amalia guerrero I had only heard of somebody as I twitching when they got angry and then I watch this video PS I hope you all are feeling better love you from Milo
therapist: your confidence shot through the roof lately, what changes did you make? me: someones gatekeeper alter, aggressively yelled at me that im great
I was thinking she has a female Snape vibe lol. I love it though! No nonsense, right to the point, very direct. And you can tell she has a big heart and will do whatever she has to in order to protect the system. ❤️
"You're not sorry, you're proud" person 1: awn, is trying to help... person 2: don't tell me what I am and what I'm not, I know what I am, I tell what I am, you don't person 1: um... I think you learned that right, I guess
Confidence is key babe; what you feel self conscious about honestly you gotta beat it outta ya. Look in the mirror and every insecurity you have about yourself you need to say you love it.
Ok, but I actually really like how intense Jade is in how she affirms you and everyone. It's not all sugar coated and it doesn't sound condescending, it sounds genuine. You can tell that even if Jade doesn't trust any of us, she still believes that we are all worthy of love and respect.
Awwww, i kinda feel bad I've been told that all my life and never really been affected when people said I wasn't special etc. so seeing other people being so affected when they're told there special feels like I'm some sort of weirdo for being surrounded in that postivity growing up ahhhh ❤️❤️❤️
There's something about Jade that makes me really like her. She gives me the vibes of a mentor who seems cold and strict but actually wants to see you succeed and supports you without realising it
“You should be the center of your own world ... that is not selfish” “You do not have to earn your value” “You exist therefore you are. You have value.” “There is no therapist with stars in her eyes.” *queue tears*
You set yours to queue? Not only are you smart! You actually had enough time for that?! You're super speedy too! (Meant genuinely, but hopefully gave you some giggles too!).
I am a beginning therapist and she is right. My job is to listen, find the areas that are lacking and help you empower yourself. People who are traumatized have power just for the fact that they lived through it. That humbles me to hear the stories. As a therapist I say that I can never live through that. I do not have stars in my eyes but I do have a flashlight in my hand to help lead the way.
@@ljones1908 I think therapy or any health related interaction is a team effort. The patient/client/customer is an expert on themselves and their experiences, but maybe not have the knowledge and/or ability to work through them and manage the associated issues. The therapist/health professional is an expert on how to listen and help people, but do not have the knowledge about the person or experiences they require help on. Both people are an expert and a non expert, and both are seeking the other person's help in the other aspects. Therefore they are equal rather than the stereotypical 'doctor knows all, patient knows nothing' approach. Good luck!
Jade: *yells at me that i am special* Me: *spams like button because i wish i could give more than one like on this video* jade: *smiles sweetly at camera at the end of the video* me: *screeches and spams like button harder*
I have heard many motivational speeches, people trying to build me up, ME trying to build people up - but I have never heard anything as powerful as what Jade said. Jade, YOU are so powerful. And I know you mean all of this with every ounce of your being. It moved something in me, in a very good way. I'm just learning to put myself first, and this... it convinced me that I'm doing the right thing. Thank you, Jade. This was needed.
Jade saying there isn't a therapist with stars in their eyes, while she herself has a ring of light shining with the intensity of 1000 stars. Jade is an amazing speaker, the fact that she said all of that in one take (presumably without a script) really shows just how passionate and intelligent she is. Consider me inspired.
I know how depression and axiaty feel and let mě tell you your have nice personality and be yourself dont listen the others like jade Said we all are unique i believe that everybody have to be respected in their need and feeling. But some People still try to Hurt others for fun and i dont know your story of life and you dont know mine but i wish you luck and happines in this world. I have axiaty and depression too but i told myself There are dark days and White days but even if you feel like you not worth it. Trust mě you are. And As a human who went through bulling almost died in cat acident humiliation and toxic parents also physical atack from my siblings and verbal atack i have survived and i changed. I have been marked too with the trauma but i say your are worth it. Dont let your history of life breake you.
So many people focusing on the segment where Jade validates self engagement is nice and all, but did you watch any further than the first five seconds? I ask this bluntly because what she had to say at 7:20 is the core of the video. The system has lived a life of complete abuse and misunderstanding before posting a single thing. We made the system feel more confident about coming forward with a life of pain. Then we snatched it away from them and stratched them. The experiences of Paytas, the follow up from Anthony's video and Team Pinata's terrifying activity would be enough for any brain regardless of mental health diagnosis. To take all that then send death threats, make exploit videos (seen 3 there is nothing like the untalented piggy backing off trauma for the algorithm to get a hard on). I'm not surprised the protectors of the system said enough. I hope they come back some day.
If it's for their safety, it's better if they would not.But it would be disappointing because I wanted to learn.There is such a big stigma.The internet is truly a cruel and dark place.Thank God the littles didn't get exposed,Thank God we have Jade.
Every time Jade comes on camera I get the strongest Athena vibes. Jade is just a glowing goddess of wisdom, but also of war. She is here to defend and protect, but also to educate. I admire Jade's strength and light so very much
@little yuii in case you didn't get the notif or didn't see it (as I know it can happen), my response is to give you a second chance and seeing/getting the notif.
I imagine when Nin, Nadia, Kyle, or any of the alters are feeling hate (whether internal or external) Jade gives a speech similar to this in the headspace. Thank you to whoever of the DissociaDID System posted this. I can tell that it made so many people feel better and helped many. It made me feel good, that’s for sure. Everything in this video is true.
Someone pissed off Jade and she is not afraid to say her truth, and I respect her with every fibre of my being. also can we talk about how she called us valid. i don't know about you but i'm about to cry.
Kate Cuell hi i am Tammy black i am the same way someone pissed of the host and someone made one of the younger personalities scared i am not going to discuss it because it wasn’t pleasant?!
I think I've never cried as much as I did with this video. First because I felt angry, angry to see such amazing people receiving hate after being so opened to us all, people who took so long to educate and help everybody who were seeking for comfort and knowledge. However, as the video went on, my tears became tears of gratitude. You are dealing with such a distressful situation, but even in a moment like that one of yours took time to send us a message too. I do not have DID or any kind of dissociative disorder, but I've been clinically diagnosed with depression, anxiety and panic disorder. Finding your channel was the best thing that could have happened to me in a while! Trauma affected me, obviously, and my self-esteem coudn't be worst, but on your channel I've found a place of love, honesty and care. You only deserve love and respect. I see the hate being spread and I feel so angry and sad... But I remember that I'm feeling it exactly because I care about your System, and if I care about you, it's because you are the people for whom I do my best to make the world a better place for. It's people like you who helps me keep going. And not because I see you as "Gods" or something, but exactly for the opposite reason. That's why I wish to say thank you. For Jade, for taking your time and efforts to film this and say what needed to be said. For the whole System themselves, for doing their best to live well, happy and also supporting us, completely unknown individuals to you, to do our best to keep living well and have more empathy. I have no idea if you're ever going to see this comment, and that's ok. I just wanted to say thank you. Especially to you, Jade, whose powerful words here will be forever in my heart. You guys are indeed special and deserve to rest/take a breath. You already made a big positive difference in other people's lives... ♥️
I ended my engagement, a 5 year relationship last week. i struggled with my sexuality, i'm asexual and decided that i don't have to engage in sexual activities i don't want, and i shouldn't have to be in a relationship where i make myself uncomfortable for someone else . I love this video, i really needed that right now, Thanks Jade
This part definitely struck a chord with me! I didnt realize how badly I needed to hear this being said in such a clear and meaningful way. It's absolutely inspiring
I know a lot of the comments are talking about the stern, “scary” way Jade speaks but her words here are so incredibly compassionate, empathetic, loving, warm. Thank you Jade for recording this and Nin for posting it.
@@arisymphony I'm struggling to put my thoughts to words but I also had similar issues with this video. I'm glad I was able to get through to the end of it as what was being said was important. But I think a warning is necessary, at least in the description, that this video will be far from comforting.
@@TaylorDoesStuff19 Yeah! I know she said in the beginning she's being stern because it's important, and I get that's a part of her personality. It just also scares me because I'm baby.
I cried. I've never really heard anything quite like that from anyone before in terms of validation and self-respect. Not to that length and not with that degree of seriousness and certainty. Thank you.
"You should not have to provide details of your diagnoses, for people to take you seriously * The entire disabled/mental illness community APPLAUDS, We need more Jade's in the world
Maybe that's why Chloe's system gave birth to Jade in her subconscious. Just a protecting personality everybody wants especially Chloe but now looking at your comment . I think we all are depressed in some way and wants a protector. Have a good day ❤️❤️
me too i know i am really sensitive towards ppl and cant help forgive even if they don't deserve it i haven't had so much confidence and to be this brave and i put ppl before me
I’m honestly one of those people who thought it was fascinating to see a switch on camera, then learned a whole heck of a lot and stayed around to learn more. Keep doing you! Your outreach is honestly life changing!!!
lol I don't even care about the switches getting caught camera, but I do love when more than one person gets to front in a video just because it's more people who get to express themselves!
Everytime I hear youtubers or other people say "oh all my fans are special" I blow it off but this hit me in my core and I really don't know what to do with these feelings 😂
Space Eggos (I’m guessing you ment what happened to Chloe) What happened to Chloe is that she integrated (became one with) Nina, the sexual alter in the sistem. As they Integrated, they “formed” Nin, the new host of the dissociadid system. Nin has all of Nina’s memories and most of Chloe’s, but she is an independent alter (she is not either chloe or nina). This means that either Nina and Chloe are no longer part of the sistem. (i’m not sure i explained it correctly, but that’s mainly what happened)
This is proof that Jade isn‘t mean or a bad person! That she’s worried about Nin and us as their community shows that she‘s just protective and direct. I have so much respect for her!
"This video is not intended to scare anyone" *staring into our souls the whole time* In all seriousness it's great how stern Jade is and protective she is of the community and the system, I love her
literally how on earth could someone think dissociadid is faking? the body language, the eye contact, the tone and cadence of the voice is so different between each alter. jade holds direct eye contact and doesn’t use filler words-her purpose in the system is so clear! additionally, saying that someone is “too charismatic” - I mean, correct me if I’m wrong, but isn’t the purpose of did for the child to not remember their trauma so they can *be* as functional and emotionally stable and “charismatic” as possible?
andy parker Unfortunately, I keep on defending them on some close minded people and I got attacked for telling them that their trauma is valid because apparently I'm immature for defending someone who is already being severely affected by this issue
I expected a rant from Jade, instead I got aggressively yelled at by a very intimidating person that I’m going to love myself and like it. I normally struggle with eye contact (even through screens) but I want to make it with Jade, not sure why, but just looking at her makes me feel valid. Thank you for this, it really helped pick me up despite the current circumstances of our world.
@@scary_yogurt Its funny you say that. My own mother had a very similar look. At one point when I was little, maybe 12 or so, she told me what it was. Partially taking from Lily Arrowoods description: Its so intense and loving at once, somehow it is the only look that can see the truth and scream it at you in solemn quietness. Its the look that demands _you_ to see the same value and beauty they see in you.. They see the truth, they know the truth, and you are it. "You have value, you are real, now accept it" about sums up her words. Me and my parents have drifted apart a lot, as seems a habit in our families, but Its very haunting to hear and _see_ that deeper, cooled compassion like this, and to realize others know about it to. And more so, that all of it is true. Much love Jade. Much love.
Stumbled across this video..... Jade is one of the most Intensely caring and viciously supportive people I have ever seen. I think everyone could use a Jade in their life.
I’ve always felt that about her that for some reason when she speaks into the camera I feel like she’s looking directly at me and she’s talking directly to me and there’s nobody else around. She has a very intense personality but when she speaks people listen and they hear her and I definitely heard this one. This one stirred up a bunch of stuff in a good way
I didnt see on the title that it say Jade, and when I clicked on the video and saw her I was like “holdup thats not Kyle, thats definitely not nin, ...who...is....*stArts agressiveness* OH THATS JADEE 👏👏👏👏”
When she looked into the camera and said “you have value” I started to tear up. I’ve never heard anyone say something so positive to me in such a confident and concrete way. Thank you jade, please come back for more videos if your safety and health allows it!
I know this channel has stopped posting for 3 months now and I don't if they will see this but this is one video I will remember till the day I die the words that Jade said are the most solid real and straigh forward advices I've ever heard. Living with depression in the world of darkness I've found source of love, self-love, safety, validation in many ways but this has gave me STRENGTH. I am so thankful to you the whole system and for this video Jade you have earned all of my respect.
I have SO much admiration for Jade. I truly respect everyone in the System but I feel a certain “kindredness” and awe of Jade’s strength and resoluteness.
Seeing jade smile at the end just hit me in ways I can’t explain. She’s not a cold and heartless person but rather a person with great passion burning inside her. A great big mother bear roaring at all hatred towards her children and her family and her community. I respect her on many..MANY levels. And I trust her. And honestly, I think of her as a person far more then just an alter. And the same goes to the others. No matter how big or small their role may be. I still see them as a person.
Jade reminds me of the Goddess Kali in that she presents a Dark Mother energy with deep Love behind it, a tough maternal love stating what needs to be said with the importance of boundaries. Thank you.
The strength in Jades voice is admirable. She’s so empowering and honest and necessary. The system needs her and it’s a good thing she exists. The whole system is amazing and doesn’t deserve the hate that they get.
you know it's serious when jade fronts. I love how she always seems to find the right words. she's assertive but never hateful and I like that about her.
I can't understand why someone can be so negative about somebody so positive. What Nin and the system does for us is valuable. I respect you Jade and totally understand your concern.
Jade: *angrily tells me that i have value*
Me: *scared but validated*
Lmao 😂 I felt the same way
Me too
sameeee
same
Cousinit
Exactly!
bro this is why i love jade she just scared me into loving myself
Me with my Alter Daniella- she’s so intensely loving and amazing, with a kind of passion that just gives me emotions
Keep speaking the truth Jade. Love your un-minced words 💜 we need more people like you
LMAO
Me too, looking into her eyes isn’t cold or intimidating at all, it’s completely enchanting and relaxing. Heart warming in a sweet weird way (^’: ❤️
LOL YES!!!!!
Jade, staring into my soul: You. Have. Value.
Me, crying: Yes ma'am thank you ma'am
Right?!. I hate what they're system is going through right now. They've done so much for the community.
Premium comment right here
but she sounds so scary saying it! D:
She's so intimidating even if what she's saying is wholesome. It makes sense because of her job, but I'm just a scaredy cat
homestuck pfp.... ily...
It’s funny that she’s practically yelling at us and giving a nice message at the same time
we all need a jade
"I'm not happy, I'm overwhelmingly supportive"
reminds me of the "I LOVE YOU, DOG" vine (in a good way) :P
"Jade aggressively supporting you for 15 minutes and 20 seconds straight."
"Straight" *sweats nervously*
Omg yes
chaotic_gabby *heavy sweating*
This comment made me smile.
That’s a great tittle
You can tell how pissed she is and she's absolutely right.
breaks my heart that they get that amount of hate
amalia guerrero I had only heard of somebody as I twitching when they got angry and then I watch this video
PS I hope you all are feeling better love you from Milo
@@codyrogers9582 People seem to target people who seem vulnerable luckily most of them are idiots and target the wrong people
They all don't deserve the hate.
@@angelicgachaand successfully make a fool of themselves. Yep, truth.
Jade: nin IS special,
me: hell yeah!
Jade: YOU are special
me, sobbing: hell yeah?!
Mood
That part got me too.
You are special
HELL YEAH!
That surprise me so much( ⚈̥̥̥̥̥́⌢⚈̥̥̥̥̥̀)
I legit got chills when she said “Nin. Is. Special.”
100% yes.
The intensity is off the charts!
When did she change her name to Nin from Chloe
@@amam7490
Not sure exactly why it happened, but chloe and nina integrated into one alter which is now nin.
Ikr it was like when the MC of an anime gives that glare and your like "oh shit it's about to go down"
How did they though, if you do not know it is okay, just asking
therapist: your confidence shot through the roof lately, what changes did you make?
me: someones gatekeeper alter, aggressively yelled at me that im great
MOOD.
Yas
Yaass, queenn!!
Hahahaha yesssss ❤️
Yep 😂
Jade has big “strict headmistress who’s had enough of everyone’s shit” energy and I dig it lol
So basically.. Professor McGonagall
pretty perra literally what I was envisioning lmfao
Facts
I was thinking she has a female Snape vibe lol. I love it though! No nonsense, right to the point, very direct. And you can tell she has a big heart and will do whatever she has to in order to protect the system. ❤️
@@prettyperra2850 I was gonna say that lmao
nobody:
Jade: *loves you aggressively*
Nike reck ❤️❤️❤️
Literally the way to explain who she is
me: uh thanks love you too Jade
Jade is not the type of person you mess with
Id say passionately.
That was the single most beautiful sentiment I have ever seen.
@I like beans *wipes tears* they still care
I like how they still read the comments even though they dont do yt anymore
Jade: "YOU. HAVE. VALUE."
Me: "Ok, I'm sorry for putting myself down, I'm so sorry, please forgive me, I have value."
You're not sorry, I'm not sorry, you're proud, I'm proud ❣️💚😌 Lots of love everybody thank you Jade💗
Omg, I was scared, "Okay I'm proud of my artwork I'm not a coward I love myself its not my fault!"
im getting yelled at by the nicest person...
it's confusing
s a m e
jade literally just scolded everyone here for hating themselves... *i love it*
"You're not sorry, you're proud"
person 1: awn, is trying to help...
person 2: don't tell me what I am and what I'm not, I know what I am, I tell what I am, you don't
person 1: um... I think you learned that right, I guess
Jade: "Nin IS special"
me: "Yes she is!"
Jade:" YOU are special"
me: sobbing " Thank you"
Ninjamin hey I saw this exact comment 2 weeks ago by someone else but at least jade is making you happy lmao
I totally felt this too
PERIODT *snap*
I saw this before watching the video, and it still almost made me cry
All are special
Jade’s attitude is like
“You’re gonna love yourself and like it.”
No questions asked, yes Ma’am!
Jade is everything I want to be
: Espeon : _everyone liked that_
Jade tells me I am special and I will love myself damnit! I am special!
Confidence is key babe; what you feel self conscious about honestly you gotta beat it outta ya. Look in the mirror and every insecurity you have about yourself you need to say you love it.
Ok, but I actually really like how intense Jade is in how she affirms you and everyone. It's not all sugar coated and it doesn't sound condescending, it sounds genuine. You can tell that even if Jade doesn't trust any of us, she still believes that we are all worthy of love and respect.
it reminds me of members of my own system, and that makes me feel really comforted
"There is nothing wrong with Nin believing she is special. Nin is special" yaaas you tell 'em sis
I cried when I got to that point in editing
Awwww, i kinda feel bad I've been told that all my life and never really been affected when people said I wasn't special etc. so seeing other people being so affected when they're told there special feels like I'm some sort of weirdo for being surrounded in that postivity growing up ahhhh ❤️❤️❤️
Maya Lianna yes because Nin IS special 🙌🏻🙌🏻
one of my favorite parts.
@@DissociaDID I almost cried I was like omg awwww
Jade: “This video is not intended to scare anyone”
Me: nodding “yes” and legs shaking
😂😂
@@saadia4009 ditto
Yes yes I’m validated proceeds to cry in the corner
Me: hunched in the fetal position, "go off, love"
"Yes, queen!" *hiding under the bed*
She may not trust me, but I trust Jade with my life.
Idem!
i would like your comment but its at 420
Indeed.
She seems though, but trustworthy. She's amazing, all of them are amazing
exactly
Stanley Uris sake omg
There's something about Jade that makes me really like her. She gives me the vibes of a mentor who seems cold and strict but actually wants to see you succeed and supports you without realising it
jade: "lots of love everybody"
me: *slightly terrified, mostly empowered*
Four words were never more accurate
update: i don't even think i know 942 people so i feel famous.. thx for the likes 😭🥺🥰
Yeah, Jade is kinda scary, but it's her job. She's super cool, I love her!!
“You should be the centre of your own world. That is survival; that is not selfish.”
Thank you, Jade. Thank you so much.
yes. It felt like something I needed to hear for a long time.
I've never been so terrified by the sentence "This is a SAFE place" Jade is out here scaring us into self belief and i love her for it.
For real though.
I HOPE YOU KNOW YOU ARE MAKING A DIFFERENCE!
Baby.
"That is survival, not selfish"
That shook me
I really needed to hear that
Thank you.
“You should be the center of your own world ... that is not selfish”
“You do not have to earn your value”
“You exist therefore you are. You have value.”
“There is no therapist with stars in her eyes.”
*queue tears*
Lovett Loves agreed
You set yours to queue? Not only are you smart! You actually had enough time for that?! You're super speedy too! (Meant genuinely, but hopefully gave you some giggles too!).
I am a beginning therapist and she is right. My job is to listen, find the areas that are lacking and help you empower yourself. People who are traumatized have power just for the fact that they lived through it. That humbles me to hear the stories. As a therapist I say that I can never live through that. I do not have stars in my eyes but I do have a flashlight in my hand to help lead the way.
@@ljones1908 I think therapy or any health related interaction is a team effort. The patient/client/customer is an expert on themselves and their experiences, but maybe not have the knowledge and/or ability to work through them and manage the associated issues. The therapist/health professional is an expert on how to listen and help people, but do not have the knowledge about the person or experiences they require help on. Both people are an expert and a non expert, and both are seeking the other person's help in the other aspects. Therefore they are equal rather than the stereotypical 'doctor knows all, patient knows nothing' approach. Good luck!
Jade: *yells at me that i am special*
Me: *spams like button because i wish i could give more than one like on this video*
jade: *smiles sweetly at camera at the end of the video*
me: *screeches and spams like button harder*
did i just receive a heart?
*oh boy we done goofing around now*
I have heard many motivational speeches, people trying to build me up, ME trying to build people up - but I have never heard anything as powerful as what Jade said. Jade, YOU are so powerful. And I know you mean all of this with every ounce of your being. It moved something in me, in a very good way. I'm just learning to put myself first, and this... it convinced me that I'm doing the right thing. Thank you, Jade. This was needed.
Me too. Thank you!!!
Jade saying there isn't a therapist with stars in their eyes, while she herself has a ring of light shining with the intensity of 1000 stars.
Jade is an amazing speaker, the fact that she said all of that in one take (presumably without a script) really shows just how passionate and intelligent she is.
Consider me inspired.
MarshalEastwood I hope they put it on merch
One take, no 🤣
Jade: An elegant goddess aggressively telling me i'm worthy
Me: wow, thats really convincing actually
My Depression: Yeah... Maybe I should go....
I know how depression and axiaty feel and let mě tell you your have nice personality and be yourself dont listen the others like jade Said we all are unique i believe that everybody have to be respected in their need and feeling. But some People still try to Hurt others for fun and i dont know your story of life and you dont know mine but i wish you luck and happines in this world. I have axiaty and depression too but i told myself There are dark days and White days but even if you feel like you not worth it. Trust mě you are. And As a human who went through bulling almost died in cat acident humiliation and toxic parents also physical atack from my siblings and verbal atack i have survived and i changed. I have been marked too with the trauma but i say your are worth it. Dont let your history of life breake you.
I am incredibly grateful for jade because we all need someone to care this much.
Lily Griffin same
Lily Griffin hi this is Tammy black i feel the same way like her
Lily Griffin i made a video of me talking i am not pleased nor am I happy
Lily Griffin feel free to watch it if u like.
Yeah, it made me cry, I hugged my phone ♡♡
Updated: correction. . . It made me sob. . .this is so true☆
So many people focusing on the segment where Jade validates self engagement is nice and all, but did you watch any further than the first five seconds? I ask this bluntly because what she had to say at 7:20 is the core of the video. The system has lived a life of complete abuse and misunderstanding before posting a single thing. We made the system feel more confident about coming forward with a life of pain. Then we snatched it away from them and stratched them. The experiences of Paytas, the follow up from Anthony's video and Team Pinata's terrifying activity would be enough for any brain regardless of mental health diagnosis. To take all that then send death threats, make exploit videos (seen 3 there is nothing like the untalented piggy backing off trauma for the algorithm to get a hard on). I'm not surprised the protectors of the system said enough. I hope they come back some day.
I’m so confused. What’s all that’s happened?
@@destinitaylor4360 a lot of stuff they left for a long time because of more trauma watch videos from they’re live with Anthony and on
If it's for their safety, it's better if they would not.But it would be disappointing because I wanted to learn.There is such a big stigma.The internet is truly a cruel and dark place.Thank God the littles didn't get exposed,Thank God we have Jade.
Every time Jade comes on camera I get the strongest Athena vibes. Jade is just a glowing goddess of wisdom, but also of war. She is here to defend and protect, but also to educate.
I admire Jade's strength and light so very much
KH Clark Designs honestly she is so amazing and protective and I hope she’ll see all the love
100% agreed
Hahaha I said the same thing when I saw her meet the alters video! So true. Great minds think alike!!
we stan a powerful woman
She's not aggressive she is ASSERTIVE
Martin T this is a good lesson on how we gender language.
Very Assertive. Tell us about it Jade!
She qualifies as both. Aint nothing wrong with aggressive.
Martin T some people feel like they’re the same
This is the nicest scolding I’ve ever gotten.
ify
Same
Same lol -Raven
Ikr!!
@little yuii in case you didn't get the notif or didn't see it (as I know it can happen), my response is to give you a second chance and seeing/getting the notif.
Haters: being haters
Jade: being agressively wholesome
What I expected: a rant
What I got: a pep talk
I imagine when Nin, Nadia, Kyle, or any of the alters are feeling hate (whether internal or external) Jade gives a speech similar to this in the headspace. Thank you to whoever of the DissociaDID System posted this. I can tell that it made so many people feel better and helped many. It made me feel good, that’s for sure. Everything in this video is true.
Someone pissed off Jade and she is not afraid to say her truth, and I respect her with every fibre of my being.
also can we talk about how she called us valid. i don't know about you but i'm about to cry.
The moment she said that everyone was special ngl I almost fucking cried
I cried my eyes out
Kate Cuell hi i am Tammy black i am the same way someone pissed of the host and someone made one of the younger personalities scared i am not going to discuss it because it wasn’t pleasant?!
It did make me weep
Jade:
*Aggressively makes you feel better with yourself*
Jade the aggressively loving life coach? I love her though.
She's that sassy mom-friend that is like "NO! you are awesome, don't let anybody let you think different *angru face*"
She's that sassy mom-friend that is like "NO! you are awesome, don't let anybody let you think different *angru face*"
"You have value. Inherently" *Sobbing*
When I saw Jade on the thumbnail, my first thought was: "Oh f***, it's about to go DOWN"
Yup, you always know it’s serious when jade actively makes a video cus she slightly dissaproves of the channel
Lol me too
Saw her and was instantly confused but intrigued by what she had to say
I think I've never cried as much as I did with this video. First because I felt angry, angry to see such amazing people receiving hate after being so opened to us all, people who took so long to educate and help everybody who were seeking for comfort and knowledge. However, as the video went on, my tears became tears of gratitude. You are dealing with such a distressful situation, but even in a moment like that one of yours took time to send us a message too.
I do not have DID or any kind of dissociative disorder, but I've been clinically diagnosed with depression, anxiety and panic disorder. Finding your channel was the best thing that could have happened to me in a while! Trauma affected me, obviously, and my self-esteem coudn't be worst, but on your channel I've found a place of love, honesty and care.
You only deserve love and respect. I see the hate being spread and I feel so angry and sad... But I remember that I'm feeling it exactly because I care about your System, and if I care about you, it's because you are the people for whom I do my best to make the world a better place for. It's people like you who helps me keep going. And not because I see you as "Gods" or something, but exactly for the opposite reason. That's why I wish to say thank you. For Jade, for taking your time and efforts to film this and say what needed to be said. For the whole System themselves, for doing their best to live well, happy and also supporting us, completely unknown individuals to you, to do our best to keep living well and have more empathy.
I have no idea if you're ever going to see this comment, and that's ok. I just wanted to say thank you. Especially to you, Jade, whose powerful words here will be forever in my heart. You guys are indeed special and deserve to rest/take a breath. You already made a big positive difference in other people's lives... ♥️
Jade aggressively calling everybody special is threatening in a wholesome way.
Its encouraging in a way.
Avacado schllnbrg i love it
Descartes: I think therefore I am/exist
Jade, going one step further: I exist therefore I have value
Wow youre right. Thats so deep
Damn I loved this
@@Julia-oe9xl r/im14andthatsdeep
Oh boy... have you ever been to a literature class XV-XX period? You would be amazed.
well pOop exists
this feels like being hit by a truck, flung off a cliff, and slammed into a whole ocean of loving support
I ended my engagement, a 5 year relationship last week.
i struggled with my sexuality, i'm asexual and decided that i don't have to engage in sexual activities i don't want, and i shouldn't have to be in a relationship where i make myself uncomfortable for someone else .
I love this video, i really needed that right now,
Thanks Jade
I am asexual as well! It's very misunderstood and I wish you the best
I wish for the best and I am aromantic
I'm so proud of you!! 💞💞
Don't worry the ace community is here for you ^-^
I’m ace too! I hope you’re ok and I support you!
"Do not become another voice that tells you you're unworthy"
That's so inspiring and well said. Thank you so much Jade
This part definitely struck a chord with me! I didnt realize how badly I needed to hear this being said in such a clear and meaningful way. It's absolutely inspiring
That needs to be merch honestly.
Jade: *tells me I'm special and don't need to change for anyone and I deserve to love myself*
Me: *crying* thank you I really needed this
Same
“i’m aware that my demeanour can be... uNnErVinG”
i absolutely love jade, she is a perfect protector and gate keeper 💓
Her aggressively yelling her loving lessons at me is what I need in life
Me too apparently!! In tears 😢
8:28 timestamp of Jade aggressively telling me I'm special for later.
Thank you. Bookmarked.
Thank you!
Thank you!
I need this
Thank you 💚
Also
Jade: *aggressively tells me I am special and should love myself*
Me: *nods frantically*
I know a lot of the comments are talking about the stern, “scary” way Jade speaks but her words here are so incredibly compassionate, empathetic, loving, warm.
Thank you Jade for recording this and Nin for posting it.
I have to try very very hard to focus on the words and not the tone or expression for trauma reasons. It's hopefully worth it.
@@arisymphony I'm struggling to put my thoughts to words but I also had similar issues with this video. I'm glad I was able to get through to the end of it as what was being said was important. But I think a warning is necessary, at least in the description, that this video will be far from comforting.
Seriously! She sounds so aggressive but said that you inherently have value and I was suddenly like oh??? we are not in trouble??? we are love???
@@TaylorDoesStuff19 Yeah! I know she said in the beginning she's being stern because it's important, and I get that's a part of her personality. It just also scares me because I'm baby.
Ari! Literally same 😂 I’m baby club out here 2k20!!
I cried. I've never really heard anything quite like that from anyone before in terms of validation and self-respect. Not to that length and not with that degree of seriousness and certainty. Thank you.
"You should not have to provide details of your diagnoses, for people to take you seriously *
The entire disabled/mental illness community APPLAUDS, We need more Jade's in the world
this exactly 👏
👏🏼👏🏼
Gor me I'm just interested on how we as people function and what makes each individual.
But what about Trisha Paytas?
Jade isn’t scary, she speaks like a really “rude” seeming teacher that actually loves their students.
shes not scary, shes like no nonsense. she knows what she wants and will take nothing less than the best
She will take no shit, that's for sure.
@@ras3199 understandable really, name one person who will willingly take shit from anybody, I sure as hell am not one of those people
I kind of wish I could embody Jade's serious energy when I need to talk to my own students like this.
I get goosebumps whenever she speaks, but it's not the "I'm scared"-kind.
It's the "Whatever this person has to say is acutely important"-kind.
I do not wish DID on anyone or myself. I do however, wish I had a Jade.
@Taylor McCluskey that feeling when you are the friend ;-;
@Taylor McCluskey I have way to many "littles" (my friends) to look after (2) sorry xx
At one point I was like jade........ Still am but a more softer version I think. I hope they have the greatest days
Maybe that's why Chloe's system gave birth to Jade in her subconscious. Just a protecting personality everybody wants especially Chloe but now looking at your comment . I think we all are depressed in some way and wants a protector. Have a good day ❤️❤️
me too i know i am really sensitive towards ppl and cant help forgive even if they don't deserve it i haven't had so much confidence and to be this brave and i put ppl before me
“I’m aware that my demeanor can be...unnerving”
*annnnd just like that I’m in love with Jade*
I’m honestly one of those people who thought it was fascinating to see a switch on camera, then learned a whole heck of a lot and stayed around to learn more. Keep doing you! Your outreach is honestly life changing!!!
Adventure Teacher the first time i saw their videos I stayed up all night watching all of them 😅
Same. I love these people, now. They are all so strong.
@@Ash.Crow.Goddess right on
lol I don't even care about the switches getting caught camera, but I do love when more than one person gets to front in a video just because it's more people who get to express themselves!
Same. I clicked for the title, but stayed for the content.
Me: i don't love myse-
Jade: You are SPECIAL *stares into my soul*
Me: O-oh ok..
Everytime I hear youtubers or other people say "oh all my fans are special" I blow it off but this hit me in my core and I really don't know what to do with these feelings 😂
Jades is such a powerful women and I love how much she cares for her whole system
0:25 the angriest complement I've ever gotten
Jade makes me want to sit down and shut up and I haven't even done anything wrong
Sameeeee lol
Jade tells it straight, no messing 😂
Bro same
She horrifies me but validates me at the same time. I'm so confused 😅
Shes literally my main mood. So much luv for this fierce and trusthful sista. Preeeeach! X
Jade sternly telling me I have value is my new mood for 2020. Much respect.
New mood for the decade
Wow, Chloe was right Jade is a very powerful speaker. This struck a chord in me I didn't know I had. I will forever hold your word's in my heart.
so true, I miss her :(
@@azul4904 I apologize if this is ignorant (I'm new to the channel) but what happened to Jade?
Space Eggos (I’m guessing you ment what happened to Chloe) What happened to Chloe is that she integrated (became one with) Nina, the sexual alter in the sistem. As they Integrated, they “formed” Nin, the new host of the dissociadid system. Nin has all of Nina’s memories and most of Chloe’s, but she is an independent alter (she is not either chloe or nina). This means that either Nina and Chloe are no longer part of the sistem. (i’m not sure i explained it correctly, but that’s mainly what happened)
lourdess :p thank you so much for telling me! I did mean Chloe, I said jade by accident bc she was doing the video and I got them confused lol
Yeah, it’s no wonder she’s the verbal protector of the system. What an icon.
When she said YOU. HAVE. VALUE. I started to cry because I've been really hard on myself lately
me: * feelin' intimidated and protected * thank u jade
This is proof that Jade isn‘t mean or a bad person! That she’s worried about Nin and us as their community shows that she‘s just protective and direct. I have so much respect for her!
Vivi Vany jade is a bad ass. We all need ro be a bit more like jade who just says it as it is 🙌🏼
"Do not let yourself be another voice that tells you that you are unworthy" - that hit hard. It's too many emotions 😭😭
hard same. i needed that. we needed that. and jade aggressively gave it to us and im thankful.
@@12_fifteen as am I. I have awful self esteem and that really made me question things x
@@norav5851 i hope u feel better these days tho. and as jade said, no matter what, you are special and important. no matter what ❤️
@@12_fifteen I'm feeling better than I was yeah :) hope you are too, thank you :3 x
@@norav5851 no problem ❤️ thank u too!
Jade: "We want you to create a safe space within yourself."
Me: *bawls
Didn't realize how much I needed that. Thank you.
"This video is not intended to scare anyone"
*staring into our souls the whole time*
In all seriousness it's great how stern Jade is and protective she is of the community and the system, I love her
I know! I love all of the alters that we've met so far, but I feel like I know Jade on weirdly personal level. 😅
I adore how AGGRESSIVELY supportive and caring Jade is. I haven’t felt this empowered and loved in a hot minute. Thank you for this video jade
literally how on earth could someone think dissociadid is faking? the body language, the eye contact, the tone and cadence of the voice is so different between each alter. jade holds direct eye contact and doesn’t use filler words-her purpose in the system is so clear! additionally, saying that someone is “too charismatic” - I mean, correct me if I’m wrong, but isn’t the purpose of did for the child to not remember their trauma so they can *be* as functional and emotionally stable and “charismatic” as possible?
Even how Jade moves and holds her mouth is different.
If I were them and I was faking I'd tell people now so I can get my Oscars and become a famous film star
They would have to be the best goddamned actor on the planet.
once kyle did a video and before it started i saw the preview thing as i hovered over it and i instantly knew it was kyle they could not be faking
andy parker Unfortunately, I keep on defending them on some close minded people and I got attacked for telling them that their trauma is valid because apparently I'm immature for defending someone who is already being severely affected by this issue
"There was no therapist with stars in her eyes who drew out all the truths from us and guided the way ; we did that."
I felt that really really hard.
“do not let yourself be another voice that tells you you’re unworthy” ...damn. thank you.
This made me flinch
I expected a rant from Jade, instead I got aggressively yelled at by a very intimidating person that I’m going to love myself and like it. I normally struggle with eye contact (even through screens) but I want to make it with Jade, not sure why, but just looking at her makes me feel valid. Thank you for this, it really helped pick me up despite the current circumstances of our world.
Yeah I expected a rant too, but instead I got some heartstrings pulled by Jade telling me to be better to myself 😭❤️
this resonated with me too
Same ❤️
Cus she everyone mom, she your mom she my mom she his her and their mom, she mom!
@@scary_yogurt Its funny you say that. My own mother had a very similar look. At one point when I was little, maybe 12 or so, she told me what it was.
Partially taking from Lily Arrowoods description:
Its so intense and loving at once, somehow it is the only look that can see the truth and scream it at you in solemn quietness.
Its the look that demands _you_ to see the same value and beauty they see in you.. They see the truth, they know the truth, and you are it. "You have value, you are real, now accept it" about sums up her words.
Me and my parents have drifted apart a lot, as seems a habit in our families, but Its very haunting to hear and _see_ that deeper, cooled compassion like this, and to realize others know about it to. And more so, that all of it is true.
Much love Jade. Much love.
Stumbled across this video..... Jade is one of the most Intensely caring and viciously supportive people I have ever seen. I think everyone could use a Jade in their life.
That smile at the end made me cry....because it was like the stars in the eye...thank you 💙
She is so intense. Her staring into my soul telling me I'm valid and deserve love almost made me cry
Me too! I started tearing up just listening to her. 😢❤
Same I didn't know I needed to hear her words
I did cry.
@@jadetrolland8095 right? Something about her just hits you right in your core so fucking hard
I’ve always felt that about her that for some reason when she speaks into the camera I feel like she’s looking directly at me and she’s talking directly to me and there’s nobody else around. She has a very intense personality but when she speaks people listen and they hear her and I definitely heard this one. This one stirred up a bunch of stuff in a good way
The combination of the new hair and makeup on the body makes me feel like I'm looking directly at Jade. She has such a strong presence.
I didnt see on the title that it say Jade, and when I clicked on the video and saw her I was like “holdup thats not Kyle, thats definitely not nin, ...who...is....*stArts agressiveness* OH THATS JADEE 👏👏👏👏”
When she looked into the camera and said “you have value” I started to tear up. I’ve never heard anyone say something so positive to me in such a confident and concrete way. Thank you jade, please come back for more videos if your safety and health allows it!
I teared up as well
Like when I watched the Mr Rogers movie and he said “you’re not broken” and looked right at the camera. Y’all I cried so hard.
This got me too
Crying too. Thank you Jade for putting out the words some of us need to hear
Absolute same
I know this channel has stopped posting for 3 months now and I don't if they will see this but this is one video I will remember till the day I die the words that Jade said are the most solid real and straigh forward advices I've ever heard. Living with depression in the world of darkness I've found source of love, self-love, safety, validation in many ways but this has gave me STRENGTH. I am so thankful to you the whole system and for this video Jade you have earned all of my respect.
DissociaDID system would give the best TED Talk.
Laura Zaetz I agree!!
Absolutely! Would help so many, which is truly the system's (and especially Jade's) goal.
I don't know if they'll be able to handle all that
they gonna switch
If she switch on the stage
Jade's role: spitting out straight facts
I have SO much admiration for Jade. I truly respect everyone in the System but I feel a certain “kindredness” and awe of Jade’s strength and resoluteness.
Jade: exists
My anxiety, depression and anorexia: aight I’ma take the day off
Halle Lint i love this, i hope you are doing well ❤️
Seeing jade smile at the end just hit me in ways I can’t explain. She’s not a cold and heartless person but rather a person with great passion burning inside her. A great big mother bear roaring at all hatred towards her children and her family and her community. I respect her on many..MANY levels. And I trust her. And honestly, I think of her as a person far more then just an alter. And the same goes to the others. No matter how big or small their role may be. I still see them as a person.
From the first time I saw Jade, I thought she seemed like a caring, but strict, mother figure.
That is exactly how I felt aswell, only found this channel today, but am already soooo very intrigued, never knew about this disorder
I think Jade was co-con with Nin by the end. She felt like she was dissociating sort of.
Lmao at people who believe this charade😂
Nile
What do you mean?
In 2020, we intimidate bullies with *aggressive love*
Yes
Jade reminds me of the Goddess Kali in that she presents a Dark Mother energy with deep Love behind it, a tough maternal love stating what needs to be said with the importance of boundaries. Thank you.
Agreed! Ominous positivity and Divine wrath bleeding forth constantly!
Please let Jade know she is wonderful and powerful and I respect her dearly.
Me: I'm so ready to be scared into loving myself
Thats how it starts!! I was there too a year ago!! And gosh what a journey
A+
The prosecuters in my sys: *exists*
Me:
@@Ghost-pd8pm Y O U.
The strength in Jades voice is admirable. She’s so empowering and honest and necessary. The system needs her and it’s a good thing she exists. The whole system is amazing and doesn’t deserve the hate that they get.
I accidentally disliked trying to like😳😂
Word
IT'S BACK! This is one of my favorite videos of yours-so, so important-and I can't wait to watch it again. Thank you so much Jade!
This is my favourite video too, so glad it's back
jade: lots of love eberybohdy. goodbye **faiiiiiintest smile**
me: **holding back tears** i will die for you
I did the same thing aaaahhh
😭it’s the stuff that makes life worth living👏
Me to thooo!!🙂🙂🙂
you know it's serious when jade fronts. I love how she always seems to find the right words. she's assertive but never hateful and I like that about her.
I saw jade and was like ok who pissed jade off.
She’s so aggressively loving, like a teacher getting mad at you for calling your work bad
Dannnngggg. Jade makes me feel so loved in the most serious way possible. She's my new favorite motivational speaker
"You do not have to please people if you do not want to."
I need to hear that more often. Thank you.
I can't understand why someone can be so negative about somebody so positive. What Nin and the system does for us is valuable. I respect you Jade and totally understand your concern.