Do You Love Yourself?

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  • @IamKarryanne
    @IamKarryanne 6 ปีที่แล้ว +395

    Ladies..if you messed up, just move on!! Save your time..you'll spend too much time trying to back track and cover up! Waste of time.

    • @umsiee
      @umsiee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Very very very true

    • @lovelylibra7349
      @lovelylibra7349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Damn i needed to hear this💓 is it 11:11?💓

  • @toscadonna
    @toscadonna 6 ปีที่แล้ว +578

    If anyone in this world deserves a talk show, it's you. I have never heard better advice consolidated in one source.

    • @Trailblazers323
      @Trailblazers323 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      tosca donna She is going to blow up. The timing is right, she’s been making videos for a really long time so her delivery is perfected now. Also it is an imperative subject area that is untapped.

    • @travelfoodielove
      @travelfoodielove 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      tosca donna right?!

    • @ellaluvs21suarez32
      @ellaluvs21suarez32 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yes 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

    • @samuisun6684
      @samuisun6684 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      The agenda for the last 70 years, has been the destruction of the feminine - so learn from Shera, the truth.Generations of women have been in too much brainwashing, mindcontrol and confusion to figure out and pass along to their daughters any wisdom that could have saved them from the horrors of the modern womans existence. So, no, she is not going to get a mainstream talk show, but we are blessed to come upon such a truly Wise Woman to turn the tide and bring back dignity and worth to the female lifecycle.

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr ปีที่แล้ว +1

      THIS IS TRASH! MOST MEN R CHEAP AND WORRIED ABOUT THEIR OWN BELLIES!

  • @opheliad7452
    @opheliad7452 6 ปีที่แล้ว +671

    Whenever you tell your man about how bad your ex treat you they always do you the worst. I learn my lesson the hard way. I keep my mouth shut no more.

    • @Simplyhowiseeit
      @Simplyhowiseeit 6 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Ophelia D : yes ma’am! You are so right. I had to learn the hard way. When I would let him know I didn’t like something he would do or say, he would remind me of what I said about an ex and play on the fact he didn’t do what the ex did.

    • @Trailblazers323
      @Trailblazers323 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Lady Antoinette Bien-Aime Although they in fact do the exact same things as an ex, you have to word your distaste to not refer to another 🤨

    • @Love-dd5cp
      @Love-dd5cp 6 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      I tell them my ex is dead .

    • @kimberly0717
      @kimberly0717 6 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Sadly, men will use your stories to weigh out what they believe they can now get away with. It adds or subtracts from your value. You can give brief synopsis but NEVER give them details to most things. You can say, he didn't treat me well and when I noticed it I let him go. He don't need to know it was 2 years or more. We learn and change hopefully from experience. What you may accept at 20, hopefully you won't accept those things at 30. They sure won't tell you everything..

    • @donnagrandevaleur4215
      @donnagrandevaleur4215 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I wonder what would happen if told them how good he treated you instead.

  • @shireensaroea946
    @shireensaroea946 6 ปีที่แล้ว +858

    You’ve changed so many people’s lives. You are a heroine

    • @islandgirl220
      @islandgirl220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True

    • @Naallaa
      @Naallaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Even for gym I look cute

    • @Naallaa
      @Naallaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      This hit the spot for me. "He is scheming you're day deaming" that's fact!!!

    • @Melly16yr10
      @Melly16yr10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Damn straight 😄

    • @solvixenwhisper
      @solvixenwhisper 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, absolutely 💜

  • @shebamooncat9162
    @shebamooncat9162 6 ปีที่แล้ว +427

    Validation is for Parking

    • @iLuvTheMostHigh
      @iLuvTheMostHigh 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Felicia Thomas But I am a flat footed male, and it makes my knees knock so I kinda twist when I walk. People ask me why I walk like that, or they strangers and neighbors laugh at my walk. How can I accept my walk? I try and change it for validation from people.

    • @umsiee
      @umsiee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@iLuvTheMostHigh hire a personal trainer or go to a chiropractor! Do stretches, exercise, eat vitamins and minerals! Do it for 6 months to a year and see some positive changes to your body! Good luck

    • @umsiee
      @umsiee 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iLuvTheMostHigh
      th-cam.com/video/u45qdEm_nOM/w-d-xo.html. Or watch other videos with info about flat feet and how to correct it!!

  • @melixx2383
    @melixx2383 6 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    "Look at people crazy when they offer you crap" hahahaha

  • @zolamkhize2035
    @zolamkhize2035 6 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    I've been chasing after a man that doesn't love me for 5 years and I actually realized that it was because I never loved myself. I feel shattered for dragging myself like that but I will move on be happy with myself. I deserve better Thank you for your videos

    • @firesign4297
      @firesign4297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🙇‍♀️🙏🙇‍♀️....
      You should check out:
      R.C.Blakes Jr. On You Tube
      And ...Derrick Jaxn ...on You
      Tube
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    • @travelfoodielove
      @travelfoodielove 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Congrats

    • @ebonyshouseofbeautybebeaut406
      @ebonyshouseofbeautybebeaut406 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      FIRE SIGN Yes they are GOOD 👍.

    • @azra5101
      @azra5101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      my best changes came after I did the same 7 years ago, its worth it

    • @Konfiden644
      @Konfiden644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@firesign4297 congrats u figured that out 💯💖👏🏽 now u can see things clearly. I remember when I didn’t realize I was dragging myself as well but when I did it was like I entered a new world. My mindset changed tremendously

  • @jessicap5010
    @jessicap5010 6 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    If you love yourself, you don’t go anywhere you’re not appreciated. I heard that. Thank you sis ❤️

  • @Kstixx1
    @Kstixx1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    The measure of whether you love yourself or not shows itself clearly in how you’re living in this present moment...

  • @twinsweare2
    @twinsweare2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    I believe you give the best advice ever. I allowed a group of vicious , angry co-workers to treat me " any old kind of way" and they did essentially take my career away from me. There are many dangerous people in the world and I believe you do have to "check" people in order to take a strong stand for your self. Self love matters. Yes- nothing but savages out here in the world. Most of them have no feelings of remorse or guilt for who they hurt. Sad world- gotta be cut throat to get what you want.

    • @negrilgyrl
      @negrilgyrl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Ann Cota heck ya u have to check people! Remember u teach people how to treat you. Sometimes you have to go there, even though u don't want people to see u out of character.

    • @hayleymyles6823
      @hayleymyles6823 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Ann I hear you so clearly I had the same situation last year.....I lost my power in the situation...but they regretted it...
      Ann we need to talk x

    • @twinsweare2
      @twinsweare2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I think all my nay sayers finally got what they deserved. But I never forget how many are.

    • @golddust9602
      @golddust9602 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@hayleymyles6823
      I agree. This jealous, insecure, ratchets are Trollups.

    • @hayleymyles6823
      @hayleymyles6823 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@golddust9602 these people are every where...CAN NEVER GIVE OUR POWER AND ENERGY AWAY....don't let these people know your business....just keep everyone especially work colleagues at arms length...x

  • @lauraadriana6684
    @lauraadriana6684 6 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    I made so many mistakes, but at least I can teach my girls how to have a better life and more selflove. Thank you Shera. You inspire me.

    • @monicdavis6150
      @monicdavis6150 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Laura Adriana
      Right I wish I listened when I was young! Steady popping out diamonds 💎 (kids) for two ex husbands. Who could have cared less about me after the second year of marriage. Shucks. I can be dusty on my own! Definitely giving more of these messages to my grown girls.
      I’m good.
      Taking applications for Rich friends though. 😁

    • @lolapatton5444
      @lolapatton5444 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yep.... I have a daughter in her 30’s who I can see is clearly heading down the wrong path. Sad part is, she doesn’t want to acknowledge it.

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr ปีที่แล้ว

      TEACH THEM TO BE LEECHES

    • @xsophia22x
      @xsophia22x ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@lc-il6wrdusty is triggered 😂😂😂

    • @ARS-fn6px
      @ARS-fn6px ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@lc-il6wrbetter than being skcd dry by losers and for them to turn around and tell us we hit the wall and should have picked better. Wr are picking better, sir. Isnt that what you wanted for us❤? Your empathic wish for us is coming true😂❤

  • @samanthawoldu6856
    @samanthawoldu6856 6 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    "he's scheming and you're daydreaming" oooh i like that!!

  • @Blackdiamond929_
    @Blackdiamond929_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    BE STRATEGIC IN EVERYTHING YOU DO AND YOU WILL ALWAYS WIN!

    • @niratomas579
      @niratomas579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Strategy is the name of the game!

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr ปีที่แล้ว +2

      BECOME A LEECH LIKE YALL

  • @piciulnostru575
    @piciulnostru575 6 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    yeah..and I never ever chased a man even though I was head over hills over him. I mean, I knew from within that If he's not chasing me...it's a lost cause, I don't need that dynamic.

  • @applegurl8097
    @applegurl8097 6 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Thank you for your videos. You are changing my life.
    Sadly i was a pick me. Not anymore. Im only 22 so i still have alot of living to do and time to change and be better.
    You are like the older sister i never had.
    KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING!!

  • @lifeventures6651
    @lifeventures6651 6 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Girl I have seen folks with bonnets and slippers in a freaking airport. I was flabbergasted! Plus they were in their 20's headed to Vegas. Thank God my parents taught me to have good sense. It infuriates me though when ppl ask me why am I so dressed up. Um...Because I like to project positive energy and this is who I am. Then If I were to ask "why are you dressed in public like a mule, @ they would get offended

    • @lifeventures6651
      @lifeventures6651 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Mind you all I had on was a nice top, jeans and heels. That's dressed up to some folks? Lol

    • @Trailblazers323
      @Trailblazers323 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      It really needs to be against the law to look raggedy.

    • @ameliahorn1
      @ameliahorn1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yes....I hate when I go to work,and women ask me why I'm so dressed up. I have on a nice wig,mascara, and jeans,and puma's. I'm just well put together. I wonder what they would say if I really got dressed up. Lorddd

    • @shazahashim8687
      @shazahashim8687 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      .

    • @umsiee
      @umsiee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So true they always think I think I'm better than them. I stopped looking good bc of nasty comments.

  • @BritBrat444
    @BritBrat444 6 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    love yourself= having boundaries and acting on them

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LEECHES

  • @Trailblazers323
    @Trailblazers323 6 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    If we kept up our dignity, class and beauty through slavery, civil rights, the renaissance etc, then what the hell is the excuse for looking like trash in 2018? Look at the images of women in the 40s, 50s and up until the late 90s. When did it become a competition for who could care about themselves the least?
    Self love is a ritual. Doing your makeup=ritual, cooking/eating healthy food=ritual, exercise=ritual, bathing and so on. You are literally putting the energy into your being!

    • @SR77736
      @SR77736 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Vanessa great post and very empowering,indeed. ❤

    • @harumiayame8586
      @harumiayame8586 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      worthwhile comment to read.

    • @lolapatton5444
      @lolapatton5444 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      When I see these chicks, well these dudes, too looking like they just rolled out of a trash can...... esp those damn hair bonnets(I CANNOT!!!!), I been saying they really just hate themselves. Bc if u loved yourself your surely wouldnt degrade yourself coming out the house lookin like a hot mess!!!

    • @blessedchildofgod9112
      @blessedchildofgod9112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's right

    • @SensualBrunette
      @SensualBrunette 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Vanessa Walmart !

  • @peekaboots01
    @peekaboots01 5 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    You taught your daughter well. I had no parental guidance. Leila is lucky.

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr ปีที่แล้ว +1

      CRYING LIKE A ...

    • @Cordofmiserie
      @Cordofmiserie 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Never too late ❤❤❤❤

  • @P_Belle
    @P_Belle 6 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Leaning up; losing weight.💕

    • @firesign4297
      @firesign4297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👏👏👏😊....
      Look into the...Vegan❤
      Lifestyle! Change😊
      Check out *Vegan You Tube Videos😊👍👍😊

  • @hawonuurmahdi8657
    @hawonuurmahdi8657 5 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    My ex came back after he left me year age he wants me i cried so much last year but now i rejected him 2019 i started levelling up my self 🤗

    • @foxyauragems6146
      @foxyauragems6146 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Narcissistic and users always make the rounds

  • @Francene113
    @Francene113 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    You teach all the things I wish my mother would have taught me. Thank you. You’re a blessing. I’m teaching my daughter everything I am learning from my own life experience and everything I learn from you. Thank you.♥️

  • @travelfoodielove
    @travelfoodielove 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I love how you talk about female empowerment and emotional self control! You are a lifesaver! Can’t wait to put my girls on to you!!!! Thanks beautiful

  • @Beautifulprogress777
    @Beautifulprogress777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Im a loner... I don't have a lot of girlfriends but when I am listening to your videos I tell people I am talking to my friend Shera ☺ I love you sis💗

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SHERA TEACHING YALL HOW TO LEECH..LEECHES SUCK BLOOD..YALL TAKE THE MONEY FOR YALL BILLS .U LEECHES

    • @nt3353
      @nt3353 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same

    • @karimasorel
      @karimasorel 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      lol I have been saying Ashera is my best friend and she don’t even know it😂

  • @destinywithdestiny588
    @destinywithdestiny588 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Thank you so much, Shera for all of your free content! Ever since I found you in January I've doubled my income, lost 10 pounds, and place bettering myself at the top of my priority list. Before you I had been depressed and let myself go, stopped doing my makeup and dressing poorly. After finding you I've began to find myself again and receive better treatment because of it. Thank you again so much! I don't know where I'd be without you. Much love. 💕

  • @Cookiescornertarot
    @Cookiescornertarot 6 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    Lmao my mom has said that I think the world owes me something and I sorta do. I just know what I deserve.

    • @Cookiescornertarot
      @Cookiescornertarot 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Yamnayan Descent Lol money isn’t everything I’m sure you heard it too. Lol my mom wanted me to stay with my ex dusty husband, he paid the bills but soon he was listening to too many ppl thinking I was gonna go 50/50 lls ba-bye

    • @pinkgal206
      @pinkgal206 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yamnayan Descent lol

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LEECH

  • @Metaphysicalmindspace777
    @Metaphysicalmindspace777 6 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I love being girlie and feminine and playing in my makeup. I get started early putting on my makeup and smell good so I can look and feel sexy. I’m first in my household. Yes. If a man doesn’t appreciate my presence I move on. That’s what queens do. I love your video.

  • @ghadaj.mohammed6455
    @ghadaj.mohammed6455 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    You have to treat yourself like a star...love it

  • @tiwanwilliams5342
    @tiwanwilliams5342 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    SheRa guess what! I've started wearing make up more and not only am I turning higher standard men heads but I get smiles from women almost everyday as if they admire me or something. I notice the difference. Now I need to learn how to level up my make up.

  • @Simplyhowiseeit
    @Simplyhowiseeit 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Great video. Thank you Shera!!! Great video. I’ve tolerated cheap men for a long time and it really feels unfair; I’m generous and enjoy giving. I guess that is what anyone would say about theirselves. Maybe I did too much. I’m learning to love myself more with watching your videos. I don’t even pay guys that aren’t what I’m looking for any attention besides being cordial.

  • @mstje6866
    @mstje6866 6 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Great movie examples are vintage movies from the 50s and 60s when women were very feminine. One that reminds me of what Shera talks about is "That Touch of Mink" with Carey Grant and Doris Day.

  • @carameldiva7asmr415
    @carameldiva7asmr415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    My grandmother always told us to have a secret bank account that he doesn’t know about.

  • @Evebossie
    @Evebossie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    One thing I wish for is to have known your channel like 3yrs back. I would be in a happy place not a crappy place I am now.. But I believe it was destined for now. I just love how you changed my thinking in many perspectives.

  • @yoca78
    @yoca78 6 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I love you but you are somehow misleading... in my experience, rich and well educated men want a gorgeous woman, yes, but who is also college educated . His family and friends will talk about careers and colleges they attended, and they WILL put you on the spot if you havent taken your education seriously. His social circle has a saying , he will listen to them and will expect that they accept you. So ladies, put as much effort in your education and intellectual development as you put in your looks. If you have these two covered, you WILL land the rich man and you will become wifey material . He won't expect you to work, but he will expect you to be knowledgable and cultivated

    • @wishingonastar9330
      @wishingonastar9330 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Not really... I’m married yet I have no college degree just a lifetime of experience and common sense. My husband is a provider. He trusts my judgment and knows that I’m loyal plus I’m a babe. Lol. So yeah formal education isn’t all that. Otherwise I’d just print out a diploma and lie about my upbringing. Keep it simple. Lol.

    • @wishingonastar9330
      @wishingonastar9330 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Oh and yes he’s well off.

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@wishingonastar9330 exactly

  • @savepuertorico5277
    @savepuertorico5277 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    So true about women who dress their children in head to toe name brands. Such a waste of money, they grow right outta that stuff in like 5 minutes! About the interview with Tommy, I don’t necessarily think it’s the best idea but at the same time, I genuinely believe u can handle it if u did. You got that toughness that if he comes at u sideways you’ll give it right back! 💪🏼

    • @cookiefacetwgirlxoxo5947
      @cookiefacetwgirlxoxo5947 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My nephew and niece are head to toe in name brand the clothes have better quality and last year's for them. Then we get them discounted crazy 8 pants $5 gap outfits discount you just have to keep an eye out for sales and then we give away the clothes when they grow out of them.

  • @MsSweetmademoiselle
    @MsSweetmademoiselle 6 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Been watching your videos on repeat for the past few days and gurl you are DA TRUTH!!!!

    • @nt3353
      @nt3353 ปีที่แล้ว

      She the Messiah tbh

  • @iamdistincta5401
    @iamdistincta5401 6 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    YOU ARE A MODEL, I'VE CHANGED S MUCH SINCE I AM LISTENING TO YOUR VIDEOS. I EVEN THINK I AM NARCISSIC BUT HEY....WHO CARES !!!!

    • @travelfoodielove
      @travelfoodielove 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Iam Distincta lol

    • @danmeck5978
      @danmeck5978 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Sad that when one puts themselves first they label themselves as a narc! Girl, you are just fine. Narcs are mentally ill.

    • @umsiee
      @umsiee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@danmeck5978 exactly!!!!

  • @Rhugheswiesel
    @Rhugheswiesel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I’ve had my heart broken two times in a row, so now I’m ready lol

    • @diankekanoute9913
      @diankekanoute9913 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Rachel Hughes I feel u I been broken 2 times too but now settling for less now lol

    • @firesign4297
      @firesign4297 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙇‍♀️🤗🙇‍♀️....
      Check out R.C.Blacks Jr.
      You Tube Video Titled:
      "DON'T GET PIMPED"
      And Check out Derrick Jaxn
      You tube videos as well
      🙇‍♀️🙏🙇‍♀️

    • @firesign4297
      @firesign4297 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@diankekanoute9913 🙇‍♀️🙏🙇‍♀️...
      Read my Reply to Rachel Hughes 😊
      It will help You😊 as well🙇‍♀️🙏🙇‍♀️

    • @sylviafranklin67
      @sylviafranklin67 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      All it took was one good time for me ... now I’m a savage .

    • @laundrybasket2689
      @laundrybasket2689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It took me FOUR times and almost 20 years of my youth. I always believed in finding my one true love, just like I was programmed and was always left heartbroken time after time. I’m late to the game but I’ve been learning from this channel since 2018. Better late than never.

  • @azucenabustos1078
    @azucenabustos1078 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Saving one pickmessha at a time!

    • @monicdavis6150
      @monicdavis6150 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Azucena Bustos
      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @rusty315
    @rusty315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Shera, if only you knew the degree of impact u have on my life. I’m sure this goes for other young woman out there. Thank you from the bottom of my heart, I love you!

  • @cranberrysoda9051
    @cranberrysoda9051 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    TAP Events said she does weddings for everyone who ends up marrying their sugar daddy! Good looking out sis 😂👏🏽

  • @goddessinyou7967
    @goddessinyou7967 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Hi Ashera. Yes loving yourself first is Essential". Love yah. Have a beautiful Wednesday . Imiri.

    • @goddessinyou7967
      @goddessinyou7967 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for your reply. Goodnight to you and your family. Imiri

  • @piciulnostru575
    @piciulnostru575 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    when I go to the gym I make sure I look really nice now, I have nice gym outfit, wear natural makeup, but it;s there, and I'm going to buy a ponytail so that my hair looks nice too

    • @firesign4297
      @firesign4297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😊👏👏👏👍👍😊

  • @MaraMarieBeauty
    @MaraMarieBeauty 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Mirroring them best advice in the world 🌎

  • @ilovereadinginspanish9424
    @ilovereadinginspanish9424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is one of her best videos, this lady is a genius "."

  • @travelfoodielove
    @travelfoodielove 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Shera ya a godsend! Thank you for empowering us ladies and getting our mind and money right.

  • @melanin.goddessig3017
    @melanin.goddessig3017 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This was on point. STRAIGHT FACTS. I keep binge watching her videos 😩❤️

  • @ennvee1989
    @ennvee1989 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Idc what ppl say i wear makeup at the gym. I dont do a full face tho.Just enough to cover hyperpigmentation. I have so many dark spots theres no way im leaving my house barefaced 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @bossladyempire5138
    @bossladyempire5138 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Self Love is not selfish 💚

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LEECHES

  • @msboo13
    @msboo13 6 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Don't go on his show. He just trying to get clout. You to good for that.

  • @kiara6815
    @kiara6815 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I think you advice is priceless.Thank you
    U helping me and so many women so much

  • @Rhugheswiesel
    @Rhugheswiesel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    So true about wanting validation.

  • @unapologeticallyexoticalElla
    @unapologeticallyexoticalElla 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I love my self even with my flaws I love me because if I dont love my self nobody will.💗self love.💋

  • @ac1111d
    @ac1111d ปีที่แล้ว +10

    “ Like DJ Khaled says, “we the best” “
    Shera you are too funny 🤣😭

  • @loveseduction5960
    @loveseduction5960 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Mannnnnn, I love you!!!! spitting facts and funny at the same danm time 😀😀😀😀😀😀.

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr ปีที่แล้ว +1

      THEYRE NOT FACTS..THEY HAVENT HAPPENED TO ME..I PAY FOR MYSELF LEECHES

  • @DrunkNancyPelosi
    @DrunkNancyPelosi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    How the trollls donating now ? 🤷🏽‍♀️ they need to keep they lil dusty coins haha

    • @Girlygirlsread
      @Girlygirlsread 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Alquimista 1111 oh no girl. Take all their money. Is the least she can do for dealing with their ignorance.

    • @firesign4297
      @firesign4297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nope!...TROLLS...Gotta
      PAY!!! ....Too!😄✌

  • @brittany1484
    @brittany1484 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I wish I could trigger my trolls so much that they start tricking for me. Shera is living the dream life

  • @prettyarmor
    @prettyarmor 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This was fierce warrior advice honey--most can't handle this

    • @lolapatton5444
      @lolapatton5444 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      prettyarmor i consider when I put my makeup on that I am putting on war paint bc I gotta slay when I go out in these streets

  • @leexa6935
    @leexa6935 6 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I couldn't get through one video of Tommy. how do other black women do it?

    • @negrilgyrl
      @negrilgyrl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Pick me's can sit and listen to anything

    • @MsSjchic
      @MsSjchic 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Some black women have become numb to misogynoir.

    • @IamKarryanne
      @IamKarryanne 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I think it's a syndrome of "I'm doing better than them.."or " He ain't talking talking bout me so..."

    • @Sweetlady1916
      @Sweetlady1916 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Lee Xa I agree with all that has been stated above. They have been conditioned to accept self destructive beliefs and behaviors. Now, they are seeking approval from anyone...sad.

    • @officersquarehead
      @officersquarehead 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Pick me's, handmaidens, mammies, and self-hating chicks love his videos.

  • @saribelalvarez683
    @saribelalvarez683 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    When I put your video around other men, they freak out and they get very intimidated and they think I’m crazy but you up and it’s all damn true advice into action. It works within 15 seconds lol

  • @epithanyreighn
    @epithanyreighn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank You for this video, greatly needed to hear this, I just figured out Im not happy and have been settling, smiling on the outside but crying inside, I will be making better deceisions for myself unapologetically, Thank You SheRa $$$

  • @robertandrocky5004
    @robertandrocky5004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I really never thought that loving yoirself is to treat myself as fairly as I treat others . I am rased to not ever even consider myself in MY decisions

  • @hayleymyles6823
    @hayleymyles6823 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    What a brilliant subject to discuss...self love needs to be part of learning at secondary school... (I from the UK)
    More videos like this are needed Shera xxx great job u doing
    How do I go about doing a private consultan

  • @sarahk6254
    @sarahk6254 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    You're definitely a water sign. I had to meditate and go within to figure all this out but you already knew since you were born lol

  • @trishytrishhh
    @trishytrishhh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is on my weekly playlist! 👍🏽👍🏽

  • @rosegold.sunset4749
    @rosegold.sunset4749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I think my toxic living situation at home has affected my self esteem for the past 7 years... and I've only let myself go and started feeling worse about myself in the last 3-4 years. I can't afford to move but I know it will ultimately make me love myself again. I am also scared that I will have less $ to treat myself and level up. Ugh

    • @kaianiambi
      @kaianiambi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't be scared. Make a plan for yourself. You will level up, when you develop a valuable skill set...

  • @SalomeBMedia
    @SalomeBMedia 6 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Thank you I seen Tommy set women up and roast them.

  • @jazzandjustice
    @jazzandjustice 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Eyebrows on fleek.

  • @mahtazdin
    @mahtazdin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Your changing my mind set lil by lil.

  • @firesign4297
    @firesign4297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I call your videos...🤗
    " THE WOMAN CODE"! 😊😀❤👍👍

  • @uanip1341
    @uanip1341 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    girl! you had me cracking up with that call to Jim lmao

  • @Lovejoyful606
    @Lovejoyful606 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You be havin me crackin up...Mellow Dramatic😄

  • @wartemis4941
    @wartemis4941 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Great subject ! Please do more videos on self love Ashera !

    • @firesign4297
      @firesign4297 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think she about Covered! This Subject! From A to Z!!!🤗 here!😄✌

  • @RT-fs3tt
    @RT-fs3tt ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m 28 and only just now learning the game from your videos. I was a pickmeisha and had NO idea, I thought I was doing everything right being sweet and spoiling the man I liked. That got me nowhere, lonely, and bitter fast

  • @turquoise_sea3319
    @turquoise_sea3319 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I love the way she says things

  • @shilohkalm9372
    @shilohkalm9372 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Wish I new about you years ago! Your videos and ALL of your advice gives me life!!👏🏾😍🔥But I've noticed some of your videos have been taken down..Why?!?😭😭😭

    • @SheRaSeven1
      @SheRaSeven1  6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      you tube did it. said it was against policy

  • @neshalee2821
    @neshalee2821 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Lol...I wish you were one my best friends

    • @firesign4297
      @firesign4297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She is my best friend 😊 in my...Head!😄....so she can be Yours🤗 that way too😄👍👍😊

    • @ellaluvs21suarez32
      @ellaluvs21suarez32 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      in my head🎶🎵🎧😂

  • @staywinning3299
    @staywinning3299 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    U have a good singing voice

  • @love4hair162
    @love4hair162 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really needed this today.. The truth hurts but it’s real.

  • @Barbieflygerian
    @Barbieflygerian 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    your such a great mentor x

  • @amazingyummy2
    @amazingyummy2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I feel teaching makes you EVEN BETTER

  • @Cherry2ree
    @Cherry2ree 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I loved this one great information. Shera has been on one with the videos I’m finally caught up. Yess girl keep it up.

  • @amo29812
    @amo29812 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Fantastic! Love ya.

  • @theblessedblackwoman
    @theblessedblackwoman 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you owe yourself love! Word Beautiful Lady!!!! Thanks!

  • @dalidoll7296
    @dalidoll7296 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sharing so much knowledge for free!

  • @Mikejones-gq8yx
    @Mikejones-gq8yx 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    20 years ago selling products I found lots of women would buy something for every one but them I would wait UNTIL they got done ring them up and put my money in my cash box !!😁!! then I would ask what did you buy for you ???? nothing I would ALLWAYZ give them something for them ! my store showed me in the 80s a lot ! THANKS

  • @opheliad7452
    @opheliad7452 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You the best, thank you I appreciate all your video. Thank you.

  • @cristy02
    @cristy02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thanks Shera. I really can't tell u enough how much I appreciate your videos. Whenever I'm sad , lost, confused about my love life , I watch any of ur videos and I Kno what to do again. I'm sad now n was gonna reach out to him, but now I know better. Thanks Shera❤️❤️❤️

    • @niratomas579
      @niratomas579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She gets our mind right!🙌🏾

  • @divestedconservative26
    @divestedconservative26 6 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Your face is getting skinty! 👀Yasss honey 💋😎

    • @shavonbrown4613
      @shavonbrown4613 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That sounded like it came from ah gay... Love it duhh

  • @yeahthatsme921
    @yeahthatsme921 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sisterhood 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @keikei1943
    @keikei1943 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I don't know how to love myself
    But I am trying to practice it

    • @love.1995
      @love.1995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You've got this girl

  • @ayd7330
    @ayd7330 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg you’re so funny at 1:51:11 “you can’t be all nervous, need some money “😂😂😂😂

  • @fshnrbltv
    @fshnrbltv 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Where is that beautiful head band from???

  • @bethbethanny6425
    @bethbethanny6425 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Shera b cracking me up fr fr 🤣

  • @truthiswealth1074
    @truthiswealth1074 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great Advice ▪▪☆▪▪

  • @glorias.2930
    @glorias.2930 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This video is EVERYTHING!!!

  • @RichPortQueen
    @RichPortQueen ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lmbo! Represent baby baby! 😂😂 SheraSeven is the illest!

  • @stacycastro929
    @stacycastro929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Right, he could be using her for his benefit, for his show. Keep the ball in your court SheRa 😄🙌🏽

  • @IamKarryanne
    @IamKarryanne 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "Hello Jim..." 😂😂🤣

  • @jordanjackson6739
    @jordanjackson6739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video just confirmed to me what I knew all along about why I just can’t seem to keep friends.