what if my wife has filed for divorce, n is just wanting all my stuff out of her house, now. won't talk or be around me. not sure but everything is pointing to sumone new is in her life. can this help me? I've tried everything, I know I was at fault just as much as she was, n have made ALOT of changes, ALOT more to do though. I really want to save our marriage, my wife is an amazing lady n needs so much more, I'm trying so hard. thank you for your help.
What does forgiveness look like from a day to day basis. How do we ourselves know for certain that we have forgiven a spouse? It’s one thing to say I forgive but a totally separate thing to actually forgive. Can we fake it till we make it? Forcing oneself to be kind civil and generous with no malice in the heart? Until it becomes a reality. Can faking it with an intentional eye for the future of the peace that comes from forgiving actually take place? Can one forgive and just turn a leaf and it is done? This I feel, is a fair question of questions!
I am currently reading the book "Forgive" by Tim Keller. True Biblical forgiveness is a process and includes certain elements. I highly recommend this book.
Love them like God loves them. Forgive them like He forgives them. See them like He sees them. See them as the flawed person that they are (we all are) and understand that God knows their heart and why this happened. We don't but He wants us to trust Him. I have done this the past year and my entire perspective has changed. 💜
I really like the comment about there not being an emergency because thats exactly what it feels like an emergency. I'm turned off by the constant workshop this workshop that trying to sell your wares but thats my problem if its a problem.
What if I can’t forgive myself? I realize that I don’t know what it feels like to be in love. I feel sorry for her and us, because of the years wasted. Is there a way to recover from this? Gary
Weird question, but is Kimberly’s pinky broken? Might be the angle but it looks slightly bent. My wife had her pink cut off when she was a child but they were able to re-attach and now its slightly bent. Lol totally nothing to do with the topic. Just something I noticed
I'm battling that too.... I think i overweigh the good from the bad..... I still cant 100% forgive but day by day i can try and let it go or forget.... if it goes a year or more then best thing to do would be moving on and find someone new or heal alone. That way your life or future relationship bury the fukked up situation we find ourselves in at the moment. We wont be able to forgive but maybe forget
I'd say base your ability to reconcile on their willingness to maintain the relationship. It's a total "proceed at your own caution" situation but it's possible they don't have the communication skill and you may be stronger, who knows. I'd base it off their willingness to work hard to maintain a standard between yall.
I'm giving up on life because I don't have money to save my marriage I don't have anything I'm in another state where I don't know anybody I just want my family or ending everything I do mean everything
Don't give up. I'm not gonna give some "I saved my marriage" story but what I have is hope. You are worth every second you are alive. You are good enough. You have to believe that because it's true no matter what others think, say, or do. Do not give up. You can save your marriage without money.
I agree, don't give up. Reach out to God, He will carry you. You are a child of God with divine worth. You take care of you, and you will change which can bring about change in your marriage. I did and it has. With your Heavenly Father's help, you can do and overcome all things! Hang in there!!!💜
By far the hardest thing I’m struggling with. Totally know better and unable to do better and I’m trying but I can’t get past it
These steps are going to be very hard with a spouse who’s moved out and mentally and completely done with the relationship YEARS ago
what if my wife has filed for divorce, n is just wanting all my stuff out of her house, now. won't talk or be around me. not sure but everything is pointing to sumone new is in her life. can this help me? I've tried everything, I know I was at fault just as much as she was, n have made ALOT of changes, ALOT more to do though. I really want to save our marriage, my wife is an amazing lady n needs so much more, I'm trying so hard. thank you for your help.
Great content as always. I'm very thankful for what you all are doing for so many. God bless.
You guys have helped me so much. Ty
What does forgiveness look like from a day to day basis. How do we ourselves know for certain that we have forgiven a spouse? It’s one thing to say I forgive but a totally separate thing to actually forgive. Can we fake it till we make it? Forcing oneself to be kind civil and generous with no malice in the heart? Until it becomes a reality. Can faking it with an intentional eye for the future of the peace that comes from forgiving actually take place? Can one forgive and just turn a leaf and it is done? This I feel, is a fair question of questions!
Sad to say but I agree with you. I just can't find it in my heart and I know in my heart it's destroying my walk with God.
Follow what Jesus says for forgiveness.
I am currently reading the book "Forgive" by Tim Keller. True Biblical forgiveness is a process and includes certain elements. I highly recommend this book.
@@j.s.3203 I will check it out, J.S. Obviously I am someone who needs to read it.
Love them like God loves them. Forgive them like He forgives them. See them like He sees them. See them as the flawed person that they are (we all are) and understand that God knows their heart and why this happened. We don't but He wants us to trust Him. I have done this the past year and my entire perspective has changed. 💜
My prayer that your marriage can be Redeemed and Restored
Thank you
I really like the comment about there not being an emergency because thats exactly what it feels like an emergency.
I'm turned off by the constant workshop this workshop that trying to sell your wares but thats my problem if its a problem.
What if I can’t forgive myself? I realize that I don’t know what it feels like to be in love. I feel sorry for her and us, because of the years wasted. Is there a way to recover from this?
Gary
Weird question, but is Kimberly’s pinky broken? Might be the angle but it looks slightly bent.
My wife had her pink cut off when she was a child but they were able to re-attach and now its slightly bent.
Lol totally nothing to do with the topic. Just something I noticed
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What if you tried to forgive and you just can't?
I'm battling that too.... I think i overweigh the good from the bad..... I still cant 100% forgive but day by day i can try and let it go or forget.... if it goes a year or more then best thing to do would be moving on and find someone new or heal alone. That way your life or future relationship bury the fukked up situation we find ourselves in at the moment. We wont be able to forgive but maybe forget
how will u forgive ur spouse if she/he don't ask for it,& still doesn't look like remorseful of his/her act?
I'd say base your ability to reconcile on their willingness to maintain the relationship. It's a total "proceed at your own caution" situation but it's possible they don't have the communication skill and you may be stronger, who knows. I'd base it off their willingness to work hard to maintain a standard between yall.
I'm giving up on life because I don't have money to save my marriage I don't have anything I'm in another state where I don't know anybody I just want my family or ending everything I do mean everything
Don't give up. I'm not gonna give some "I saved my marriage" story but what I have is hope. You are worth every second you are alive. You are good enough. You have to believe that because it's true no matter what others think, say, or do. Do not give up. You can save your marriage without money.
I agree, don't give up. Reach out to God, He will carry you. You are a child of God with divine worth. You take care of you, and you will change which can bring about change in your marriage. I did and it has. With your Heavenly Father's help, you can do and overcome all things! Hang in there!!!💜
Please don’t give up❤ life is so precious. Don’t let anything or anyone ever bring you down to that point.
Forgive if someone is living with you. That means the person will do the same thing over and over
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