WOULD YOU HAVE KIDS AFTER THIS CONVERSATION? PART 2 Ft || FT Shiv & Shikie
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ธ.ค. 2024
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It's the way Shikie explains the questions to shiv when he doesn't understand for me😍,
The support is just on another level, kama si ivi mimi sitaki,,🤗😍
Ben is such a good host. How he checks in on shiv and shikie to see that they are comfortable and okay with the questions.
Wanjiru promised us looks and hair in this season and she is serving
We'd most definitely want Shiv and Shiki back on the podcast 🤩🤩🤩
In Germany the maternity leave is mandatory 3yrs until the kid/kids starts kindergarten, and on that note a parent will be allowed to stay at home until the 1st born is 8yrs under which the government will be financially responsible for the family
This was such a lovely discussion. We need Simani's back now for their relationship experience questions aside the Kids. They bring really good insights and I love their perspective on life in general 🤗
Yes, this is a good conversation and we want the guests back.
I second this...
Yes yes
Yes!!
“Too often you see people thinking that sth that is not love is love “ Touchee!!❤
I sincerely love joyride Wanjiru is a great woman. Ben aky 🤣🤣Wonderful discussion Shiv Shikkie back please.
Na kizungu ya Ben inaendelea kua poa😀😄,kutoka ile time ya therapy,pea joyriders your secret. This episode was a masterpiece, at least joyriders know what to expect when it comes to parenting.
This was a good choice of topic and you did great to bring Shiv and Shiku to the episode. Hubby and I have two kids. Wanjiru and Ben, when the Lord blesses you with Children, you will love them so much and wonder what life would be without them.
I stayed with our son for one year before going back to work. This was the best decision ever. Being in the states enables us to bond with our children more especially because we don’t have a nanny currently.We have a 4 month baby now and am also planning to staying with her the longest possible. I received maternity pay from the state and I am grateful for that.
Wanjiru and Ben, you guys will be amazing parents.Pray for them even before they are here and God will give you the knowledge and wisdom to bring them up and the resources you need.He will provide.
In Austria we get to choose paid maternity leave between 1 year and 2 years and fully insured during that time. The amount paid Is equal for everyone so if you choose 1 year you get your money divided into 12 months and if you choose 24 months you get your money dived into 24months.
That's wonderful!
I hope we have that here one day.
These two couples are just amazing, interesting and of course authentic..i'm learning a lot..thanks to you Ben & Njiru for allowing that to happen..Hope you invite them again..Much love guys🫂🧡
I don't know if it's just me, but Season 2 is off to some incredible start. The discussions are so on point. They get better episode after episode. Sometimes I want to pause the episode pia mimi ni'contribute kitu. Lol. Wanjiru and Ben, thank you for opening your lives to us and sharing your perspectives.
In the US we get just 6 week’s maternity leave, sometimes I think it’s a big contributor to Postpartum Depression because just before you’ve come to terms with having a baby, you’re back at work
Loving the fantasy 😂....the breastfeeding room got me😂😂
Big up Joy riders love your show.
Ben and Wanjiru will make such lovely parents esp Ben Woow! He can't wait
Yeey, my favorite couple: Shiv and Shikie
I look forward to seeing Wanjiru as a mum. Relax gal, don't read too much, don't think too much about it, it comes, you got this. Trust you me, you will never be ready, I was like you but now much better.
All the best, nice podcast
Quite a good podcast episode from you,I agree with Shikie that when the baby is planned for,the recovery journey is easier and I would add a little bit faster because your mind was ready for the journey,(this could be different from other ladies but it's my experience,am 4 months old since I gave birth) on the maternity part, I will going back to work on Monday 24th after spending 4 months,again I used my cumulative leave days to have a forth month leave and though one cannot be ready for this, having a positive mind,a good nanny,a supportive partner and God's Grace makes the transition a little bit easier.
this season is getting better with every episode💯💯 I love, LOVE this conversation. Thank you Wanjiru and Ben❤
Aki Ben honestly is funny. I love laughing mehn and at times this is place to come. This topic today has been very interesting. I’m 18 years and I think this topic is more of reflection than planning, I mean, I’m only 18. It made me realise so much about certain things with my parents hear and there and see the bigger basically. I love it!
If men were the ones giving birth and nursing babies, organizations would have fully staffed and resourced child care departments with a 1:1 trained nanny: child ratio. Hiyo species inajipenda sana.
It was beautiful to see different dynamic of couples and also how they communicate and relate with each other and with another couple . In short the power play is equal.
Hands down , Ben is that friend that we all want , completely authentic , funny and a great human .
I just love you guys...you make my days
This is a very important and sensitive topic mostly ignored... I just love the way Shikie explains to Shiv then then how Ben relates to Wanjiru too😍😘
The 3 months isn't quite enough especially when your toddler had to spend the 1st month in NBU but all in all we survive regardless
Such an insightful conversation. I feel more educated than scared about having kids after this
This is such an insightful conversation. Wow.
Love it
Really enjoyed the episode ❤
I love this episode 😍....I love how the question of what traits you would like/not like your kids to pick up from you allowed you a safe space to speak about your flaws without feeling pressured..Keep these guests coming pleeeeease🤗 I love Shiv and Shiki😍😍
Wow ,learnt alot I also can't wait....years to come
I love it here ❤️..Learnt Alot
Eiish niice Convo...the guests are my favourites Good job guys..
this discussion was so helpful, especially for young couples as myself and having shiv and shikie (ps)one of my favourite couples, to air their experience with kids was beneficial.
One question you didn't get to ask ,What do you think about this idea of a "boy" is a must have among your children I would have really wanted to hear especially from shikie and shiv now that they are girl parents.
The world's favourite couple 😍
I loved the conversation..it was super enlightening...
Very good conversation 👌. On Maternity leave, it was recently reviewed to 120 days.
Has this been passed in a bill? It seems employers are still giving the 90 days.
MOE are getting their 120 days. Other government bodies will catch up
You guys should humbly consider inviting (Georgy & man talk_ke )coz i think those guys energy/brains and humor matches Ben's and it will be all laughter...
They've already shot an episode with Eli Mwenda, which should be coming up...
Relatable content, and is fun to listen to; even for serious stuff. I love it!
I love shikies Laugh❤
Purely a learning episode. Loved it ❤
Maternity leave for teachers was reviewed to 120 days for the lady, 21days for the man
I've really loved this episode ❤
Wanjiru and I, shocked the whole entire way. Oh God
It's always such a joy to hear from you and learn, Just like Wanjiru, I am 10times scared of having babies after this conversation🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Anyway, it would be nice to have more of such experiences because we are in this journey together. Baraka tele
Wooooow👏👏nice title choice. Loved it
I love these two couples, but I enjoy listening to the Ben's
You will be shocked to know dads only get 4 days. Whether it falls on the weekend or a holiday, it doesn't matter. 4 days! Moms get the same, 90 days including weekends. (in Rwanda)
4 days??? That's way too short 🥺
Good Conversation!! 👌🏽👍🏽😘
These two part episodes are my fav💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾more episodes for us
I love the conversation!
weeee, that 3 months thing, for me it was not leave, i had my baby while still at uni, luckily I was for the long holiday and stupidly decided to breast feed till a week to school opening, I then bought a pump, and it was the most uncomfortable thing to use, then came the baby rejecting the bottle.... I voluntarily lost weight, i did not need the gym
SUCH A WHOLESOME EPISODE!!!!UUGH!
Insightful 🤗
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I loved the ending
Child before marriage? For me it is get married as first option; explore marriage as second option; co-parent as third option; meant nothing is not an option in my mind but the worst possible outcome.
Hapo Kwa hanging with the boys Ben wachana na wababa wa subaru! 😂😂
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When ciku said her fear is not being to protect kids from the mess up ppl in the world she reminded me of a fear i live with.... I have taken the role of dad for my niece since she was a few minute old upto now she is 10 and watch over her like a hawk...on the flipside i have a kid who 1 /1/2 that i have never seen because some shit happened. The thought of me being a position to protect her makes my stomach turn. It a horrible feeling.
So sweet of you
Shiv ametulia unaeza Dhani he is bored on not into the topic..but that was a good conversation
I think he is an introvert ,introverts tend to be so cool
I think he is a man of few words
Yes he is.. actually they said in the beginning of the first episode
Guys next bring your parents,
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