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  • @natschaefer1044
    @natschaefer1044 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    "There's a difference between being lazy and knowing how to rest" - so true Emily 💛

  • @magalisanchez7805
    @magalisanchez7805 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I found my person through the Catholic Match Making Posts. God bless you and God bless our relationship.

    • @JB12JB
      @JB12JB 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What do you by making posts? Haven't used CM in a while.

    • @jamesmedina6015
      @jamesmedina6015 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      CM is full of fake profiles. Catfish city.

    • @sitka49
      @sitka49 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jamesmedina6015 Oxymoron isn't it? Dating sites where there are no dates. - Of course unless your a women and then your flooded with indigestible amount of men most of which are divorced men in their late 40's and 50's.

  • @maryrine-marybel7118
    @maryrine-marybel7118 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I had a slight heart attack a few weeks ago Scared me to death don’t want to leave this earth yet want to see my son happy a couple of kids

    • @carrieconnell8098
      @carrieconnell8098 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I'll pray for you dear 🙏 give everything up to God, even your fears!! If he's meant to find someone only God knows. All I can say is just pray for a happy life for him 🙏♥️ God will do the rest 💪❤

    • @palestinabaddie
      @palestinabaddie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🥺💖👏🏻

    • @michmarie1
      @michmarie1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Many prayers to you Mary and may God hear your prayers and bless you and your family. Amen, give everything to God. Pray and let Him do the rest. I've yet to be married and strongly desire marriage and children! The dating scene is challenging right now for all, especially Catholic men and women of all ages. There needs to be a return to intentional dating towards marriage. There are a lot of amazing, single Catholic men and women. God has a plan for each of us! And for those of us who desire marriage and family, we must do our best to live in faithfulness and in pursuing Holiness until God reveals our path and spouse. God bless!❤🙏😇

  • @josemarquez6248
    @josemarquez6248 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    On my personal experience. I have my act together professionally, own an appartment and have a good level of education. I got at least the basics to start a family resourcess wise. I try to be always well dressed, work out frequently, keep a good and active spiritual life. I intentionally hold myself to a standard of excellence in every aspect. For the past few years I have focused on finding a Catholic lady to see if we can get together with the intention of eventually starting a family. I have only gotten rejections. One particular lady was even cruel and offensive. Some seem to preffer men who are lacking in many areas and many times people whom have very different concepts on spiritual matters. This is a shared experience we have discussed with other men in our parish so I know it is not just my own bias talking.
    I seem to be appreciated more by women from other ways of life but usually we do not match in matters of faith which to me are of premium importance. There could be many things I may be doing wrong that I may not be aware of but I cannot yet understand the constant rejection I get from Catholic ladies. It bugs me.
    It looks to me they not even take the time to appreciate the good men around them in church. The grass looks greener on the other side until it doesn't.
    After they go and get hurt with men from other ways of life, some of those ladies expect men at church to be always ready to provide them with relationships. I have seen this unfold firsthand. When it does not work then the pointing of fingers begins.
    As for myself, I am getting tired of this dynamic and my interest on dating and marriage is declining. Being intentional about it has not provided any results over many years. So it makes no sense to continue beating the dead horse. I need to start pondering that it may just not happen. And that hurts, but it is ok.

    • @francikeen
      @francikeen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sour grapes. You obviously resent women. So I am not surprised that women don't want your resentments.

    • @BardelystheMagnificent
      @BardelystheMagnificent 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Pride is usually attributed to men, but I would argue that women have a bigger problem with it. Eve wanted to be like God, after all. A lot of currently proud women are going to suffer majorly here starting in about a decade. They will have earned it.

    • @chrisl1414
      @chrisl1414 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The challenge in this day and age is to find a woman who loves you for who you are, and not a woman who only loves your money, your status and what you can do for her. It is better to be alone than married to the latter kind of modern women. A relationship needs to be built on a solid foundation of mutual humility, reciprocity and gratitude; never entitlement. I am fortunate to have found a woman who loves me for who I am, as opposed to my money, so they do indeed exist. My advice is to be patient when dating (even if that takes years), learn to vet women very carefully before letting them into your life, and never settle for a woman who would treat you unkindly or like a human ATM. Also, avoid any woman who employs manipulation tactics or shaming language to get what she wants, which I find to be common with many Catholic women. Everyone is worthy of being loved, including you.

    • @francikeen
      @francikeen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chrisl1414 The challenge of this day and age is to find one of the few men who love their wives for who she is.... and not just for her youth and beauty and status. To find one of the few men who are sober, responsible and faithful. Avoid any man who employs manipulation techniques, shaming, misogyny or who drinks too much or watch pornography or gambles too much on sports. which are common dysfunctional behaviors of Catholic and Protestant men.

    • @chrisl1414
      @chrisl1414 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@francikeen It should have been obvious by my use of the words "reciprocity and gratitude" that respect and moral conduct goes both ways. That being said, the biggest red flag in a woman is the classic "shame, guilt and the need to be right". And an important part of vetting women is avoiding those who have the need to always be right, and who believe men and our inadequacies are solely to blame for all the problems in the world and in dating; because we will be never good enough to satisfy such a woman. Surely you believe that both men and women must take responsibility for their sins and bad behavior, or is it only men who must do better?

  • @adahope15
    @adahope15 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love this lady's energy so much

  • @papierflieger9110
    @papierflieger9110 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I find this so interesting and beautiful, because (in my opinion...) after covid many things have been a bit confusing.

  • @BardelystheMagnificent
    @BardelystheMagnificent 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    She spent like ten seconds covering the complaints of men, to no fanfare, and dismissed them as "their opinions", then proceeded to list like 12 complaints of women to great fanfare. This problem isn't getting solved anytime soon.

    • @Maiseymax696
      @Maiseymax696 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It just sounds like there are more women than men in the audience... Just like in church

  • @angelalalhmangaihsangi7821
    @angelalalhmangaihsangi7821 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I absolutely love you.. I can't believe I came across this.. God bless you. M

  • @papierflieger9110
    @papierflieger9110 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love how her dress has pockets!

  • @AmeliaMarkus
    @AmeliaMarkus 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My Faith chatolic from Denpasar Bali Indonesia 🙏 God bless ❤️

  • @Irishcowboy1914
    @Irishcowboy1914 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm so appathetic about this i literally do all this and just get pain. I don't even think I can even try to date again

    • @angelalalhmangaihsangi7821
      @angelalalhmangaihsangi7821 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I don't even know too...

    • @Irishcowboy1914
      @Irishcowboy1914 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@angelalalhmangaihsangi7821 I literally just broke down. Crying in the shower asking God why I'm so unlovable. It really shouldn't be this hard.

    • @angelalalhmangaihsangi7821
      @angelalalhmangaihsangi7821 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Irishcowboy1914 it happened sometimes. However tears are prayer too.. God made us all beautiful. I truly believe this..

  • @everlyneomaato7699
    @everlyneomaato7699 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wish to have one open minded loving en one who will help to hold on to faith asingle mother of 2 catholic from kenya

  • @RickGrimes-tr3ug
    @RickGrimes-tr3ug 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I know too many 4-5 girls on the attractiveness/quality who want these giga chads... its nuts..

  • @franny5358
    @franny5358 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Anyone from India watching this ?

  • @faustina6708
    @faustina6708 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Beautiful dress 🤩

  • @MariaPullatt
    @MariaPullatt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I wonder why they don't bring in Jen Fulwiler anymore.

  • @lauriehartley7000
    @lauriehartley7000 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So true

  • @maryrine-marybel7118
    @maryrine-marybel7118 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    My son is looking for catholic girlfriend i pray he finds one before i leave this world

    • @jamesmedina6015
      @jamesmedina6015 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It’s tough sledding 😂 All is possible with the Rosary.

  • @compcam
    @compcam 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Same here, wish my daughter would find a wonderful Catholic husband

    • @jamesmedina6015
      @jamesmedina6015 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wish I could find a Catholic maiden 🫣✝️

    • @natschaefer1044
      @natschaefer1044 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@jamesmedina6015 calling them "maidens" probably isn't going to attract them to you, just saying

    • @jamesmedina6015
      @jamesmedina6015 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@natschaefer1044 What modern term would be more suitable in your opinion? 😃 I could care less…

    • @natschaefer1044
      @natschaefer1044 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jamesmedina6015 just "women" would be fine tbh

    • @jamesmedina6015
      @jamesmedina6015 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@natschaefer1044 OK. Woman it is.. 🙄

  • @VictoriaM689
    @VictoriaM689 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Facebook dating but be careful though

  • @yem872
    @yem872 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ellan0r
    @ellan0r 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @DeAngelo77
    @DeAngelo77 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    “A fish cannot teach a fisherman how to to catch fish.”
    - Patrice O'Neal

    • @ponti5882
      @ponti5882 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Women are not fish, and Patrice O’Neal is not a role model for virtuous relationships.

    • @DeAngelo77
      @DeAngelo77 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ponti5882 True

    • @merryarttoonesakamarysusan559
      @merryarttoonesakamarysusan559 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      you are quoting an Hollywood actress? lol

  • @maryrine-marybel7118
    @maryrine-marybel7118 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Looking for catholic girlfriend for my son He kind of shy

    • @Oliva_Meela
      @Oliva_Meela 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How old is he

    • @maryrine-marybel7118
      @maryrine-marybel7118 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Oliva_Meela 40 but looks 30

    • @RickGrimes-tr3ug
      @RickGrimes-tr3ug 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@maryrine-marybel7118 lol

    • @RolimPaula
      @RolimPaula 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I live in Ludington, MI

  • @KathleenAndrews-rs8ey
    @KathleenAndrews-rs8ey 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ri

  • @alvaradoac21
    @alvaradoac21 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    4:34 There's no one out there for some of us. It's better to accept that God hates us, wishes for us to suffer. This speaker needs a reality check, because what she's pretending is true is actually false.

  • @sitka49
    @sitka49 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How many kids she have now 14?

    • @lydiastone4702
      @lydiastone4702 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She has three beautiful children 😊

    • @sitka49
      @sitka49 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lydiastone4702 Looks like she has another one on the way -or she put a lot of weight on?

    • @marie5571
      @marie5571 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@sitka49 she just had a baby, so her body is still recovering. Bady weight doesn't just disappear

    • @sitka49
      @sitka49 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@marie5571 yes for some women it does take a while and for some it never goes away and some you could never tell they had a baby because they come home just as skinny, and some the same size before pregnancy

    • @Maiseymax696
      @Maiseymax696 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      here's another tip for people trying to date - don't comment on peoples' weight ;)

  • @HoraktyHeru
    @HoraktyHeru 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    July 26 July 26 The Light of Sirius is about to shine upon the Green Emerald of Isis located on the forehead of the Heir of the Holy Grail.😄😁Goodbye to the Tares and Children of Darkness.😛