He ghosts and returns! | Talks with Tony

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  • @jewelsafire6844
    @jewelsafire6844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +796

    Men who ghost or come in & out your life are EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE. Cut✂ him off as soon as the games begin. Since he wanna play👻, treat him like he's dead. Showing him is better than telling him. DELETE, BLOCK, & MOVE ON!✌🏽🙌🏽

    • @virtuous_committed
      @virtuous_committed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      That's the truth. They can definitely feel your actions versus hearing you talk.

    • @kimberlypettway9692
      @kimberlypettway9692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Well said...I was ghosted back in novembet last year and mistet reappeared sept this year. And baby my cut off game amazed me. Didnt even break a sweat!

    • @jewelsafire6844
      @jewelsafire6844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@kimberlypettway9692 Alright now!👆🏽 Bet he wasn't expecting that.😁🙌🏽✌🏽👋🏽🪓✂

    • @sunshinestar5141
      @sunshinestar5141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💯💣

    • @krystalricciardi7776
      @krystalricciardi7776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      One time I was talking to a guy and the last time I spoke to him he was talking about how he got addicted to drugs again and almost overdosed so then I said oh nah I can’t fuck with that I’m not interested and he never messaged back so I thought he died. A yr later he messaged me apologizing for ghosting me and I was like 👀 I thought you overdosed and died bro and he was like that’s fucked up you would assume that, you shouldn’t assume somebody died if they don’t text you back 💀💀🤣

  • @jillainenewman1358
    @jillainenewman1358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    Never never take back a ghost! If a man treats you like that, he's not good enough for you.

  • @candracurryofficial
    @candracurryofficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +447

    When someone shows you they don’t appreciate you and your precious anointing show them you value yourself enough to walk away and know your worth!

    • @angeliquechronicles3579
      @angeliquechronicles3579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes I had to do this mind games not with that men in their 50’s grown boy tried to have mask like he had it together. I can’t settle told him silent treatment when you set boundaries an my expectations as Queen.

  • @jackksterr
    @jackksterr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +350

    I 100% agree with you Tony! I couldn’t help but laugh when you suggested she burn her phone next time he contacts her 😂 I don’t understand why a lot of ppl like to play mind games either. If someone ghosts you, have a mental funeral in your head about that person & move forward! I couldn’t see myself taking a guy seriously who comes in & out my life as he pleases. Hell no! I have too much dignity to let these fools play games with me. If I go no contact on somebody, it’s bc I’m DONE. So if any guy ever ghosted me, I delete & block him off anything & everything and cut my losses. Too many ppl in this world to only stress about one person who did me dirty. One thing about these tables, they turn! 💯me settling for less than I deserve is basically telling God I don’t trust he has better for me! The devil is liar!

    • @almam2133
      @almam2133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Girlfriend is taking us to church! Teach on sister 👊🏼

    • @octaviapratt4285
      @octaviapratt4285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      EXACTLY! SELF WORTH

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      YOU SAID A MOUTHFUL MISS MA'AM, AINT THAT GODS HONEST TRUTH. PREACHHHHHH🗣🗣🗣🗣

    • @ashleym6765
      @ashleym6765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Mental funeral 👏

    • @nataliet.3023
      @nataliet.3023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Exactly, some men just be trying to play preschool games, with the in and out. Cause when I ghost somebody I'm not coming back. I meant that ghosting 👻👻

  • @stilljocelyn4166
    @stilljocelyn4166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    Men really don’t heal, newly divorced, PTSD, super emotional! This man does not need to date anyone period.

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Especially if the women left them..men can never get over women that leave them so every women they meet they take it out on

  • @je39981
    @je39981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    Going ghost is the fastest way to get blocked. By then I already forgot and moving on with my life. One guy pulled that a year ago as we both agree for a phone appointment at 6:30 p.m. and he never called. I just deleted the text message thread and went about my business and weeks later he tried to send in a message. Went on about my business. "Got tuh go !" (Tony Gaskins voice)

    • @missunderstood3721
      @missunderstood3721 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love it🤣😝🥰💞🙌

    • @shinebabyshine.
      @shinebabyshine. ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Damn sis I’m trying to get like youuuuu 💕🌞

    • @shinebabyshine.
      @shinebabyshine. ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She said she deleted the thread and went about her business 😅

  • @BeBeautifullyYou
    @BeBeautifullyYou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +467

    When you keep your cookie, it’s so much easier to move on when things burn! Smack your lips and clack your heels!

  • @michperezzz
    @michperezzz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    He seems like he gets upset when he doesn’t get his way. Keep it moving sis. You’re determined & thriving. You’re better off waiting for the right one. 👏🏽👏🏽

  • @glendanesmith
    @glendanesmith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    This is the first video where someone stayed off their back!! ♥️♥️🙌🏽

    • @Glamrocs
      @Glamrocs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      For real 😉 because they usually write in after laying on their backs and the man stop acting right for the cobbler 🧐

    • @tawanapowell34
      @tawanapowell34 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Right!🤣🤣🤣👍🏾

    • @allainsasha
      @allainsasha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💀💀💀

  • @officialwatchamber
    @officialwatchamber 3 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    I’m proud of sis for staying off her back & keeping her word!! We are learning Tony!! Lol 💖💖💖

    • @officialwatchamber
      @officialwatchamber 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@LA-wv7gf 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

    • @dunsbeautifulpeople
      @dunsbeautifulpeople 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen 🧎🏾‍♀️

    • @Denise_Cocoa
      @Denise_Cocoa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yesss we are listening and we are learning!!!

    • @ShiaGirl18
      @ShiaGirl18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are beautiful!

  • @meauxjojo
    @meauxjojo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    Sis said, “this is chess never checkers” and I am not mad at it! He was clearly looking for a jump off and she was not with it. I’m proud of her!

  • @taurahelms3068
    @taurahelms3068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    She was wasting her time. If a man wants to be with you in a serious way he is not going to disappear for that long. He thinks she is s pushover and doesn't take her seriously.

  • @SLBMcMillan
    @SLBMcMillan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    He ghosts you once, you have to go! Thank you, Tony!

  • @georgiasnell4342
    @georgiasnell4342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Say what you mean, and mean what you say, because a Man will test you, trust and believe SISTA'S I KNOW!!!

  • @pooh4025
    @pooh4025 3 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    He thought he was going to have a long distance hookup at his convenience.

    • @IamKarryanne
      @IamKarryanne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Exactly

    • @gigibrown_wright
      @gigibrown_wright 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yes! Tony helps us see these coming a mile away!

    • @debmccafferty1007
      @debmccafferty1007 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I had a doomed LDR. Very shady communicating tipped me off.

  • @nancyb6597
    @nancyb6597 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Do Not Online Date Ever Again!

  • @mechelleharvey5265
    @mechelleharvey5265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    People make time for what the want . if you make 3 videos im watching all 3!

    • @s.r.125
      @s.r.125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly!

    • @berthaeliascreative9178
      @berthaeliascreative9178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Word!!!

    • @shellyannrichards6565
      @shellyannrichards6565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too - I will be watching

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Facts, back to back ,now what Tony will say is my default mode, cos I've listened to so many videos, I can call game from a distance

  • @dianariley1067
    @dianariley1067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    "Don't make threats, keep promises. "
    ❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @curtistinemiller4646
    @curtistinemiller4646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Ghosting ,just shows you who a person really is,when they return ,stay gone no one is a toy,Ghosters are just cowards.....

  • @BP-fh8np
    @BP-fh8np 3 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    2 weeks and I don't hear from you would've turned into forever, BLOCKED!

    • @lashondarochell7584
      @lashondarochell7584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Already!!! I will block a man in a ❤️ beat😩😩😩

    • @yolandamdubois
      @yolandamdubois 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      FACTS!!!!!!

    • @omoukponihenyen676
      @omoukponihenyen676 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You’re nice. Mine is 3 Fausto 1 week

  • @juicyfruit4709
    @juicyfruit4709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Ain't nobody in there right minds got time for no ghosts😎😎 # RED FLAGS RUN🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

  • @blacksongbird100
    @blacksongbird100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Yup. Bc of you Tony, I told a guy (who disappeared) that I would not reach out to him anymore. I stuck to my word. He reached out a few days ago (after 6 weeks). I responded (bc he reached out) but I pretty much let him know that I'm done and wished him luck. I only knew what to do and had the courage to walk bc of your teaching Tony. Thanks!!

  • @ShermekaG
    @ShermekaG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    By him not contacting her for those two weeks. it was his way of getting back at her for not getting what he wanted from her.

    • @KR-XtremeAlchemist
      @KR-XtremeAlchemist 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Had one of those! Damn narcissist! 😱

    • @CH-jd9gf
      @CH-jd9gf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes!

    • @CH-jd9gf
      @CH-jd9gf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@KR-XtremeAlchemist I unmasked the clown. Scary!

    • @lovettesmith8196
      @lovettesmith8196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      That is why a lady shouldn't give her body out. Nothing to loose if he ghost you. 100% mad because you didn't serve him your cookie.😂😂😂

    • @rae2457
      @rae2457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is so true .

  • @tiffanyjohnson4271
    @tiffanyjohnson4271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Wow..This was right on time..i got a message from a ghoster today!

  • @VintageAfro91
    @VintageAfro91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    This is a great way to see a man’s true colors. Closed legs brings clarity. ✨
    Side Note: I didn’t know Bumble was set up for women to make the first move. Ugh! Lol

    • @MichElle-py8lk
      @MichElle-py8lk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      It's an awful site!

    • @khocolateable
      @khocolateable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me either lol

    • @officialwatchamber
      @officialwatchamber 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes I used to be on there. I’ve since deleted ALLLL my accounts lol. And yea 🗣keep ya legs closed

    • @MichElle-py8lk
      @MichElle-py8lk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@officialwatchamber yes I used to be on all of them as well!!! Like literally ALL!! lol Thank God I am free from online dating. And yes will definitely keeping my legs closed too hahaha

    • @shellyannrichards6565
      @shellyannrichards6565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Jessica... I didn't know Bumble was like that.

  • @Jusleen0403
    @Jusleen0403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Can we be proud of this sister who stood off her back! Yessss girlll!!! 🙌🏽💯.

  • @agelessbeauty9136
    @agelessbeauty9136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    The only place I can get knowledge and laughter at the same time..God bless you Tony!!

    • @mihaelag.2011
      @mihaelag.2011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The best, right! And his advices will produce their effects in more and more lives! 🙏

    • @kelleybright3113
      @kelleybright3113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love this king i swear...

  • @kaylee2010
    @kaylee2010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Met a narcissist on a dating site. Worst situation i been in. Your right about dating sites.

    • @ssyynnn
      @ssyynnn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Dating sites are every narcissist playground.

    • @kaylee2010
      @kaylee2010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@ssyynnn no joke. Live and learned.

    • @herndontaisha3795
      @herndontaisha3795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As if you don't encounter them in real life

    • @kaylee2010
      @kaylee2010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@herndontaisha3795fyi my whole life is my real life.

    • @joiagenae
      @joiagenae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ABSOLUTELY!

  • @elizabethschilling7178
    @elizabethschilling7178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    After the first time ghosting me, got to go, there wouldn't be a 2nd chance, period!!

    • @msolovallos209
      @msolovallos209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I was messing with a dude and he ghost me for two months, I reached out because I had deleted him on FB and felt bad and that’s why I reached out. After, two month we met again and I thought we were good and last Wednesday, he stopped texting back. So, I guess he is ghosting me again. At first, I was kinda hurt, but I figured it out that it was not my problem and it’s on him. I try to find out if he was ok, and didn’t respond. So, bye Felipe.. lol

    • @crystalmarcia2614
      @crystalmarcia2614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Period!!

    • @lovettesmith8196
      @lovettesmith8196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly Liz.

  • @glynistart7623
    @glynistart7623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    There is a good reason why HIS EX WIFE divorced HIM!

    • @nancyb6597
      @nancyb6597 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Amen Sis!!

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      💯

    • @lashondarochell7584
      @lashondarochell7584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Already!!! She needs to block and hit delete, point blank periodd!!!!

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Facts only 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

    • @jesuswilljudge7296
      @jesuswilljudge7296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My ex left me, now hes divorced lol

  • @a.8774
    @a.8774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    The best way to deal with a ghost is to leave it in the afterlife; SELAH 🙏🏽

    • @vickglampshousvicky
      @vickglampshousvicky 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Purrrrr💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾

  • @3D3LIA
    @3D3LIA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I love this man 🤣🤣🤣 everyone needs a Tony in their life! Every time Tony reads the email it’s almost like we react the same way to the same parts. I spend most of my time saying , “Molly you’re in trouble girl! “ or “ really 🙄”....

  • @peaceful_and_blessed2879
    @peaceful_and_blessed2879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I’m really enjoying my single season and have no desire to date yet, but I still haven’t missed a video in six months! Tony is thee best coach out here! The most relatable, sincere and humorous! 🙏🏻🙌

  • @reinaquisha9418
    @reinaquisha9418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    "Lemme put my good eye on you"👀👀👀
    "Lemme try my other eye"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
    Thank you Tony 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @avianne
    @avianne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    "Dumble...fumble crumble". 😂

    • @nancyb6597
      @nancyb6597 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @msshay421
      @msshay421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can’t stand Tony 🤣🤣😭

  • @missj5564
    @missj5564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    That ptsd kicking in too much, plus she is not giving him any sex, leave him alone.

  • @Dr.Elaine1
    @Dr.Elaine1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    “Your answer is what you told him.” TG

  • @bdavis7106
    @bdavis7106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    My day ain’t right without a message from Tony. God bless

  • @open2417
    @open2417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This is why I stay nice and single. Was married for 14 years to a man with mental illness, divorced for 11, went out with a few guys in these years and all of them a hot mess. Lol. I enjoy my peace, health and sanity. ✌🏽
    Thanks for the great advice, Tony!

    • @zen_mindset1
      @zen_mindset1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sorry love....can't blame you.

  • @BreeziDeezi
    @BreeziDeezi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I sometimes find myself fussing at myself when I hear these things and realize I did the same thing. But the great thing is : it’s never too late for a fresh start. Thank God for being spared , no kids no stds. And start OVER. Don’t look back 💚

  • @kokoluv21
    @kokoluv21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I will watch however many videos you post in a day 🤣🤣

  • @Michd0417
    @Michd0417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Mannn no disrespect to the sane military peeps out there but I’m here to say I have been treated poorly by 2 ex military men I dated. Love bombing in the beginning, then moodiness & ghosting. It hurt like hell bc they seemed so cool, convinced me they were ready for a relationship but the minute they weren’t happy they got quiet and gas lighting, no talking. That stuff is a form of emotional abuse. Never again. I had to do the work to see why I might have allowed that in my life & focused on my emotional health.

  • @queenesterish
    @queenesterish 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Take it from me. Leave him alone. His PTSD will get worse if you continue in the relationship. I was married to someone with PTSD in the military. You do not want them problems sis!

    • @kemi9031
      @kemi9031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      PREACH!! Your comment is confirmation. My ex is a military veteran with PTSD and he was the worst nightmare to deal with. Any time you try to talk to him, he throws temper tantrums, yells and acts irrational. Awful person to be around. Thank God he's gone

    • @laurenlocd3180
      @laurenlocd3180 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They are crazy my former step father was one . Him and his kids were crazy . My mom divorced him FAST!!!!!

  • @NadeenHope
    @NadeenHope 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This man is reading maaaa mind. Been waiting on this one.

  • @officialwatchamber
    @officialwatchamber 3 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    Dumble.... Fumble.... Crumble.... 😩😩😩 Stay offline dating ladies 📝📝📝

    • @munix9351
      @munix9351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      We don't listen🤭🙄🙄

    • @officialwatchamber
      @officialwatchamber 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@munix9351 right girl! I had to learn the hard way 😡

    • @munix9351
      @munix9351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@officialwatchamber I think we are so lazy as women in that area. We don't make time to live our lives. So jumping on an app is so much easier.

    • @jinjinldn2163
      @jinjinldn2163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What’s wrong with online?

    • @godsprincess465
      @godsprincess465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed

  • @cheekscheeks5840
    @cheekscheeks5840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Thank you for however many videos you do. Not complaining at all it’s your time and my knowledge I’m gaining 💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @LadyAngela678
    @LadyAngela678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    He hasn’t talked to her in 4 weeks. It’s obviously over. I don’t understand how she still has questions?? 🤔

    • @saraalbouji
      @saraalbouji 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right? Oxytocin dopamine w.e it is, is powerful.makes logic go out the window

    • @laurenlocd3180
      @laurenlocd3180 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Wealthybaby
    @Wealthybaby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Two minutes in I was like somebody’s sexually frustrated 😂😂 and he’s fresh out of a marriage, prior military and ptsd...BIG NOPE. At least for me... alright I’m back to listening 👂 lol

    • @godsprincess465
      @godsprincess465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes he needs time to heal before another relationship.

    • @KR-XtremeAlchemist
      @KR-XtremeAlchemist 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@godsprincess465
      Yes he does. Chances are he won’t!

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They rarely if ever do… the military does a number on them and messing with their reality for the rest of their life

  • @lisasmilez
    @lisasmilez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    I wish we had updates on these ladies from talks with Tony. I wanna know what happens after they hear his advice. I want closure lol.

  • @takeysha4
    @takeysha4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    📢Once you go ghost stay ghost No time for extra baggage 🚫

  • @natashapatterson452
    @natashapatterson452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    This sounds exactly like a Scorpio I dealt with. He ghosted and I didn’t reach out because I specifically said I wasn’t going to tolerate ghosting and lack of communication.

    • @laquattalove8594
      @laquattalove8594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Natasha Patterson wow so is it in their nature to be that way?

    • @minggi_
      @minggi_ ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly. I didn't chase him and months later he came back like nothing happened so I Ghost him back.

  • @sylviasalcedo8569
    @sylviasalcedo8569 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Ex military, divorced, goes ghost, on line dating, and he's cranky??!! Lots of red flags. Lesson 1: do not on line date. 2. Cause you grown and you gonna do what you want, don't go to one that uproots the natural order. 2. Keep legs closed 3. Out of town, get a hotel. 4. Watch red flags 5. Grab your purse and don't play the fool. Got it!! Thank you for your wisdom, Tony!

  • @Jazzzzzy007
    @Jazzzzzy007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    The earbuds as a purse gets me every time 😂 😂

  • @GlendaLove
    @GlendaLove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I knew from the first time she said he caught an attitude and ghosted her she wasn't sleeping with him. That's how these men do. She need to gone bout her business.

  • @toriyt2714
    @toriyt2714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I think he was trying see if the two weeks was going to make her desperate to come off it. He also thought making it exclusive she might come off it. So when they saw each other after and she still didn’t come off none he said okay. He not in a place to wait or he don’t see it in waiting on her. You’ll be on the roster.

    • @lashondarochell7584
      @lashondarochell7584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      You broke that all the way down sis, stating nothing but FACTS!! She threw him off his game.

    • @nolalmills7762
      @nolalmills7762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      100% facts!

    • @ClowneryAtItsFinest
      @ClowneryAtItsFinest 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Damn!
      Sis, analyzing this whole situation..... I think you’re right though!

  • @aliciawoods8925
    @aliciawoods8925 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Men do approach you even with your mask on lol. I started a new job and the men are always flirting with me even with my mask on lol. This guy wanted to see how I looked without my mask lol.. he started smiling suuuper hard when I pulled my mask down lol. So yes a man can tell if they are attracted to you even with your mask on.

  • @yr_girl_jade
    @yr_girl_jade 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Early Squad where y'all at???? 🙌🏽 Thank you Tony for your daily vids 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @kokoluv21
      @kokoluv21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Right chea!! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @officialwatchamber
      @officialwatchamber 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey hey!!!! Yes we need it 😆💖💖

    • @Getitgirl816
      @Getitgirl816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Present! 🤚🏾

    • @yr_girl_jade
      @yr_girl_jade 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@officialwatchamber Right, I know I sure do! 🙌🏽

    • @yr_girl_jade
      @yr_girl_jade 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@officialwatchamber We are all so blessed to have access to Tony as we are blessed with so much knowledge. 🙌🏽🤍💕

  • @Deferred123
    @Deferred123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I am constantly refreshing my TH-cam app to see if there is a new video and then I go to your channel just to make sure I didn’t miss it 😂. If for my disappointment there’s none, I listen to the old ones. I gotta get your lessons TATTOOED in my brain and spirit. You are very appreciated, God bless you always and forever.

  • @Tatianarain
    @Tatianarain 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    You'd think they'd be happy to find a woman that is a challenge & not giving it up easily. Just shows that these emotionally unavailable, "fresh out of relationship" men only use women as sex objects. I think the Lord sent this video to me cus I've been going thru something similar and I thought I did something wrong n didn't imagine that not having sex early enough was the only "offense". These videos have been helping me understand men a lot.

  • @jeanettebeal4489
    @jeanettebeal4489 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Me and my husband called each other Bay he died in 2018 I miss him so much you are a great speaker I listen a lot.....thanks

  • @nikkinanette8807
    @nikkinanette8807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    You’re not wasting my time.

  • @lerinnenatalia
    @lerinnenatalia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Sometimes if u even acknowledge their blatant disrespect with an answer, they will see that as an open door for them to keep trying u.

  • @Ms.Billie1234
    @Ms.Billie1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    @6:00 -- "....everything was cool....even a double-date with his best friend and her man..." -- me & tony did the exact same scooby-doo "RooOOO??" expression at the same exact time at that. i busted out laughing. sometimes i like to watch tony's vid's just for moments like this which lets me know we're on the same page, which tells me i'm picking up on the right clues &/or red flags, hence i'm on the right track. ~ b.

  • @jasminesupremegoddess8125
    @jasminesupremegoddess8125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Tony love his wife so much it make me love her too 😍😍😍👏👏👏👏 LOVE WINS AGAIN!!

  • @queenofpurpose7382
    @queenofpurpose7382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    GURLLL.. when she said she ain't gave em none.. my heart rejoiced and I had do stop and do 50 kegals.. Yaz yaz yaz. We got us a point on this one.🖤✊🏿🙏🏾🙌🏾💅🏿 Standards up, legs closed, and the eyes are on the prize...

  • @Jay-ro1vn
    @Jay-ro1vn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Wow, didn’t even notice the ring 🤦🏽‍♀️ but “Apple cider vinegar mixed with witch hazel & bumblebee honey” 🤣🤣🤣 Thank You TG for the 3-5 videos a day. What a nice treat, we will watch all!!

  • @cindeed4422
    @cindeed4422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I will watch all 3 videos today and some of your older ones as well. We love them all Tony! Keep ‘em coming!

  • @CaramelKissez
    @CaramelKissez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Oh this one right here is for the many questions!!!!! Share the live and like the video.

  • @TheAmberla07
    @TheAmberla07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    When Tony grab the pretend purse 🤣. Also I want a “Gone (go on) bout yo business” shirt.

  • @tonia8510
    @tonia8510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Be willing to walk away....you deserve the best treatment!

  • @sanjeshnidevi982
    @sanjeshnidevi982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I think this email is a testament how dating should be done, especially for women. Yes, there was little mishaps here and there, like him ghosting her once before and she gave another chance. We shouldn’t aim for perfection. Rather aim for effectiveness. Therefore, it seems to me that she is a grown woman and she was in control of where she wants her relationship to go. And most importantly she didn’t reward him with her body. That’s the game changer.
    Hopefully more women will be inspired by her. I know I am.

  • @pjSoCal23
    @pjSoCal23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Just because a man gets divorced doesn’t mean that he’s over his ex wife. It’s too soon for him to move on to somebody else. And I’m in the Navy, 16 years Active duty for me, I’m a female officer.
    the Navy offers plenty of mental health options for people whether you’re active duty, separated from the Navy without making it to twenty years, or retiree.

  • @selflov3me371
    @selflov3me371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I will watch them as long as u post them..u is my TV lbs ..

  • @agnesmcpherson6477
    @agnesmcpherson6477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hi Tony Gaskin you right telling the truth. I gor ghosted & was upset @ first but thank the lord God had my back. Im healing each day he was not apart of my destiny.

  • @helgapataki4156
    @helgapataki4156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    That pause at the, "Double Date w/ his Best Friend" had me holleringgggggggg 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Tluv_1955
    @Tluv_1955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    My guy always ghosts and comes back but this time I’m ignoring him and moving on

  • @brookejlove94
    @brookejlove94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I just love this man. Respectfully so. His knowledge and his humor ❤

  • @alikaassata1443
    @alikaassata1443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Girl he using you and live with a woman you’re doing what they aren’t willing to do he’s a playa and uses every woman he encounters he mad cause you probably asked for a commitment. don’t settle for crumbs when you can have the whole loaf of bread..Love yourself

  • @asaltweapon1741
    @asaltweapon1741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is a wounded man that is emotionally unavailable.
    I'm going through something ialmost dentical.
    Tony Gaskins, I've watched many relationship videos from many different coaches and you are my favorite.

  • @andreafrazier7015
    @andreafrazier7015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thanks so much for these videos. They are so durn helpful. U just don't realize it.🙏🏽

  • @ZfenProductions
    @ZfenProductions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yessssssssss! Tony if you have the time please drop 3 videos a day. Don’t overwork. But if u have time drop dem brotha

  • @meredithhillard5449
    @meredithhillard5449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much for the videos and advice! Tried online dating for the first time and prayed about it and decided to get off and let God bring the right man into my life. Online dating was a unique experience because even though I put down that I am 40 a lot of young men would try to match with somewhat inappropriate comments. So this video is perfect timing. Thank you so much for helping us understand men!

  • @jordangreene5591
    @jordangreene5591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Not popping like fish grease 😂😂😂 Tony is hilarious with the metaphors

  • @yalliahc
    @yalliahc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Yes success story ! Hopefully she didn’t answer the third time . She stuck it to him , as she should . That smirk was enough to be labeled a lame lol

  • @katrinaandersonward5938
    @katrinaandersonward5938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Praise God and thanks for all your help. Be blessed.

  • @Yohannes02
    @Yohannes02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Amen to this teaching!!

  • @dnatural753
    @dnatural753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I'm not gone lie this the earliest I've been 😂😂😂

  • @beautyfulldrey
    @beautyfulldrey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Just got off the employment . 🤣
    Next: listen to Tony while working at my contract
    Building my 3 bs 💙! 🙂 god bless you Tony !

  • @ThatssoRaeReviews
    @ThatssoRaeReviews 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Eating pizza and listening to today’s show 😇

    • @nitawilliams9726
      @nitawilliams9726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      got my popcorn😊

    • @wbabe2012
      @wbabe2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Chinese food for me lol

  • @CoachLove
    @CoachLove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sissssss! Proud of you for staying celibate!🙌🏾
    His immature ghosting is a blessing! He mad that you didn't give up your body and he threw tantrums hoping that you would! Block him so you won't even know he called. If he calls from another number, be oblivious to who he is! Your blessing is coming!💃🏾

  • @Glamrocs
    @Glamrocs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Here for this message.

  • @wavynaturalista
    @wavynaturalista 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    lmaoooo Sheri is a Caribbean girl. We need our warm air, sir! hahahahaha

  • @zadabeasley
    @zadabeasley ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m very much about that “I can show you better than I can tell you “ life. Absolutely no nonsense, I promise! It’s about protecting the legacy!

  • @iwantmyfriescrispynotburnt3981
    @iwantmyfriescrispynotburnt3981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    he's so country and i'm here for it! I understand country, but it's been a while since i spoke country.

  • @JessiJess416
    @JessiJess416 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    “If your teeth gone from candy” 😂😂😂

    • @miahdenise5698
      @miahdenise5698 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😭😂😂

    • @nettas5437
      @nettas5437 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @tdhatcher25
      @tdhatcher25 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣😂🤣😂🤣

    • @Michd0417
      @Michd0417 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I caught that too 🤣😆

  • @Ilovevitaminwater
    @Ilovevitaminwater 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Can we please get “GOT TO GO” t shirts or something??? Lol i say it all the time

  • @HisaLight2mypath
    @HisaLight2mypath 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Bless you my brother.

  • @gamechanger4christ695
    @gamechanger4christ695 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like it. I’m 52 years old, they say I have my guard up and I shouldn’t be so picky, however I believe that since I have been there done that I would rather be alone than settle for problems and pain that I don’t have now.: if there is a decent, godly man for me and I know I am decent and godly, when I see red flags i acknowledge them and don’t push the envelope. Thank you Tony for this 3 year old timeless video.

  • @gogetter7978
    @gogetter7978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am 41 an empty nester and single. I tried online dating for the first time last year, what a joke. I deactivated my profile. Online dating sites are all the same a total waste of time.

  • @analypozo
    @analypozo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Y’all stop stressing tony out 😅😅recommending apple cider vinegar 🤣 he’s ok, his wife takes care of him 🙌