30 Things I Wish I Knew In My 30s
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0:02 1. Your 30s are better than your 20s
0:11 2. Don't take advice from people haven't failed
0:42 3. Change or learn to live with it
1:18 4. Learn to regulate your emotions
1:47 5. Take care of your body
2:05 6. You're not going to stop growing and changing
2:34 7. Get better at learning new thing
2:58 8. Wear sunscreen
3:10 9. Don't try to time things
3:57 10. You don't have infinite time with your family
4:17 11. Stop being a people pleaser
5:12 12. FREE time magement templates
6:30 13. Don't only do things you're good at
6:53 14. Put in the extra effort to make friends
7:35 15. Cure for burnout is gratitude
8:04 16. You will be the new guy many times
8:31 17. Be open to new music
8:56 18. Don't procastinate on your errands
9:20 19. Start saving a little bit now
9:45 20. Buy experiences
10:10 21. Don't take advice about your quarter life crisis from someone who is in their quarter life
10:28 22. Embrace the power of a strategic nap
10:36 23. Trade time for money
11:03 24. Journal regularly
11:25 25. You will lose some close friends
11:45 26. Find your tribe
12:11 27. Don't defer a celebration
12:40 28. Embrace your inner child
12:53 29. Boredom is totally ok
13:16 30. Read more books
13:58 31. Curate your digital life
14:14 32. Invest in your bed and ergonomics
14:45 33. Work on yourself first
15:15 34. Success is how you define it
15:30 35. Check out other videos
Legend, saved 15mins of my life!
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Steve should pin this comment.
#27 is so true, we must celebrate success before next life stressor comes, and #28 is the reason a good mechanical watch is worth getting over quartz. Good one Steve 🙌
1:58 - So that's why I was the manual labor in helping you setup your studio... 😏. Loving the setup Steve!!!
Haha, Steve's back thanks you. I guess :p
Watching this in my 30s really resonates with me! Some of the advice I’ve come across before but didn’t take seriously at the time, while other insights are brand new to me. Either way, I’m so grateful for this, and I truly believe it’s going to make a positive impact on my future. Thanks for sharing!
I’m in my mid 30s and some of these are hitting me hard. “Don’t be people pleaser” is so true when you realize not everyone at work will like you, you just need to stay true to yourself
The sunscreen tip is underrated, protect your skin!
This was awesome Steve. Great advice.
Steve, your videos always bring some peace and clarity to my life when it's really rough.
Really appreciate the good content you put out and I hope you know how much it helps.
Although this is out of the software wheelhouse I subscribed for, I actually really appreciate this video. Thank you.
I Love the fact that there was no mombojombo intro to this video! and I repreat, I love the fact that there was no intro in this video
Thanks so much, Steve. Great content and great channel.
Bookmarking for this decade.
Haha! 😂 Love the browser bookmark jab! I'm 28 and I felt that. Lol! 😅
Here's mine: get tested for adhd. You may not have it but if you do you can make strategies around it including medication
Great advice, thank you for posting this.
I really love your content.
As self taught developer and someone who worked super hard to get there , your tips and tricks are very valuable to me.
I appreciate.
Damn, so much insights in a few lines... The first 30s made me like the video
Excellent advice!
Agree with the Seattle Freeze lol.
I grew up in WA state my whole life before moving to Seattle for college and work, but I often see transplants struggle to make friends and give a bad word about Seattle.
Great video. Thanks.
Another super helpful video 🙏, +1 Strategic nappping
really solid advice
lol, i felt the same, advices from people who only saw success never works for me.
thanks uncle Steve
Spot on :) thanks so much
thank you for the wisdom unc 😼👍
About 21 quarter life transition, its a bit shortsighted. You will have been idealistic and productive for a little bit. Dont forget to play, it will encourage imagination, connections between ideas, unique solutions, humor and you will be interesting to gain more friends
Love your content as usual. But timestamps, bitte. Greetings from Germany
Amazing.
Like how it’s growing from 30 to 35 during the video 😂
Sam's Club has LEGO btw :P
This man aged like fine wine.
Is that a Fern chair you're sitting on? How is it? I'm in a search of a new chair.
nice kindle flex :)
Are many people really having aches and pains in their 30s? I'm in my early 40s and haven't had such issues.
2:20 there is a 42% divorce rate in they US. When you are recommending to embrace change are you recommending to embrace both the marriage and the divorce? Thanks!
life expectancy has actually been going down in recent years...
Uncle Steve
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Can we get 20 things you wish you knew in your 20s??
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Controlling emotions is a terrible advice, this leads to a depression. You should resolve emotions.
Great advices, except sunscreen and moisturizer, all you need is nutrition and vitamin-D from sun for optimal health. Don’t let the companies trick you.
Great video though 😊
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Cringe. Man has gone into the “life advice” content after realizing there isn’t much about software to talk about anymore from his experience.
nice batgirl Steve!