like Piyali said, even boys do get raped. This will always happen. The trend of young boys getting raped is not common( although it does exist) in India as of now. But it'll be on the rise soon. We can try to change it by doing something which our parents failed to do to us. We can try to teach sex education or the prom culture in an unbiased way to our kids if we are really fit to teach the same. You can only shape up the innocent minds to become fine souls. We, adults, have already become corrupted. This is the least hope which I have personally.
Ajeet Albert I agree with your rational views but I feel rather than difference in economic statues or city against rural the biggest reason in gender segregation. If look closely most of these incidences take place in the UP , haryana , MP etc and not Maharashtra or most of south india. The reason is boys have not interacted much with girls so they know nothing about the opposite gender and also creates sexual frustration more over they have always seen his mother and sister under his father's thumb...
As u said 2 choices....
In my modest opinion they only way is to give social freedom to all and such hideous crimes with reduce if not eradicate it completely as human society can never be 100% crime free....
Sexual attraction is natural.. rape is something which lacks empathy... how can u do it when someone is screaming and crying...
Priyabrata Dash u did not get my point, I ment segregation of gender creates curiosity for opposite sex and sexual frustration which leads to such acts although I know paedophiles necrophilia is always there in society but although no doubt in they being given deserving punishment but we should also think y this rape culture has snailled in our society...
Educated vs Uneducated. Moral Education is must
This is clearly visible that education & wisdom makes difference...
Happy that atleast one guy is thinking wisely
The cabbies have all the potential to become our netas especially the bearded young cabbie who said guys our meant to party and drink at night. I think he has a very bright future in this country so much so that I think the people of this country will need a pair of shades to get through brightness.
I HAVE HUGE RESPECT FOR THAT WHITE SHIRT GUY .
SIR YOU ARE BRAVE TO ACCEPT OUR OWN TOXIC MENTALITY IS RESPONSIBLE.
AND I DO SUPPORT YOU. 👌🙏
Suraj Devta hi bachayenge ladki ko...hahahaha
Intoxication! I kinda agree with him with a different perspective for a different reason.. I think intoxication is the reason why we have comfortable casual sexual encounters too.. We need that lack of social inhibitions to get laid right..yes of course, we flirt with cheesy pick up lines too..But damn sure, alcohol helps a lot to both men and women...
And with respect to this video, don't see it as Indian men's mentality! Instead see it class wise! I mean the socio economic class wise... You'll see it if you have the eyes for it.
I would feel safe to go with the cabbie in white shirt and the older guys
The white shirt man should be the role model for all the other cabbies.
Awesome interview....truth of our nation 👏👏👏👏🙌🏻
"Ladkiyon ko apne upar bhi guts karna padega ki...jaise saamne wala kuch kehta hai toh muh tod de uska" - BANG ON.
Vatsal Guruvayurappan what if they are 4-6 men?
Pooja Yadav
** Regardless of your gender, give this list a good read, it might save you someday **
1. Use pepper spray. Temporarily blind them so you have time to escape.
2. Raise voice/show confidence and retaliate either by sarcastic taunts or being Loud and very assertive, since they would generally not expect a woman to answer back without showing fear or irritation. It also attracts attention from others at least. Either behave cowardly or else bravely according to the situation and possible outcomes.
3. In case of defence attacks in response to them, try your BEST to aim for the crotch, from front or back. it’s the best logical way to get a man down no matter how big they are. Either kick, punch or grab the crotch as hard as possible. if done properly, it gives their whole nervous system a good shock to temporarily stop them.
And also aim for attacking the eyes somehow. Either by pepper spray, or a punch, slap or prick with fingers. **Use nails.
4. Use some wise self defence moves (very rewarding if you know which moves to use when)
5. If you can activate an emergency call before they get the chance to grab hold of your belongings, do it as calmly and swiftly as you can. keep the process down to a single/double click on your phone somehow without unlocking.
6. Use other objects around you to throw at them or at least divert or slow them down while you try to escape.
7. Use matchstick/fuel combinations (worst case scenario since it’s a matter of life and death)
8. Always keep a stole/shawl with you. Be on the lookout for a crowded area, get into it, wear your shawl/stole, merge with the crowd, and navigate calmly but swiftly until you lose them. Keep breathing, stay confident that you can outsmart them and be aware.
!! -->> Women need to take FULL advantage of their clothing and garments, to protect themselves or even use in defense or attack moves (E.g. Strangling the attacker with your Dupatta. Or using any alcohol based cosmetics to your advantage.)
REMEMBER --> In a general gang situation, 1 person is usually the leader, and the others are their 'chamchas'. Bring the leader down if you can recognize them, and the rest of the gang would usually be more fearful and possibly get out of your way. Or else they just become mentally weaker as their leader is taken out (even if temporarily), which makes your job easier to save yourself somehow.
ALWAYS remember that no matter how much problems are occurring around you daily, practice proper posture, confident and assertive communication, and build a strong network, on a DAILY BASIS. These will not just help you think clearly and quickly, but even give you more contacts to get help from when in real need.
@@vatsalguruvayurappan9724 that's awesome
I m pleasured to see a girl who has confidence in herself
@@ghaintjatti1950 All of us will be pleasured. It is also our duty as human beings to let them know that they can definitely save themselves instead of waiting for their so-called 'prince charming'.
@@vatsalguruvayurappan9724 sister our thoughts match exactly I also feel the same instead of depending on a male for our protection we should make ourselves strong enough
There is nothing that a woman can't accomplish
I have worked and lived in Uk ,and people (not all) party there from Friday until Sunday ..and drinks are cheaper than water ..girls are so intoxicated that they are fallen on the side of the road and scantily claded..It was a huge culture shock for me..but what is wort mentioning here is not one male tries to take advantage of the situation and they have a f** king control even when drunk ..as a woman of this country I'm ashamed with the manners in which boys are raised here ..and the blame also goes to educational institutions where it is money and fees are more important than the value imparted
My message to all my sisters out there...wear anything you think a guy can in public, and learn to fight back( watch videos on youtube ) if you are attacked or approached, have things like pepper spray with you, have apps that reach out to police and alert them if you are attacked in your mobile phones...And if you are captured, say that you have some serious deadly contagious disease like AIDS ...i always thought i would have done this if i were a girl if situation got out of hand...hope it helps..
Smart and balanced. A couple of your cabbies weren't going for the blame the victim approach the others so eagerly espoused.
This RJ is the cutest . 😍
Who else wants to slap that guy who says “ladki you ka kya kaam hain raat ko?”
Man it was depressing to watch this video,i am not comfortable now to send any girl i know in cab
I want to ask people who think skirts and alcohol are the problem. Everyday you see CHILDREN get raped. Today I read news about 3 girls under the age of 5. 3, 2 and 8 months. Are you telling me it was the fault of them for not covering up?
The question "Do Skirts, Smoking & Drinking Cause Rape?" looks somewhat ambiguous to me since it assumes more than what is just asked. When the anchor asks this question, she is not looking for a correlational study, but she is more interested in the aspect about who is responsible, which makes the question unclear since that was not specified. "Responsibility" and "Causation" are two very separate things.
If you ask me whether short skirts and alcohol increase the chances of rape/cause rape, I would probably agree ("probably" since I don't really have any data to back my claim and it's just my intuition). I don't think there's any Iron Age mindset here. Guys will look at her. That happens, isn't it? But that doesn't mean the girl is responsible if anything happens. Obviously, the guy is at fault, but if some of my (girl) friend go out at night like that, I would still suggest her to be cautious, have some pepper spray or do something as a precaution. I hope I don't offend any feminist here, but this is what I feel is pragmatic in the case. Of course, guys need to change their mindset and society has a role here. Till that doesn't happen, you got to take measures to be safe right?
Yesterday I was wearing a kurti with a dupatta.... The cab driver stared and stared and kept on staring and drove violently.... I have to get off before my destination....
It's not about wat u wear! 🙂
Great experiment done by quint appreciate it. true face our society have seen so lots of work will be pending for done.
If one slogan not change the mindset of society like "beti bachao beti padao & all that. 👍👍🎉❤️❤️
What?? The anchor here itself shaking her head when they said about the dress... Its only our mindset that needs to be changed.. There isn't a rule about dress, whatever it's comfortable with,you go with that.. And finally,don't make such stupid questions on whether the rape has to be blame on girls... The fault is completely on the rapist... Changed your mindset for the good brothers!!!
That old uncle was so true !
What about chowmein? Is the girl chowmein itself that people will eat her?
Listen to the old uncle and listen to the young men today.....and see where men are standing on the row now a days.
I really with that when people interview such people they should also try to make them understand
We are still on the same note in 2020. Maybe we be on the same note even in 2120.😪
and we'll still be on the same note in 2030
Should the girl have the right to wear short dresses anywhere anytime? - Hell Yes!
Should the girl wear short dresses anywhere anytime? - in a country like India, may be not.
Our society is far from ideal or perfect. We are not at a level where we can afford to take risk by dressing so-called provocatively in a place where we know the guys are waiting to rape you with eyes if not in action. Pls dress according to the surroundings. In the name of feminism, dont wear a mini dress to village in Haryana. End of day, if you get molested it's absolutely not your fault but if it can be avoided, why not. If you are sure of your safety ( self defense skills, grouo of friends, security), go ahead. But otherwise why risk your life. Again, know the crowd you are going to interact with and tweak your choices for the occasion, not your entire life.
It is a pedestrian's right to be able to cross the road fearlessly on zebra crossing. Can you do it in india? Hell no.. You take precautions to minimize the risk inspite of lawfully having the right to cross the road.
The day we, as a society , grow to the next level, pedestrians will have the ultimate right of way and people including guys will have the right of dressing. Until then..little precaution doesn't hurt.
@Unsung Songs and in that time, men were not rapeing women who were outbranching from patriarchial norms of working and dressing.
Somehow or the other , this rape situation is hampering the ideal egalitarian work model.
In the lower stratas of our society, ie: slums, women work just as much as men, sometimes more. Because men are alcoholics and mostly waste all of their money in their addictions. Still they feel its their right, to come back, exploit their wives, and extract money from them, sexually exploit them and even physically abuse them. In the slums, the woman's money runs the bread and butter and the man's earned money just serves his addictions. That goes to say that work- equality or even superiority in earnings does not counter the deep rooted patriarchy.
Aadmi maarta hai. Kyunki wo maar sakta hai. Aur pati devta hai. Aur isliye aurat sehti hai. This is the norm. In 85% bpl families.
Women not working is a design in middle class and well to do families. May be they could counter their fate by working to some extent.
But again, Dr Priyanka Reddy was a middle class female, educated, doctor, was dressed "appropriately", was raped by truck drivers. So you never know who decides you are their prey and when or for what reasons.
With this mindset, a woman is left at the mercy of the situation. A dress doesnt matter.
When babies of 6month age are being raped by their family members ... What to do. There is no escape at this point.
I guess we should wear whatever we want, because we would get raped anyway. And killed later. So why not enjoy our limited lives the way we want.
The amount of times I have felt unsafe/ been groped right from the age of 11, I dont think it is easy to live through the age of 60 years without being a victim of a full blown sexual assault.
"intoxication is the main reason" totally agree with it
Yes, Intoxication can be controlled by implementing S*x Education in NEP , which govt has to review it.
@@hsamo6448 whattt..🤔🤔🤔🤔
1:51 seriously man....
My parents might rip me into pieces if they found (never happened and never will happen) I did something like that. 02:38
I respect your parents and the way they raised you.
They will rip you apart still they will try to help you. Thinking that...
What to do , he is my blood
@@np1856
Do you not understand English? Or an I the one righting in cryptic language here?
The ones I am talking about are MY PARENTS, not yours!
I dont know why onle girls whant wear. Short dress. And man not. ..
Men can wear if they want
The problem is not in short skirts, but in short brains.
This is the so called youth of India !! Aged generation is more understanding than today's youth generation. That youngest guy was such an idiot . This is what happens when to much liberalism and freedom is given
legalize prostitution....and i am being serious
JaGeRmEiStEr BoMb maine toh Google kr liya hai. Ghanta achi halat. Jin desho me achi halat hai wo iss liye hai because wo gareeb desho me nhi aate. Europe ke ik do desh hi hai.
Bhai you are right
@Salman Siddiqui Kon??
They should make it legal if women want it join willingly. I can guarantee not a single women will join willingly.
Lol humans wouldn't exist otherwise. Make rape punishment harder. Introduce sex education.
Literally such typical mentality people exists in this india , shocking
Neha- it's his choice
Everyone is praisng that white shirt Guy and that's cool because he has a good mentality towards Girls but what makes me sad is this is how the society should think this should be a normal act but we (Humans) has made it so rare to find. Sad.
If i wear shorts, i will take my responsibility in my own hands then.
yeah, but remember what falls under 'my responsibilty' and 'society failed me'
@@riordanfan6038 ok.
All male cab drivers..Mysogynist
Start punishing rapists without considerations of their age, gender and status and see the rape cases falling.
Okay guys.. Let us all admit this that we boys and girls.. We all want to give this freedom to our sisters, friends, girlfriends everybody but again are they safe in that way? That is a bigger question. I come from a tier 2 city and it would be embarrassing and awkward to many girls to wear anything such as she will be subject to many stares and no one wants to be stared every now and then.
It needs to be normalised then it can happen and our Indian culture stops people from normalising it and hence stares.
The sir in white shirt should be saluted that is the mentality everyone needs to have
I feel they r right...
It's women's fault as it's we the men of India who will decide what women will wear, eat , drink and till what time they l be out. And if they disobey then we the men will teach them Indian culture and a lesson so they don't repeat this " mistake " again...
Abhi Seth i hope you’re being sarcastic
Aroosa Noor off course it's sarcasm,, but your asking so itself shows the image men specially in subcontinent have developed in opposite gender...
Sad.....
Abhi Seth it isn’t that deep lmao. You’re comment was concerning so that’s why i asked. If you were a woman from the west who wrote the same misogynistic comment, i’d still reply with the same thing. My comment had nothing to do with your gender or background.
It doesn't matter what she wears, it is her choice. How the hell is it the girl's fault. She can roam at night, she can do whatever she wants.
Black tshirt wale ladke ke vichar sun mummy ki baat yaad aagyi... Wo kehti hai tumpe bhrosa h beta par duniya pe nhi h... Duniya badi khraab h der raat baher na jana...