The same people online are the same people you see in public. Dating offline doesn’t mean you won’t meet a psychopath. EDIT: It’s weird that some of you are trying to debate 🧐. People with common sense know there’s a risk dating anyone no matter where you meet them.
She went to lunch with him after he threatened to kidnap her son and kill her family 😳. When someone shows you who they are believe them. I’m happy that young lady survived.
She was probably petrified and thought that if she met with him before he left the state that it would maybe calm things down and stop him from harassing her. I'm sure that was her thought process.
@@kristenlawrence4657 I said the same thing. She probably thought that meeting him like he wanted would calm him down, and then she could just stop talking to him and everything would be fine.
It's not the dating app, you could meet the same person in a club, grocery store, mall, etc....You just have to be more on top of who you let in your life . PERIOD! FACTS..💯💯💯
The dating app is just worse because people can make all kinds of fake lives and profiles, they can even use fake pictures and when you meet them in person you will see the dark side of them and it's over, and won't nobody know who the real monster is, women seem to let their guard down more because online it can make you feel as if you've known them for a long time while knowing nothing about them, in person dating you'll at least get some signs right off and see awkward behavior that can warn youz though some can hide all that and be completely charming for a longer period until you see some signs, I just rather date in public vs through apps on any given day. I actually rather be single for now than date at all. Women should get their license to carry, the media also doesn't make black women aware of the amount of serial killers in our own communities, I have talk to plenty of black folks who swear serial killers are majority white when that isn't true and been changed over the last 60 years.
Thanking the most high for sparing her life to warn others what could possibly happen. Online people are the same folks walking in public. Be attentive. We thank you for your strength and courage to share your story. That part “it never goes away” gave me chills. I hope and pray that feeling lessens.
Social media is the internet corral for rubes. And they squeeze every last drop of blood out of you, by selling your info to everyone and anything. Everybody's a "cash cow" on those 'services' And don't forget: FaceBook + Instagram = FBI
mz morton id say, I wish more young ladies understood how to say “Nope” when, (out of what feels like nowhere) a man u thought was starting to care about you as a woman and a person says something completely off the wall and beyond. These chemicals that are happening in our brains when romantic stuff is happening are very primitive sometimes; they tell us to chill and relax and things will be okay. (That means don’t make him mad.) Unfortunately they are primitive in that don’t tell us to automatically go “Nope” and disappear ourselves out of his life. And yeah those primitive chemicals kept this woman alive. So in that way they did save her. I still hate thinking like potential prey while dating. Anyone else think it’s bs that women have to think like potential prey, when we are actually on our way to hopefully being someone’s special one? No wonder make us mad to see this.
@@johannahhuttenstone1 believe me when I say I been thru similiar situations and some how God managed to get me away cause it is hard it really is ...sometimes we think these guys will change and everything will get better but in reality things won't get better just worst ...they did in my case and what's crazy about it I met him online also
adoretay It is unfathomable to think that you can wait until you are engaged with someone to introduce them to your children. That is stupid because then you don't know how they will get along with your child before you are engaged to that person and ready to get married.
The first sign that someone is a narcissist is when they contact you SEVERAL TIMES in a row without you replying even once. If you get with one of these, remember this advice. You block them and they will call you from an unknown number. If they text you or call you five times and you have not reciprocated at all, even once, red flag! It doesn't matter if it's five times over 2 weeks, the idea that they are still persistent in this scenario shows you the type of harassing behavior that you are about to endure. They do not take no for an answer and they become obsessed with you, which usually doesn't end well. Narcissists are almost always stalkers.
@@terrencerandall3127 Yes she definitely did and it is scary because these girls that get on these sites that think they are looking for love they have no idea these people have bad intentions some are even kidnappers and people that are wanted by the police. One of my friends actually was on that exact website but she learned her lesson when she found out the person she was talking to was in court for sexually assaulting his ex girlfriend when she found out she blocked him and deleted the app.
🤦🏻♀️ Whoever came up with that charge is an idiot. I’m sorry to say that, but where is the justice for this beautiful young lady? That’s not justice! That my dude is ATTEMPTED MURDER!!!! The American Justice System is beyond flawed 🤦🏻♀️
This is why it’s called the patriarchy. Men, particularly abusive men continue to support men and minimise the danger to women. The word of a pathologically lying man is worth more than the word of an honest woman. I’m sure some kid is gonna reply to this saying ‘not all men…
Like someone said you meet psycho anywhere,what Ive been through Im done with dating.I had a man tell me I know how to get to you through your kids. I snapped, let's say I put the fear in him
Its not dating apps. He is a sociopath/ narcissist. You can meet a psycho anywhere: work, grocery, church...You just have to trust your instincts, meet/talk to their friends/family, background checks, and pray he/she is not going to snap one day.
La' Vy Very true. It's like an epidemic. The symptoms are always the same. My son's father left him while in utero. He even threatened to quote rip that baby
La' Vy yes I agree but you can’t do all that checking if you don’t meet them face to face. Meeting folks online is just too vague for me. Half of em use a false name anyway. Can’t background check that. When are you gonna have opportunity to talk to someone’s friends and family and you met them online? Shoot friends and family might be crazy too.
I’ve had my fair share of dating apps & by the grace of God I can say I’ve never had any bad run ins… if I get any type of red flag or sketchy behavior from the guy I go M.I.A! But online dating is not for the weak… if you’re desperate, lonely or gullible, I definitely do not recommend trying those apps out because you will become an easy target & those typically seem like the ones who go through the worst experiences, unfortunately.
I remember when I was about 17 I met this guy in my neighborhood and I got a certain Vibe about him. He seemed like a dude that would like sell drugs or something but I was trying to see past what I thought was judgement. So I went to his house cuz he invited me and we were just sitting there watching a movie and my instincts were going off like an alarm and it was literally telling me to leave get out of there or you're going to die. The feeling kept getting stronger and stronger and it was so strong to the point to where I could no longer ignore it so I told him I had to leave. Shortly after I had left gunman bust into his home and shot him dead. It just goes to show you that when your instincts are telling you something listen. Thanks for reading.
Thank god you're okay. Always trust your gut. I have a similar story. There was this guy who I was friends with. After about like 2 years of me knowing him we started sleeping together which made us friends with benefits lol. I would go over his house like 2 or 3 times a week to chill. Sometimes we'd have sex and sometimes we'd just watch movies and discuss life.(everything I just said is irrelevant to the story but whatever lol) Anywho, Regardless of what we did I'd always end up spending the night. Well, this one particular night after we'd finished doing our business I got this uneasy feeling and I had to go, I was so uncomfortable being in his home I even asked him to come stay at my house for the night because I just knew something bad was gonna happen. He thought I was tripping and needless to say, he didn't come with me. The next day a friend of mine called and told me that some guys broke into his home, robbed him, and shot him. He survived though, thank god. Always, always trust that gut feeling.
I really would like to talk with him to understand why he behaves as he does. I hate to say, but a lot of these young men with these kind of dispositions have troubled childhood without a doubt. He's no younger than 25. He's a baby. So, he is only acting out for what he missed in his life. Either way, his behavior may be a result of misplaced need fulfillment. His mother may not have given him what he need now he's trying to make up with the women he abuses. What would his mother say. What would his grandmother say. So sad.
No you shouldn't be dating somebody on a dating app anyway cuz you don't know exactly who they are this person you know this particular person there's women like that too so we can't justify because you know an individual wants to be on there you know that's just the it's like that's justified in the your own personal self not blaming anything on anybody but we can't justify people forget what kind of time we're in so that's no the heat he looks very nice clean needed intelligent he looked up he he said all the right things played the part well exactly exact you know look like you had a little money and all the things you looking for on those type of things you know he's nice looking we just want some company we want to you know what other kind of company you know be with somebody and all that and yeah she I'm sure she was thinking the same thing so those type of places are not good and healthy to be finding anybody you can't justify
deestefmorr cops don’t do shit, my sis friend called the cops on her bf cause he pulled out a gun on her and threatened to kill n her kids, cops came & the bf was still there,,all they said was “we’ll handle it” ...they let him walk off , cops left..bf came back and started beating her, then she called her brother & the cops. Brother fucked the bf up & when the cops arrived the 2nd time, they arrested her brother bc the bf looked beat up & lied and said the brother tried to kill him....cops believed it cause he actually did get beat up...but it was cause he put his hands on the boy sister and the first cops that came didn’t do shit. Now then brother been locked up since march & on a bail of $50k
I’m sorry, but after he threatened your child and your family there should be no reason to meet or continue the conversation. And then you got in the car with him alone. 🤦🏾♀️
Narcissists and sociopaths are very good at projecting the "image" to draw in their victims. They are 10-15% 0f the population and are responsible for most abuse in relationships.
I used dating apps in the past, here are some tips for anyone using or planning to start using dating apps: 1 - Always ask for a voice call/facetime, Make sure no one is catfishing you, report their account if they are and immediately block that number. 2 - If you are going out on a date, always alert a close friend or family member where you are going and give them updates on how your doing and if your safe or not in case if their is an issue. If your in danger have that close friend or family member alert the cops if possible. 3 - And this is extremely important, always trust your gut. If you feel like this certain person is not the one or if you think that they are sketchy or dangerous, simply do not go out with that person and block all contact with them, there are some terrible and horrendous people on there. Hope these help any of you in some way. Stay safe!
The apps the people on them could be looking to do exactly what those evil sadistic men did this makes it a little more available to do harm two others they become friends before they even speak to them in person so they think they're friends with a lot in common have to be careful regardless where you meet someone or how you meet them
No, the point is dating agencies are profit driven and don't care who puts up accounts on their sites, people are not vetted or even forced to identify their real selves.
The red flag was when he threatened her son then asked her to go to the park. Ladies notice the red flags immediately and get cameras around your home or let your family or friends know your in danger. You can meet a crazy person in person or online. I advise women delay meeting these people in person and talk and get to know them first. Never tell them where you live or ride in their car or let them ride in yours. Meet in a public place only!
I don't understand why some women will forgive or overlook a threat to their children. I can forgive threats against me but if someone threatens my child, there is no way in this system of things that I will even have a hello for that person. I was watching a true crime on ID. The lady stayed with the man after he tried to drown her son right in front of her. He ended up murdering both boys.
Yep, but most importantly, get guns ladies, and kill these bastards. Answer questions later. These judges and DA's or even cops aren't going to protect you. They're playing games letting these repeat offenders on the streets because they're in your neighborhoods, not theirs. Shoot first, answer questions later.
I don't get how some people can get away with murder, but other people get sentenced harshly and are imprisoned for crimes they didn't even commit.? The "Justice" system is crazy to me,....
your not saying it right ... evil can be disguised as good or evil can be disguised by a handsome face .. there is nothing evil about being handsome but evil can use a handsome face as its disguise
I believe those 3 men were angels sent by God to save this woman. Thank god she is alive and her son. Be very careful ladies when dating, never rush, take your time and when you see someone reveal themself believe it!
No. They were good samaritans who assisted a woman in distress on the street. That literally happens every hour of every day on this earth. Over 50,000 children starve to death everyday and yall wont give God credit for that but the SECOND a human does a good deed its "Praise God". Get help.
WingsOf a Phoenix yesssssss I have male friends who tell me the stories. Funny thing is even men have a pattern of picking crazy women or violent women. If every woman you've dated ends up pouring antifreeze in your gas tank it's time to look 👀 inside yourself.
The problem is that these young chicks think 6 months is enough time to introduce their children to men they're just dating. Let alone a man they met on POF. Stop being so desperate to have a man in the house.
They did a very nice thing, above and beyond...but that's not a measurement of their manhood. If they would've stayed out if it, maybe just call 911, that doesn't mean they're not "real men".
@@anjistone2946 How tf do know what a real man is, as a woman? Well then, as a man, I say you're not a real woman because you're trying to insult a man, and not staying in your place. A real woman knows to stay in her place. You don't have those real woman instincts though.
i can’t stand people like this no common sense the man threatened your son and family. you allowed him to see your son and still went to go see him after the threat. yet you want to live for your son, dumb ass you put yourself in that situation
He already broke her down enough to where she would try to negotiate with him after he did harm to her. Its almost as if she excused his behavior because she “upset” him. It’s really sad.
When you are being mentally, emotionally, physically abused by a psychopath, narcissist, sociopath, etc… it is common to not be able to see things clearly. They essentially mind @!&%# you.
Background checks are good. But you never really know what stage of lunacy a person is going through when they meet U. They can get evil years down the line.
Phillip : This is very true, ppl. can change fior the worst...I believe today, things happen much to fast... Ppl. meet todaay and chat, and tomorrow they having sex, this won`t work, it`s only for pleasure...It`s also good, to meet the mans family sometime soon...
freda jordan the only problem i got with bringin in family members is that you are responsible for who you select as a partner. So if your partner that you chose is crazy & ends up killing one or more of your family members, & you survive,then you will be accountable.
So she didn't believe his threats over the phone, he had to make her a believer huh, smh. She's lucky cause a lot of women don't get a 2nd chance after encountering a male like this. Respect to the guys who helped her instead of looking away, glad she's alive 💯
Praying for you and your son to stay safe always and be protected by your guardian angels plus for you to heal. Thank you for being brave and sharing your story.
That judge needs to be removed from the bench! He actually said, "How was i to know?" YOU RUN A BACKGROUND CHECK FOR HIS PRIOR CONVICTIONS, JUDGE! You have the power to do that easier than anyone. Plus, what he did to this woman was enough to throw him in jail.
This is her story, her truth. This has happened to others as well. She is so blessed to have made it out of the situation alive and her son is safe also. Not once did they say this only happens on dating sites and apps. This disgusting man likely harmed women through multiple routes.
@@skydelight The only reason daring apps are being scapegoated in this situation is because dating has revolved it around non social behavior. This society is very closed off and people don’t meet in open ways. Western societies have dating coaches for males. If it was other countries this wouldn’t be the case because they are more open like Brazil. Also women are empowered with a lot of things and Me Too doesn’t help the average guy. This story adds fuel to a closed off non outlet society which hides psychopaths to good dudes who might be lame in women’s eyes. But over the years this westernized American society has become more closed off.
Cuz it's the easiest way for people to get raped in Murder cuz all your information is on these they don't do background checks or anyting I don't think dating sites should be out there
As a gay man this is why I gave up dating all together. They use apps to lure people in and these psychos don't show that they are crazy till they got you. I was raped by a guy I met online... Pray that this family is recovering and doing better.
@@hildamoe5874 Thank You ❤, its gotten a little bit easier since I told my family what happened and opened up more but still struggle with it everyday, def changed me for life but it taught me to not trust & that I'm a survivor. Take care as well 💙
@@KainegotgameUnfortunately I'm anti-gun lol I hate them 😕 and legally can't own because of suicide attempt. I carry a knife and pepper spray, may get a taser as well thats about the most I can do. My middle name is Devante haha
I'm so glad to see so many comments warning against dating period! It's not like there's an app world out here, these people live in the community & we have to be careful regardless.
The difference between online dating and regular dating is that on the app you can talk to six different people all at the same time and get to choose which one is best for you. So your chances of meeting a stalker are higher.
I'm working on that right now. All online dating accounts are closed. I tried online dating. I'm sure the guys were cool for other people, just not for me. I lost interest when little red birdies started doing acrobatic break dance moves around red flags.
@@silversage1626 what the hell do you mean except black women??? Black is the first race, black is gorgeous, black is beautiful, black is talented and that's why everyone on the planet Earth tries to hate and mostly imitate black queens because anything we do, you and the world become jealous because you want to be a black queen ALSO.
I like when the interviewer asked her does she feel lucky? She responded I feel blessed everyday and everyday I thank God for it... she not lucky, she's loved. 🙌🏽🙏🏽💯 God bless you and to the three workers that called the police!
@@nurdytyrd3816 You mad she said something about God, but she can say that and you can choose to ignore it and go on about your day. Get mad about something else and not someone's elses faith which doesn't effect you way or the other. And by the way, God still LOVES your miserable behind.
I think all those dating apps should be illegal unless every person with an account has a full background check and is cleared of any sexual or physical violence
It's not the sites fault. There are evil people out there. It's a risk that you just have to take. And take your own precautions. I met my x wife on POF
Not everyone with a criminal background is a horrible person. I met someone who made mistakes and I have as well. They had nothing to do with harming another person. Criminal history or not.. a person can be dangerous either way.
How does the judge not know about other offenses in another state???? What is the point of fingerprinting if not to put someone in the judicial system to track their crimes…
Never let someone know where you live until you know them well. Never introduce your children to a stranger online until you feel safe to do so. I recommend having cameras at your front door, Back door, Garage . And let a friend you trust have access to the footage so if something happens they will know and help. What ever you do, Do not tell the spouse about the cameras This is for you and your family's safety.
But this is the thing though, how do we EVER really know someone? Some folks have been married for years with children and one day they snap and kill their whole family. IMO there is always a risk when being in relationships with people. We just have to try to use our discernment as much as possible.
@@hebrewprincess9687 i recommend having a video camera installed at front doors back doors and any garage. One hidden in you're home that your spouse knows nothing about. Have it linked to the cell phone so that you can see whats up when your not around. Or if something happens like what happened to Shanann Watts in 2018. If she had video footage at the garage we would know what he did to her and them babies 😢
This young lady I appreciate her and her bravery so much and I am so happy that she is still with us here on Earth and she is able to fulfill her blessing and being a mother. I am so happy that this man was captured this is great police work! My condolences to the family of the other young lady that did not make it. Yes I absolutely agree with a lot of the comments on here. That it is extremely important to take your time and get to know someone. God bless everyone and be safe
"There's no way the judge could have known" Really? The judge knew he threatened to kill her son and tried to kill her. I feel so sorry for this woman and the trauma she has to live with. She is a victim of a criminal psychopath and a judge that didn't take violence against women and children seriously. This has nothing to do with dating apps.
Exactly. And as a judge, I’m sure you have access to view peoples criminal history no matter what state. Even if you don’t, there’s always google. Plus the fact that he tried to kill her and threatened her son. Come on now…
Wait a minute so he calls her threatening to kill her son and her family, then the next day she meets up with him at a park because he was going to California?
French Vanilla Exactly! You have him on a recording stating that he will kill your son. She's the doorway to her own demise and needs to learn what's inside of her that will allow her to be with a man like this.
Pete THE REAL Relentless Well she doesn't need to be dating anyone if she's willing to put her child in danger. She probably had him babysit her child as well. You know these women are always leaving their children with men they just met.
Everything that looks good or seems good is DEFINITELY not. Too many people trolling for SOMETHING on SOCIAL MEDIA/DATING APPS. That’s why I steer clear.
The same people online are the same people you see in public. Dating offline doesn’t mean you won’t meet a psychopath.
EDIT: It’s weird that some of you are trying to debate 🧐. People with common sense know there’s a risk dating anyone no matter where you meet them.
Painfull truth😕
True, but online dating makes it exponentially easier for psychopaths.
Exaaaaaaactly!
Creepily true
@@TheAfrodziak Ted Bundy and Jeffrey Dahmer were very successful gaining victims without a dating app 🤷🏽♀️
Dating apps aren’t the problem. Murderers and rapist use all forms and methods to prey on individuals.
B Black stop judging off of looks
No you crazy weird rude American male's are the problem. My non American husband is wayyyyy better
Amber Osburn ???? Stop putting everyone that's in America that's a male in the same category... not all is bad ..
Weak ones
Nick Davis ,girls online make it easy.
She went to lunch with him after he threatened to kidnap her son and kill her family 😳. When someone shows you who they are believe them. I’m happy that young lady survived.
My exact thoughts
She was probably petrified and thought that if she met with him before he left the state that it would maybe calm things down and stop him from harassing her. I'm sure that was her thought process.
@@kristenlawrence4657 I said the same thing. She probably thought that meeting him like he wanted would calm him down, and then she could just stop talking to him and everything would be fine.
Exactly! I wouldn't have met him at all!🤦🏽♀️
Exactly
Don’t let your loneliness cloud your judgement. After threatening her son and her family she should have left him alone. Glad she survived
True facts
Your loneliness is actually a need for The God of the Holy Bible not other human
loneliness
@@angelaspringfield5584 thanks for the correction
If someone threatens to do harm to my child, there's no way I would see that person again, EVER!
What if your ex spouse new boyfriend threatens you?
@@elindigeno1215 of course I would get a restraining order and stay far far away from him.
@@heythere432 working on it.
Facts
I just said this !
Dating online is only dangerous because DATING is dangerous. Doesn't matter where or how you meet. Anybody can hide their scary side.
Damn right!!
Yep..
I totally agree
But, dating is somewhat safer when you get an introduction from someone who knows the person. Meeting a total stranger is playing Russian Roulette.
@@brianjackson5732 True, but I can only remember once in my life being introduced to a guy by friends...and that was decades ago.
It's not the dating app, you could meet the same person in a club, grocery store, mall, etc....You just have to be more on top of who you let in your life . PERIOD! FACTS..💯💯💯
The dating app is just worse because people can make all kinds of fake lives and profiles, they can even use fake pictures and when you meet them in person you will see the dark side of them and it's over, and won't nobody know who the real monster is, women seem to let their guard down more because online it can make you feel as if you've known them for a long time while knowing nothing about them, in person dating you'll at least get some signs right off and see awkward behavior that can warn youz though some can hide all that and be completely charming for a longer period until you see some signs, I just rather date in public vs through apps on any given day. I actually rather be single for now than date at all. Women should get their license to carry, the media also doesn't make black women aware of the amount of serial killers in our own communities, I have talk to plenty of black folks who swear serial killers are majority white when that isn't true and been changed over the last 60 years.
U right
Thanking the most high for sparing her life to warn others what could possibly happen. Online people are the same folks walking in public. Be attentive. We thank you for your strength and courage to share your story. That part “it never goes away” gave me chills. I hope and pray that feeling lessens.
I don't get why he was wandering in the streets while he murdered a 29 year old nurse...Justice is failing us!
I guess there was no probable cause unfortunately.
@@Steve0686 well we can't condone his actions, he should be removed from the society!
She’s a black woman so this is a low priority to law enforcement.
@@aphiwemagaya3279 I agree but what can courts can do when the da doesn’t do the job properly.
Where was the nurse family and were they trying to find her killer?
Social media is the devils playground for predators.
Yes ma'am. I almost met my demise from a crazy mutherfucker off of Facebook
Amen Amen 🙏🏽
Elaine Bruner wow, please share
Social media is the internet corral for rubes. And they squeeze every last drop of blood out of you, by selling your info to everyone and anything. Everybody's a "cash cow" on those 'services'
And don't forget: FaceBook + Instagram = FBI
@valerie george Big Facts💯
He’s killed 6 girls before this she truly truly beyond blessed to have gotten away
The most “perfect” man I met was at work. Now he’s on the run and the FBI is looking for him. The dating apps are not the problem.
@UV actually I ended up marrying someone who is really good to me. You just have to weed through a lot of bad apples to find your person.
I would of never gave his ass a ride after he had already threatened my child and my life...that was a mistake
mz morton id say, I wish more young ladies understood how to say “Nope” when, (out of what feels like nowhere) a man u thought was starting to care about you as a woman and a person says something completely off the wall and beyond. These chemicals that are happening in our brains when romantic stuff is happening are very primitive sometimes; they tell us to chill and relax and things will be okay. (That means don’t make him mad.) Unfortunately they are primitive in that don’t tell us to automatically go “Nope” and disappear ourselves out of his life. And yeah those primitive chemicals kept this woman alive. So in that way they did save her. I still hate thinking like potential prey while dating. Anyone else think it’s bs that women have to think like potential prey, when we are actually on our way to hopefully being someone’s special one? No wonder make us mad to see this.
@@johannahhuttenstone1 believe me when I say I been thru similiar situations and some how God managed to get me away cause it is hard it really is ...sometimes we think these guys will change and everything will get better but in reality things won't get better just worst ...they did in my case and what's crazy about it I met him online also
mz morton Right! Things with that person will get worse not better. I work to not be so forgiving that I overlook being treated like trash by someone.
mz morton yup 👌
@@sallyevans5734 bofl😂😂😂ikr
NEVER show your date where you live. And DON’T introduce him to your kids till MONTHS into the relationship.
rvpstudioscanada exactly
She had been dating him six months.
adoretay It is unfathomable to think that you can wait until you are engaged with someone to introduce them to your children. That is stupid because then you don't know how they will get along with your child before you are engaged to that person and ready to get married.
Years into the relationship..u never kno how long a mf can act!!
Months ishhh years if that
Why she agreed to meet this psycho is beyond me!!! Thank God for those three men!
The first sign that someone is a narcissist is when they contact you SEVERAL TIMES in a row without you replying even once. If you get with one of these, remember this advice. You block them and they will call you from an unknown number. If they text you or call you five times and you have not reciprocated at all, even once, red flag! It doesn't matter if it's five times over 2 weeks, the idea that they are still persistent in this scenario shows you the type of harassing behavior that you are about to endure. They do not take no for an answer and they become obsessed with you, which usually doesn't end well. Narcissists are almost always stalkers.
"The common denominator in these cases was dating sites"
No sir, the common denominator was an evil man.
Right!!
IKR wtf
On a dating site dummy and that’s where they usually are at
@@thorndriscoll4577 thank you! She missed the point smh
@@terrencerandall3127 Yes she definitely did and it is scary because these girls that get on these sites that think they are looking for love they have no idea these people have bad intentions some are even kidnappers and people that are wanted by the police. One of my friends actually was on that exact website but she learned her lesson when she found out the person she was talking to was in court for sexually assaulting his ex girlfriend when she found out she blocked him and deleted the app.
*"Second degree strangulation" shouldn't even be a thing. That was ATTEMPTED MURDER! Especially after hearing that phone call!!*
Not to mention he killed people before.
Right!
The Justice system is non existent.
🤦🏻♀️ Whoever came up with that charge is an idiot. I’m sorry to say that, but where is the justice for this beautiful young lady? That’s not justice! That my dude is ATTEMPTED MURDER!!!! The American Justice System is beyond flawed 🤦🏻♀️
Exactly 💯...
A background check should be given on all dating sites for all members
People, if you're hearing voices in your head telling you to do something you know if wrong, seek help ASAP!!!
The first problem was seeing him off after he threatened to kill your son smh
MsBaileyLayne exactly my thoughts
Thank you
When that bitch ass nigga was waiting outside threatening I would have been boiling a pot of grease
Not just her son but blatantly said I’ll kill your whole family! I’m saying to myself she’s gotta be a idiot!
Keylah Huff or GRITS!! 😂😂
Even if the judge didn't know about his previous charges, he STILL attacked her and tried to kill her, why tf would you let him out?!!!!
Exactly 🤦🏾♀️
That judge needs to be judged...
Because the safety of Black women is low on the priority list as it relates to domestic squabbles
This is why it’s called the patriarchy. Men, particularly abusive men continue to support men and minimise the danger to women.
The word of a pathologically lying man is worth more than the word of an honest woman.
I’m sure some kid is gonna reply to this saying ‘not all men…
This was NY right ? Because NYC has a horrible mayor who allows criminals to walk free.
Thank God she and her son is ok. And I hope she gets the therapy she needs. Rip to the women that didn't make it.
Thank the good Samaritans
This is so sad that this happened to her. That man is a monster. He needs to be in prison for life.
It's nice sad she's has low self esteem desperate for an man
But this man,is ohh my,good in bed,I want him
He threatened to murder your child n you went to see him off???
IKR how desperate Is she my God 🤦🏿♀️ smh
Right recorded calls and videos and did not go to the police. It woulved been a call to police or family members
I know right. I hope she wasn't playing the Stockholm syndrome hoping that she can change this to arrange young man.
Agreed.....that is crazy. The only 'I'm seeing you soon' is seeing you being handcuffed!
Like someone said you meet psycho anywhere,what Ive been through Im done with dating.I had a man tell me I know how to get to you through your kids. I snapped, let's say I put the fear in him
Its not dating apps. He is a sociopath/ narcissist. You can meet a psycho anywhere: work, grocery, church...You just have to trust your instincts, meet/talk to their friends/family, background checks, and pray he/she is not going to snap one day.
I met my ex at work. He asked me to have a baby with him even after only dating for a couple of months. Lol 😂
La' Vy Very true. It's like an epidemic. The symptoms are always the same. My son's father left him while in utero. He even threatened to quote rip that baby
La' Vy right out of your belly. And it was during Sandy Hook. Anyway. I agree. 😐💙
La' Vy yes I agree but you can’t do all that checking if you don’t meet them face to face. Meeting folks online is just too vague for me. Half of em use a false name anyway. Can’t background check that. When are you gonna have opportunity to talk to someone’s friends and family and you met them online? Shoot friends and family might be crazy too.
Good point! Psycho people existed before dating apps and will after
I’ve had my fair share of dating apps & by the grace of God I can say I’ve never had any bad run ins… if I get any type of red flag or sketchy behavior from the guy I go M.I.A! But online dating is not for the weak… if you’re desperate, lonely or gullible, I definitely do not recommend trying those apps out because you will become an easy target & those typically seem like the ones who go through the worst experiences, unfortunately.
God bless those men who came to help her.
I remember when I was about 17 I met this guy in my neighborhood and I got a certain Vibe about him. He seemed like a dude that would like sell drugs or something but I was trying to see past what I thought was judgement. So I went to his house cuz he invited me and we were just sitting there watching a movie and my instincts were going off like an alarm and it was literally telling me to leave get out of there or you're going to die. The feeling kept getting stronger and stronger and it was so strong to the point to where I could no longer ignore it so I told him I had to leave. Shortly after I had left gunman bust into his home and shot him dead. It just goes to show you that when your instincts are telling you something listen. Thanks for reading.
SO VERY THANKFUL you listened to the urgings of the Holy Spirit, got out of there in time & lived to share your story, you're welcome & THANK YOU!!!!
DeAnn X shit
@DeAnn X wow thats crazy! thats why if i happen to arrange with someone meet in public . call me paranoid
DeAnn X don’t ignore your gut!
Thank god you're okay. Always trust your gut. I have a similar story. There was this guy who I was friends with. After about like 2 years of me knowing him we started sleeping together which made us friends with benefits lol. I would go over his house like 2 or 3 times a week to chill. Sometimes we'd have sex and sometimes we'd just watch movies and discuss life.(everything I just said is irrelevant to the story but whatever lol) Anywho, Regardless of what we did I'd always end up spending the night. Well, this one particular night after we'd finished doing our business I got this uneasy feeling and I had to go, I was so uncomfortable being in his home I even asked him to come stay at my house for the night because I just knew something bad was gonna happen. He thought I was tripping and needless to say, he didn't come with me. The next day a friend of mine called and told me that some guys broke into his home, robbed him, and shot him. He survived though, thank god. Always, always trust that gut feeling.
*slowly deletes tinder*
Fay lol
Lol
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Why not swiftly?
I can't believe she met him at the park after threatening to KILL her child. 😪
Ive watched this a few times over the years, i find this woman’s strength so amazing. My God anyone can use the internet.
Do not ever let him back out into society
Don't worry he gonna be fleece johnsons girlfreind now!!! LOL
I really would like to talk with him to understand why he behaves as he does. I hate to say, but a lot of these young men with these kind of dispositions have troubled childhood without a doubt. He's no younger than 25. He's a baby. So, he is only acting out for what he missed in his life. Either way, his behavior may be a result of misplaced need fulfillment. His mother may not have given him what he need now he's trying to make up with the women he abuses. What would his mother say. What would his grandmother say. So sad.
R Anthony Nigga you on crack. No matter what happened to you in childhood you don't get to hurt women.
WHY GO MEET A MAN. AFTER HES THREATENED TO HARM YOU AND YOUR CHILD HE TOLD YOU WHAT HE WOULD DO...BELIEVE IT!
Because she's stupid as hell.
That's what I dont get
Notthefather RIGHT.DUDE WAS CRAZZY!
Maybe that was after she got suspicious and she broke it off.
It’s that 🍆
Narcissists are the perfect boyfriends at first. 1st sign is that things move really fast in the beginning. This is called Love Bombing.
Ladies... ALWAYS do a background check on any guy you're about to start dating. It's really not expensive to do online, and it could save your life
Let’s not blame a dating site for this mans actions.
Ted bundy didn’t have an account. This man was able to get caught better/sooner thanks to POF.
VERY TRUE.. BUT DON'T FORGET ABOUT THE SON OF SAM, RICHARD RAMIREZ, THE BTK-KILLER, MR/MRS.CARSON'S.. I MEAN, THE LIST GOES ON AND ON!😨💯💯💯
Facts
No you shouldn't be dating somebody on a dating app anyway cuz you don't know exactly who they are this person you know this particular person there's women like that too so we can't justify because you know an individual wants to be on there you know that's just the it's like that's justified in the your own personal self not blaming anything on anybody but we can't justify people forget what kind of time we're in so that's no the heat he looks very nice clean needed intelligent he looked up he he said all the right things played the part well exactly exact you know look like you had a little money and all the things you looking for on those type of things you know he's nice looking we just want some company we want to you know what other kind of company you know be with somebody and all that and yeah she I'm sure she was thinking the same thing so those type of places are not good and healthy to be finding anybody you can't justify
Did we have dating apps then?
There's a lot of cases like this from dating apps though
As soon as he threatened to kidnap my son...i would have called the police.
I thought that was why she was recording the call...not getting ready to give him a ride to the park.
Police now days won’t do anything unless the person actually does something smh
deestefmorr cops don’t do shit, my sis friend called the cops on her bf cause he pulled out a gun on her and threatened to kill n her kids, cops came & the bf was still there,,all they said was “we’ll handle it” ...they let him walk off , cops left..bf came back and started beating her, then she called her brother & the cops. Brother fucked the bf up & when the cops arrived the 2nd time, they arrested her brother bc the bf looked beat up & lied and said the brother tried to kill him....cops believed it cause he actually did get beat up...but it was cause he put his hands on the boy sister and the first cops that came didn’t do shit. Now then brother been locked up since march & on a bail of $50k
Anybody threatening me or my child, why would you meet up with him.
Righttt i dont see how she can see him after tht
It's scary that crazy people are walking around freely.
I’m sorry, but after he threatened your child and your family there should be no reason to meet or continue the conversation. And then you got in the car with him alone. 🤦🏾♀️
Ain’t no meeting for chipotle when you threaten my child..Instantly blocked, ignored and restraining order put on you
Smart woman👍 when you see the red flag it's time to go.
He looks like he likes Boys on the down low
msalohakitty hell im moving if I can fuck that that he already tried coming in
Exactly hell no
911 is in order also
“The perfect guy” is a sociopath.
Narcissists and sociopaths are very good at projecting the "image" to draw in their victims. They are 10-15% 0f the population and are responsible for most abuse in relationships.
Yes they are charming when they like you.
Learned that by watching Joe on "You"
This is the type woman go for?💀💀💀
good guys can be deadly men for the most part.women need to get off dating apps for good,because they don't know what will happen.
I used dating apps in the past, here are some tips for anyone using or planning to start using dating apps:
1 - Always ask for a voice call/facetime, Make sure no one is catfishing you, report their account if they are and immediately block that number.
2 - If you are going out on a date, always alert a close friend or family member where you are going and give them updates on how your doing and if your safe or not in case if their is an issue. If your in danger have that close friend or family member alert the cops if possible.
3 - And this is extremely important, always trust your gut. If you feel like this certain person is not the one or if you think that they are sketchy or dangerous, simply do not go out with that person and block all contact with them, there are some terrible and horrendous people on there.
Hope these help any of you in some way. Stay safe!
If you have to go on a dating app, there is something wrong.
It's not the app.....its the PERSON. Charles Manson, Ted Bundy, and Jeffery Dahmar didn't use apps and look what they did.
okay? your point??? the app just makes it easier now for these people
The apps the people on them could be looking to do exactly what those evil sadistic men did this makes it a little more available to do harm two others they become friends before they even speak to them in person so they think they're friends with a lot in common have to be careful regardless where you meet someone or how you meet them
No, the point is dating agencies are profit driven and don't care who puts up accounts on their sites, people are not vetted or even forced to identify their real selves.
Solarlandlord Vauban Schwarzwald
Yup I agree u just have to be. A Lil more careful
I hate that people only name those. There were way worse killers lol 🙄🙄
The red flag was when he threatened her son then asked her to go to the park. Ladies notice the red flags immediately and get cameras around your home or let your family or friends know your in danger. You can meet a crazy person in person or online. I advise women delay meeting these people in person and talk and get to know them first. Never tell them where you live or ride in their car or let them ride in yours. Meet in a public place only!
I don't understand why some women will forgive or overlook a threat to their children. I can forgive threats against me but if someone threatens my child, there is no way in this system of things that I will even have a hello for that person. I was watching a true crime on ID. The lady stayed with the man after he tried to drown her son right in front of her. He ended up murdering both boys.
th-cam.com/video/jHfeb1q84e4/w-d-xo.html HE RAPS
Why would she meet with him again
The red flag was striking a conversation too fast and everyday.
That's the biggest Tell sign of narcissists and psychopaths.
Yep, but most importantly, get guns ladies, and kill these bastards. Answer questions later. These judges and DA's or even cops aren't going to protect you. They're playing games letting these repeat offenders on the streets because they're in your neighborhoods, not theirs. Shoot first, answer questions later.
I don't get how some people can get away with murder, but other people get sentenced harshly and are imprisoned for crimes they didn't even commit.? The "Justice" system is crazy to me,....
I hope Ms. Barney finds the love she deserves. I am sorry she went through this. She is blessed she survived their relationship.
You almost wish he were ugly. But, great lesson here, evil can be cute, pretty, handsome, etc.
your not saying it right ... evil can be disguised as good or evil can be disguised by a handsome face .. there is nothing evil about being handsome but evil can use a handsome face as its disguise
Star Brand 💯
Star Brand hmmm that’s what hurts
"But I am not surprised! Even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light." -- *2 Corinthians **11:14*
Read your bible baby Satan doesn't disguise himself as an angel he is an Angel. The morning Star.
I believe those 3 men were angels sent by God to save this woman. Thank god she is alive and her son. Be very careful ladies when dating, never rush, take your time and when you see someone reveal themself believe it!
That's nice. I believe it was a coincidence but an extremely lucky one at that
This is why women use to bring these men to meet their family so that they can get as much info about them as possible. Always do background checks!
Yes indeed,I immediately said the same...1 for the father,1 for the son, and 1 for the holy spirit she's beyond BLESSED
Or maybe they were just there & it had nothing to do with God? Did" God " not want to save the other women?
No.
They were good samaritans who assisted a woman in distress on the street. That literally happens every hour of every day on this earth.
Over 50,000 children starve to death everyday and yall wont give God credit for that but the SECOND a human does a good deed its "Praise God".
Get help.
Why would she meet up with a guy that had threatened to do harm to her child?? As a mother our job is to protect our children!!
He threatens her and her child and she still go meet him🤦🏾♀️
Young men and women: a pretty face don't mean a pretty heart....
So true
That's so true!!
True! Very true!
Facts
Satan knows the power of beauty...
The judge who released him made a grave mistake!!! 😭😭😭
No mistake , a bad decision
No they like people like him out on the streets
Do not date online. Please. Don’t do it. To many predators.
7 murders and this guy was let out? Law enforcement is a joke. How many other murderers are walking free?
Life lesson #437: Never give your stalker a ride.
0 5 lmaoooooooooo
Omg help us Jesus
Yeah never fall for the lets go ride and talk. Nope. Cut off all contact
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@@mooret212 💯💯💯
These kind of men are also on facebook. Everyone please be careful.
Totally agree.
At church too. Library. School. Gas station. Neighbors cousins uncles smh
You mean Instagram
peaceluv True
WingsOf a Phoenix yesssssss I have male friends who tell me the stories. Funny thing is even men have a pattern of picking crazy women or violent women. If every woman you've dated ends up pouring antifreeze in your gas tank it's time to look 👀 inside yourself.
The problem is that these young chicks think 6 months is enough time to introduce their children to men they're just dating. Let alone a man they met on POF. Stop being so desperate to have a man in the house.
Shes super lucky, never meet up with them after a break up, don't do it
She was so lucky. Thank god those men helped her. Respect to them for being real men. There's a lot of people won't get involved.
Precisely
yup !! and thats the scary part
They did a very nice thing, above and beyond...but that's not a measurement of their manhood. If they would've stayed out if it, maybe just call 911, that doesn't mean they're not "real men".
@@charlescarter4608 Sorry, I don't agree. Real men have automatic instinct's to protect females. I'm guessing you don't have those instinct's.
@@anjistone2946 How tf do know what a real man is, as a woman? Well then, as a man, I say you're not a real woman because you're trying to insult a man, and not staying in your place. A real woman knows to stay in her place. You don't have those real woman instincts though.
She saw him again after he told her that he would kill her son? Unbelievable.
She was in love... dont u get it
Couldn't be me! 🤢🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
i can’t stand people like this no common sense the man threatened your son and family. you allowed him to see your son and still went to go see him after the threat. yet you want to live for your son, dumb ass you put yourself in that situation
He already broke her down enough to where she would try to negotiate with him after he did harm to her. Its almost as if she excused his behavior because she “upset” him. It’s really sad.
When you are being mentally, emotionally, physically abused by a psychopath, narcissist, sociopath, etc… it is common to not be able to see things clearly. They essentially mind @!&%# you.
She was STUPID to agree to see him AFTER threatening to kill her son! What a desperate, foolish woman
Literally smh
After all the threats and stalking you have lunch with him and drive him to a park?!?🤦🏽♂️
Two words: Background Check!!!!
Background checks are good. But you never really know what stage of lunacy a person is going through when they meet U. They can get evil years down the line.
Phillip : This is very true, ppl. can change fior the worst...I believe today, things happen much to fast... Ppl. meet todaay and chat, and tomorrow they having sex, this won`t work, it`s only for pleasure...It`s also good, to meet the mans family sometime soon...
freda jordan the only problem i got with bringin in family members is that you are responsible for who you select as a partner. So if your partner that you chose is crazy & ends up killing one or more of your family members, & you survive,then you will be accountable.
Hello!!!!
M Alexander + Background checks don’t always work because not everyone gets caught.
So she didn't believe his threats over the phone, he had to make her a believer huh, smh. She's lucky cause a lot of women don't get a 2nd chance after encountering a male like this. Respect to the guys who helped her instead of looking away, glad she's alive 💯
Praying for you and your son to stay safe always and be protected by your guardian angels plus for you to heal.
Thank you for being brave and sharing your story.
That judge needs to be removed from the bench! He actually said, "How was i to know?" YOU RUN A BACKGROUND CHECK FOR HIS PRIOR CONVICTIONS, JUDGE! You have the power to do that easier than anyone. Plus, what he did to this woman was enough to throw him in jail.
Why are we blaming dating sites? That’s like blaming a gun when the real perpetrator is a person. People can be dark and evil-that is the issue here.
This is her story, her truth. This has happened to others as well. She is so blessed to have made it out of the situation alive and her son is safe also.
Not once did they say this only happens on dating sites and apps. This disgusting man likely harmed women through multiple routes.
@@skydelight The only reason daring apps are being scapegoated in this situation is because dating has revolved it around non social behavior. This society is very closed off and people don’t meet in open ways. Western societies have dating coaches for males. If it was other countries this wouldn’t be the case because they are more open like Brazil. Also women are empowered with a lot of things and Me Too doesn’t help the average guy. This story adds fuel to a closed off non outlet society which hides psychopaths to good dudes who might be lame in women’s eyes. But over the years this westernized American society has become more closed off.
I totally agree.
Cuz it's the easiest way for people to get raped in Murder cuz all your information is on these they don't do background checks or anyting I don't think dating sites should be out there
Fuckin thank you! All the "dating apps are bad uwu". Well who tf is forcing you to use a dating app? 😆
As a gay man this is why I gave up dating all together. They use apps to lure people in and these psychos don't show that they are crazy till they got you. I was raped by a guy I met online... Pray that this family is recovering and doing better.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. Please take care of yourself❤. Although it's hard to believe, there are good people out there.
@@hildamoe5874 Thank You ❤, its gotten a little bit easier since I told my family what happened and opened up more but still struggle with it everyday, def changed me for life but it taught me to not trust & that I'm a survivor. Take care as well 💙
Invest into a firearm and a liscence to carry .
@@KainegotgameUnfortunately I'm anti-gun lol I hate them 😕 and legally can't own because of suicide attempt. I carry a knife and pepper spray, may get a taser as well thats about the most I can do. My middle name is Devante haha
Omg im sorry to hear this 😔
I'm so glad to see so many comments warning against dating period! It's not like there's an app world out here, these people live in the community & we have to be careful regardless.
The difference between online dating and regular dating is that on the app you can talk to six different people all at the same time and get to choose which one is best for you. So your chances of meeting a stalker are higher.
This is why I keep to my damn self!!!!!!
WISDOM4LIFE and I thought I was the only one that like 2 stay 2 myself that's the best way 2 be.
WISDOM4LIFE. Ur BRILLANT!!!
Thats Right!
WISDOM4LIFE facts
I'm working on that right now. All online dating accounts are closed.
I tried online dating. I'm sure the guys were cool for other people, just not for me. I lost interest when little red birdies started doing acrobatic break dance moves around red flags.
ATTENTION Beautiful Women:
LOVE YOURSELVES!
Yes beautiful queens, love yourself!!! 💜💓💖💕💗 Jesus loves you!!!
Excatly
Except black women. Praise the lord hallelujah!
@@silversage1626 what the hell do you mean except black women??? Black is the first race, black is gorgeous, black is beautiful, black is talented and that's why everyone on the planet Earth tries to hate and mostly imitate black queens because anything we do, you and the world become jealous because you want to be a black queen ALSO.
Is not just girls ,woman is also boy ,men
This is why I have an imaginary significant other.
I deleted Plenty Of Fish a couple of months ago. I kept meeting mentally ill men and depressed men.
I met my husband online. He wasn’t crazy. Apps are not the problem. Just use common sense.
I met mines in their also
On
That means you actually went for someone worth a damn, good for you.
Common sense isn't common. She didn't think he was a psychopath. It wasn't tattooed on his forehead.
I met mine on okcupid
The red flags was the perfection in everything he was doing and saying IN THE BEGINNING.
Thank god you are here to tell your story!!!
I like when the interviewer asked her does she feel lucky? She responded I feel blessed everyday and everyday I thank God for it... she not lucky, she's loved. 🙌🏽🙏🏽💯 God bless you and to the three workers that called the police!
Thank God you survived sweetie, God bless you
@@nurdytyrd3816 You mad she said something about God, but she can say that and you can choose to ignore it and go on about your day. Get mad about something else and not someone's elses faith which doesn't effect you way or the other. And by the way, God still LOVES your miserable behind.
I think all those dating apps should be illegal unless every person with an account has a full background check and is cleared of any sexual or physical violence
It's not the dating sites that are bad coz u could meet a killer offline too in your city 🏙️. It the person. But I agree should be background check ✅.
I agree! People pose as whatever they think would attract. Fake people fake profile .the too good to be true can mean life is over. Take precautions
Agree but people could get a friend to make their profile for them.
It's not the sites fault. There are evil people out there. It's a risk that you just have to take. And take your own precautions. I met my x wife on POF
Not everyone with a criminal background is a horrible person. I met someone who made mistakes and I have as well. They had nothing to do with harming another person. Criminal history or not.. a person can be dangerous either way.
For her to give dude a 2nd chance after he threatened to kidnap & kill her son, she was basically asking 4 trouble 🤦♂️
How does the judge not know about other offenses in another state???? What is the point of fingerprinting if not to put someone in the judicial system to track their crimes…
Eyes are the windows to the soul. He looked evil.
That's exactly what I noticed right away, his crazy eyes. Wow!!
U can see his lack of consciousness.. emptiness
Right...those eyes...
This is true.
HE LOOKS CRAZY😒
Never let someone know where you live until you know them well. Never introduce your children to a stranger online until you feel safe to do so. I recommend having cameras at your front door, Back door, Garage . And let a friend you trust have access to the footage so if something happens they will know and help. What ever you do, Do not tell the spouse about the cameras
This is for you and your family's safety.
But this is the thing though, how do we EVER really know someone? Some folks have been married for years with children and one day they snap and kill their whole family. IMO there is always a risk when being in relationships with people. We just have to try to use our discernment as much as possible.
@@hebrewprincess9687 You're right.
@@hebrewprincess9687 i recommend having a video camera installed at front doors back doors and any garage. One hidden in you're home that your spouse knows nothing about. Have it linked to the cell phone so that you can see whats up when your not around. Or if something happens like what happened to Shanann Watts in 2018. If she had video footage at the garage we would know what he did to her and them babies
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Who’d thought that a camera would solve domestic violence, you’re a genius!
It had been 6 months....
This sounds like an episode from criminal minds, very sad story!
I’m not about to meet up with anyone who threatened my family
That was a demon.
Brianna C change your pic.... you look like a blowfish.
M. R. You I'm dying😂😭😂😭😂💯💯💯💯😂😭😂😭😂
You hit the nail on the head.
Joy Wilburn you why your head look like that tho 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sis, are BW going to wake up
1) Bruh pored accent on sis face
2) through off the building
3) set on fire
4) Now they going on dating apps
#BWGTOW
Ladies you all please be safe. The world is not the same
Quinn Shaw It's the same. Social media makes it easier to acknowledge.
This young lady I appreciate her and her bravery so much and I am so happy that she is still with us here on Earth and she is able to fulfill her blessing and being a mother. I am so happy that this man was captured this is great police work! My condolences to the family of the other young lady that did not make it. Yes I absolutely agree with a lot of the comments on here. That it is extremely important to take your time and get to know someone. God bless everyone and be safe
Thank you for sharing your story
No dating sites for me, I don’t care who makes fun of me for being single at the moment🤷♀️
Me 2
Amen Amen Amen
Just worry about your self, take care of your self
Yeah dating sites are pretty dangerous I rather date for real then on some stupid website
And don't worry sweetie you'll find somebody someday just not online
You threaten my child....I would not meet u even if it meant saving u. That is a major indication that he is dangerous
Why did they have her reenact the assault? It’s already traumatizing and then they’re gonna make her relive it. 🤦♂️
Extremely insensitive
"There's no way the judge could have known" Really? The judge knew he threatened to kill her son and tried to kill her. I feel so sorry for this woman and the trauma she has to live with. She is a victim of a criminal psychopath and a judge that didn't take violence against women and children seriously. This has nothing to do with dating apps.
Exactly. And as a judge, I’m sure you have access to view peoples criminal history no matter what state. Even if you don’t, there’s always google. Plus the fact that he tried to kill her and threatened her son. Come on now…
Wait a minute so he calls her threatening to kill her son and her family, then the next day she meets up with him at a park because he was going to California?
Women logic... cant explain it.. lmao
French Vanilla Exactly! You have him on a recording stating that he will kill your son. She's the doorway to her own demise and needs to learn what's inside of her that will allow her to be with a man like this.
To pacify him like if i do this he’ll leave
L. R Yeah it's scary that someone can threaten to kill her son, and she still met up with him at a park by herself 🤦🏼♀️
Pete THE REAL Relentless Well she doesn't need to be dating anyone if she's willing to put her child in danger. She probably had him babysit her child as well. You know these women are always leaving their children with men they just met.
Honestly ‘Plenty of Fish’ (a telling name in itself) should be renamed ‘Plenty of Predators’
Tony Gaskins calls it “Plenty of Sharks.” Haha
😂🤣😂😂
Plenty of discarded Vienna sausages
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“Plenty of Felons” is what my friends call it
Everything that looks good or seems good is DEFINITELY not. Too many people trolling for SOMETHING on SOCIAL MEDIA/DATING APPS. That’s why I steer clear.
red flags but still sees him. there really are people who let themselves be vulnerable to murder.