I once heard - "It's okay to lose people.Afterall ,if there's no pain, there isn't any love.We all gotta bear with it." Time heals everything!This time will also pass...
I just left a 5 year long relationship , nothing traumatic or toxic, I could just feel that she wasn’t my forever. Its surprising how tough it’s been when I’m the one who initiated it. This video spoke to me, thank you. The nostalgia especially is difficult to deal with and very confusing.
Sometimes exactly because you're the one initiating something you suffer more because you care enough to take action. You do it because it's the right thing to do not necessarily because you wish doing so. Stay strong! ❤
my ex broke up wit me and told me i deserved someone better (i definitely did..he was a bad person but despite all that, i loved him sincerely) it was hard to let go since technically, the breakup wasnt a mutual decision. albeit, ive moved on. sometimes i wonder if he ever still longs for me one thing im only ever will be grateful for him was letting me go because i know myself i would have let myself drowned in misery❤ (a thought just came to me and made me wonder if would your comment resonate wit him lol)
@@dwightschrute832 I decided to leave for my own benefit and in hopes to find a partner that is more aligned with what I want to achieve in this life. Certainly a guilty feeling, to her I was the one 😔
I have to let her go because she grew out of it. and for several months she pretended that everything was fine just so that she doesn't hurt me, finally I noticed things i asked her, she told me everything. and I am really grateful to have somebody like her, who was considerate enough to make sure that I am not hurt. I am still in love with her. and I'll probably love her forever. its just that this forever is different than what i thought it would be. i need to let her go because i need to be enough considerate to her too. i wouldnt want her to stay for me, miss out on better opportunities cause of me. how could I become a person who would stop someone from becoming themselves ? i love her afterall. and at this moment I think, I must let her go. it'll hurt. it is actually supposed to, cause I just wasnt attracted to her but really love her that I can make a clear distinction between whats good and whats not. I hope I recover and know that god must have better things for me too. if you happened to read this, I want you to know that, "forever is forever, even if then ours's a different one."
More true words have never been said. Folks take it easy on yourself day by day. Let all the tears fall and feel all the emotions without guilt and shame. This process is natural. You don't know what it is to live without feeling pain. The chapter may be over but your life is not. You have greatness awaiting you on the other side of this hurdle.
I've always felt the same as how you've expressed it there. Although yeah, it may be tough for sure, however we've to do what's best for ourselves eventually. After all, what we all have left in the end is we, ourselves only.
I literally lost all my besfs but still happy because ik it is a bit hard and yeah i am not afraid anymore to be alone , am more focused on my life so if anyone read this i want u to know that s ok to be alone in fact it is really healthy and good , also don't be afraid to lose anyone u can live without them and happier
I would say I dont give a shit if I decide to leave someone, people are not really worth that much of caring, some of them are miserable and they don't deserve ur time. And If I leave them, I know they are not worth it & they are undeserving
It's like I was sitting over a cup of tea with a close friend and here we are sitting at night and he tells me this. thank you for this video, just thank you, its so beautiful
i had been with this girl for only 6 months of my life and on the 27th of june lets just say her parents and my parents are doing everything they can to split us apart. I have only loved this girl with all my heart and she always was a supportive partner to me. I know its easy to give up at this time but i dont want to give up on my love for her and her. I have been with other girls before but losing her made me feel i lost a part of myself. I dont know where this is going to go. And i know we both cant date yet at least until i graduate in 2 years but right now my heart feels that it cant love another. I never felt like this before but I am not giving up on her, I truly love her and i will do anything I can to be with her again.
@@suhith_ don't give up. if u are a lover u have to be a fighter. u have to fight for your love it's not going to be easy trust me i was been in the same situation before but just DON'T GIVE UP. if the love is true and pure things will get better trust me. okay just hold on to your love it might look like impossible rn like everything is going wrong but plzz keep your trust in god and in your love pray to him. he will listen he always does. just DON'T GIVE UP ONE EACHOTHER. u both have to fight for your love, your life.
@@kavyasanadhya2334 i will. but any advice on how do i deal with the times where me and her cant text each other ? i wont get the chance for two days and its HURTING me and probably her too cause when we texted secretly last night after a whole 24 hours she was there like FINALLY IVE WAITED. yeah~ thank you for you comment though i appreciate it so much.
Been there, its part of life but you still miss one or two of those people from time to time , but they are long gone and i am less inclined to fully fall in love again, i will be more cautious in the future , its natural i think
Imagine our parents also gonna leave us one day.. There is a truth life is short actually And after we die there will be somebodies here again with the same issues maybe.. So love your life nobody remember you one day If they don't respects you skip them no mather how much you loved in the past if they don't act you like that much respectfully then they don't deserve you They lose you You do something for youself and the people who trully loves you .And thanks to god to save you earlier ❤
How do you not have more subscribers??? This was really inspiring to me and... Helps me decide how to move forward with life. Thank you for making this... :)
This video is really the best I loved it Idk nothing tragedic happened to me but still this video and comments I read made my eyes wet But this is the quality content which TH-cam really needs.
Lamooo just watched this video in the morning, and i was so happy that i have a very good relationship, and now it’s 10 pm and we are ending a 5 year relationship.
How come TH-cam knew that this is exactly my situation now... Thank you so much for this video 🤎 cause being left by someone is popular topic ... Massive videos and contents are there about it but leaving someone is talked less I mean not a good thing you may say but it's the right decision at that point due to the reason that you no longer want to keep on hurting them by being afraid Of hurting them🤎
Far from the truth. I left a 10yr relationship because nothing changed. We never got married, had kids. After 10yrs, to me that was a deal breaker. She is amazing in every way. She just never committed to me like i did to her. I will always love her regardless. Relationships take more than love to work.
I once heard - "It's okay to lose people.Afterall ,if there's no pain, there isn't any love.We all gotta bear with it." Time heals everything!This time will also pass...
I just left a 5 year long relationship , nothing traumatic or toxic, I could just feel that she wasn’t my forever. Its surprising how tough it’s been when I’m the one who initiated it. This video spoke to me, thank you.
The nostalgia especially is difficult to deal with and very confusing.
Sometimes exactly because you're the one initiating something you suffer more because you care enough to take action. You do it because it's the right thing to do not necessarily because you wish doing so. Stay strong! ❤
my ex broke up wit me and told me i deserved someone better (i definitely did..he was a bad person but despite all that, i loved him sincerely)
it was hard to let go since technically, the breakup wasnt a mutual decision. albeit, ive moved on. sometimes i wonder if he ever still longs for me
one thing im only ever will be grateful for him was letting me go because i know myself i would have let myself drowned in misery❤
(a thought just came to me and made me wonder if would your comment resonate wit him lol)
@@dwightschrute832 I decided to leave for my own benefit and in hopes to find a partner that is more aligned with what I want to achieve in this life. Certainly a guilty feeling, to her I was the one 😔
@@idt1 thank you❤️
@@Aurelion_Cole You're welcome.. Best of wishes to you!
I have to let her go because she grew out of it. and for several months she pretended that everything was fine just so that she doesn't hurt me, finally I noticed things i asked her, she told me everything. and I am really grateful to have somebody like her, who was considerate enough to make sure that I am not hurt. I am still in love with her. and I'll probably love her forever. its just that this forever is different than what i thought it would be. i need to let her go because i need to be enough considerate to her too. i wouldnt want her to stay for me, miss out on better opportunities cause of me. how could I become a person who would stop someone from becoming themselves ? i love her afterall. and at this moment I think, I must let her go. it'll hurt. it is actually supposed to, cause I just wasnt attracted to her but really love her that I can make a clear distinction between whats good and whats not. I hope I recover and know that god must have better things for me too.
if you happened to read this, I want you to know that,
"forever is forever, even if then ours's a different one."
More true words have never been said. Folks take it easy on yourself day by day. Let all the tears fall and feel all the emotions without guilt and shame. This process is natural. You don't know what it is to live without feeling pain.
The chapter may be over but your life is not. You have greatness awaiting you on the other side of this hurdle.
I've always felt the same as how you've expressed it there. Although yeah, it may be tough for sure, however we've to do what's best for ourselves eventually. After all, what we all have left in the end is we, ourselves only.
The last line really made me think.
It is the most awesome cinematic video I’ve ever seen.
I love to see more videos like this from u. Thanks for creating it. Jesus loves u
How did this video get recommended to me that exact day I decided to leave somebody :( it's such a bittersweet feeling
i hope this gets the attention it deserves
the pain will not going to disappear but as time goes by, the pain will be tolerable
I literally lost all my besfs but still happy because ik it is a bit hard and yeah i am not afraid anymore to be alone , am more focused on my life so if anyone read this i want u to know that s ok to be alone in fact it is really healthy and good , also don't be afraid to lose anyone u can live without them and happier
What a kindness filled video you've made!
The reassurance is what i needed. We will be ok
I would say I dont give a shit if I decide to leave someone, people are not really worth that much of caring, some of them are miserable and they don't deserve ur time. And If I leave them, I know they are not worth it & they are undeserving
just cut off a relationship i was in, it hurts, but time moves on, this video was eye opening for me, thank you so much for publishing it
It's like I was sitting over a cup of tea with a close friend and here we are sitting at night and he tells me this. thank you for this video, just thank you, its so beautiful
It's hard but we have to eventually....
Where did you find the wonderful music for this amazing video?
Great video man 😊I love it
it hurts to listen
Its not okay to leave someone you love. Unless its not meant to be after trying everything you did to make them yours forever.
i had been with this girl for only 6 months of my life and on the 27th of june lets just say her parents and my parents are doing everything they can to split us apart. I have only loved this girl with all my heart and she always was a supportive partner to me. I know its easy to give up at this time but i dont want to give up on my love for her and her. I have been with other girls before but losing her made me feel i lost a part of myself. I dont know where this is going to go. And i know we both cant date yet at least until i graduate in 2 years but right now my heart feels that it cant love another. I never felt like this before but I am not giving up on her, I truly love her and i will do anything I can to be with her again.
@@suhith_ don't give up. if u are a lover u have to be a fighter. u have to fight for your love it's not going to be easy trust me i was been in the same situation before but just DON'T GIVE UP. if the love is true and pure things will get better trust me. okay just hold on to your love it might look like impossible rn like everything is going wrong but plzz keep your trust in god and in your love pray to him. he will listen he always does. just DON'T GIVE UP ONE EACHOTHER. u both have to fight for your love, your life.
@@kavyasanadhya2334 i will. but any advice on how do i deal with the times where me and her cant text each other ? i wont get the chance for two days and its HURTING me and probably her too cause when we texted secretly last night after a whole 24 hours she was there like FINALLY IVE WAITED. yeah~
thank you for you comment though i appreciate it so much.
When they said they have no feelings for you and moved on to someone else? What more is there to do?
@@suhith_ hey just wanna check in so how things are going between you too ? is everything fine or it's worse
This video is so healing
love this. great video concept.
Been there, its part of life but you still miss one or two of those people from time to time , but they are long gone and i am less inclined to fully fall in love again, i will be more cautious in the future , its natural i think
this is so wonderfully made, this side of youtube is the best! 💚💚💚
Beautiful. I've been there years ago. Time heals 💚
time doesn't heal, it gives you the chance to heal
Every word hits right where it must.... Thank you for this...... Also you made me miss yet feel London so much. Thank you!
I'm sorry, my one dear friend..
You'll find someone better than me soon.
I burst into tears
This is beautiful :) 🌱
Very lovely, thank you for this
I really needed to hear this today. Thank algorithm 🩷thank you for this video
Imagine our parents also gonna leave us one day.. There is a truth life is short actually And after we die there will be somebodies here again with the same issues maybe.. So love your life nobody remember you one day If they don't respects you skip them no mather how much you loved in the past if they don't act you like that much respectfully then they don't deserve you They lose you You do something for youself and the people who trully loves you .And thanks to god to save you earlier ❤
This was really cool. Good job
Thanku mate
thank you
This is beautiful ❤
This is so so beautiful ❤
This is bful, loved it!!
How do you not have more subscribers??? This was really inspiring to me and... Helps me decide how to move forward with life. Thank you for making this... :)
Thanks❤
This video is really the best I loved it
Idk nothing tragedic happened to me but still this video and comments I read made my eyes wet
But this is the quality content which TH-cam really needs.
Or you might realise that you're living without someone, who you should be with. 😪
Lamooo just watched this video in the morning, and i was so happy that i have a very good relationship, and now it’s 10 pm and we are ending a 5 year relationship.
awwwwww 🥺❤️
nice video but your voice is a bit too low in my opinion, just a tiny bit louder would be good i think
Thankyou for ur feedback :D
Isn’t this miles Carter’s poem?
it is theres a credit of him
😢
Heavy
why did they go like why
Feel free to tell me , if u have things u want me to talk about ❤
the struggles of trying to forget someone
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The voice doesnt match the amazing shots
Oh my days, 475 likes for this! what happened to people.
How come TH-cam knew that this is exactly my situation now... Thank you so much for this video 🤎 cause being left by someone is popular topic ... Massive videos and contents are there about it but leaving someone is talked less I mean not a good thing you may say but it's the right decision at that point due to the reason that you no longer want to keep on hurting them by being afraid Of hurting them🤎
If you leave someone there is a reason and you don't love them.
Far from the truth. I left a 10yr relationship because nothing changed. We never got married, had kids. After 10yrs, to me that was a deal breaker. She is amazing in every way. She just never committed to me like i did to her. I will always love her regardless. Relationships take more than love to work.
this is terrible dude