This same exact thing happened to me today. Everybody is starting to judge me all bc of one of my friends. I told them something in confidence and she turned her back and told somebody else. I came home and cried... 😢
every one of my "friends" are fake they always go out together and never invite me they bitch about me behind my back they say stuff to me and then just say it's a "joke" and carry that "joke" on for ages and ages and they always judge me and are just nasty but if I say anything to get them to stop they just do it even more😕
I think I have no real friends. I wonder if it is me or the people, but I have a lot of problems with accepting myself and no one seems to be ever interested in me and I feel like it's all my fault and I'm so alone.
Nina Leonad :) Thats how I felt. I thought if I blamed the flakey selfish, negative people I would be bitchy and playing the victim. I didn't want to be unfair. After all, everyone thinks they are the victim. I know how you feel, but please, dont blame yourself. reflect on yourself and draw boundaries, but dont tell yourself that your broken and thats why broken people are attracted to you like I did.
Izzy me too.. ain't tripping because I got the onces who love me and my family.... I am going through alot of stuggles right now .. so everything will be find. keep your head up strong
I was best friends with these three girls. Then this other girl came in to our friend groyp. I had bad vibes about her that she doesn't like me and I was right. In the end she made my three best friends turn their back against me, so it was basically 4 against 1. I was was really "despressed" at that time, but I won't go into detail about that part. Although for a while they all bullied me. I had no friends to hang out with. So at every lunch and recess I would sit alone. Then I decided to take these matters into my own hands. I was sick and tired of this nonsense. I told my family and my teacher. My mom was so supportive and she decided to talk to the teacher about this. And once they saw that my mom was their they RAN. Once I came home I saw messages from them saying "why did you make your mom talk to the teacher, now your making it worse". AND I WAS THINKING "WHAT'S GOING TO GET WORSE?!?!" After that they started to bully me even more. But I found new friends that helped me through this situation and stood up for me when they teased me. My fake friends then stopped and got scared, so it eventually got netter. I found the best way to get away from them is to find new friends and try to just ignore them! Good luck to those who are dealing with these situations! And sorry that this story is so long LOL
Same. She’s so ignorant and complains about my looks sometimes. I mean, Idfc about what you think. She talked behind my back after she got friends. Little did she knows my other bestfriends are going to pull her up and hit them tomorrow.
I just can't believe I am watching this now. Time reveals everything. Just realized it now. Always thought those quotes didn't really mean anything in my life but it does now
Aletse Alba Exactly, mine too. They have a groupchat without me. They go out without me. And when they need something they’ll be running like chickens to me. Hypocrites.
I've known my bestfriend for 6 years, we face timed every night until 2:00am, until she pushed me away, she basically deleted me from her life. We still talked on messages, facetimed one a week. But there was this one deadline that completely changed it all, she pushed me away so fair I had to confront her about it, we got in a big fight and continued deleting me, I have never felt so heartbroken in my life, I want her back, she meant so much to me.
this is happening to me right now after I tried to be friendly with my childhood friend . like when I do whatever she wants, everything is all rainbows and sunshine, posting pics of us on insta and telling ppl on social media that im a true friend , all that bullshit. when she doesnt need me anymore she literally avoided me. and then a few days later when she needs me she starts'promoting' our friendship online. its so tiring to be her friend.
This is exactly what my 'friend' did to me, she was only nice to me whenever she needed anything. I just didn't want to see it because I've known her for 10 years but now that we haven't been friends anymore for a while I feel a lot better
the same thing happened to me until she cut me out completely. i've recovered from that but now the problem is my best friend (who is actually true to me) has started to become very close with her knowing my feelings anyway. now when we're in group situations with her new found friend i feel left out like i don't fit in. i mean i only have 2 friends to start out with. it would suck if i lost another... idk what is wrong with me because i can't seem to keep friends for very long.
I have a "friend" well I really don't like her but I have to deal with her shit every day and I'm other friends love her and think she's so nice. She always takes everything out on me but DOENT CARE ABOUT ME. She's made me cry . She's always making herself look better than me then putting me down, I'm just sick of her shit because we use to me so close and now we can never join again 😭😭😭
I have someone in my life who is like that. She seems like a friend but she always gets mad at me for the stupidest things. Like I was playing a game at recess and I was cheering for the other person. She freaked out at me and idk why... She makes me cry a lot. I give her chance after chance and I need to just let it go... so does she. She lies and talked behind my back. Real FAKE friend...
osnapitsmarie Thanks love! xxo don't worry i'm sure you'll find amazing, loyal people that will support you through all your ups and downs like true friends should! those people are out there, and you WILL find them! promise
I feel like I am in a toxic friendship but I was the one that introduced them. They started hanging out together and not inviting me and now it's like they are cutting me out of everything now my "bestie" is becoming the other girls bestie. But that girl said she didn't like my "bestie" until she was in front of her face then she started to slowly take her away from me. My friend moved and now the other girl is going to visit her but she didn't want to until I wanted to visit her. I just don't know what to do anymore. 😭 (sorry for any typos)
omg I'm going through the same thing as you and it really hurts. lt's like depression but it's with your "friends". l introduced this girl to my other friend. And now she won't even think of me as her friend. We used to be likes sisters but now she's acting like we're not even friends anymore. Now she's "sisters" with my other friend. And my other friend doesnt even like me anymore. I'm slowly getting pushed around as being just acquaintance with them. And it really hurts me to see both kf my friends turn away from me like that :(
+Chloe Cao same I'm so sorry that this has happened to you and it really sucks that there are people out there like this and she moved but now my other friend (who is actually my cousin) is going to visit her after knowing I was but she isn't bringing me she is bring some guy who isn't actually her bf just a boy toy bc as she puts it she is "bored" I don't understand how someone who has gone through so much with you will sit there and act like you never even met and then on top of that treat you like crap like a diseased animal. She won't even hug me anymore when I cry she'll change the subject to a boy
i puh sticker on my carrier same but after she just started fighting everyday and I was so done about it after that I honestly just ignored her fighting and I want her back but she just will fight again and I don’t want that
Same here my “friend” called me dramatic, dumb and she told me that I fake depression and anxiety but she’s a hypocrite I had to block a friend because of that stupid girl when I told her I didn’t want to block my friend she was calling me fake and stupid. The last thing she said to me was bye edgy demon then she blocked me
I feel so hurt and betrayed. I feel like I never want a close friend again. It took me years of hard work and I finally reached my goals. She knew I would give in if she cried. I instantly forget about myself when someone is crying because I have a heart and worry about others. SHE IS SO ABUSIVE, SELFISH, MANIPULATIVE, AND FAKE!!
Im in college now (In England) and still dealing with fake friends😧 some people just never grow up and i've finally learned to not give a damn about it all and let people go. BTW all your points were spot on😊
As an older person and a mom, the only thing she says that I disagree with is saying to confront your friend and have a dramatic unfriending conversation. It’s better to withdraw and let the communication dies naturally. All the confrontational discussion will do is make them angry, revengeful and it will cause an argument that will force your mutual friends to take sides.
*"what You give is not always what You get back."* shocking and hard truth for me, since all my life I tried to give gifts, flatter people, drive my friends home, etc. i feel so broken...
My “best friend” always used to be selfish and bossy to me. Luckily she went to a different secondary school than me. But recently she texted me saying “Don’t you get tired of putting makeup on two faces everyday” which is basically her saying that I’m two faced and that I put on too much makeup. But really I only put on foundation in the morning because I have horrible skin and I’m insecure. When I got it I didn’t get it so I said “huh?” And she just responded “nvmmmmmm you wouldn’t get it” I think the reason for her to say that is because, she used to hate someone in our old class for no absolute reason. And when secondary school came, she and I became best friends. But she forgave me for it. I feel really bad for my new best friend because I was always bullied and bossed about by my “friend” so now I’m bossing her about a bit, because I’m getting everything out. I haven’t talked to her about it though. I had 7 years of torment, bullying, being hit by my “friend” etc. Sorry for this really long comment but I just needed to get that out 💕
I wanna write the comment in English, but.... my English is really not the yellow from the egg so i write it in German. :) Was ich vorweg sagen muss: Es klingt so, als würdest du direkt neben einem sitzen und einem dies und das erzählen. Liegt wohl am Mikrofon. Das Video ist wirklich super geworden, es war für mich kein Problem dich zu verstehen, da du klar und deutlich geredet hast (Okey, ich hatte Untertitel an um zu wissen wie man die Wörter schreibt die du sprichst) und dadurch, dass du manchmal direkt in die Kamera schaust, wirkt es so, als würdest du einen direkt meinen. Amy my love, i would be very happy if you make more videos like this, because they're a bit more personal. I'm sure i forget anything to say but i hope you have a nice day! :)
My "friend" ignores me at school from time to time, she left me along today so I was tired of waiting and went to better friends who make me laugh. She calls all her friends stupid and idiot like wtf so I told her it's so rude and she starts screaming at me. Then I did my own things and she starts crying
kelly lu this is sorta like my situation. My friend called me a psycho, laughed at me with her friends and left me alone. Just stay with your friends. She doesnt need to like you or them. If you’ve got nice friends than you should stay with them if they support you. 1 of my friends watched me cry and kept saying she loved me, my other friend supported me and my other friend kept sending me dog vids lol. Even if you have one nice real friend, it doesn’t matter. Stay wih them
@@ipuhstickeronmycarrier7305 same here, my two “friends” in my class started ignoring me and hanging out with 2 other girls and now their besties smh 🤨 if i tell my english teacher ouhhhh honey theyre dead just sayinnn
One of my friends try to get on my phone but doesn't let me on hers or read the convo between her and my mutual friend that is supposed to be my friend. I'm shy so ppl run over me a lot
Kira Lu I know how that feels like.... my friend doesn't let me see the conversations either.... and I wouldn't mind if I knew that they are not saying anything about me but I know they do.... and it really suck....😢😢
I’ve been in a group of friends for 3 years I’ve told them all my secrets. And they were fake, I’m so gullible. I bawled my eyes out for the WHOLE day.
if i stop taking to my fake friend.... She'll start to spread rumours abt me.And Post somw shit stuff.And worst of all,ask ppl to not friend me...I dun even think i have a single real friend.Juz realized my life is full of fake ppl.😯
yup but you know what I'm now really just not gonna care about his threats and comments online because one I'm gonna be the mature one and let time take its place. Really there are a lot of fake people and sadly we have to deal with them.
Candy Flakes Try to make new friends when your fake friend is not there and tell them about your situation. Then stop talking her, and when she spreads rumors, your other friends will hopefully be there to back you up.
Don't worry everyone who realized their friends are fake as plastic. Be confident in yourself,you still have friends in yourself. Be strong and don't these plastics get in your way 💖
Amy's Day are they a friend if they tell you you need to change or you can't be my friend and they're always like oh I don't want to be sitting next to you and then they sit beside you because the teacher says and then they roll their eyes
Last night i had a giant argument with my friend on instagram dm.but i added my friends outside of school to the group chat of kids in my class and everyone freaked out that i added two friends from outside of school. And she did all the things u just mentioned and she made a new dm without me and added all our friends to it, and she screenshotted every thing i sent her in our dm and she sent all of them to them. And they were talking about my friends and i behind our backs and hurt their.feelings. She finally apologized at 3:40 a.m. And said her mom and her best friend were best friends from kindergarten to 8th grade and then separated and how she didn't want that happening, but honestly, she seems like a fake friend and i don't feel happy around her like my nice friends from church do. But i go to a super tiny private school with only 56 kids preschool-8th grade and all those kids that are mean are in my class. They are the only kids in my class too. There is no escape from them and
I have been best friends with these girls called Naya and Zeinab. Naya would bully me in front of the boys and today she pushed me on the ground and laughed, she’s been a fake friend to me and is always a show off. I try to stand up to myself, but she just tells lies about me to the teacher. It’s like she’s pushing down my limits, the sadder and downer I am, the happier and bigger she gets. I don’t know how to defend myself and I’ve found a new best friend called Lea. About Zeinab, she’s really nice and she’s also my best friend. I am trying to level up more and try to get Naya out of my life. Till this day, I am still very scared from Naya, Lea and Zeinab are helping me level up. No matter how much she’ll accuse me, I know it’ll all get better and be over soon.
I have this friend who has a low self esteem and I would always tell her that she's pretty no matter what she was nice then but she was hanging out with the wrong people then she started comparing me to her saying I'm glad I don't have a huge nose like you then cover it up by saying jk and she also once said I seen your mom she's pretty I wonder why you didn't turn out like her and cover it up by laughing and telling me she's joking and that I don't need to take it so seriously she made me have low self esteem then I became friends with her other friends and they were drawing me and they said we need a bigger paper for her head then just laughed when they started drawing my nose they said now let's draw her ugly nose ha I'm just kidding I don't know why I became friends with them I was dumb and on the last week of school before school ended they took my book bag and wrote weird things all over it I hate them and I can't stand that girl because I told her she was pretty and whoever said she's ugly is just mean jealous people and yet she told me the meanest things ever I don't talk to her or her friends anymore they're all ugly inside
This is A channel I'm so sorry to hear about that, what you need to do is publicly embarrass her in front of her friends in front of everyone (including her boyfriend, if she has one) at lunch while you all are having lunch by throwing the contents all over their expensive designer clothes. Stand back and laugh loudly as you watch them look at their now ruined clothes and laugh at them as they run away crying and screaming. Hopefully, they'd be expelled and suspended from the premises forever!
My "best friend" was always jealous of me, jealous that I was friends with her ex (we were friends before they got together), said rude and hateful things and jokes about me, and told my crush I liked him behind my back. I just cut her out of my life yesterday. I already feel a weight off my shoulders.
Completely understand. Don’t continue to hang with them if they belittle you to make themselves feel smarter or dim your light. This isn’t High School anymore. Passed that.
I hate the fact that my so called friends are always making fun of me and treat me like crap. Even when I'm not around they make fun of me. They even call me fake, that really bothers me. I guess I'm just a loser really 😔
cris11398 same but ur not a looser they are sick people do the things u love and the god will give u a friends or people loves u and care about u ❤️ we're both struggling from this problem i wish we can meet may be we can be bfs ❤️
cris11398 don't worry. I know exactly how you feel. In fact, earlier I was outside with my "friend" and I was running and I hit my head on a pole because I wasn't looking up. So I went to my house to try to heal it and a few mins later, he calls me and asks "what happened" but he was there and he saw what happened. but he started laughing and there was someone else in the background laughing too. I immediately knew that they were making fun of me. those fucking cunts instead of asking if I'm okay they laugh at me. I was fucking pissed and I still am. and it's not the first time they do that. it's like they're just waiting for me to fuck up just to make fun of me. so don't worry because I know how you feel
You’re not the loser. You never are. I just guess that your “so-called” friends think they’re too cool for you. They’re not. You’re the cool person. BTW I know it’s been along time since you’ve commented this but, I just wanted to say that.
great video ! Thank you for the advice and I think it's really great that you did a video where you give advice so you can help others :) I love you and I'm looking forward to other videos ❤️
Dieses Mal gibts einen Kommentar auf Deutsch :D Ich habe mich mal wieder riesig gefreut, als ich bemerkt habe, dass du ein neues Videos gedreht hast (ich habe fast jeden Tag nachgeschaut;D ) Vielen lieben Dank für dieses wundervolle Video, es war wie immer wunderschön!:) Ich liebe es, dir zuzuhören, weil deine Stimme etwas Beruhigendes hat!😍 Mach weiter so meine Liebe!:) Du wirst immer mein Vorbild bleiben ❤️
Thank you for this very clear description. Finally, I came to the conclusion that one must first become absolutely aware of one's strengths. Then you also know that no one can take them away from you. After all, you have to see psychopaths and sociopaths in your own environment for what they are, expect nothing more, have pity and continue with your own life.
Few days before I learnt my so called "loved ones" that is my cousins and my brothers' wives talking behind my back specially slandering my daughter. I was so shocked and hurt because I thought the world of them and never even once imagined they were capable of stooping so low. One of them among the group was bad mouthing my daughter and the others just listened without defending whatever the tell tale signs you were saying about it was all there who slandered my teenage daughter, so I kind of always knew she is not a well wisher. But I didn't expect the others to entertain her. I was so deeply hurt, I have totally lost faith in them.
All my friends in my group are fake except for 1 or 2. They talk shit about me and other people in my group as well. Im moving groups soon and I’m feeling so much happier :))
I had a "friend" who was only friendly with me because she wanted me to join her Mormon/LDS organization :( I think a good way to tell if someone is genuine and loyal is to see if they talk about others that they are "friends" with. If they do that, STAY AWAY because no doubt they are doing the same to you!
I want some help... One of my friend told me to go with her in a party before a month but I didn't knew exactly the day. I said "idk probably yes"...The problem is that I learned that the party is on my birthday .When I told her she answer me "Ok, like I care for that..." And it's not the first time that she is saying that she doesn't care. Also before a week I tried to tell her something important and she told me "you are so annoying sometimes, don't you see that I don't have time for you righ now?" And I am feeling bad about all that. I don't know what to do with her cause when I am trying to talk about it , she always makes me feel like it's my fault...And I know that you don't even know or you dont care but I really don't know what I should do? 😢
she's clearly not a friend to you . so just jeave her and find some real friends i'm sure you'll find someone much much better and will understand and supports you no matter what. hopefully i find that kind of person too..
hate the world don't worry girl everything is gonna be alright bcs my friend was acting worser . After everything i did for him he always says negative things about me and always make new friends and leave le behind but i don't care bcs that makes me stronger and know i can handle it by myself and gind the right people. So be strong and averything is gonna be alright and have a nice day 😉
You should've bitch slapped her really hard and then say "WHAT IS YOUR FUCKING PROBLEM!? YOU KNOW WHAT?! WE'RE DONE, I DON'T WANT TO SEE YOUR FACE AGAIN,OK?! BITCH!"
Emily Dot same omg so I get a gold coin every year if I make straight a’s on all of my report cards and my dad let me trade in three gold coins for a gold bar which I was very excited about. I texted my friends and two of them didn’t respond and one of them said “cool”
I'm going through a friendship problem right now. I have this friend who I thought was so nice and I thought she would always be my friend. We have great memories together. I think that's what hurts the most. Losing a crappy friend that you thought was the best friend ever can be really hard. But thank you for making this video. It helped.
Everything you said about how to spot a fake friend relates to this "best friend" I have had. It's not a nice feeling to be treated badly by who you thought was your best friend either.
I have an Ex bff 😞 she used me 😔 so my story: she was new and i welcomed her and stuff then she became my bff 👯 the following year, she started ignoring me and talking to my other friends😔 anyways the first time she ignored me was quite mean. So she walked up to the desk that me and my other friend were talking at and she said hello to my other friend COMPLETELY ignoring me 😡 Now it is about 4 months since it happened and I have started not talking to her unless I have to and I am so glad this is my last year in school with her 😅
Thank you for this great video. Cuz just today a few hours ago,my"friends" went to the mall (and no one invited me) And then some of them went over by one of them to a late night pool like before school opens back and no one invited me. It broke my heart to see all of then out and they didn't even ask me if I wanna come. And one of them said that I am not part of their squad because o toat too much. I tried not to think about it but everyday I go in my room and I cry sometimes because these r the people it thought would be there for me and be my awesome bff's and they were so the opposite. But thanks for these tips I'm really just gonna not try to keep my friendship with some of then because they haven't tried to be nice to me or to save watever friendship we had.
I’m watching right now crying cus my “friend” said that I deleted my other “friends” videos go to her channel “princess water” and comment on her video and “glitter fire”
Hi i'm 14 i have some friends we ve been together for 3 years and they are the only friends i have , in 2017 I started to notice they started to disrespect me and avoid talking to me and they started to ignore me , and everything i share it with them they just ignore it and say the same words over and over again, even when they do something wrong and i try to tell them the become angry , now they are taking me as the unattractive guy and the useless person, all because i left their things they love and went to another thing ( I left gaming and I started to drawing) idont want them some times i talk to them and they stay silent, i know am a boy and I don't have to focus on these things but I changed my self once for them but they didn't change for me , once they wanted to have relationship with girls i told them " bro its not right at this age its an early thing " they went mad and they said am retarded all because i told them they are doing something wrong , the problem is they are in the school with me idont these guys in my life any more they making me upset sometimes they make me feel am a none , why do they do that ? Am i not ur friend any more ? I noticed all that when a new guy came to them and they started as their best friend and i am a rubish am not jealous but I'm wondering how could they do that ? I told alot of my secrets, and some times they don't answer me like this one " sup ali wanna go the gym ? " he didn't say anything and he left me that shocked me but i took it as nah no problem but now i take it as a problem and a disrespect, i dont want them in my life .
I think that every friend talks crap about their friend at least once. Not everyone is perfect. We all go through tough times where we need to vent to someone. I for one have talked crapped about my friends before but guess what, at the end of the day we got each other’s backs no matter what. The person who I used to hate and talk bad about is now my best friend and we have been friends with each other for 6 years.
So I really want to share my story which started this last week..... Last week I stopped being friends with one of my friends because she started stealing money from me in a month she stole £100 from me in a month. I wasn’t sure if it was her so once I left my wallet on the table and went away before that I counted all the money I had in it. When I came back £10 were missing so that’s when I just got all my things and went away without saying a word to her. And my bestfriend was with me and went to sit grass. Me and her were having great time when all of the sudden my bff says look who going near us(she was walking with 2 of our friends)and they were really close to us so I heard everything they said. So my “friend” was saying things to my other friends like I’m a bitch and I said I hate them.so then they come to me and start saying things to me like if want to talk about us say it to our face. And then me and my best friend went to our lessons we ignored them. Next week(this week)she is in my form and she has these friends and on Monday I forgot to wear my glasses and my “friend”sits in front of me with one of her friends. And I hear her say things about me. And then her friend says to me you look like a frog with out your glasses you should buy a bigger tshirt because your too fat for that tshirt,I was saying things back to them aswell,they also said many mean things to me. And then after that lesson they start pushing me and saying you shouldn’t wear a skirt you too fat for it,and things like my gramma had better eyebrows than you and she doesn’t even have eyebrows. So in classes I tried not to cry my eyes were watering because that “friend knew that I was very insecure about how I look,how much I weigh. So then her friends come up to me and my bff and say you like him(who I don’t)and other says rember “my friend” said one of them like him and other one likes him. And I’m scared that this will carry on because “my friend” is telling everyone lies about me and saying I talk behind others backs. *And sorry for wasting time, I just need some advice.*
Kuku K tell someone who can deal with it. Or talk back to them if they call you fat tell them at least I have money for food and dont look like Eugenia Cooney like you so stfu
I know about fake friends i was friends with ashifa in my school and she was acting like my beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeestest friend but she was having a fight with some other girl but then she decided to just be friends with her and she told me to help her so i spoke to that girl and tell her that she was sorry about all the fight but when i try spoke about this to ashifa she just went with her and next day she didn't sit next to me she was only sitting with that girl and some other girls so i just thought that she was spending time with them so i decided to join them but they just wouldn't let me i felt so much bad so i decided to just go then in the free period they were like, playing and everyone was playing with them so i join to but i accidentally bumped into ashifa and before i could say she was screaming at me that i did that on purpose and told me to just sit on my seat i was so angry but, like she was screaming and i just go and sit on my seat then i calm down thinked she was only just angry maybe , so i went with them on the lunch but it was nobody even notice me the just pushed me back and ashifa screamed just go pls i am with my best friends i just lost it and told everyone one about that even her new friends but they did not believe me and said they had confronted ashifa and 'she said that when i make new friends she was just jealous and decided to take my friends away' so no one believed me and they told everyone to don't be friends with me cuz i was a fake friend to ashifa and ashifa also came to me next day period it was free period so she came to me and said that she was still my friend i didn't listen a word but i am now making new friends but i will take revenge and even her big sister came to me and slaped me and at that ashifa came also said that she is not my friend anymore i just go and sit on my bench and everyone came to to just say that i am a really bad person
Ich liebe deine Videos mach weiter so du wirst immer besser von der Video Qualität und das du in die Kamera schaust ! Man merkt das du das magst und Lust hast ein Video zu drehen :-) verfolge dich weiterhin mit ❤ Ich hatte auch vor ein paar Monaten eine Freundschaft aufgegeben weil es mich nur negativ runter gezogen hat und die Person meist verstehen musste und sie mit Leuten ist die falsch sind und sie so auch wurde, dies hab ich über 1 1/2 Jahre mit gemacht und dieses Jahr hab ich endlich damit abgeschlossen und das war eine gute Entscheidung! Durch das Video wird mir noch mehr bewusster und dafür danke ich dir! Think positive because the life's go on!🙏
I had a friend that helped me through my hardest times. He did this for years (3.5 to be exact) but he did show signs of being a flake and wouldn't always reply to my messages when I would invite him out. The fact that he would help me through my toughest moments and gave good advice made me ignore these signs. Well turns out he only was around because he liked my girlfriend at the time and when we split up they ended up hooking up with each other. Not only did it kill me to know my ex was dating other guys so soon after the break up but that it was with one of my "closest" friends made the betrayal that much more devastating. I never confronted either of them. Just cut them from my life, moved on and tried to forgive for my own well being. Hardest lesson I've ever had to endure but I did learn a lesson. Actions speak louder than words. I am still sad about the whole situation but I am in a better place for it and in reality, I didn't lose anything worth keeping.
My mom says that if you are loosing friends that means it's the sign that you are growing in your life💚So people don't be depressed for temporary people
Everything you said about this person, being unhappy for my successes, belittling and mean, and snapping at me after I confront them about how they've made me feel... I left this person alone. Still not feeling closure because we got along so well. But this was from a couple of years ago now... I only came across this video because I was trying to find how to deal with a greedy "friend".
My friend told me that my other friend was taking about me and her other friend behind our backs. The fake friend would talk to me about other people and lately wouldnt care if i was alone she would just stare. When i am sad she would say your sad not much more really. What do i do?
Thank you for making this video! I was feeling down for the past couple of weeks because I have a friend who always belittle me when I'm with a group of friends or when I'm with her and it would make me feel shame which leading negativity in myself. I didn't know how to deal with it in that situation until I saw your video. It made me realize when having a fake friend is very hard especially when knowing them for a long time and it a good thing to distance yourself from them for a while. So again, thanks and I will take your advice. ( sorry if I have bad grammar and trying my best detail as I can be).
I was new to school and this girl had a group of friends and they invited me. Then this girl let’s call her Serena. Serena came along and me and my friend let’s call her Sasha. Sasha and I both had good feelings about her and introduced her to our group and we realized that she bragged all the time and only 1 other friend agreed that she was mean. Long story short we told another friend and that girl told us Sara was mean to us because she thought we didn’t like her. Sasha tried being nice, it worked, I tried and she 👏 literally👏 called me mean, snooty, and a snob BEHIND my BACK!! I confronted her and my friend “ Leah” who told me ended up apologizing to Sara!!!!! Then Sara told my other friend Kat who told me that she thought I was the next Sara!!!! Hope that makes sense.... I feel like everyone hates me....
Friends can be abusive people to. My last best friend intentionally ruined my hair. She lied, turned on tears, manipulated me, pressured me, and I kept saying NO until I saw the tears. She is really messed up. I would never ever do that to my friends. She is toxic. She refused to accept NO for an answer so as a last resort she turned on fake tears. She knew that I was growing my hair out long and healthy and as soon as I reached that goal and was happy she said and did anything to ruin it, and guess what her lies and manipulation worked. I am devastated! I had to cut my hair boy short. Later I confronted her because more of the lies were coming out and she admitted it! This is NOT IN MY HEAD!! HER RESPONSE WAS "THAT IS RIGHT I INTENTIONALLY BRING OTHERS DOWN" BUT THAT NIGHT SHE MANIPULATED ME SHE BASICALLY SAID ANYTHING TO GET ME TO LET HER CONTROL ME AND TRUST HER.
Everything she said is actually on point. I want to watch a video on how to spot a fake friend because I can't and I don't believe how my 'friend' for a very long time is faking it for me. I need a little push to prove it. This video does it for me. :(
Hey just wanting to say great video! And also it says a lot of the type of friends I've had, this girl in my day camp told me that she was at this birthday party and saw these three girls one a girl who isolated me at my old school and one who whenever she sees me she gives me a dirty look and one my "friend". She told me that she heard these three saying lies and rude things about me and that my "friend" said nothing in my defense... I called my fake friend today and told me that never happened then said later that it did and... And I cried later because I hurt for years treated like this but thank God, He is my real and forever friend and my parents and siblings support me. I let my fake friend know that if anyone said something mean about her I would defend her... Jesus wants us to forgive so I will! ..... sorry for making this long 😁 but just wanting to share my story thx!
Well this year I made a really good friend, since I just recently moved to this new town and to a new school, and everything went so great at the beginning and on my first day of school I would ease drop on teachers talking to students that were new too , then I heard the teacher say yea she's new too and I was thinking to myself just my luck , since next period was lunch , so when the bell rang I asked her if she wanted to have lunch with me and she accepted and from there we became really good friends, and then a few new kids came to our school and on there first day before lunch i would think about how on my first day no one approached me so I gracefully walked up to the new kids and asked them if they wanted to have lunch with me and they accepted then from there we all became really good friends and made great memories but as the year was coming to a slow finish our small group slowly came dying down and of course out of that group most them were my best and closest friends , then someone from that group called me out on sc calling me fake and I was like why was she angered until I saw her story on sc , she was upset on something I had posted about myself and without knowing why I posted it she decided she was immediately done with our friendship, then one of my closest best friends started hanging out with the girl who called me out on sc , but I wasn't bothered at all , since she is her own person and she has her own choice of hanging out with whoever she wanted , but then she slowly stopped talking to me and distance herself from me and at first I thought wow is the girl who called me out on sc stealing all my friends, since the kids from the group I've been hanging around with also distanced their selves from me except they that one person who called me out and the small group did continue to talk with eachother except I wasn't included and then a few days later my best friend didn't talk to me anymore and wasn't responded to the 2 messages I've sent her and then one of my closest friends who wasn't in the group , who I met in a class messaged the girl who i thought was my best friend and she told him that the reason she didn't want to hang out with me anymore was because I was a show off , and at that point I felt totally blindsided and hurt , like if she felt that way about me why couldn't she just have told me that she didn't want to be friends anymore for that reason , if she probably would've told me face to face or at least sent a quick response , I would've maybe thought about changing that habit that I didn't know I had and now I am currently with no friends maybe just 1 close one , which is what i probably need for now but to this day i still feel hurt and worry about myself that maybe I am what others described me as, but I am human and I do have my good days and bad days , but maybe building a way for myself is just what's right for me
So I have 2 friends right? One of them was my childhood bff and she was there for me all the time. Now, she's bffs with MY NEW BFF. This may seem like I dont want my friends to make friends, well I want them to make friends but they got so good together that I'm left out. We got in a huge fight and now her mom won't let me talk to my childhood bff and my other friend doesnt believe a word I say. Those were my two friends gone now and I'm alone.
This is actually what happened to me and I can’t forget why my only friend did this to me and I can’t get over it I have distanced myself from him but I have this thing that I can’t let it go what he said behind my back and I came to know about it everything Plz help I’m going through a mental torture and I want revenge many times I have thought to let it go but I can’t my life is totally ruined and I’m living torturous life I have forgiven many times but now I can’t what to do
Also had a guy friend. Helped him so much in school. Was always there for him no matter what. then I noticed he just distanced himself from me and never wants to hang out (but has time to chill with others). He used me..
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guess what ?
i found out that all my friends are fake .
except one or two.
same
+J-POP LYCRIS same:/
+jocelyn francia same I really am upset I have the exact same thing going on
This same exact thing happened to me today. Everybody is starting to judge me all bc of one of my friends. I told them something in confidence and she turned her back and told somebody else. I came home and cried... 😢
every one of my "friends" are fake they always go out together and never invite me they bitch about me behind my back they say stuff to me and then just say it's a "joke" and carry that "joke" on for ages and ages and they always judge me and are just nasty but if I say anything to get them to stop they just do it even more😕
Well, there goes my best friend.
GameBreakerYT same
HE Gaming sameeeeeee
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HE Gaming mine to😥😪😪😭😰😢😓
HE Gaming mine too
me legit crying cuz i'm realizing i have no friends:(
Maddie! it's fine friends are awful. Some of them sometimes you just need to smack a b****
madison todd I don't have no friends I got myself and my family
Camille Warren same
Ula gymnast for realz I got a family to support and my husband and kids. fuck that shit .. and yeah it's about responsibilities
Same
I think I have no real friends. I wonder if it is me or the people, but I have a lot of problems with accepting myself and no one seems to be ever interested in me and I feel like it's all my fault and I'm so alone.
Nina Leonad :) Thats how I felt. I thought if I blamed the flakey selfish, negative people I would be bitchy and playing the victim. I didn't want to be unfair. After all, everyone thinks they are the victim. I know how you feel, but please, dont blame yourself. reflect on yourself and draw boundaries, but dont tell yourself that your broken and thats why broken people are attracted to you like I did.
dassah clayton totally agree
Nina Leonad don't be interested .... I am on the same page
вероника Ефремова yeah ...I am on the same boat right now..
Nina Leonad tbh same
Turns out all my friends are fake😭
Izzy me too.. ain't tripping because I got the onces who love me and my family.... I am going through alot of stuggles right now .. so everything will be find. keep your head up strong
Izzy
Same😞
Same. I’m so alone.
Izzy so all my friends are fake, and I want to leave that school, but I don’t want to be a new girl. Should I still move?
Same
I was best friends with these three girls. Then this other girl came in to our friend groyp. I had bad vibes about her that she doesn't like me and I was right. In the end she made my three best friends turn their back against me, so it was basically 4 against 1. I was was really "despressed" at that time, but I won't go into detail about that part. Although for a while they all bullied me. I had no friends to hang out with. So at every lunch and recess I would sit alone. Then I decided to take these matters into my own hands. I was sick and tired of this nonsense. I told my family and my teacher. My mom was so supportive and she decided to talk to the teacher about this. And once they saw that my mom was their they RAN. Once I came home I saw messages from them saying "why did you make your mom talk to the teacher, now your making it worse". AND I WAS THINKING "WHAT'S GOING TO GET WORSE?!?!" After that they started to bully me even more. But I found new friends that helped me through this situation and stood up for me when they teased me. My fake friends then stopped and got scared, so it eventually got netter. I found the best way to get away from them is to find new friends and try to just ignore them! Good luck to those who are dealing with these situations! And sorry that this story is so long LOL
iMinikoo omg literally the same
iMinikoo u said netter not better lol 😂
Also my best friend is a bitch fuck her
iMinikoo we have a same sitution there fake their needing me if they need something
TheOfficial JenaRamzy Same here 😂
The same thing happened to me about the girl turning my friends against me. Glad I’m not alone on that one!
I'm going through a really Regina George kind of fake friend. This helped 🙂
Same
same
this helped me too I have 4 fake friends
this helped me too I have 4 fake friends
Alexis Michele well, my bestfriend said people don't want to be my friend but I'm always there for them, I helped them in big situations 😢😭
Hey everyone
Friends are just a little stage in life
Find a goal and work towards it and you will become successful
Fantastic I have no friends...
Trin's World sometimes thats good
Amy Snodgrass foreal you don't have to put up with shit like this.
WE CAN BE FRIENDS
Same
be your own best friend i have and feel such relief
my best friend is just fake
coke & hyunie same she is so toxic😓
Same. She’s so ignorant and complains about my looks sometimes. I mean, Idfc about what you think. She talked behind my back after she got friends. Little did she knows my other bestfriends are going to pull her up and hit them tomorrow.
Her*
umm.. You arent any better, hitting her is not the way to go, she doesnt deserve getting hit.
coke & hyunie smh sorry ass people like that
I just can't believe I am watching this now. Time reveals everything. Just realized it now. Always thought those quotes didn't really mean anything in my life but it does now
It's sad because my 2 closest friends are fake
Aletse Alba same!!!
Aletse Alba Exactly, mine too. They have a groupchat without me. They go out without me. And when they need something they’ll be running like chickens to me. Hypocrites.
Aletse Alba mine too but just one she is a bish
Samee :(
We’ve all been through it
I don't know what to do because I'm stuck with a fake friend for the rest of the year
How?
Me too..
Me too
Omg same
This yr and next
I've known my bestfriend for 6 years, we face timed every night until 2:00am, until she pushed me away, she basically deleted me from her life. We still talked on messages, facetimed one a week. But there was this one deadline that completely changed it all, she pushed me away so fair I had to confront her about it, we got in a big fight and continued deleting me, I have never felt so heartbroken in my life, I want her back, she meant so much to me.
Lotta blog this is happening to me too
this is happening to me right now after I tried to be friendly with my childhood friend . like when I do whatever she wants, everything is all rainbows and sunshine, posting pics of us on insta and telling ppl on social media that im a true friend , all that bullshit. when she doesnt need me anymore she literally avoided me. and then a few days later when she needs me she starts'promoting' our friendship online. its so tiring to be her friend.
This is exactly what my 'friend' did to me, she was only nice to me whenever she needed anything. I just didn't want to see it because I've known her for 10 years but now that we haven't been friends anymore for a while I feel a lot better
the same thing happened to me until she cut me out completely. i've recovered from that but now the problem is my best friend (who is actually true to me) has started to become very close with her knowing my feelings anyway. now when we're in group situations with her new found friend i feel left out like i don't fit in. i mean i only have 2 friends to start out with. it would suck if i lost another... idk what is wrong with me because i can't seem to keep friends for very long.
Bri Savage omg me too like what am I doing wrong.....
I have a "friend" well I really don't like her but I have to deal with her shit every day and I'm other friends love her and think she's so nice. She always takes everything out on me but DOENT CARE ABOUT ME. She's made me cry . She's always making herself look better than me then putting me down, I'm just sick of her shit because we use to me so close and now we can never join again 😭😭😭
I have someone in my life who is like that. She seems like a friend but she always gets mad at me for the stupidest things. Like I was playing a game at recess and I was cheering for the other person. She freaked out at me and idk why... She makes me cry a lot. I give her chance after chance and I need to just let it go... so does she. She lies and talked behind my back. Real FAKE friend...
I’m going through same thing right now even though this is late
OMG I HAD THE SAME FEELING!
I'm really upset because my best friend called me a LOSER because I said that I wanted a Stranger Things shirt. Like, what is wrong with her?!
she's the loser tf!! she shouldn't say that if it's something you like
Mitzi M girl I love stranger things don't let her tell you, you shouldn't
Mitzi M wanna know what I do to people who disrespects me threaten them with a sharp object
Bitch tf stranger things is awesome. She doesnt own you you can get anything you want.
Mitzi M fr wow i love stranger things shes just a b
you're very beautiful and inspirational! 🎈 the sad thing is almost everyone from my friends are fake friends it kinda sucks lol
osnapitsmarie Thanks love! xxo don't worry i'm sure you'll find amazing, loyal people that will support you through all your ups and downs like true friends should! those people are out there, and you WILL find them! promise
MARIAAAAA I GOTTA FINGER YAAAAA... Hey ;)
I feel like I am in a toxic friendship but I was the one that introduced them. They started hanging out together and not inviting me and now it's like they are cutting me out of everything now my "bestie" is becoming the other girls bestie. But that girl said she didn't like my "bestie" until she was in front of her face then she started to slowly take her away from me. My friend moved and now the other girl is going to visit her but she didn't want to until I wanted to visit her. I just don't know what to do anymore. 😭
(sorry for any typos)
omg I'm going through the same thing as you and it really hurts. lt's like depression but it's with your "friends". l introduced this girl to my other friend. And now she won't even think of me as her friend. We used to be likes sisters but now she's acting like we're not even friends anymore. Now she's "sisters" with my other friend. And my other friend doesnt even like me anymore. I'm slowly getting pushed around as being just acquaintance with them. And it really hurts me to see both kf my friends turn away from me like that :(
+Chloe Cao same I'm so sorry that this has happened to you and it really sucks that there are people out there like this and she moved but now my other friend (who is actually my cousin) is going to visit her after knowing I was but she isn't bringing me she is bring some guy who isn't actually her bf just a boy toy bc as she puts it she is "bored" I don't understand how someone who has gone through so much with you will sit there and act like you never even met and then on top of that treat you like crap like a diseased animal. She won't even hug me anymore when I cry she'll change the subject to a boy
The same thing is happening to me.
+Suzaan Uys I'm so sorry no one deserves this. I know if I wasn't so shy and had something going for me I'd make new friends.
Me too😕I never get invited out and they all hang out. Together every day they are nasty to me and when I try to get them to stop they don't listen😶
My “bestfriend” left me after I helped her through so much.
Next day she calls me a psychopath
i puh sticker on my carrier same but after she just started fighting everyday and I was so done about it after that I honestly just ignored her fighting and I want her back but she just will fight again and I don’t want that
Same here my “friend” called me dramatic, dumb and she told me that I fake depression and anxiety but she’s a hypocrite I had to block a friend because of that stupid girl when I told her I didn’t want to block my friend she was calling me fake and stupid. The last thing she said to me was bye edgy demon then she blocked me
This is the third frickin’ time she does that I don’t trust her anymore
Well there goes 3 fake friends...😢
Now what? 😞✋🏽
2 fake friend
Same i need help
You move on 🙂
Good friends will come eventually
I feel so hurt and betrayed. I feel like I never want a close friend again. It took me years of hard work and I finally reached my goals. She knew I would give in if she cried. I instantly forget about myself when someone is crying because I have a heart and worry about others. SHE IS SO ABUSIVE, SELFISH, MANIPULATIVE, AND FAKE!!
Poor you..
I've found out I had a fake ass friend yesterday..
Queenie Chu I have found that out before. It is an awful feeling. You feel taken advantage of.
Im in college now (In England) and still dealing with fake friends😧 some people just never grow up and i've finally learned to not give a damn about it all and let people go. BTW all your points were spot on😊
As an older person and a mom, the only thing she says that I disagree with is saying to confront your friend and have a dramatic unfriending conversation. It’s better to withdraw and let the communication dies naturally. All the confrontational discussion will do is make them angry, revengeful and it will cause an argument that will force your mutual friends to take sides.
She lied to my face and for that she rlly fake... I can't believe her..;c
It's more wired to see a real friend than a fake friend
My friends are fake but they’re the only “friends” I have
Cool Ranch same I can’t get rid of them and there so annoying good thing I’m not alone
*"what You give is not always what You get back."*
shocking and hard truth for me, since all my life I tried to give gifts, flatter people, drive my friends home, etc.
i feel so broken...
One thing I learned " Let it be let it be let it be oh let it be there will be an answer let it be
My “best friend” always used to be selfish and bossy to me. Luckily she went to a different secondary school than me. But recently she texted me saying “Don’t you get tired of putting makeup on two faces everyday” which is basically her saying that I’m two faced and that I put on too much makeup. But really I only put on foundation in the morning because I have horrible skin and I’m insecure. When I got it I didn’t get it so I said “huh?” And she just responded “nvmmmmmm you wouldn’t get it” I think the reason for her to say that is because, she used to hate someone in our old class for no absolute reason. And when secondary school came, she and I became best friends. But she forgave me for it. I feel really bad for my new best friend because I was always bullied and bossed about by my “friend” so now I’m bossing her about a bit, because I’m getting everything out. I haven’t talked to her about it though. I had 7 years of torment, bullying, being hit by my “friend” etc. Sorry for this really long comment but I just needed to get that out 💕
I wanna write the comment in English, but.... my English is really not the yellow from the egg so i write it in German. :)
Was ich vorweg sagen muss: Es klingt so, als würdest du direkt neben einem sitzen und einem dies und das erzählen. Liegt wohl am Mikrofon.
Das Video ist wirklich super geworden, es war für mich kein Problem dich zu verstehen, da du klar und deutlich geredet hast (Okey, ich hatte Untertitel an um zu wissen wie man die Wörter schreibt die du sprichst) und dadurch, dass du manchmal direkt in die Kamera schaust, wirkt es so, als würdest du einen direkt meinen.
Amy my love, i would be very happy if you make more videos like this, because they're a bit more personal.
I'm sure i forget anything to say but i hope you have a nice day! :)
I missed my old friends, those good old days when everything was real and genuine, the laugh, smile, and conversation. I missed my old friends 😭.
My "friend" ignores me at school from time to time, she left me along today so I was tired of waiting and went to better friends who make me laugh. She calls all her friends stupid and idiot like wtf so I told her it's so rude and she starts screaming at me. Then I did my own things and she starts crying
kelly lu this is sorta like my situation. My friend called me a psycho, laughed at me with her friends and left me alone. Just stay with your friends. She doesnt need to like you or them. If you’ve got nice friends than you should stay with them if they support you. 1 of my friends watched me cry and kept saying she loved me, my other friend supported me and my other friend kept sending me dog vids lol. Even if you have one nice real friend, it doesn’t matter. Stay wih them
@@ipuhstickeronmycarrier7305 same here, my two “friends” in my class started ignoring me and hanging out with 2 other girls and now their besties smh 🤨 if i tell my english teacher ouhhhh honey theyre dead just sayinnn
One of my friends try to get on my phone but doesn't let me on hers or read the convo between her and my mutual friend that is supposed to be my friend. I'm shy so ppl run over me a lot
Kira Lu I know how that feels like.... my friend doesn't let me see the conversations either.... and I wouldn't mind if I knew that they are not saying anything about me but I know they do.... and it really suck....😢😢
georgia georgia Honestly just forget about them.
No I dont know what Kik is 😅 I am Greek so yeah I dont know all the english american things😅😅
Kira Lu but have you Instagram?
georgia georgia Lol yeah what's your name
I’m popular but I have no real friends people like the idea of me, not me :(
I have allot of fake friends but I'm glad that I have the best friends in the world also #love yourself
I’ve been in a group of friends for 3 years I’ve told them all my secrets. And they were fake, I’m so gullible. I bawled my eyes out for the WHOLE day.
if i stop taking to my fake friend.... She'll start to spread rumours abt me.And Post somw shit stuff.And worst of all,ask ppl to not friend me...I dun even think i have a single real friend.Juz realized my life is full of fake ppl.😯
I go through that so much, it's annoying really
I don't understand wats so fun being a fake friend.
yup but you know what I'm now really just not gonna care about his threats and comments online because one I'm gonna be the mature one and let time take its place. Really there are a lot of fake people and sadly we have to deal with them.
Candy Flakes Try to make new friends when your fake friend is not there and tell them about your situation. Then stop talking her, and when she spreads rumors, your other friends will hopefully be there to back you up.
Candy Flakes same tbh
Don't worry everyone who realized their friends are fake as plastic. Be confident in yourself,you still have friends in yourself. Be strong and don't these plastics get in your way 💖
Love this kind of Video
Niike223 thanks!! :)
Amy's Day I'm getting bullyed really bad :( thanks for helping me out a bit ♡《》《》♡☆☆
Amy's Day are they a friend if they tell you you need to change or you can't be my friend and they're always like oh I don't want to be sitting next to you and then they sit beside you because the teacher says and then they roll their eyes
Let’s be real friends
just tell them :
Oh? when you said you had my back
I didn't realise you meant for a place to store your knives ! silly old me !
We really don't need a friend to reach where you want to be.
Last night i had a giant argument with my friend on instagram dm.but i added my friends outside of school to the group chat of kids in my class and everyone freaked out that i added two friends from outside of school. And she did all the things u just mentioned and she made a new dm without me and added all our friends to it, and she screenshotted every thing i sent her in our dm and she sent all of them to them. And they were talking about my friends and i behind our backs and hurt their.feelings. She finally apologized at 3:40 a.m. And said her mom and her best friend were best friends from kindergarten to 8th grade and then separated and how she didn't want that happening, but honestly, she seems like a fake friend and i don't feel happy around her like my nice friends from church do. But i go to a super tiny private school with only 56 kids preschool-8th grade and all those kids that are mean are in my class. They are the only kids in my class too. There is no escape from them and
Enjoyed reading that
Kwynn Alge something similar is happening with me
I have been best friends with these girls called Naya and Zeinab. Naya would bully me in front of the boys and today she pushed me on the ground and laughed, she’s been a fake friend to me and is always a show off. I try to stand up to myself, but she just tells lies about me to the teacher. It’s like she’s pushing down my limits, the sadder and downer I am, the happier and bigger she gets. I don’t know how to defend myself and I’ve found a new best friend called Lea. About Zeinab, she’s really nice and she’s also my best friend. I am trying to level up more and try to get Naya out of my life. Till this day, I am still very scared from Naya, Lea and Zeinab are helping me level up. No matter how much she’ll accuse me, I know it’ll all get better and be over soon.
I have this friend who has a low self esteem and I would always tell her that she's pretty no matter what she was nice then but she was hanging out with the wrong people then she started comparing me to her saying I'm glad I don't have a huge nose like you then cover it up by saying jk and she also once said I seen your mom she's pretty I wonder why you didn't turn out like her and cover it up by laughing and telling me she's joking and that I don't need to take it so seriously she made me have low self esteem then I became friends with her other friends and they were drawing me and they said we need a bigger paper for her head then just laughed when they started drawing my nose they said now let's draw her ugly nose ha I'm just kidding I don't know why I became friends with them I was dumb and on the last week of school before school ended they took my book bag and wrote weird things all over it I hate them and I can't stand that girl because I told her she was pretty and whoever said she's ugly is just mean jealous people and yet she told me the meanest things ever I don't talk to her or her friends anymore they're all ugly inside
This is A channel I'm so sorry to hear about that, what you need to do is publicly embarrass her in front of her friends in front of everyone (including her boyfriend, if she has one) at lunch while you all are having lunch by throwing the contents all over their expensive designer clothes. Stand back and laugh loudly as you watch them look at their now ruined clothes and laugh at them as they run away crying and screaming. Hopefully, they'd be expelled and suspended from the premises forever!
My "best friend" was always jealous of me, jealous that I was friends with her ex (we were friends before they got together), said rude and hateful things and jokes about me, and told my crush I liked him behind my back. I just cut her out of my life yesterday. I already feel a weight off my shoulders.
Im here because i was literally just crying because of y fake friends! Payback time.
R.I.P. three of my friends
There goes my only friend
Completely understand. Don’t continue to hang with them if they belittle you to make themselves feel smarter or dim your light. This isn’t High School anymore. Passed that.
I hate the fact that my so called friends are always making fun of me and treat me like crap. Even when I'm not around they make fun of me. They even call me fake, that really bothers me.
I guess I'm just a loser really 😔
cris11398 same but ur not a looser they are sick people do the things u love and the god will give u a friends or people loves u and care about u ❤️ we're both struggling from this problem i wish we can meet may be we can be bfs ❤️
cris11398 don't worry. I know exactly how you feel. In fact, earlier I was outside with my "friend" and I was running and I hit my head on a pole because I wasn't looking up. So I went to my house to try to heal it and a few mins later, he calls me and asks "what happened" but he was there and he saw what happened. but he started laughing and there was someone else in the background laughing too. I immediately knew that they were making fun of me. those fucking cunts instead of asking if I'm okay they laugh at me. I was fucking pissed and I still am. and it's not the first time they do that. it's like they're just waiting for me to fuck up just to make fun of me. so don't worry because I know how you feel
You’re not the loser. You never are. I just guess that your “so-called” friends think they’re too cool for you. They’re not. You’re the cool person. BTW I know it’s been along time since you’ve commented this but, I just wanted to say that.
great video ! Thank you for the advice and I think it's really great that you did a video where you give advice so you can help others :)
I love you and I'm looking forward to other videos ❤️
Anna Bieber thank you! i'm glad everybody has such good feedback!
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Ich habe mich mal wieder riesig gefreut, als ich bemerkt habe, dass du ein neues Videos gedreht hast (ich habe fast jeden Tag nachgeschaut;D ) Vielen lieben Dank für dieses wundervolle Video, es war wie immer wunderschön!:) Ich liebe es, dir zuzuhören, weil deine Stimme etwas Beruhigendes hat!😍 Mach weiter so meine Liebe!:) Du wirst immer mein Vorbild bleiben ❤️
Thank you for this very clear description. Finally, I came to the conclusion that one must first become absolutely aware of one's strengths. Then you also know that no one can take them away from you. After all, you have to see psychopaths and sociopaths in your own environment for what they are, expect nothing more, have pity and continue with your own life.
Welp. There goes literally everyone.
Few days before I learnt my so called "loved ones" that is my cousins and my brothers' wives talking behind my back specially slandering my daughter.
I was so shocked and hurt because I thought the world of them and never even once imagined they were capable of stooping so low. One of them among the group was bad mouthing my daughter and the others just listened without defending whatever the tell tale signs you were saying about it was all there who slandered my teenage daughter, so I kind of always knew she is not a well wisher. But I didn't expect the others to entertain her. I was so deeply hurt, I have totally lost faith in them.
All my friends in my group are fake except for 1 or 2. They talk shit about me and other people in my group as well. Im moving groups soon and I’m feeling so much happier :))
I had a "friend" who was only friendly with me because she wanted me to join her Mormon/LDS organization :( I think a good way to tell if someone is genuine and loyal is to see if they talk about others that they are "friends" with. If they do that, STAY AWAY because no doubt they are doing the same to you!
I want some help...
One of my friend told me to go with her in a party before a month but I didn't knew exactly the day. I said "idk probably yes"...The problem is that I learned that the party is on my birthday .When I told her she answer me "Ok, like I care for that..." And it's not the first time that she is saying that she doesn't care. Also before a week I tried to tell her something important and she told me "you are so annoying sometimes, don't you see that I don't have time for you righ now?" And I am feeling bad about all that. I don't know what to do with her cause when I am trying to talk about it , she always makes me feel like it's my fault...And I know that you don't even know or you dont care but I really don't know what I should do? 😢
she's clearly not a friend to you . so just jeave her and find some real friends i'm sure you'll find someone much much better and will understand and supports you no matter what. hopefully i find that kind of person too..
Selenator for life she's definitely not ur real friend, try to move on from her and find new friends X
hate the world don't worry girl everything is gonna be alright bcs my friend was acting worser . After everything i did for him he always says negative things about me and always make new friends and leave le behind but i don't care bcs that makes me stronger and know i can handle it by myself and gind the right people. So be strong and averything is gonna be alright and have a nice day 😉
selena gomez fan girl you dont need her. I rather have 100 friends than 1 friend who is fake and a bitch.
You should've bitch slapped her really hard and then say "WHAT IS YOUR FUCKING PROBLEM!? YOU KNOW WHAT?! WE'RE DONE, I DON'T WANT TO SEE YOUR FACE AGAIN,OK?! BITCH!"
Every time I am SUPER exited about something a certain says “cool” and that’s it.
Emily Dot same omg so I get a gold coin every year if I make straight a’s on all of my report cards and my dad let me trade in three gold coins for a gold bar which I was very excited about. I texted my friends and two of them didn’t respond and one of them said “cool”
All my friends are fake because I'm popular!!💔😥and If I let them go, which I should do, I would have like 5 friends!! I don't know what to do💔💔
X Olivia Westerman X at least you'll have 5 friends if their fake then what's the point of being their friend
X Olivia Westerman X move on fuck those bitches for realz...!!!
Does it even matter how much friends u have .
If they r fake forget them!
You only care about being popular???
I'm going through a friendship problem right now. I have this friend who I thought was so nice and I thought she would always be my friend. We have great memories together. I think that's what hurts the most. Losing a crappy friend that you thought was the best friend ever can be really hard. But thank you for making this video. It helped.
love your teeth 😍
Was thinking the same thing lol. she's beautiful
+Reese saint I have the same teeth as her. Finally I found another human who have the same teeth
Debora Habtemariam me too
NuHa Style ikr
Skleyn09 how?
Everything you said about how to spot a fake friend relates to this "best friend" I have had. It's not a nice feeling to be treated badly by who you thought was your best friend either.
I have an Ex bff 😞 she used me 😔 so my story: she was new and i welcomed her and stuff then she became my bff 👯 the following year, she started ignoring me and talking to my other friends😔 anyways the first time she ignored me was quite mean. So she walked up to the desk that me and my other friend were talking at and she said hello to my other friend COMPLETELY ignoring me 😡 Now it is about 4 months since it happened and I have started not talking to her unless I have to and I am so glad this is my last year in school with her 😅
Thank you for this great video.
Cuz just today a few hours ago,my"friends" went to the mall (and no one invited me)
And then some of them went over by one of them to a late night pool like before school opens back and no one invited me.
It broke my heart to see all of then out and they didn't even ask me if I wanna come.
And one of them said that I am not part of their squad because o toat too much. I tried not to think about it but everyday I go in my room and I cry sometimes because these r the people it thought would be there for me and be my awesome bff's and they were so the opposite.
But thanks for these tips I'm really just gonna not try to keep my friendship with some of then because they haven't tried to be nice to me or to save watever friendship we had.
Your eyes look so magical 😱
I’m watching right now crying cus my “friend” said that I deleted my other “friends” videos go to her channel “princess water” and comment on her video and “glitter fire”
Hi i'm 14 i have some friends we ve been together for 3 years and they are the only friends i have , in 2017 I started to notice they started to disrespect me and avoid talking to me and they started to ignore me , and everything i share it with them they just ignore it and say the same words over and over again, even when they do something wrong and i try to tell them the become angry , now they are taking me as the unattractive guy and the useless person, all because i left their things they love and went to another thing ( I left gaming and I started to drawing) idont want them some times i talk to them and they stay silent, i know am a boy and I don't have to focus on these things but I changed my self once for them but they didn't change for me , once they wanted to have relationship with girls i told them " bro its not right at this age its an early thing " they went mad and they said am retarded all because i told them they are doing something wrong , the problem is they are in the school with me idont these guys in my life any more they making me upset sometimes they make me feel am a none , why do they do that ? Am i not ur friend any more ? I noticed all that when a new guy came to them and they started as their best friend and i am a rubish am not jealous but I'm wondering how could they do that ? I told alot of my secrets, and some times they don't answer me like this one " sup ali wanna go the gym ? " he didn't say anything and he left me that shocked me but i took it as nah no problem but now i take it as a problem and a disrespect, i dont want them in my life .
Mesho XD kick them to the curb, sweetie. If they are going to do that to you, it's not worth it.
I think that every friend talks crap about their friend at least once. Not everyone is perfect. We all go through tough times where we need to vent to someone. I for one have talked crapped about my friends before but guess what, at the end of the day we got each other’s backs no matter what. The person who I used to hate and talk bad about is now my best friend and we have been friends with each other for 6 years.
Ich habe so lange auf das video gewartet (bin ein rießen fan von dir) & es war toll :)
MaximilianPirzl freut mich, danke!
Fake people can never be Friends .They are so consumed with all the " My cool Life" thing ,that they want your help only when they need something
So I really want to share my story which started this last week.....
Last week I stopped being friends with one of my friends because she started stealing money from me in a month she stole £100 from me in a month. I wasn’t sure if it was her so once I left my wallet on the table and went away before that I counted all the money I had in it.
When I came back £10 were missing so that’s when I just got all my things and went away without saying a word to her. And my bestfriend was with me and went to sit grass. Me and her were having great time when all of the sudden my bff says look who going near us(she was walking with 2 of our friends)and they were really close to us so I heard everything they said.
So my “friend” was saying things to my other friends like I’m a bitch and I said I hate them.so then they come to me and start saying things to me like if want to talk about us say it to our face. And then me and my best friend went to our lessons we ignored them.
Next week(this week)she is in my form and she has these friends and on Monday I forgot to wear my glasses and my “friend”sits in front of me with one of her friends. And I hear her say things about me.
And then her friend says to me you look like a frog with out your glasses you should buy a bigger tshirt because your too fat for that tshirt,I was saying things back to them aswell,they also said many mean things to me.
And then after that lesson they start pushing me and saying you shouldn’t wear a skirt you too fat for it,and things like my gramma had better eyebrows than you and she doesn’t even have eyebrows.
So in classes I tried not to cry my eyes were watering because that “friend knew that I was very insecure about how I look,how much I weigh.
So then her friends come up to me and my bff and say you like him(who I don’t)and other says rember “my friend” said one of them like him and other one likes him.
And I’m scared that this will carry on because “my friend” is telling everyone lies about me and saying I talk behind others backs.
*And sorry for wasting time, I just need some advice.*
Kuku K tell someone who can deal with it. Or talk back to them if they call you fat tell them at least I have money for food and dont look like Eugenia Cooney like you so stfu
Melissa Ravache thank you for you advice!
Kuku K yep no problem👌🏻
Im so sorry this is happening. :( I really dont know what i would do, but try telling your parents or a teacher. Hope it gets better!
I know about fake friends i was friends with ashifa in my school and she was acting like my beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeestest friend but she was having a fight with some other girl but then she decided to just be friends with her and she told me to help her so i spoke to that girl and tell her that she was sorry about all the fight but when i try spoke about this to ashifa she just went with her and next day she didn't sit next to me she was only sitting with that girl and some other girls so i just thought that she was spending time with them so i decided to join them but they just wouldn't let me i felt so much bad so i decided to just go then in the free period they were like, playing and everyone was playing with them so i join to but i accidentally bumped into ashifa and before i could say she was screaming at me that i did that on purpose and told me to just sit on my seat i was so angry but, like she was screaming and i just go and sit on my seat then i calm down thinked she was only just angry maybe , so i went with them on the lunch but it was nobody even notice me the just pushed me back and ashifa screamed just go pls i am with my best friends i just lost it and told everyone one about that even her new friends but they did not believe me and said they had confronted ashifa and 'she said that when i make new friends she was just jealous and decided to take my friends away' so no one believed me and they told everyone to don't be friends with me cuz i was a fake friend to ashifa and ashifa also came to me next day period it was free period so she came to me and said that she was still my friend i didn't listen a word but i am now making new friends but i will take revenge and even her big sister came to me and slaped me and at that ashifa came also said that she is not my friend anymore i just go and sit on my bench and everyone came to to just say that i am a really bad person
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Ich hatte auch vor ein paar Monaten eine Freundschaft aufgegeben weil es mich nur negativ runter gezogen hat und die Person meist verstehen musste und sie mit Leuten ist die falsch sind und sie so auch wurde, dies hab ich über 1 1/2 Jahre mit gemacht und dieses Jahr hab ich endlich damit abgeschlossen und das war eine gute Entscheidung! Durch das Video wird mir noch mehr bewusster und dafür danke ich dir! Think positive because the life's go on!🙏
I had a friend that helped me through my hardest times. He did this for years (3.5 to be exact) but he did show signs of being a flake and wouldn't always reply to my messages when I would invite him out. The fact that he would help me through my toughest moments and gave good advice made me ignore these signs. Well turns out he only was around because he liked my girlfriend at the time and when we split up they ended up hooking up with each other. Not only did it kill me to know my ex was dating other guys so soon after the break up but that it was with one of my "closest" friends made the betrayal that much more devastating. I never confronted either of them. Just cut them from my life, moved on and tried to forgive for my own well being. Hardest lesson I've ever had to endure but I did learn a lesson. Actions speak louder than words. I am still sad about the whole situation but I am in a better place for it and in reality, I didn't lose anything worth keeping.
Tysm this helped ❤️❤️
this one person is causing me to have constant anxiety attacks and this vid helped me a lot
There Goes All Literally ALL My Friends Except For 1.....1 Bitch Is Real
Bruh It's Molly this is my life.
All of the. Are fake except for one who has always been there for me
My mom says that if you are loosing friends that means it's the sign that you are growing in your life💚So people don't be depressed for temporary people
Everything you said about this person, being unhappy for my successes, belittling and mean, and snapping at me after I confront them about how they've made me feel... I left this person alone. Still not feeling closure because we got along so well. But this was from a couple of years ago now... I only came across this video because I was trying to find how to deal with a greedy "friend".
plz stop im crying
Dealing with the same situation.....totally worst feeling ever that imagined 💔
Yeah💔😢
My friend told me that my other friend was taking about me and her other friend behind our backs. The fake friend would talk to me about other people and lately wouldnt care if i was alone she would just stare. When i am sad she would say your sad not much more really.
What do i do?
Thank you for making this video! I was feeling down for the past couple of weeks because I have a friend who always belittle me when I'm with a group of friends or when I'm with her and it would make me feel shame which leading negativity in myself. I didn't know how to deal with it in that situation until I saw your video. It made me realize when having a fake friend is very hard especially when knowing them for a long time and it a good thing to distance yourself from them for a while. So again, thanks and I will take your advice. ( sorry if I have bad grammar and trying my best detail as I can be).
I’m crying from this,There’s so many fake friends/people where I live..
I was new to school and this girl had a group of friends and they invited me. Then this girl let’s call her Serena. Serena came along and me and my friend let’s call her Sasha. Sasha and I both had good feelings about her and introduced her to our group and we realized that she bragged all the time and only 1 other friend agreed that she was mean. Long story short we told another friend and that girl told us Sara was mean to us because she thought we didn’t like her. Sasha tried being nice, it worked, I tried and she 👏 literally👏 called me mean, snooty, and a snob BEHIND my BACK!! I confronted her and my friend “ Leah” who told me ended up apologizing to Sara!!!!! Then Sara told my other friend Kat who told me that she thought I was the next Sara!!!! Hope that makes sense.... I feel like everyone hates me....
yo my fake friend spreaded rumors that I was a bad person- and she said " Omg who spreaded that! " little did she know I knew
Friends can be abusive people to. My last best friend intentionally ruined my hair. She lied, turned on tears, manipulated me, pressured me, and I kept saying NO until I saw the tears. She is really messed up. I would never ever do that to my friends. She is toxic. She refused to accept NO for an answer so as a last resort she turned on fake tears. She knew that I was growing my hair out long and healthy and as soon as I reached that goal and was happy she said and did anything to ruin it, and guess what her lies and manipulation worked. I am devastated! I had to cut my hair boy short. Later I confronted her because more of the lies were coming out and she admitted it! This is NOT IN MY HEAD!!
HER RESPONSE WAS
"THAT IS RIGHT I INTENTIONALLY BRING OTHERS DOWN"
BUT THAT NIGHT SHE MANIPULATED ME SHE BASICALLY SAID ANYTHING TO GET ME TO LET HER CONTROL ME AND TRUST HER.
I have only four true friends
God, myself, My family and my cousins
Relate! I just had an operation on my knee. Only two of my friends cared. The others didn't even notice I wasn't in school, they didn't even text me.
Everything she said is actually on point. I want to watch a video on how to spot a fake friend because I can't and I don't believe how my 'friend' for a very long time is faking it for me. I need a little push to prove it. This video does it for me. :(
Welp bye bye to my bff of 2 years
Hey just wanting to say great video! And also it says a lot of the type of friends I've had, this girl in my day camp told me that she was at this birthday party and saw these three girls one a girl who isolated me at my old school and one who whenever she sees me she gives me a dirty look and one my "friend". She told me that she heard these three saying lies and rude things about me and that my "friend" said nothing in my defense... I called my fake friend today and told me that never happened then said later that it did and... And I cried later because I hurt for years treated like this but thank God, He is my real and forever friend and my parents and siblings support me. I let my fake friend know that if anyone said something mean about her I would defend her... Jesus wants us to forgive so I will! ..... sorry for making this long 😁 but just wanting to share my story thx!
Well I have two fake friends
Well this year I made a really good friend, since I just recently moved to this new town and to a new school, and everything went so great at the beginning and on my first day of school I would ease drop on teachers talking to students that were new too , then I heard the teacher say yea she's new too and I was thinking to myself just my luck , since next period was lunch , so when the bell rang I asked her if she wanted to have lunch with me and she accepted and from there we became really good friends, and then a few new kids came to our school and on there first day before lunch i would think about how on my first day no one approached me so I gracefully walked up to the new kids and asked them if they wanted to have lunch with me and they accepted then from there we all became really good friends and made great memories but as the year was coming to a slow finish our small group slowly came dying down and of course out of that group most them were my best and closest friends , then someone from that group called me out on sc calling me fake and I was like why was she angered until I saw her story on sc , she was upset on something I had posted about myself and without knowing why I posted it she decided she was immediately done with our friendship, then one of my closest best friends started hanging out with the girl who called me out on sc , but I wasn't bothered at all , since she is her own person and she has her own choice of hanging out with whoever she wanted , but then she slowly stopped talking to me and distance herself from me and at first I thought wow is the girl who called me out on sc stealing all my friends, since the kids from the group I've been hanging around with also distanced their selves from me except they that one person who called me out and the small group did continue to talk with eachother except I wasn't included and then a few days later my best friend didn't talk to me anymore and wasn't responded to the 2 messages I've sent her and then one of my closest friends who wasn't in the group , who I met in a class messaged the girl who i thought was my best friend and she told him that the reason she didn't want to hang out with me anymore was because I was a show off , and at that point I felt totally blindsided and hurt , like if she felt that way about me why couldn't she just have told me that she didn't want to be friends anymore for that reason , if she probably would've told me face to face or at least sent a quick response , I would've maybe thought about changing that habit that I didn't know I had and now I am currently with no friends maybe just 1 close one , which is what i probably need for now but to this day i still feel hurt and worry about myself that maybe I am what others described me as, but I am human and I do have my good days and bad days , but maybe building a way for myself is just what's right for me
So I have 2 friends right? One of them was my childhood bff and she was there for me all the time. Now, she's bffs with MY NEW BFF. This may seem like I dont want my friends to make friends, well I want them to make friends but they got so good together that I'm left out. We got in a huge fight and now her mom won't let me talk to my childhood bff and my other friend doesnt believe a word I say. Those were my two friends gone now and I'm alone.
This is actually what happened to me and I can’t forget why my only friend did this to me and I can’t get over it I have distanced myself from him but I have this thing that I can’t let it go what he said behind my back and I came to know about it everything
Plz help I’m going through a mental torture and I want revenge many times I have thought to let it go but I can’t my life is totally ruined and I’m living torturous life I have forgiven many times but now I can’t what to do
Also had a guy friend. Helped him so much in school. Was always there for him no matter what. then I noticed he just distanced himself from me and never wants to hang out (but has time to chill with others). He used me..