If She Thinks You’re Relationship Focused… You’re Fkd! (and Science Agrees!)
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A woman's attraction for a man grows when she feels that the man is better than her. She has to work for your attention and approval then her attraction will grow.
Men are not attracted by women who pursue or seek men approval.
It work for me I will recommend you to a powerful man who help me bring back my ex back within 24hours
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Yes but not every man can afford to behave like that unfortunately. Do you honestly think that if a bum tries to get a Modell to „work“ for him that she will do it, even if his „frame“ is strong ?!?
Before we met a girl, we were at our best, focusing on our purpose. Then we slowly drift away from our true purpose and starts focusing on the relationship. We started treating them like a queen, and slowly they start treating us like a fan. That's how it works LoL. Lesson learned.
So guys, just keep focusing on our PURPOSE!!
Men start going soft when they start falling in love. Men should never go soft.
True. Let women be the one who focus on the relationship, men like us should stick on our mission and career
Very true Man
@@ifaisal2185 Damn Man. Stuff pisses You off right
@@clytnjms yea man. We thought that if we treat them like a queen, they'll treat us like a king. But nah. It's all a myth.
Men are not allowed to fall in love. The moment you develop feelings ignore her.
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sad but true af
People are allowed to be vulnerable at times. Smh you guys will take a shit in the toilet and call that 'part of the grindset'
Stick with the Han Solo strategy...
Her: "I love you."
Him: "I know."
Lmao I did this, told her I loved her too probably 10 minutes later
@@ifaisal2185 I don’t have a gf lol she went really bad on me.
Richard that’s fine. Even if it annoys her, now she knows she has to work to get you to fall in love. You’re a challenge. Still a much better spot to be in than being that guy who confessed his love to her first.
I am the prize 🏆
@Richard HUDSONJ Nothing...
Just said ‘I love you’ last week without it being reciprocated, was way too relationship focused. Could feel the attraction slipping, and my power diminishing. Spent the whole next week grinding, focusing on school, and letting her come back to me; ACTING LIKE A MAN... Her attraction grew 10x and I got my power back. Now we’re both happy in a relationship dynamic created by nature.
Great job man 👏
Lucky man...
@@ifaisal2185 Best advice, don’t make your woman your whole world. Dominate YOUR life, be a leader and don’t be weak.
@@muktadiramindu77 Not luck, been working on this “relationship” stuff for 3 years. I recognized the signs and took action (or lack-thereof).
Actually first thing I did was reschedule our date to the next week, got some man time in, waited for her to text first. Have to be patient, strong, and know what you bring to the table.
Everyone thinks their situation is unique and therefore justifies their actions that contradict this video. Rookie mistake.
The first step to recovery is knowing you have to change for the better... part of that is taking a self inventory and admitting that youre fuggin up. Make the changes and see the results....
P.S i look back at the anxiety i had when I first started talking to my current gf... not caring how long she took to reply and resisting instantly messaging her back was hell..... fast forward 8 months and I cam hardly keep her away... she loves me to death. The old me wouldve never made it to this point i wouldve blown it with neediness and insecurity,,,,
P.S P.S Fk them like you own them and theyll be yours forever lol
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Did you leave her messages on read and wait to text her back, or leave them as unread?
Actions always speak louder than words, any day.
@@VoiceOfThe you just don't care whether you have read it or not. The first is just don't care. Focus on your primary goal, that's improvement in your lifestyle.
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The universe is very mysterious and miraculous, you can’t be attractive to women if you are focused on women, and the same goes to money and others.
You will get everything only when you focus on yourself.
You get women when you don’t really need them
It’s best to keep your feelings out of women. The more emotionally invested you are THE WORSE IT BECOMES! Think about it: When you catch feelings you start to act just like the women (needy, insecure, jealous). It’s not in a man’s nature to think emotionally. We are logical and should always remain calm and clearheaded. Will Smith is a PERFECT EXAMPLE of being too emotionally invested in a woman. It costed him his reputation he’s built up over the decades for “defending his wife”. These chicks deep down inside want a man that doesn’t give a damn. When you start acting like you care, they take it as being needy. They want men to act like they have feelings but not show it. I don’t even see a benefit of being in a serious relationship with a woman. It never ends well. Somebody die or move on🤷🏽♂️ At least while you’re dating ppl the attraction is there and the mystery is there. That’s nothing mysterious about being with the same woman for over 10yrs. As men, are constantly on the hunt conquering something new. Women want new too, they just wanna lock somebody down and do their dirt. Fuck all of that love shit and stop being nice to these bitches. Fuck em, don’t love em because they don’t love you, they love how you make them FEEL which is fleeting
Correct. I know from personal experience. Be the guy she first met; fun, adventurous, unpredictable, mysterious. If not, attraction will fade. She won't even know why.
So damn true, don’t give a damn about women because eventually they’ll get bored with you anyways. They all do.
What a fantastic post, thanks dude! Yeh fuck love, i'm done with Romance.....women don't give a shit about Romance, we've all been brainwashed and conditioned completely wrong on that one for sure!
@@luker1hutcher315 really? The more romantic I am, the more pussy I get so idk what you’re doing wrong 🤷🏽♂️
We should be distant, not worried about her distance
Remember guys, relationships REQUIRE polarity. Let the woman focus on the relationship and labels while you focus on and prioritize your purpose. This allows for the perfect balance of masculine and feminine energy. If you guys need help with your situations, feel free to ask.
Will ignoring her too much make her emotionally unconnected?? Just asking
@@AKS-zl6be it's not about ignoring or neglecting your girl. You should still continue to court her and treat her right. It's about not making her and your relationship with her your first priority in life, which leads to overpursuit and neediness.. Your purpose should come first above everything else, which allows for space and mystery in the relationship to naturally occur. It also allows you to fulfill and validate yourself instead of looking to her to complete you.
I met a girl who is 23 and I'm 20. I like her because she fits all the things that i look for in a partner. But she has no idea that I like her and would like to date her. What should I do next ?
@@mohit.bandbe take the initiative and ask her out on a date. Masculine energy is all about taking risks and going for what you want in life.If you have her number you can give her a call or text if you have to, although in person would be best as that shows the most confidence and boldness, which are very attractive to women.
@@kentmarcus1255 should you wait for her to confess her feelings or should we say first? if telling her im interest in pursuing romantic feelings with her would that make her turn off
Work until your bank balance looks like a phone number..
That's 10 digits bruh
+ more digits for me.
That's funny ... I like that lol
I work so hard. Now I have $911 in my account
I dont know my phone number 😂
Study. Work. Save Money. Get a hobby. Relax.
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Great lesson..Yeah never tell a woman you love first. Always have her say it first. Focus on your purpose and women will focus on you.
Five years of videos and it’s all the same theme-
DON’T. BE. NEEDY !!!
Thank you Chris.
The pattern will never end because weak men are being produced in droves everyday. Within our schools and homes, evil teachers, misguided parents and manipulative media constantly tell our young boys to hate themselves. In the long run, everybody loses, both men and women.
I can attest to Chris advice. I once made a mistake of chasing a woman not too long ago and that's the only time I've felt unworthy and unattractive towards an opposite sex. It was so uncharacteristically of me to do such mistake. Fortunately, I woke up one day and regain my consciousness from a nightmarish point in my life. Never ever make a woman feel she's more important than you.
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I was relationship focused when the pandemic hit us. I was bored inside the house so my girlfriend became my outlet of all the frustrations of not being able to work. I was depressed and all and it didn't help at all that she left me because of all the attraction killer things that i made. Good thing I stumble upon your video one day and I followed all the counter intuitive advise and now surprised surprised , I got her back and having the best time again. I always watch your video still after gaining her back coz you deserve some love my man. God Bless. Thank you!!!
Yes, it's "counter intuitive". Like leaning into a right hook!
What video
Relationship focused is feminine energy, hustle on your grind fellas
So I'm never ever ever ever ever eeever allowed to say 'I love you'? Jesus you guys put so much pressure into life. Like just live and be true to yourself and stop acting like every little thing you do has to have purpose
@@MaddLaddSaddLadd you never say it first. Pay attention boy
Chris my man you’re a legend! This girl I totally fucked up our almost relationship with (we never got to dating since I overpursued and was too available and that killed her attraction for me) is creeping in my stories now that I told her I’ve got to focus on other things in my life but I’d be open to the idea of talking with her again in the future. She called me “fucking confusing” but is now watching my stories so her attraction is going back up just by me starting NC the right way and focusing on bettering my own life for ME, not as a “tactic” to get her back or anything. Keep up the great work! (PS your book and action plan guides are both very eye opening and engaging)
Bro i wanna thankyou.. you have changed me as a person when it come to dealing with women.. i used to be a guy who angry mad when they didnt reply my text but now i bcome a person who doesnt care when women dont reply and eventually they reply for somereason .. u totaly changed me
I've caught myself about to reply....'u get that text.' We all know she did. Now I know to just relax. And yes, they do respond. Then I give them an even longer delay. Being nonresponsive separates us from most men.
Never tell a woman that you love her FIRST. Make her wonder where she stands
Focus on money! Women want men who focus on getting resources!
Well she wants u for ur money not u stoopid
@@lcucuy6819 I don't say women love money. What I am saying is, women love men who are capable to do their mission. In other words, ambitious men. Many rich needy guys are not successful with women. I know them. Neediness is something, that tell women about guys how they can get resources. Needy guys can't get resources. This is evolution 🧬
The man himself speaking, great to see you
I just want to thank you. After reading your book, I feel more confident. My friends started noticing the change in me too. It's the best thing a man can invest in ❤
@@ifaisal2185 It's not about being confident, It's about the truth.. The books has true stuff in it, which changed my perception of how to live life. You should read that.
Can you tell me how can I purchase that book?
@@abrammontoya2511 from amazon
@@AJAYNAYAK-cb1nb so you are saying confidence and true to yourself isn’t related ? Ok...
WHAT ARE THE ODDS I SEE THIS VIDEO RIGHT AFTER I MADE THIS MISTAKE
very high! me too
Extremely high lol, me three
A healthy, secure woman who's into you often has no problem accepting it and saying it back. Perhaps this is a good way to weed out the crazy ones...
Most guys that say it first are trying to rush things along and really have no clue what they are doing.. And they tend to overestimate how much the woman is into them. That’s why it’s such a turnoff.
You don’t want to tell a woman you love her if you barely just met and still hardly know each other. Yet guys do this all the time and expect the women to feel the same way.
@@Steve00077 Too soon is definitely a turnoff. And definitely not before there's an established relationship with solid boundaries and a clear understanding.
Relationships are a sham. It's impossible to manage this without being a sociopath. If you like someone you like them, you might not always find them as irresistible as you did initially but it should turn into something tighter.
Studies have shown women are sexually attracted to sociopaths. They want to change him rather than date a girl who is relationship focused. It's who they are 🤷♂️
Sad but true 😂
I met the love of my life, 2 years in wrapped around her in every way she broke up with me and ghosted me and I never ever seen it coming. Completely lost my marbles and made every single mistake possible at least 3x. You name it I did it. Never anything threatening, I’m talking crying and all that. I barely have her on the phone and I definitely should have fallen back from the gate. Especially because it was the opposite when we met. You’re going to remember this and you will realize you should have just laid low
Chris, your book changed my thinking towards, not only women, but also life in general.
Thank you.
So basically cancel dates, watch other girl as they’re passing by and go with another girl mix it up once in a while and you’ll be respected
Yep pretty much
The more you treat them like dog shit the more they adore you. Sad but true
I never tell a woman I love her like I use to do during my younger years. Even when my woman tells me she loves me, I answer back "I know". When she ask if I love her, I just reply "yeah". Eventually she gives up but she really wants to hear me say "I love you too". 😒
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@@morganrollins81 just STFU.
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You are absolutely right. Ive made this error a couple times with real beautiful exes. But one of my other exes i could kind of take her or leave her and She was all about Me. The other two i mentioned previously both lost attraction. It seems clear as day now. I cant believe how weak i used to be
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stop saying they're" beautiful"
Maybe once shes your permanent, long term woman or even wife.
Its simpish
the thing is, you will always feel like your not enough or DOING enough when your partner is too stubborn, you can be doing ALL the right things but if your significant other is extremely stubborn, its never going to go your way, she will not admit she is wrong, she will pull away from you
I can relate to this with a woman I have been trying to get back with. Italians!
Let's brutally be honest, they're not worth investing in
Right. What’s the benefit
You’re the best . It’s true.. I’m from Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦 and all women are the same . No matter where you come from . I did the same problem and now she left me Shes off and she don’t respect anymore
how are you no brother
He is making videos lessons more often than before .. that's great 👌
More great red pill truth from Chris
I say to them, "You LOVE me." That I think you can get away with it. Personally, I don't mind saying, "I love you too". Only if she takes the initiative. But don't say it unless you really mean it. That's just me.
I made the mistake of saying it without meaning it, she sort of pressured me into it. I’ve never said it again since lmao
Glad to see you uploading again Chris, keep up this new video formats: they really help as a reminder on keeping one's masculine frame
Woah........this is easily the best and most well explained video on this subject Professor Canwell's concocted so far. GOLD ! I will never make this groundhog day mistake again! I've been burned one too many times by it
You're right... Focus on investing in yourself.
Guess we all have inherited simping from our Fathers.... Changing genetical inherited traits is so hard.. Chris, we need more books from you ( Self help too...Cause in way it seems you are always in for self improvement..which i like it!)
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Watching from Nairobi Kenya your amazing brother.
A girl I was dating dumped me after I made my first mistake. I acted like an absolute simp wanting a second chance, never again.
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Just isn’t true, sorry. I’ve been in long relationships where I said the L word first and it was reciprocated. Yes, relationship psychology is usually great advice, but these gurus talk like it’s a one size fits all situation. It’s not.
but it happen to me 99% L word will fuxxx you off
This Coach is so underrated...I too is his subscriber..I have read his Outstanding Book(Atomic Attraction)... According to me, he is teaching Men to be Super Alpha..But what I suggest is ...You should be able to strike a balance between Alpha and Beta...Balance the relationship... Stay in the middle...Don't go on Extremes...Balance it..Regards
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@@morganrollins81 thanks man...That's so nice of you..
Regards
@@shaktipatnaik5091 you are welcome
Telling her you love her first is not a mistake if she is in you.. Problem is if you are chasing her its a big turn off.
Wow, we can't even tell someone we love them these days... people are insane
GET THIS MAN A NOBEL PRIZE, HE IS DAMN ACCURATE BRUH
Absolutely fantastic video! I started reading your book.. I love it!!! Bravo!
Love your content man..Your videos molded me to be a stronger and a better person overall.
Stop being a slave to a woman especially narcissistic women. Your masculine energy has the potential to do great things. If someone has to be with you and understand you that's a blessing. Don't worry about women, it's not like that person is the only woman in the world.
I have actually left got the opposite reason. I don’t like being treated like just something to do
My ex posting pics of us on facebook but when i asked her to come to a relationship she refused
Great job as always, coach! Thanks!
Sometimes the woman pushes you to say 'I love you' first though, she almost pesters you, just like when she wants marriage as well.
Don't waste your time, since your relationship is doomed. Dump her and move on. There are plenty more fish in the sea and it'll be many times easier to get a new woman.
You can't say how you feel without looking weak..what a waste of feelings
This guy is a beast keep up the amazing videos brother 💯💯💯👏👏👏
It's hard to balance loving your own life and legitimately being self centered or focused....but also view them as anything but a sex object. In every relationship I've been busy, capable, getting promotions, never quitting my hobbies, doing what I want..... But also capable of responding, showing affection, etc. It's a turn off regardless. It's as if women don't want a true partnership. They want completely separate lives, with random reminders that you still think of them, and a sexual release.
Why even dedicate yourself to one person then?
Man you put this in a way I’ve never been able to, its true though.
@@KraziChidi haha I've had enough time with several long term gfs to try every approach. There is no magic potion. Letting them roam only lands them in the arms of another man. Attempting to establish something together makes them feel held back. This is rich women, women in school, women with lower level jobs.
The market is flooded with men willing to provide attention. Inflation... Makes your attention (currency) almost worthless.
I agree but hopefully there are times when you do stuff together after work or on the weekends (other than sex). I think the key is don't bother women at work or keep them away from their mom or family or send them lots of texts looking for attention.
Exactly, they still want the attention from other men, while having the sexual release with all of them if possible. But then say they want a lifelong partner
I don't know... if i can't be myself, show my weaknesses, be vulnerable, aka i have to be someone else, what is the point of having a relationship with a girl?
Vaj
As always, solid advice!
Any plans for a new book in the future? I love the Atomic Attraction!
In the end of the day take care of yourself first. Keep treating the ladies the right way, but yourself comes first.
Society has lied to us so much that I'm angry about it.
Democrats have lied to you. They’re the ones telling everyone that men and women are the same and have doomed an entire generation
My Man is Back 🔥✨
( Keep making more videos ) ❤️
don’t be dependent on any outside source to be happy specially a woman
3:02 I can practically see him flying the plane right into the side of the mountain. Jesus Christ...
Loool, great video man. I needed this today. No contacting this girl I like now.
This video is very confrontational (and that is a good thing).
*DON'T LOVE WOMEN BUT SAY I LOVE YOU AND WHEN YOU SENSE THAT SHE IS ACTING AWAY FROM YOU OR PULLING BACK OR NON RECIPROCAL TO THE LOVE THEN DUMP HER FIRST RIGHT THERE! IT WILL HIT HER OUT OF NOWHERE! SHE THOUGHT SHE COULD HURT YOU BUT NOW YOU'RE MAKING HER CHASE AND INVEST WONDERING WHAT JUST HAPPENED🤣*
you're better off letting the women talk about relationships
Facts plus tax!
A girl just broke up with me because I wasn’t relationship focused and wasn’t being romantic enough apparently 🤷🏻♂️
its a test
Well it’s over a year now so I must have passed the test but haven’t seen her or spoken to her since 😂😂😂
@@AndyGinny1 she was trying to trap you
Would love to go for a pint with you Chris one day. Keep up the content!
Thanks for this excellent video!
Your tips are very helpful...
Chris is going nuts with those titles🤣🤣
We love that tho
Self consequently I think I might have been alil bit too relationship focus I kinda hinted towards kids and marriage a lil too soon I’m assuming
So no contact Is what ima do
Please make more video on long DISTANCES relationships
Awesome work
Plz keep it up
The exact same situation with me. After 2,5 years in a relationship.
This dude is underrated
[Her] "I *LOVE* You."
[Me] "I *LOVE ME* Too!" 🤣🤣🤣
Fellas, this is the Proper Response.
haha ya, we have been mistaken
Hehehe so true
Im glad I discovered this guys advice
"I'm feeling off." = "I want to go ride the CC."
Woah. Chris is back ❤️
I could do with some advice. Girl came back into my life after 18 months at Christmas, we hooked up again. When she left I jokingly said I’ll see you in 6 months then. She texted for several days. Been 35 days since she last initiated. I’m wanting to keep her as a fwb, almost on verge of contacting her, or should I just stay silent?
If you initiate, nothing will happen. Some women just disappear, and then reappear. There is nothing you can do, because she has a rotation of guys, and it is not your turn yet. Believe me, I've been with a number of girls like that. Am I correct in assessing that she is a party girl? You either live with that, or never respond to her again.
@@independentthought3390
Not exactly a party girl, she’s pushing 31, so she’s slap bang in the epiphany phase, although there’s some crazy in there, which is part of the attraction. Get along with her effortlessly and genuinely enjoy her company. No woman’s made me laugh as much, before or since.
@@VoiceOfThe Well, I never managed to turn a girl like that into a fwb, or anything consistent like that. They just disappear, sometimes for years. That caught me off guard at first, but after coming across three such women, I realized it's apparently pretty common. All three were party girls in my case. They were all great to be around, but at least one of them was sleeping with other guys consistently, which she told me herself. My advice would be, enjoy her, but don't plan anything with her.
@@independentthought3390
Yeah, I know. It’s a shame she’s feral, because she’s a great girl in many respects, but, she’s a bit messed up as her father was in and out of her life and completely absent from 12 years-old. I call her The Boomerang. She’s come back to me so many times over the years. Thinks the grass is greener. One day she’ll realise it isn’t and it’ll be too late.
i was zoning out when you said that it doesn t matter how old she is
A girl told me she loves me after a couple weeks of coming over to my room to make out. I avoided us having sex. I never took her out anywhere or asked her to come. I said OK, I don't love you yet, we've only met like a few weeks ago.
This man is so great 👌👌
Don't tell her you love her! It's so much true'
Are you working on another book?
First one was amazing
Oh My God! My head is spinning like a wheel.... 😪😪
So I have to wait 3 months 6 months 1 year 2 years.. bla..bla...bla...to listen the three magic words from her heart and one day I will find myself in the oldage home...
Ok... it's better to be a misogynist and stay single...
Yes
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"You are the Disney Prince!, Congratulations!"
My girlfriend call me a lier. Keep 5 thing from her. Don't tell her. Now she blame me for it. Tell go brake up with me
Everyone should be in true love st least once. No matter how ugly they are. Keep a job you might get lucky
Screw it stay single. If they flake over you saying you like them ? Stay Away !!
This is a sick society
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Unless they’re single mom. They depend on relationship focused men for their survival. But don’t think for a second she doesn’t think about her baby daddy.
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Chris. Make videos on Pickup..... Approaching women.
Golden channel