The dating approach every woman needs in 2021

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  • The mess of today's dating culture doesn't have to be a mess in your life. You can be kind and clear and protect your heart all at once.
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  • @emwilss
    @emwilss  3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

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  • @mdbtptblw
    @mdbtptblw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Amen, Hallelujah! I just exited a "situationship" that I let go on too long and quite frankly felt like I was being used. I'm 30 and I haven't dated much in the past, but I prefer to date with intentionality which a lot of the world doesn't do. I'm happy as a single person, I don't need someone else to complete me, but I do long for companionship and a family of my own. Until then I will just continue to pray and trust in God. I really feel that God led me to your channel to remind me that he is in control and to trust in him. His plans for my life are much greater than my own. Thank you for being a light and an encourager in a dark and bitter world.

  • @WordsPictures997
    @WordsPictures997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    " It might be a mess but it doesn't have to be a mess in your world!!!" Said it louder!!! 💃💃💃💃💃💃

  • @Kirsjj
    @Kirsjj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I can tell you from experience that it is very difficult to be real with yourself about the situation you're in with a guy you like. It's so easy to think of reasons for why they're not putting in as much effort as you would like. But after doing this too many times, then asking for clarity and finding out that I shouldn't have given them so many chances.. I realised that I shouldn't do that, but instead let the guy just show me his intentions. If they don't match my standards, he's not going to get my attention anymore. Right now I'm going on dates with a guy who's been very honest and open about his intentions and where I stand with him. IT IS SUCH A BLESSING to not have to make up excuses for someone else! I don't even know if we're gonna fall in love with each other, but so far.. he's made me feel valuable. Don't settle for less ladies. You deserve someone that doesn't need your made-up excuses :)

  • @elisec4373
    @elisec4373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Can you do a video on Christian teen dating with intentions of marriage? Love the video!

  • @maritzaperrault4836
    @maritzaperrault4836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Thank you Emily!!! Women have always been made to believe that their emotions towards a man make them needy and clingy. It’s like no we need CLARITY so we don’t waste each there’s time. Plain and simple

  • @MurphyMosby
    @MurphyMosby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    We, international peeps, understand that you're not able to ship it. Don't worryyy :) Much love from Switzerland

    • @MurphyMosby
      @MurphyMosby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      On another note, I blocked a guy today thanks to you crazy chiquitaaa and in my mind I was like "I'm not aggressive, I'm guarding my heart!" yeyyyy

    • @henriettcsikos1119
      @henriettcsikos1119 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Heyyyy I also live in Switzerland!! :)

    • @Julia-jz9vl
      @Julia-jz9vl 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MurphyMosby oh another girl from switzerland. Wuuup wuuuup. Sorry little Happy dance for that fact

  • @marialasher9767
    @marialasher9767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    "It Takes Two" !!
    The Mary Kate and Ashley movies are very dear to my heart

  • @00juls00
    @00juls00 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is so nice to hear. Because a few months back I was messaging with a very nice guy and we had planned to finally meet after talking for about a month. And I wanted to know, if we met and hit it off, what his plan was moving forward. I felt it was a mature thing to talk about, and he didn't seem to think it was weird. But when I told someone close to me, she acted like it was a strange thing to have done. Anyway, nice to hear the support. :)

  • @jennersjam
    @jennersjam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

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    P.S. I love your channel!! ❤️

  • @whitneydriscoll6717
    @whitneydriscoll6717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love how you use props now 😂💕 Please keep doing that because you use the cutest ones! 💕

  • @melissat9120
    @melissat9120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    2:17 IT TAKES TWO! MARY KATE AND ASHLEY 😝 ooey gooey messy burgerrrrr!

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      YASSSSS!

  • @HaleyMary
    @HaleyMary 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanks for this video, Emily! I've always been afraid to express how I feel when I like a guy because I'm afraid that will scare him off.

  • @veronicaestigoy5780
    @veronicaestigoy5780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh my Lord, if only I wasn't afraid to do a year ago what this video encourages to do now... would've saved my heart that's for sure. THANK YOU Emily with this reassurance that women need to go with their gut in order to protect their heart! 🥰

  • @jennamorgantini6086
    @jennamorgantini6086 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is exactly what I needed to hear today!!! Thank you ❤️

  • @LiztasticGames
    @LiztasticGames 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    These videos always coming in clutch

  • @OfficialCrystalSings
    @OfficialCrystalSings 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your advice. It’s always nice to hear someone affirm my values; I feel less alone.

  • @FindMyWayBackIntoLove
    @FindMyWayBackIntoLove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yay! I'm the first comment besides you! Hehe, I love your videos, Emily! I've been watching your content for a few years now and have loved hearing your advice and wisdom. You have been so helpful. Thank you!! ❤🤗

  • @calmcomb7603
    @calmcomb7603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I needed this! But I also feel very called out by this 😂
    I have been “talking” to a guy for three months who is either taking it slow or just shy and I don’t know where his head is at. I am sooooo nervous just trying to text him so I need the confidence to ask him for clarity some time.

    • @clarereynolds4112
      @clarereynolds4112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      As someone who has had to do this... don't wait forever! The sooner you get clarity, the better. Looking back on my situation, I probably waited too long and it was hard for me move on when he said "I think it's better if we just remain friends." If I'd asked earlier where things were going I wouldn't have been as emotionally invested and would have been able to let go more quickly and easily.

  • @LivAlexa32
    @LivAlexa32 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've never clicked on a video so fast!! This is a great video! Thank you for always being positive even when delivering tough messages!

  • @BlessedisShe
    @BlessedisShe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are amazing. So wise❤️

  • @shyannejones6406
    @shyannejones6406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing message, as usual! That elbow pop at 4:35, though....... poor elbow! Haha

  • @FindMyWayBackIntoLove
    @FindMyWayBackIntoLove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh my gosh! The movie It Takes Two! 👭That film was my jam when I was younger. Wow!

  • @sarahbishop5555
    @sarahbishop5555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved the "It Takes Two" reference! Thank you for sharing your wisdom, Emily. ❤ May God bless you and your family.

  • @kaliek3781
    @kaliek3781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a wise man once said...
    Just do it!

  • @ambermrtn97
    @ambermrtn97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Movie reference is It Takes Two ☺️

  • @MagdalaSings21819
    @MagdalaSings21819 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen, Hallelujah! Wish so had known this years ago. Thanks for telling it like it is!

  • @hannah7280
    @hannah7280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Haha It Takes Two! That movie was my childhood!
    Also I so needed to hear this today! Thanks for all you do Emily!

  • @Maria-dx6iq
    @Maria-dx6iq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen, thank you for this amazing video!

  • @shady1234shady
    @shady1234shady 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Emily! This is so helpful a day after my breakup with someone who really didn’t respect me. I feel so good today and love your messages in these videos and your books!

  • @sarahviebrock9882
    @sarahviebrock9882 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this !!! I will be sending this to friends. I greatly appreciate it !!!

  • @celestepozderec7202
    @celestepozderec7202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🙌🏻 I really needed to hear that, thank you so much Emily!!

  • @hayleythomas7238
    @hayleythomas7238 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Needed this after downloading dating apps. Thank you, Emily. You are a gift.

  • @Keiko1425
    @Keiko1425 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The movie is "It Takes Two" - Mary Kate and Ashley forever!

  • @BridgetBeh
    @BridgetBeh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen, Hallelujah!! Thanks Emily, I really needed to hear this.

  • @anarogic7839
    @anarogic7839 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My big sister is uploading new video 💕

  • @chelseanelson7536
    @chelseanelson7536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "IT TAKES TWO". 😭

  • @savannajimenez1792
    @savannajimenez1792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The movie is It takes two Mary Kate and Ashley movie

  • @briannaguerin7142
    @briannaguerin7142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awww man! I so want one, but I can't spend the money for it right now........

  • @kaliek3781
    @kaliek3781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your props 😂

  • @KitCaaat
    @KitCaaat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this!!

  • @GreenPenguin82
    @GreenPenguin82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It Takes Two! Such a cute movie

  • @michelleagbim9598
    @michelleagbim9598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing!!!!

  • @love2loveheart10
    @love2loveheart10 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen! Amen! ❤️ Thank you!

  • @daybydaystonebystone
    @daybydaystonebystone 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SO GOOD!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @virginiawango3968
    @virginiawango3968 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Much love from Kenya🇰🇪

  • @moochiwuvschachi
    @moochiwuvschachi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The It Takes Two reference. YAAASSS!

  • @cheyna8523
    @cheyna8523 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ahh I love your personality haha you crack me up!!

  • @sophiegrace2017
    @sophiegrace2017 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ~100% needed this~

  • @nicoleyoshihara4011
    @nicoleyoshihara4011 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved the advice and the little toy heart haha ❤

  • @rainingwwolves
    @rainingwwolves 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It Takes Two!!!

  • @00juls00
    @00juls00 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my gosh, the It Takes Two Reference. hahaha

  • @bethanychavez4911
    @bethanychavez4911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Any advice on wanting to date an older man? 5+years? Good idea or no?

    • @JJ367
      @JJ367 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I don’t think it’s bad if he fits your standards! (And you’re also an adult lol)

    • @SweetSerenadeXyWem
      @SweetSerenadeXyWem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't know how old you are but if you're like beginning twenties or older I don't think it should be a problem. My parents are 10 years apart and have been together for 25 years now so it could work out just fine. Something to keep in mind for the long term though: if he's the older one and as the years pass by there's a possibility that your energy/health levels don't match up that well anymore. As in: he might need some more sleep and might have more physical issues. It's just the natural process of aging but more noticable with an age gap in my opinion.
      But you know if you feel attracted to the man and he seems to be a good guy then go for it haha.

    • @kaliek3781
      @kaliek3781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It depends on how old you are. If you are 15 or something it's probably not a good idea.

  • @secbc79
    @secbc79 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Needed this big sister advice!

  • @gabrielleperez6548
    @gabrielleperez6548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    YES AMEN!! 💙

  • @rebekahflanders2658
    @rebekahflanders2658 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    woohoo preach it girl!

  • @loveyourself4707
    @loveyourself4707 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It takes two!

  • @michalyngret4262
    @michalyngret4262 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Emily! Love this video! Do you still have your book gift set on sale with prayer cards? I would love to purchase a few. Please let me know the link and have a blessed day!!😊

    • @emwilss
      @emwilss  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes I do! Here is the link. Use code EMILYSBOX for free shipping!
      www.avemariapress.com/products/emily-wilson-hussem-box

  • @clara449
    @clara449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need help! There’s this guy I like but I don’t want to date him. He has a girlfriend who is so much more pretty then me! I really want to be friends with him but I’m kinda scared to talk to him

  • @vivianvennicia
    @vivianvennicia 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well. There ya go.

  • @beachgirl4
    @beachgirl4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @kaylatumbaga4864
    @kaylatumbaga4864 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Billy Madison!! Such a funny movie

  • @kylecahalan1350
    @kylecahalan1350 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wonder if Emily is shadowbanned.

  • @no_prisoners6474
    @no_prisoners6474 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    💔💔💔