7 Things Socially Awkward People Can Relate To

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  3 ปีที่แล้ว +660

    Who's more awkward? Spongebob or squirdward? Comment below.

  • @sun-wo9vp
    @sun-wo9vp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +996

    Imagine being introverted, socially awkward and anxious all at the same time. That's me. Fortunately, I developed social skills, and I'm still working on them.

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I'm pretty sure most folks who have social issues are introverted.
      Good work on improving yourself FIGHTO!!

    • @strange.person
      @strange.person 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@agr0nianTV I like doing things extroverts would do but when I'm with someone who I don't know much and have to struggle with the socializing part I get very mentally drained and I wanna give up and hide in my cave.

    • @j1407bmoon
      @j1407bmoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey, same!

    • @dillbill7152
      @dillbill7152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      You're missing depressed, autistic, and ugly. Don't worry about social skills and don't be afraid to hurt people's feelings a little bit. Adhering perfectly to social etiquette and pleasing everyone isn't the highest standard in life. Its only good hygiene. We're all savages on the inside.

    • @nightdog4183
      @nightdog4183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hope you're doing okay. 😁

  • @socialawk965
    @socialawk965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2116

    How about an introvert who is also socially awkward with 0% social skills... Lol

    • @souleymandz5153
      @souleymandz5153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      th-cam.com/video/O-QkZSgUOj4/w-d-xo.html

    • @drishtijaiswal0610
      @drishtijaiswal0610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      That's me ;)

    • @swatisaini6447
      @swatisaini6447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Me too☹️

    • @Tsenibanig
      @Tsenibanig 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      same

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Can't say I've ever met a socially awkward extrovert 🤔

  • @Unknown-xv8lj
    @Unknown-xv8lj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +364

    I feel like I've never met another socially awkward person, everyone I run into is a social butterfly.

    • @eletgres519
      @eletgres519 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Is that a good or bad thing?

    • @snickthegreat
      @snickthegreat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      don’t worry i’m socially awkward too

    • @Unknown-xv8lj
      @Unknown-xv8lj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Eletgres Idk because it would be nice to meet someone who deals with the same things I deal with. I admire people who aren't socially awkward.

    • @Unknown-xv8lj
      @Unknown-xv8lj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sarah mcclung Nice to meet you!

    • @rrmd663
      @rrmd663 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I hope to meet a socially awkward person and be friends with him/her

  • @paulotaguba2831
    @paulotaguba2831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1133

    As a socially awkward person, THIS IS VERY TRUE

    • @randomrobloxplayerbasicall2936
      @randomrobloxplayerbasicall2936 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Where can I go? I don't want extroverts to approach me and force me to talk despite whether I want to. When will there be a quiet world?

    • @olivialittle6644
      @olivialittle6644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yesss

    • @lucidfangirl1030
      @lucidfangirl1030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ikr i get anxiety when my mom says I have to call my teacher myself. Or when my teacher calls me

    • @SuussyBakka
      @SuussyBakka 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Caleb Gangte the moan (call) of the introverts

    • @Founderschannel123
      @Founderschannel123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well im not that socially akward but i do feel socially awkward sometimes........

  • @MrRaui
    @MrRaui 3 ปีที่แล้ว +644

    "Besides who said awkward is a bad thing?"
    Everyone is who is socially awkward mostly.

    • @bookenjoyer3970
      @bookenjoyer3970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yep

    • @michellecnebrown6792
      @michellecnebrown6792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Exactly. When you are standing some damn where feeling and looking out of place. It's a very bad feeling and very bad thing. I stick out like a sore thumb and my jokes don't land. I am thinking in such a frantic manner I lose my train of thought in middle of f ING sentences. It's definitely not what I want to lean further into and be proud of. I want to improve and find relief.

    • @PrimalAspid96
      @PrimalAspid96 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ofc comrade

    • @mohammadyousif1506
      @mohammadyousif1506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@michellecnebrown6792 totally relate, all I can do is try to avoid these situations :(

    • @spicyramen5135
      @spicyramen5135 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/OtrqwJ-GhyM/w-d-xo.html

  • @bhavyab1044
    @bhavyab1044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +787

    I time travelled!!! Yay!
    Here’s a summary-
    1. You’d rather watch the phone ring than answer it. 0:42
    2. Being awkward isn’t the same as being anxious. 1:18
    3. Your attempts at being funny don’t always pan out. 2:00
    4. Unintentional interruptions just happen. 2:30
    5. You may miss some social cues.(but you see things others don’t). 3:33
    6. Eye contact can get awkward fast. 3:40
    7. You’re unsure how to respond. 4:20
    Your welcome. :))
    I recommend watching the video for more. Also this animation is so cute. :)
    Edit- Anyone confused on how this comment is so old, here’s the reply.
    I’m not a member! They have videos in they’re playlists that are unlisted. You’ll need to search for them. Go to playlists, then filter it to ‘last uploaded’. Then scroll through to find videos. You won’t be notified but such videos are there. Hope this helps. Happy watching. :)

    • @possiblyvi
      @possiblyvi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      How on earth is this comment 2 months old??

    • @blacksoul11170
      @blacksoul11170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Just how-

    • @dontreadmyname4457
      @dontreadmyname4457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Wait how is this 2 months ago if this vidoe was uploaded 12 seconds ago..

    • @25jadejudeannadepamaylo9
      @25jadejudeannadepamaylo9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      H o W :O

    • @mugiwaraprincess
      @mugiwaraprincess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      i was so confused for a sec on how you broke down the video in 5 minutes 😭

  • @ICEcoldJT
    @ICEcoldJT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +619

    “Do everything with a good heart and expect nothing in return, and you will never be disappointed.” 🕊

    • @EbonyCobra888
      @EbonyCobra888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      To avoid disappointment, you must avoid expectations.

    • @aguythatisontherun
      @aguythatisontherun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yes I will never be disappointed because I was already expecting nothing
      I just noticed that's the whole point of this comment
      I'm going to leave it up so y'all can see my stupidity

    • @elizabethjones2088
      @elizabethjones2088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lovely words Thankyou

    • @arpitkumar4525
      @arpitkumar4525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The first phrase is unnecessary to avoid disappointment. It has no relation with it.

    • @arpitkumar4525
      @arpitkumar4525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @The Genderqueer Cringy Emo No. Expectations leads to disappointment. Cut out expectations and you have no disappointments. But it's not so simple. You can cut off 100% expectations but you shouldn't. Cause if you do then u will have a dull life and will be vulnerable to depression. It's a delicate balance between many things and this balance is dynamic. You need to keep adjusting. It's Yin and Yang. I call it "Life is complex".
      I've been there, done that

  • @hoshayz2844
    @hoshayz2844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2087

    Here's an 🍎 for everyone who's socially awkward and reading comments.

    • @Tsenibanig
      @Tsenibanig 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      thanks

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Can't describe myself as socially awkward anymore so I guess no apple for me?

    • @NehaPokhriyal._.
      @NehaPokhriyal._. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@agr0nianTV It's ok you can have an apple too, everyone can have them. Here are some apples for you 🍎🍏.

    • @Emi_Tempi
      @Emi_Tempi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@agr0nianTV Well you are reading comments so you also get an apple.

    • @whoami4534
      @whoami4534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Bye, doctor

  • @w3irdgirl
    @w3irdgirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +585

    I have socal anxiety, it's really hard sometimes. I just hope everyone here has a good day/night :)

    • @mariadelosangeleshernandez7574
      @mariadelosangeleshernandez7574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😕 Do you have socal anxiety ?

    • @w3irdgirl
      @w3irdgirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@mariadelosangeleshernandez7574 Yes, I'm going to a therapist.

    • @mxxnflower7664
      @mxxnflower7664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ayy same name ✨

    • @RoseyPosey
      @RoseyPosey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@w3irdgirl your comment says 2 months ago O_O

    • @mxxnflower7664
      @mxxnflower7664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      also, i hope you get better

  • @tsukihime1986
    @tsukihime1986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I am a socially awkward, introvert, with litteraly zero social skills, diagnosed with ADHD, and I find it very painful to live in this world, it's not fun at all. Now, as a mother, it breaks my heart to see that my little daughter has the same personnality and same struggles as me. She's also ADHD, she can't make any friends, she feels awkward and feels that no one understand her. She's only 5 :(

    • @selfimprovement5279
      @selfimprovement5279 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aww so sad to hear that. I hope she’s doing better now.

    • @Tompicks879
      @Tompicks879 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Get her to join a group or sports or the girls scout

    • @3Pookiebear
      @3Pookiebear ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel really bad for her but I do understand her since I was the same way when I was around that age

  • @Periwinkleflower
    @Periwinkleflower 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I am very introverted and socially awkward that I end up starting to forget what I’m about to say. This always happens to me. I feel like people are judging me from my awkwardness. 😪

    • @deepabiswas8868
      @deepabiswas8868 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think u got me ryt imma judge at every point even it's ryt or wrong imma get judge always hehe;)

    • @darkknight_8891
      @darkknight_8891 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn same bro! Try some L-theanine it helps alot!

  • @id10cyy
    @id10cyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    0:20
    DREAM AND TECHNOBLADE POG

    • @existential_moth
      @existential_moth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      2:37 he's back ??

    • @gabby5076
      @gabby5076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      3:03 they got the whole dream team too aw

    • @Jowonne
      @Jowonne 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I WAS JUST ABOUT TO COMMENT THIS YOOO

    • @leannvanhetten7167
      @leannvanhetten7167 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah I was suprised too

    • @Moon_light-t
      @Moon_light-t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I knew I was not the only one

  • @chloegonzales1631
    @chloegonzales1631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +321

    Is it just me or does anyone else panic inside when you see someone you know from school when you’re not in school
    I’m weird O-O

    • @j1407bmoon
      @j1407bmoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I relate 10000000000000%

    • @artistpaw3829
      @artistpaw3829 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      10000000000000000000000000000000000000000%

    • @itwasntuna
      @itwasntuna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      i was at a store once and i saw a student in my class who really scared me for whatever reason, and i hid until he walked away

    • @chloegonzales1631
      @chloegonzales1631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@itwasntuna honestly I would do the same 😳

    • @chloegonzales1631
      @chloegonzales1631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ahuman2372 same 😳

  • @イマン-r1f
    @イマン-r1f 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    I’m not usually socially awkward but then social anxiety hits me :( people sometimes avoid talking to me and i felt depressed sometimes

    • @ItsMe-mw1ds
      @ItsMe-mw1ds 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      same:( i can't help it and i get called boring

    • @イマン-r1f
      @イマン-r1f 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@ItsMe-mw1ds i know i’m just a random person on the internet but i know every people have their own uniqueness attach to them :) i know you have it too! So don’t be afraid to show your true colors

    • @metalwildroses2866
      @metalwildroses2866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      same until at the one level i almost get depression due to overthinking

    • @jonathanwilliams365
      @jonathanwilliams365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I feel like most people avoid talking to me

    • @イマン-r1f
      @イマン-r1f 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@metalwildroses2866 this happened to me the starting of 9th grade which is this year. It was hell. I cried every time i got home i feel like people hate me and things like that. I recommend you to do some exercises and practice to control the way you breath if u get nervous. I hope this helps cuz it helped me to reduce my anxiety this month and also practice some small talks🤍

  • @meow-wk4zf
    @meow-wk4zf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    i relate to this so much
    and my extroverted friend just think introverts are 'shy' -_-

    • @Living.Fossils
      @Living.Fossils 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Tell them what it means then, and don't whine about it to other people.

    • @eletgres519
      @eletgres519 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea! You heard the person above me!

    • @Living.Fossils
      @Living.Fossils 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@eletgres519 aw Okey thanks but like seriously people need to start talking about they're opinions and feeling more openly and not just on the internet

    • @-fsa-7647
      @-fsa-7647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Living.Fossils That is easier said than done

    • @Living.Fossils
      @Living.Fossils 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@-fsa-7647 yes I know, but it's unacceptable for you to wine about it on the internet, and not even try to tell the person, what they're doing wrong, that's the recipe for a bad relashionship.

  • @paandabear
    @paandabear 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    For me, it’s how the person looks at me. If they’re looking at me normally or with kind eyes, I’m fine with making eye contact. But if they’re staring me down or have a weird look on their face, that’s when I get really awkward.

    • @nuggetman2294
      @nuggetman2294 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I simply can’t look into peoples eyes unless I’ve known them for years and years

    • @pinkcherry9695
      @pinkcherry9695 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@nuggetman2294yeah same. even if they're looking at me normally, or even kindly, i feel really really awkward.

  • @nerdy_autizt132
    @nerdy_autizt132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I'm socially awkward but also anxious when it comes to talking to other people.The students in school and my parents really don't like me for me for being like this,it really hurts me tbh.

    • @nuggetman2294
      @nuggetman2294 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @pinkcherry9695
      @pinkcherry9695 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yeah i understand. whenever im with a group of people, somehow no one is interested in talking to me. they talk amongst themselves and pretty much ignore me. people around me probably think that I don't talk because im just not into that but that's not it. i really DO want to talk with some people but I can't because the fear of being awkward (because i AM always awkward) is always there. it feels lonely.

    • @ryebread-xi9xg
      @ryebread-xi9xg ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@pinkcherry9695same sometimes people talk about me when I'm working with people in groups thinking I can't hear them, but I can and I'm too awkward to do anything about it and it really ruins my day. its hard to make new friends because I am scared of being too awkward and I'm not good with eye contact and I don't know how to talk to people if I dont have anything in common with them:( so don't worry you're not alone

  • @CryptoSeann
    @CryptoSeann 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel more social when i meet someone who is socially awkward, shy, introverted and quiet. Becuase im like that too. But so far everyone i meet are social animals

  • @133Nomad
    @133Nomad 3 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    Them: “How’s it going?”
    Me: “I like cheese.”
    Them: “...what?”

    • @blackfoxgames4431
      @blackfoxgames4431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Cheese is good tho.....

    • @nayelimartinez5830
      @nayelimartinez5830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I like trains

    • @aquaa1842
      @aquaa1842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too:)

    • @ivi3991
      @ivi3991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Any other answer would be boring

    • @chuu7062
      @chuu7062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I mean, you should definitely befriend someone who likes cheese. Cheese is awesome :D

  • @danachen9527
    @danachen9527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    1. You'd rather watch the phone ring than answer it 0:42
    2. Being awkward isn't the same thing as being anxious 1:15
    3. Your attempts at being funny don't always pan out 1:58
    4. Unintentional interruptions just happen 2:28
    5. You may miss some social cues, but you see things other don't 3:04
    6. Eye contact can get awkward fast 3:39
    7. You're unsure how to respond 4:19
    :D

  • @parkchaemin2973
    @parkchaemin2973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Awkwardness when you're with friends still feel like dumb lonely out there and want to lock yourself in room again!

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just listen in and try to chime in when you can force yourself even it'll help you grow

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@extrashotofespresso_ Oof that sucks, well cheers to future friendships 🍻

    • @iiCounted-op5jx
      @iiCounted-op5jx 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      frr bro

  • @rustyknight4423
    @rustyknight4423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    I actually don’t like being in crowded place’s like the market and the mall

    • @chloegonzales1631
      @chloegonzales1631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I like going to those places but... it’s a whole other story when I see someone I know from school
      Edit: and when there’s too much people at those places I’d rather stay home

    • @ChaoticFerret
      @ChaoticFerret 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      *PANIK*

    • @sarochabecky28
      @sarochabecky28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same i freeze sometimes when there are too many people or it's a busy street 😣

    • @rustyknight4423
      @rustyknight4423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      But going with friends and family takes a bit of the edge off

    • @jayflamin313
      @jayflamin313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me either man I don't like being around people fr

  • @SelfMadeWealth
    @SelfMadeWealth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    If you think of that.. The existence of other people is essentially awkward

  • @katrinaretuya
    @katrinaretuya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    During my internship in college, I was grouped with introverted people like myself (1 or 2 of them out of 10 were probably extroverted). We generally agreed we were the the most awkward group out there hahaha. We called ourselves group awkward but we vibe with that, you know? We may be awkward but we understand each other that's why we just laugh it off and generally enjoy each other. Fun times 😆

    • @aaravjain7090
      @aaravjain7090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lucky

    • @pinkcherry9695
      @pinkcherry9695 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you're actually lucky lol 😭 ive never met anyone nearly as awkward as me, somehow they're all social butterflies 💀

    • @EV143
      @EV143 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That seems so cool, I hope that one day I will find people like this

    • @EV143
      @EV143 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@pinkcherry9695EXACTLY, I'm so awkward and have no idea how some people manage socialising so freaking well

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Hello Time travelers! :)

  • @sarahmartin3641
    @sarahmartin3641 3 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    there’s a lot of psychology references in this minecraft video

    • @pinkapoppy
      @pinkapoppy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      underrated commentttt

    • @user-mf7uq7vn2n
      @user-mf7uq7vn2n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      sub 2 technoblade or u will be made orphan

    • @faunaivy
      @faunaivy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      UNDERATED

    • @realcartoongirl
      @realcartoongirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hi

  • @jasmineringwood1215
    @jasmineringwood1215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I embarrass myself in every conversation I have 💀💀

    • @deepabiswas8868
      @deepabiswas8868 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I find a person like u

    • @lively2242
      @lively2242 ปีที่แล้ว

      I relate to this comment so much.I don't think u understand how much I understand this comment.I just wish I could favourite youtube comments😭.

    • @BADDIE_lol-y7v
      @BADDIE_lol-y7v ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same man, same.

    • @pinkcherry9695
      @pinkcherry9695 ปีที่แล้ว

      same, same.

    • @stackboostuploads
      @stackboostuploads 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do u have social media

  • @yourdeathisinevitable
    @yourdeathisinevitable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +817

    I love my parents but I wish they wouldn't ask why I like to be alone. I just do. :/

    • @Tsenibanig
      @Tsenibanig 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ikr

    • @monasaini9722
      @monasaini9722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I can totally relate to u

    • @rayceo4477
      @rayceo4477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      “What’s on your mind?”
      “What’cha been doing?”
      I love my parents too but I hate these questions.

    • @yourdeathisinevitable
      @yourdeathisinevitable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@rayceo4477 EXACTLY

    • @snicklesentertainment7169
      @snicklesentertainment7169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Mine always ask "Why don't you invite some friends over?" or "Why don't you stay over at your friends house"...

  • @B.O.Xproject
    @B.O.Xproject 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sometimes I let the phone ring to silence because I'm not in the mood to talk but I don't want to tell the person out of fear of hurting their feelings or making them self-conscious or angry ( same for texts sometimes)

  • @kookienacupoftae1170
    @kookienacupoftae1170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I’m not reallly close to anyone in my school, I have some classmates but I never talk much and just stand there awkwardly and glancing at them talking at each other, sometimes one of them would say to add me more in conversations and I feel like if I keep on being so quiet and introverted they will start to think I’m boring, and forget me in things and lose interest in me. But I can’t help being myself and stay silent while being lonely :(

    • @shaplabd7858
      @shaplabd7858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Pls, I can relate to this so much omg😭

    • @clarissemariesantiago1206
      @clarissemariesantiago1206 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel you, we can get through this😊

    • @porc1429
      @porc1429 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same bro. I feel like there's something wrong with me. Everyone is so good at socializing and here I am just silent and confused. I hope we all get better

    • @marendagreen7636
      @marendagreen7636 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I've never related to someone so much,I thought I was the only one 😅😅

  • @mimitrusters9259
    @mimitrusters9259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    This video made me realize how socially awkward I really am-

    • @notmo.
      @notmo. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same. And that's probably the reason why friends aren't a thing in my life.

    • @JacquesBermonWebster_II
      @JacquesBermonWebster_II 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can talk with adults easily but its hard for me to have conversations with other people my age

    • @EV143
      @EV143 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same

    • @EV143
      @EV143 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jayl5752I have a very similar situation, when I was younger it was much easier, but now... now socialising is so bad

  • @amilkshake3843
    @amilkshake3843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Yay, another video I can relate to!
    About the second; Yes, I’m not socially anxious, I can be social without having anxiety. I’m just awkward.

    • @k.k.2820
      @k.k.2820 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      2 months ago? how do you do it

    • @amilkshake3843
      @amilkshake3843 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@k.k.2820 Unlisyed videos :)

  • @agr0nianTV
    @agr0nianTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I used to be very socially awkward, but then I joined the Navy which caused me to grow out of it over time since our ship was pretty tight and I had to deal with lots of interactions daily. It really helped me come out of my shell. I also got a girlfriend which is a huge confidence boost and now I can talk to attractive women without being a shy boy around them 😄

    • @ScoobertTheVile
      @ScoobertTheVile 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's one of the things I hope to gain while joining the army, I just want to communicate with others better.

  • @eggmemesarehot4983
    @eggmemesarehot4983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Im a introvert thats always anxious about things, worried about what people or even if people see my insecurities, and extremely socially awkward (not with my friends tho, them im a totally different peron with them) so this video was super cool to watch, thanks 🕺

  • @NehaPokhriyal._.
    @NehaPokhriyal._. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I relate to technoblade so much because he is also socially awkward like me, it made me so happy to notice those little minecraft youtubers references in this video.

  • @makeminemint
    @makeminemint 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Social awkward + anxiety.
    The 2-for-1 special that as awful as it sounds.

  • @dailydoseofmedicinee
    @dailydoseofmedicinee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    There's nothing wrong with being socially awkward. Whether you recognize your social awkwardness or not, it generally isn't bad or harmful, unless it bothers you or keeps you from doing things you want to do. But if you feel like you're doing just fine, don't feel pressured to change.👍

    • @ivanmorrison4620
      @ivanmorrison4620 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks for sharing this wonderful message :)

  • @mugiwaraprincess
    @mugiwaraprincess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm the most awkward person i know 😔 it's hard especially when my friends are outgoing and socially interactive

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well you have friends so you aren't the worst I've met 😊

    • @k.k.2820
      @k.k.2820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same they always exclude me because of that

    • @gluttonousmaximus9048
      @gluttonousmaximus9048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Even the self-admitted socially awkward people I've known manage to keep a few friends to their sides. I can't even talk to an empty wall without feeling guilty.

    • @mugiwaraprincess
      @mugiwaraprincess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@agr0nianTV since they're really friendly, i was lucky enough to be invited into their circle; but that didn't make me any less awkward, i don't talk to anyone except them ;-;

  • @mr.aquarius
    @mr.aquarius 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I only answer phone calls if I know who's actually calling.

    • @iwilson6651
      @iwilson6651 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      As do most of us, socially awkward or not

  • @speedrunout4299
    @speedrunout4299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I haven’t said anything yet because I dont want to ruin a friend group.

  • @charanap
    @charanap 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I really love all of the MCYT references, me being a fan of Mincraft TH-camrs and an awkward person myself, this video is made for me

  • @gypsytears22352
    @gypsytears22352 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve stuttered for as long as I’ve been able to talk. Sometimes it’s more mellow but sometimes it’s very noticeable. And it’s gotten to the point where I’m almost terrified to start conversations or my heart starts racing when I know I have to talk to someone I don’t know for any reason. This video definitely resonates with me and did provide some good pointers.

  • @Yasinery.
    @Yasinery. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    As a fellow time traveller I can relate.

  • @faunaivy
    @faunaivy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Why are so little people talking about all the mcyt references-

    • @leah8894
      @leah8894 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It’s slowly infecting their whole animation crew

    • @leah8894
      @leah8894 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      And I love it

    • @he1di_
      @he1di_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i loved techo and dream one

    • @faunaivy
      @faunaivy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@leah8894 ikr LOL

    • @drexbc8081
      @drexbc8081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I thought no one has ever seen that lol
      *Dsmp fan noises*

  • @darknightincolors6018
    @darknightincolors6018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    A sweeter smile and a brighter day.
    Hope everything turns out great for you Today!!

  • @MrBuns-yi2hk
    @MrBuns-yi2hk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    When you make a joke and everyone gives you that look...

    • @miirasaika6437
      @miirasaika6437 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This look right 2:08 😔😭

    • @bluee128
      @bluee128 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      RELATEABLE!!!!

    • @birdlover6842
      @birdlover6842 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup, a look of anger.

    • @deepabiswas8868
      @deepabiswas8868 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sometimes I got some random funny joke which make peps laugh but usually I don't get any jokes because my mom keep starting at me hehehe i think it would be quite good for me to stay quite at every point because I know how much I will be good my mom will never let me to stay a smile on my ugly facu hehe:)

  • @lizziora
    @lizziora 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Ahah! Even psych2go Time travels now!

    • @k.t3888
      @k.t3888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That must confuse many people! I can't wait XD

    • @shayzie_
      @shayzie_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Plz tell me how ;-;

    • @sergiotrejo6815
      @sergiotrejo6815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      W H A T

    • @natsxu
      @natsxu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      18 seconds ago- but this comment was 2 months ago. NANI

    • @mariadelosangeleshernandez7574
      @mariadelosangeleshernandez7574 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@k.t3888 same

  • @CandyMan24x7
    @CandyMan24x7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am socially awkward and i have social anxiety whenever the teacher asks me to answer a question i get nervous and start to blush and my heart rate increases i cant even socialize properly

  • @nightappleispoisonapple1775
    @nightappleispoisonapple1775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Awkwardness can be a charm too🤭
    Idk if I'm awkward but some ppl who I know are awkward are adorable

  • @Kyesinclair13087
    @Kyesinclair13087 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I find the phrase "Practise makes improvement." more encouraging. I hope others will find it encouraging too.

  • @gloomy_nightflower7007
    @gloomy_nightflower7007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As someone who draws mcyt, and is very socially akward, when you showed the frame of someone drawing Technoblade and feeling akward when they look at their drawing, _I felt that_

  • @MrRespectMaths
    @MrRespectMaths 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Mistakes are, after all, the foundations of truth, and if a man does not know what a thing is, it is at least an increase in knowledge if he knows what it is not.

  • @treznopresto4878
    @treznopresto4878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sum:
    1. You'd rather watch the phone ring than answer it 0:41
    2. Being akward isn't the same thing as being anxious 1:17
    3. Your attempts at being funny don't always pan out 1:58
    4. Unitentional interruptions just happens 2:28
    5. You may miss some social cues - but you see things other don't 3:05
    6. Eye contact can get awkward fast 3:39
    7. You're unsure how to respond 4:20
    Oof i sucked by a black hole.... here am i

    • @treznopresto4878
      @treznopresto4878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Guys btw, do you guys have some problem on editing comments on TH-cam because sometimes it just glitched, or.... idk what to say, like when you edited your comment first time the comment doesn't appear? So you need to edit it 2 times? Especially for mobile user,
      It is me or someone had this problem too? God, TH-cam plz fix this damn problem

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for putting this together! How are you doing?

    • @treznopresto4878
      @treznopresto4878 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Psych2go actually, bad. Really feel broken this end, this end i always feel anger, pain, sad. But anyway thanks for asking! Feeling good for a while :)

  • @snadthesand7057
    @snadthesand7057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ayyyy it's the original voice actor!!!
    Welcome back!!

  • @ameeeeba4536
    @ameeeeba4536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how pshych2go includes references to the dream team and technoblade. I like seeing my favourite youtubers drawn in this style.

  • @sanjvi1319
    @sanjvi1319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't have social anxiety, I'm socially awkward. There's a difference. I'll almost always be reluctant to being in big gatherings like birthdays where I hardly know anyone, but when it's something important, I suck it up and fake confidence.

  • @juliagomez6768
    @juliagomez6768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Can I be social awkward and have social anxiety at the same time?
    Because I do

  • @afellowmanofculture4165
    @afellowmanofculture4165 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hate when people say theyre socially awkward and they completely dont know what its like.

  • @ikanmasin
    @ikanmasin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm 100% socially awkward. I couldn't accept this when I was younger. But as I've grown more matured now, all I can say is being socially awkward are insane! Recently I attended a colleague training, there's 5 tables, each have 4 person. I was the only person sitting on 1 of the table. No problem for me. But what angered me was that my boss got empathy on me & he was like "can someone sit next to him please?" Goddamnit dude that just messed up my day. Why he had to point this out🤣 He must've thought that everyone wants to be around other people.

    • @iwilson6651
      @iwilson6651 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      God, these middle school dynamics among adults is ridiculous. What transpired is a bullying technique and completely inappropriate at the workplace. And the boss calling it out is just as bad.

  • @NohamiDrawZ
    @NohamiDrawZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What sucks more is that I once heard my mom talking to my auntie and uncle about how I’m always shy and weird around people I’ve known :(

    • @aoi7104
      @aoi7104 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It happened to me too :(

  • @katieburke2902
    @katieburke2902 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    But then again...everybody has awkward moments...

  • @highschoolguy123
    @highschoolguy123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As someone who is socially awkward, yes we hate phone calls, if I'm doing texting I can do just fine, but yesterday my friend said he wanted to talk to me through phone and the conversation lasted only like 7 minutes.

  • @XoxoTheAesthete
    @XoxoTheAesthete 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "who says awkward is a bad thing?"
    Oh, only *my whole family and all my classmates*

  • @user-mh4ew5km4i
    @user-mh4ew5km4i 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    “Unsure how to respond” is literally the worst 😭 like I will listen to any story you tell but I don’t know how they expect me to respond so my mind will be in chaos. Then comes “phone calls” another horror of mine that I’m trying to tackle, but it’s so frustrating when my brain stops listening to the person on the other side and I try to cover that up so I sound soooooo awkward and sometimes boring too.

  • @aesthete5766
    @aesthete5766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I felt like a loser but after reading comments I feel better that there are so many people like me

    • @lively2242
      @lively2242 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sameeee...I feel so happy bcz I thought ppl like me didn't exist

  • @maribenzo9881
    @maribenzo9881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It be hard for me to talk to people now , whenever somebody tries to talk to me I just fake smile . And say yeah

  • @pixiepres7730
    @pixiepres7730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That moment when you're both awkward and anxious

  • @inez7625
    @inez7625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is reminding me of every time i have ever done any of these and the memories are flooding back ... yay...

  • @machicommentsection
    @machicommentsection 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am a socially awkward person. I hate being awkward as it always get away in my work where connection is important. Also, I'm afraid it might affect my romantic relationship too.

    • @birdlover6842
      @birdlover6842 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sure did mine. It got worse when I became elderly.

    • @lively2242
      @lively2242 ปีที่แล้ว

      Babe sameee

  • @labradont4522
    @labradont4522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hate it when my parents tell me to go and talk to someone when I am at an event. Whenever I do I mumble words, my hands start sweating, and my heart beats really fast. Then once it is over I worry that they won’t like me anymore after the interaction.

    • @crewman6141
      @crewman6141 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Goddamn this is literally me

  • @nofunforyoujustpain.3400
    @nofunforyoujustpain.3400 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Her voice is just so calming😊

  • @naindebhainde4352
    @naindebhainde4352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ngl,physchotogo is the only channel whom i trust with "things socially awkward people feel" or "things anxious people feel" kindnof videos.

  • @datsu2165
    @datsu2165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I thought I'm socially awkward I'm just an introvert but sometimes an extrovert

  • @clasherking4528
    @clasherking4528 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Most of the time people talk to me I am scrambling to find something to say, even if it's about a topic I actually know something about, sadly my "jack of all trades" brain that can usually pick up and work with new information quickly, also has the downside of not being able to memorize more in depth details about something. Yes I like pokemon and can talk about them for some time, no I don't "shiny hunt" or know anything about competitive play. (like stats, EV/IVs, and builds (whatever the heck those are) This lack of in depth knowledge offen makes me feel stupid and inferior to the person I'm talking to because now the things I don't know are seemingly things I should know off the top of my head.
    It also doesn't help that I can't figure out social ques to save my life. Head movements, eye contact or lack there of, the tone of a person's voice, body language. It might as well be some indecipherable lost language for me.
    The final nail in my social coffin is the fact that I don't like dealing with people...... at all...... I would much rather be by myself, no one around to question what I'm doing or why, no one to criticize me for doing something "the wrong way" (I had a friend criticize me for how I eat hamburgers once)

  • @ohmyohasparagus441
    @ohmyohasparagus441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My school bio is literally “ I’m the human embodiment of social awkwardness”

  • @millenamoura9684
    @millenamoura9684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh god, sometimes I pick up Phone calls, but I turn the phone off when they ask something i feel uncomfortable saying out loud

  • @dair_9570
    @dair_9570 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A diagnosed social anxious here, i can relate to everything here

  • @sre9474
    @sre9474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just realised that I'm not actually introverted... I'm just awkward around the people who idk...I try to avoid small talk and everyone thinks that I'm being rude
    No-one understands me other than me myself...and it's okay😩 I'm used to it rn

  • @wiryawansetiadi3115
    @wiryawansetiadi3115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    the eye contact is the most annoying, people think you don't like/respect them and think that you are lying/hide mistake when you don't keep eye contact, honestly, it's just really weird and uncomfortable to keep eye contact for too long

  • @user-wk9tl8ys7u
    @user-wk9tl8ys7u 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really want to be a psychologist, but I'm really anxious and awkward whenever I'm with people who's not my family.

  • @kyuukarin
    @kyuukarin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Early squad lets goooo
    Realizes:
    The comments:
    2 months ago
    The vid:
    13 Seconds ago

  • @claudiacardoso7846
    @claudiacardoso7846 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't try to joke, I just stand beside people with my mouth shut

  • @nolifegirlie
    @nolifegirlie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have never been more confused in my life when I saw all of the comments were 2 months ago lmao

  • @birdlover6842
    @birdlover6842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My extreme social awkwardness is caused by autistic spectrum disorder. I like that title. Was told by psychologists that they have no friends. I have no friends and unable to carry on a conversation. Please don't reply to my post.

  • @notmo.
    @notmo. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Am I the only one who saw Techno and Dream at 0:19?

  • @britjay0010o3d
    @britjay0010o3d 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don’t know if I’m a socially awkward person but when you attempt to make jokes but fail, that’s some true stuff

  • @seowcaiyuan8634
    @seowcaiyuan8634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2:02
    Im so super certain I can relate to this almost every joke i make..😣😣😣😑😑😥😥😥😥😥

  • @mio3199
    @mio3199 ปีที่แล้ว

    You know whats more pain about being awkward? You will remember that awkward moment for long time and you don't know how will people think about that, and the fact people will forget about it sooner than yourself is pain to realize.

  • @shingomori4055
    @shingomori4055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2:38 Its dream! What is he doing here

  • @ramenzballz
    @ramenzballz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    Most awkward thing is : socializing.. Nothing more.
    Nowadays even having an eye contact with relatives is awkward.
    Edit: psych2go a day keeps negativity away

    • @souleymandz5153
      @souleymandz5153 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/O-QkZSgUOj4/w-d-xo.html

    • @Tsenibanig
      @Tsenibanig 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      exactlyyyy

    • @srishtibharasha6429
      @srishtibharasha6429 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I hate eye contact with anyone

    • @ramenzballz
      @ramenzballz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@srishtibharasha6429 yah.. Same

    • @kermitthefrog4830
      @kermitthefrog4830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same, I can't stand eye contact even with my dad

  • @SV-pv9ef
    @SV-pv9ef 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Psych2Go.. I have anxiety, depression and a very low self esteem. Your videos are so helpful to cope with my mental health. I hope I will get better one day.
    Thanks a lot and keep going ❤❤

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! We are so happy to help! :)

  • @ahmed_da203
    @ahmed_da203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    “Oh no I got Seven C’s (the grades)”
    “How will you escape your mom’s wrath?”
    “I’ll sail the Seven Sea’s/C’s”
    How is that an awkward joke? They nailed it great.

    • @Grassmpl
      @Grassmpl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Study next time and "A's" your courses.

    • @ahmed_da203
      @ahmed_da203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Grassmpl I mean yeah.
      Wait are you making a pun? if you do I don’t get it...sorry.

    • @Grassmpl
      @Grassmpl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ahmed_da203 yeah. It means ace your courses. Wow no wonder you get Cs.

    • @ahmed_da203
      @ahmed_da203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Grassmpl ok now that’s a little rude. I read your “A’s” “as “A is your courses” as in if I study my course will be full of A’s.

    • @Grassmpl
      @Grassmpl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ahmed_da203 "A's" is pronounced the same way as "ace" that's why it's a pun.

  • @cateclism316
    @cateclism316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As a musician, I learned that if you mess up, just keep playing!

  • @_Alle_gator_
    @_Alle_gator_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Me: "Relating to all of these" :D Well crap.

  • @josegarza7719
    @josegarza7719 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve wondered if I’m socially awkward or just have autism. I want to socialize so bad but when I do I feel like a weirdo or a fake. I always talk to the most boring person in a group but even they start to ignore me when the most “popular “ person in the group talks to them or they try to talk to them. Maybe I’m just the most boring person ever lol. I have no clue. My social skills need some improvement. I’m literally starting a job helping people recover from drug addictions but the position I applied for is one on one talking but I was given a different position just to get my “foot in the door.” Ughh I had a tour and I felt kind of off as hell. I rarely go out and now this job is like going back to high school but with recovering patients everywhere. It’s not what I signed up for but I’m going to try it.

  • @w1tch_blades
    @w1tch_blades 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    0:18 - IS THAT TECHNOBLADE OR AM I IMAGINING THINGS--

    • @sumar__9553
      @sumar__9553 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It looks like technoblade with Dream lol

  • @critikasalihmeylani
    @critikasalihmeylani 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a feeling like I am a hollow vessel, and an MC who mostly listens to conversations instead of talking myself, yet does significant actions.

  • @kevinnguyen552
    @kevinnguyen552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The animation is so cuteeee

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks! Would you like to see more of this animation?

    • @kevinnguyen552
      @kevinnguyen552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Psych2go yesss

  • @Tsenibanig
    @Tsenibanig 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thanks for teaching me the difference of social awkwardness and social anxiety. dunno which i have tho

    • @agr0nianTV
      @agr0nianTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel like that comes down to extreme mental symptoms ie getting super stressed or wanting to pass out or physical symptoms. If being in social situations makes you sweat bullets every time or stutter so bad you can't be understood (or have other symptoms) I'd say it's anxiety otherwise it's probably just awkwardness.