Watching this emotionally charged video brings back the agony of my recent breakup. My four year relationship ended abruptly when my partner walked away, leaving a deep, unhealed wound in my heart. No matter how much I try to forget, I can't seem to let go, feeling lost and unsure about my future without him. Despite my best efforts, I remain consumed by the emptiness he left behind, and I just needed to share this pain here.
It's incredibly hard to move on when someone you love becomes just a memory. I was in a similar situation when my five year relationship fell apart. I couldn’t imagine my life without him and fought endlessly to get him back. In my desperation, I reached out to a spiritual guide, who helped me restore what I thought was lost forever.
Interesting! I’m genuinely curious how did you discover this spiritual counselor, and what’s the best way for me to connect with someone who could help me in a similar way?
You should meet Fatherabulu, a highly regarded spiritual advisor who is renowned for helping people reconnect with their ex partners. His unique methods and spiritual insight have restored many broken relationships.
Thank you so much for sharing this. Your advice is invaluable, and I’m deeply grateful for pointing me in the right direction. I’ll definitely explore this and see if it helps me too.
I got teary eyed listening to Bri because I definitely understand getting through that first year and really registering that this person is not here to hurt me but love me and I’m in my own way. And then finding your way through together. It’s really a beautiful thing tho
We nearly gave up. We weren't letting each other know how we felt. We held on to our anger. Even small things became reasons to end our relationship. But eventually we found a way to communicate our feelings through a couple questions game - lovify. Things finally settled down, and we now know a lot about each other:)
I’m going through the same thing right now, we break up over the small due to a lot of build up, I hope we make it through the way you did, so you have any tips to help?
This was helpful, I cried a lot during it because I am a horrible communicator and my boyfriend is great at it. I heard so many of my flaws in you two’s explanations and I was just overwhelmed. This is the first step in me learn in to communicate. Thank you for this message.
My husband and I have been married 23 years and somewhere along the way we stopped communicating and are now going thru a very difficult time as result of built up anger and resentment. This episode hit home and is just what I needed to hear today. ❤thank you.
Thanks you guys! This clip has really opened my eyes to how important it is to communicate with my love. I am horrible with communicating and being in love with him I found it challenging at times. I’m learning and this was a big help.. I look forward to watching more clips to help me get batter. Best wishes to you both ❤Thanks a bunch
I relate so much to Bri! I think we were raised in similar households (just from her brief explanation in the video) and I'm struggling with communicating how I feel in my current relationship. It's hard re-learning how to express myself.
Omg I felt what Bri said so much I had the same upbringing and it’s like when it comes to communicating we just shut down or be on defense. But it really takes time to grow and break from it! I loved this episode it’s actually opening my eyes to a lot🙌🏾
This is such a great episode! I think it’s also important to practice healthy communication in platonic relationships too. I’m not currently dating or entertaining anyone, but I’m really excited to practice these tips with my friends and family. x
I can relate so much to bro! I never know when my wife’s upset and I do everything: cooking, cleaning, and helping with the kids. But I forget about the little things that matter, and I just coast through or put myself on auto pilot, and that’s fine for me, But not my wife and kids. Have to stop being so selfish and be more conscious and compassionate/considerate of my family
Me and my husband Travis Michaud need prayers for our communication issues. I actually have a communication disorder disability. It's listening and applying what I hear to my life and expressing my thoughts and feelings appropriately. I have had this problem all of my life. His problems are with temper and anger issues. We love each other but each of us have a different disability and it makes communicating difficult.
Thank you for sharing! It was very nice hearing this from both male and female perspectives! I been struggling with communication effectively with my partner and will take this into consideration and begin to practice changing my choice of words and tone ! 🙌🏾
Omg awe Bre & Dre thank y’all so much for the shout out! I appreciate y’all continuing to share your story. I felt so welcomed and loved at the event. Looking forward to further connecting through my ShamelessMe membership 💗
Dropping true gems for effective communication. This video truly blessed me and made me see effective communication in a much more positive and cognitive light. Im in gratitude to this beautiful couple ❤ 1. Communication is a 2 way street. Seek to understand rather be understood until its your time to communicate. (My 2 cents) 2. Good communication is effective communication, and learn your partners love languages and communication style. 3. If you have issues in communicating, seek help and apply what you learn with the help received.
Note: it’s important to note that once you stated your love language was touch, but you can’t just do that one thing… I like he continued all the others things we need in a mate!
I really struggle with expressing what’s going on in my head. I don’t want to “ruin” our dates by bringing my feelings up but I need to remind myself that this is the only way we can grow closer.
Congrats for your wedding and awaiting till the day.Very Educational to others lovers. Stay blessed my Children. All the way from Africa Tanzania, in zanzibar Island.
I feel dre, I find it challenging to feel enthusiastic about celebrating occasions like Christmas and birthdays because I don't have many material desires or needs. My girlfriend, however, wants to give me a thoughtful gift, and I'm having trouble coming up with ideas. This situation can sometimes make her feel disheartened.
So I’ve been with my wife for 15 years and my live language is physical touch I’ve asked over the years for her to show me love that way. Even just a hug / snuggle what ever because it means so much to me. And she always says that’s just not who she is, or she’s just not like that. And it drives me crazy. I try and do the things that make her happy and I know I’m not peep, but I do try. I feel like I’m doing it wrong.. please help.
I think that's a long time to go without getting your needs for touch met. Maybe you have to romance, pursue and date your wife more. For example, try giving/leaving her flowers or one of her favorite things for a week or help her with a chore repeatedly AND then see if she will become more affectionate toward you in gratitude. You can even playfully say that you're doing it all for the hugs/squeezes. Love begats love. If these gestures don't help, there may be something deeper going on that may require a bit of marriage counseling. If your wife doesn't want to go with you, you should go by yourself b/c the counselor can give you tools to improve your communication and help you to navigate how your wife responds to you. Be Blessed💜
Thank You for this video. My Wife is close to leaving Me because of this same issue i learned alot from this. I hope She doesnt leave Me i Love Her so much
And it’s ok if one person doesn’t want to celebrate birthday or gifts.. so the question is can the person who don’t care, can they be that for their partner because it’s meaningful to them and not a check the box
I think to not liking birthday celebrations or gifts comes from a place and maybe figuring that out and talk about that would open up for a solution and work together. Because giving gifts and celebrating birthday is about love. It doesn't need to be over the top. I'm sure this doesn't answer your question but it's another perspective on it 😌
I hope this is good but I communicate terribly with my woman and I’m not really as gentle as I use to be. Prison messed up really bad in my head and Im really working toward changing to save the love of my life
I thought i was good at communicating but after watching this i just realized how uncomfortable healthy communication really is, and naw more than ever am putting in more effort not just for my romantic relationships but also for the people around me
This is substance.! This is not shock jock broadcasting. The content you create is sustainable and created for longevity. If k.s. had focused more on sustainable material instead numbers and shock value perhaps he would still be with us. Shock is hard on the system; this content creates growth and can be referenced for years.
I mean I watch the podcast but the first couple of minutes and when you mention how to communicate effectively and you said you had to do it through meals that’s kind of messed up because what if you’re going through hard times and you can’t do that no more you can’t go out and have meals because you’re on a tight budget that means there’s no getting through to her because of that one change in how to communicate to her effectively, you won’t be able to do as much or do at all depending on the circumstances so that’s kind of like weird to me. You have to treat somebody to a meal in order to get through to someone when speaking common sense in a relationship, where two should be understanding of one another of their needs and wants, I don’t know that sound crazy. That’s like a man saying to a woman. The only way to communicate to me is through sex other than that if that’s not happening, I don’t wanna hear anything you have to say because basically you can’t communicate to me in the way that I want you to all the way I prefer you to within you know has always double standards when it comes to the other side, sooo😌
I guess we can overlook the several times she emasculated him by making him the azz. Calling him out AGAIN on a podcast about not turning the heat on, cutting him off while he was talking several times, telling him she felt she was right when it came to Posting selective photos, then at the end telling folks that she's the fun one, but hey he is too. Or how about her stopping mid way through to question how he was sitting? Those are signs that most people wouldn't have picked up on. I get it, she may not be fully healed or fully in her essence, but they shouldn't try to give the world a birds eye view of how they are living until she's done working on her. She made it clear, she's not used to having a good dude, now she has one and still has areas to improve..The story would be better told when the quiet parts are told out loud because the respect is louder. Just my thoughts.
I tried watching half of this and listening but it’s a little uncomfortable watching, like she doesn’t want to talk or be there. The way she’s sitting and her hat covering her eyes, like she doesn’t want to be seen…
Watching this emotionally charged video brings back the agony of my recent breakup. My four year relationship ended abruptly when my partner walked away, leaving a deep, unhealed wound in my heart. No matter how much I try to forget, I can't seem to let go, feeling lost and unsure about my future without him. Despite my best efforts, I remain consumed by the emptiness he left behind, and I just needed to share this pain here.
It's incredibly hard to move on when someone you love becomes just a memory. I was in a similar situation when my five year relationship fell apart. I couldn’t imagine my life without him and fought endlessly to get him back. In my desperation, I reached out to a spiritual guide, who helped me restore what I thought was lost forever.
Interesting! I’m genuinely curious how did you discover this spiritual counselor, and what’s the best way for me to connect with someone who could help me in a similar way?
You should meet Fatherabulu, a highly regarded spiritual advisor who is renowned for helping people reconnect with their ex partners. His unique methods and spiritual insight have restored many broken relationships.
Thank you so much for sharing this. Your advice is invaluable, and I’m deeply grateful for pointing me in the right direction. I’ll definitely explore this and see if it helps me too.
I got teary eyed listening to Bri because I definitely understand getting through that first year and really registering that this person is not here to hurt me but love me and I’m in my own way. And then finding your way through together. It’s really a beautiful thing tho
We nearly gave up. We weren't letting each other know how we felt. We held on to our anger. Even small things became reasons to end our relationship. But eventually we found a way to communicate our feelings through a couple questions game - lovify. Things finally settled down, and we now know a lot about each other:)
I’m going through the same thing right now, we break up over the small due to a lot of build up, I hope we make it through the way you did, so you have any tips to help?
This was helpful, I cried a lot during it because I am a horrible communicator and my boyfriend is great at it. I heard so many of my flaws in you two’s explanations and I was just overwhelmed. This is the first step in me learn in to communicate. Thank you for this message.
Glad it was helpful!
My husband and I have been married 23 years and somewhere along the way we stopped communicating and are now going thru a very difficult time as result of built up anger and resentment. This episode hit home and is just what I needed to hear today. ❤thank you.
I Love that y’all was patient with each other and was willing to put in the work to make it work. At lot of people tend to end things prematurely.
Thanks you guys! This clip has really opened my eyes to how important it is to communicate with my love. I am horrible with communicating and being in love with him I found it challenging at times. I’m learning and this was a big help.. I look forward to watching more clips to help me get batter. Best wishes to you both ❤Thanks a bunch
I relate so much to Bri! I think we were raised in similar households (just from her brief explanation in the video) and I'm struggling with communicating how I feel in my current relationship. It's hard re-learning how to express myself.
Thanks for sharing!!
Omg I said the same thing “her personality is Me!” I’m doing so bad at saying what I actually mean and. understanding my person
Omg I felt what Bri said so much I had the same upbringing and it’s like when it comes to communicating we just shut down or be on defense. But it really takes time to grow and break from it! I loved this episode it’s actually opening my eyes to a lot🙌🏾
This is such a great episode! I think it’s also important to practice healthy communication in platonic relationships too. I’m not currently dating or entertaining anyone, but I’m really excited to practice these tips with my friends and family. x
I love that principle your mom allowed! All parents should do that! I also feel every child or adult should participate in a debate class
I can relate so much to bro! I never know when my wife’s upset and I do everything: cooking, cleaning, and helping with the kids. But I forget about the little things that matter, and I just coast through or put myself on auto pilot, and that’s fine for me, But not my wife and kids. Have to stop being so selfish and be more conscious and compassionate/considerate of my family
Me and my husband Travis Michaud need prayers for our communication issues. I actually have a communication disorder disability. It's listening and applying what I hear to my life and expressing my thoughts and feelings appropriately. I have had this problem all of my life. His problems are with temper and anger issues. We love each other but each of us have a different disability and it makes communicating difficult.
Thank you for sharing! It was very nice hearing this from both male and female perspectives! I been struggling with communication effectively with my partner and will take this into consideration and begin to practice changing my choice of words and tone ! 🙌🏾
Omg awe Bre & Dre thank y’all so much for the shout out! I appreciate y’all continuing to share your story. I felt so welcomed and loved at the event. Looking forward to further connecting through my ShamelessMe membership 💗
No problem!!
Dropping true gems for effective communication. This video truly blessed me and made me see effective communication in a much more positive and cognitive light. Im in gratitude to this beautiful couple ❤
1. Communication is a 2 way street. Seek to understand rather be understood until its your time to communicate. (My 2 cents)
2. Good communication is effective communication, and learn your partners love languages and communication style.
3. If you have issues in communicating, seek help and apply what you learn with the help received.
Note: it’s important to note that once you stated your love language was touch, but you can’t just do that one thing… I like he continued all the others things we need in a mate!
I really struggle with expressing what’s going on in my head. I don’t want to “ruin” our dates by bringing my feelings up but I need to remind myself that this is the only way we can grow closer.
Love the intro and the music that fades away after some time. Just gives me the good vibes to listen to y’all’s advice.❤
Definitely appreciate the inner standing. Thnx for growth & wisdom.
Wonderful to hear a couple who talk and share this information. So important and inspiring 😍
I needed this 😢❤ yall are amazing ! First time watching definitely subbing
What’s the name of the book
Thank you both for this episode! I can relate to both of you in my own relationship ours definitely mirrors yours on this topic .
Talk to win de soul ! Gospel is everywhere when it is the mission. totally agree , resonate with my thoughts for years.
Congrats for your wedding and awaiting till the day.Very Educational to others lovers.
Stay blessed my Children. All the way from Africa Tanzania, in zanzibar Island.
I feel dre, I find it challenging to feel enthusiastic about celebrating occasions like Christmas and birthdays because I don't have many material desires or needs. My girlfriend, however, wants to give me a thoughtful gift, and I'm having trouble coming up with ideas. This situation can sometimes make her feel disheartened.
How can you communicate with someone who refuses to acknowledge their actions?????
I am Bri at the moment and i cried all thru this episode because it gave me hope of saving my 13 year relationship😢❤❤❤
Thank you for the insight.. I definitely have an issue at communicating but I feel I also believe in love language differences.
Gosh!! I admire the two of you💖💖- Love all the way from Rwanda (Africa)
I love that you are talking from your real life experiences. Very encouraging. God bless.
This is really good stuff! Thank you!
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️.Liked before watching😂😂😂
thanks for watching!
I am so much like Bri I need to feel affection touchy Feely it truly makes you feel cared about. ❤🙌
Thank you for talking about this Dre and Bri♥️.
Thank you Jesus
thanks for watching!
I relate to you so much Bre! Thank y'all for this!
Hi guys, I loved this video! Can you please share the name of the book you were referring to in the video? Thanks in advance 😊
I fuck with dre. You can tell what type of man dre is just by listening to his girl.
thanks for watching!
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Waw.
Thank you for your video!
So I’ve been with my wife for 15 years and my live language is physical touch I’ve asked over the years for her to show me love that way. Even just a hug / snuggle what ever because it means so much to me. And she always says that’s just not who she is, or she’s just not like that. And it drives me crazy. I try and do the things that make her happy and I know I’m not peep, but I do try. I feel like I’m doing it wrong.. please help.
I think that's a long time to go without getting your needs for touch met.
Maybe you have to romance, pursue and date your wife more. For example, try giving/leaving her flowers or one of her favorite things for a week or help her with a chore repeatedly AND then see if she will become more affectionate toward you in gratitude. You can even playfully say that you're doing it all for the hugs/squeezes. Love begats love.
If these gestures don't help, there may be something deeper going on that may require a bit of marriage counseling. If your wife doesn't want to go with you, you should go by yourself b/c the counselor can give you tools to improve your communication and help you to navigate how your wife responds to you.
Be Blessed💜
Thank You for this video. My Wife is close to leaving Me because of this same issue i learned alot from this. I hope She doesnt leave Me i Love Her so much
Thank you for sharing this.
Great episode! I needed this today. Did you guys ever find the name of the book?
Thank You! 😌 and we will try to find it for you!
Love you 2!!!❤❤
Thanks for watching! ❤️🙌🏾
Did you find the name of the book can I please get the name ?
Greatttttt episode!!!
Thanks for watching!
Hey there what is the book please ?
I love this! Thank you
Glad you like it!
I have no idea about how to effectively communicate to my boyfriend. I’ve tried to express my feelings calmly to him but he just doesn’t receive
Okay my relationship is like it over my partner told me i don't have conversation and am like how what is conversation
And it’s ok if one person doesn’t want to celebrate birthday or gifts.. so the question is can the person who don’t care, can they be that for their partner because it’s meaningful to them and not a check the box
I think to not liking birthday celebrations or gifts comes from a place and maybe figuring that out and talk about that would open up for a solution and work together. Because giving gifts and celebrating birthday is about love. It doesn't need to be over the top. I'm sure this doesn't answer your question but it's another perspective on it 😌
Ty Bri n Dre
thanks for watching!
Thank you❤
I hope this is good but I communicate terribly with my woman and I’m not really as gentle as I use to be. Prison messed up really bad in my head and Im really working toward changing to save the love of my life
I thought i was good at communicating but after watching this i just realized how uncomfortable healthy communication really is, and naw more than ever am putting in more effort not just for my romantic relationships but also for the people around me
Thanks 🙏🏾
You’re welcome 😊 thanks for watching!
Dre get a remote thermostat and save your great hair line my brother. 😅
This is substance.! This is not shock jock broadcasting. The content you create is sustainable and created for longevity. If k.s. had focused more on sustainable material instead numbers and shock value perhaps he would still be with us. Shock is hard on the system; this content creates growth and can be referenced for years.
thanks for watching!
thank u ♥️
Happy nigth for you very lucky
I mean I watch the podcast but the first couple of minutes and when you mention how to communicate effectively and you said you had to do it through meals that’s kind of messed up because what if you’re going through hard times and you can’t do that no more you can’t go out and have meals because you’re on a tight budget that means there’s no getting through to her because of that one change in how to communicate to her effectively, you won’t be able to do as much or do at all depending on the circumstances so that’s kind of like weird to me. You have to treat somebody to a meal in order to get through to someone when speaking common sense in a relationship, where two should be understanding of one another of their needs and wants, I don’t know that sound crazy. That’s like a man saying to a woman. The only way to communicate to me is through sex other than that if that’s not happening, I don’t wanna hear anything you have to say because basically you can’t communicate to me in the way that I want you to all the way I prefer you to within you know has always double standards when it comes to the other side, sooo😌
I guess we can overlook the several times she emasculated him by making him the azz. Calling him out AGAIN on a podcast about not turning the heat on, cutting him off while he was talking several times, telling him she felt she was right when it came to Posting selective photos, then at the end telling folks that she's the fun one, but hey he is too. Or how about her stopping mid way through to question how he was sitting? Those are signs that most people wouldn't have picked up on. I get it, she may not be fully healed or fully in her essence, but they shouldn't try to give the world a birds eye view of how they are living until she's done working on her. She made it clear, she's not used to having a good dude, now she has one and still has areas to improve..The story would be better told when the quiet parts are told out loud because the respect is louder. Just my thoughts.
I tried watching half of this and listening but it’s a little uncomfortable watching, like she doesn’t want to talk or be there. The way she’s sitting and her hat covering her eyes, like she doesn’t want to be seen…
Thanks 🙏