I think I'm gonna just stay single. Just don't want to deal with crap like this... I need someone that's mature and knows what he wants. I got things to do...
This part ~~~> "You have to be willing to protect yourself even when it feels like you're depriving yourself, bc a lot of the time what you want doesn't deserve you, even if what you want would feel good if you had it." 💯💥 Been there, lived this. 🙁
He confuses me with telling me he wants me to be happy. Maybe we can be friends, not my intention to hurt you, but yet he continues with all these red flags, makes promises. Shuts his phone off. Gets jealous if I take steps to open up my horizons, wanted me to stretch my boundaries.
😅 i started dating outside my race last few year. I've dated a few black men and they have been my worst experiences. I get why alot of black women are so strong and independent. They make you that way ❤
What happened to integrity, morals and values, theses days people don't understand self respect...I give you credit for speaking up about this....👏 not many men would speak up...thank you 💞 much love and light 💯
Wheeeew; I was the 'waiter' off and on for three years however once I finally decided to go no contact heaven and earth has been moved but glory be to God I have not reacted at all and dodging the hoovers as if they were covid! Breaking the dysfunction; moving forward and healing!🦋
Thank you derrick I did the 5am class and I wanna tell you how everyday I'm GOING to call my pops to let him no how thankful I am some times you have to go threw bad experience to appreciate your parents 36 years of marriage also who you or as a female and how people would try to make you look bad for not giving up on trying to make it work in the moment while I'm going threw this I'm taking it all as a lesson unselfishly I been saying if I'm not the right one at least I rather leave a memory that well one day help him wake up also the class helped me with making sure I pure beautiful experience into my daughter so shes able to separate what is and isn't the class to me was gods divine plan it's god me my daughter then a men if marriage come god my husband then my kids thank you so much
Oh my god!! They even get MARRIED and try to come back!! Like what the hell Big D! He should have kept me on his hip like a holster when he had the chance. Obviously, he didn't realize the "KEEPER" I am....umm his lost!!😄
Thank you for the clarity on this. So, I did the right thing and killed the damn thing. Shot it right between the eye's😄 now let's keep moving and bury the dead, heal while we at it to. Ask mama earth for forgiveness.
I love you derrick until now he gosht him and block me im just like talking a wall im a good woman i love your all podcast i really appreciate you derrick ❤️♥️💖all your podcast
Can you make a video on why men leave, thinkin they can get better and then end up with younger girls.. like 15 yrs younger, is that insecurity and just a mid life crisis..
I lobve my ghost i love him so much but im hurting for 2 years i tried to leave but i couldnt i wanna go but i wonder if im gonna forget i just love him i wonder if im ever find love again
If you ghost me...you stay gone.
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
yep!
Right 👍
Amen
IKR
He can’t get nothing better. When your the best thing happened to him in the first place
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ .ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
I think I'm gonna just stay single. Just don't want to deal with crap like this... I need someone that's mature and knows what he wants. I got things to do...
That part!
💯
Me too
You said nothing but the TRUTH!!!! Smdh 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️💯💯💯
That's what I'm saying.
I will NOT accept any thing less... Progress is my mission...Moving forward
That's what we have to do,love ourselves and get up from a table that's not serving love and respect.
Even if I have to walk this journey alone. No more runners/ ghosters
Lisa....Lisa...girrrl you said a mouth FULL, you hear me! Team Lisa everybody, team Lisa!🤛🏼
Team Lisa 🤜🤛
Best response, I used was "there's nothing for you to pursue here", always shocked and effective.
Love that!
This part ~~~> "You have to be willing to protect yourself even when it feels like you're depriving yourself, bc a lot of the time what you want doesn't deserve you, even if what you want would feel good if you had it." 💯💥 Been there, lived this. 🙁
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ .ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
He confuses me with telling me he wants me to be happy. Maybe we can be friends, not my intention to hurt you, but yet he continues with all these red flags, makes promises. Shuts his phone off. Gets jealous if I take steps to open up my horizons, wanted me to stretch my boundaries.
Because he burned bridges with all of his other options.
To be fair... it's mostly black men that behave this way. I'm dating other races seriously and they are not like this.
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Exactly, I wonder what it is
It doesn't matter what race. Broken narcissistic men come in all races. I know of many white guys that are like this.
So true
😅 i started dating outside my race last few year. I've dated a few black men and they have been my worst experiences. I get why alot of black women are so strong and independent. They make you that way ❤
When someone ghost you Respect the dead !
I deserve to be loved properly
Absolutely I feel the same way..
There is something in the water 💧 or maybe he’s just a Virgo… but I’m done with the ghosting it’s so disrespectful. 👁🦂😱
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ.
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ .ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Dating pool is tainted I think with c-dif ugh
Yup mine is Virgo too
Virgo did the same to me
I was ghosted. This frog fell off the face of the earth..
One and done..
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
I'm a walker,period, people say I'm mean because I will walk away from anyone and anything that doesn't bring me peace and respect 💯
I WAS the waiter, but NOT👏ANY👏MORE👏
Me Also, but no more‼️💯✊🏽👊🏽💪🏽
Me too back in the day but no more. I an too good for that
Me too
Me as well
What happened to integrity, morals and values, theses days people don't understand self respect...I give you credit for speaking up about this....👏 not many men would speak up...thank you 💞 much love and light 💯
Yes you so right it's better to be alone.
Wheeeew; I was the 'waiter' off and on for three years however once I finally decided to go no contact heaven and earth has been moved but glory be to God I have not reacted at all and dodging the hoovers as if they were covid! Breaking the dysfunction; moving forward and healing!🦋
Thank you for this confirmation. I just recently became a walker...
Derrick I just adore how your so real.
Now I know how the end of the world will happen. Eventually Nobody is going to want to be with each other.
😅👌👌👌
We are behaving awfully to each other 😢
I’ve now become a Speed Walker and Thank You for opening my naive green eyes‼️🧐🤨💥👟❤️🩹
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Non-negotiable!!!!!
Thank you for this !!!!
Thanks for the video you always give good messages! 💯
Love it, you’re on point
You are such a blessing. Thank you.
Whelp…I have been the waiter and wasted a ton of my prime years 🙄. I’m thankful for the healing journey I have taken. It literally can’t happen again.
Derreiccccckkkkk you showlll is preaching 🙌
Thank you, I needed to hear this. ❤️
Loved this
This channel is gold!
I just woke up. I was a waiter, thank you! This is the most life changing video for me
Thank you I enjoyed this video
Thank you Derrick! There’s a reason I came across this!
Exactly you’re speaking fact’s and keeping it 💯 I ❤️ it
Derrick you're absolutely right.
thanks for talking on this. spinning the block is the new pandemic.
I needed to hear this tonight!
Excellent content much appreciated
This really brings clarity
Thank you so much 🙏
This jus happened to me. I thought we was good
No way in hail!!!!!! I'm on to NEW NEW NEW
Great video!
❤you are right on point!
Thank you❤❤❤
This is exactly what I needed to hear right now! Thank you 💚💚💚
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Same 💚
They are using you as a safety net if they fall great message
I'm a "Walker" for sure! 🙏🏽
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Thank you derrick I did the 5am class and I wanna tell you how everyday I'm GOING to call my pops to let him no how thankful I am some times you have to go threw bad experience to appreciate your parents 36 years of marriage also who you or as a female and how people would try to make you look bad for not giving up on trying to make it work in the moment while I'm going threw this I'm taking it all as a lesson unselfishly I been saying if I'm not the right one at least I rather leave a memory that well one day help him wake up also the class helped me with making sure I pure beautiful experience into my daughter so shes able to separate what is and isn't the class to me was gods divine plan it's god me my daughter then a men if marriage come god my husband then my kids thank you so much
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
I love you so much Derrick ❤️❤️
Me! The Walker. Learned late, but learned. And it feels oh, so good. FREEDOM!!!!!!!!!
Been there!! Exactly..
Your videos help me so much... I can relate to almost everything you've spoken on here. 💜
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ .ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
I love you guys so much ❤️❤️
Great job, Mr. Jaxn👍✂️them off!
Cut them off, like a light switch, and don't think nothing of it.
I pray for him to move forward with his life God have all the power no more going backwards (babydaddy)
Felt this
Dsmn! The waiter was me! Ugh! Thank you for this!
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Oh my god!! They even get MARRIED and try to come back!! Like what the hell Big D! He should have kept me on his hip like a holster when he had the chance. Obviously, he didn't realize the "KEEPER" I am....umm his lost!!😄
Straight ✊👍
Start to finish . . .👍
Yessssssss these dudes are a mess out here like are you serious STAY GONE PUDDIN like da fuq 🤔
Always on point
I'm now really scared of men and dating.......
Yes. They are everywhere
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Thank you
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Thank you for the clarity on this. So, I did the right thing and killed the damn thing. Shot it right between the eye's😄 now let's keep moving and bury the dead, heal while we at it to. Ask mama earth for forgiveness.
That’s last part was deep for me
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ .ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Someone tell me why I had a Walking Dead video game ad pop up in the middle of the video...🧐
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Just come to reality!😳
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ .ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
It seems like a good chance for closure, but definitely a chance for more manipulation. Love sucks.
True True
Treat them like the walking dead! 🙌
This! 🙌
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ .ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Sometimes it can be fear...of wearing a jumpsuit and loafers for the rest of my life.
Walking!!!
i have one of these!!!
I love you derrick until now he gosht him and block me im just like talking a wall im a good woman i love your all podcast i really appreciate you derrick ❤️♥️💖all your podcast
Facts
He can stay gone ,,,, please !!!!!
Stay gone ghoster
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
Im a proud walker!
Keep walking! Be gone ghost
Oh great, I’m a waiter . Daaamn
Nothing in the relationship graveyard but GHOSTS!
Shouldn't of hurt her. He's outta luck
Can you make a video on why men leave, thinkin they can get better and then end up with younger girls.. like 15 yrs younger, is that insecurity and just a mid life crisis..
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
I think my ghosting was the 4th one thanks
But why does he ghost me ?oh happy belated birthday really like your vidieos
I lobve my ghost i love him so much but im hurting for 2 years i tried to leave but i couldnt i wanna go but i wonder if im gonna forget i just love him i wonder if im ever find love again
You will
My deal unto the opposite sex is this Ghost/Reject me once I'll Ghost/Reject you an entire lifetime!
Yes, they are on the rise. Sick of the games😖
It’s more of them than we think
If you ghosting me, that means you're dead 💀 they called them ghost for a reason
Derrick how can I get on to you privately please 🙏🏿.
What if he was honest about being busy, getting his Masters, work, his kids..etc.. I'm thinking still no excuse
My bf for 1 year ghosted me out of the blue and blocked me without any words at all he just disappeard and blocked me.
Move on and never go back girl 😊he sucks
What😢
Off topic. I see your fit. Muscle bound. Do you have a workout channel too
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
👌
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ.
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ .ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ
What's the walker. Runner. Merry go around ???
👆👆ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ .ᴛᴀʟᴋ ɴᴏᴡ 📝👆
ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ʀᴇᴠɪᴇᴡᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀᴘᴘʀᴇᴄɪᴀᴛᴇᴅ