The day we learned our daughter has a syndrome: our emotional journey

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  • @GabyInquillay
    @GabyInquillay ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you for sharing your story. You both are doing such a great job! I can’t imagine going through what you are going to but you keep all mums out there strong 💪🏽 and give them hope that when there is love everything is possible. Blessing to your family 🙏🏽

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!

  • @AsterRoseCo
    @AsterRoseCo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    My son has 22q deletion syndrome and the “symptoms” are almost the exact same. Crazy how much all of these syndromes override. He had interrupted aortic arch, VSD, ASD, bicuspid aortic valve, sub-aortic stenosis, cleft palate, tube fed, low tone, low immune system, etc! I will say he’s now 6 and while the first few years were hard with surgeries etc it’s now calmed down and he’s such a joy and we live a really “normal” life despite therapy etc drs apts etc

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What a journey it must have been for you all, Jamie! I'm glad he's now thriving! ☺️☺️

    • @anntunaley9974
      @anntunaley9974 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My son has 22q. 11.2 deletion Syndrome. He was given less than 12 hours to live. He also has hEDS another rare syndrome. He will be 30 years old in May. He had 12 years of intense therapy and it really helped. Now he is happy and basically healthy and doing well. He even drives. Good luck on your journey with your child.

  • @JoanHenderson-bn1yz
    @JoanHenderson-bn1yz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Your sweet little girl is lucky to have you as her parents. She chose well.🥰

  • @mspinklady74
    @mspinklady74 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    She is beautiful and lucky she has you to guild her through life. And your husband is right it does not affect your how manley you are having a special needs child i worked in a special needs school and their was a lot of single mothers as the fathers just could not cope with the childs diagnosexxx

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, it's quite overwhelming to receive these diagnosis. In these situations we need all the support we can get, right? ☺️

  • @victoriasantrich1679
    @victoriasantrich1679 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My daughter also have Kabuki syndrome, she is 11 and has been quite the journey! Kabuki is what my daughter has, and doesn’t define her. It also made her the kindest most loving soul you can imagine! You are awesome parents! ❤

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much Victoria! You are right, it does not define our kiddos! 💪💚

  • @anntunaley9974
    @anntunaley9974 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I wish i had been as smart and as strong as you when i first started out with my children. You're just amazing.

    • @naomivantonder1161
      @naomivantonder1161 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are an amazing mother and woman. Your husband is an amazing father

  • @uruiamnot
    @uruiamnot 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    She is adorable!

  • @yanlady
    @yanlady ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You’re such a gem! Already sharing your tips and journey for anyone else who has to go through this. You’re clearing the path ahead… I wish all of you well and that our little Kabuki Girl will continue to grow up in a happy and healthy environment. ❤️

  • @Meemagolding
    @Meemagolding 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    She’s so CUTE and look at her Beautiful hair ❤❤❤

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Her hair is the best! 😍

  • @myrnacampos5129
    @myrnacampos5129 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You & Your Husband are so very brave in Sharing and I Applaud you both ❤️ You both are so strong in Mind & Soul!!! Love it 🥰

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!!

  • @AnneMoshtael
    @AnneMoshtael หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You both & your beautiful daughter are soo special, mature, loving, just plain brilliant! Thank you so much for enlightening us on your story! I love your strength! Love your humor too ♥️🙏🏼🤗🌹🌟💐🎈

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your kind words Anne! 🥰❤️

  • @loselatu3167
    @loselatu3167 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was wonderful and very strong of you both🤗 Praying for your family and beautiful BB. I’m happy she has loving and resilient parents. Respect and love❤️ May God continue to protect and give you strength always🙏🏽 We love you BB!

  • @marenawhite3322
    @marenawhite3322 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are an honest and loving couple. Your daughter is beautiful and loved. 🙏💕💝

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I appreciate it, thank you!!

  • @PaulineGooodwin-qf6cb
    @PaulineGooodwin-qf6cb ปีที่แล้ว +5

    IMPRESSIVE-you both are amazing! You have brought attention to many of us going thru hard times. Not as difficult as you, but forgive, love and get help. I pray for your ease of anguish and of course for your little BB. Thank you for your time and explaining your journey. I wish I could help but know that you are in my prayers.

  • @Sunnysunshine208
    @Sunnysunshine208 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Such a beautiful little girl. ❤

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you 🙏

  • @wendyschutze2818
    @wendyschutze2818 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just watched the first few minutes, I’m a retired Midwife and NNICU RN. Your baby girl had pretty well the whole book thrown at her.

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  หลายเดือนก่อน

      She has had a tough start at life for sure!

  • @Hope20249
    @Hope20249 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Beautiful family. Thanks for sharing

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you 😍

  • @anntunaley9974
    @anntunaley9974 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow, I'm so impressed with both of you. You're so intelligent and well-spoken and such amazing parents. When this little angel chose parents, she chose the best. She is so blessed to have both of you. What a team. I have a rare genetic syndrome, but I had an alcoholic, mentally ill single mother
    She refused to believe I was in pain. At 60 years old, after going from one dr to another since I was 19, I was finally diagnosed. But by that time I had 5 kids, and 5 grandkids. They all inherited it. And the last of my kids inherited another rare genetic syndrome as well. So it was extremely hard to diagnose him, as the problems from both illnesses combined confused the Dr's. Finally , as he is close to 30 years old, and we realize what he has. But it took me years of studying medical info to figure it out all on my own and convince the Dr's to test us. I'm bedridden now, in unbearable pain, even on strong meds. But it makes me so happy to see a disabled child having parents like you to support her and love her. Something that I never got. She's beautiful. Take good care of her . Sending love from NY USA

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh Ann, what an incredible journey you have had and still have.
      I'm so truly sorry about your late diagnosis, and the fact that you didn't receive all the support and love that you deserved from day 1 is not fair!
      It's so inspiring that you worked to hard to find answers yourself, that says a lot about your resilience and courage.
      I hope that Beatrice's story can alleviate a little bit your pain, I'll make sure to post many funny and lovely updates!
      Big hugs to you 🫂

  • @rachelssoapbox9343
    @rachelssoapbox9343 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your both so brave, your journey has just begun, don't feel bad if the coping vail slips. Your daughter is a special girl with the best parents she could have and so much love, it will be the love that gets you all through this. I was told my son wouldn't talk walk have learning disabilitys along with a spectrum of things to look out for. In sept he left uni with a 1st degree in politics and economics. Not sure how he will use them lol but just goes to show with the right support and the right person fighting your child's corner miracles can happen.

  • @lindseylambe3921
    @lindseylambe3921 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My son’s best friend, has the same syndrome. She’s a wee doll. And will be 12 in December.

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aww, happy birthday to her!

  • @asmr_iness
    @asmr_iness ปีที่แล้ว

    I came from tiktok you are good parents really, i wish that your girl gets better

  • @lindastamper3822
    @lindastamper3822 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hey , my son was born with a cleft palate, he’s 41 years old now,,, he has done well no speech impediment could always drink . Most children born with a cliff palette, and Cliff clip are usually highly intelligent.. I have pics and if you need to talk, send me messages. This has nothing to do with anything you did.

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for your kind words, Linda! 🙏

  • @gaylebang7310
    @gaylebang7310 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤my prayers and love go out to you. YOU are great parents.

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much Gayle 🥰

  • @patmitchell2389
    @patmitchell2389 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yo seem like a really lovely family ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We try our best 🥰

  • @lunadn7969
    @lunadn7969 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is she okay I searched your account on tiktok I couldn’t find you!?

  • @DanielleProvenzale
    @DanielleProvenzale หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Don’t know why you would feel ashamed of telling your family & friends that you are having a disabled child🤔. Every child is a blessing, especially a disabled child ; they are such an inspiration🙌🏻. Parents who accept the challenge of raising a child with a disability are heroes! Our society doesn’t value every life; although each life has value and should receive every opportunity to live that life to the fullest! You are right in saying LOVE is the WAY❤️. Your daughter will thrive if you love her👍Please don’t listen to what the doctors say🙄 of course they know much, but they are looking at things from a clinical viewpoint. They don’t know everything! Treat your child as you would treat any child ; with the proper expectations due to her disability, providing her stimulation, encouragement, discipline (when appropriate) with patience and consistency and you will be rewarded with so many joys and she will teach you what is truly important in life! May God bless your family🙌🏻🕊️🙏🏻❤️

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much for your kind words, Danielle!❤️
      Receiving a diagnosis of a syndrome is never easy and there are many emotions that can be experienced and that are completely valid. One of them is feeling ashamed.
      I believe they are valid, but it doesn't mean they are rational. That's why it's important to talk about each one's experience with sincerity and kindness.
      Or at least, that's how I lived and still live our journey!
      😊

  • @karenhill555
    @karenhill555 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Beautiful girl🥰

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you!! 🙏

  • @nzdeb100
    @nzdeb100 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My son has trysomy 9p and it's been quite a journey.

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I imagine what a roller coaster it's been for you...

  • @SallysWorld.7
    @SallysWorld.7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have cp.

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh Sally, how are you feeling?

  • @lindastamper3822
    @lindastamper3822 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It seems so unfair for precious little babies to be born with a problem,,

  • @hollycutts-nu7sr
    @hollycutts-nu7sr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    2020

  • @sharynkoren2054
    @sharynkoren2054 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Kabuki syndrome

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! ☺️
      Do you know this syndrome?

  • @warthog473
    @warthog473 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m curious where this couple lives. If it was America, they’d lose everything and their insurance would be denying everything. Good health care is only for rich people in the U.S.

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yeah, we're so grateful that we live in Australia. We have opportunities and support that too many people in other countries don't have!

    • @lightworker4813
      @lightworker4813 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's not true at all. Everyone in America has access to quality health care.

  • @lindastamper3822
    @lindastamper3822 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey , my son was born with a cleft palate, he’s 41 years old now,,, he has done well no speech impediment could always drink . Most children born with a cliff palette, and Cliff clip are usually highly intelligent.. I have pics and if you need to talk, send me messages. This has nothing to do with anything you did.

    • @MyKabukiGirl
      @MyKabukiGirl  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much Linda! It's great to hear that your son has been doing so good, that will inspire many of us!