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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ส.ค. 2024
- If you decide to leave someone.
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Miles Carter
JKN Entertainment
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I once heard - "It's okay to lose people.Afterall ,if there's no pain, there isn't any love.We all gotta bear with it." Time heals everything!This time will also pass...
Two weeks ago, I cut off the communication with the boy i loved for 7 months. It really did hurt but I believe I am doing okay as the time goes by. Also yesterday evening I said goodbye to my best friend. She was not the same girl when i met first and things were not good between us. Someone had to do it and it was me. I don't know, I learned some "truths" in our last messages, i learned that she lied about a few things and I feel heartbroken. Both of them meant a lot to me in this year. I also turned 18 a few weeks ago and it's like a new chapter in my life without them in my new age. I am not technically a child anymore. I lost my best friend and the boy i loved. I really don't know what to say. Of course, i have some other close friends but.. She was different. I wanna believe it's the best for me in long term. Also, my mom and my sister went to another city. They won't be here for two months. So.. Yeah age 18 didn't start really great. I really do feel lonely and I am not sure how to get over this feeling since any of the people I cared is not here.
29.06.2023, 12.48
I ended up my friendship with a close friend of my mine for 4 years. It really feels unrealistic. I mean.. All these things happened so recently and I seriously don't know what i feel.
10.07.2023, 01.58
As you said, it is only but a new chapter. Where there is loss there is also gain. As the video stated, you will feel pain but you will also heal. 18 might not have started great, but you have 11 months to grow and change and meet people and enjoy the richness and vibrancy that comes with meeting new people.
Story time: Between the time I turned 18 and turned 19 I had graduated school, I had started the year having broken up with my first love but 6 months after that break up I met my future husband. I never thought that was a pain I would get over but I did. I got my drivers license and traveled around the country with him as he was my best friend at the time. I started college, got through 1 semester and then decided to work full time and continue to travel. Many years later, traveling with him is still all I do.
18 didn't start easy but it is in your hands to make it end easy. Put yourself out there and don't forget to look for new opportunities. You might not always want to take them on but each one gives the chance to meet the people who will fill your next chapter with memories and stories you will tell forever.
Wishing you the best of luck new adult
@@Merc8desYour comment means a lot to me, thank you so muck for writing this. Travelling with my love is one of my biggest dreams and i am really happy to hear that you can do it with him. I have an exam this year to get into college. I started studying for them. I am not feeling okay but i really try. :') I hope you have a good life with your loved one. 💛 (i am not fluent btw sorry for the any mistake)
03.07.2023, 02.12
I have to let her go because she grew out of it. and for several months she pretended that everything was fine just so that she doesn't hurt me, finally I noticed things i asked her, she told me everything. and I am really grateful to have somebody like her, who was considerate enough to make sure that I am not hurt. I am still in love with her. and I'll probably love her forever. its just that this forever is different than what i thought it would be. i need to let her go because i need to be enough considerate to her too. i wouldnt want her to stay for me, miss out on better opportunities cause of me. how could I become a person who would stop someone from becoming themselves ? i love her afterall. and at this moment I think, I must let her go. it'll hurt. it is actually supposed to, cause I just wasnt attracted to her but really love her that I can make a clear distinction between whats good and whats not. I hope I recover and know that god must have better things for me too.
if you happened to read this, I want you to know that,
"forever is forever, even if then ours's a different one."
I just left a 5 year long relationship , nothing traumatic or toxic, I could just feel that she wasn’t my forever. Its surprising how tough it’s been when I’m the one who initiated it. This video spoke to me, thank you.
The nostalgia especially is difficult to deal with and very confusing.
Sometimes exactly because you're the one initiating something you suffer more because you care enough to take action. You do it because it's the right thing to do not necessarily because you wish doing so. Stay strong! ❤
my ex broke up wit me and told me i deserved someone better (i definitely did..he was a bad person but despite all that, i loved him sincerely)
it was hard to let go since technically, the breakup wasnt a mutual decision. albeit, ive moved on. sometimes i wonder if he ever still longs for me
one thing im only ever will be grateful for him was letting me go because i know myself i would have let myself drowned in misery❤
(a thought just came to me and made me wonder if would your comment resonate wit him lol)
@@dwightschrute832 I decided to leave for my own benefit and in hopes to find a partner that is more aligned with what I want to achieve in this life. Certainly a guilty feeling, to her I was the one 😔
@@idt1 thank you❤️
@@Aurelion_Cole You're welcome.. Best of wishes to you!
It is the most awesome cinematic video I’ve ever seen.
I love to see more videos like this from u. Thanks for creating it. Jesus loves u
I've always felt the same as how you've expressed it there. Although yeah, it may be tough for sure, however we've to do what's best for ourselves eventually. After all, what we all have left in the end is we, ourselves only.
The last line really made me think.
I would say I dont give a shit if I decide to leave someone, people are not really worth that much of caring, some of them are miserable and they don't deserve ur time. And If I leave them, I know they are not worth it & they are undeserving
More true words have never been said. Folks take it easy on yourself day by day. Let all the tears fall and feel all the emotions without guilt and shame. This process is natural. You don't know what it is to live without feeling pain.
The chapter may be over but your life is not. You have greatness awaiting you on the other side of this hurdle.
i hope this gets the attention it deserves
It's hard but we have to eventually....
How did this video get recommended to me that exact day I decided to leave somebody :( it's such a bittersweet feeling
the pain will not going to disappear but as time goes by, the pain will be tolerable
It's like I was sitting over a cup of tea with a close friend and here we are sitting at night and he tells me this. thank you for this video, just thank you, its so beautiful
The reassurance is what i needed. We will be ok
I really needed to hear this today. Thank algorithm 🩷thank you for this video
Every word hits right where it must.... Thank you for this...... Also you made me miss yet feel London so much. Thank you!
it hurts to listen
Its not okay to leave someone you love. Unless its not meant to be after trying everything you did to make them yours forever.
i had been with this girl for only 6 months of my life and on the 27th of june lets just say her parents and my parents are doing everything they can to split us apart. I have only loved this girl with all my heart and she always was a supportive partner to me. I know its easy to give up at this time but i dont want to give up on my love for her and her. I have been with other girls before but losing her made me feel i lost a part of myself. I dont know where this is going to go. And i know we both cant date yet at least until i graduate in 2 years but right now my heart feels that it cant love another. I never felt like this before but I am not giving up on her, I truly love her and i will do anything I can to be with her again.
@@suhith_ don't give up. if u are a lover u have to be a fighter. u have to fight for your love it's not going to be easy trust me i was been in the same situation before but just DON'T GIVE UP. if the love is true and pure things will get better trust me. okay just hold on to your love it might look like impossible rn like everything is going wrong but plzz keep your trust in god and in your love pray to him. he will listen he always does. just DON'T GIVE UP ONE EACHOTHER. u both have to fight for your love, your life.
@@kavyasanadhya2334 i will. but any advice on how do i deal with the times where me and her cant text each other ? i wont get the chance for two days and its HURTING me and probably her too cause when we texted secretly last night after a whole 24 hours she was there like FINALLY IVE WAITED. yeah~
thank you for you comment though i appreciate it so much.
When they said they have no feelings for you and moved on to someone else? What more is there to do?
@@suhith_ hey just wanna check in so how things are going between you too ? is everything fine or it's worse
Beautiful. I've been there years ago. Time heals 💚
time doesn't heal, it gives you the chance to heal
I literally lost all my besfs but still happy because ik it is a bit hard and yeah i am not afraid anymore to be alone , am more focused on my life so if anyone read this i want u to know that s ok to be alone in fact it is really healthy and good , also don't be afraid to lose anyone u can live without them and happier
This video is so healing
What a kindness filled video you've made!
just cut off a relationship i was in, it hurts, but time moves on, this video was eye opening for me, thank you so much for publishing it
I'm sorry, my one dear friend..
You'll find someone better than me soon.
Been there, its part of life but you still miss one or two of those people from time to time , but they are long gone and i am less inclined to fully fall in love again, i will be more cautious in the future , its natural i think
this is so wonderfully made, this side of youtube is the best! 💚💚💚
Or you might realise that you're living without someone, who you should be with. 😪
This is beautiful :) 🌱
Very lovely, thank you for this
love this. great video concept.
Imagine our parents also gonna leave us one day.. There is a truth life is short actually And after we die there will be somebodies here again with the same issues maybe.. So love your life nobody remember you one day If they don't respects you skip them no mather how much you loved in the past if they don't act you like that much respectfully then they don't deserve you They lose you You do something for youself and the people who trully loves you .And thanks to god to save you earlier ❤
I burst into tears
This is beautiful ❤
Great video man 😊I love it
Where did you find the wonderful music for this amazing video?
How do you not have more subscribers??? This was really inspiring to me and... Helps me decide how to move forward with life. Thank you for making this... :)
This was really cool. Good job
Thanku mate
This is bful, loved it!!
thank you
nice video but your voice is a bit too low in my opinion, just a tiny bit louder would be good i think
Thankyou for ur feedback :D
Lamooo just watched this video in the morning, and i was so happy that i have a very good relationship, and now it’s 10 pm and we are ending a 5 year relationship.
This video is really the best I loved it
Idk nothing tragedic happened to me but still this video and comments I read made my eyes wet
But this is the quality content which TH-cam really needs.
This is so so beautiful ❤
Thanks❤
Isn’t this miles Carter’s poem?
it is theres a credit of him
awwwwww 🥺❤️
Have you healed?
wish i could.
Feel free to tell me , if u have things u want me to talk about ❤
the struggles of trying to forget someone
@@zaix_archives im on it then
@@Leafyleafde ❤will be waiting
why did they go like why
Heavy
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The voice doesnt match the amazing shots
Oh my days, 475 likes for this! what happened to people.
How come TH-cam knew that this is exactly my situation now... Thank you so much for this video 🤎 cause being left by someone is popular topic ... Massive videos and contents are there about it but leaving someone is talked less I mean not a good thing you may say but it's the right decision at that point due to the reason that you no longer want to keep on hurting them by being afraid Of hurting them🤎
If you leave someone there is a reason and you don't love them.
Far from the truth. I left a 10yr relationship because nothing changed. We never got married, had kids. After 10yrs, to me that was a deal breaker. She is amazing in every way. She just never committed to me like i did to her. I will always love her regardless. Relationships take more than love to work.
this is terrible dude