Waited For 4 Years, Now Married For 3...Was It Worth It?! - D&B

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  • @beautyfulldrey
    @beautyfulldrey 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +73

    Good to hear others testimony . Me and my husband waited for 2 years and got married . No sex before marriage .THE BEST DECISION EVER

  • @SistahJay27
    @SistahJay27 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +57

    Premarital counseling is very important. That’s why ppl are getting so many divorces people don’t talk, just having sex.

  • @ChadVisionaire
    @ChadVisionaire 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +61

    Thank you for this! This pop up on my TH-cam feed. I believe it may have been God lol. Me and my girlfriend can relate to this because we currently our saving ourselves for marriage and been going through similar things you guys have mention. Please pray for us and again thank for you testimony 🙏🏽💙

  • @dv.harris
    @dv.harris 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +42

    I’m waiting til marriage because I love my body and soul to much just for anybody to be in it. Sex is so sacred and divine it shouldn’t be done with just anybody. I’ve had sex before (only once) but I regret since I was 18 young and naive 😢 I realized later on in life that god was right , it’s better to wait til marriage ❤ God Bless y’all!

  • @shereewhite4828
    @shereewhite4828 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    ●Thank you so much for the encouragement. I'm 56yrs young and have been divorced 23yrs. Im a born-again Christian, single and abstinent for 11yrs.
    ●I've been told that I'll never meet anyone, get married, or meet a man who'll wait until marriage for sex.
    ●I serve an awesome God! If he blessed Sarah in the Bible with a baby at age 90, surely he'll bless lil' ole me with my Boaz!

    • @sarahuzodinma4870
      @sarahuzodinma4870 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      You could join the year of the bride fast it Is really changing life

  • @Tamiilovelife
    @Tamiilovelife 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    I can always appreciate a man who can lead. Very few men turn down sex. ❤

  • @shepgip7779
    @shepgip7779 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Yes! Very well worth the wait. The spiritual alignment with God's will is worth it.

  • @deedi8452
    @deedi8452 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I was smiling ear to ear before Dre cleared that up lol 🥹! Thank you both for sharing and may God continue to bless you🥰

  • @AnnDestiny-e7u
    @AnnDestiny-e7u 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My son and daughter God's richest BLESSINGS. In this wicked system where sex is prioritized. This is the first time i came across this video. HAPPY AND WELL DONE AND WELL RESPECTED. Thanks for putting Jehovah's standard first. LOVE ALWAYS ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @2601selah
    @2601selah 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    I would like to offer some honest feedback and I mean no disrespect. I’m almost 10 minutes into this video and I feel like the title of the video has not been addressed. The conversation is all over the place. A simple question was asked.. Waited for 4 years, Now married for 3.. Was it worth it? Was it worth it? Yes or No? Almost 10 minutes into the video and I don’t have a clear answer. It’s a little frustrating.

  • @luvinliv8980
    @luvinliv8980 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This was powerful y’all! Blessings to you both 🙏🏾

  • @mysterio1570
    @mysterio1570 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I pray that you are both blessed with a long and successful life and can overcome situations for the better.

  • @IyalooTwapewaN
    @IyalooTwapewaN 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Thank you so much for this, may you both be blessed.

  • @hapshabyahyisrael9810
    @hapshabyahyisrael9810 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Even as a 65 year old female divorced after 34 years you are never too old to learn. I look back on things and understand that there were many mistakes by both of us. I was willing to work on myself but my husband didn't. We began wrong by having sex before marriage and not laying the spiritual foundation to not contaminate the marriage. All the mistakes I made I shared with my son and daughter. They both have been married for 20 years next year. Thanks for sharing. Both people have to have a spiritual relationship first. That lays the foundation that you can build on. That makes your journey able to withstand the UPS and downs. Continued blessings!❤❤❤

  • @mrbabyears
    @mrbabyears 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Men are expected to keep their word. Honor their commitment. Women, are accustomed to changing their mind. Women don't choose the wrong man, they chose their type.

  • @jennifereastmond4415
    @jennifereastmond4415 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Amen brother well spoken. Sex is not the main thing.

  • @KayLyana
    @KayLyana 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love this, God is good, his plans are perfect !!

  • @jennifereastmond4415
    @jennifereastmond4415 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    That is the way God said we should do it. Wait

  • @Kingme1love
    @Kingme1love 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    People as a whole can have issues accepting the truth not just women, this is why you have so many guys crashing out and murdering women. Just be authentic from the gate no matter who can handle it or not it’s not up to you it’s up to them to make their own choices behind what you’re bringing to the table. You don’t know what can be handled till given the opportunity and if they can’t deal that’s cool, you’re not him or her for that person.

  • @Listentomusicist
    @Listentomusicist 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Needed encouragement. Blessings!

  • @christinacheatham
    @christinacheatham 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I told God I’m doing it His way I was married for 15 years we dated 6 years before marriage 21 years together divorced 2 years now separated 1 year before divorce I have been celibate 3 years and counting

  • @loisdmichael5131
    @loisdmichael5131 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Congrats to the both of you, and God bless! Great decision!

  • @nneenaa6343
    @nneenaa6343 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Love this ❤

  • @PrincessD59
    @PrincessD59 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    D&B- 1st time coming across your channel, interesting content 👌🏽
    Just curious- how did you guys manage to be under the same roof for almost 4 years and managing to not have sex or fall into temptations?

    • @ravenvdukes
      @ravenvdukes 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      YES!!!! PLEASSSEEEEEE BE OPEN AND LET US KNOOOOWWWW

  • @nadinewalker9375
    @nadinewalker9375 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    You was his wife before you all got married. The Bible says he that finds a “wife” so you was a wife you just didn’t know who the husband was yet.

  • @sankhar2484
    @sankhar2484 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Really really nice. Blessings in abundance!!! Profound!!!

  • @jennifereastmond4415
    @jennifereastmond4415 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    God Bless you both.

  • @angelamartin6211
    @angelamartin6211 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    so happy to see yall you was missed

  • @nikkymathews1981
    @nikkymathews1981 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You could definitely see she didn’t have pants on in the tv 😂 I’m definitely waiting until I get married 🙏🏾

  • @jennifereastmond4415
    @jennifereastmond4415 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Sadly I am 59 yrs old and I never waited and I made many mistakes. If I could do it over again I would wait. Giving it up before marriage men don't tend to respect you and your value as a woman goes out the window. Men don't look at the heart they mostly look at your body.

    • @elsiemeade3857
      @elsiemeade3857 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Me too I should have waited. But thank God for his mercy and grace.

  • @dexkato7329
    @dexkato7329 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    People place too much emphasis on sex in a relationship. Just let the relationship develop organically.

  • @MikaAKAJada
    @MikaAKAJada 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thumbnail alone, smart couple.

  • @Jmunozlive
    @Jmunozlive 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    You lived with one another, but waited...?

    • @kimberlyturner820
      @kimberlyturner820 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Maybe it's possible.

    • @Lealea883
      @Lealea883 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah and then she’s not wearing pants and shaking that booty in the reflection, I don’t know … 😂

    • @lilyd47
      @lilyd47 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Fr tho heyy. mmm more power to them. No wonder the many fights. Just jokinh😂❤

  • @shannelnewton9236
    @shannelnewton9236 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes, girl. It’s cute.. I am excited to watch your channel for the first time/

  • @jennifereastmond4415
    @jennifereastmond4415 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The best decision

  • @LadyDee8118
    @LadyDee8118 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I appreciate your video so much. I am much older than you two but I appreciate your wisdom and transparency in this video. I am currently in a long distance relationship; however that didn't stop my interactions with my partner. But recently due to a career change for my significant other (a private answered prayer to God) we began to "see" less of each other. I'm fine with the pause because (deep down I wanted to stop relations altogether until marriage). But he's having a hard time with the break or pause. I don't know how to bring up the fact that I don't want to resume sex unless and until we are married. 😂😂backwards I know. Any suggestions as to how I can approach the topic?? Naturally, because it has been six months since our last encounter he's more impatient than I am. As I stated I'm fine with waiting until we actually get married. I need to be sure that commitment and love is the foundation not sex primarily. And we are an old couple...😂😂😂but I welcome wisdom at any age

    • @gintoki_sakata__
      @gintoki_sakata__ 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Break up with him. That way he finds someone that doesn't play games and you find someone who thinks what you're doing is great

    • @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473
      @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      @@gintoki_sakata__ how is she playing games? you negative red pillers are everywhere spewing your hate.. People have a right to change their mind especially when they are NOT married,

    • @elsiemeade3857
      @elsiemeade3857 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Praying to God for direction is very important. No more sex. If he loves you he should marry you. 6 months is long enough. Please pray for direction from God. He will not respect you if you keep having sex.

    • @LadyDee8118
      @LadyDee8118 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @elsiemeade3857 thank you

    • @LadyDee8118
      @LadyDee8118 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 thank you

  • @destinbenning8207
    @destinbenning8207 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    GOD 👑👑👑 Bless This Very Obedient Strong 💪🏾 Intelligent 🙌🏾 Beautiful Queen 🥰👑 And Wise 🙏🏾 King 🥰👑 Thank You For Obeying THE ONLY LIVING GOD👑👑👑 AND MOST HIGH AND GOD Congratulations 🙌🏾 And Blessings 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Forever ❤

  • @shelia3841
    @shelia3841 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i’m a 16 year widow believing God for my soulmate

  • @4SpanishAngel
    @4SpanishAngel 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You guys are too cute!!😊

  • @BigCrossVita
    @BigCrossVita 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    as soon as he said 500sqft, I remembered y'all from Dear Future Wifey 😂🙌🏽🖤♥️

  • @lilyd47
    @lilyd47 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey at my age, can't wait that long yeiii 😂 more grace ❤

  • @patricialouisrealtor5660
    @patricialouisrealtor5660 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Where do single women go to find men of God who want to wait? It's becoming impossible. I want to meet like-minded men. Meeting women with the same Christian mindset is easy. However, like-minded men?! Send help😮😢

    • @simply_sophia
      @simply_sophia 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Right?!

    • @asanelekoyana
      @asanelekoyana 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You don’t have to go find a man. The Lord will bring the man to you when the time is right. Also keep in mind that not everyone is going to get married, so you need to seek God instead of seeking men and relationships.

    • @devinrhines1250
      @devinrhines1250 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      In a Christ and Bible Centered Church. You’ll find many!

  • @maryamk.5733
    @maryamk.5733 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love y'all ❤❤❤ thank you !!!!

  • @brianna32185
    @brianna32185 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amen, Bre!!💜

  • @rhodalinagyei524
    @rhodalinagyei524 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Waited for 9 yrs and now we have broken up because he says he can’t wait anymore

    • @girlained
      @girlained 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Why aren't you both married yet? Nine years is a very long time to be in a relationship.

  • @tyneriarowe7390
    @tyneriarowe7390 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He's right the baby is in him. The seed

  • @lindaaugust703
    @lindaaugust703 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Amen 🙏 great

  • @shanj8140
    @shanj8140 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sounds like she trying to tell u she's pregnant 🤰🏾 😆

  • @theresatoomer5578
    @theresatoomer5578 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Abstinence is a good thing to do before marriage. The Bible says it is good for a man to not touch a woman until they are married. This leads to fornication if sex does not stay in the boundaries of marriage.

  • @michellelogan9177
    @michellelogan9177 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🖤🤎🖤

  • @mackw919
    @mackw919 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This is cringe

  • @solomonndungu2011
    @solomonndungu2011 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Steve Harvey say, ladies should make a man wait at least for 3 months.

    • @MH_Prof
      @MH_Prof 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

    • @solomonndungu2011
      @solomonndungu2011 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@MH_Prof in the book think like a man, act like a lady