In my first marriage it only affected me, my ex could care less. My current marriage, divorce, would affect my spouse more than me. Now I could care some. I know that I am the issue and a failure.
It’s affecting my health tremendously ! I cannot get my blood pressure down I’ve tried everything my doctor is very concerned he said it’s life threatening!
@@EvaCFricke I am trying but I’m playing with a stacked deck unfortunately my wife flatlined when she got Covid and they revived her she’s never been right since 30 years of marriage gone she won’t do counseling or lift a finger to work on our marriage. It’s absolutely killing me.
@@RichardTClark396 You find a recovery group for you and counseling/ therapy for you. When your spouse won't do the work, you do work for YOU. You can't change others, the only person you can change is YOU. Prayers for you.
My husband muv to Spain and l stay with kids uk is just packing is stuff and muv bec to Spain is saying is never coming back to uk and l say l note muv to Spain l note lick Spain him note lick uk do l need weit him or just muv on and telling him l won't divorced
Funny considering women file almost 80% of divorces and then fight to make the father an every other weekend dad to maximize child support and State assistance
My beliefs and values have remained steadfast. My husband's have not and it breaks my heart. You give me hope!
Wish my wife would come to the workshop!
I would love to see you guys talk on this and how it affects step children if this is a second marriage and you have no biological children together.
This is my situation as well.
Very enlightening. Thank you
In my first marriage it only affected me, my ex could care less. My current marriage, divorce, would affect my spouse more than me. Now I could care some. I know that I am the issue and a failure.
It’s affecting my health tremendously ! I cannot get my blood pressure down I’ve tried everything my doctor is very concerned he said it’s life threatening!
Put yourself first. Do tonnes of self-care. Set boundaries for you.
@@EvaCFricke I am trying but I’m playing with a stacked deck unfortunately my wife flatlined when she got Covid and they revived her she’s never been right since 30 years of marriage gone she won’t do counseling or lift a finger to work on our marriage. It’s absolutely killing me.
@@RichardTClark396 You find a recovery group for you and counseling/ therapy for you. When your spouse won't do the work, you do work for YOU. You can't change others, the only person you can change is YOU. Prayers for you.
So how does that work with a stepmom that gets along with your kid and the Stepmom that wants to divorce the and still want a connection with the
It's awful you still feel connected to your spouse.
The wives push us away.
My husband muv to Spain and l stay with kids uk is just packing is stuff and muv bec to Spain is saying is never coming back to uk and l say l note muv to Spain l note lick Spain him note lick uk do l need weit him or just muv on and telling him l won't divorced
No, all dads leave by choice.
Funny considering women file almost 80% of divorces and then fight to make the father an every other weekend dad to maximize child support and State assistance