Dating Advice From Steve Harvey - Ellen

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 ก.พ. 2009
  • The Ellen DeGeneres Show - ''Steve Harvey; Kurt Warner'' (Recorded Feb 12, 2009, WNBC)
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  • @janetramirez4566
    @janetramirez4566 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1379

    “We’re either playing with you or planning with you.” That is gold!!!!

    • @HarleeGurl
      @HarleeGurl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      He cuts right through it! I have his book, actually I got the e-book so I could listen to it when I was driving to and from work or just in the car. It's amazing and hilarious at the same time 😂

    • @zainababbas4826
      @zainababbas4826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That is disgusting

    • @isacece1334
      @isacece1334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@HarleeGurl is he the narrator?

    • @isacece1334
      @isacece1334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      O man...that's true...and scary

    • @dilarafataliyeva2904
      @dilarafataliyeva2904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How to know it

  • @JustineMfulama
    @JustineMfulama 5 ปีที่แล้ว +968

    Crazy this advice was dropped 10 years ago but is still so relevant!

    • @shadowsgate6903
      @shadowsgate6903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah ENJOY being SINGLE more until last day of your LIFE!

    • @MyVlogTherapy
      @MyVlogTherapy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yassssss girlll

    • @dr_grayyy
      @dr_grayyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ukr!

    • @Val-fh8bc
      @Val-fh8bc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That cos men don't change 🤣

    • @joneh9483
      @joneh9483 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Men wil always be Men thats why

  • @huckster699
    @huckster699 11 ปีที่แล้ว +508

    I'm a 30 year old man and I have never cheated and what he is saying is true.

    • @Sfw20brinoue
      @Sfw20brinoue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Where you at 😊

    • @deadeyehiki7317
      @deadeyehiki7317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@Sfw20brinoue 7 years in the past

    • @favouredqueenmadollar3485
      @favouredqueenmadollar3485 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Sfw20brinoue 7 years ago...check his comment

    • @ilovemylife2012
      @ilovemylife2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This comment gave me hope for my life :)

    • @omniasdairy
      @omniasdairy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      how do you feel after 9 years now 🧍

  • @GypsyRock
    @GypsyRock 5 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    He’s just a good guy man. I have read and watched a lot about him. Very humble. Came from literally nothing and built his empire and stayed humble and encouraging and funny. Appreciate people like him with great stories

  • @3sweetpeas2luv
    @3sweetpeas2luv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +990

    Everyone is laughing, but he’s telling the truth! Listening with a broken heart!

    • @Interestingchica
      @Interestingchica 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Are you feeling better friend?

    • @danielletaylor5103
      @danielletaylor5103 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Amanda Tidwell me too .... listening with a broken heart (and I made him wait 90 days) 😂😂😂😂

    • @LegitBitxh
      @LegitBitxh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I just went through a break up about an hour ago. I have this protective mechanism where I just shut down every feeling I had for the person, regardless of how much I loved them and I really loved him but I feel Ok. I thought he would be the one for me but I guess I was wrong. He isn't a bad person at all, he just has a hard time being vulnerable and showing his emotions and I think this is what ended US. I will be alright all I want to do right now is work on myself and be better to welcome the one who's for me. I don't want to make any more mistakes

    • @LegitBitxh
      @LegitBitxh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Forgot to mention I'm a virgin and one thing that I appreciated about him was the fact that he respected that and although he wasn't a virgin he had lived (as in, he slept with a few people before we met🙃 so he was very experienced) he matured enough to the point where he wanted a wife. Someone who wanted sex only after marriage which was music to my ears, even when we were close to doing it he stopped it because he respected me enough to not allow me to make a decision in the heat of a moment, he admitted that he was tempted to just say fuck it and do it because he was very attracted to me, he was turned on every time we hung out but his respect for me prevented him from listening to his needs as a man. He is AMAZING I never thought I'd ever meet a man like him. thought I would have had to convince someone to wait but I felt so blessed that I met him. We talked about the future and he told me that he thinks about different ways he would propose to me and he definitely saw us getting married in the future. I'm a pisces he's a cancer. We thought we were soulmates, he's everything I've ever dreamed of my man to be like but unfortunate, you can't always have what you want or things do not always happen the way you want them to. Was trying to avoid thinking about the positives sides of him because it makes me miss him more but whatever

    • @sairysv8625
      @sairysv8625 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah yeah. It’s a painful process. Amanda you will be okay xoxo

  • @theChristiantalk
    @theChristiantalk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +301

    Who’s here in nov 2019?

  • @sandrat7709
    @sandrat7709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    13 years later and his advice is still very true ! 👍

  • @sophisticatedbadgurl
    @sophisticatedbadgurl 15 ปีที่แล้ว +431

    "Y'all keep talking to each other bout men, and keep swapping stupid information" I HOLLERED!! THAT WAS SO TRUE AND FUNNY!"

  • @johnezepue2334
    @johnezepue2334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    Who is here December 2019

  • @nondumisosibiya5573
    @nondumisosibiya5573 5 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    Who is still here with me in July 2019?

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    • @leesawilson1
      @leesawilson1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @archiiepoo
      @archiiepoo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      August 2019 :)

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      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @ongezwangotana1400
      @ongezwangotana1400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      September 2019

  • @coveredbynobantu6082
    @coveredbynobantu6082 5 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    This book actually changed my life.

  • @MrDream-pt3gf
    @MrDream-pt3gf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    Who is there in January 2020?

  • @user-po6uq5yw3i
    @user-po6uq5yw3i 5 ปีที่แล้ว +523

    This is such a great book but I think the biggest thing of all is always trust your intuition. Ladies! Your gut feeling is always right about a man 💯%

    • @wendeln92
      @wendeln92 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I recently heard comedian say something like, "I think women's intuition is a lie, it doesn't exist (listen to all the women in the audience boo), then he says, "If you have intuition, how come it took so long for you to figure out that I'm an asshole?" You could also say the same things about women, men need to listen to their gut before getting involved with some psycho who is only after his wallet, use you gut and think with the head that is on top of your shoulders. Be very aware of what her intentions for you are. Is she only using you or is she really interested in knowing you and developing something, well at least for a while anyway. My first instinct is ALWAYS, OK, what the hell does she want out of me? See ladies, it works both ways., great huh?

    • @Victoria-gv3qh
      @Victoria-gv3qh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YUSSSSSSS!

    • @BabyTLW
      @BabyTLW 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's the key! Some advice is good, but follow your own intuition 1st

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Have a guy friend with you or a woman that doesn't like your type. They'll spot all the flags right off.

    • @manuelmagana728
      @manuelmagana728 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Dont agree with this comment. By saying.this you are saying.that your opinion is always right but who's to honestly say that you dont have issues within yourself that are stopping you from seeing a good man

  • @anastasiapena
    @anastasiapena 5 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Steve is a fucking genius. I cannot believe he spit that much knowledge in 2 seconds. Such an eye opening video

    • @alinas8003
      @alinas8003 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      His books r so good own teo of them and don't regret buying them

    • @WarpPal
      @WarpPal 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kelli R. Morris You do that with every man you've been with.

    • @kirk1007
      @kirk1007 ปีที่แล้ว

      Read the book It is a GEM

  • @miraile
    @miraile 11 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    You just basically described why he says hold out 90 days. If a guy can't wait 90 days for you, he's not worth having sex with.

    • @elizabethrussell5099
      @elizabethrussell5099 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Already

    • @victortaylor7737
      @victortaylor7737 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But women still give it to guys sometimes the first time.though now with all the diseases out here,I'd think anyone would know better.

    • @kirk1007
      @kirk1007 ปีที่แล้ว

      Honestly if they want you they wait EVEN longer

    • @sirninjaraiden
      @sirninjaraiden ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kirk1007 This was how it was back then. What ruined it is the woman that the guy waited for stepped out, so now guys don't wanna wait as there are men who don't have to

  • @jrwheeler81
    @jrwheeler81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    "Messin' up those flowers, diggin' holes..." LMAO, I LOVE Steve Harvey!!!!!!

  • @yeapeachy4487
    @yeapeachy4487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    How he lifts Ellen hands for a high five 😂I love this man

  • @ashalily5
    @ashalily5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    My now husband started taking care of me from day one! We met in college right at the end of the year. During the summer I was in NJ and he was in Canada. He let me know right away that he was interested in me and was not playing around. He wanted a girlfriend. Throughout the whole summer we called each other and talked ON THE PHONE. We decided to start being serious with each other on July 9th. soon after, he sent me flowers just because. Then for my birthday on July 30th he sent me Roses and a teddy bear. Then at some other point he sent me an amazon gift card so that I could buy stuff I wanted. It wasn't much bc we were in college but it was the thought that mattered. We have been married for 13 years, together for 15 and have two kids. We are actually better today than we were back in college!

    • @victortaylor7737
      @victortaylor7737 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very encouraging uplifting story.im a guy,in a relationship with a woman 10 years my senior,& we are having a blast,so much so a woman 14 years my junior nicknamed us 16&15!we kiss& hug in public& we love it.but I told her it's feelings that count,& we look for ways to please each other.God bless you both!

    • @carolsmart238
      @carolsmart238 ปีที่แล้ว

      So happy you found each other! So many of us aren’t so lucky, but it gives us hope for live & happiness! 🙏🏼💕🤗

  • @carolynlogan8011
    @carolynlogan8011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I learned this years ago when recovering from codependency. Never lay down with a man, wait it out. 3 months sounds like a good goal.

    • @erriaelizabeth6382
      @erriaelizabeth6382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yess I learned this as well!!!! Sometimes we have to learn hard lessons

    • @victortaylor7737
      @victortaylor7737 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A female should always wait,cause guys really what sex above a lot of things.i want sex from a woman,but what I've learned is that it's far better to have to have a man who has your back,& be there for the long haul,no matter what,but that woman has to do her part by finding out about him& let him know.Steve gave some great advice.

  • @kyrareneeLOA
    @kyrareneeLOA 5 ปีที่แล้ว +350

    90 day "probation period" and ask up-front what his intentions are. Yes! Men are either playing with you, or planing with you. Does your guy have a plan with you?!

    • @arethamcadoo6385
      @arethamcadoo6385 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kyra Renee T this is excellently stated Kyra

    • @shiwan45
      @shiwan45 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Stop letting men step in your yard wanting to taste your cookies .

    • @captivating50
      @captivating50 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      After three months he's been with other women. He's suggesting whore mongering. Read the Bible! Why would you want to think like a man. Who the f..k is Steve Harvey the comedian?

    • @kathysmall6303
      @kathysmall6303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes because fuckboys are always 100 percent honest right? Lol

    • @elenabob4953
      @elenabob4953 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kathysmall6303 Well if they are not, you waste only 90 days.

  • @vickymugambi4816
    @vickymugambi4816 5 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    Watching this April 2019

    • @Rita-yb6pk
      @Rita-yb6pk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Watching in May 2019 😂

    • @vickymugambi4816
      @vickymugambi4816 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Rita-yb6pk 😂😂😂

  • @BlackZethu
    @BlackZethu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +579

    who is still here May 2019

  • @thelittlethings678
    @thelittlethings678 4 ปีที่แล้ว +532

    Steve; "if there wasn't women in this world I wouldn't even bathe"
    Ellen: "amen brother"
    *clap*
    so wholesome this cracked me up

  • @davekooper
    @davekooper 10 ปีที่แล้ว +742

    This man is a genius.

  • @sheilagarner1615
    @sheilagarner1615 10 ปีที่แล้ว +444

    Love Steve H. Every woman should have standards. A man should be able to tell a woman his intentions.

    • @limfenyuykinyuy4861
      @limfenyuykinyuy4861 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

    • @athuaytol3346
      @athuaytol3346 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sheila Garner I love you there

    • @Szobiz
      @Szobiz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i doubt woman tell their intentions either

    • @don8668
      @don8668 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Women are not faultless when it comes to not revealing intentions. Most women keep a bird in the bush (to take them to dinner and movues if they have not found their dream guy) and continue to shop for something better. Even better most women always have a man waiting in the wings if their main target does not work out.

    • @johnezepue2334
      @johnezepue2334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And women should be ready to find out their true intentions

  • @brittneyikeda2344
    @brittneyikeda2344 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    His face when the crowd starts cheering at Cupid is hilarious 😂😂😂

  • @100samanthamarie
    @100samanthamarie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    Steve Harvey: Cupid!
    The audience goes wild
    Steve Harvey: 👀
    LOL

    • @iAmAuroraRosa
      @iAmAuroraRosa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @qamaraporch760
      @qamaraporch760 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LMFAOOO OMG

    • @sallyskellington6344
      @sallyskellington6344 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why are they going crazy on the mystery word? Does the audience get a free book? Lol

    • @na0m1fes51
      @na0m1fes51 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😍😂😂😂😂

    • @viviannguyen3260
      @viviannguyen3260 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sallyskellington6344 yes, and he didn't know that

  • @SouthernBoi94
    @SouthernBoi94 12 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    That's so true he's either playing with you or planning with you

  • @Liz515TN
    @Liz515TN ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I own his book and it's absolutely one of the best bits of information I've ever got my hands on!

  • @cathyt144
    @cathyt144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    im 58yrs old. the best advice i can give ladies on dating is this: how a man talks about and treats his mother will tell you everything you need to know. if he disrespects the first woman in his life,the one who gave him life,then thats how hes going to treat all the other women in his life. if possible,watch and listen to him when hes around his mama. dont tell him what youre doing cause he can be faking it to impress you. good luck. i wish someone had told me this when i first started dating.

    • @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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    • @DopeBoysofAtlanta
      @DopeBoysofAtlanta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Cathy T this is not true. His mother could’ve treated him bad his whole life. You don’t know everyone’s situation

    • @naijafoodie6205
      @naijafoodie6205 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 really

    • @Cheftabathawycc8018
      @Cheftabathawycc8018 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not true all the time, I fell madly in love with a man, that's 56 yrs.old man. He loves his mom like crazy, hick I love her. He has 7 sisters., he love and adores each woman.....And yet to treat a woman right. No matter what. I have to give it to him, he's smooth with the talk and actions at the begin. Then you name.......Smh.

    • @averythebutterfly
      @averythebutterfly 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What about amamas boy. He gets what he wsnts

  • @vietvipp
    @vietvipp 10 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    "amen brother" I'm literally ROFL

  • @rosemarygood7684
    @rosemarygood7684 5 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    “We saw you we saw something we wanted and we’re going over there to see how much it’s going to cost to get it”

    • @lauralauren2402
      @lauralauren2402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤯 Reality mind-blowing

    • @breakergirl47
      @breakergirl47 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When it’s high cost , they value it and it’s low cost they don’t.

  • @kerrywhite5253
    @kerrywhite5253 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Ellen is hilarious!!! " don't you let those men step in your yard"!!😂😂😂😂

  • @normafloresperez7697
    @normafloresperez7697 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Not only is he funny but he is very smart! God Bless him n his family

  • @itumashigo7521
    @itumashigo7521 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I remember I asked a guy what his intentions were and he was like, "Wooow I see you like getting straight to the point..."
    😂😂😂. I don't know why guys don't expect us to ask them these kind of questions at this time and age.

    • @xermy1648
      @xermy1648 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ...because you girls never did in the first place?

    • @lauralauren2402
      @lauralauren2402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Or "I like a woman who knows what she wants!" 🙄😅

    • @crystalthow5533
      @crystalthow5533 ปีที่แล้ว

      Guys brain are built different lol

    • @teresacalladine7479
      @teresacalladine7479 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes , tell me about it
      Say goodbye, if they don't want to know.

  • @terrancethomas9792
    @terrancethomas9792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Famous band sung these lines, “Thunder only happens when it’s raining. Players only love you when they’re playing.”

  • @aleksandra9404
    @aleksandra9404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    2020 and we still need advice from Legend

  • @brezzy7788able
    @brezzy7788able 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Who still with me in September 2019

  • @nalanibrooks216
    @nalanibrooks216 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The Benefit package and the fences really hit home!

  • @blondienicole9684
    @blondienicole9684 5 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    IDK why but Steve reminds me of a black Dr. Phil

    • @mollyhobiteme4984
      @mollyhobiteme4984 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Blondie Nicole It’s the Bald head and mustache, no doubt.

    • @monicagross5131
      @monicagross5131 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true

    • @prunek6840
      @prunek6840 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bold and a beard and smart and great advice! There u go.

    • @captivating50
      @captivating50 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      No way! He's not that intelligent!

    • @laurenhahn890
      @laurenhahn890 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Or maybe dr phil is a white steve harvey

  • @xtallllala1275
    @xtallllala1275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    “ if u are a Man U r supposed to meet the standards”

  • @shirleycarb132
    @shirleycarb132 5 ปีที่แล้ว +540

    Yes he is actually right but also consider this, don't be a doble standard society. Don't touch or mislead a woman if you have no future plans with her. What comes around comes back around.

    • @don8668
      @don8668 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I am actually cool with that as long as women do the same. Do not let me waste my time wining and dining you if you already know you are not interested. Better yet, do not agree to marry me unless you are passionately in love with me.

    • @bettyjtanner
      @bettyjtanner 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      SAD part is these Players play the Husband role so good even past 90 days & only way to see his true colors is just let his acting play out

    • @twilight2160
      @twilight2160 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @007nadineL
      @007nadineL 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A man can and will screw a woman but he sud tell her beforehand he's just looking for fun. It's on him to let her know.

    • @meganmiles4941
      @meganmiles4941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Actions speak louder than words

  • @Quintaline
    @Quintaline 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love this man,he keeps smile on my face.

    • @nosairabs5581
      @nosairabs5581 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      FOR REAL, I also did get introduced to matty via a comment made by someone and I can boldly say I got my moneys worth, so if you NEED HELP LIKE I DID IN GETTING INFORMATION??? no matter the LOCATION???? then contact Matty via **mattyw193@gmail com** or text or WhatsApp +12402843057 for SUCH SERVICES✅✅✅

  • @riley8429
    @riley8429 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    “..and 6 months later I was COOL with it.”

  • @anewloveofficial9137
    @anewloveofficial9137 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    This is something that each one of us should incorporate in our relationship. It's very helpful to me since I just reconcile with my partner and I don't want to lose him again anymore.

  • @Supablonde1
    @Supablonde1 10 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Thank you so much for your lovely comments. My husband does tell me constantly that he loves me,calls me a hundred times a day while he's at work,and is a good husband in every way. If you seriously want a good woman,you must be a good man. So if you speak vulgar for example,you cant really expect your wife not too.Not saying that you're not a good man,but there's an expression, like attracts like. You will attract someone with good values if you yourself have good values,and im sure you do!!!

  • @AlloftheAbuv
    @AlloftheAbuv 12 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Love the Ford analogy... He said "If it wasn't women in this world I wouldn't even bathe' LOL

  • @simplehibiscuslife1188
    @simplehibiscuslife1188 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Absolutely Love Steve! Listened to him on Oprah’s Master Class and his story is inspiring. I want to leave a legacy behind when I go, like Steve, so my children’s children will remember what I gave them.

  • @sportyshonna8435
    @sportyshonna8435 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Earth Wind& Fire... Fantasy!!!!y favorite song! I love Steve Harvey 💙

  • @TJ30100
    @TJ30100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Hahaha. I absolutely love this!!!
    He's so on point! Love his charisma too ❤❤❤

  • @bezasolange3604
    @bezasolange3604 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Watching June 2019. Thank you uncle Steve. I watch you all the time and I always learn something new. Thank you

    • @osh_hoq6217
      @osh_hoq6217 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💜💜💜💜

  • @malikmalik1141
    @malikmalik1141 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Steve is real and un-cut

  • @shaunnigilmore9391
    @shaunnigilmore9391 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Lol Steve is the man he always keep it real at the end of the day we all make mistakes nobody is perfect God gave this man a second chance and I respect Steve for that

  • @xtallllala1275
    @xtallllala1275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    “ how high the bar is and how much it cost to get there “

  • @susanwest8239
    @susanwest8239 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ellen many many years ago. You gave us a ride home after your performance. I'll never forget this time. You are such a lovely lady. Thank you so much. You touched my heart.

  • @19BlueOcean95
    @19BlueOcean95 11 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "my milkshake brings all the boys to the yard and their like it's better than yours"
    Thats what came to my mind when Ellen said don't let them boys in your yard :P

  • @dahianagalarza
    @dahianagalarza 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love this two together I wish they make more shows together

  • @aphroditeg2712
    @aphroditeg2712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Dude can act one way for 90 days, split on the 91st. Look at his actions, judge with a level head and move from there.

    • @rhiyoncegold8087
      @rhiyoncegold8087 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Trust me if he acting at some point the real him will come out and 90 days is along wait for players.If you pay attention to the details you will see the red flags.

    • @didiibearr
      @didiibearr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      THIS!!!!!

    • @meesamagill1193
      @meesamagill1193 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@rhiyoncegold8087 i once heard steve say 'dont collect red flags'

    • @alinas8003
      @alinas8003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Don't tell him u r waiting 90 days, don't give the playbook so to speak. If he asks just say I'm not ready yet or something like that

    • @alinas8003
      @alinas8003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Hawa Fuseini I agree that the 90 day rule is stupid

  • @Trelli28
    @Trelli28 14 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    his insight is EXPERIENCE and OBSERVATION. Not all men possess that ability. Also, he has not claim to be an expert on relationships. He tells women how men behave and why they behave the way they do. SIMPLE

  • @Saf_Shares
    @Saf_Shares ปีที่แล้ว +4

    His reactions after each segment was hilarious. The real deal Steve.

  • @cooluterme
    @cooluterme 10 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Two of my favorite comedians ever!!!

  • @skyler807
    @skyler807 13 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Boy I am happy my fence was high!!! I waited to find a man that was willing to work and climb to my high standards...

    • @skyybleu3220
      @skyybleu3220 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can u give pointers?... also.. what would u do if your bf/child's father cheated with his sons mother?

  • @HopeUnquenchable
    @HopeUnquenchable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    Ellen: Don’t you let those men step in your yard...
    Steve: Yeah, messin' up your flowers, diggin' holes...
    Me: Bouncin’ around in your bushes...

    • @mariegreen2454
      @mariegreen2454 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@theresaandrade8261 ux

    • @lup6974
      @lup6974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂😂 EXACTLY

    • @captivating50
      @captivating50 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Steve's been in weeds and flowers! Lol!

    • @lauralauren2402
      @lauralauren2402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣

    • @terrancethomas9792
      @terrancethomas9792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Repeatedly, in and out between those bushes.

  • @kymberlydavis8030
    @kymberlydavis8030 10 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    My daughter bought this book, and she was a waitress/bartender, she took it to the bar with her and would read this book to customers!

  • @dr_grayyy
    @dr_grayyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Who's still here in October 2019. 10 years on the advice's still RELEVANT! Steve's pants still killing me though. Lol

  • @81sexislim
    @81sexislim 10 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    Well as far as the 3 month rule go. It really dnt matter cuz a dude can put up a facade for them 3 months then be out after he gets it

    • @don8668
      @don8668 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      He can even get it from someone else until she is ready. On the flip side, women usually only made that rule for a guy they want to keep or think they can keep. They will still hook up with that super hot guy they see at the club or on vacation (sometimes that same night).

    • @BabyTLW
      @BabyTLW 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Truth! Happened before

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you don't know where he is for a fact, you don't WANT to know where he is.

    • @DieynabaNduwayo
      @DieynabaNduwayo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactely

    • @kimpatterson1318
      @kimpatterson1318 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But if women pay attention, I'm talkin really pay attention we know who that guy is. I got my feelings hurt alot but it works. Well for me at least and I didn't half ass the process which is where women fuck up. But if u wanna keep crying ur eyes out over a no good piece of trash that's your fault

  • @bellaanthony464
    @bellaanthony464 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was 13 years ago (2009) and Steve looks EXACTLY THE SAME in 2022!!

  • @vilmawilliams2428
    @vilmawilliams2428 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    We LOVE our Steve🌹😍❤ He's amazing!!!!😍😍

  • @BeautifulDreamerK
    @BeautifulDreamerK 11 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    The story he says in the beginning is true. It happened to me. I felt disrespected with how he spoke and had this gut feeling that I deserved more. So I made it clear to him that that was what I was looking for and I didn't want to waste my time with someone who speaks that way to me (one time offender but still) so I ended it. He definitely changed his act (which I wasn't expecting) and I've never seen a man work so hard for me... happily. :)

    • @jackie41083
      @jackie41083 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for this ❤ Just wondering if you are still with him?

    • @BeautifulDreamerK
      @BeautifulDreamerK ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@jackie41083 thanks for your comment! I forgot I wrote this 10 years ago! Yes, we are happily married 🥰 Steve is right on the money. Old fashioned works and you gotta be very straightforward with men.

    • @jackie41083
      @jackie41083 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@BeautifulDreamerK Oh, wow! That’s amazing 🥰 I’m so happy for you. I guess men can really change for a woman they want. I would’ve seen that as a red flag, but I guess if we address something, and they change it, they really want to make it work. Cheers to ya

  • @Mandinko23
    @Mandinko23 13 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    i love steve harvey, he is sooo honest, and just plain simple.

  • @stratonchallenga1185
    @stratonchallenga1185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We need more of this ......

  • @Tshanduko
    @Tshanduko ปีที่แล้ว +1

    13 years later am here watching and listening to this

  • @Dalit_Ray
    @Dalit_Ray 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Amen bro" got me so much🤣🤣🤣💯

  • @thejazzi1780
    @thejazzi1780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Watched Friday, Nov.22,2019 and this is prevalent today like it was yesterday!😍

  • @echozhao2679
    @echozhao2679 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Still here November 2019

  • @JennaMaBob
    @JennaMaBob ปีที่แล้ว

    Haha Steve's face when the bells ring! Hahah. Love it

  • @Angelic-tt8qt
    @Angelic-tt8qt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Amazing 😁, the book is so awesome! I love Steve Harvey's personality, and true words lol.

  • @LetsCatchYourDream
    @LetsCatchYourDream 11 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Playing with you?
    OR
    PLANNING with you?
    Which is it?
    Which do you want?

  • @sunnydays4flwrs
    @sunnydays4flwrs 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ellen said,"Amen brother." Loved that!!!

  • @jeonrabi4497
    @jeonrabi4497 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need more of this😂😂

  • @glorianelson1839
    @glorianelson1839 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Who is still here in 2019??

    • @nosairabs5581
      @nosairabs5581 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      FOR REAL, I also did get introduced to matty via a comment made by someone and I can boldly say I got my moneys worth, so if you NEED HELP LIKE I DID IN GETTING INFORMATION??? no matter the LOCATION???? then contact Matty via **mattyw193@gmail com** or text or WhatsApp +12402843057 for SUCH SERVICES✅✅✅

  • @sammie23breezy13
    @sammie23breezy13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Who here February 2020 lurking ? ❤

  • @saquoiag
    @saquoiag 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Still laughing in 2019! Steve was so confused when he said the mystery word LOL

  • @soni1109
    @soni1109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Best Advices ever... Thank you Steve...😍

  • @jacquelinemcabee2978
    @jacquelinemcabee2978 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love myself some Steve Harvey shows & advice

  • @virgobae4899
    @virgobae4899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Well said 🙌
    Thank you so much as I needed to hear this!!! Definitely resonates with me and making a lot of changes while single so when the time comes I know. Thanks, Steve!

  • @janellamurphy5665
    @janellamurphy5665 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have both of Steve Harvey's books. Read the first one. I will reread it again!!!!

  • @godiyatanze4786
    @godiyatanze4786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Steve has always been an inspiration to me. Thank you for being a success....

  • @TampaSingles
    @TampaSingles 10 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    Steve Harvey tells it how it is! Great information for women

    • @tanakinskywalker7089
      @tanakinskywalker7089 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don’t believe him. His advice will keep you single and unhappy

  • @debbyalicia733
    @debbyalicia733 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Yess even he’s a humorous person, but actually all he said are true! I couldn’t agree more

  • @bleueviolette4549
    @bleueviolette4549 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm buying that book!

  • @sharonmndou8982
    @sharonmndou8982 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    September 2019🙋‍♀️

  • @emi-bs9rv
    @emi-bs9rv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I. Love. Steve. Harvey.
    Legend❤❤❤

  • @MyVlogTherapy
    @MyVlogTherapy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Real as hell! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️ love it.

  • @hightowerjared
    @hightowerjared 13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    look how Steve looks when he says the 'mystery word' FREAKIN HILARIOUS!!

  • @efarmer385
    @efarmer385 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    People and their self made illusions are very entertaining thanks guys.

  • @milachyc88
    @milachyc88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    We don’t know how men think because men are not honest even if we ask them . They twist information however favors them, that’s why us women don’t know. I didn’t read your book but you give great advice from videos I was watching . Smart talk!

    • @laquandaeley7702
      @laquandaeley7702 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      milachyc88 laossoswelwow

    • @truthexposed839
      @truthexposed839 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      milachyc88 observe behavior and then the pieces will fall in place.

    • @don8668
      @don8668 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And women are honest?

    • @louid8
      @louid8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@don8668 yes we are

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do a background and serious reconnaissance. Do what you have to do. Got cameras now you can't even SEE. Your house, you can rig it up as you want. I stf would.

  • @zamacele6840
    @zamacele6840 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    13 June 2019 I'm here!

  • @LadrhynBexxSoundHealer
    @LadrhynBexxSoundHealer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    such great advice! thanks for this

  • @lakeshawilson2140
    @lakeshawilson2140 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I got to say Steve Harvey you tell it like it is have a blessed day God bless you and your family😊💯