alone but (not) lonely... why I like being by myself

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 พ.ค. 2023
  • for the past few weeks I have been feeling a need and desire to be by myself and read and go outside and go on walks. I don't know why exactly but being around people (even around people you like) can be hard for me sometimes. maybe some of you can relate.
    sending hugs and thank you for all the love on the video I made for emma's birthday and for your comments, I really appreciate it so much :))
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  • @4chaner404
    @4chaner404 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    This is the first video I'm seeing from you and I can relate so deeply. I love being alone, I'm happy I found your channel!!

    • @abigailelenas
      @abigailelenas  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      yes alone time is very precious and important, especially as an introvert!! and thank you for watching, i appreciate it so much❤️

  • @JamilaCAHProwse
    @JamilaCAHProwse ปีที่แล้ว +11

    i'm 28 now and i've felt the way you talk in the beginning about relationships for a lot of my life. but the older i've got the more i've realised there are a lot of people in the world who value quiet, slowness and "unexciting" personalities. plus the way we each find enjoyment and excitement is so subjective; for me it's increasingly become talking to someone about a book or a film i like. i'm sure as you move through life you'll find yourself drawn to likeminded people and realise how much they value your unique outlook on the world. lovely vlog!

    • @abigailelenas
      @abigailelenas  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I definitely agree! As I get older and grow, I find out more and more which people I want to surround myself with and just about my priorities in life I guess. Thank you for the kind comment!

  • @TrueReads
    @TrueReads 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Moderation is key. Reflective, productive solitude is amazing and so are healthy relationships.

  • @cindyk02
    @cindyk02 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your videos are so intriguing, You’ve explained being alone and some points you’ve made I feel the same way. I wish I was your friend. :)

  • @lostfutures9482
    @lostfutures9482 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love being alone ❤

  • @bunnycatsmoothie5768
    @bunnycatsmoothie5768 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Like another commenter said, this is the first video I'm seeing from you and it had such an awesome vibe ! It was really relatable, chill and calming especially the library and garden shots, they were really aesthetic !! Très bonne vidéo :)

    • @abigailelenas
      @abigailelenas  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      this is such a kind thing to say, thank you so much!! merci!!

    • @bunnycatsmoothie5768
      @bunnycatsmoothie5768 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@abigailelenas :)

    • @mauricedues231
      @mauricedues231 ปีที่แล้ว

      My 1 st time seeing this ,I related and I am a new subscriber

    • @abigailelenas
      @abigailelenas  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mauricedues231 ❤️

  • @veronicaroedgundorf7481
    @veronicaroedgundorf7481 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your videos make me feel safe and comforted. You just have that vibe about you. I dont think your friends hang out with you and think about how they would rather spend time with someone more fun. You are a harbour, a warm cup of tea. I think they enjoy that

    • @abigailelenas
      @abigailelenas  ปีที่แล้ว

      aww this is the sweetest comment! I don’t think anyone has ever described me as a warm cup of tea before, that is such a beautiful compliment. thank you!🤍

  • @dirt_is_soil
    @dirt_is_soil ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Such a beautiful video. I wish I could relate, I used to feel so great by myself but now It feels really hard. You seem like such a peaceful person. I wouldn't worry about your friends not wanting to hang out because of the reasons you said. Do what you need for yourself, its ok to be you :) Your friends are your friends because of who you are. I think you're really cool.

    • @abigailelenas
      @abigailelenas  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thank you so much for your comment!! I definitely need my alone time but sometimes it can be difficult, like you said, and being alone can turn into feeling lonely. thank you again for being so kind, have a lovely day🤍

    • @dirt_is_soil
      @dirt_is_soil ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@abigailelenas :)

  • @mimeowmi
    @mimeowmi ปีที่แล้ว +6

    ur channel is so cool

    • @abigailelenas
      @abigailelenas  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aww thank you, you’re so kind🥺

  • @ascendoracle2806
    @ascendoracle2806 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its so refresh and breath-taking, its exciting, its worth all !!!!!!!!!! and they think you are alone no dummie IIIIII actually the most bursting !!!!!!!

  • @ladyjulien
    @ladyjulien ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i absolutely love your content! i hope to see more from you soon 💕

    • @abigailelenas
      @abigailelenas  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thank you so much🥺 a new video will be out on the weekend💓

  • @abi.mp3
    @abi.mp3 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i feel like i relate to you so deeply just through this little glimpse into your life. it’s beautiful to feel connected to someone even just a little. i loved this video and i’m so excited to keep watching your channel

    • @abigailelenas
      @abigailelenas  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      this is such a sweetest comment aah thank you so much🤍

  • @ruth1527
    @ruth1527 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    beautiful video

  • @CheyMaelee
    @CheyMaelee ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful video, I look forward to watching more of your videos ❤️

  • @skinner5558
    @skinner5558 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Emma Chamberlain vibes

  • @toquicho476
    @toquicho476 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i found myself completing your sentences and a reflection of my face and expressions in you. i can't really grasp it nor explain it though, but i really felt at ease and safe watching this. will be on the lookout for new stuff in your channel!

  • @marysomething7802
    @marysomething7802 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this video so much that I'll binge watch all of your content right now

    • @marysomething7802
      @marysomething7802 ปีที่แล้ว

      the shot of you reading in the park is chef kiss

    • @abigailelenas
      @abigailelenas  ปีที่แล้ว

      omg thank you so much aaah your comment made my day💕

    • @abigailelenas
      @abigailelenas  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marysomething7802 ty ty i’m trying hahaa

  • @muzimbulase
    @muzimbulase 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All introverts lets unite alone ☺

  • @AleksandrBondarchuk
    @AleksandrBondarchuk 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    super...

  • @nurgumuss
    @nurgumuss ปีที่แล้ว

    its too natural and pretty video I really liked

    • @abigailelenas
      @abigailelenas  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you so much

  • @veralo9956
    @veralo9956 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just found your channel and i just know i will watch all the videos you post

    • @abigailelenas
      @abigailelenas  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      aww thank you so much that’s so sweet🤍

  • @HS-rb6vq
    @HS-rb6vq 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Loveee the vibes, the title, the content, your outfits, but I cant enjoy it as much as I imagine I would if I need to lower the volume at music and increase it to hear your voice

    • @abigailelenas
      @abigailelenas  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for the comment, I will keep that in mind next time!

  • @neetvlogs22
    @neetvlogs22 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're so beautiful ❤ and I loved you're video

  • @vovobarbara6048
    @vovobarbara6048 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    vc é muito querida!

  • @ceren-kd1ey
    @ceren-kd1ey ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i really enjoyed the video but honest opinion i think you should be more confident about yourself

    • @abigailelenas
      @abigailelenas  ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you! i am trying to work on that!