Hey Steve: Her Man Isn’t Making an Effort || STEVE HARVEY

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  • She’s dating a man with a daughter, but noticed he’s not prioritizing her. Should she stay with him?
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  • @Lennakanci999
    @Lennakanci999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3331

    She’s not collecting red flags. She IS a red flag.

    • @apex_e3e070
      @apex_e3e070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Was just about to comment this looool. I just see someone that really needs help. It's a shame

    • @elisemartina9832
      @elisemartina9832 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      What do you mean by this? Not trying to be rude, just curious :)

    • @Lennakanci999
      @Lennakanci999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Elise Martina red flag is something u wanna keep away from. And that’s what her man does.
      Thats what I mean.

    • @PLAKINA
      @PLAKINA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Lmfao, she needs to find a new old man lol.

    • @PLAKINA
      @PLAKINA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Benjamin Mathew only way to go

  • @maudriehicks7089
    @maudriehicks7089 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1381

    Two major things I got STOP collecting red flags, and don't allow a man to SHOW you twice that he doesn't want you.

    • @converseboyy1303
      @converseboyy1303 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It's tell not show but but ur right with the two major points

    • @iannoana6881
      @iannoana6881 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👌🏻

    • @Starscream_313
      @Starscream_313 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She's lying !!

    • @Jay-jb2vr
      @Jay-jb2vr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@converseboyy1303 actions speak louder than words

    • @converseboyy1303
      @converseboyy1303 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jay-jb2vr I agree, but I dont get why your saying this

  • @yushikasubedi4275
    @yushikasubedi4275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1041

    "Don't let a man tell you twice he doesn't want you."... How sad yet true it is ❤️

    • @youknow95
      @youknow95 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Just leave and move on

    • @VishalSingh-pz6mm
      @VishalSingh-pz6mm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@youknow95 actually this woman was just crazy and a real man can actually see that easily and if i were in place of that man, i would have prolly did the same

    • @ashishranjan887
      @ashishranjan887 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      True.... Men are not emotional like women. So once we say we don't want a girl.... We truly mean it.
      If a man thinks that a girl is precious for him... He will never let her go and will do whatever he can to keep her happy but if he thinks that the girl is not worth his time and effort then nothing can make him love that girl.

    • @mayssa148
      @mayssa148 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah so sad actually

    • @FernandoGonzalez-ub9iw
      @FernandoGonzalez-ub9iw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And vice-versa...

  • @brokerabbit94
    @brokerabbit94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    The way she keeps interrupting Steve is a Red Flag itself..

  • @JohnnySensei7
    @JohnnySensei7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1861

    You can’t talk bad about someone’s age if you didn’t mind it when you were with them

    • @SnowFoxParty
      @SnowFoxParty 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yup

    • @christylouis2611
      @christylouis2611 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Just like someone's weight too

    • @izonlimi662
      @izonlimi662 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Indeed. That was intended to put him in a negative light but it showed her up as distasteful instead.

    • @etf42
      @etf42 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      shes trying to lower his value in her eyes so she can justify leaving him or not being attracted to him, and steve is helping her

    • @ysmithriley
      @ysmithriley 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      So, this behavior would be OK if he was a younger man? His age isn't the problem. He's an @$$Hole, plain and simple that's playing her! She needs to leave and stop wasting her time. The feelings shared between them aren't mutual.

  • @kamvaallan2653
    @kamvaallan2653 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1979

    Damn she talks. Maybe he just wants some quiet time.

    • @kamvaallan2653
      @kamvaallan2653 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      @Marylee Macpherson we don't know his side of the story, U will be surprised. For all I know drawing conclusions based on one side of the story is not wise.

    • @kamvaallan2653
      @kamvaallan2653 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @Marylee Macpherson there's also a lot of 'Red' flags from the way she presents herself & wat she's saying. Receives Valentine's gifts from multiple men. Tell me sincerely Marylee, would u be ok with Ur bf receiving gifts on Valentine's day from multiple women?

    • @tianamiller6820
      @tianamiller6820 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@kamvaallan2653 they're not in a relationship they're just seeing one another

    • @kamvaallan2653
      @kamvaallan2653 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@tianamiller6820 that would infact explain a lot & provide some level of clarity.

    • @AbdulHameed-bw4cg
      @AbdulHameed-bw4cg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      kamva Allan Yes yes yes

  • @dheerendrapant237
    @dheerendrapant237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +718

    At 40 , a man has his princess, his daughter. Don't even try to compete.
    Plus, I think he made the correct choice. 😂😂👌

    • @codingiscreativity
      @codingiscreativity 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I can't say about whether it was right choice for the man but surely she did has some leftover feelings for him yet, she has her own life and multiple men as options. It would be hard for that man to replace her with equal valued woman who is desirable and have feelings for him too.

    • @samboriboun2213
      @samboriboun2213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      A man has to have sex

    • @smashmasternl3849
      @smashmasternl3849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@samboriboun2213 nahh your right hand is enough

    • @tigerish7tiger12
      @tigerish7tiger12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Steve was trying to be considerate , by being polite, if he was not a nice polite person he would have blasted her off the roof and she would be ashamed of going viral on internet, steve considers other person feeling.

    • @alexanderberyl402
      @alexanderberyl402 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@codingiscreativity HUH???? I know you don’t believe the crap you wrote 🤣😂

  • @justinopinion1455
    @justinopinion1455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    Steve kind of low key saved this man 🤣🤣

    • @mattslupek7988
      @mattslupek7988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep.

    • @mattslupek7988
      @mattslupek7988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Miles Doyle
      😴

    • @ayesha3024
      @ayesha3024 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣👏🏽

    • @Mousymusic
      @Mousymusic ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah steve is being a women man with wrong judgement.

    • @abhishekrai2373
      @abhishekrai2373 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She wants to build with someone already built 😂😂

  • @ashishnaik2310
    @ashishnaik2310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2615

    "I'm like a blossoming flower and he's like a fermenting fruit ....."
    Sheesh then why TF you dating him blabbermouth?

    • @riobetancourt8825
      @riobetancourt8825 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      INSECURE

    • @wtroupe64wt
      @wtroupe64wt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Facts

    • @antonioallen9504
      @antonioallen9504 5 ปีที่แล้ว +164

      Exactly. And she says she really likes him more than the other guys but why is she talking about him like that?

    • @ashishnaik2310
      @ashishnaik2310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@antonioallen9504 damn straight

    • @deficator750
      @deficator750 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Yeah but if the genders were reversed guess what steve would say? ‘The guy can’t get any better he should be patient the womens right blah blah’

  • @olisbecky
    @olisbecky 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1311

    This lady need to acquire listening ability...I think she is more of a talker and no one like a too all the way talker....
    She keep interrupting Steve all through the conversation... I wonder how she will behave in the relationship
    not judging but a subtle observation I noticed

    • @corneilmadison9436
      @corneilmadison9436 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      That's probably why he hasn't responded back to her, it's Valentine's day and I didn't get nothing, y'all only been dating for six months geez, she seems like she do wine a lot, no man wants to deal with that

    • @patrilla101
      @patrilla101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I felt the same way.... too talkative.

    • @kamvaallan2653
      @kamvaallan2653 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      True, Mr Harvey handled it well too., I was expecting him to say, 'lady keep quiet & listen'. She was too much.

    • @stephaniemwadime3329
      @stephaniemwadime3329 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Did you just say not judging then right a whole 2 paragraphs of judgement😂😂😂 okay Becky

    • @maxlisk80
      @maxlisk80 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      She is from New York. This is normal

  • @OutcastPyros
    @OutcastPyros ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Wow, that man dodged a bullet there. Steve actually saving that old man from that Karen 🤣🤣

  • @Azuosph
    @Azuosph 2 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    She barely had me but she completely lost me at the “I’m a blossoming flower and he’s fermenting fruit” like chick, you drunk on that wine and you’re mad you wasn’t the rose

    • @BlackHawkTejas
      @BlackHawkTejas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Exactly! Damn she says is 27 but looks like 37! She won't always remain a blossoming for flower. I don't know why people flaunt thier age as something of an, achievement or trophy. Damn girl it's a natural process for some you are the fermenting fruit! She is the RED FLAG. No wonder the guy us ignoring her.

    • @dillanversai6717
      @dillanversai6717 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      U can just tell that she annoys the hell out of any guy she's with,,,if she talks like that🤣🤣🤣

    • @liveeventsafrica5674
      @liveeventsafrica5674 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      SHE IS THE RED FLAG 😂 😂

  • @TheBryanmauro
    @TheBryanmauro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +540

    8 months and she is receiving gifts from other men? Ummm, I'd like to hear his side of the story....

    • @geremymason5936
      @geremymason5936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      No need. He knows shes entertaining other men and is treating her accordingly.

    • @tarysunshine3878
      @tarysunshine3878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She’s a singer. Men sometimes give gifts regardless

    • @howardcroft3748
      @howardcroft3748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This girl is young and keeping her options open... my thoughts were she got caught out by a man who has been here before. So she directs the blame to him and does not listen to the message she was just sent "Sweetheart, choose me or the other men"
      But like most women... nothing is ever their fault...

    • @bhimsenluchooman4046
      @bhimsenluchooman4046 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Tary Sunshine. Boys also give gifts. To their grandmother's, mothers, sisters, girlfriends, daughters....... ... If I was in the USA, I would give you a gift. 👗

    • @coreymartin3218
      @coreymartin3218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tarysunshine3878 When men send gifts to women, it's mainly towards family members or people who are no way a romance option. Also, 99% of the time when men send gifts to women who are a possible romance option, like the the lady in the video, they are hoping for something in return. I have little doubt that there weren't phone numbers and other contact information included in these gifts. The boyfriend is old enough that he likely isn't a fool and is aware of that possibility as well. If she honored her relationship she would not showcase these "gifts" in her home. You can refuse them. It's called........listen closely.......Standing up for your relationship. Secondly, she talks about what she gets from other guys and what she wants to receive from her boyfriend, but what is she giving towards the relationship?

  • @lee48lee68
    @lee48lee68 5 ปีที่แล้ว +492

    He’s not interested. She should move on.

    • @Andi91
      @Andi91 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      The aggressive way she talks would drive any man nuts in little to no time!

    • @badddd
      @badddd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She got other gifts and flowers from other men she entertaining...she tryna play both sides....he should just focus on his child....remember he's older, so he knows what she up to

    • @webb555
      @webb555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And I don’t blame him at all

    • @americusdeville865
      @americusdeville865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why should he be? She looks like a train wreck.

    • @peacemaker4062
      @peacemaker4062 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      And what should I do if would like to have a cup of coffee with you while listening to some deephouse and 🌞bathing on my favorite beach?

  • @eetthgvrfhhfxf2272
    @eetthgvrfhhfxf2272 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    They way she talks and expresses herself...eewwww🤢
    I don’t think you’re “boyfriend ” is the problem.

  • @brocsmith3917
    @brocsmith3917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Dang I wish Steve would’ve told her what’s up like everyone else in the comment section. She’s the red flag. You don’t receive V day gifts from others while in a relationship unless you’re too flirty.

    • @judith018
      @judith018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I bet he was thinking, “woman shut the hell up.” I agree with others here that if she left her man, she’d be doing him a favor.

    • @aubreevalantine9402
      @aubreevalantine9402 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think so

    • @marcycat
      @marcycat ปีที่แล้ว

      She's too out there with herself. The 42 year old man wants a woman that's settled and doesn't need every man's attention. Other guys give her V-day junk because she flirts with them. Then she waves it in the man's face to try to make him jealous. Men don't Ike that.

  • @dance4life1208
    @dance4life1208 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1964

    She lost me with all the v day gifts from other men.. she probably talks and brags about other men to him

    • @TowerofAboveandBelow
      @TowerofAboveandBelow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      She seems like a lot to handle. I'm 42 and I like some peace.

    • @arieslove6144
      @arieslove6144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      thank you im so glad to hear that come out of a females mouth

    • @voiceofreason4u147
      @voiceofreason4u147 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      U DON'T know that stop assuming

    • @badddd
      @badddd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      She entertaining other men.....if she was truly invested in him, she wouldn't want no other guys....if a woman is really about one dude, she's not gonna accept gifts from other men, the fact that she did tells everything.....this dude is older and he knows what she up to, he has experience...he focusing on his daughter which he should be

    • @Guivaxs
      @Guivaxs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      "I'm like a blossoming flower and he's like a fermenting fruit ....."
      Let me guess, this guy has some money, she wants to build a life with him because of that, immediately after she will jump to the other guys that she truly wants, she is angry because she must be loyal to him to accomplishes her plan.

  • @benj1236
    @benj1236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1954

    *The man is older and wiser. He saw his red flag and started exiting when other men started sending her gifts. The fact is that she's playing a game and she's mad he doesn't want to play.*

    • @tonyingram8627
      @tonyingram8627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Dam that was a good response

    • @ghorn1217
      @ghorn1217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Ares Lictor Why? He’s enjoying her, just not taking her seriously.

    • @kris-wj3wj
      @kris-wj3wj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      If she's getting a constant flow of flowers and stuff, she's hiding something. This guy smelled a cheater and ran lol.

    • @SSGTA440
      @SSGTA440 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Agreed....for sure, what I DO NOT understand as a 63 year old guy, is this incredible sense of entitlement and the desire for control so many of these women today seem to possess .....what is this? Are they mad?? Seems like so many go into this extravagant realm of panic... due to incredibly high levels of self loathing, triggered by certain events.....wow....this is nasty, and it is rampant in society. I should have been a clinical psychologist rather than a shop teacher....

    • @antoniolima1068
      @antoniolima1068 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      he wants integrity and she as none, case closed.

  • @luisortega5313
    @luisortega5313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +616

    This guy knows what he's doing. Honestly as long as he keeps treating her like crap and destroying her ego I guarantee she's not going anywhere.

    • @andremotivation6561
      @andremotivation6561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      EXACTLY

    • @tonytoxic5360
      @tonytoxic5360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      She does have alot of ego....😂 And i feel like she been hiding something and not exactly honest with herself

    • @51beak39
      @51beak39 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      😂 yep

    • @ah.l
      @ah.l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thats inside story

    • @didred2174
      @didred2174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That’s what she want so she can continue to be the victim

  • @ajh6319
    @ajh6319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    He probably realized there were other men in the picture and chose to put his daughter first.

    • @brittaniharold1880
      @brittaniharold1880 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      His daughter shouldn't be 2nd to anyone.

    • @ajaxjohnson7999
      @ajaxjohnson7999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@brittaniharold1880 That lady needs to realize she'll NEVER be number 1 next to his daughter! Daddy's little girl will always come first!

    • @brittaniharold1880
      @brittaniharold1880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ajaxjohnson7999 exactly.

  • @Mothana808
    @Mothana808 5 ปีที่แล้ว +700

    She is 27 !! Damn girl you look atleast 40

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      SEXIST AND WRONG. I wanna see what you look like!

    • @terenceholt49
      @terenceholt49 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      nofy bn just wondering why sexist you could argue in your opinion she doesn’t look 40 but I can’t see the sexist part, in my opinion she looks about 40 kilo overweight but that ain’t sexist it be same if she was he.

    • @CS-sv8fg
      @CS-sv8fg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@nofybn7794 insure fat pig!

    • @Mr.Eminem
      @Mr.Eminem 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@nofybn7794 lol swine spotted

    • @petestreet7535
      @petestreet7535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      She's gorgeous. Wtf is wrong with you?

  • @girukwishyaka
    @girukwishyaka 5 ปีที่แล้ว +510

    She seems like a girl I would not settle with. She talks too much with some kind of attitude 😏

    • @jesussson3467
      @jesussson3467 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      most western women are that way

    • @achienglilian6395
      @achienglilian6395 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea

    • @wtroupe64wt
      @wtroupe64wt 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts!!!!

    • @siennamillerbroadcast821
      @siennamillerbroadcast821 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You seem like someone she'd not be interested in.

    • @MsYoanLetsoin
      @MsYoanLetsoin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I see it differently. Yes, she might act like a girl when she talked back like that. But if you try to understand more, she's trying to be brave to talk and get to her defensive mode because she needs it. Let's face it, it's kinda embarrassing telling people on television that your man didn't want you. Some girl could be on defensive mode, some might have their voice shaking up a bit and some might probably cry. It's nice she accepted the advise / get the confirmation she needed to cut off the guy from steve.

  • @JessicaM1111
    @JessicaM1111 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    1-don’t get in the habit of collecting red flags
    2- don’t let a man tell you twice “he don’t want you”

  • @lexmarr5172
    @lexmarr5172 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I'm 43 young and Steve is a smart man what he really did is he heard the tone in her voice, her body language , her expressions towards the man and at the end he was really saving this man with his daughter from her...😳

  • @arthurgumbochuma9730
    @arthurgumbochuma9730 5 ปีที่แล้ว +587

    Haha will she stop talking and listen to the advice

    • @Christeenia
      @Christeenia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you!!! Too annoying! 😏

    • @MsRae-ev9hs
      @MsRae-ev9hs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes heaven forbid a woman should speak...the nerve of her #teamsarcasm

    • @davidgobrain497
      @davidgobrain497 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You 27!!? But you look 37!!

    • @neekie8079
      @neekie8079 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Arthur Gumbochuma 🤣

    • @wonderwoman66dp
      @wonderwoman66dp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sounds like she has it all figured out, so why she need to ask Steve???

  • @thabompala6524
    @thabompala6524 5 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    She called him fermenting fruit...says it all

    • @jpmartinez7853
      @jpmartinez7853 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Exactly, she thinks he's a gift to him. With an attitude like that I would've left too without saying a word. Shows she had.no respect for him.

    • @hyacinthdibley2420
      @hyacinthdibley2420 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      thabo mpala she's ridiculous

    • @dreday77764
      @dreday77764 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      He probably traded her in for someone more respectful.. who wouldn’t??

    • @peridozq9390
      @peridozq9390 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      She did?

    • @stevec3526
      @stevec3526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sounds like he has money but she does not respect him. I am sure the guy is aware of this.

  • @feliperodriguez6885
    @feliperodriguez6885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    It's funny how single moms prioritize their children and tell men my children come first but when a man does the same thing and tells a woman my children come first women get pissed Instead of understanding that Valentine's day belongs to the love if their lives their children.
    This reveals to this man that she is not marriage or mother material if she's threatened by the daughter or believes she is more important than flesh and blood.

    • @jackieruso6493
      @jackieruso6493 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I'll agree with this first part but this is not a men vs women thing that people always turn it in to. People who believe their kids come before their marriage actually end up divorced. Having a bible based marriage where the marriage is first is where children benefit the most. Putting your children first all the time raised narcissists like the way you're describing this lady.

    • @Livhappy25
      @Livhappy25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Valentine’s Day is not for your kids plus is one day of the year. He was just not interested or spent it with someone else

    • @Rtz89
      @Rtz89 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Livhappy25 It's not for your parents either. He doesn't have to meet her mom on valentine's day especially if that means sacrificing time from his own daughter.
      She's also obnoxious and is playing games. She is just mad he doesn't wanna part of her stupid games. He needs to dump her

    • @brittaniharold1880
      @brittaniharold1880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      His priority is his daughter, not some 35 year old broad pretending to be 27 who peaked in high school

    • @curiosityredpill7030
      @curiosityredpill7030 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brittaniharold1880 lol aging like milk

  • @Astro_War
    @Astro_War 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Fermenting fruit told me all I need to know. I'd have stayed away too🤣

    • @BlackHawkTejas
      @BlackHawkTejas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly! My GF saw this video & she said as a girl, she will too stay away from this apparently 'blossoming foower'!

  • @nicolewhalen6760
    @nicolewhalen6760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    Man dodged a bullet

    • @itriggerpeople4433
      @itriggerpeople4433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Fr, you can tell she had this argument with herself so many times, otherwise why would she bring this topic up on TV? The whole "I DID NOTHIN' WRONG" attitude is absolutely disgusting. I wanna be a father one day and I'm sorry but my kids will always come first, ain't nobody got time for you when you over here braggin about a ton of dudes sending you flowers just because they broke or ugly. Bye girl

    • @BlackHawkTejas
      @BlackHawkTejas 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nope a WMD!!

  • @MissBlueBeauty
    @MissBlueBeauty 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1286

    I’m not saying that I agree with the man’s actions here, but dang girl! Don’t ever consider yourself a “trophy” just because you are pretty or young. It’s a full package deal and you still have some things to learn!

    • @arieslove6144
      @arieslove6144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      thank you christina

    • @terenceholt49
      @terenceholt49 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      This girl needs to lose about 100lbs and the “ thinking she’s all that attitude “ my guess is he has enough drama via his ex and don’t need another princess he got his daughter, this girl says she loves his daughter “she seen her a couple of times “ and only been together for 8 months . She probably just wanted to go on tv and big up herself

    • @terenceholt49
      @terenceholt49 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @SARA wether this woman is fat or not is a subjective issue i would say by most mens and womens standards in the western world she is overweight maybe not quite obese but certainly borderline , she certainly never had the salad options unless it came with dressing . You also ignored the rest of my post which i think had valid points too.

    • @tosinakin2508
      @tosinakin2508 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@terenceholt49 Starting off with that absurd weight measurement didn't exactly help your point. From the looks of it, you either knew it was a crazy estimate when you said it, or you came at this situation with a biased negative viewpoint. Neither of those sound good for you. Using his daughter as an excuse is also terrible. Not only should that baby not be involved, but she also doesn't apply. The meeting her mother scenario could be excused with that, but the Valentine's Day scenario cannot. Period. He has no excuse for his actions. He knew what type of girl she was when he started dating her, and he chose Valentine's Day of all days to stop his romantic habits. As for her reason for coming to the show, she clarified that she needed validation and assurance that she was doing the right thing.

    • @terenceholt49
      @terenceholt49 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tosin Akin from your name I am not sure English is your first language either way you don’t seem to understand the various nuances of language such as sarcasm or irony . As for your opinion that I came from a biased viewpoint, we all come from a biased viewpoint that’s why they are opinions. Facts are she is overweight by any standards and the fact she knew he was older than dirt when she first got him buying her food fact she brought up daughter not me and also brought up she was eating chocolate and probably the flowers she received from others . They were the facts my opinion is she didn’t need to mention any of this but she did go on to try to belittle the guy and big up herself . She realised she was the side chick as others put it and just tried to embarrass him where in reality she just made herself look a skank. End of day the fact is fat girls are like scooters a fun ride but you don’t wanna be seen out with one . Hopefully this clears up facts and opinions for you or at least finds your sense of humour.

  • @d_3767
    @d_3767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I love how the crowd always voice their opinions when someone asks steve something 😂😂 I never see that on any other show 😂😂

    • @cp2342
      @cp2342 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know right love it the audience is always saying yeahhh or noooo otherwise they clap after Steve gives his advice. 😂

  • @Anonymous-ze2mu
    @Anonymous-ze2mu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    She's so mouthy lawwddd!
    I got a migraine listening to her. She is insecure, needs validating from several men and falsely confident.
    Poor guy. Bless him 😂😂😂

  • @NASAKOKoKMOmo
    @NASAKOKoKMOmo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    Girl , if you walk away from him you going to make him the happiest man ever.

    • @the_w189
      @the_w189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      yeah, he can always tell everyone he hit that and does not have to pay her way as a consequence

    • @memyself523
      @memyself523 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

    • @niveditabhattacharjee7362
      @niveditabhattacharjee7362 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not really...that is a 'sour grapes' response!!

    • @bigphil5665
      @bigphil5665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Take a bow, Zac, that comment was hilarious! 👍🏽

    • @faras5426
      @faras5426 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Now that is the best comment I am hoping for that myself for myself!

  • @jsmum196
    @jsmum196 5 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    "Don't collect red flags." You only need ONE to move on. "Don't let a man tell you twice he don't want you."

    • @memyself4376
      @memyself4376 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep I've learned both of these from Steve

    • @sabrinasheriff3751
      @sabrinasheriff3751 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cut the loss

    • @gouthamvarma381
      @gouthamvarma381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Save him, leave him alone

    • @As-qz5lr
      @As-qz5lr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Maybe he was looking after his daughter on V day if he’s separated from the mother. And men should be prioritising their daughter over their girlfriends

    • @jobacurini9744
      @jobacurini9744 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@memyself4376 keep believing that and you will end up single.

  • @Rocket9944
    @Rocket9944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    She's like a spoiled child!
    A total narcissist mess.
    I feel sorry for her future kid.

  • @thevanman4498
    @thevanman4498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Masculine energy is strong with this one. She also said something very red flag, “ I don’t want to build with someone” she only want to be at the finish line with a winner.

    • @juanam.3024
      @juanam.3024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree, the man lost interest bc of her masculine energy.

  • @brandonwilliams1851
    @brandonwilliams1851 5 ปีที่แล้ว +406

    She got multiple gifts from other guys.
    Remember men a woman is not yours, it's just your turn.

  • @pmbarro
    @pmbarro 5 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    I can see why he's not around that often. Nagging will push guys away.

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wow. Nagging cuz he don't do his job!!

    • @authoranulal
      @authoranulal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      true

    • @wadestanion4617
      @wadestanion4617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You can totally see that this woman likes conflict. She is very easy to upset. Not good.

  • @happygolucky9004
    @happygolucky9004 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I feel for her because it hurts to have the guy you like act in ways that make you doubt he cares for you. It's an awful feeling of rejection. However, I notice she cuts people off when they are talking and brags a bit. She might want to work on herself for a while including listening skills so she can get and keep a better man 😊

    • @jamelbrunson9615
      @jamelbrunson9615 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I mean , she obviously playing her own games . How are you still getting gifts from other men after dating this guy for 8 months .... I don't care if it's valentine's day . She disrespectful.

    • @Moiselle555
      @Moiselle555 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right, she keeps on cutting people and brags about herself. No guy is going to stay with such a woman

  • @rubanour820
    @rubanour820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    3:08 that women's reaction 😂

    • @mangohaeppchen3447
      @mangohaeppchen3447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣 Didn't notice that. It was an appropriate reaction.

  • @chisuwochabu250
    @chisuwochabu250 5 ปีที่แล้ว +383

    She's overwhelming, any man would run, hell am a female but I would still run from her company.😑😤🤧🤦🤦🤦🤦

    • @jackfavvv0280
      @jackfavvv0280 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Degrading someones age is a no no.

    • @Jane-vw5om
      @Jane-vw5om 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol very true

    • @francoiswilliams815
      @francoiswilliams815 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      chisuwo chabu 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣so damn tru girl...she’s over fueled this girl is weird

    • @farouqkhalil1743
      @farouqkhalil1743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's some real $h**.
      You have my respect. Not alot of people, let alone REAL WOMEN, see that.

    • @locoitzylove140
      @locoitzylove140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Idkkkk. I feel like its not right to judge her from this clip. Let her have a strong personality. Who knows it could be her culture or something that make her outspoken and bold.

  • @flowergirlpower1991
    @flowergirlpower1991 5 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    He has someone else. Maybe made back with his child's mother. The man wants you to be the one to break up with him. So he is treating you bad so you would be the to break it off and wont look bad. Forget that old man.

    • @diduknowfacts101
      @diduknowfacts101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Flowergirl Power you have a point.

    • @flowergirlpower1991
      @flowergirlpower1991 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you

    • @ObiVEVO
      @ObiVEVO 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Or he was looking after his kid because his kids mother was out with her valentine

    • @jessidawkins5245
      @jessidawkins5245 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is what it seems my bf is doing.is it okay for ur bf shud be asking when last u saw ur ex and what u guys talked abouy

    • @Zelielz1
      @Zelielz1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      No. You are thinking as a woman, who generally ends up cheating, we are not like you. Probably that guy just gives ger for granted, thats it...

  • @davidford3968
    @davidford3968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Man I can see why he took off. It's not an excuse when you have your child.
    As a single father, I understand why this guy took off on here. She has an attitude problem and shame on Steve for pumping up her ego, especially as a father he should know that KIDS COME FIRST!!!

  • @brittaniharold1880
    @brittaniharold1880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1. No one wants to be referred to as "fermented fruit" so that's a sign.
    2. I don't think he ever said they were in a relationship especially since she keeps mentioning that other men buy her things.That's a sign.
    3. He didn't want to meet her mother because he's not into her.Another sign.
    4. Many men with children tend to put their kids 1st and she can't handle being 2nd to his daughter.That's a red flag.
    5. She claims to be 27 and blossoming but she looks like a 35 year old divorced mother who talks like her teenage daughter and niece.

  • @faay8912
    @faay8912 4 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    How could she say hes a fermenting fruit when she looks freaking 40 herself, damn 27 is a lie and a lie and a lie

    • @jaredjames1989
      @jaredjames1989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Right lol I'm 26 thinking this is a 38 year old lol 🤣

    • @frances-salt7382
      @frances-salt7382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      She is obnoxious, you call someone a fermented fruit because of age?

    • @ShaunHensley
      @ShaunHensley 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She 'blossomed' over ten years ago, her petals are falling off

    • @ahz6907
      @ahz6907 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      at least she is 35yrs old

    • @sensimania
      @sensimania 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I was thinking the same. I thought that in this day n age people generally tend to look younger than they are (unlike 20-something year olds in the 70s/80s when they looked like they were in their 50s)

  • @nakialowe933
    @nakialowe933 5 ปีที่แล้ว +350

    I wanna know more about the "random" dudes that just "happen" to send her Valentine's gifts 🤔😒🤔

    • @etf42
      @etf42 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      shes not attracted to them because they have already pedestalized her. she attracted to the man who doesnt treat her special.

    • @jesussson3467
      @jesussson3467 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@etf42 bingo.....

    • @rolorobbins2933
      @rolorobbins2933 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Women who can see through the fluff are so far n few between. 💙💍. You will be well in life if u keep looking at things the way u do

    • @riobetancourt8825
      @riobetancourt8825 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jesus's son i'm a daughter of JESUS YES

    • @torisefford989
      @torisefford989 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That is what i am saying.how did they get her address to have flowers send. She sounds sketchy

  • @umarorick6763
    @umarorick6763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Steve just lowkey saved his show and also the man 🤣👍❤ plus steve saying about red flags was actually referring to that woman 🤣 nice play steve nice play

  • @ichimokutrader1845
    @ichimokutrader1845 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks to this show I know where women get their nonsense rules and convictions from. Steve helps women dig a deeper hole.

  • @AlienRider123
    @AlienRider123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Steve is here saying stop dating him after the first red flag which this girl has shown about 10 red flags in under 5 minutes

    • @francoiswilliams815
      @francoiswilliams815 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      AlienRider 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @johnlanier3616
      @johnlanier3616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol. So true

    • @mahdiislam9517
      @mahdiislam9517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Steve only gives suggestion according to women for views

    • @euginity1
      @euginity1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol...u nailed it😁😁

  • @blkimble
    @blkimble 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    The problem is she talks too much. She doesn't listen. It's exhausting

  • @yvettemarshallTWN
    @yvettemarshallTWN ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The Valentine’s thing is true! If your love interest blows you off on that most lovely day for women besides Mother’s Day, it’s dead. In 5th grade a kid named Victor Salcedo threw a pack of SweetTarts at me square in the chest-at my heart (!) and I HAVE NEVER FORGOTTEN the gesture. He was only 8 and even then he understood a girl’s romantic feelings. 💕

  • @poojagupta6682
    @poojagupta6682 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loved it - "Cut the loss and move on" - Brilliant - keep shining Steve, sending love and gratitude ✨

  • @brett8460
    @brett8460 5 ปีที่แล้ว +574

    He has a kid. Of course he's not prioritizing you.

    • @lakiiamccall3051
      @lakiiamccall3051 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      His daughter is his good excuse. Daughter or not, if he were truly interested, she wouldn't be questioning it.

    • @yomioj4754
      @yomioj4754 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @Allen Reynolds Feminism is a virus.

    • @lakiiamccall3051
      @lakiiamccall3051 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @Allen Reynolds No it is not. I am a single mother. And have dated men with children. Yes, things can come up with your kids. But everytime there's something significant? And he doesn't try to make it up to her. Valentine's Day and meeting parents are really big deals. They are signs of commitment. He just doesn't want to commit to/be serious with HER. He could have had flowers and candy delivered to her in his absence. Instead of being honest, he's stringing her along.

    • @arieslove6144
      @arieslove6144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      duh brett f.she's attractive however she's seems way too much of a hassle for him.

    • @brett8460
      @brett8460 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      duh Aries love, that's what I just said.

  • @MMGJ10
    @MMGJ10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Sounds like he woke up and didn't want her. She's a bit obnoxious. Or he never really did, but just wanted some younger poontang.

  • @pandemonium5557
    @pandemonium5557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She’s 27 and look at the way she carries herself- very telling.

  • @bumblebee7982
    @bumblebee7982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Steve --- a lot of ways you could counsel people. You give such kind advice & sprinkled with humor to help the medicine go down. 💜❤️💙

  • @Benjamin-David
    @Benjamin-David 4 ปีที่แล้ว +569

    Whatever he’s doing is working perfectly. He’s got a woman 15 years younger. He doesn’t have to invest much and she still wants him.

  • @coolmoe3289
    @coolmoe3289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    She's Playing Him .. He's Playing Her...
    It's Fair Game.. 🤨🤔

  • @rn2811
    @rn2811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I applaud this man for realizing she’s low hanging fruit and his daughter comes first.

  • @atlantic7949
    @atlantic7949 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I salute that man with courage. He’s a smart guy!

    • @AM-jr9lg
      @AM-jr9lg ปีที่แล้ว

      He kept calm and automatically , she’s deleted

  • @dumfriesspearhead7398
    @dumfriesspearhead7398 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    "When someone shows you who they are believe them the first time" Maya Angelou.

  • @bestmedever
    @bestmedever 5 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    This chick got some testosterone going on

  • @saurav0203srivastav
    @saurav0203srivastav 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The fact that she is invested in the man BUT still accepting flowers and gifts from other dudes, I mean bro wtf?!

    • @BlackHawkTejas
      @BlackHawkTejas 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly! And she is the red flag. If the gender would had been reversed god damn! All hell will break lose!

    • @ashishranjan887
      @ashishranjan887 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Most of the modern girls do this..... And their boyfriends have no idea....

    • @yanethmartinez656
      @yanethmartinez656 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No real man will take her seriously
      It looks likes she using others guys to receive more gifts.

  • @brittaniharold1880
    @brittaniharold1880 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1. She said "seeing this older guy".That to me doesn't sound exclusive.
    2. She mentioned that he's a father to a toddler.His priority has to be his kid no matter what.
    3. She also described him as fermented fruit while she's a blossoming flower.That alone is grounds for backing off from her.She's 27,talks like she's 19 but looks 37.
    4. She gets gifts from other men.Whether or not she entertains these men isn't the real issue.The issue is that she thinks it's ok to get gifts from other men and then brag about it to him.
    5. Does she really believe she's all that?

  • @hyacinthdibley2420
    @hyacinthdibley2420 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    *"I'm like a blossoming flower and he's like a fermenting fruit"*
    Obviously, she has not reached the fruiting stage and needs to shut up and listen.
    I was on her side...till she would not stop talking, and then made the comment above.
    Maybe the guy is the one dodging bullet here. We don't know what happened before Valentines Day.

    • @DragoMusivini
      @DragoMusivini 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      More like cannon ball dodging.

  • @johnarawlings
    @johnarawlings 5 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    That reflects why I am so HAPPILY single. :)

    • @Tradex420
      @Tradex420 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You just cant get a girl. Kmt

    • @sabirahmalika3335
      @sabirahmalika3335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Everyone isn't like her.

    • @johnarawlings
      @johnarawlings 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Tradex420 Thank god!!

    • @mbalmerx
      @mbalmerx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I use to be happily single. Then I met him, and I fell in love with red flags lmfaooooooo

    • @johnarawlings
      @johnarawlings 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@mbalmerx You should have stayed happily single then. Both emotional and economic HARMONY!!

  • @christianhenson6924
    @christianhenson6924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Him: Sorry I had my daughter.
    Her: I don’t wanna here these excuses.
    Enough said.

    • @andremotivation6561
      @andremotivation6561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      These be the same women saying it takes a real man to deal with a single mom...😆

  • @gabivargas374
    @gabivargas374 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    First “loves his daughter” after meeting her multiple times, followed by a “ No Thank God!” about having kids…
    Maybe he saw that red flag!

  • @ryanlordjanie
    @ryanlordjanie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    She seems like abit much.

    • @hyacinthdibley2420
      @hyacinthdibley2420 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      "SEEMS"?
      That's putting it lightly.

    • @Aritul
      @Aritul 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She can't keep quiet long enough to listen to advice.

    • @chuckbarieka1843
      @chuckbarieka1843 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mad she got flowers from a bunch of men but that's OK right mad she didn't get her pot of gold ha ha

    • @ysmithriley
      @ysmithriley 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahaha, KINDNESS at its best!

  • @AEvans36977
    @AEvans36977 5 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    He was afraid that for Valentine's Day, she was expecting him to make a commitment he did not want to make. The fact that he was avoiding meeting her mom was probably for the same reason. Two major red flags. Move on.

    • @tinychamberz
      @tinychamberz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's only 8 months tho, everybody needs their time. It doesn't mean it's a red flag!

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@tinychamberz No, it is a red flag. They had time. I guess your a guy who strings women along for 5-6 years.

    • @Rtz89
      @Rtz89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@nofybn7794 she was stringing other dudes too but somehow doesn't like when it's done to her.
      She wanted him to meet her mother.. Valentine's isn't for your kids but it isn't for your parents either.
      She is an obnoxious loudmouth who already insulted him by calling him a fermented fruit. The amount of respect she has is zero.

    • @Caleb_Marlena
      @Caleb_Marlena 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Rtz89 exactly! As a 32 year old single mom I also get him, he's looking for a future step mom for his daughter but this girl is showing her true colors right there. She has zero respect and she is full of herself. Double 🚩

  • @AtomicLegion
    @AtomicLegion 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you're dating a man, and he prioritizes you over his child from his past, that is not a good man. I don't care if you're the new girl and you want more attention, that man is a father and his priority should be his child, regardless of what day of the week it is. Especially if he has split custody. You signed up to date a father, you accept all of what that entails.

  • @samuraijack0876
    @samuraijack0876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Majority of this comment section calling this woman out on her BS 😂😂😂 faith in humanity restored.

  • @Codlegend4life00
    @Codlegend4life00 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I don’t get some people? They get mad if a father is a dead beat but they’re upset if he’s there for his child?

    • @wtroupe64wt
      @wtroupe64wt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Joshua Pierre 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 facts

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      VERY DIFFERENT. VERY DIFFERENT, BUDDY.

    • @ysmithriley
      @ysmithriley 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He doesn't want her! He is using "HIS CHILD" as an excuse. Plenty of men have children but also find time to have a relationship with someone other than the mother of their child IF THEY REALLY WANT TO.

    • @stevec3526
      @stevec3526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Typical, she wants the relationship only on her terms.

  • @shewearsmanyhats377
    @shewearsmanyhats377 5 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    If he ghost you on Valentine's Day.
    He's going to do it on special days like Christmas and on your birthday,especially if you let him get away with it.

    • @Ace8845678
      @Ace8845678 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I hate when girls who have the entitlement about holidays, why can't you surprise your man on valentine's day or Christmas day.
      Isn't there gender equality?

    • @shewearsmanyhats377
      @shewearsmanyhats377 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Ace8845678
      Yes a girl can surprise her man,make plans for the holiday or special event etc, but in this case their relationship is only 8 months old. When the relationship is this young we weigh everything, and how we are treated in the first 6 months to a year in a relationship is very important to us.

    • @Ace8845678
      @Ace8845678 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@shewearsmanyhats377 so do men, we weigh the relationship as well. We value how we are treated in the beginning of the relationship as well. Your explanation doesn't really make sense

    • @shewearsmanyhats377
      @shewearsmanyhats377 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Ace8845678
      Whatever makes you happy sir. Have a good evening.

    • @Ace8845678
      @Ace8845678 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@shewearsmanyhats377 please keep that entitlement you have towards every man you meet, you ll find your perfect mate

  • @d05wtt
    @d05wtt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ladies, if y’all are reading this, take what Steve says with a grain of salt. He’s telling you what you WANT to hear, not what you NEED to hear.

  • @setapart3452
    @setapart3452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just listening to her, explains why he is running. Dont blame him. He knows better, thats why he is on the run. She is the biggest red flag.

  • @blancam.becerra9393
    @blancam.becerra9393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She sounds like she’s offended that the guy just isn’t interested in her. The other dudes that sent her flowers are around her age just trying or are getting laid by her and the older guy knows what he wants and it clearly isn’t her.

  • @Jane-vw5om
    @Jane-vw5om 4 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    She’s the type of person any guy, girl or dog would run from

    • @everythinggirly2557
      @everythinggirly2557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lmao

    • @jaredjames1989
      @jaredjames1989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As a native new Yorker she'd be fun for the night, she's very masculine. Can take her to the football game as a friend lol 🤣 but she has zero chances of relationship the way she acts lol.

    • @zminc.8496
      @zminc.8496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jaredjames1989 hahahaah

    • @slatkislatkic3393
      @slatkislatkic3393 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      xD

    • @nai7876
      @nai7876 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dog 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @dawnjohnson8739
    @dawnjohnson8739 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed to hear this! Thank you!

  • @andreagrazianodibenedetto1464
    @andreagrazianodibenedetto1464 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Cut the loss and move on." - Truer words have never been spoken.

  • @gkenobi559
    @gkenobi559 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    So we just ignoring the other flowers from other men thing?

    • @Coronaboii88
      @Coronaboii88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      G Kenobi Right! Smh

    • @Jane-vw5om
      @Jane-vw5om 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I know right! Steve just chose to ignore that point. Frustrating

    • @michaelb.8953
      @michaelb.8953 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      In case you haven't noticed Steve ALWAYS sides with the woman. There is a term for that, and the woman always flock to him for validation as they know this guy will side with them.

    • @EruRoraitoX
      @EruRoraitoX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well, she's a woman, so it's ok, it's not ok if it was a man, if it was a man we should humiliate him to the ground on TV.

    • @michellerichardson3090
      @michellerichardson3090 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hes trying to get her to focus on the guy's action. Cause the guy doesnt care about those flowers either lol

  • @axestill7284
    @axestill7284 5 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Wait.....she's feelin some type of way about this man but its ok for her to accept gifts from other men??? Very typical of women to act innocent 😂😂😂

    • @francoiswilliams815
      @francoiswilliams815 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Axe Still she’s a weird woman

    • @cslcojoco
      @cslcojoco 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Accept gifts? Flower delivery shows up at the door. You have the option to refuse the flowers, throw them out, or put them in a vase. But neither of the first two options affects the person who sent them. What’s she supposed to do? She makes a good point that it’s not her fault if other guys send flowers. She has no control over their behaviour. Why is the comment section determined to think the worst of her without knowing anything about her?

    • @dancer22273
      @dancer22273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She said she's a singer/songwriter. I know men and women who are performers, like her, that have admirers who send gifts. She isn't necessarily dating the men sending her flowers. They could just be fans

    • @shamibrown2287
      @shamibrown2287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Typical females love playing victim too

    • @chrisrobinsonii95
      @chrisrobinsonii95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@cslcojoco Where they get the address from?

  • @bossboy191919
    @bossboy191919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That's the problem with relationships. Everyone has expectations and you have obligations.

  • @matildamaher2650
    @matildamaher2650 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Steve for advising these young ladies.

  • @JTDyer21
    @JTDyer21 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This is not a matter of age, it's a matter of maturity and common courtesy. Regardless of age, people want to be with you or they don't.

  • @amerj5243
    @amerj5243 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    She's a fermenting flower ! 🥀

  • @geremymason5936
    @geremymason5936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You have to put in work for a high value man. Hes obviously a high value man but she's treating him like he's low value. If you aren't willing to work for him, leave him alone. Go find a low value guy that will work for you. You have to show you're relationship material to a high value man if you want his commitment.

  • @InTheZone85
    @InTheZone85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He saw her red flags and wasn't trying to change her because she's broken. He's not going to waste his time playing her games. Steve's got it wrong on this one.

  • @juliem1930
    @juliem1930 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    😂😂😂 OMG Steve was so quick to say. Oh no it’s hey Steve. 😂😂

  • @rebeccabamford5505
    @rebeccabamford5505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Damn this woman can talk! I couldn’t stand five minutes in a room listening to her. And She’s too busy listening to herself talk to hear anybody else.

    • @BlackHawkTejas
      @BlackHawkTejas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      5 minutes?? I respect your patience level! 🙏🏼
      Mine will expire within 50 secs! This woman is the red flag!

  • @ryan_fsk
    @ryan_fsk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She feels pain that the man she loves is slacking, emotion sucks sometimes

  • @kamma44
    @kamma44 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Forgetting a partner's birthday or an anniversary I can understand. And definitely trying to avoid meeting a partner's parents is a no-no!
    But unless a person is religious, a big red flag is a woman who excessively fusses about a festival such as Valentine's day?!

  • @boingbryan8123
    @boingbryan8123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    When someone talks very fast, then it is a red flag......

    • @stevec3526
      @stevec3526 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No, its a black flag...

  • @_audioheaven4278
    @_audioheaven4278 5 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    It's obvious she's been planned to leave him. I wish her the best. She's young, no kids & can sing? Girl LIVE YO BEST LIFE. :)

    • @etf42
      @etf42 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      no, she is trying to convince herself to leave him

    • @Qvotes
      @Qvotes 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup. Sometimes we can all make up our mind but don't take a step only until someone validated our decision. Like a nudge of sorts to the direction we want to take.

    • @whiteheart5811
      @whiteheart5811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      she says she can sing...there is a difference

  • @arjun6358
    @arjun6358 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Smart man, saved himself a lot of trouble.

  • @donn6908
    @donn6908 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    EXCELLENT advise, Steve. 👏
    And funny 😂, while relaying!! 😂

  • @gandomlee
    @gandomlee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Steve you need to stop. How you know he ain't with his daughter. Would you tell that to a single mother. Hell no so go somewhere else valentine's ain't only for one person.

  • @KH-vv5dq
    @KH-vv5dq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    She's been seeing him for 8 months and is still accepting gifts from other men?!?
    Go Tom Leykis on her and D T B

    • @thecatnextdoor12
      @thecatnextdoor12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If she was getting everything she needed from him, she wouldn’t have to be doing this.

    • @rachelsclassESLEnglishvideos
      @rachelsclassESLEnglishvideos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What is she going to do with the flowers the delivery guy brings? Send them back? They're perfectly good flowers. Why shouldn't see accept them when she's feeling neglected by her actual so called "boyfriend"?

    • @chaitanyagupta6668
      @chaitanyagupta6668 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rachelsclassESLEnglishvideos Yeah she should send them back. If she is in a relationship, she must know better than to accept unknown flowers as keeping them may result in some poor soul being led and given false hope. See?? All it needed was some brain usage.

    • @rogergarrison4271
      @rogergarrison4271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thecatnextdoor12 if she's not getting what she needs she should be gone not accepting gifts from other men

  • @aplan4u997
    @aplan4u997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Forget all that nonsense Steve said. The Answer to her question is @ 1:35. That man knows he is in the rotation of men she has and he is no longer invested.

  • @frankd1156
    @frankd1156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Overwhelming is the word to describe this woman........hard to hold intelligent conversations even with a grass of wine.