10 Ways to Overcome Labour Anxiety by PregnancyChat

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  • @thatshaunted
    @thatshaunted 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    31 weeks pregnant and I can not get over the fear. I can’t sleep and I can’t stop freaking out no matter how many people tell me it’ll be okay ..

    • @divyagaur1562
      @divyagaur1562 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @DG86-2
      @DG86-2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am right there with you and I am only 10 weeks! But this will be my 5th baby and I am TERRIFIED 😩🥺

    • @zilverenmaan1229
      @zilverenmaan1229 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Iaid here in bed now 2 years after your comment at 31 weeks pregnant and freaked out about this too

  • @andrew9035
    @andrew9035 8 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I am so frightened of birth, the pain, no control, so afraid, i want to be knocked out during the process

  • @imogenbastow5345
    @imogenbastow5345 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I'm not even pregnant and don't plan to be for 5 years, but labour terrifies me every single day

    • @notimportant9698
      @notimportant9698 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm not trying, because I'm to afraid...

  • @HebaHosni
    @HebaHosni 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Friends can be a source of negative energy and fear

    • @topaz9655
      @topaz9655 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not mine thankfully. If I have fears about the whole thing I let them know and they tell me I have nothing to worry about. They each have kids of their own, so they do their best to use their knowledge to help me stay calm

  • @denissebarbiemuaw1135
    @denissebarbiemuaw1135 8 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    guess im not alone thank god. my terror of labor is so high i have heart palpitations. sweating. n crying thiking i cant do it .

    • @siaw6487
      @siaw6487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      denisse barbie muaw me too!! Due March 12 and I am so scared I’m having panic attacks already. :(

    • @ButterflyyBeautiee
      @ButterflyyBeautiee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@siaw6487 I'm due to be induced in a week or so and I just wanna break down and cry. This is my third pregnancy! :(

    • @georgianaalina4423
      @georgianaalina4423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Due in 3 weeks,first baby. I feel like my heart will explode from fear and excitement at the same time 😫 Wish you all mommies good luck!!!

    • @brendatienda8002
      @brendatienda8002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Gligor Georgiana good luck! I hope it all goes smooth and no complications! I want a baby but I’m super scared 🥺

    • @shanesikat1946
      @shanesikat1946 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      OhhButterflyy we are the same mommy..I’m so nervous crying..this is also my third baby..

  • @livingthedreamhomesteading7692
    @livingthedreamhomesteading7692 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I am not even pregnant, but have been watching what to expect when pregnant, delivering, postpartum videos it has made me really reconsider if it is worth getting pregnant. It seems so painful and misery. Watching this video has helped some. Thanks for making this.

    • @Eljazec
      @Eljazec 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LivingTheDream : Homesteading I would suggest looking up videos about natural births; even if that's not something you're interested in, they tend to be much more positive and focus on addressing fears and concerns in an empowering way. :)

  • @DianneWilderASMR
    @DianneWilderASMR 8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm not afraid of the pain, I'm only afraid of the stupid hospital, the arrogant doctors, the 'procedures', staying there after delivery in that horrible, ugly, sad place instead of being at home in my clean, familiar environment. I planned everything, I have a birthing plan, but I'm sure the doctors will ignore my wishes, because they always do this here in this country. They only follow their procedures, regardless of the patient's wishes. Every time you really, really want something, you need to get angry and scream on them, otherwise they're not taking you seriously.

    • @إكرام-د4ن
      @إكرام-د4ن 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      same here, when's ur due date?

    • @إكرام-د4ن
      @إكرام-د4ن 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dianne Wilder ASMR oh my God congratulations! I'm so happy for you.., your positive words and attitude just made my day ^^ thank you!

    • @DianneWilderASMR
      @DianneWilderASMR 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ikram G you're welcome, sweetie! Everything is going to be alright

    • @MissKimmyRose
      @MissKimmyRose 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dianne Wilder I completely agree

  • @mitzieeshell4724
    @mitzieeshell4724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’m 7 weeks pregnant and cripple by anxiety of giving birth. I’m so scared it’s making me think I can’t do this... I don’t know what to do.i feel so alone

    • @linnnoergaard
      @linnnoergaard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Make The very Best plan you can as soon as you can...that has helped me . Don't be affraid to to demand proper Care and help... I totally ikke how you feel...hugs from me to you :-)

    • @mitzieeshell4724
      @mitzieeshell4724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@linnnoergaard thank you!! I’ve had my beautiful baby now. She was in constant breach position so had to have a c section so my baby made all the plans for me 😂.

    • @linnnoergaard
      @linnnoergaard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mitzieeshell4724
      Oh congratulations😊😊.. I hope the birthing experience was ok and that you had doctors that were nice to you.. 😊

    • @mitzieeshell4724
      @mitzieeshell4724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@linnnoergaard couldn’t ask for a better birth to be fair everyone around me was truly amazing !!!xx

  • @kavitapatel9425
    @kavitapatel9425 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    thank you so much minicab, it was kinda relief, and it was genuinely deeply insightful and helpful. thank you

  • @topaz9655
    @topaz9655 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have almost 4 weeks left until my baby is due to make an appearance and my anxiety has been up and down. It's been fluctuating because I've been trying to manage my stress since I know stress is not good for the baby, but there have been at least a couple nights so far when I'm cuddling with my man trying to enjoy a movie, when it suddenly becomes hard to breathe and I just start crying. Whenever I get overly worked up like that he does his best to reassure me that I'll be fine, our baby will be fine, and that my body was made to do this

    • @ammaaraholiver942
      @ammaaraholiver942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I can relate so much to this. I have a few weeks left till baby is here but it's very freaky. My husband keeps telling me I was made to do this but one minute I'm okay and the next I'm all freaked out and cant breathe

    • @topaz9655
      @topaz9655 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ammaaraholiver942 I can safely say all will be well. I was in labor for over 24 hours so I had to have a c-section. But now that the worst is over, I have my baby and my body is recovering as long as I don't overdo it. I know it's hard, but just keep in mind that the hospital staff will take care of u and ur baby. Good luck ❤️

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      @markdavid7603 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @elizabethkristinemiller7675
    @elizabethkristinemiller7675 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m getting induced on Thursday night and it’s my first baby. My fiancé and I are so excited to welcome our baby girl, but I’ve dealt with generalized anxiety for years now and I’m just scared of birth. I want myself and baby to be healthy.

    • @Islahoneyy
      @Islahoneyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How it go!

    • @elizabethkristinemiller7675
      @elizabethkristinemiller7675 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Islahoneyy it went just fine. kind of a long process since i was induced thursday and she didn't come until early saturday morning, but she's here and healthy and i'm healthy. totally worth it! :)

    • @Islahoneyy
      @Islahoneyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@elizabethkristinemiller7675 thank you I’m just scared because my anxiety is sooo high right now I’m 39 weeks

  • @courtneypine1330
    @courtneypine1330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well this video I thought would help but nope I’ve been watching a million and I’m still petrified and crying fighting off panic attacks getting induced in 1 day. I need a benzo 😳

  • @vividdreams1054
    @vividdreams1054 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am frightened because my spouse will be deployed, my parents are addicts and I don’t speak with them, and my friends live so far. I will likely be alone for the scariest part of my life. Not only that, but I have a panic disorder and hospitals can give me heightened anxiety. I have a lot of doubt in my ability to be able to handle this experience alone.

  • @Kat.The.Reaper
    @Kat.The.Reaper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm delivering in 3 days.. third baby and my anxiety is unbelievable. This baby was 100% different then my last 2. Its freaking me out.

    • @4workonly823
      @4workonly823 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exact same. First I didn't know what to expect. Second one I knew what to expect and was very prepared. Third time around and I am proper freaking out.

  • @Amysbiblereads
    @Amysbiblereads 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I give birth within the next week. If I can't go into labour naturally I have to have another c section! very frightened mum!!

    • @nagratna793
      @nagratna793 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      U ll go labour naturally

  • @madhulikasingh2047
    @madhulikasingh2047 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I m not pregnant but planning pregnancy.. And I had history of anxiety attacks before 4yrs.. I managed that with meditation and yoga... But now again I m going through all this anxiety symptoms just thinking about it and it gets so worst that at a point I literally drop the option to be pregnant.. I m struggling to overcome this, I again started meditation and yoga... I hope it will help this time too...

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  • @hayleymccall1
    @hayleymccall1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    35 weeks pregnant now but my first baby labour went nothing to plan emergency c section my baby was rushed away and she ended up extremely ill needing heart surgery. I am terrified for this birth ...

  • @uzmakahlid4305
    @uzmakahlid4305 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you soo mach for helping me

  • @SophisticatedLadies7
    @SophisticatedLadies7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm scared

  • @rockelclaudio6159
    @rockelclaudio6159 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    1st one, works for me 👍

  • @thevirgotay
    @thevirgotay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm gonna have to be at the hospital at 7:15am to be induced & is just freaking out. I've been uneasy & feeling very weird all day. Idk how to feel honestly. 🙁

    • @stay_low_key
      @stay_low_key 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Update ? I need one before the day is up. I'm getting induced tomorrow

  • @lisamariegreenaway8693
    @lisamariegreenaway8693 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Having baby number 6, and im shitting myself!!!

  • @Islahoneyy
    @Islahoneyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The thing about my anxiety it makes it feel like I’m dying, when I breathe I’ll feel horrible , my anxiety makes my entire face numb and I hate it I’m scared of pain too:(

    • @yeliah9203
      @yeliah9203 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How was it girl?

    • @Islahoneyy
      @Islahoneyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yeliah9203 wasn’t bad as I thought !

  • @jihane0jihane
    @jihane0jihane 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great lady , I like your videos

  • @MelunaMoonDancer
    @MelunaMoonDancer 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What if another nurse tries to kill me/my baby again by not following the law and ensuring we get seen by a doctor/nurse midwife?
    What if I'm held down again, against my will - begging for them to stop while a doctor rams his arm into me?
    What if I inform the staff that I have a needle phobia again, and the nurse trying to place the IV laughs and states 'AND HOW many tattoos do you have? - again? (answer is zero tattoos btw)
    What if I'm mocked by the staff in general again?
    This is the second pregnancy I've been diagnosed with gestational diabetes - and also the second time my doctor has failed to prescribe any kind of care or monitoring for it. What do I do? I've followed up to try and get my testing kit - but my requests have been ignored. What if my baby is too big or I become ill due to this negligence?
    I'm quite tempted to give birth unassisted at home. As I do not trust anyone - barely myself.

  • @engiel-3gaty959
    @engiel-3gaty959 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely

  • @nagratna793
    @nagratna793 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    No matter wat that pain is still dreadfull and horrifying..
    One need the strength will.power to give natural birth

  • @katelynnj.r7768
    @katelynnj.r7768 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    my cousin numbed herself so she wouldnt feel anything and the doctors didnt see her do that and also my mom just had her baby yesterday

  • @marsrover9815
    @marsrover9815 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Give birth,me,scary,knock me out,kill me,scary,pain,help,birth,me SCARYYYYYYYYYY cry pain loud ( people watching me ) pain why me help
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  • @ayeshaabdullatif9293
    @ayeshaabdullatif9293 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    😰😰😰😰🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯labour and delivery is quite scary. I almost died giving birth to my daughter.

    • @op7822
      @op7822 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ayesha abdullatif why

    • @navkaur2882
      @navkaur2882 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Great just what I wanted to hear!

    • @ButterflyyBeautiee
      @ButterflyyBeautiee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      oh great....now I'm really scared.

    • @tiarramarie8082
      @tiarramarie8082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thats my biggest fear!!! 😭😭 this is baby number two and thats my biggest fear...

    • @vladanatrivic
      @vladanatrivic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Terrible comment on wrong place.