Saying "I Love You" Kills Love + Why "Good Morning" and "Good Night" Messages lead to Goodbye
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The fact that a man can't be authentic with a woman without her loosing attraction is just sad.
Exactly. And it's the truth. Whenever I have opened my heart, attraction gets killed. If I just play it cool, I hold frame and they are always more attracted. So yeah, it's pretty sad that I can't fully say how I feel
@@juanesteban8938 if she loses attraction, find another one who does, keep cycling until they learn.
Saying everything that comes to mind is authentic?
It's a good thing actually, you don't have the burden of loving 'em. Royal road to sociopathy.
i was going to comment the same before starting the video
When a man learns to love he must also bear the risk of having hatred
- Madara Uchiha
Awesome quote.
I dont even recognise that in the series, but still worth a like
Oh god rise up man baby lol
Accurate
My treat. I even search for the video clip in naruto, lol.
"When a man learns to feel love, he must also bear the risk of feeling hate"
Listen to this man, I have made this mistake so many times because each time I believed she was different. Forget all that romantic nonsense and focus on your mission in life. If she wants to leave, let her go and improve without her.
This ☝🏻 . It's the key to freedom.
Yessssirrrrr, shout this shit from the rooftops. Thank you for the wisdom, all young guys need to hear this and take it to heart
Yes
Excellent! Well said.
True 🙌
The man himself, glad to see your face again. It has been a while.
Our boy Chris is looking good as well
Seriously good to see you again
If your girl is in love with you, almost anything romantic you do will make you even more in love. But when it’s the opposite, it only pushes her away
Five years of Chris-ONE common Theme = STOP BEING NEEDY!!!
Be confident
So true. Stoicism
Extremely important
Looks like he put on some muscle . This man saved me from depression and taught me how to deal with women. Much respevt
Respect ++
How did he? I am under some sorta this. What did you inprove?
Don't tell her you love her, show her you love her. Actions speak louder than words.
Bro my gf said: “ I see all the lovely things in your actions, but I want to hear it in words” because she never hears anything of my feelings in words. So what are you talking about ?
@@KS8980 She knows you love her, why do you have to convince her with your words?
@@KS8980 Don't have to say or do as per her.... If a woman is intelligent enough to catch your feelings then she does nt expect you to say things loudly.... Probably she is still not convinced with your actions that makes her to feel you.... So try to show some actions that can trigger those genuine feelings in her.... Let her do her part of efforts too if she really likes you.... in fact she has to do all those efforts in your case rather than you doing everything to convince her..... 😁😂
@@KS8980 it's fine to say it every now and then when SHE IS IN LOVE WITH YOU.
And those actions don’t involve texting
Even if she says I love you, it means nothing, its just a fleeting feeling.
Exactly
ANYTHING a woman says ... mentally prefix with "I think" and postfix with "... right now"
Thus "I love you" should be heard as ..
"I think I love you right now"
Correct. I once asked a gf of mine if love is an action or a feeling. She confidently said 'feeling.' I knew then I was gonna have problems with her. Later on she got hooked on drugs, meth and heroine. Anyway, careful around people that chase feelings. They'll never be satisfied.
Facts, womens emotions can change on a dime
The more I realize that everything you said is actually right the more I hate the idea of dating.
Me too man
Makes you re consider having a relationship. Too much stress, too much strategic planning. I never knew that relationships would be this complicated when I was younger, but that's life 😂
This is why there is an epidemic of no commitment from Men, just have your fun where you find it and don't commit.
You can still have a lot of fun 'dating' but just on your terms.
That’s because you’re a weak man
Just hit it and quit it until you find a unicorn. If that doesn't happen, at least you're having fun
A woman testing is a staring contest. Never blink. Actually punish her by going off grid. Make her not take you for granted.
Facts
How to punish ?
@@ramborajkumar298 go no contact and make he chase you.
@@ramborajkumar298Disappear.
When a woman says to you "i love you", you must reply back "i know".
Ha haa... 😀
Nah fr, this is facts. I do this all the time and always get good results from it
The idea is to simply mirror her emotions and not be a dick. Dont tell her you love her first, but if she says it first and you love her as well there isnt any problem in saying it back.
Classic 👏👏
Usually I used to said that to my girlfriend and she cheat on me 😂
Easiest way to get rid of any woman is to tell her that you love her. I knew that secret long time ago. If you no longer want her just tell her that you love her and she's gone without any fight. It works for me all the time.
You must be a real winner
Perfect
I wish this was true. The truth is, if you are paying her bills, she will stay in the relationship. She will have a headache every night or whatever it takes to avoid intimacy, and she will busy herself with other things, maybe even other men. But she won't leave you if you are paying her bills unless she can get a court settlement wherein you continue paying her bills.
@@freeideas so stop paying her bills then
@@godsonmusics😂😂😂😂
This guy is a genuine guru! If more people would really listen to him, they would save themselves heaps and heaps of heartache/rejection with women!
So you believe no contact works, right? I’m going through massive heartbreak with a woman who recently pulled away snd he prescribed me with no contact. I just hope she actually does come back
Not all girls are the same!
I've sent her good morning and good night messages since the beginning, and she sends them back, she even sends first good mornings if she gets up earlier. We've been dating for close to 6 months now. I first said, "I love you" to her on Christmas eve, and she said it back and that she's been thinking it a while, but didn't want to be the first one to say it. We zoom chat most nights for about an hour or more before bed, and we always say, "Love you!" before the end of the calls.
Her attraction has grown for me more since saying, "I love you". She is a little emotionally needy, and went through some trauma a bit over a year ago. She is super sweet, kind, and cute. Besides emotional needs, she is very low maintenance. As an empathetic person, I thrive off of encouraging her and making her feel loved. And she thrives on the love I provide.
Things started off really slow. She liked me for my character and kindness, and now she's even more attached with the emotional connection. We've had issues, and we've talked through them. I always encourage her to speak her mind about her needs, and hold back no concerns from me. Her needs revolve around being loved and appreciated, and she shows love and appreciation in return.
If she gets even a feeling that I'm unhappy, she tries to comfort me and make things better. I truly believe we are meant for each other. She was my first kiss, my first cuddle, is my first girlfriend, and the first I said, "I love you" to. First and only. We even talk about the future and marriage.
So in conclusion: Don't believe everything people say about relationships on the internet. Every girl is unique, and there's one out there perfect for you.
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Exactly.
Most aren't like that. That's the thing... MOST
Update: Engaged and going strong.
those type of texts just signal "needy behaviour"
Men have to be mysterious and be more of a challenge to women or else they will never be able to increase her attraction for them.
Amen!
Bro tell me how do u become mysterious?
@@muhammadamiin1386 Just don't tell her everything about yourself...keep something to yourself. Get good at talking about just surface level things with her. She doesn't need to know what you are doing every day or your personal projects. There is a lot more to it. I can't go into all of it on a comment but I hope that little explanation helped.
The less I care about losing a person, the more they want me around.
Yep, that's it
2:27, His silence and reaction said it all 😂
2:28, he wanted to say "simp" so badly! Lmao!
😂😂
That part made my day lmao
The thing to remember to stand back and look this relationship over. Ask yourself is she really worth all the baggage that she is bringing?
If a woman doesn't say "I love you" after 6 months or a year, she doesn't love you.
Exactly
Very true!
I dont agree. What i do for you, how i look at you..It means i care and love you.
Duhh
@@juliend9495 Duh what? Weirdo
I don't mind the animation but I love it when you are there spitting out advices. Makes it more believable.
Yea those messages get you no where. Don't believe women that say they like that stuff
Thanks NFL quarterback Deshaun Watson
Yeah Deshaun, they just say rubbish things that they like this and that, but in reality if someone does it they find it silly...
thank you future 49er deshaun watson
Women are attracted to fantasies not reality.
She get turned on or want loads of stuff but when they happen, they don't feel as much thrilled as before
@@gentlebabarian yes u r correct, just like everyone admires Shah Rukh Khan, and his technics shown in movies are tried by many boys, even I tried the same... All the girls wants a lover like SRK but in reality after trying all those things they don't like that ...😂😂😂
All that is needed is, am I really vulnerable to just actually care about your unique existence without needing anything in return.
Doing something doesn't mean you care or love, cause doing isn't an emotion.
this is brilliant
502 likes, 0 dislikes... clearly I am not the only one who found this eminently relatable.
I've done this twice; telling the girl I loved them first and this was what happened. It was clear as day the attraction began to disappear after telling the woman I loved them first. I made a vow never to be the first to do it again.
so stay in a surface level, shallow relationship so you don't feel foolish? nah, if you said it, you must have meant it. otherwise don't say things you don't mean. the goal isn't shutting yourself off, the goal is being yourself completely independent of another human being. loving someone isn't needing them, needing someone isn't loving them.
The main man himself, loving these direct videos, keep em coming!
You are saving thousands of relationships man! More power to you.
I can tell women obsess over this guy he totally gets it.
This is exactly what I'm going through.. I've watch some of your videos and I believe you. Thank you for existing.
Yeah women also say i love more when they are cheating.
Wow. I haven't thought of that
I absolutely made this mistake a couple times before I learned this. Tell her you love her and a girl who’s crazy about me is GONE!
I am definitely here for this 2021 upload frequency!
Your videos helped me a lot to understand myself and the breakup I had 5 years ago. Thank you
The best in the business, bought your book, its excellent. I dont even need to read or watch other videos after that. Thank You
Wtf, i can't even say good night to girls without turning them off ? Wtf is wrong with these creatures ?
Hahahaha
A lot.
But if you're kicking her out or leaving her behind, "good night" makes sense to her.
If you're initiating contact and interrupting her flow for no other purpose but to say it, she'll soon imagine what you're getting out of it
Fr what is wrong
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It must be sporadic in my opinion
You must feed them crumbs. It shouldn't be too little or too much
This man solved all the puzzle and made it understandable 😇
Thank you bro
This twisted reality makes me to even hate the idea of dating
Employer hiring Employee relationship is what their attracted to.
@@testing-je7yz precisely
Two years following your valuable content. It's such a pleasure watching your channel grow Chris!
Best of luck bro ✌️
my ex didn't respond to me for 4 days so i dumped her
and im glad , any women that would ignore my textes and
i barely bother you , yeah its time to move on .
The big question and tell tale sign is did she care that you dumped her....? Did she say anything after she didn't hear from you or did she just go silent?
@@kegokorp Didn't have time to find out . I blocked her on both of my cellphones after i sent her the last respectable message . I'm not mad she is gone , i feel better and less stressed completely now and all my money is to myself now 😁ill meet someone new later on down the line and just do it better .
@@kegokorp I know also that might seem a little cold but iv'd done known that women over 13 years , she isn't going to ever change so she'll be alright just like i will .
@@bossalinedezz Yeah that's cool. If she treats you bad and she gives you a lot of attitude then best thing to do is get rid of her and find somebody you're happy with. I don't blame you. I would have done the same thing.
I think this is a bit extreme.
I can't find the words to say thank you! My new girlfriend is testing me all the time. She is a true challenge to me. I feel so comfortable with all these tests, because i can handle them, having read until now some parts of your book and by watching your videos! She has already praised me, all of a sudden for my reaction, when other men staring to admire her beauty, while we are together..
Greetings from Greece! Keep up the good work mate! 👌👌
Bet you are no longer together
Man, this new setup is awesome. It's so fresh to see you like this. Loving it.
Space creates attraction. Only text to set up dates. Let her wonder about you.
Texting has ruined relationships . Especially when you HAVE to rely on emojis to say what you feel. When your girl can’t be bothered to tell you she loves you and just sends a few hearts or something else. Sad that we can’t just be ourselves, tell the woman we love them without them running a mile
Really like the style of these videos you are releasing now. Good work.
Started uploading videos right at the perfect time for my life again.. thanks a lot man
I am watching your videos from past one and half year and bought your book and now i never get panic when a girls pulls away or test me.
Hey Guys!!! Happy New year! 🎊
Let me just say, not every women is the same. My current girlfriend was raised by a crazy mom, never hugged her, never told her she loved her. And when I made the mistake of telling her I loved her first.. she much later told me that
When men say they love the women fast, she believes guys who love fast, leave fast. So she was hesitant to take me seriously. But once she saw me stay around and start taking care of things. She started to believe “well maybe he does love me & isn’t gonna leave me”
So a year later, we have moved into our own place. Moved out of the house she was living in. And now, she texts me she loves me or feels loved & sometimes she’ll say it when she feels it.
I did stop from saying it because I noticed that with her, she isn’t use to being told she is loved. So she doesn’t know how to react. So instead, I show her love with my actions like doing stuff for her, so she knows I am paying attention to her needs & showing her I am her support. She is no longer alone.
Hope this helps for some!
Good thing you are in tune to her reactions. Update? More lessons learned?
It's great to see your face. The animations are awesome too. Give both every now and again if you can
Hey Cris.. I love what you are doing and your work.. You change my life.. Thanks for your effort.. Keep doing your work.. 😊
You really helped me out, a great mentor indeed. Thanks!
I have been thinking this lately thank you for this ❤️
you are back, coach please stay safe there
Very elucidative and refreshing.
Thanks a lot
This guy is the best. He is massively and unjustly underrated. He should have 400,000 followers at least.
Man love this type of video!!!! Great to see u after a long time
Chris is the most underrated guy on TH-cam! LISTEN to him gentlemen! Guy is a beast
Great as always, coach! Thanks!
Chris i love u man
To be honest thanks so far for the great content your talks are so specific and in depth and we rarley find some one who provides a content like yours big fan of you man❤❤
Hey Chris, I wanna say that I bought your book and it has worked wonders. Not only for my love life but also for my day to day confidence. Thank you. Love from India.
Sir i hope you are in good health ! thanks for the motivation you have developed all this while for us ! *salute*
Good to see you again !!
Thanks Chris for The Awareness...I learn a lots of Knowledge from You...👍👍👍
Good to see you man...
You and your videos have helped me alot :)
Man new videos are awesome❤️❤️❤️
I miss ur video. Thanks for this man!
ANYTHING a woman says ... you should mentally prefix with "I think" and postfix with "... right now"
Thus "I love you" should be heard as ..
"I think I love you right now"
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Savage but true dat
So true
I read the audio version of your book but couldn't find a hard copy . Your book is the best when it comes to attractions & relationship . I also read red pill book but I found your book to be really helpful in order to make meaningful connection
i think its on amazon ( atomic attraction - paperback version?) i think that's where u can find the copy
Not long algo I read his book, and I consider Canwell the father of modern attraction. The book includes so many details and advices that you can apply on a daily basis, regardless where you are.
I just wanna hear you man even if shit ain’t gonna happen thank you for Always making me feel hope.
CHRIS BRO THIS VIDEO WAS AWESOME YOU LOOK GREAT MAN
love all of your content chris
Glad to see you doing well
I’ve listened to the Atomic Attraction book. That book is tough. It will twist any man’s mind and kill off any beta male trait that they possess. Now I feel like my success rate with women has risen beyond 110% after listening to this book.
I'm a huge fan of you sir...i really improved watching you...love you sir.. RESPECT 💌
Don’t ever forget that you matter too and if anything, you matter much more
King is back!
Good to see you mate we need you more than ever things are just getting worse
Your calmness is 👏👏
I like this channel you have a scientific approach in how to speak to women. This advice also applies to making friends, particularly friends who are popular themselves.
You're looking better these days. Good man👌
Get his book! It is amazing 5/5💥
awesome advices!
The way he said JUST LET HER GO .. (06:15) respect for you 💯
You have this inner peace about you bro
I love ur book. It develops not only my dating life and also my daily living. Thank you men. You are the life saver of a man in this feminine era of our society. 👏
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No thanks. In the book of Rational Male, we dont need our ex back. Find new and fresh relationship. Thats it.
This format is way better than the animated stories
My mans still going. Nice.
Always have options. It's a win win; she'll either become jealous and secure her relationship with you, or if she truly isn't interested or is acting wishy washy... you'll have the option of dating someone else.
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This guy is a king.
Wrong! Jesus Christ is King.
He changed his way to teaching
Looking good coach. 😀👊
Love From India.Mr.Chris💓🙌 You helped me to grow So much ..Thankyou 😌
you could be a good looking man very intelligent and lovely personality but if your needy you will get rejected
Thank u so much 💖
Chris Canwell is spot on as usual 👌
I tell her I love her, we are humans we express ourselves, if she loses interest then I will be happy to see her leave because she is not worth love to her. This is blue pill overdosed by redpill
Totally true! Therefore tell her and if she goes you as a man wins!
You are blinded by the naive romantic love you see all the time in hollywood-movies
„Perfect love doesn‘t need anything but 2 people loving each other“
Yeah…thats what hollywood makes you think but in reality theres a natural human with its instincts and preferences so you HAVE TO put in a little work and self-control/reflection in order to have a healthy relationship
You are the best!
Whenever my girl says, "I love you", i reply with, "Oh i know that 😏"
Very rarely do i say, "I love you too"
The idea is to mirror her emotions, not to be a dick or a cold fish. Remember the balance.
@@TheSlimmshadyyLol, Chris never told to mirror her "i love you". and as i said i say it sometimes. It projects more value and she will value it more than always replying her back with "i love you too". Keep it unexpected!
@@adityasharma4481 I am sure you already know all this since you follow Chris. Just hope people dont misinterpret this and become cold fish in relationships.
@@adityasharma4481 i can tell this relationship will be doomed give it about a month
@@TALYJIMMY 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Simp of the year goes to you bruh!
Been with her for the past 7 months now 🥴
I think something that will help men is this, “a woman will never love you, she only loves what you can do for her”
The gaster men accept this, the easier will be to deal with women.
@Sareem J No Sareem, as a GENERAL RULE, men love idealistically, while women (especially the very attractive ones) love opportunistically.
I love your videos bro
I watched this video and Now I know how I lost her and other girls in my past …. Its 110% true what you say