Imagine being so self-centered that the idea of caring for someone else is horrific. I’m a trad wife and I love it. Taking care of someone I love brings me joy. It’s so silly. When you love someone, you want to do kind things for them…I love caring for him and it’s a wonderful way to show him how much I appreciate how hard he works to provide.
They are giving these "common knowledge kindness" all kinds of names. This is outrageous to me. This I why she will either end up alone, or with someone just as self centered. I'm tired of the attack on childrens innocence, being a born woman, men being the protector/woman the nurturing...fk these people I pray they find their true essence in life, and doesn't keep living in some out there world. I love taking care of my family, cooking ,cleaning, pleasing my partner....I do snap back at times...I'm learning to not come from that place as much. I'm not going to pretend that its OK either. Abortion isn't just a women's issue.... it effects many, it's a life that starts at the time of conception. They can make their choices that are available (abortion, being a masculine female, love who they choose as an adult etc etc...but none of this belongs in school..sexualizing children, pushing their ideals on everyone and waving itnin peoples faces everywhere it seems...what ever happened to people minding their own households, keeping your sex life behind closed doors...being a kind human being????
As a single man, I say this with some humility. It seems obvious to me that it is the role of both the husband and the wife to be in service to each other and to their children.
@@willworkforyarn4893TRUTH. You'd be amazed how many decent people are single though. It splits into thirds. One third marry the right person and it sticks, another third well... The opposite. The last third, life or opportunity issues: Abuse, sickness, slim pickings ect. And for some reason Genuinely awful people love to prey on the good the instant they become vulnerable for any reason.
As a 34 yr guy of mixed raced White & East Asian descent I've been single for about 17 years now because the women and people in general in my area in Mass are racially prejudiced against me because of my mixed raced back round so I've just decided to never date and stay single, also I fear what their parents and friends would thinks if they knew their daughter or friend was with someone like myself it's pretty terrifying, other than that though I personally don't think I'll ever marry or have my own family and considering the current state of America socio economic, academic and cultural decline that might not be such a bad thing.
@Shahn Khan To some extent that depends on the couple. There are multiple versions of relationships that people follow. In the case of my parents, my father ran a business and provided the income. He also did a lot of repair work on the cars and fixed the house and helped to plan and lead projects on improving the house and the yard. He also took time with his wife, my mom, and took time with us as well. He provided advice. he provided guidance. This is disrespected by many people but it shouldn't be. This is an important service that a father can provide to his family. Mom and dad built goals together and worked together to accomplish those goals. They both were and are a team. They function well together. My mom is a traditional wife and she is Very happy in that role. She loves my dad immensely.
I’m a stay-at-home homeschooling mother. I will be forever grateful for my husband for being our breadwinner so I can do this. I’ve literally never felt more powerful, especially considering the state of American public schools 😉. I tried working for a year during the pandemic and it just meant both of us were coming home exhausted and hungry and with little patience left for the kids or each other.
My niece is homeschooling too. I took her place for one week so she and my nephew in-law could go on vacation. I was exhausted. Her husband is the bread winner, gets home from work and jumps right in to run the kids around to their activities and make dinner. I say bravo to all of you.
Same! I appreciate the rights I have to stay home to be a woman and service my family. And for those who go out into the world and make that money good on you too. That’s called freedom. You do you I’ll do me and let’s be friends not enemies
Exactly. Being a stay home mom is already 3 jobs in 1: Cook, maid, babysitter. It's so much work - especially with very young kiddos. As someone who had fulltime jobs before my baby, I can't imagine trying to work full time and then coming home and doing the cooking, clean up, and trying to be a pleasant mom and wife through all the fatigue, day after day. Just, no, thank you. You can keep it, please.
Well stated and well done! You will find so.much more joy and fulfillment in life in being the most vital part to creating a family that transcends a single lifetime. Your husband and children will forever be in your debt.
In collage I took an art class where we were supposed to depict our dream life in the future. The professor went around and asked us what we chose for the assignment. I told him I want to be a wife and stay at home mom. He was visibly grossed out, crumpled up the paper in his hand and threw it at my face... It was humiliating. This was 10 years ago...I'm happy to say I'm married to the most amazing man and a stay at home momma who homeschools my 2 beautiful babies. I AM LIVING MY DREAM!
Hi, I am happy for you and your husband! Could you tell me if any of you had a previous relationship(sexual) before you guys met? I am curious if that influences a marrige, Thanks!
I’m 26 and when I had my son 7 months ago, I decided to become a so called trad wife. Previously I was an elementary school teacher, but I felt called to stay home and take care of my family. My mother and most everyone else I know keeps asking me when I’m going back to work and what I’m going to do to contribute. My mom literally said to me once “you just stay home all day anyway” As if I don’t contribute. As if taking care of my infant son and my husband and home is not contributing. If you go back to work and send your kids to daycare to be raised by strangers you’re doing a good thing for your family, but if you stay home and raise your children yourself it’s like you’re being “lazy”. I do not understand it. I’m currently pregnant with my 2nd with no plans to go back to work. I love being able to stay home raise my children myself!
I wish you every success and blessing in raising your family and being CEO in your home. There are many contributions to society which are unseen but make the world of difference ❤
It’s a beautiful thing. A difficult thing too! You are preparing the next generation to go out into a world that has been so warped and changed. And at this point we have to help our kids handle it. But also let them be kids! I homeschool as well. We didn’t just start, been going for 10 years. My husband works and he doesn’t expect me to be a full on trad wife. But I try because I love it. Some days it just doesn’t happen and I’m up to my eyeballs in stuff to be done. But I love cooking for my family, cleaning ( mostly 🤣), and loving on my family all the time. Life is so short. So I’d rather be with the people I love so much instead of out at a job around people I wouldn’t spend my FreeTime with.
Exactly! They keep saying they defend women above all but then they leave women behind in favor of some delusional man. Like what ? That’s why I don’t declare myself part of this movement anymore, it’s just f up
I was and am a trad wife for the past 42 years, however I can tell you on 2 fingers the times that my husband complimented me and showed pride in my role. He commented to other men how lucky they were to have a wife that brought home a wage. I had to grow a thick skin because I knew that staying home raising our 3 sons, homeschooling for 10 years and cooking, cleaning and doing all domestic work to make a strong home would pay off. Today my son’s and their wives tell me how much they appreciated my work and love. It means so much to know they appreciate me. And now they appreciate their Trad wives!
On behalf of traditional men, bravo to you for staying solid in your values in spite of not gaining the appreciation and cherished status you earned. It's always principles over feelings. Tough road, well done.
Seeing my husband's face when he smiles at me when I hand him his lunch before he heads to work in the morning starts my day off so wonderfully. Bringing him his dinner and he gives me that smile and says "thank you, Sugar" -is everything. True fulfillment is a great feeling.
@treespweese That's is so cute, I am happy for you and your husband! Could you tell me if any of you had a previous relationship(sexual) before you guys met? I am curious if that influences a marrige, Thanks!
I'm a 'trad wife' of twenty years. Not only do I do all the domestic chores (every single one of them) but I also help on the farm. I suppose you could call that being in service to your family, I just think of it as doing what needs to be done. My husband also spends incredibly long hours in all kinds of weather on the farm, doing what needs to be done. As far as I can see, these women are just looking for an ideology that makes them feel morally superior while celebrating LAZINESS.
I was also thinking that laziness is the main reason behind all this whining about traditional roles 🥴😒 Congratulations for being such a hardworking woman 👏👏👏
Same here. Been married for almost 35 years and the happiest I’ve been is when I retired and realized that house work, cooking and caring for the family wasn’t the awful thing I was taught. I’m happiest now doing the house work and whatever other job needs done at our homestead. He also does what needs done, it’s a partnership. If we don’t do it then what will become of our home? It’s not just him I’m doing stuff for but for us as a couple. If that makes me a trae wife then I’m perfectly fine with it.
I just "woke up" roughly 2 years ago, and realized 9 years of a high paying career, actually didn't satisfy me in the slightest. Realized I hated my career, even being my own boss, and was "sick of myself" with nothing actually challenging me. So a close friend and my incredible hubby worked with me through it, and I realized my actual dream (that I had smothered to death due to cultural expectations) was to be a TRAD wife. 6 months in, expecting our first baby, I've never been this happy!!! I adore my husband, am thrilled when he comes home and I can greet him and enjoy time together! I love having a clean home, cooking delicious meals, making meaningful friendships with other moms/community, and working on self improvement. I look forward to investing fully into my kids, husband, and community. I realized it's much more fulfilling to be self-less for the sake of others, than to be self-focused just for the sake of money.
I have been a traditional wife, mom, ganny and greatganny since I was 17...I'm 75 now. Sure we didn’t have many of the 'toys' others NEED to "keep up with the Jonses", HOWEVER, we loved, had fun together, homeschooled/Christian schooled, learned to love Jesus together, served others, lived on a budget and learned 'if something is worth having it's worth saving and paying cash for. We've always owned very nice homes and automobiles. Our needs were always met on my husbands salary, which was average blue color, because we didn't chase after the world. Now we are retired and paid cash for our 4 BR home on 7 acres with a barn in the country. My wonderful husbands dream. We have future treasures in Heaven with our 4 children, 6 grandchildren, and soon to be 11 great grandchildren. Life couldn't be more blessed. Being a stay-at-home wife/mother was the best decision for our family. Besides...someone figured how much it would cost to replace a wife for what she does for her family.... Cook, maid, tutor, doctor mom, seamstress, babysitter, driver to sports, protector, the list goes on. It was found cost was higher than a dad could afford. What they didn’t considered was LOVE... you can't put a price on a mothers love for her children... We learned if you truly want something you'll figure out a way to do it together. Oh...P.S. prayer works God bless you all❤
iT is only women that do not get education, no job, no life and you get praised for it because men need someone to dominate and control and yet you think you have sense. you have no value without men, now I get why most women get sad when they get pregnant with girls. Walking womb
With how jobless you are , I hope you have money to keep fit and extremely beauty. It is the same career women that your husband will cheat on you with. Men are attracted to intelligence not dull heads.
I think she meant being a wife and mother isn't her single source of fulfillment and that she wouldn't want to only be a wife and mother. Plenty of men would be depressed if they were stay at home dads and didn't get to pursue their professional passions. It doesn't mean they don't love their wives and kids though.
@@janicefinch3563 that’s probably true. My parents took turns being stay at home mothers. But I think my Dad enjoyed it more. However, my mom is definitely the better cook.
Even if it's true, I think the stay at home moms typically have great dads to stay at home for. When a woman is miserable I don't blame her individually, she might have one of those guys guys, that looks good on paper or from the outside but is basically an overgrown child. I've seen too many times, women just staying in awful situations with a false sense of purpose and feeling needed. No honey, you're just being used, and you should leave literally anywhere else.
I love being a young "trad" wife. In August, my husband and I will be celebrating 5 years of marriage. We have two children and it just makes more sense for me to be a stay at home "trad" wife. Women are better at being homemakers and caretakers. I don't care how offensive that may be to hear for someone. It's true. To be a wife, especially a traditional wife, is so demonized in today's world and that blows my mind completely. Why? Let me tell you... My husband and I come from broken homes. My father is your stereotypical deadbeat and my mother had no business attempting to play "mother." My husband's father left when he was young. Shortly after, his mother gave up her parental rights because "being a mom to the 3 kids she CHOSE to have was just too hard" so his grandparents stepped in to adopt him along with his siblings. We both wish we had a "traditional family" unit. I was raised by my mom but let me emphasize that I NEVER had a mother. I don't wish the absence of family functionality on anyone. I lived with a non traditional mom. I watched her be a "non traditional wife" twice and a "super non trad cool girlfriend" to multiple men. She introduced me to men who played "step dad" year after year. She toted me around state to state. I went from house to house but none ever felt like home. The only siblings I have are half siblings from my deadbeat dad and they are just as punctured as I still am by my childhood chaos at 26. In my opinion, the traditional family unit is best. When I think of a traditional wife I think of the ultimate caretaker who prides herself in the art of homemaking. She is consistently present in her children's and husband's life. She believes in social etiquette inside and outside of the home. She has standards. She radiates class. She teaches actual life skills to her children and devotes herself to her family. To me, being a traditional wife is the most rewarding route to take in life. I give my biggest applause to the husbands and wives who also come from chaotic backgrounds yet devote themselves daily to creating a traditional family unit. Despite the hurt we carry from our childhoods we strive to be better than what hurt us. We also understand that the best solution to combat that sort of dysfunction from continuing in the world is to practice being a better example for others to gain inspiration from. ❤
@Lv_Shef i congratulate you for being a traditional young wife 🙏🏼 even after the upbringing that you had and congrats to your traditional husband too 🙏🏼🙏🏼 you guys sounds amazing! Because you could have chosen the non traditional way! But since you saw the example of non traditional wife and husband in your parents, you didn’t want to do the same! YOU BROKE THE CHAINS! Now you are starting a brand new tradicional life with your husband and you will give your children a GREAT EXAMPLE OF A TRADITIONAL FAMILY🙏🏼 and they will do the same when they get older 🙏🏼 GOD BLESS YOUR TRADITIONAL FAMILY ❤️🙏🏼.. my parents have been super traditional they have been married for 50 years and all of my siblings have been in traditional marriages too🙏🏼🙏🏼 IT’S TRULY THE BEST WAY FOR US, for the children and our communities🙏🏼
It is precisely due to that affection for one's family, and the grit and perseverance involved that makes you and your husband rare in modern society. Society has rotted. How few people of that calibre are left now? Thoes with love and integrity as their core being?
Years ago my 23 year old daughter had an assignment in elementary school where they had to answer the question, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" She was the only one who said she wanted to be a mother. The teacher thought it was funny and the other kids laughed at her. I was so proud of her. She now has a Biology degree and decided to forego medical school because she wants to raise a family someday. She works hard and enjoys her career path, but she still yearns to be a mother. She told me she wants to raise her child and not have someone else raise her child.
Nice to see zero energy aimed at husband, father 👨🏽… because statistically they are powerful to keep kids mentally healthy and safer adults… But who needs that 😂
The problem is that a lot of those trad influencers are against what your daughter did. They think girls shouldn't go to school, just completely rely on a man, even though he may ruin her. That Estee lady has failed plans time and time again so she decided to just marry rich, she's a failure. Influencers are bad people. Your daughter is amazing though
My husband came home from work last night so so tired and sad from the never ending grind of his job. I will never understand how self centered you have to be to not see the sacrifice a working husband makes.
It truly is something to be appreciated. Husbands, with their sacrifice show how much they love their wives and children. It is a picture of the sacrifice Jesus Christ made for the church, in giving His life. Ephesians 5:24-25 24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. 25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
@@athenapoe3377 happy- and busy! lol XD idle hands are the devil's plaything. There's a psychological reason why feminists are known cat hoarders. Cus they never have any kids. It's a really sad existence tbh.
@@DekkarJr Proverbs 31:27-28 27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. 28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. It's pretty sad how most of the childless women seem to want to keep "fur babies". That's a deep level of idleness.
I lost my beloved "trad wife" a year ago, November. I refuse to jump back into the dating pool for many reasons, but the fact that there are packs of this type of woman running around out there is enough reason to deter me from seeking companionship ever again.
Proud trad wife here. My teachers and others use to criticize me when I was younger for not choosing a "career path" I wanted to be a mom. It's what I've always wanted and my phrase was always "I didn't have kids for someone else to raise them" I'm sure we coulda had more "material things" if I hadda worked but my kids were always my priority. My kids are grown and to this day I enjoy taking care of my husband and likewise he takes care of me.
Same. I had an English teacher who would get, quite literally, upset when my answer was that I wanted to be a mom. She's barrage me with questions like what if you're working, what if your bf/husband leaves you, who's going to pay your bills, etc etc. I'd be like, well first of all I'd be married and it's called the old fashioned idea of marrying for life not just because and second I wasn't looking for someone who I didn't feel would be a good partner especially with children. She never got it. I have my husband and kids and she's (last I knew) a miserable English teacher living alone.
I'm a first time mom and want to take care of my kids but what do you do after they grow up and leave the house? Do you then go work? I want to go to college once my baby is old enough but should I do it now or later in life?
@Random Female Opinion That's your decision. If you have the income and choose to be a housewife then by all means do that. If you'd rather go to work or school or whatever you can do that too? I was in an accident and I'm disabled now so I can't go back to work but I'm okay with that. Now I'm a house wife with a disability check. 🤷♀️
You are a threat because you show a contented disposition of love and service to others. Your lifestyle is a stark contrast to a life of self-centeredness which feminism encourages. That love and service to your family helps make for a stable home life from which you all benefit. But godliness with contentment is great gain (1 Timothy 6:6).
I agree so much about how fulfilling and enriching being a traditional wife is. I have 2 degrees, traveled several countries, had lots of experiences but I’ve never been happier than being a SAHMW. There is always plenty to do with running a home, budget, cleaning, meals, maintenance, child and animal care, appointments, etc. I appreciate and respect my husband and all the hard work he does to provide for his family. He’s an amazing, loving, generous and compassionate soul. He has allowed all of us to have a full and blessed life.💜
Feminism was inspired by the demonic to encourage abortion and destroy the natural family order instituted by God. Demons hate humans since we were created in the image of God. Since these feminist women are unwittingly channeling diabolic forces it is only natural that they would have wild revulsive reactions to seeing naturally ordered happy families.
Right? Why does someone else care that I stay home and actually raise and take care of my own children? My husband has a excellent job and I don’t need to work. I don’t want to drop my kids off at a daycare all day. What’s wrong with that? I enjoy taking care of my husband and kids. No one is forcing me. And that one girl even said guys are “spanking it” to the thought of a traditional wife lol. Sounds like a wife that cooks, cleans, and etc is something some guys have to now fantasize about. That’s a bit sad lol.
Been a Christian trad wife all my life. I did not once judge other women/wives/moms who lived their lives different from mine. So grateful not to be a hater.
Thank you! I've always assumed that a prerequisite for being a conservative Christian was bible thumping judging others and demanding that everyone give up their freedom and believes just because they enjoy forcing their views on others. thanks for not being that person.
@@kaybrown7733 but we must distinguish teaching from judging. Abandoning someone who makes bad choices to their fate is not love. The drug addict may think he has all the freedom in the world, but in truth he is enslaved to his vices.
@@lucasdarianschwendlervieir3714 It's not abandonment because we're not responsable for other people. Also judging never helps anyone it only makes them want to avoid you like the plague. The person on drugs has to.make the choice everyday to get and stay clean. It has nothing to do with your feelings on the matter. if it did no parent would be an addict because kids don't want addict parents. You can support their recovery but that's about it. I know that's a hard pill to swallow but its the truth.
I married a trad wife from the Phillipines. The mistake a lot of detractors make is thinking that the wife is in service to the husband, and that's that. It's only half true. We are in service to EACH OTHER. We are successful because we love, support, and care for one another.
Dear, the very definition of these Trad Wives is that they're advocating for a Patriarchal marriage which most of these content creators do. It is an aesthetic lifestyle of married women mostly from US, without kids whose sole purpose is to be a continuous eye candy to their working husbands. Their Trad Wife role is different from our modern home makers. It is the opposite of what you genuine home makers do. Housewives like you delegate yourselves to the domestic role because you genuinely care for your family, not to display a romanticised 1950s housewife who has all the time of the day on her own (because most of them don't have kids yet). Their lifestyle are far from the genuine homemakers who sacrifice or choose to care of their home and be with their kids most of the time.
@@miming6377 who cares what they choose to portray. Don't like it? Don't live it. Don't be pissed at them because you don't want to live up to the standards they set for THEMSELVES. Let's call it what it really is. Jealousy.
@@papabird4425 I'm not obsessing with their style. I'm correcting your misconception of the Traditional Wife trend on tiktok versus your house wife. You said it yourself, "you are in service to each other". But the Trad Wife trend does not do that, they advocate that it is wife's duty to be of service to her husband since he is feeding her. It is not a reciprocating relationship.o
I am very far away from being a trad wife (just learned the term tbh) but I am really glad so many women in the comments here are proud to be one and happily enjoy their life with their husbands. I am not from the US and I wasnt aware it is such a topic for women over there. You make your choices for yourself and your families and I think there is absolutely no need to explain yourself to anybody that makes other choices. Greets from Europe 🙋♀️
I’m 17 but was raised left wing. I had a transgender phase and thought I was bisexual at one point. But now I’m no longer bi and embracing femininity. However I really want to be a tradwife. The other week, I spent an entire day living like that (besides taking care of children), and I hadn’t been happier. I can’t wait to have my own family and serve my man until the day I die
Right..."Colonel Based" who makes a large amount of RDR2 videos is a 17 year old girl who wants to be a trad wife after spending an entire *day* "traditionally". Right.
@@bobtheball5384 Bro... If you actually took the time to listen to some of the videos on her channel and notice some of the comments. It checks out. She's been consistent in what she's expressing. Mentions her age, her prior identification as a trans boy, and so on... All it took was a quick 2 minute glance to get all of that. Guess you spent less time before you jumped to conclusions? Not sure why you're out here being an armchair skeptic. Like at least dig a little deeper rather than prematurely judge based off your assumptions on what someone should sound or look like in order to align with what they're expressing....Even then why bother? Sometimes I do wonder why people get off on casting doubt and skepticism on the experiences of strangers they barely know on the internet. The name is probably a remnant of how she used to identify or it just still feels like a cool name to have lol. Also, kids are playing all kinds of games nowadays regardless of age or gender... Sometimes it doesn't take much more than the seeds being planted in your past and them being watered by a momentary experience to realize you might want a different kind of life. Extraordinary changes are often preceded by a journey that slowly builds and culminates in a very interesting experience that marks a transition from one chapter of your life to another.
@@bobtheball5384 don’t forget to subscribe! Also, believe it or not, it’s hard to swiftly change up your lifestyle from getting everything handed to you, your parents cooking for you and washing your clothes, laying in bed eating snacks and playing video games to living traditionally. I’ve spent a long time living one way, and it’s going to take a while to get used to living a different way
I'm 23, from the uk and there's nothing I want more than to get married to a good Christian man and become a mum and raise a family while also taking care of my parents and sister 😊
I don't know if I would be a trad wife someday or not but even if I decided not to be one i think it's ridiculous if i were and just bully people like you who are trad wives.. it's called respect which I've noticed a lot of people lack these days.. while I might not end up one but if you like it I'm genuinely happy for you
@@XxLostFinalGirlxX Same, it might be for me, or it might not. If anything, I think I'd want to be the one working and supporting us financially, and hubby can be a stay at home dad. I guess it's just my personality. But I wouldn't shame anyone who wants that lifestyle of traditional gender roles. If anything, it's kind of ideal for a family, it's just not for me. I don't understand why people can't just let people live the way they want.
Hi, I am happy for you and your husband! Could you tell me if any of you had a previous relationship(sexual) before you guys met? I am curious if that influences a marrige, Thanks!
@@rafaelbarbosa7423 Yes, both of us. Sex is better as a married couple because you're more comfortable with each other. As saved Christians, though, we wish we would have waited.
My mother was criticized for wanting to be a mom when she grew up. She ended up having me early in her adult years and committed to being a mom for me. Now my mother is a happy Christian Trad wife and mother of eight children, all with the same man who is a Trad husband. We live a happy and God blessed life, if she had listened to people tell her “being a mom was not a good job” than we wouldn’t have the life we do now.
People have been going after the traditional wife since the 60's. If you can afford to stay home, raise your family, and take care of your husband - DO IT! I have mostly been a Homemaker (work part time now) and it's fulfilling and worthwhile work.
Being a trad wife is what saved my family from going under financially. Honestly the fact that people argue "if you can afford it" frustrates me a bit. Most women I know ask their families to sacrifice time and money to raise their kids, to care for the house...they say they "need" to work but it actually is only ever to have the newest expensive tech gadgets etc. It's never actual need. It's want I just wish they would be honest. (They must have never passed pre-K social studies...). It's not a woman's job to mother a man. I take care of my husband in the same ways he takes care of me, or similar. It takes effort to balance it, but if you care about one another and about family.. especially as a Christian we are to serve one another (Christians, people, not just husband and wife). We each have our jobs, mine is in the home, but he still respects me. I have the job of chef, maid, teacher (homeschool), and obviously other wifely duties besides being a mother. He has husbandly duties, supports me (similar to how I support him), father duties, more maintenance/handyman tasks, and his career outside the home. I wanted to get my PhD when I found out I was pregnant. I also had apathy for the father of the child. Instead of being selfish I knew I had to be responsible, to buckle down and make the best out of it. We got married. I didn't return to school because it was going to COST my family too much. It would not pay off. IMO nothing can make up for missing out on raising your children. Especially considering the let down and abuse of the public school system. It's one way my husband misses out sometimes. But he gets to actually miss out less because he doesn't have to pick up slack from me working outside the home, from me being late because I have a meeting....etc. No extra income twords commute and suits and lunches etc. I have more time to be smart about budgeting, etc. It's efficient. The families I've seen that have two parents working, have more issues with their kid's attitude problems, academic "don't have any idea" why or how it's happening, they barely know their kids, they never have time to clean properly, to be healthy......somehow never have enough money yet we do.....and my husband is not in a high paying job. So I agree with your overall sentiment, but it's actually more cost effective most times for a woman to stay home. Also beneficial for the children of the woman is healthy (naturally balanced in estrogen etc). My husband and I have a good hormonal balance and he isn't as capable of handling the day-to-day emotional growth and challenges as I am. Once again- it's more efficient for me to teach my child since I know them and understand what will work best and bypass most pointless methods. I had to sacrifice, as did my husband...he can't just sit back and play video games and stay in minimum wage work. Being married and becoming parents we agreed to GROW together and to push one another to be better. I think that's what TRAD wives/husband's; MARRIAGE is about and how it should be. Once I am older and if my special needs child is independent enough, I will be starting my own business. That's when I think it's sensible for a mother/wife to have a career. Thanks for reading. 🩷✨😆
My wife and I both work. But just as I feel it's my duty to be the primary breadwinner, be supportive and protective, fix things around the house, be the voice of direction and logic, etc; she takes great pride in being my biggest champion, elevating my life, and doing those things that make my life easier and more enjoyable. When she cooks dinner or brings me a drink, she doesn't look at it as demeaning or as servitude-she looks at it as doing her part to maintain the relationship. It's a shame that so many of these feminist women think that doing anything for or even being nice to a man is somehow subservient or "old-fashioned". Then they wonder why no man wants to deal with them for more than a night.
In the current economy, I think we'll see fewer families able to swing a single income. My husband and I decided that for now, my working part time around most of my homemaking duties, I'd work. There are instances where affordability does come into play, not able to live at X luxury price tag.
@@ari3lz3pp idk I really don't think your statement of "its more cost effective most times" is true. That's going to totally depend on what your husband does and where you live. Where I live we can afford our current mortgage on 1 income, however having family of multiple kids in this house would be difficult as it's small. The "next size up" house if you will, would require 2 incomes for the mortgage. And thats where prices sit right now, who knows where they'll be when we're looking to move.
UNFORTUNATELY NOT EVERYONE FEELS LIKE A LAZY ASS WALKING WOMB. PEOPLE ACTUALLY WANT WORK AND GET EDUCATION INSTEAD OF WASTING AWAY ON A MAN AND CLAIMING HOMEMAKER AS A COVERUP
Traditional Wives Rule! Ive been a happy Traditional Wife for 51 years. Never had to work full time, raised my own children, cooked my own meals ( better than take out) . Worked part time at a job that made me happy. Ideal life!
Being a traditional woman myself I honestly can't begin to fathom how an entire culture can place such hostility on a lifestyle and moral issue when they claim to be so tolerant, all while screaming to the world that they, the majority, are so sorely oppressed. I'm in my early twenties, and I would love to be with a husband someday who is willing and able to provide for the family while I raise and teach our children. I think God has to come first in a marriage, and caring for your family is one of the most moral and fulfilling callings... But it's difficult to find traditional men these days, as I'm sure it is for women. I hope the best for the survival of this culture and traditional families!
As an older woman, I am struck by the fact that we older women in the church are to teach the younger women with respect to loving their families and their character: The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. Titus 2:3-4 God's blueprint for marriage and family is timeless and cannot be improved upon. Feminism, which encourages women to have full-time careers and to fulfill personal ambitions, deprives children of their mothers and men of their wives. Feminism wrecks homes and marriages from within as it demands the best of a women's time, energy, and affection!
Keep sticking to your faith and your moral standards while out there in the dating world. The best thing my husband did for me while we were dating and getting to know eachother, was sticking to his beliefs and sharing them with me, answering all of my questions and not judging me for them. It brought me back to Jesus and it’s laid a strong foundation for our marriage. ❤
@@sdlorah6450 I agree with a lot of what you said! These women act like they only have one choice! Women can still have careers. All of life's passions can still fit into their lives. But it takes planning. And at the end of the day if they don't want homes, husbands and children, then that's ok too! God never demanded that every person get married, nor every woman have children!
The best advice I could give you is: when you get married, if you are both working with no children, live off your husband’s salary and put yours in a savings account. That way, when you do have children you will already be able to live off one salary. The savings could be used to put a down payment on a house.
I've never heard the term "trad wife" until now. Wow. I'm a traditional wife and mother and feel so fortunate that I was able to be one. I was able to nurture and watch my children as they grew up and I wouldn't have traded that for anything. It wasn't always easy. Most women have to work. Actually I worked part time most of the years so I feel like I had the best of both worlds. When I wasn't working though I was not ashamed of being a trad wife. I felt honored.
I don't know if I would be a trad wife someday or not but even if I decided not to be one i think it's ridiculous if i were and just bully people like you who are trad wives.. it's called respect which I've noticed a lot of people lack these days.. while I might not end up one but if you like it I'm genuinely happy for you
Not sure I count as a "trad wife". I have 7 kids and stayed home with them for 17 years. I now work at a job I love but still do most of the traditional roles. My husband works hard to provide for us and I totally appreciate him. I'm not a great housekeeper, but he always has clean clothes and dinner.
That's still traditional. Your kids are grown so that gives you time to have a job. I plan to do that once my kids are grown as well. I have 6 kids and my little one is only 3.
I've done both and as I have gotten older I appreciate more and more the choice to be home as the work space got more hostile yearly. I use to work at least 2 jobs so I could leave one if I really hated the other and it got to a point I just couldn't find a job where I was happy and downsized and I'm happier at home
My mother is a trad wife. She stayed at home, raised me and my siblings while my dad worked. Yes, things did get overwhelming at times but overall she was a very happy woman and felt fulfilled with her life. I’m so thankful to not have been to a modern leftist feminist and feel sorry for those who were.
Yeah. You're fortunate you had that. And one thing I've noticed (which makes me grateful I'm not a leftist or feminist) is that these type of women seem to always be angry and hateful. And I just can't imagine living that way. Such a waste.
There are plenty of women that stay home and are happy and there are plenty that don't and are happy. Statistically unmarried women without children tend to be happier (in general). Left wing women want women to have the choice and not feel pressured to choose the traditional life if that's not what they want. One of the women in this video was a stay at home mom.
@@janicefinch3563 Hmm. So I haven't seen stats on only women staying home or working, but I did see an interesting one about couples with and without kids, which could slightly relate to a woman staying home vs working. It said that married couples without kids tended to be happier overall in their younger yrs vs couples with kids. But...later on in life the couples WITH kids tended to be happier than those without. In other words, having kids in the house does make you overall less happy, however, once they're out of the house and giving you grandkids, and possibly even making sure you're doing ok, you tend to be happier than older couples without them . (Im married and don't have kids so that makes me kinda sad. But is what it is. At least I'm very happy now.). Anyway I would say that tends to correlate with what you said. That potentially younger working women without kids would be happier overall, than those at home with kids. But that in time that would shift to the opposite.
As a woman, (a real one) I must say I really do not understand this logic. I have never in my life felt that I was pressured or expected to have a family or stay at home. I started out as a working single Mother. Then became a working married Mother. Just a few years ago became a married "trad Mom". I stay home and take care of our family. I did that by choice. I love it. I am grateful to be able to take care of my family and spend time with my kids while they're still at home. I have yet to witness any type of societal pressure to do what I love and am grateful to do.
I’m a former member of the “church of woke” and I love staying at home and raising my kids. It’s way more exhausting than any job I’ve ever had (of which I’ve had many) but it’s where I’m meant to be. It is incredibly meaningful and fulfilling. Here in the Seattle area it is looked down upon to be at home with the kids. I almost didn’t even have children because the culture here is so career driven. Luckily I snapped out of it before it was too late and have two beautiful children. It is such a relief to let go of others’ expectations of how I should live. I of course have more to my life than my children and husband, and continue to make time for developing new skills and pursuing interests like sewing, taking online classes, making music, etc. I’m genuinely happier now as a Christian, moderate/rightish-leaning woman than I ever was as an extreme left liberal in a perpetual state of victimhood and misery. The “multicultural awareness” class I was required to take for a degree here would call that “retreating into your whiteness.” What a clever way to prevent people from leaving your religion.
I have the exact same story of leaving the church of woke and becoming a SAHM. Except I'm half white so I'd only be able to retreat half-way into my half-whiteness 😂
Chose the person wisely with whom you plan to spend your life with. It's a commitment for life & should ve taken seriously. If u have a great partner who appreciates u , u will have kids with great value & a wonderful life ♥️♥️♥️
I'm a proud trad wife, and this was hilarious to watch as I made dinner. I'm praying that they discover just how precious womanhood is and that they embrace God's role for them to nurture and support their husbands and their families.
theyre too scared and "traumatized" to settle down with a good man. They fear the soap opera abuser so badly and want to be right about his existence that they just assume the worst and believe it
NOT EVERY WOMAN IS JOBLESS OR LOW SELFESSTEEMED SO MUCH SO THAT THEY WANT TO BE SLAVES. LIKE GOD WHY DID YOU. MAKE WOMEN, THEY ARE SO BRAINLESS. PRECIOUS WOMANHOOD MORE LIKE DOMESCTIC SLAVES
Happy trad wife here! Love it! Have two beautiful babies that I get to take care of and not send them to a daycare or someone else to raise. My hubby provides for us so I do my part around the house and with the children. We were at a family get together recently and all the men were talking about their responsibilities around the house like dishes and laundry and my hubby was just quiet because he doesn’t have to do that lol I was so proud. Of course he is a kind human so if ever I need help he jumps right in. He’s also an amazing dad ❤ and of course he fixes anything that needs fixing. I love our life and I’m all about it ❤
Proud TradWife here. Not only was I a stay-at-home mom for years, I also catechized my kids, volunteered at their elementary school, and homeschooled my youngest for a while. I regret nothing.
Proud traditional wife here. I keep the home, homeschool our kids, and do stereotypical “wife” things. My husband owns a business and takes care of our finances. It’s really such a good life. I feel so bad for these poor deluded women. They are really missing out.
I had no idea that my role as a homemaker put the fear of hell into others, rawr! But seriously, I am beyond blessed that I get to stay home and take care of our children and home while my husband works the long hard hours. I am more than happy to make their every meal, and run every load of laundry. Also my entire focus is on God, followed by my husband, then children, and that’s why it works for us.
I am a trad wife with a twist...I work outside the home too. I cook, clean, budget household spending, take care of laundry and go food shopping. My husband works 12 hr. shifts, more than me, and I want him to relax when he comes home because if roles were reversed, I would hope for the same. On his days off, he'll help me cook, clean dishes, and do yard work. I am the only one of my friends who is in a happy marriage (those who are married, that is).
@Raven Carlton If my workweek is busy, I try to cook enough for two days, especially if I know by the time I come home, my husband will be leaving for work. It's also nice because it's one less day of cooking.
6:55 The term "trad wife" is a shortened version of "traditional wife," which refers to a woman who adheres to traditional gender roles within a marriage or household. The term gained popularity in online communities, particularly among conservative and traditionalist circles, where it is used to describe women who prioritize traditional values such as marriage, motherhood, and domestic duties over pursuing careers or feminist ideals. The exact origin of the term is unclear, but it gained mainstream attention in 2018 after a viral article titled "The Retro Wife" was published in The Spectator, a conservative British magazine. The article praised women who embrace traditional gender roles, sparking a debate on social media about the merits and drawbacks of such a lifestyle. Since then, the term has been used in various online forums, blogs, and social media platforms, often with different connotations and meanings depending on the context. As for the meaning in the sense of erotica, there is no evidence to suggest that the term "trad wife" originated from pornography or was used by writers as erotica. While some terms and phrases related to traditional gender roles and relationships have been used in the context of pornography or erotica, the use of the term "trad wife" to describe a woman who embraces traditional gender roles is not connected to pornography or erotica. Rather, the term is primarily used in conservative and traditionalist circles as a way to describe a lifestyle choice or philosophy. So I think she’s just making it up.
I absolutely love being a Traditional Wife. My husband is my very best friend, and taking care of him, our Triplets, our 10 and 13 yr olds, is what brings me joy. It is also part of how I show him how much I appreciate him for taking care of all of us. What the hell makes these people think that women, or people in general, are trying to push the traditional roles on anyone? I don't give a shit what they do with their life. I don't even raise my own daughters to live the same way as me. Although they have an amazing role model in me, and my triplets DO want to "be a mommy", they also want to be a Doctor, a Firefighter, and an EMT. My oldest has always wanted to be in the military. She lives her everyday life preparing to be a Soldier. I'm proud of each of them, as well as my son, who wants to be a TH-camr.
Haha I have a traditional, happy, healthy, successful, regular family. But the second lady cracked me up how she somehow assumes that “the man” makes all the choices and lays down the law. Lol. I always say “my husband is the head of the family, yes. But I am the neck that turns the head”
Hi, I am happy for you and your husband! Could you tell me if any of you had a previous relationship(sexual) before you guys met? I am curious if that influences a marrige, Thanks!
@@rafaelbarbosa7423 we both had experience before we met. It doesn't create an issue unless you let it. We both thought we were going to be married before we had met each other and we made mistakes. We helped heal the heart of the other and now we are inseparable
I've been a "traditional wife" to the same man for 28 years. I'm also raising 2 boys. I was told by a feminist a couple years ago, that I am setting a bad example for my sons because I enjoy taking care of my family 😏. I have taught my sons how to take care of themselves, yet because I enjoy taking care of my home, cooking for my family, etc, I am setting a bad example which will lead my sons to expect the same from their future wives. Yep. I can only hope. 👍🏻
Been a 'traditional wife" for 26 years. Guess I've been setting the "bad example", too. Our son says he wants to find someone more like me! Not having much luck these days...
@L Barton It is VERY hard to find young women who think like us. My 18 yr old son told me the other day that he doesn't think a "traditional girl" his age exists. Add on top of that the fact that we are Christians. He said he hasn't met a girl his age yet who is still a virgin and doesn't drink and party. The ones at church are either already taken or have no interest in a relationship. I told him to stop looking and just focus on himself for a while. God will bring him together with someone if it's meant to be. It's easier said than done though when you're an 18 year old boy 💁♀️.
As a single young man, I have my own life, but when I get a wife and have kids, I’m ready to set my own needs aside for them. When we become parents, we are still ourselves, but we have more important obligations to our spouses and children. Once married, you give up worthless individualism for sweet, fulfilling service to our new family.
My wife and I recently had our first child. She is a woman that has always needed to work, and has worked full time since she was 18. She cries tears of joy when holding our child. In the 5 years we've been together, ive never seen happy tears from that sale she made, that appointment she arranged, that file she filed.
As a women who fell for all this "independent woman" shit, which ran me into the ground and pushed me to lengths no one could ever imagine... BE A TRADITIONAL WOMAN/ WIFE. THE GRASS IS WAAAAAYYYYYY GREENIER ON THIS SIDE. FROM MY EXPERIENCES.
I never regretted making dinner every night for my husband and kids . Took pride in having a clean home and volunteering at the kids school . My grandmother was my biggest influence of balancing domestic responsibilities with staying feminine. ❤ thank god for traditional values
well, modern views have a lot of negative ideas about men, and apparently we're supposed to - IF we even marry - marry one we yet also still don't value, respect, like, cherish or wish to serve, and of course they see the word service only in a negative, oppressed way. Never mind that the president of the united states is supposed to be only there to serve all of us ! Or that many of we wives don't base our service on our feelings or on our husband's current behavior or attitudes, but on our own duty to and hopefully love for God. Taking comfort in the fact that quite often our good example, our love, our being worthy of respect, will bring about positive change in our husband all the sooner or at leat not complicate the situation with adding more things to fight about, more reasons for distrust, dislike, unhappiness. Much less all the things one could say if kids are in this home ( we don't have any of our own yet).
ALL THIS IS EVE'S FAULT. IF NOT FOR EVE, PEOPLE WOULD NOT BE PASSING SLAVERY AS LOVE. NOT MY BUSINESS, THEY ARE MEN OUT THERE THAT ARE WILING TO SERVE THEIR WIVES, ILL JUST CHOSE THOSE.
When we finally figured out that I would get to become a stay at home mom, I could not believe how blessed I was/ am. I can’t imagine being so self-centered and ungrateful. I’d consider myself traditional-ish. My husband still contributes to the housework and making meals. But I also homeschool, so I have my children 24/7. ❤
I saw a recent article talking about how females are getting stood up more than ever on dating apps like Tinder and Bumble. These videos explain a lot of why that is happening.
I honestly don't know what they expect...one look at them (especially the one with the booger dangling from his/her/its nose) automatically leaves skid marks in the parking lot...
I'm from India, I really desire to be a trad wife. But my whole family is treating me like I've done something terrible in my life, without having a career! Please pray for me 😔
When my children were young and I had the ability to stay home and raise them, I LOVED being a traditional housewife. My husband worked SO INCREDIBLY HARD for me to have the chance to stay home and raise our kids that I EMBRACED doing the cooking and the cleaning and looking my best when he got home. My next comment would make some heads explode but I also gave him “LOVE” whenever he wanted because I was so grateful to him for working so hard. Once our kids were teens I started my own career making good money with a GREAT job. Feminists can bite me.
I’m a young SAHM, I’ve become one recently after working consistently for 5 years and I can say without a doubt I feel like I was made to do this, it’s so rewarding and I’m so happy. Idc if other women don’t want that but why put us down? Not very feminist of them
You, young man, are inviting GOD to bless your future family. Your wife, children, entire family for generations, will be closer and stronger because of your decision. May GOD continue HIS blessings upon you and your future loved ones ❤ Hold tight to HIS hand and HE will bring your desires to fruition. Your parents must be proud of you, I truly am!
Hahaha! I'm watching this while making dinner for my hubby and my 5 kids as a stay at home wife, and homeschooling mom. I have an undergraduate degree and had a great paying job which I enjoyed when I chose to give it up to care for my family. I don't wear makeup and dress up every day, but I find great joy caring for my family and raising my children. I know not everyone has the financial means to do what I have the privilege to do, but I thank God that I may. We can all make decisions that are beneficial and fulfilling in our lives and they don't have to affect the decisions made by others in their own unique situation. "....I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances" Phil. 4:11b
I lost my job about 6 months before I got married. We already knew we wanted to start a family immediately after the wedding. We also knew we wanted to try for me to be able to not work and stay at home with our children. So, I didn’t look for a new job. Figured we should try the one income thing just the two of us. So I was a stay at home wife for years. Getting pregnant turned out to be tricky for us. lol! But I remember the look on people’s faces when I said I took care of my husband and our home was my occupation. Young and old, male and female looked shocked and even concerned sometimes. It bothered me. 3 kids later more people seem to think it’s not so strange but there still is a few that raise their eyebrow. I don’t understand what the problem is!
There's no problem! Bravo to you both for figuring our how you want to live and going for it! I was a stay at home mom for many years. Blessings to you and your family! Enjoy it!
I have been a full-time homemaker and mom for 29 years. It didn't come naturally to me but everytime, I considered leaving my kids to work, I would feel soul-sick. But, I know I am blessed with a husband who is willing to bear the financial burden. My oldest is 29 and my youngest is 8.
If anything that you can distantly connect to 1940s Germany is bad according to the woke crowd, then they should all be really into eating meat, smoking, and drinking because AH was a vegetarian, non-smoker, and teetotaler.
That failed artist also started off as very poor in his early life he was basically sleeping on public benches and in homeless shelters it wasn't till he enlisted to fight for Germany in WW1 that his life completely turned around and where he began to make the right connections with the right people that would turn him into the leader of Germany who almost conquered Europe.
My dad started learning how to do laundry after he retired to help my mom with house chores and she helps him with his woodworking projects. But for my entire childhood my father worked looooonnnnggg grueling hours to provide for our family and my mom took care of us and the home. They didn't need to pay for childcare, one person was not taking on 2 roles. It was an even trade off in which the motherly role was left to my mother and the hard labor was left to the man ( my father) because he was better built for that kind of work. Like what is the problem? Feminists are so strange!
My wife is a trad wife. It wasn't what we planned, but medical issues decided that and she loves it. With a little one on the way she likes that she isn't working full time, but instead can focus on the home and the baby.
I’m an engaged woman that’s currently working and my fiancé and I have already had the discussion that when we get married and we’re blessed with a child, that I can stay home and take care of the baby. I’m so excited and cannot wait for that. I’ve always wanted to be a wife and mother and to take care of my family
You are wise! Over 35 years ago when we were first married, my husband and I purposed to live on his income and planned accordingly. We lived a frugal, contented life. He used public transportation for much of our marriage in order to help keep expenses down while I shopped thrift stores to do likewise. We were blessed with two sons which I was able to teach at home. Now empty nesters, we enjoy the fruit of our imperfect labors which God blessed in seeing our children settle down at a young age (by today's standards), have families of their own, and lead responsible, godly lives. They, too, are prioritizing their families over lesser things (worldly accolades, better/nicer "things," travel, etc.). I pray that they continue in these things! Though it will require commitment, forethought, and frugality perhaps, young people can follow traditional roles in marriage today! Oh, that more young people would make wise choices like you are making!
Genuinely love my husband, he hard works all day,makes money,pays the bills,has stress on his shoulders comes in flat out more tired then me when ive taken care of my son and home all day and yes thats a job in itself. My husband was working late,sends a text that he's hungry not in any way to get me to cook for him but that he hasn't eaten for most of the day sweating away. I tell him I'm going to cook for him he says he wasn't asking me to cook for him and I said "I know,even if you did I would still cook for you." I do it because....I-love-him. I care for his well being as he does for me. We help eachother.
I consider it MY CHOICE and a BLESSING to be a TRAD Wife. Someone else doesn’t like it fine…. That’s literally what’s so awesome about our country.. we get to choose. They still don’t get it.
That's exactly what the feminists are saying too that it should be women's choice. However the trad wives they were reacting to was saying that women's place should be in the home and that they don't think women should be able to vote. The tradwives were the ones not encouraging women to have a choice.
Except most people including one of the "bad examples" in this video express that it's up to the individual, but Knowles just brushes it off and lies about it as if she said the opposite
I love my life with my high school sweetheart and four children, married for 13 years and known him for 16 ( half my life)... We worked hard, grew up together, and now have land with a 100 year old house on it... good careers and an amazing marriage. Where as, these women seem to be angry... for being single? I am confused. If they don't want a life style of a wife with children, than why are they so pressed at women, like me, who aspired for it? I cook, I clean, I home school my children, I have a business... all of which helped with my depression. I think they are so angry because they want to have this type of lifestyle but they are simply too lazy to work hard enough to get it...? Or, perhaps they think that I am weak for being a loving wife and mother?
I am a proud TRAD WIFE! I love and honor my husband. Sometimes I call him "my liege," and he LOVES it. And he treats me excellent in return. I am not ashamed❤
@@pinkwonderpower7906You and I have broken God's law and because He is good He will punish all sins. We are criminals, deserving of judgement. And that's why we deserve to go to hell and would go to hell, were it not for Jesus the Son of God. Jesus lived a perfect life and then died on the cross on behalf of us, taking the judgement/punishment/anger of God against sinners on Himself (in their place). And three days later He rose from the dead, conquering death. It's through faith in Jesus (that He is Lord and the Son of God) and what He did on the cross that Jesus' perfect life is accounted to the person who believes and their sins are forgiven based on Jesus paying for them on the cross. Turn to God the Father in this faith and you will be saved. Confess your sins to the Lord, trusting that He will forgive you. Perhaps you don't believe God exists, but it is a scientific and logical impossibility that nothing created everything. He does exist and holds you accountable. Believe in Jesus and you'll be saved.
I've been a stay at home mother for 20 years now. The way it looks for our family has gone through many phases, but I have been grateful for every moment. I have learned more about myself and what I want from life being a wife and mother than any other way, and that includes earning my bachelor's degree while raising my family! I am an advocate for the family -- my husband does not dominate over me because he earns more money, we are a team! I serve him and he serves me, and together we are raising respectable children who will hopefully be mentally equipped to be strong leaders in their generation! Traditional moms for the win!
It just sucks that it's like they're allowed to flaunt theirs and that doesn't create harm to anybody, but when a traditional woman talks about hers that's creating harm
I don't know if I'm considered a trad wife. I don't dress up and wear makeup every day for my husband, but I am a stay at home mom who makes sure the house and our children are taken care of while he works to provide for us. I'm a Christian and I don't really wear any makeup anymore after my husband expressed he didn't really care for it, and through my faith, I know that obeying my husband is very important and I do it willingly. I love making his favorite meals and taking care of our home and children. I know it's a very important role of mine and I welcome the responsibility. Being home with our children means that I can be the mother that they need me to be and they receive proper care and education that isn't dripping with this messed up agenda that is being forced down children's throats today. If that makes me a trad wife then I welcome it. I'm not oppressed in the slightest. I'm so very joyful every single day for the life my husband has helped create with me.
@@JennFredrickson oh there's plenty of love for what I do. My husband is the very best at appreciating everything I do for him and our kids. It makes it so much easier when he recognizes how important my role is and encourages me to stay at home rather than work.
You're not a Trad Wife. The Trad Wife lifestyle (the one on the tiktok) advocates for a patriarchal marriage with unbalance power dynamic between the two partners. Most of these women don't have kids yet thus they have all the time of the day to do things in the house and still keep themselves glammed up. You're a queen! You're a genuine home maker!! You do those things out of love and care for both your husband and kids. The Trad wife trend on tiktok is more like a role playing for newly wedded couples, not realistic at all and glosses over the fact that settling down as a family is a shared responsibility.
I’ve been a tradwife since the end of Covid and never been happier. On a sad note, these poor Tik-Tok girls! I hope they wake up before their opportunity for marriage and motherhood is gone.
Proud traditional wife here. I love to cook for my husband and spend time with him. They can say they're happy all day long but the truth is they're miserable and deep down they wish they had the marriage I have. I don't care what others want to do with their lives, but don't put me down for mine. God created us for different roles and we should embrace it.
Lol! I like the husband-like sense of humour that you have going. Hoping to someday be with someone who appreciates the pre-built "Trad wife" in me as well. In my early single 20's and working a STEM corporate job is good, but not as fulfilling according to me. God bless you two and your family by the way :)
I derive great amounts of satisfaction from keeping my home clean and tidy, the praise I receive from my fiancé is the cherry on top! Having a relationship where I clean and cook whilst my partner fixes our car and does DIY around the house works perfectly for us. The love and support we have for each other only grows stronger with each act of service. These people who complain about the way other couples choose to live their lives are utterly miserable and perpetually angry at one thing or the other. I’m so grateful I’m not like them.
@maisiefrench4424 Hi, I am happy for you and your husband! Could you tell me if any of you had a previous relationship(sexual) before you guys met? I am curious if that influences a marrige, Thanks!
Been a happy trad wife for over 25 years. Hubby brings home the bacon and I fry it up. I love taking care of him, the kids and now grandkids. Life is beautiful and God is good.
I call my fiancé "Sir". He does rule over me. He's firm but kind, gentle, and we're saving ourselves for marriage but I know he's going to make a great husband and father. I want my daughter to see what a firm, loving, man is. I want my son to see the hero and leader his dad is.
There were times when I could afford to be a stay at home mom. When we couldn't afford it I worked outside the home. Stay at home mom definitely was the preference.
It's amazing how our biology and nature work. You go to work, which you are paid to do... yet would rather stay home and do the tremendous amount of work that's required to keep a home in good order, for just the price of not having to work outside the home. This makes no sense logically, but nature isn't about logic. It's about harmony.
@@skydriver5709 you have to remember that the work load doubles when you work outside the home. Kids that are young need a parent taking care of them, not someone who just gets paid to watch them. When the kids are in school they need parents at home. No one cares about your kids the way you do.
@@sherryklein9897 Yes it's true nobody cares about kids as much as their own parents, but the old saying "It takes a village to raise a child", is 100% true. For a child to be raised properly, they need a lot more than just the parents that love them the most. They also require other people who love them 'enough'. Sheltered children fare horribly in life. They need others, and I would even say children need people who don't love them... because that's the world, and they need to know how to deal with and navigate the nuances of life. They more they know and the more experience they have, the better. Of course, these things need to be additions, not replacements for parental involvement.
@@skydriver5709 I think it depends what age we’re talking about. A 2-3 year old doesn’t need to frequently navigate the world of adults who don’t love them, not for extended periods of time I mean. There’s enough nuance to figure out mastering their world, expressing wants and needs, learning to listen, to accept boundaries and restrictions as well as to creatively explore, building their knowledge base in a world of their family and family friends who care deeply for them, as well as interactions with other children their age in social settings, who would also be those who don’t love them. What they don’t need is to spend their whole day, day after day, around adults who don’t care as much for them when they are THAT young. Kids under school age do better with the people who love them as the ones taking care of them. It’s just how we’re built. It’s certainly not affordable or convenient but it’s still the truth, whether we like it or not.
@@amostlyreasonableguy I did say those things such as school, daycare, and babysitters are not supposed to take the place of parents' direct involvement with their children. However, I don't necessarily think it's how we're built. The reason we need people around us who love us at a young age, is because we're helpless and cannot attend to our own needs. It's in our best interest from a survival standpoint. I'm not even sure very young children are developmentally capable of understanding or returning love, so to them there's no difference between someone who loves them giving them a bottle, and someone else, beyond habitual attachment to someone. At least until around the age of 3. You can teach them to give someone a hug or a kiss, but they don't understand the meaning. It's basically just teaching them to do a trick. Nor do children even start to retain long term memory until the age of 4 or 5. The only real reasons we need people around us who love us, is to keep us alive during that stage of development. Is it important for the baby that someone holds them all the time, carries them wherever they go, and hugs and kisses them regularly? I don't think so. I think it's just a natural response for someone who loves the child, but it's purely for their own comfort and emotional gain. Doing it too much, can actually be unhealthy for the child, because children can understand patterns and learn bad habits. Like, "If I cry, mommy will pick me up out of my crib and I won't be alone". It's actually very important for development beyond the first year, that we don't become "reliable' at all times, and that we teach them independence, which I think is the single most important thing children need to be taught. The purpose of raising children isn't to love them or make them feel loved. Those ARE definitely great things to go along with raising a child, but the purpose of raising children is to teach them to become strong, responsible and mature adults who will be a benefit to society, not a detriment. To be honest, I'm actually pretty sick of all the kids and young adults today who were raised by parents who basically loved and worshiped them.
Im a tradwife. Do i believe my way of life is the most fulfilling? Yes i do. Do i believe the world would benefit from more women adopting the tradwife life? Yes i do. Do i believe women would be happier if they were tradwives? Yes i do. Am i gonna force women to be tradwives? No. If yall wanna be miserable that's on you.
We all know that one, "gift to the earth" woman, who was a trad wife. Grandmother, mother, aunt, friend's mom lol our life wouldn't be the same without her
The best part of my life is being a traditional Wife and Mother. I also work Full-time as an Investigator and make more than my husband. I work hard and live a lovely life. These parties feel really bitter and lonely.
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Imagine being so self-centered that the idea of caring for someone else is horrific. I’m a trad wife and I love it. Taking care of someone I love brings me joy. It’s so silly. When you love someone, you want to do kind things for them…I love caring for him and it’s a wonderful way to show him how much I appreciate how hard he works to provide.
Traditional wife here, too. I wouldn't want it any other way.
They are giving these "common knowledge kindness" all kinds of names. This is outrageous to me. This I why she will either end up alone, or with someone just as self centered. I'm tired of the attack on childrens innocence, being a born woman, men being the protector/woman the nurturing...fk these people I pray they find their true essence in life, and doesn't keep living in some out there world. I love taking care of my family, cooking ,cleaning, pleasing my partner....I do snap back at times...I'm learning to not come from that place as much.
I'm not going to pretend that its OK either. Abortion isn't just a women's issue.... it effects many, it's a life that starts at the time of conception. They can make their choices that are available (abortion, being a masculine female, love who they choose as an adult etc etc...but none of this belongs in school..sexualizing children, pushing their ideals on everyone and waving itnin peoples faces everywhere it seems...what ever happened to people minding their own households, keeping your sex life behind closed doors...being a kind human being????
Please do not disrespect yourself with the term Trad-Wife.
You're a virtuous woman not a Trad-Wife.
The left create names to make it look bad.
Don’t use their terminology. Talking how they talk is a small victory for them.
That is by Jehovah God's design. Those people are FAR from Him, serving Satan, and fully bent on destroying America, for the past 150 years.
As a single man, I say this with some humility.
It seems obvious to me that it is the role of both the husband and the wife to be in service to each other and to their children.
And why are you still single?? You could be quite a great spouse!!
@@willworkforyarn4893TRUTH. You'd be amazed how many decent people are single though. It splits into thirds. One third marry the right person and it sticks, another third well... The opposite. The last third, life or opportunity issues: Abuse, sickness, slim pickings ect. And for some reason Genuinely awful people love to prey on the good the instant they become vulnerable for any reason.
As a 34 yr guy of mixed raced White & East Asian descent I've been single for about 17 years now because the women and people in general in my area in Mass are racially prejudiced against me because of my mixed raced back round so I've just decided to never date and stay single, also I fear what their parents and friends would thinks if they knew their daughter or friend was with someone like myself it's pretty terrifying, other than that though I personally don't think I'll ever marry or have my own family and considering the current state of America socio economic, academic and cultural decline that might not be such a bad thing.
How does a Husband serve his Wife?
@Shahn Khan To some extent that depends on the couple. There are multiple versions of relationships that people follow.
In the case of my parents, my father ran a business and provided the income. He also did a lot of repair work on the cars and fixed the house and helped to plan and lead projects on improving the house and the yard. He also took time with his wife, my mom, and took time with us as well.
He provided advice. he provided guidance. This is disrespected by many people but it shouldn't be. This is an important service that a father can provide to his family.
Mom and dad built goals together and worked together to accomplish those goals. They both were and are a team. They function well together.
My mom is a traditional wife and she is Very happy in that role. She loves my dad immensely.
I’m a stay-at-home homeschooling mother. I will be forever grateful for my husband for being our breadwinner so I can do this. I’ve literally never felt more powerful, especially considering the state of American public schools 😉. I tried working for a year during the pandemic and it just meant both of us were coming home exhausted and hungry and with little patience left for the kids or each other.
My niece is homeschooling too. I took her place for one week so she and my nephew in-law could go on vacation. I was exhausted. Her husband is the bread winner, gets home from work and jumps right in to run the kids around to their activities and make dinner. I say bravo to all of you.
Same! I appreciate the rights I have to stay home to be a woman and service my family. And for those who go out into the world and make that money good on you too. That’s called freedom. You do you I’ll do me and let’s be friends not enemies
Exactly. Being a stay home mom is already 3 jobs in 1: Cook, maid, babysitter. It's so much work - especially with very young kiddos.
As someone who had fulltime jobs before my baby, I can't imagine trying to work full time and then coming home and doing the cooking, clean up, and trying to be a pleasant mom and wife through all the fatigue, day after day. Just, no, thank you. You can keep it, please.
Yay for a homemaking mother! That's me too. Homemaker. Stay at home and homeschooling.
Well stated and well done! You will find so.much more joy and fulfillment in life in being the most vital part to creating a family that transcends a single lifetime. Your husband and children will forever be in your debt.
In collage I took an art class where we were supposed to depict our dream life in the future. The professor went around and asked us what we chose for the assignment. I told him I want to be a wife and stay at home mom. He was visibly grossed out, crumpled up the paper in his hand and threw it at my face... It was humiliating. This was 10 years ago...I'm happy to say I'm married to the most amazing man and a stay at home momma who homeschools my 2 beautiful babies. I AM LIVING MY DREAM!
Hi, I am happy for you and your husband! Could you tell me if any of you had a previous relationship(sexual) before you guys met? I am curious if that influences a marrige, Thanks!
And that is what Americans call assault. The teacher is lucky you chose not to defend yourself and get him arrested.
I’m 26 and when I had my son 7 months ago, I decided to become a so called trad wife. Previously I was an elementary school teacher, but I felt called to stay home and take care of my family. My mother and most everyone else I know keeps asking me when I’m going back to work and what I’m going to do to contribute. My mom literally said to me once “you just stay home all day anyway” As if I don’t contribute. As if taking care of my infant son and my husband and home is not contributing. If you go back to work and send your kids to daycare to be raised by strangers you’re doing a good thing for your family, but if you stay home and raise your children yourself it’s like you’re being “lazy”. I do not understand it. I’m currently pregnant with my 2nd with no plans to go back to work. I love being able to stay home raise my children myself!
Congrats on the little one, boy or girl?
Well said!
Good for you! ❤
I wish you every success and blessing in raising your family and being CEO in your home. There are many contributions to society which are unseen but make the world of difference ❤
It’s a beautiful thing. A difficult thing too! You are preparing the next generation to go out into a world that has been so warped and changed. And at this point we have to help our kids handle it. But also let them be kids! I homeschool as well. We didn’t just start, been going for 10 years. My husband works and he doesn’t expect me to be a full on trad wife. But I try because I love it. Some days it just doesn’t happen and I’m up to my eyeballs in stuff to be done. But I love cooking for my family, cleaning ( mostly 🤣), and loving on my family all the time. Life is so short. So I’d rather be with the people I love so much instead of out at a job around people I wouldn’t spend my FreeTime with.
If they were really serious about feminism they would try to stop bio men competing in women’s sports
Too busy attacking real women. Much easier for them.
Actually that perfectly fits with the feminist worldview
Methinks they always hated women, and wanted them to become corporate slaves.
Agreed. I cannot understand their rationale for accepting "transwomen" as women who are, bottom surgery or not, still biologically male.
Exactly! They keep saying they defend women above all but then they leave women behind in favor of some delusional man. Like what ? That’s why I don’t declare myself part of this movement anymore, it’s just f up
I was and am a trad wife for the past 42 years, however I can tell you on 2 fingers the times that my husband complimented me and showed pride in my role. He commented to other men how lucky they were to have a wife that brought home a wage. I had to grow a thick skin because I knew that staying home raising our 3 sons, homeschooling for 10 years and cooking, cleaning and doing all domestic work to make a strong home would pay off. Today my son’s and their wives tell me how much they appreciated my work and love. It means so much to know they appreciate me. And now they appreciate their Trad wives!
Thumbs up to you, thumbs down to that ingrate.
On behalf of traditional men, bravo to you for staying solid in your values in spite of not gaining the appreciation and cherished status you earned.
It's always principles over feelings. Tough road, well done.
Wow, your husband couldn't see the treasure he had.
Bless you.
I appreciate you! I wish our situation could hold with just my income. Hope your children have lots of happy respectful grandbabies for you!
Seeing my husband's face when he smiles at me when I hand him his lunch before he heads to work in the morning starts my day off so wonderfully.
Bringing him his dinner and he gives me that smile and says "thank you, Sugar" -is everything.
True fulfillment is a great feeling.
Aww, that was so nice and heartwarming to read. Hope the best for both of you, live long and in love!
@treespweese That's is so cute, I am happy for you and your husband! Could you tell me if any of you had a previous relationship(sexual) before you guys met? I am curious if that influences a marrige, Thanks!
I'm a 'trad wife' of twenty years. Not only do I do all the domestic chores (every single one of them) but I also help on the farm. I suppose you could call that being in service to your family, I just think of it as doing what needs to be done. My husband also spends incredibly long hours in all kinds of weather on the farm, doing what needs to be done. As far as I can see, these women are just looking for an ideology that makes them feel morally superior while celebrating LAZINESS.
I was also thinking that laziness is the main reason behind all this whining about traditional roles 🥴😒
Congratulations for being such a hardworking woman 👏👏👏
Facts. They want to say they need to be lazy and unhappy and it's not their fault.
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@@kherise
Same here. Been married for almost 35 years and the happiest I’ve been is when I retired and realized that house work, cooking and caring for the family wasn’t the awful thing I was taught. I’m happiest now doing the house work and whatever other job needs done at our homestead. He also does what needs done, it’s a partnership. If we don’t do it then what will become of our home? It’s not just him I’m doing stuff for but for us as a couple.
If that makes me a trae wife then I’m perfectly fine with it.
I guess now we can accuse them if being tradwifephobic. 🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏
So gay.
Give them the finger, be happy, and trash the left at every moment.
Humiliate them, make fun of them. Recover the your American Culture
They all ready are Christianphobes.
@Diane M yes they are and its sad :/
New words that I could have never imagined in my wildest dreams back when I was these people’s age. This totally blows my mind.
Nailed it! 😂!
"Feminism is all about giving women the power to do whatever they want!"
Oh? I really wanna be a mom and housewife.
"oH mY gOd! YoU aRe So StUpId!"
Pretty much 😅
@@AA...2000 : Minor point, but libs are more likely to say “oH mY gOsH!” 🤪
@@sillygostly 🤣
Feminism is there to turn you into a Far Left progressive tras
This. It’s so annoying.
I just "woke up" roughly 2 years ago, and realized 9 years of a high paying career, actually didn't satisfy me in the slightest. Realized I hated my career, even being my own boss, and was "sick of myself" with nothing actually challenging me.
So a close friend and my incredible hubby worked with me through it, and I realized my actual dream (that I had smothered to death due to cultural expectations) was to be a TRAD wife. 6 months in, expecting our first baby, I've never been this happy!!! I adore my husband, am thrilled when he comes home and I can greet him and enjoy time together! I love having a clean home, cooking delicious meals, making meaningful friendships with other moms/community, and working on self improvement. I look forward to investing fully into my kids, husband, and community.
I realized it's much more fulfilling to be self-less for the sake of others, than to be self-focused just for the sake of money.
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I have been a traditional wife, mom, ganny and greatganny since I was 17...I'm 75 now.
Sure we didn’t have many of the 'toys' others NEED to "keep up with the Jonses",
HOWEVER, we loved, had fun together, homeschooled/Christian schooled, learned to love Jesus together, served others, lived on a budget and learned 'if something is worth having it's worth saving and paying cash for. We've always owned very nice homes and automobiles. Our needs were always met on my husbands salary, which was average blue color, because we didn't chase after the world. Now we are retired and paid cash for our 4 BR
home on 7 acres with a barn in the country. My wonderful husbands dream. We have future treasures in Heaven
with our 4 children, 6 grandchildren, and soon to be 11 great grandchildren.
Life couldn't be more blessed.
Being a stay-at-home
wife/mother was the best decision for our family.
Besides...someone figured how much it would cost to replace a wife for what she does for her family....
Cook, maid, tutor, doctor mom, seamstress, babysitter,
driver to sports, protector, the list goes on. It was found cost was higher than a dad could afford. What they didn’t considered was LOVE... you can't put a price on a mothers love for her children...
We learned if you truly want something you'll figure out a way to do it together.
Oh...P.S. prayer works
God bless you all❤
@@marymeyer6905 I love your comment! It sounds like the dream!!!
Epic. Thank you for your testimony
Being a Wife and Mother is such an honor. To be the Hearth keeper of your home is a sacred duty.
MISERY NEEDS COMPANY,. IT IS ALWAYS A HONOUR FOR WOMEN, AL YOU HAVE TO DO IS OPEN YOUR VAGINA, WOMEN HATE USING THEIR BRAINS.
iT is only women that do not get education, no job, no life and you get praised for it because men need someone to dominate and control and yet you think you have sense. you have no value without men, now I get why most women get sad when they get pregnant with girls. Walking womb
With how jobless you are , I hope you have money to keep fit and extremely beauty. It is the same career women that your husband will cheat on you with. Men are attracted to intelligence not dull heads.
But I guess trad wife, comes with the cheating package.
@@annaolokede4582 Yeah. Men do cheat more, but it's up to you to pick one that has a good moral compass.
"I do not find fulfillment in being a wife or a mother." - A wife and a mother
I feel so sorry for this family
I think she meant being a wife and mother isn't her single source of fulfillment and that she wouldn't want to only be a wife and mother. Plenty of men would be depressed if they were stay at home dads and didn't get to pursue their professional passions. It doesn't mean they don't love their wives and kids though.
@@janicefinch3563 that’s probably true. My parents took turns being stay at home mothers. But I think my Dad enjoyed it more. However, my mom is definitely the better cook.
@@ryangreenwood208 That's awesome!
Even if it's true, I think the stay at home moms typically have great dads to stay at home for. When a woman is miserable I don't blame her individually, she might have one of those guys guys, that looks good on paper or from the outside but is basically an overgrown child. I've seen too many times, women just staying in awful situations with a false sense of purpose and feeling needed. No honey, you're just being used, and you should leave literally anywhere else.
@@kaugh maybe not anywhere else cause there’s always someplace worse.
But I agree on the whole
I love being a young "trad" wife. In August, my husband and I will be celebrating 5 years of marriage. We have two children and it just makes more sense for me to be a stay at home "trad" wife. Women are better at being homemakers and caretakers. I don't care how offensive that may be to hear for someone. It's true. To be a wife, especially a traditional wife, is so demonized in today's world and that blows my mind completely. Why? Let me tell you...
My husband and I come from broken homes. My father is your stereotypical deadbeat and my mother had no business attempting to play "mother." My husband's father left when he was young. Shortly after, his mother gave up her parental rights because "being a mom to the 3 kids she CHOSE to have was just too hard" so his grandparents stepped in to adopt him along with his siblings.
We both wish we had a "traditional family" unit. I was raised by my mom but let me emphasize that I NEVER had a mother. I don't wish the absence of family functionality on anyone. I lived with a non traditional mom. I watched her be a "non traditional wife" twice and a "super non trad cool girlfriend" to multiple men. She introduced me to men who played "step dad" year after year. She toted me around state to state. I went from house to house but none ever felt like home. The only siblings I have are half siblings from my deadbeat dad and they are just as punctured as I still am by my childhood chaos at 26.
In my opinion, the traditional family unit is best. When I think of a traditional wife I think of the ultimate caretaker who prides herself in the art of homemaking. She is consistently present in her children's and husband's life. She believes in social etiquette inside and outside of the home. She has standards. She radiates class. She teaches actual life skills to her children and devotes herself to her family. To me, being a traditional wife is the most rewarding route to take in life.
I give my biggest applause to the husbands and wives who also come from chaotic backgrounds yet devote themselves daily to creating a traditional family unit. Despite the hurt we carry from our childhoods we strive to be better than what hurt us. We also understand that the best solution to combat that sort of dysfunction from continuing in the world is to practice being a better example for others to gain inspiration from. ❤
Thank you for sharing. After hearing your back story, I applaud you and your husband. God bless you both and your family!!
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@@publictoilet1970 Thank you for your kind words. ❤
@Lv_Shef i congratulate you for being a traditional young wife 🙏🏼 even after the upbringing that you had and congrats to your traditional husband too 🙏🏼🙏🏼 you guys sounds amazing! Because you could have chosen the non traditional way! But since you saw the example of non traditional wife and husband in your parents, you didn’t want to do the same! YOU BROKE THE CHAINS! Now you are starting a brand new tradicional life with your husband and you will give your children a GREAT EXAMPLE OF A TRADITIONAL FAMILY🙏🏼 and they will do the same when they get older 🙏🏼 GOD BLESS YOUR TRADITIONAL FAMILY ❤️🙏🏼.. my parents have been super traditional they have been married for 50 years and all of my siblings have been in traditional marriages too🙏🏼🙏🏼 IT’S TRULY THE BEST WAY FOR US, for the children and our communities🙏🏼
It is precisely due to that affection for one's family, and the grit and perseverance involved that makes you and your husband rare in modern society.
Society has rotted. How few people of that calibre are left now? Thoes with love and integrity as their core being?
Years ago my 23 year old daughter had an assignment in elementary school where they had to answer the question, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" She was the only one who said she wanted to be a mother. The teacher thought it was funny and the other kids laughed at her. I was so proud of her. She now has a Biology degree and decided to forego medical school because she wants to raise a family someday. She works hard and enjoys her career path, but she still yearns to be a mother. She told me she wants to raise her child and not have someone else raise her child.
I said the same when I was a kid. That I wanted to be a mother. But I’m sure I meant I wanted to be like my mom.
Congratulations to you for raising a wonderful daughter that values a family and children. Awesome job mom!
Nice to see zero energy aimed at husband, father 👨🏽… because statistically they are powerful to keep kids mentally healthy and safer adults…
But who needs that 😂
@@karamlevi Since you asked he was involved until he chose heroin over being a husband and father.
The problem is that a lot of those trad influencers are against what your daughter did. They think girls shouldn't go to school, just completely rely on a man, even though he may ruin her. That Estee lady has failed plans time and time again so she decided to just marry rich, she's a failure. Influencers are bad people. Your daughter is amazing though
My husband came home from work last night so so tired and sad from the never ending grind of his job. I will never understand how self centered you have to be to not see the sacrifice a working husband makes.
For real though!!
30 years of hard work here. A supportive, loving wife is extremely important in keeping things together.
Exactly! I am also a "trad wife" and my husband works a lot so that I can stay home with our daughter. In the winter he works 12-14 hours outside.
It truly is something to be appreciated. Husbands, with their sacrifice show how much they love their wives and children. It is a picture of the sacrifice Jesus Christ made for the church, in giving His life.
Ephesians 5:24-25
24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
I do understand. I was a working wife.
Jealousy can cause meltdowns of the mind, body, and soul.
Notice that tradwives aren't the ones complaining. Could it be because they are happy?! 😀
Envy steals ones joy
@@athenapoe3377 happy- and busy! lol XD
idle hands are the devil's plaything.
There's a psychological reason why feminists are known cat hoarders. Cus they never have any kids. It's a really sad existence tbh.
@@DekkarJr
Proverbs 31:27-28
27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
It's pretty sad how most of the childless women seem to want to keep "fur babies". That's a deep level of idleness.
@@believestthouthis7 Yeah. So idle you let your eggs expire... I just had my first at 35 thankfully. Made it in before the window lol XD
Love the term “trad wife”! It should be mainstream along with “trad husband”.
We shortened that to Chad.
No.
Housewife is better.
@@TedEhioghae I agree it tradwife kinda feels like “cis woman” to me. Like it’s a made up term meant to be insulting.
Just say traditional ffs
Yeah but the abreviation comes from the mob people so I’ll skip on that. Just say traditional pls
"Traditional woman are dangerous." She actually said that. 😂 the irony
I lost my beloved "trad wife" a year ago, November. I refuse to jump back into the dating pool for many reasons, but the fact that there are packs of this type of woman running around out there is enough reason to deter me from seeking companionship ever again.
Sorry for your loss
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That’s terrible, man. I’m sorry she’s gone. 🙁
Sorry dude that's rough. I don't blame you
A rose grows amongst shit. Stay strong brother.
she is watching and protecting you from heaven, my brother.
Proud trad wife here. My teachers and others use to criticize me when I was younger for not choosing a "career path" I wanted to be a mom. It's what I've always wanted and my phrase was always "I didn't have kids for someone else to raise them"
I'm sure we coulda had more "material things" if I hadda worked but my kids were always my priority. My kids are grown and to this day I enjoy taking care of my husband and likewise he takes care of me.
Same. I had an English teacher who would get, quite literally, upset when my answer was that I wanted to be a mom. She's barrage me with questions like what if you're working, what if your bf/husband leaves you, who's going to pay your bills, etc etc. I'd be like, well first of all I'd be married and it's called the old fashioned idea of marrying for life not just because and second I wasn't looking for someone who I didn't feel would be a good partner especially with children. She never got it. I have my husband and kids and she's (last I knew) a miserable English teacher living alone.
You are a unicorn!
I am as well the only thing I wish school did was instead of college or career path they did a family path (sewing cooking child care stuff)
I'm a first time mom and want to take care of my kids but what do you do after they grow up and leave the house? Do you then go work? I want to go to college once my baby is old enough but should I do it now or later in life?
@Random Female Opinion That's your decision. If you have the income and choose to be a housewife then by all means do that. If you'd rather go to work or school or whatever you can do that too? I was in an accident and I'm disabled now so I can't go back to work but I'm okay with that. Now I'm a house wife with a disability check. 🤷♀️
Wow, as a stay at home mom who homeschools five children and thinks my role in the home is the highest calling, I didn’t know I was so dangerous! 😂
You are a threat because you show a contented disposition of love and service to others. Your lifestyle is a stark contrast to a life of self-centeredness which feminism encourages. That love and service to your family helps make for a stable home life from which you all benefit.
But godliness with contentment is great gain (1 Timothy 6:6).
@@sdlorah6450 Amen!
@@Charagrin Not sure but I think your message came to me in error. You may want to send it to Amanda or SD.
If you aren't trying to force it on others, no one was talking to you. Do you find you make up things to defend yourself against like this often?
@@willworkforyarn4893 Weird, it definitely had them @'ed. My bad.
I agree so much about how fulfilling and enriching being a traditional wife is. I have 2 degrees, traveled several countries, had lots of experiences but I’ve never been happier than being a SAHMW. There is always plenty to do with running a home, budget, cleaning, meals, maintenance, child and animal care, appointments, etc. I appreciate and respect my husband and all the hard work he does to provide for his family. He’s an amazing, loving, generous and compassionate soul. He has allowed all of us to have a full and blessed life.💜
It’s very wild seeing them act like we are evil for wanting to be happy wife’s
They want all women to be miserable and unpalatable, like them.
Feminism was inspired by the demonic to encourage abortion and destroy the natural family order instituted by God. Demons hate humans since we were created in the image of God. Since these feminist women are unwittingly channeling diabolic forces it is only natural that they would have wild revulsive reactions to seeing naturally ordered happy families.
Right? Why does someone else care that I stay home and actually raise and take care of my own children? My husband has a excellent job and I don’t need to work. I don’t want to drop my kids off at a daycare all day. What’s wrong with that? I enjoy taking care of my husband and kids. No one is forcing me. And that one girl even said guys are “spanking it” to the thought of a traditional wife lol. Sounds like a wife that cooks, cleans, and etc is something some guys have to now fantasize about. That’s a bit sad lol.
Wives, but yes, I agree.
Because it holds a mirror up to them and they hate it. Much easier if they can drag other women down.
Been a Christian trad wife all my life. I did not once judge other women/wives/moms who lived their lives different from mine. So grateful not to be a hater.
Thank you! I've always assumed that a prerequisite for being a conservative Christian was bible thumping judging others and demanding that everyone give up their freedom and believes just because they enjoy forcing their views on others. thanks for not being that person.
You don't have to be a hater to realize that God designed womanhood and God designed the tradwife. He didn't design the corporate wife.
@@kaybrown7733 but we must distinguish teaching from judging. Abandoning someone who makes bad choices to their fate is not love. The drug addict may think he has all the freedom in the world, but in truth he is enslaved to his vices.
@@lucasdarianschwendlervieir3714 It's not abandonment because we're not responsable for other people. Also judging never helps anyone it only makes them want to avoid you like the plague. The person on drugs has to.make the choice everyday to get and stay clean. It has nothing to do with your feelings on the matter. if it did no parent would be an addict because kids don't want addict parents. You can support their recovery but that's about it. I know that's a hard pill to swallow but its the truth.
Yes, me neither.
I married a trad wife from the Phillipines.
The mistake a lot of detractors make is thinking that the wife is in service to the husband, and that's that. It's only half true.
We are in service to EACH OTHER. We are successful because we love, support, and care for one another.
Exactly. I'm so happy to hear from someone who gets it. I wish you a long happy marriage.
Dear, the very definition of these Trad Wives is that they're advocating for a Patriarchal marriage which most of these content creators do. It is an aesthetic lifestyle of married women mostly from US, without kids whose sole purpose is to be a continuous eye candy to their working husbands. Their Trad Wife role is different from our modern home makers.
It is the opposite of what you genuine home makers do. Housewives like you delegate yourselves to the domestic role because you genuinely care for your family, not to display a romanticised 1950s housewife who has all the time of the day on her own (because most of them don't have kids yet). Their lifestyle are far from the genuine homemakers who sacrifice or choose to care of their home and be with their kids most of the time.
@@miming6377 who cares what they choose to portray. Don't like it? Don't live it. Don't be pissed at them because you don't want to live up to the standards they set for THEMSELVES. Let's call it what it really is. Jealousy.
@@miming6377 stop obsessing over their style. Feminism means personal choice.
@@papabird4425 I'm not obsessing with their style. I'm correcting your misconception of the Traditional Wife trend on tiktok versus your house wife.
You said it yourself, "you are in service to each other". But the Trad Wife trend does not do that, they advocate that it is wife's duty to be of service to her husband since he is feeding her. It is not a reciprocating relationship.o
I am very far away from being a trad wife (just learned the term tbh) but I am really glad so many women in the comments here are proud to be one and happily enjoy their life with their husbands. I am not from the US and I wasnt aware it is such a topic for women over there. You make your choices for yourself and your families and I think there is absolutely no need to explain yourself to anybody that makes other choices. Greets from Europe 🙋♀️
I’m 17 but was raised left wing. I had a transgender phase and thought I was bisexual at one point. But now I’m no longer bi and embracing femininity. However I really want to be a tradwife. The other week, I spent an entire day living like that (besides taking care of children), and I hadn’t been happier. I can’t wait to have my own family and serve my man until the day I die
That is so refreshing to hear...best wishes for your future🥰
Right..."Colonel Based" who makes a large amount of RDR2 videos is a 17 year old girl who wants to be a trad wife after spending an entire *day* "traditionally". Right.
@@bobtheball5384 oh, Colonel Based is 100% a middle-aged conservative dude typing out his pedo fantasy.
@@bobtheball5384 Bro... If you actually took the time to listen to some of the videos on her channel and notice some of the comments. It checks out. She's been consistent in what she's expressing. Mentions her age, her prior identification as a trans boy, and so on... All it took was a quick 2 minute glance to get all of that. Guess you spent less time before you jumped to conclusions?
Not sure why you're out here being an armchair skeptic. Like at least dig a little deeper rather than prematurely judge based off your assumptions on what someone should sound or look like in order to align with what they're expressing....Even then why bother? Sometimes I do wonder why people get off on casting doubt and skepticism on the experiences of strangers they barely know on the internet.
The name is probably a remnant of how she used to identify or it just still feels like a cool name to have lol. Also, kids are playing all kinds of games nowadays regardless of age or gender...
Sometimes it doesn't take much more than the seeds being planted in your past and them being watered by a momentary experience to realize you might want a different kind of life. Extraordinary changes are often preceded by a journey that slowly builds and culminates in a very interesting experience that marks a transition from one chapter of your life to another.
@@bobtheball5384 don’t forget to subscribe! Also, believe it or not, it’s hard to swiftly change up your lifestyle from getting everything handed to you, your parents cooking for you and washing your clothes, laying in bed eating snacks and playing video games to living traditionally. I’ve spent a long time living one way, and it’s going to take a while to get used to living a different way
I'm 23, from the uk and there's nothing I want more than to get married to a good Christian man and become a mum and raise a family while also taking care of my parents and sister 😊
Proud to be a traditional wife. 😌 I actually fell into the position, but it's where God wanted me to be and I LOVE it. ❤️
I don't know if I would be a trad wife someday or not but even if I decided not to be one i think it's ridiculous if i were and just bully people like you who are trad wives.. it's called respect which I've noticed a lot of people lack these days.. while I might not end up one but if you like it I'm genuinely happy for you
@@XxLostFinalGirlxX Same, it might be for me, or it might not. If anything, I think I'd want to be the one working and supporting us financially, and hubby can be a stay at home dad. I guess it's just my personality. But I wouldn't shame anyone who wants that lifestyle of traditional gender roles. If anything, it's kind of ideal for a family, it's just not for me. I don't understand why people can't just let people live the way they want.
PLEASE , GOD IS NOT FOR TRAD WIVES, DO NOT RUIN CHRISTAINITY. GOD DOES NOT ENDORSE MISOGONY.
Hi, I am happy for you and your husband! Could you tell me if any of you had a previous relationship(sexual) before you guys met? I am curious if that influences a marrige, Thanks!
@@rafaelbarbosa7423 Yes, both of us. Sex is better as a married couple because you're more comfortable with each other. As saved Christians, though, we wish we would have waited.
My mother was criticized for wanting to be a mom when she grew up. She ended up having me early in her adult years and committed to being a mom for me. Now my mother is a happy Christian Trad wife and mother of eight children, all with the same man who is a Trad husband. We live a happy and God blessed life, if she had listened to people tell her “being a mom was not a good job” than we wouldn’t have the life we do now.
People have been going after the traditional wife since the 60's. If you can afford to stay home, raise your family, and take care of your husband - DO IT! I have mostly been a Homemaker (work part time now) and it's fulfilling and worthwhile work.
Being a trad wife is what saved my family from going under financially. Honestly the fact that people argue "if you can afford it" frustrates me a bit.
Most women I know ask their families to sacrifice time and money to raise their kids, to care for the house...they say they "need" to work but it actually is only ever to have the newest expensive tech gadgets etc. It's never actual need. It's want I just wish they would be honest. (They must have never passed pre-K social studies...).
It's not a woman's job to mother a man. I take care of my husband in the same ways he takes care of me, or similar. It takes effort to balance it, but if you care about one another and about family.. especially as a Christian we are to serve one another (Christians, people, not just husband and wife).
We each have our jobs, mine is in the home, but he still respects me. I have the job of chef, maid, teacher (homeschool), and obviously other wifely duties besides being a mother. He has husbandly duties, supports me (similar to how I support him), father duties, more maintenance/handyman tasks, and his career outside the home.
I wanted to get my PhD when I found out I was pregnant. I also had apathy for the father of the child. Instead of being selfish I knew I had to be responsible, to buckle down and make the best out of it. We got married. I didn't return to school because it was going to COST my family too much. It would not pay off.
IMO nothing can make up for missing out on raising your children. Especially considering the let down and abuse of the public school system. It's one way my husband misses out sometimes. But he gets to actually miss out less because he doesn't have to pick up slack from me working outside the home, from me being late because I have a meeting....etc. No extra income twords commute and suits and lunches etc. I have more time to be smart about budgeting, etc. It's efficient.
The families I've seen that have two parents working, have more issues with their kid's attitude problems, academic "don't have any idea" why or how it's happening, they barely know their kids, they never have time to clean properly, to be healthy......somehow never have enough money yet we do.....and my husband is not in a high paying job.
So I agree with your overall sentiment, but it's actually more cost effective most times for a woman to stay home. Also beneficial for the children of the woman is healthy (naturally balanced in estrogen etc). My husband and I have a good hormonal balance and he isn't as capable of handling the day-to-day emotional growth and challenges as I am. Once again- it's more efficient for me to teach my child since I know them and understand what will work best and bypass most pointless methods.
I had to sacrifice, as did my husband...he can't just sit back and play video games and stay in minimum wage work. Being married and becoming parents we agreed to GROW together and to push one another to be better. I think that's what TRAD wives/husband's; MARRIAGE is about and how it should be.
Once I am older and if my special needs child is independent enough, I will be starting my own business. That's when I think it's sensible for a mother/wife to have a career.
Thanks for reading. 🩷✨😆
My wife and I both work. But just as I feel it's my duty to be the primary breadwinner, be supportive and protective, fix things around the house, be the voice of direction and logic, etc; she takes great pride in being my biggest champion, elevating my life, and doing those things that make my life easier and more enjoyable. When she cooks dinner or brings me a drink, she doesn't look at it as demeaning or as servitude-she looks at it as doing her part to maintain the relationship. It's a shame that so many of these feminist women think that doing anything for or even being nice to a man is somehow subservient or "old-fashioned". Then they wonder why no man wants to deal with them for more than a night.
In the current economy, I think we'll see fewer families able to swing a single income. My husband and I decided that for now, my working part time around most of my homemaking duties, I'd work. There are instances where affordability does come into play, not able to live at X luxury price tag.
@@ari3lz3pp idk I really don't think your statement of "its more cost effective most times" is true. That's going to totally depend on what your husband does and where you live. Where I live we can afford our current mortgage on 1 income, however having family of multiple kids in this house would be difficult as it's small. The "next size up" house if you will, would require 2 incomes for the mortgage. And thats where prices sit right now, who knows where they'll be when we're looking to move.
UNFORTUNATELY NOT EVERYONE FEELS LIKE A LAZY ASS WALKING WOMB. PEOPLE ACTUALLY WANT WORK AND GET EDUCATION INSTEAD OF WASTING AWAY ON A MAN AND CLAIMING HOMEMAKER AS A COVERUP
Traditional Wives Rule! Ive been a happy Traditional Wife for 51 years. Never had to work full time, raised my own children, cooked my own meals ( better than take out) . Worked part time at a job that made me happy. Ideal life!
Blessed . This generation is embarrassing. They are ruining our society.
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Yes, thank you! I did work hard.
Being a traditional woman myself I honestly can't begin to fathom how an entire culture can place such hostility on a lifestyle and moral issue when they claim to be so tolerant, all while screaming to the world that they, the majority, are so sorely oppressed.
I'm in my early twenties, and I would love to be with a husband someday who is willing and able to provide for the family while I raise and teach our children. I think God has to come first in a marriage, and caring for your family is one of the most moral and fulfilling callings... But it's difficult to find traditional men these days, as I'm sure it is for women. I hope the best for the survival of this culture and traditional families!
As an older woman, I am struck by the fact that we older women in the church are to teach the younger women with respect to loving their families and their character:
The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;
That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. Titus 2:3-4
God's blueprint for marriage and family is timeless and cannot be improved upon. Feminism, which encourages women to have full-time careers and to fulfill personal ambitions, deprives children of their mothers and men of their wives. Feminism wrecks homes and marriages from within as it demands the best of a women's time, energy, and affection!
Keep sticking to your faith and your moral standards while out there in the dating world. The best thing my husband did for me while we were dating and getting to know eachother, was sticking to his beliefs and sharing them with me, answering all of my questions and not judging me for them. It brought me back to Jesus and it’s laid a strong foundation for our marriage. ❤
@@sdlorah6450 I agree with a lot of what you said! These women act like they only have one choice! Women can still have careers. All of life's passions can still fit into their lives. But it takes planning. And at the end of the day if they don't want homes, husbands and children, then that's ok too! God never demanded that every person get married, nor every woman have children!
The best advice I could give you is: when you get married, if you are both working with no children, live off your husband’s salary and put yours in a savings account. That way, when you do have children you will already be able to live off one salary. The savings could be used to put a down payment on a house.
I've never heard the term "trad wife" until now. Wow. I'm a traditional wife and mother and feel so fortunate that I was able to be one. I was able to nurture and watch my children as they grew up and I wouldn't have traded that for anything. It wasn't always easy. Most women have to work. Actually I worked part time most of the years so I feel like I had the best of both worlds. When I wasn't working though I was not ashamed of being a trad wife. I felt honored.
As a woman proud of Traditional woman
I don't know if I would be a trad wife someday or not but even if I decided not to be one i think it's ridiculous if i were and just bully people like you who are trad wives.. it's called respect which I've noticed a lot of people lack these days.. while I might not end up one but if you like it I'm genuinely happy for you
Yes, we build healthy homes that lead to healthy individuals that make a healthy society!!
@@pinkwonderpower7906 umm that can be anyone who has respect for others and cares about others not trad wives but kind people period
Not sure I count as a "trad wife". I have 7 kids and stayed home with them for 17 years. I now work at a job I love but still do most of the traditional roles. My husband works hard to provide for us and I totally appreciate him. I'm not a great housekeeper, but he always has clean clothes and dinner.
That's still traditional. Your kids are grown so that gives you time to have a job. I plan to do that once my kids are grown as well. I have 6 kids and my little one is only 3.
I've done both and as I have gotten older I appreciate more and more the choice to be home as the work space got more hostile yearly. I use to work at least 2 jobs so I could leave one if I really hated the other and it got to a point I just couldn't find a job where I was happy and downsized and I'm happier at home
7 kids? Wow sounds like a busy bedroom, must have boinked him almost every night. What a gal
My mother is a trad wife. She stayed at home, raised me and my siblings while my dad worked. Yes, things did get overwhelming at times but overall she was a very happy woman and felt fulfilled with her life. I’m so thankful to not have been to a modern leftist feminist and feel sorry for those who were.
Yeah. You're fortunate you had that. And one thing I've noticed (which makes me grateful I'm not a leftist or feminist) is that these type of women seem to always be angry and hateful. And I just can't imagine living that way. Such a waste.
Same
There are plenty of women that stay home and are happy and there are plenty that don't and are happy. Statistically unmarried women without children tend to be happier (in general). Left wing women want women to have the choice and not feel pressured to choose the traditional life if that's not what they want.
One of the women in this video was a stay at home mom.
@@janicefinch3563 Hmm. So I haven't seen stats on only women staying home or working, but I did see an interesting one about couples with and without kids, which could slightly relate to a woman staying home vs working. It said that married couples without kids tended to be happier overall in their younger yrs vs couples with kids. But...later on in life the couples WITH kids tended to be happier than those without. In other words, having kids in the house does make you overall less happy, however, once they're out of the house and giving you grandkids, and possibly even making sure you're doing ok, you tend to be happier than older couples without them . (Im married and don't have kids so that makes me kinda sad. But is what it is. At least I'm very happy now.). Anyway I would say that tends to correlate with what you said. That potentially younger working women without kids would be happier overall, than those at home with kids. But that in time that would shift to the opposite.
As a woman, (a real one) I must say I really do not understand this logic. I have never in my life felt that I was pressured or expected to have a family or stay at home. I started out as a working single Mother. Then became a working married Mother. Just a few years ago became a married "trad Mom". I stay home and take care of our family. I did that by choice. I love it. I am grateful to be able to take care of my family and spend time with my kids while they're still at home. I have yet to witness any type of societal pressure to do what I love and am grateful to do.
I’m a former member of the “church of woke” and I love staying at home and raising my kids. It’s way more exhausting than any job I’ve ever had (of which I’ve had many) but it’s where I’m meant to be. It is incredibly meaningful and fulfilling. Here in the Seattle area it is looked down upon to be at home with the kids. I almost didn’t even have children because the culture here is so career driven. Luckily I snapped out of it before it was too late and have two beautiful children. It is such a relief to let go of others’ expectations of how I should live. I of course have more to my life than my children and husband, and continue to make time for developing new skills and pursuing interests like sewing, taking online classes, making music, etc. I’m genuinely happier now as a Christian, moderate/rightish-leaning woman than I ever was as an extreme left liberal in a perpetual state of victimhood and misery. The “multicultural awareness” class I was required to take for a degree here would call that “retreating into your whiteness.” What a clever way to prevent people from leaving your religion.
I have the exact same story of leaving the church of woke and becoming a SAHM. Except I'm half white so I'd only be able to retreat half-way into my half-whiteness 😂
Greetings from Granite Falls.
I love Seattle.
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Chose the person wisely with whom you plan to spend your life with. It's a commitment for life & should ve taken seriously. If u have a great partner who appreciates u , u will have kids with great value & a wonderful life ♥️♥️♥️
I'm a proud trad wife, and this was hilarious to watch as I made dinner. I'm praying that they discover just how precious womanhood is and that they embrace God's role for them to nurture and support their husbands and their families.
Amen ❤
theyre too scared and "traumatized" to settle down with a good man. They fear the soap opera abuser so badly and want to be right about his existence that they just assume the worst and believe it
Amen girl ,Amen
NOT EVERY WOMAN IS JOBLESS OR LOW SELFESSTEEMED SO MUCH SO THAT THEY WANT TO BE SLAVES.
LIKE GOD WHY DID YOU. MAKE WOMEN, THEY ARE SO BRAINLESS. PRECIOUS WOMANHOOD MORE LIKE DOMESCTIC SLAVES
They wont. This is the devils work, signs of the end times. Protect your children from it.
Current status: corporate career
Dream job: traditional housewife
Oh how feminism turned the tables! 😂 As a woman I just laugh at this point.
LMAO you’re like me 😭 leftists and mainstream media want me to go into stem meanwhile I just wanna volunteer and nurture kids and animals 🥹
My type of feminism is just being like Joan of Arc in the battle field.
@Brittany Hayes Let’s just make sure the women don’t die horrifically in their teenage years. That’d be disastrous.
I became a Tradwife post-Covid. Best career there is, and now I find out I’m part of a movement 😉!
Same here!!! Except I am a teacher but exactly, same thing. Dream job: stay at home mom and part-time gardener 👌🏽👌🏽
Happy trad wife here! Love it! Have two beautiful babies that I get to take care of and not send them to a daycare or someone else to raise. My hubby provides for us so I do my part around the house and with the children. We were at a family get together recently and all the men were talking about their responsibilities around the house like dishes and laundry and my hubby was just quiet because he doesn’t have to do that lol I was so proud. Of course he is a kind human so if ever I need help he jumps right in. He’s also an amazing dad ❤ and of course he fixes anything that needs fixing. I love our life and I’m all about it ❤
Proud TradWife here. Not only was I a stay-at-home mom for years, I also catechized my kids, volunteered at their elementary school, and homeschooled my youngest for a while. I regret nothing.
Can I just say that whoever edits Michael's and Ben's videos needs a raise? They always nail the memes and humor every time.
I love the editing so much!
Their editing really goes with Micheal's personality and delivery.
Proud traditional wife here. I keep the home, homeschool our kids, and do stereotypical “wife” things. My husband owns a business and takes care of our finances. It’s really such a good life. I feel so bad for these poor deluded women. They are really missing out.
I was drinking water the moment he said “Hitler drank water, why are you drinking water” I nearly spat it out lmao 2:34
I had no idea that my role as a homemaker put the fear of hell into others, rawr!
But seriously, I am beyond blessed that I get to stay home and take care of our children and home while my husband works the long hard hours. I am more than happy to make their every meal, and run every load of laundry. Also my entire focus is on God, followed by my husband, then children, and that’s why it works for us.
@Texas Family Life Very very nice, most people miss the hierarchy of family. Really glad to see someone nail it spot on.
I am a trad wife with a twist...I work outside the home too. I cook, clean, budget household spending, take care of laundry and go food shopping. My husband works 12 hr. shifts, more than me, and I want him to relax when he comes home because if roles were reversed, I would hope for the same. On his days off, he'll help me cook, clean dishes, and do yard work. I am the only one of my friends who is in a happy marriage (those who are married, that is).
Because your are both serving each other in the capacities that you can and are best at. Beautiful!
Similar situation. It’s hard to be a stay at home in this economy although that is certainly what would make me happiest.
@Raven Carlton If my workweek is busy, I try to cook enough for two days, especially if I know by the time I come home, my husband will be leaving for work. It's also nice because it's one less day of cooking.
6:55 The term "trad wife" is a shortened version of "traditional wife," which refers to a woman who adheres to traditional gender roles within a marriage or household. The term gained popularity in online communities, particularly among conservative and traditionalist circles, where it is used to describe women who prioritize traditional values such as marriage, motherhood, and domestic duties over pursuing careers or feminist ideals.
The exact origin of the term is unclear, but it gained mainstream attention in 2018 after a viral article titled "The Retro Wife" was published in The Spectator, a conservative British magazine. The article praised women who embrace traditional gender roles, sparking a debate on social media about the merits and drawbacks of such a lifestyle. Since then, the term has been used in various online forums, blogs, and social media platforms, often with different connotations and meanings depending on the context.
As for the meaning in the sense of erotica, there is no evidence to suggest that the term "trad wife" originated from pornography or was used by writers as erotica. While some terms and phrases related to traditional gender roles and relationships have been used in the context of pornography or erotica, the use of the term "trad wife" to describe a woman who embraces traditional gender roles is not connected to pornography or erotica. Rather, the term is primarily used in conservative and traditionalist circles as a way to describe a lifestyle choice or philosophy.
So I think she’s just making it up.
I absolutely love being a Traditional Wife. My husband is my very best friend, and taking care of him, our Triplets, our 10 and 13 yr olds, is what brings me joy. It is also part of how I show him how much I appreciate him for taking care of all of us.
What the hell makes these people think that women, or people in general, are trying to push the traditional roles on anyone? I don't give a shit what they do with their life. I don't even raise my own daughters to live the same way as me. Although they have an amazing role model in me, and my triplets DO want to "be a mommy", they also want to be a Doctor, a Firefighter, and an EMT. My oldest has always wanted to be in the military. She lives her everyday life preparing to be a Soldier. I'm proud of each of them, as well as my son, who wants to be a TH-camr.
Haha I have a traditional, happy, healthy, successful, regular family. But the second lady cracked me up how she somehow assumes that “the man” makes all the choices and lays down the law. Lol. I always say “my husband is the head of the family, yes. But I am the neck that turns the head”
Amen sister!
My Big Fat Greek Wedding... That's my favorite line in the movie.
I see what you did there.
@@yellowroses8736 why are you leaving meeeee.
@YellowRoses my fav line from that movie 💕
It amazes me how the party of "Don't tell me what to do because it's my choice" resembles a party of "Tell everyone what to do because we disagree"
If they were truly happy with being themselves, they wouldn't need to tell anyone else anything!!
Exactly
Why didn't Micheal play one of those videos instead then? You are right. I agree with you that Mike is an idiot and chose the wrong vids.
As a trad wife I would like to let her know we are too busy taking care of our husband's and families to worry about online opinions.
Hi, I am happy for you and your husband! Could you tell me if any of you had a previous relationship(sexual) before you guys met? I am curious if that influences a marrige, Thanks!
@@rafaelbarbosa7423 we both had experience before we met. It doesn't create an issue unless you let it. We both thought we were going to be married before we had met each other and we made mistakes. We helped heal the heart of the other and now we are inseparable
I've been a "traditional wife" to the same man for 28 years. I'm also raising 2 boys. I was told by a feminist a couple years ago, that I am setting a bad example for my sons because I enjoy taking care of my family 😏. I have taught my sons how to take care of themselves, yet because I enjoy taking care of my home, cooking for my family, etc, I am setting a bad example which will lead my sons to expect the same from their future wives. Yep. I can only hope. 👍🏻
Been a 'traditional wife" for 26 years. Guess I've been setting the "bad example", too. Our son says he wants to find someone more like me! Not having much luck these days...
@L Barton
It is VERY hard to find young women who think like us. My 18 yr old son told me the other day that he doesn't think a "traditional girl" his age exists. Add on top of that the fact that we are Christians. He said he hasn't met a girl his age yet who is still a virgin and doesn't drink and party. The ones at church are either already taken or have no interest in a relationship. I told him to stop looking and just focus on himself for a while. God will bring him together with someone if it's meant to be. It's easier said than done though when you're an 18 year old boy 💁♀️.
That long echo edit at 10:01. Chef’s kiss!👩🍳
As a single young man, I have my own life, but when I get a wife and have kids, I’m ready to set my own needs aside for them. When we become parents, we are still ourselves, but we have more important obligations to our spouses and children. Once married, you give up worthless individualism for sweet, fulfilling service to our new family.
I just can’t get over how happy they all seemed…😂😅
Right? Especially the first one.
My wife and I recently had our first child. She is a woman that has always needed to work, and has worked full time since she was 18.
She cries tears of joy when holding our child. In the 5 years we've been together, ive never seen happy tears from that sale she made, that appointment she arranged, that file she filed.
As a women who fell for all this "independent woman" shit, which ran me into the ground and pushed me to lengths no one could ever imagine... BE A TRADITIONAL WOMAN/ WIFE. THE GRASS IS WAAAAAYYYYYY GREENIER ON THIS SIDE. FROM MY EXPERIENCES.
I never regretted making dinner every night for my husband and kids . Took pride in having a clean home and volunteering at the kids school . My grandmother was my biggest influence of balancing domestic responsibilities with staying feminine. ❤ thank god for traditional values
Oh my goodness, I'm a danger! Why wouldn't a woman want to make her husband happy?
well, modern views have a lot of negative ideas about men, and apparently we're supposed to - IF we even marry - marry one we yet also still don't value, respect, like, cherish or wish to serve, and of course they see the word service only in a negative, oppressed way. Never mind that the president of the united states is supposed to be only there to serve all of us ! Or that many of we wives don't base our service on our feelings or on our husband's current behavior or attitudes, but on our own duty to and hopefully love for God. Taking comfort in the fact that quite often our good example, our love, our being worthy of respect, will bring about positive change in our husband all the sooner or at leat not complicate the situation with adding more things to fight about, more reasons for distrust, dislike, unhappiness. Much less all the things one could say if kids are in this home ( we don't have any of our own yet).
Because these modern women need to be at the center.
😂😂😂❤❤❤!!!
ALL THIS IS EVE'S FAULT. IF NOT FOR EVE, PEOPLE WOULD NOT BE PASSING SLAVERY AS LOVE. NOT MY BUSINESS, THEY ARE MEN OUT THERE THAT ARE WILING TO SERVE THEIR WIVES, ILL JUST CHOSE THOSE.
@@ajb.822 YOU ARE ABLE TO THINK LIKE THESE BECAUES OF ALL THESE BRAINLESS WOMEN
When we finally figured out that I would get to become a stay at home mom, I could not believe how blessed I was/ am. I can’t imagine being so self-centered and ungrateful. I’d consider myself traditional-ish. My husband still contributes to the housework and making meals. But I also homeschool, so I have my children 24/7. ❤
I saw a recent article talking about how females are getting stood up more than ever on dating apps like Tinder and Bumble.
These videos explain a lot of why that is happening.
I honestly don't know what they expect...one look at them (especially the one with the booger dangling from his/her/its nose) automatically leaves skid marks in the parking lot...
For sure.
No it doesn’t, it’s just you making excuses for guys being jackasses. If you don’t want to show up for a date, don’t make plans
@@msnewsenior you're so edgy.
I'm surprised I could hear you since you're so far away on top of your high horse 😂🤮
@@msnewseniorwomen should split the bill instead of looking for a free meal. If I rolled up on one of these goblins Id drive away too.
I'm from India, I really desire to be a trad wife. But my whole family is treating me like I've done something terrible in my life, without having a career! Please pray for me 😔
I just said a prayer for you.
prayers!! Sending all the love and hope your wish comes true! ❤
Wife first.
Business far 2nd.
When your kids are moving out, you start your career / business… that’s ultra wise for family power.
Your photos on your Instagram account are nice
I will pray for you! Keep your desire known to Jesus, and pray for it, he will answer!
When my children were young and I had the ability to stay home and raise them, I LOVED being a traditional housewife. My husband worked SO INCREDIBLY HARD for me to have the chance to stay home and raise our kids that I EMBRACED doing the cooking and the cleaning and looking my best when he got home. My next comment would make some heads explode but I also gave him “LOVE” whenever he wanted because I was so grateful to him for working so hard. Once our kids were teens I started my own career making good money with a GREAT job. Feminists can bite me.
You say it like having sex with him was a sacrifice you made. lol
I’m a young SAHM, I’ve become one recently after working consistently for 5 years and I can say without a doubt I feel like I was made to do this, it’s so rewarding and I’m so happy. Idc if other women don’t want that but why put us down? Not very feminist of them
As a 17 yo male, there is nothing more that I want in a relationship other than a trad wife
And that can only come with the greater responsibility - becoming a trad husband.
You, young man, are inviting GOD to bless your future family. Your wife, children, entire family for generations, will be closer and stronger because of your decision. May GOD continue HIS blessings upon you and your future loved ones ❤
Hold tight to HIS hand and HE will bring your desires to fruition.
Your parents must be proud of you, I truly am!
@@ladiesgentswegothim Most men DO take that responsability.
Hapilly, and proudly...
@@marymeyer6905 bruh
Only if she home schools or else she needs to get a job.
Hahaha! I'm watching this while making dinner for my hubby and my 5 kids as a stay at home wife, and homeschooling mom. I have an undergraduate degree and had a great paying job which I enjoyed when I chose to give it up to care for my family. I don't wear makeup and dress up every day, but I find great joy caring for my family and raising my children. I know not everyone has the financial means to do what I have the privilege to do, but I thank God that I may. We can all make decisions that are beneficial and fulfilling in our lives and they don't have to affect the decisions made by others in their own unique situation. "....I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances" Phil. 4:11b
Being taking care of my husband for more than 50 years and I LOVE IT.
Pushing 30 yrs for us and I totally agree!
Hooray! I love to hear about these long time love stories.
My husband has beign a stay at home dad for 20 years now, He does all the chores and he loves it.
Stay at home mom here. I love it I’m glad I’m there for my kids. And I can watch them grow up and we have that limited time together
I lost my job about 6 months before I got married. We already knew we wanted to start a family immediately after the wedding. We also knew we wanted to try for me to be able to not work and stay at home with our children. So, I didn’t look for a new job. Figured we should try the one income thing just the two of us. So I was a stay at home wife for years. Getting pregnant turned out to be tricky for us. lol! But I remember the look on people’s faces when I said I took care of my husband and our home was my occupation. Young and old, male and female looked shocked and even concerned sometimes. It bothered me. 3 kids later more people seem to think it’s not so strange but there still is a few that raise their eyebrow. I don’t understand what the problem is!
There's no problem! Bravo to you both for figuring our how you want to live and going for it! I was a stay at home mom for many years. Blessings to you and your family! Enjoy it!
People will get weird about people happy taking another route than them. It makes them feel like they missed out.
I have been a full-time homemaker and mom for 29 years. It didn't come naturally to me but everytime, I considered leaving my kids to work, I would feel soul-sick. But, I know I am blessed with a husband who is willing to bear the financial burden. My oldest is 29 and my youngest is 8.
If anything that you can distantly connect to 1940s Germany is bad according to the woke crowd, then they should all be really into eating meat, smoking, and drinking because AH was a vegetarian, non-smoker, and teetotaler.
Hotler also liked dogs and chocolate. Let's see them give that up.
That failed artist also started off as very poor in his early life he was basically sleeping on public benches and in homeless shelters it wasn't till he enlisted to fight for Germany in WW1 that his life completely turned around and where he began to make the right connections with the right people that would turn him into the leader of Germany who almost conquered Europe.
My dad started learning how to do laundry after he retired to help my mom with house chores and she helps him with his woodworking projects. But for my entire childhood my father worked looooonnnnggg grueling hours to provide for our family and my mom took care of us and the home. They didn't need to pay for childcare, one person was not taking on 2 roles. It was an even trade off in which the motherly role was left to my mother and the hard labor was left to the man ( my father) because he was better built for that kind of work. Like what is the problem? Feminists are so strange!
My wife is a trad wife. It wasn't what we planned, but medical issues decided that and she loves it. With a little one on the way she likes that she isn't working full time, but instead can focus on the home and the baby.
I’m an engaged woman that’s currently working and my fiancé and I have already had the discussion that when we get married and we’re blessed with a child, that I can stay home and take care of the baby. I’m so excited and cannot wait for that. I’ve always wanted to be a wife and mother and to take care of my family
You are wise! Over 35 years ago when we were first married, my husband and I purposed to live on his income and planned accordingly. We lived a frugal, contented life. He used public transportation for much of our marriage in order to help keep expenses down while I shopped thrift stores to do likewise. We were blessed with two sons which I was able to teach at home.
Now empty nesters, we enjoy the fruit of our imperfect labors which God blessed in seeing our children settle down at a young age (by today's standards), have families of their own, and lead responsible, godly lives. They, too, are prioritizing their families over lesser things (worldly accolades, better/nicer "things," travel, etc.). I pray that they continue in these things!
Though it will require commitment, forethought, and frugality perhaps, young people can follow traditional roles in marriage today! Oh, that more young people would make wise choices like you are making!
I absolutely LOVE Michael’s facial expressions while watching questionable videos😂
They're the best! So are the editors, that joker face was hilarious 😂
Genuinely love my husband, he hard works all day,makes money,pays the bills,has stress on his shoulders comes in flat out more tired then me when ive taken care of my son and home all day and yes thats a job in itself. My husband was working late,sends a text that he's hungry not in any way to get me to cook for him but that he hasn't eaten for most of the day sweating away. I tell him I'm going to cook for him he says he wasn't asking me to cook for him and I said "I know,even if you did I would still cook for you." I do it because....I-love-him. I care for his well being as he does for me. We help eachother.
I consider it MY CHOICE and a BLESSING to be a TRAD Wife. Someone else doesn’t like it fine…. That’s literally what’s so awesome about our country.. we get to choose. They still don’t get it.
That's exactly what the feminists are saying too that it should be women's choice. However the trad wives they were reacting to was saying that women's place should be in the home and that they don't think women should be able to vote. The tradwives were the ones not encouraging women to have a choice.
Except most people including one of the "bad examples" in this video express that it's up to the individual, but Knowles just brushes it off and lies about it as if she said the opposite
I love my life with my high school sweetheart and four children, married for 13 years and known him for 16 ( half my life)... We worked hard, grew up together, and now have land with a 100 year old house on it... good careers and an amazing marriage. Where as, these women seem to be angry... for being single? I am confused. If they don't want a life style of a wife with children, than why are they so pressed at women, like me, who aspired for it? I cook, I clean, I home school my children, I have a business... all of which helped with my depression. I think they are so angry because they want to have this type of lifestyle but they are simply too lazy to work hard enough to get it...? Or, perhaps they think that I am weak for being a loving wife and mother?
With all that why did you have depression 🤔
I am a proud TRAD WIFE! I love and honor my husband. Sometimes I call him "my liege," and he LOVES it. And he treats me excellent in return. I am not ashamed❤
You are building a real legacy for your family (if you have kids yet)
@@pinkwonderpower7906You and I have broken God's law and because He is good He will punish all sins. We are criminals, deserving of judgement. And that's why we deserve to go to hell and would go to hell, were it not for Jesus the Son of God. Jesus lived a perfect life and then died on the cross on behalf of us, taking the judgement/punishment/anger of God against sinners on Himself (in their place). And three days later He rose from the dead, conquering death. It's through faith in Jesus (that He is Lord and the Son of God) and what He did on the cross that Jesus' perfect life is accounted to the person who believes and their sins are forgiven based on Jesus paying for them on the cross. Turn to God the Father in this faith and you will be saved. Confess your sins to the Lord, trusting that He will forgive you.
Perhaps you don't believe God exists, but it is a scientific and logical impossibility that nothing created everything. He does exist and holds you accountable. Believe in Jesus and you'll be saved.
I've been a stay at home mother for 20 years now. The way it looks for our family has gone through many phases, but I have been grateful for every moment. I have learned more about myself and what I want from life being a wife and mother than any other way, and that includes earning my bachelor's degree while raising my family! I am an advocate for the family -- my husband does not dominate over me because he earns more money, we are a team! I serve him and he serves me, and together we are raising respectable children who will hopefully be mentally equipped to be strong leaders in their generation! Traditional moms for the win!
It just sucks that it's like they're allowed to flaunt theirs and that doesn't create harm to anybody, but when a traditional woman talks about hers that's creating harm
I don't know if I'm considered a trad wife. I don't dress up and wear makeup every day for my husband, but I am a stay at home mom who makes sure the house and our children are taken care of while he works to provide for us. I'm a Christian and I don't really wear any makeup anymore after my husband expressed he didn't really care for it, and through my faith, I know that obeying my husband is very important and I do it willingly. I love making his favorite meals and taking care of our home and children. I know it's a very important role of mine and I welcome the responsibility. Being home with our children means that I can be the mother that they need me to be and they receive proper care and education that isn't dripping with this messed up agenda that is being forced down children's throats today. If that makes me a trad wife then I welcome it. I'm not oppressed in the slightest. I'm so very joyful every single day for the life my husband has helped create with me.
It’s not about the makeup and dresses. It’s about the love.
@@JennFredrickson oh there's plenty of love for what I do. My husband is the very best at appreciating everything I do for him and our kids. It makes it so much easier when he recognizes how important my role is and encourages me to stay at home rather than work.
@@flip416 that’s the best!
You are a traditional wife & a word shouldn't out people in a box. ♥️♥️♥️
You're not a Trad Wife. The Trad Wife lifestyle (the one on the tiktok) advocates for a patriarchal marriage with unbalance power dynamic between the two partners. Most of these women don't have kids yet thus they have all the time of the day to do things in the house and still keep themselves glammed up.
You're a queen! You're a genuine home maker!! You do those things out of love and care for both your husband and kids.
The Trad wife trend on tiktok is more like a role playing for newly wedded couples, not realistic at all and glosses over the fact that settling down as a family is a shared responsibility.
I’ve been a tradwife since the end of Covid and never been happier. On a sad note, these poor Tik-Tok girls! I hope they wake up before their opportunity for marriage and motherhood is gone.
They wont
You're a lot nicer than I am. I am FED UP with these people and their twisted ideologies.
Proud traditional wife here. I love to cook for my husband and spend time with him. They can say they're happy all day long but the truth is they're miserable and deep down they wish they had the marriage I have. I don't care what others want to do with their lives, but don't put me down for mine. God created us for different roles and we should embrace it.
Pretty sure if I ask my homesteading, homeschooling, christ-centered wife to be less of a "trad wife" she would cut me. 😅
We're on the same path
This made me giggle. Sounds like a great marriage. Congrats!
@@theimmortal4718 good path to be on 👍
@@JennFredrickson Thanks! I'm blessed!
Lol! I like the husband-like sense of humour that you have going. Hoping to someday be with someone who appreciates the pre-built "Trad wife" in me as well. In my early single 20's and working a STEM corporate job is good, but not as fulfilling according to me. God bless you two and your family by the way :)
I derive great amounts of satisfaction from keeping my home clean and tidy, the praise I receive from my fiancé is the cherry on top! Having a relationship where I clean and cook whilst my partner fixes our car and does DIY around the house works perfectly for us. The love and support we have for each other only grows stronger with each act of service. These people who complain about the way other couples choose to live their lives are utterly miserable and perpetually angry at one thing or the other. I’m so grateful I’m not like them.
♥️♥️♥️
@maisiefrench4424 Hi, I am happy for you and your husband! Could you tell me if any of you had a previous relationship(sexual) before you guys met? I am curious if that influences a marrige, Thanks!
Been a happy trad wife for over 25 years. Hubby brings home the bacon and I fry it up. I love taking care of him, the kids and now grandkids. Life is beautiful and God is good.
haha yep - they win the bread, we bake it :D
I believe one of the biggest problems they have is they don't have any of God in their life! Seems to be the missing factor in much of society.
I call my fiancé "Sir". He does rule over me. He's firm but kind, gentle, and we're saving ourselves for marriage but I know he's going to make a great husband and father. I want my daughter to see what a firm, loving, man is. I want my son to see the hero and leader his dad is.
There were times when I could afford to be a stay at home mom. When we couldn't afford it I worked outside the home. Stay at home mom definitely was the preference.
It's amazing how our biology and nature work. You go to work, which you are paid to do... yet would rather stay home and do the tremendous amount of work that's required to keep a home in good order, for just the price of not having to work outside the home. This makes no sense logically, but nature isn't about logic. It's about harmony.
@@skydriver5709 you have to remember that the work load doubles when you work outside the home. Kids that are young need a parent taking care of them, not someone who just gets paid to watch them. When the kids are in school they need parents at home. No one cares about your kids the way you do.
@@sherryklein9897 Yes it's true nobody cares about kids as much as their own parents, but the old saying "It takes a village to raise a child", is 100% true. For a child to be raised properly, they need a lot more than just the parents that love them the most. They also require other people who love them 'enough'. Sheltered children fare horribly in life. They need others, and I would even say children need people who don't love them... because that's the world, and they need to know how to deal with and navigate the nuances of life. They more they know and the more experience they have, the better. Of course, these things need to be additions, not replacements for parental involvement.
@@skydriver5709 I think it depends what age we’re talking about. A 2-3 year old doesn’t need to frequently navigate the world of adults who don’t love them, not for extended periods of time I mean. There’s enough nuance to figure out mastering their world, expressing wants and needs, learning to listen, to accept boundaries and restrictions as well as to creatively explore, building their knowledge base in a world of their family and family friends who care deeply for them, as well as interactions with other children their age in social settings, who would also be those who don’t love them.
What they don’t need is to spend their whole day, day after day, around adults who don’t care as much for them when they are THAT young. Kids under school age do better with the people who love them as the ones taking care of them. It’s just how we’re built. It’s certainly not affordable or convenient but it’s still the truth, whether we like it or not.
@@amostlyreasonableguy I did say those things such as school, daycare, and babysitters are not supposed to take the place of parents' direct involvement with their children. However, I don't necessarily think it's how we're built. The reason we need people around us who love us at a young age, is because we're helpless and cannot attend to our own needs. It's in our best interest from a survival standpoint. I'm not even sure very young children are developmentally capable of understanding or returning love, so to them there's no difference between someone who loves them giving them a bottle, and someone else, beyond habitual attachment to someone. At least until around the age of 3. You can teach them to give someone a hug or a kiss, but they don't understand the meaning. It's basically just teaching them to do a trick. Nor do children even start to retain long term memory until the age of 4 or 5. The only real reasons we need people around us who love us, is to keep us alive during that stage of development. Is it important for the baby that someone holds them all the time, carries them wherever they go, and hugs and kisses them regularly? I don't think so. I think it's just a natural response for someone who loves the child, but it's purely for their own comfort and emotional gain. Doing it too much, can actually be unhealthy for the child, because children can understand patterns and learn bad habits. Like, "If I cry, mommy will pick me up out of my crib and I won't be alone". It's actually very important for development beyond the first year, that we don't become "reliable' at all times, and that we teach them independence, which I think is the single most important thing children need to be taught.
The purpose of raising children isn't to love them or make them feel loved. Those ARE definitely great things to go along with raising a child, but the purpose of raising children is to teach them to become strong, responsible and mature adults who will be a benefit to society, not a detriment.
To be honest, I'm actually pretty sick of all the kids and young adults today who were raised by parents who basically loved and worshiped them.
"I am a caricature of a trad wife in real life...but let me tell you why you shouldn't be a trad wife!" - the libs
I drink water only because Hitler drinks water
LMAO!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣
The only right way to drink water
Im a tradwife. Do i believe my way of life is the most fulfilling? Yes i do. Do i believe the world would benefit from more women adopting the tradwife life? Yes i do. Do i believe women would be happier if they were tradwives? Yes i do. Am i gonna force women to be tradwives? No. If yall wanna be miserable that's on you.
We all know that one, "gift to the earth" woman, who was a trad wife. Grandmother, mother, aunt, friend's mom lol our life wouldn't be the same without her
6:30 Just because all they know is pornography, does not mean everything derives from pornography.
The best part of my life is being a traditional Wife and Mother. I also work Full-time as an Investigator and make more than my husband. I work hard and live a lovely life. These parties feel really bitter and lonely.
Oh wow talk about a multitasker! Keep up the good work!
I found purpose in my life when I married my husband. That purpose was fulfilled when we had our children. ❤