9 Things Social Anxiety Makes Us Do

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  • @123456Daisy123456
    @123456Daisy123456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13130

    Social anxiety is constantly worrying about how you walk, how you sit, how you eat, how you look and how you talk when you're around people. It's mentally draining.

    • @Cloudyrain21
      @Cloudyrain21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +604

      True. especially the walking part, People constantly do make fun of the way I walk😭😭

    • @daisysaxby4238
      @daisysaxby4238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +242

      @@Cloudyrain21 They're idiots

    • @kiaratheotaku6257
      @kiaratheotaku6257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      It really is

    • @Cloudyrain21
      @Cloudyrain21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      @@daisysaxby4238 they definitely are.

    • @lee_likes_bees
      @lee_likes_bees 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      bro so true

  • @axi6562
    @axi6562 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11747

    Me: Literally just sitting in class
    Social anxiety: I bet everyone is judging you for sitting like that

    • @kailey_1234
      @kailey_1234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      Mhm

    • @arooj7329
      @arooj7329 4 ปีที่แล้ว +346

      OMG ARE WE THE SAME PERSON?!

    • @inky_tea4186
      @inky_tea4186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Lmao same

    • @katofrie
      @katofrie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      it's even worse when I wasn't thinking that but then everyone in class actually comments on my sitting -_- making me self aware and making my sitting a problem

    • @arooj7329
      @arooj7329 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      @@katofrie girl sit how u want to!! ur a queen, act like it sistaaa 😌

  • @professionalidiot5117
    @professionalidiot5117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11249

    “Stand up and tell the class a little bit about yourself”
    Social anxiety: allow me to introduce myself

    • @legitscoper3259
      @legitscoper3259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +281

      About myself is enormously uncomfortable, but talking about science or something isn't that much of a deal despite feeling constantly awkward

    • @lesliesaldana-.-
      @lesliesaldana-.- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      After social anxiety introduces itself.
      Me: (ŎдŎ;) oh boy...

    • @kumu1963
      @kumu1963 4 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      This is nightmare

    • @m4raaaaaa
      @m4raaaaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      idk why but tomorrow at first day of school i ll probably use sing language instead of words,i ll look like a freak

    • @kumu1963
      @kumu1963 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@m4raaaaaa no you won't look like a freak 😤

  • @piperthestargirl
    @piperthestargirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1060

    I constantly feel like I’m annoying people, that’s why I constantly distance myself away from others. My whole life has been changed because of my anxiety. I’m even afraid of joining a sport because I feel like everyone around is judging me because of how I perform said sport. It’s very hard living life with anxiety.

    • @nameynamd9212
      @nameynamd9212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Something that might be worth considering to do(if you haven't tried it yet)in some aspect, would be to put a positive spin towards other's perspectives, my case being that the people that are around me are also most likely dealing with their own problems, and while not exactly the same, it gives an interesting life just as complex as anyone, giving them something that would make considering another on a small scale less important than doing it on a larger scale such as one's lifestyle

    • @baozah58
      @baozah58 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn, same

    • @MOCHACH1MKN
      @MOCHACH1MKN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I can relate ALOT with the sport thing. My parents always ask me if i want to join a sport and I always would say no, and then they would ask why and then I would make up an excuse but yea im worried the attention will all be on me or ill make myself look like an idiot shooting a hoop.. My parents are thinking of forcing me to join track and you can probably imagine how I felt when they said that.

    • @usermqlwkejrhr
      @usermqlwkejrhr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Imma cry! That's exactly how i feel.

    • @montee3766
      @montee3766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      just be brave and hang in there! you just need to change your mindset!

  • @wannabe.historian
    @wannabe.historian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4706

    Me: Just sitting in class
    *someone talking and laughing somewhere in class*
    My anxiety: I bet they're laughing at you

    • @nicole-ikuru
      @nicole-ikuru 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      PLEAASEEE me asf

    • @veNus-mj6kx
      @veNus-mj6kx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That’s so true

    • @user-pz6ex9vv5r
      @user-pz6ex9vv5r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Doesn't help when you also hear them say your name, and idk if my mind is just making it up or no

    • @YummyTummy793
      @YummyTummy793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I hate that so much I start feeling overwhelmed judging myself, like I need to run and get on like I want to run and cry hide forever

    • @WeldingWombat2571
      @WeldingWombat2571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeah..

  • @anskeyfamily9064
    @anskeyfamily9064 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5358

    I find it slightly ironic that the acronym for Social Anxiety Disorder is SAD...

    • @HoV326
      @HoV326 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Same

    • @ruchamansukh1203
      @ruchamansukh1203 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      How is it ironic but🤔

    • @iwantahug6163
      @iwantahug6163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Lol
      SAD is at my language also USA

    • @ifrahjama2215
      @ifrahjama2215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Ikr

    • @rabbitguts2518
      @rabbitguts2518 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      anskey family actually SAD is the medical acronym for Seasonal Affective Disorder- a type of seasonal depression that typically only occurs during the winter months but feel better in the summer(some people are affected by the reverse of this) :) I do wonder if it was intentional to call it SAD though.

  • @inbasicterms-popculturevid1704
    @inbasicterms-popculturevid1704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3829

    Anxiety is not being able to sleep because you said something wrong two years ago and can't stop thinking about it

    • @ollycoleman7418
      @ollycoleman7418 4 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      Aha try 4 years ago

    • @MyrtheZelena
      @MyrtheZelena 4 ปีที่แล้ว +235

      @@ollycoleman7418 or just all the things that you did in your life and were silly, just before you wanted to sleep🙂

    • @AngryCandy89
      @AngryCandy89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      This!

    • @principessasuoradikirby9465
      @principessasuoradikirby9465 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      You just described perfectly my situation

    • @daeltgryn05
      @daeltgryn05 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Or thinking about something harmful someone said to you years ago

  • @ashbozuk
    @ashbozuk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +715

    Worst part is if I sent this to my mom she’d say:
    “You don’t even have any of these! Social anxiety is a sickness, you’re not sick. You’re just shy that’s all.”

    • @courtney5144
      @courtney5144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      or my stepmom would give me her classic line "your not special, everybody has this and that."
      i never said i was special 🙄

    • @piraimayitadelgadorodrigue9201
      @piraimayitadelgadorodrigue9201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      yeah and when i see someone i met years ago my parents are like "say hi" and when i say no they get mad at me

    • @anfasshakeel738
      @anfasshakeel738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I had confessed with mom and guess what she said "is that your age to have anxiety" It hurts me and now I feel like there is no one to listen to my prblm 😰

    • @nagito2788
      @nagito2788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Yeah I just don't know how to open up and when i do it's really fast and embarrassing or I'll say it like I'm joking so I don't cry and so they won't be like, omg that happened or omg really. I just it makes me feel weird when people say that

    • @ashbozuk
      @ashbozuk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nagito2788 SAME OMG

  • @manzanita9074
    @manzanita9074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2640

    me: literally breaths
    social anxiety: *your breathing too loud people are staring at you*
    it's like every little mistake that I do makes me feel like I just let the world down...

    • @alisonjoseph450
      @alisonjoseph450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Same my social anxiety be attacking me for sitting or even breathing or walking

    • @miss.random2235
      @miss.random2235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Yeah and when someone is looking at me while eating I won’t eat at all

    • @HSdirectioner5
      @HSdirectioner5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@miss.random2235 this used to happen to me excessively as a kid, and I ended up picking a spot away from my school campus (I used to go to a private school which was elementary, middle, and high combined, with a college somewhere there too) and I used to sit far away in a quite shady place and eat ._. But it was especially hard when I had to eat at a birthday party

    • @miss.random2235
      @miss.random2235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@HSdirectioner5 I know right and then everyone says why don’t you come with us

    • @HSdirectioner5
      @HSdirectioner5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@miss.random2235 ikr, like no thanks 😀 I’m way good by myself where I can hide from any potential embarrassment or cringe

  • @_jadeisgreen
    @_jadeisgreen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6702

    It started with shyness-….. it ended with social anxiety-

    • @txujia
      @txujia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      Very true!

    • @xxlover_horrorx
      @xxlover_horrorx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      So true

    • @theonewhovibes8228
      @theonewhovibes8228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +186

      lmao same wtf happened to turn me into this blob of mental disorders

    • @MsLet-et4wf
      @MsLet-et4wf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Same...

    • @UsedBandaid-i9k
      @UsedBandaid-i9k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      it started with my brother making fun of my weight and looks infront his friends to social anxiety

  • @belleisdone
    @belleisdone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3904

    *Me, eating food*
    *Social anxiety:* *”I bet you have food all over your face.”*

    • @enyeeet
      @enyeeet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +211

      SO TRUE!!! I wipe my face every 5 seconds

    • @ethericmeatball
      @ethericmeatball 4 ปีที่แล้ว +216

      or "You're eating that wrong"

    • @iclynnx
      @iclynnx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Oh my gosh yes! Exactly! How! I! Feel! I always worry that I have food around my mouth. I constantly check the mirror to be sure. Heck, I even had a dream about it once.

    • @beanhead7632
      @beanhead7632 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      Me: *eats food in public*
      Social anxiety: *ur eating like a cow, take smaller bites*

    • @m4raaaaaa
      @m4raaaaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      but the truth is that i have,idk how but the food gets everywhere no matter how i eat🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @ninecuevas5127
    @ninecuevas5127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +860

    Can anyone relate to crying during arguments or when being scolded as a kid, not because you were frustrated but because it was embarrassing. My entire childhood I never understood why I’d cry, but then I realized that it was so embarrassing to me that I was in trouble.

    • @Marina_7
      @Marina_7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Same! Also because of anger. Oh and whenever I cried in public (obviously out of my control) I was so embarrassed that it made me cry more and for longer which was more embarrassing which made me cry and it's just a nightmare

    • @eliszaquen
      @eliszaquen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I understand cause I am a teenager and sometimes arguing with my mother is so painful that I just cry cause if I'm talking back with logic she will say I'm disrespecting her

    • @isthatawormwildbowreferenc4562
      @isthatawormwildbowreferenc4562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      yeah, i get teary eyed/ cry whenever i rant or when somebody takes a photo of me

    • @meowmeowdefnotafurry
      @meowmeowdefnotafurry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      no because for real, this and the fact that my parents have done some uh.. calling cps worthy things when i was younger so now im terrified of them and what theyll do if i get into a fight with them

    • @whaa6894
      @whaa6894 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I can’t even get into arguments without crying I hate it so much

  • @ellieequizi6566
    @ellieequizi6566 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2059

    me: i'm sick of being afraid all of the time
    friend: you should talk to a therapist
    social anxiety: TALK?! to a stranger?! LOL

    • @jazgarcia4556
      @jazgarcia4556 4 ปีที่แล้ว +198

      THIS RIGHT HERE OMGG. I want to go talk to a therapist because I feel like I do have social anxiety but I don’t want to self diagnose but I also don’t want to go talk to a stranger 😅

    • @fl3ur1e
      @fl3ur1e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      SAME like a therapist is the only thing I can think of that would help me but how tf am I supposed to go see one with social anxiety?

    • @FirstnameLastname-yb6fy
      @FirstnameLastname-yb6fy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@jazgarcia4556 same! I mean I wanna know if I actually have social anxiety but I can’t even ASK to go to a therapist much less TALK to one.

    • @syalamontana2508
      @syalamontana2508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      EXACTLY. HOW I'M NOT FREAK OUT WHEN I'M SUPOSSED TO TELL STRANGER ABOUT MY PROBLEM. I'M SORRY FOR THIS CAPSLOCK I'M SO MAD AT MYSELF RN BECAUSE I DON'T HAVE ANY COURAGE TO SEE A THERAPIST

    • @greenthumb2326
      @greenthumb2326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I had a therapist that did home visits when i was little. Honestly it didn't help me. I'm not saying anyone shouldn't accept help but in my case it didn't help.

  • @celinetanio73
    @celinetanio73 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3438

    Me: going shopping for new clothes
    Social anxiety: I bet everyone is judging the clothes you pick out rn

    • @rubywilliams5912
      @rubywilliams5912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      My mum always asks me what clothes I want online and I always say “I’ll find them myself” cuz I want my friends approval on the items before I actually buy them

    • @sophiesleeps12
      @sophiesleeps12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I don't think I have social anxiety but I always was kind of reluctant to ask my mom for new clothes I wanted because she might not like my style/think it's inappropriate/think I'm still too young for that/whatever

    • @celinetanio73
      @celinetanio73 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sophiesleeps12 yees I agreee

    • @alisonjoseph450
      @alisonjoseph450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My social anxiety while shopping: I bet you people think the clothes your picking are too small

    • @nova3535
      @nova3535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This.

  • @CynthiaCho
    @CynthiaCho 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3713

    Having social anxiety can ruin so many opportunities but it’s SO HARD WHEN YOU HAVE SOCIAL ANXIETY 😭😭

    • @san_syc9808
      @san_syc9808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I agree

    • @rayz0rxxx
      @rayz0rxxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      been avoiding jobs and events, sucks man

    • @hsanchezisidora
      @hsanchezisidora 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      @@rayz0rxxx same, had to drop out from school and later university :(

    • @rayz0rxxx
      @rayz0rxxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      @@hsanchezisidora im sorry for what happened to you :( i also feel like im gonna drop out from college just because i can't do this basic human function. Havr you ever meet a therapist or psychiatrist?

    • @hsanchezisidora
      @hsanchezisidora 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@rayz0rxxx when I dropped out I went to both, then they discharged me because they thought I was good enough. But later I noticed that nothing really changed until I dropped out again from university on the first semester, and decided to go to therapy again. With the new therapist I came to know that the first one did a horrible job and was totally superficial, so was the psychiatrist. Now I know that healing is a lot more work but totally worth it, im taking it one day at a time, because I came to the realization that this anxiety disorder came from other unresolved traumas. So I do recommend seeking proffesional help and to start understanding yourself more deeply this way and be forgiving with yourself :)

  • @noahhhhhhnoodle
    @noahhhhhhnoodle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +418

    I have social anxiety, my mom says I'm just shy. It has gotten to the point where she forces me to talk to people and I end up getting super anxious and I end up backing out of it. My mom says I'm just shy but I know it is more

    • @beengel3887
      @beengel3887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      This happens to me as well something as simple as ordering a pizza or asking where the bathroom is,
      is horrifying, then she forces me to do it and tells me to grow up... I love my mom and she probably thinks I'm just being shy or something so I don't really blame her, BUT I'm moving to a new school and I'll have no friends :/

    • @montee3766
      @montee3766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      once I wanted to ask the cashier at mcdonald's how to get the multicolored cola glass but I didn't wanna feel like shit blocking the queue of actually hungry people who just wanna eat

    • @anveshakaushal9490
      @anveshakaushal9490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah i have the same problem with my dad

    • @jiyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
      @jiyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I messed my friendship cause of this

    • @lavenderiris9744
      @lavenderiris9744 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@montee3766 best description fr

  • @dkfmoni1518
    @dkfmoni1518 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2438

    This world is too cruel for someone like me who's introvert, shy and got social anxiety easily!

    • @zak3172
      @zak3172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Ikr same 😢

    • @cinnamon.9809
      @cinnamon.9809 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      yes, but it must be horrible for extroverts ppl too, it will change even more who they are

    • @zak3172
      @zak3172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +178

      @@cinnamon.9809 I don't understand ur last sentence, and nobody said the world isn't hard for extroverts, but it's definitely more favoured to be extroverted in this world than introverted

    • @NatureLover-pj2qe
      @NatureLover-pj2qe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same 😭

    • @kaitlyn5126
      @kaitlyn5126 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      I’m in high school I definitely don’t feel that there’s a safe environment for people with mental illnesses

  • @taniapedraza5202
    @taniapedraza5202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1763

    I don't know why but when I am walking alone mostly in school I feel like people are going to pity me because they think I am alone or because I am just walking in circles..

    • @brunanns
      @brunanns 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      that's me everyday. When i'm alone and surrounded by lot's of people I touch my phone like im doing something really important just to don't make eye contact with anyone

    • @brunanns
      @brunanns 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      that's why i prefer staying in empty places like the classroom when everyone goes out, the bathroom or library.

    • @whatintarnation1230
      @whatintarnation1230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      that’s me... i only have one person in my class who hangs around me bc she’s an introvert so we only have eachother so we’re don’t seem awkward, but i feel like she doesn’t like me but when my class goes outside and she isn’t outside with me i have no one to be with so i walk around looking alone and all the popular kids are near me so i feel like they’re judging

    • @jaysh4429
      @jaysh4429 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      das peak u got no mates

    • @Jennifer-lx9ti
      @Jennifer-lx9ti 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's exactly what I feel...

  • @xyrotus
    @xyrotus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3635

    *me and my classmates eating at the same table*
    me, thirsty: huh i should drink
    my classmate: *drinks before I even go for the glass*
    me: K. NOPE. no drinking for at least 5 minutes or else ill come off as a copycat and everyone will hate me.

    • @WeldingWombat2571
      @WeldingWombat2571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      Yeah.. this is me and I hate it.

    • @michellemartinez6295
      @michellemartinez6295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Sadly relatable I wanted bangs for so long but then a girl had bangs in the class so I haven’t got them but now I moved school so I got bangs now but yes I hate that I feel like everyone is going to say that I’m an copycat

    • @sammy-fp9xv
      @sammy-fp9xv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      This is incredible how I relate to this even if it’s so stupid 💀

    • @kimi5700
      @kimi5700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      are we twins?

    • @kimi5700
      @kimi5700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@michellemartinez6295 had the same thing, but with shoes.

  • @katkit7803
    @katkit7803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +296

    Do anyone ever feel judged even when they are alone? Like that feeling of constantly being watched and judged by someone or something. I feel like I make up reactions of people and it's just like I'm being judged, even when I'm alone.

    • @wallflowerboy5088
      @wallflowerboy5088 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Yeah I imagine that someone I know watches what I’m doing and judges me even when nobody is around, especially my gf

    • @katkit7803
      @katkit7803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@wallflowerboy5088 Wow. You couldn't have explained it more clearly. I hope you get therapy friend, that's what I'm doing.

    • @deejjay7442
      @deejjay7442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah me too

    • @adt4025
      @adt4025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yep. I don’t sing in private, always keep completely covered up, I don’t think about certain things, etc. It’s just an overwhelming feel of embarrassment no matter what.

    • @Kuxt0r
      @Kuxt0r 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YES. i always go under a blanket when im on my bed even if im not sleeping and my light is always off so the invisible people on the invisible cameras cant judge me or see me

  • @smackthemack5995
    @smackthemack5995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +617

    For me
    Period + school + social anxiety = THE WORST THING EVER

    • @ruun2729
      @ruun2729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Ikr

    • @ohmymegan651
      @ohmymegan651 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Omg yes, if I get my period on a school day, I ALWAYS stay home that day, the paranoia of leaking is just too much and I cant concentrate anyway.

    • @envious4890
      @envious4890 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Jokes on you, I don’t have periods. But that must suck in sorry

    • @magnetiterose9614
      @magnetiterose9614 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That must be pretty bad. Well I'm a guy so I don't really know what it feels like but I'm sure its bad. For me I try to control my anger whenever I become socially embarrassed cause my anxiety makes me angry and I usually feel like going physical on someone. ;-;

    • @Devin-wx8wb
      @Devin-wx8wb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I'm trans and lemme just tell you that is the worst combination to have ever existed. Especially when you aren't even supposed to have a period

  • @meowmeow4326
    @meowmeow4326 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1167

    "If u suspect u have social anxiety we highly advice to seek professionell help" that includes telling someone about my problems haha no.

    • @seymaae
      @seymaae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      İkr like how do i tell someone how i feel, it's reallly hard. I'd get so nervous thinking that they'll judge me

    • @weano_o
      @weano_o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I was seeing a professional and i was so nervous and afraid of being judged that i faked so i could quit it

    • @naaimanadeem9507
      @naaimanadeem9507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@weano_o same

    • @weano_o
      @weano_o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@naaimanadeem9507 Good :] now both of us are suffering in silence :)

    • @jkstcibg
      @jkstcibg 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@weano_o same.

  • @bendavis6457
    @bendavis6457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +796

    Heart be like- "I AM SPEED."

    • @nardeenahmed234
      @nardeenahmed234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Damn my heart turns to flash 😂

    • @darkacadpresenceinblood
      @darkacadpresenceinblood 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Ikr, and I'm like HEART I JUST SAID HI TO A PERSON. No need to act like I'm about to be chased by a lion.

    • @boopdoop69
      @boopdoop69 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      speeeeeed is keeeeyyy

    • @greenthumb2326
      @greenthumb2326 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gods speed!

    • @teresajackson918
      @teresajackson918 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      *WHEEZE*

  • @nadawaell_
    @nadawaell_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +508

    I would literally sit uncomfortable for hours in class bec adjusting the chair would make a noise and everyone’s attention would be on me.

    • @thedestroyer3642
      @thedestroyer3642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Same with for example if Im near a person I don't get on with I have sit still like a robot but when they leave I act normal and comfortable

    • @cryingrn343
      @cryingrn343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I do that every day I'm so fucking sick of it :(

    • @mostritozuri7443
      @mostritozuri7443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey let me tell ya something when you graduate. you will chose where to go. so you won't see 500 kids in school just strangers in supermarket or any place. your anxiety might get a bit better dealing with fewer people. I feel much better if i walk around public spaces with people I know.

    • @alessadolan5718
      @alessadolan5718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do you know what i did, i had to go to driving class and i had to sit in a class full of strangers… I purposely changed my possession on the seat to face my fear.. but it helped i got used to it after a time

    • @adt4025
      @adt4025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same!

  • @strawbmoxx
    @strawbmoxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1701

    *someone holds a door open for me*
    what i’m trying to say: thank you!
    what i actually say: ᵗʰˣ

    • @browniepotatodipd6177
      @browniepotatodipd6177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      So me!

    • @whos.rafael
      @whos.rafael 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      yess

    • @mikkey_
      @mikkey_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +190

      And then you keep overthinking about it and the way you said it

    • @sylvianimates
      @sylvianimates 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      me trying to say hi to a teacher that said hi to me and in a shaky voice i go *hhhIi..*

    • @Leo-lm7qk
      @Leo-lm7qk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      same

  • @Brattybaby333
    @Brattybaby333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1326

    social anxiety literally affects my everyday life. I’m 22, it’s hard to talk to people, i get anxiety going to work, going to do errands, but as an adult it makes it really hard... anyone else in this same boat?

    • @nnekaokike315
      @nnekaokike315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      ME ME!! I’m 19 and it’s literally a problem in everything that I do. When I go to work and a lot of people are just talking and chatting I get anxious. When I go to the gym and ppl are having fun I get anxious. I just get anxious around big groups of people and it’s sad bc I have a personality but for some reason I get choked up and it’s so fucking annoying being in a constant battle with who I am and the person I want to be. Idk if that makes sense but I really relate to what you’re saying

    • @jadascott6401
      @jadascott6401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      MEEEE

    • @lizg4698
      @lizg4698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yea... it got so bad to the point I had to take a sick leave for more than a month. I go back to work in a week and I already feel sick to my stomach knowing I have to deal with toxic coworkers.

    • @jadascott6401
      @jadascott6401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@lizg4698 sheesh .. I pray you get a different & better job 💙

    • @lizg4698
      @lizg4698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jadascott6401 thank you🥺 I will definitely start looking again soon! Nobody deserves to be treated inhumanely😔

  • @Hannah-sn3ii
    @Hannah-sn3ii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +491

    Anyone else ever type out a comment, rewrote it multiple times, and then kept over thinking so much you just didn't comment anything? Or you do, and then worry about it excessively until you just end up deleting it?

    • @alisonjoseph450
      @alisonjoseph450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Same there's so much comments I didn't type cause I over thought it
      I legit did it for this one

    • @cheshirecreeper3743
      @cheshirecreeper3743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      This is validating to a massive degree

    • @l3naru995
      @l3naru995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      many times

    • @ewwoof8463
      @ewwoof8463 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mee!!

    • @sarcasm5499
      @sarcasm5499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@alisonjoseph450 same

  • @galacticaltdubg8540
    @galacticaltdubg8540 3 ปีที่แล้ว +359

    with social anxiety, you feel like youre constantly being watched when you go out in public... what sucks about this is i also have scopophobia (fear of being stared at) qwq

    • @theweebnextdoor_official
      @theweebnextdoor_official 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      aghajsmkj i feel this TwT

    • @winterwithawhyknudsen5166
      @winterwithawhyknudsen5166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      since im in a wheelchair, im used to it. its only when ppl start pointing/wispering. Im also seen as a threat to parents' children. parents constantly tell their toddlerd to "be careful" around me. i hate it.

    • @montee3766
      @montee3766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      oh damn I stare at other people in public all the time

    • @lavenderiris9744
      @lavenderiris9744 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@winterwithawhyknudsen5166 no no, they don’t consider you as a threat, they just say that to their kids so they don’t accidentally bump into your wheelchair and make you uncomfortable.

    • @lavenderiris9744
      @lavenderiris9744 ปีที่แล้ว

      ⁠@@montee3766 bro you are the reason I feel like I am constantly being embarrassing lmao

  • @yourfriendlyneighborhoodbl1520
    @yourfriendlyneighborhoodbl1520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2052

    Therapist: it’s okay, take your time.
    My anxiety after three seconds: *you’re taking to long.*

    • @saarinenj1
      @saarinenj1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Wow relatable

    • @HiNata-wr8wp
      @HiNata-wr8wp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@saarinenj1 hello

    • @alisonjoseph450
      @alisonjoseph450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Same even if they say its fine my social anxiety: they way their looking at you they probably hate you and think your taking too long they think your stupid

    • @miss.random2235
      @miss.random2235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@saarinenj1 n then I am not able to say anything my mind just goes blank

    • @BZendry
      @BZendry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Too

  • @jayyjaee
    @jayyjaee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +887

    The worst thing is having social anxiety since you were a child and your family didn't care because they thought you were just ""too shy"" and now they judge you for not "being like every one else"..... Take care of your kids!! Mental health is important!

    • @ella4788
      @ella4788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      this is so true..

    • @Marina_7
      @Marina_7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Exactly! Wow that really hit me. I'm 22 and just today realized I'm pretty sure I've had social anxiety since around 4 yo I think? It was really REALLY bad when I was a kid too. Thinking back, it was so obvious. I thought I was just oversensitive and not good enough. Of course, I was just called shy a lot too lol and not much else.
      I'm better with people now at least in certain contexts, I'm a lot more comfortable with asking shopkeepers for stuff, being friendly and joking around, asking for directions, trying to get involved in conversations (and often being ignored but not always!) etc and I now have friends who value me and care about me.
      However, I'm really scared of authority or certain types of people (think super outgoing+manipulative combo) or situations. Talking to any authority figures (even online!) can get me to the point where I'm obviously extremely tense and even trembling. The worst is that I usually even procrastinate or avoid talking to authority terribly, out of fear.
      I do wonder now, if my parents had considered that I was sick and could be helped, if maybe I wouldn't be like this now. Therapy has a bad reputation here particularly because of the therapists being really bad so that's not an option, but this really is hard.

    • @jayyjaee
      @jayyjaee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Marina_7 I'm 22 too omg!! I'm so glad that you are so much better with people and I hope you keep getting better and better... For me, it's getting worse... Since the covid hit and all the quarantine stuff came, I tend to avoid speaking to others so much more to the point I can't even go to answer the door to the mail guy...
      I feel you... I'm always so scared of authority and I always procrastinate too ://
      Mine don't even know what I have now and always thinks it's my fault for being like the way I am.... In there head, they were perfect but I have soooo much inexplicable traumas and fears because of them...
      I really want to try therapy but I'm so afraid... I can't trust someone like that to expose my whole life and fears, you know??
      Anyways, sorry for my English and I hope you keep getting better and better!! I hope, one day, you can go to therapy because I really think it's important!
      Stay safe

    • @Marina_7
      @Marina_7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jayyjaee Wow, high five, my symmetrical age number friend!
      You're so sweet, I'm so sorry you have gone/are going through all those things. I may not have lived your life, but I feel you.
      (Also I'm not a native speaker either but your English is great!!!)
      In a sense I kinda liked quarantine at first but it really affects you before you know it!
      Also with the parents, it's too true, I think they gave me pretty strong trust issues with certain things.
      My parents don't get what's wrong with me either, it's stressful.
      Although I might overshare here haha, I really do feel you with not trusting some random person with your fears and life. It's really scary!
      I know it's not much, but maybe I can try to give you some tips that helped me get more comfortable with talking to people!
      1. _No talk, just exist among people_
      I sometimes go to a mall or park or something alone, where I don't know anyone and nobody knows me so whatever I do no one cares.
      You can just walk and look around.
      I usually like listening to yt videos (like reactions or movie reviews or funny stuff) or music while I do that, or ofc you can call someone or just walk silently.
      You can even go further and buy yourself some water or ice cream or something in the park, and you'll have completed a "talk to someone" achievement by saying "hello" and "thank you, goodbye" to the cashier!
      2. _Doing it to help someone who is struggling_
      For example if I ate pizza with a friend that disliked ordering (you know how it is lol), after a few times I became driven to order our food myself and pretty confident with it! I would rehearse the order a few times, then when the waiter came I spoke up and said every item on my mental list confidently and it kept getting better. (Ofc there are some occasional mishaps like not hearing a word well and stuff but don't sweat it, it's all good and nobody actually minds).
      3. Text friends or group chats
      You don't even need a reason, you can send a meme or funny video and bam, conversation starter!
      Or the good old "what's up" of course.
      It's like talking, but without the talking, eye contact and showing up to stuff. It can be short too!
      And if you want to feel better about yourself, maybe watch the video "This is a KAREN epidemic" by courtreezy. At least you're not one of those people lol
      Sorry for the novel, I hope it helped somewhat. Thank you so much for the well wishes! Stay safe and always remember to enjoy little things! 💝

    • @salmanfawasck1241
      @salmanfawasck1241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jayyjaee pls consult psychiatrist. They will listen to you carefully and it is there professional ethics to keep secret client details. Always seek help with best mental expert or counselor. I bet you they will not share with that with anyone.

  • @afloatgamer8582
    @afloatgamer8582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2453

    Social anxiety: exist
    Mom: it's because of that damn phone

    • @satoruhared2421
      @satoruhared2421 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      X2

    • @maukthika1149
      @maukthika1149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      all moms are the same :'/

    • @Haleighhubbard
      @Haleighhubbard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Hm- Moms just don’t understand the pain..🥱

    • @karlah6647
      @karlah6647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      My mom is like: Is because you read all those things from the internet!!

    • @iamagoodboy1929
      @iamagoodboy1929 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes:/ 😢😢😢😢😢

  • @ADMmachine
    @ADMmachine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    i cried all the time in the school cafeteria, I was scared of people watching me eat, the people in front of me making fun of me, I missed my mom and was scared of everything in general, I was surrounded by people, but why is it that I just felt lonelier than when I'm alone at home? i hated everything about school, and lunch wasn't any different.

    • @lapotato6620
      @lapotato6620 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lunch was probably the worst part of school because it always seems like people are judging you but you just can't see them... Me personally I don't eat at school and I wait till I get home. I also don't eat breakfast so I'm usually rly hungry when I get home but it feels like I can't eat much

    • @mariabria2671
      @mariabria2671 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too I wish I would get in trouble at lunch just so I can sit and eat alone at a table

    • @adt4025
      @adt4025 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That sounds pretty serious.

  • @liky977
    @liky977 4 ปีที่แล้ว +521

    giving a presentation is such a nightmare because i can barely even stand my legs shake so much and i get light headed

    • @dh2054
      @dh2054 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Your legs are shaking, try deep muscle relaxation starting from your toes to your face. If you get lightheaded that’s because you are breathing too fast. Breathe in and out calmly. Lightheadedness makes anxiety worse.

    • @sakumalover69
      @sakumalover69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Me too. I remember vividly giving a presentation in 3rd grade by myself and just crying my eyes out in front of the entire class because I was so scared.

    • @asyllo5611
      @asyllo5611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same. The last presentation i did i was shaking so bad i could Barely breath. It was so bad. I was barely speaking.

    • @whatintarnation1230
      @whatintarnation1230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      OMG my legs start trembling too! i thought that was just me, i literally cannot control it either no matter how hard i try and it’s so embarrassing

    • @theylovesvia9198
      @theylovesvia9198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      before presetation even got tome I had sweaty palms was so shaky I eventried to escape doing I went up presented the class laughed I thought oh there laughin at me my heart beating fast I HATE IT🥲

  • @leniee2125
    @leniee2125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +310

    Im so social awkward that i cant even walk properly outside cause i think everyone is watching my every step so im thinking if i messed up everyone will judge me and make fun of me and when i thinking not to messed up i started messing up..... So thats why i walk really silly outside...

    • @juliagoodman9180
      @juliagoodman9180 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      i have the same thing but related to my hands, i don’t know what to do with them when im walking in a crowded place. its so weird, i feel like im doing something wrong and that everyone can see it

    • @bellatrixlestrange2403
      @bellatrixlestrange2403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same!!

    • @cheryl_sprout
      @cheryl_sprout 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My friends laugh at how I run, cause I’m kinda self conscious. ;_;

    • @gioama6953
      @gioama6953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I relate to this down pack. I get mini panic attacks when I walk pass parked cars with people in it too. Or when someone's walking my direction from a distance and they get closer and closer. Why are we like this lmfao

    • @juliortega2648
      @juliortega2648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same, es como si me olvidara como caminar

  • @michylichy01
    @michylichy01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +871

    I have another
    10: Not being able to control the tears that come out because of the frustration of having to speak in front of others and the more you try the less you get the words and although everyone thinks it's normal and you're just nervous inside you are angry, hating yourself and wanting to just run away because you know that when the tears come out everyone will say "okay, it's not that bad" when for you it's that bad and to be told otherwise makes you feel STUPID for being so dramatic. No one else cries for something like this! WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME?! WHY CAN'T I PLAY IT DOWN?! WHY am i crying?!
    Because...
    Nobody wants to see...
    That I care
    ...

    • @JustMe-op2sp
      @JustMe-op2sp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      that hit harder than my grades at the end of the school year

    • @shirosua
      @shirosua 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I’m in this comment and I don’t like it-

    • @ciellgr
      @ciellgr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @moon_light everyones inner voice with SAD ofc 😔

    • @a.m.acryingisok6316
      @a.m.acryingisok6316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Alright, reading your comment made me cry, I hope you'll get better soon, I'm in the same spot too and it hurts when people say "you need to be more confident" while you feel like you can't do anything about it... I'm with you, take care ;^;

    • @thisannoyinggirlrightthere9359
      @thisannoyinggirlrightthere9359 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Same.. I cry so much, like when we go to the Doctor, a teacher for the end of my year, when i have talk with my parents, everthing that stress me, but i hate me for that it's since i was in elementary school, it's so hard to not cry for me. That how i express when i'm not confortable, like i was heading home alone at 7 in the morning (it was soon school and i was "driving" my brother to school) i had no bag, and i saw people from school in their car, i was so stressed that people in their cars will juge me, that i ended up crying in a road with my glasses and my mask, i was suffocating , worst day of my life, it happened so many time, it's so infuriating ! (sorry if some word are wrong english is not my first language)

  • @mayu475
    @mayu475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +691

    When everyone else wanted quarantine to end, here I am, wishing it would be longer :/

    • @crimson3539
      @crimson3539 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Exactly. The thought of walking in public places makes me feel a little sick.

    • @silentwaves_1472
      @silentwaves_1472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@crimson3539 same! Whenever I go to public places it feels like my heart is about to explode and I wanna throw up

    • @anyaforger9428
      @anyaforger9428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same

    • @cupcakesfanficgameslover5792
      @cupcakesfanficgameslover5792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I hate going to public places

    • @panshul6227
      @panshul6227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ik this is out of context.. but what's ur pfp

  • @slapshot9614
    @slapshot9614 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3349

    “Don’t be shy, just talk to people more.” This is just like saying:
    “Are you blind? Just see more.”
    “Are you deaf? Just listen more.”
    “Are you dead? Just live a little.”

    • @dontask9000
      @dontask9000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      My parents would be “are you blind? Get glasses” this means that they won’t tell me to just do the thing that seems impossible. Find something to help you do it instead.

    • @jaclyn._h4989
      @jaclyn._h4989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      How do you have asthma when there’s all this oxygen🙃

    • @karamerulatte
      @karamerulatte 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      My mom said that hours ago when I tell that I have anxiety

    • @dontask9000
      @dontask9000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@karamerulatte It’s ok my parents too

    • @fewbronzegames
      @fewbronzegames 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      and this is why i choose to never talk to people

  • @kenny-nk5db
    @kenny-nk5db 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2671

    summary:
    1. Repeatedly checking the location and time 1:16
    2. Rehearsing conversations in your head 1:42
    3. Avoiding phone calls 2:21
    4. Faking phone calls 3:04
    5. Constantly worrying about how everyone sees you 3:32
    6. Feeling lonely even when you’re surrounded by people 4:08
    7. Clenching your teeth and other physical discomforts 4:44
    8. Obsessing over how you look 5:14
    9. You feel more like yourself around the people you’re comfortable with 5:49
    Recommend watching to learn more. 💖

    • @jouska9594
      @jouska9594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      thank youu ♡

    • @kenny-nk5db
      @kenny-nk5db 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      DJ RE you’re welcome love

    • @koahni2410
      @koahni2410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ah , what a hero . Thanks !

    • @iexist1300
      @iexist1300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Nice. (: I relate to a lot of these but since I'm still quite young I don't do phone calls much.

    • @jouska9594
      @jouska9594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@iexist1300 samee

  • @DafinaNotAwesome
    @DafinaNotAwesome 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1538

    “why don’t you make eye contact, it’s not that hard?!”
    me: 🙂

    • @user-pz6ex9vv5r
      @user-pz6ex9vv5r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      People need to stop speaking for everyone, just because it's not hard for them doesn't mean it's the same for us. Some people have serious struggle with it and then someone acts like it's nothing

    • @childrenofthecorndog8851
      @childrenofthecorndog8851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      "Oh wow that helped so much bro lol" 😂

    • @the_bees_knees_keys8270
      @the_bees_knees_keys8270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      When I tell you I try SO HARD not to make eye contact...💀

    • @kailajensen1021
      @kailajensen1021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Omg I thought I was the only one who was scared of eye contact

    • @jinxmylover
      @jinxmylover 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Making eye contact just makes it so much harder for me to speak
      Also I’m not the only one who can’t eat when someone’s staring right?

  • @andxr7903
    @andxr7903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    I literally cannot breathe without thinking “am I breathing right?” Im not even joking whenever im at school that thought comes up

    • @noidontneedsleep
      @noidontneedsleep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      same, once I had to put books away in the school library with this guy and then he said "why are you breathing so heavily" and I was like "I dont know". that made me not want to breathe even more. what does normal breathing sound like?

    • @andxr7903
      @andxr7903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@noidontneedsleep idk lol

  • @michylichy01
    @michylichy01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +367

    The worst part of when you imagine a conversation, is when the answer is different than what you imagined. My brain just "well, luck with this I'm leaving :D"

    • @oof_xX
      @oof_xX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      oh god same

    • @lemondropzs
      @lemondropzs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂 honestly that’s why I don’t even bother preparing because then I panic. I figured I just need to practising improvising and thinking on the spot. Over preparing can be anxiety inducing too.

    • @winterwithawhyknudsen5166
      @winterwithawhyknudsen5166 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      its so awkward trying to close conversations XD

    • @TheInvisibleIndigo
      @TheInvisibleIndigo ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeahhhhh, i just zone out of the rest of the conversation then (my ADHD)

  • @dailydoseofmedicinee
    @dailydoseofmedicinee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +436

    Physical signs and symptoms can sometimes accompany social anxiety disorder and may include:
    👍
    Blushing.
    Fast heartbeat.
    Trembling.
    Sweating.
    Upset stomach or nausea.
    Trouble catching your breath.
    Dizziness or lightheadedness.
    Feeling that your mind has gone blank.

    • @ashyunii
      @ashyunii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      wait why do i get all of them nononononononono-

    • @rmarianne
      @rmarianne 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me

    • @ultichu6612
      @ultichu6612 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes 👏

    • @ruchamansukh1203
      @ruchamansukh1203 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The first and the last ones are so relatable 😬

    • @niesa4601
      @niesa4601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This is me when im at school and the teacher ask me anything, even stuff that i actually know the answer for it.. Like, most of people kinda hate me because of these.. Sometimes.. They felt like im very annoying.. Im trying my best but it never turns out good... I hope i could cope up with it soon...

  • @capitanfersparrow
    @capitanfersparrow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +793

    This disorder is more like a curse.

    • @vijeshkumar692
      @vijeshkumar692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      True 😔

    • @stevencoil9831
      @stevencoil9831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Fuck yeah

    • @lon2yy
      @lon2yy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ikr...

    • @dacanation12
      @dacanation12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes

    • @SomeIdiot213
      @SomeIdiot213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      School was the worst time of my life because of it.....

  • @b5005
    @b5005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I also start tearing up and sometimes even cry whenever I tell someone about my social anxiety. I don’t even know why but when I talked about it to my mother for the first time I couldn’t bring out the words and started tearing up. Thinking about having anxiety makes me feel bad and more anxious. Idk if I’m the only one

    • @yaren8251
      @yaren8251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      same

    • @layna05
      @layna05 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I do the same thing, because I feel like I’ll be judged for being so vulnerable and then added onto it, doing it in front of your loved ones who don’t understand this, they then down play it and make it not as important of a problem that you know it is. It’s so annoying and I hate it.

    • @linasid8702
      @linasid8702 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Just reading this comment makes me feels so comforted that im not the only one like this cuz it can feel so isolating sometimes like no one else acts like i do

  • @unnamed8947
    @unnamed8947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1192

    Math teacher: "You're really smart! You should participate more in class to match your grades!"
    My social anxiety: *no ❤*

    • @nightmare3691
      @nightmare3691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      Omg- at every parent-teacher conference the teachers always tells my mom that “Oh she’s a smart girl, but she should really participate more!” LIKE HELL NO- I feel like everyone would secretly laugh and make fun of me if I say an answer wrong-

    • @unnamed8947
      @unnamed8947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@nightmare3691 EXACTLY!!!

    • @insomniatiny_
      @insomniatiny_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@nightmare3691 Same- I participated like 3 or 4 years ago and I got qualified into like 3 competitions but my anxiety made me mess up and I barely got into the semi-finals-

    • @alisonjoseph450
      @alisonjoseph450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same I think I'm pretty smart but my social anxiety be like: what if that question is wrong, and the teacher thinks your stupid,I think you should change it or else they will laugh at you

    • @axmy0613
      @axmy0613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think my social anxiety started in primary school with that b*tch math teacher and and my dad.. since then everything I need to do socially Im afraid I'll just mess up .

  • @verycoolpersonguy
    @verycoolpersonguy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    I was raised thinking I was just shy, weird, or overreacting whenever I was encountered with social situations. It's so comforting to find other people who experience things the same as me :)

    • @futuretomtom
      @futuretomtom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same :D

    • @fatoumatacisse3796
      @fatoumatacisse3796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ikr I thought I was just shy but I really relate to people with social anxiety like having a constant intense fear of people judging me and being ashamed of how I eat and walk and I overthink every sentence I say or At night I would start thinking and crying about something I should’ve said in a conversation that happened years ago

  • @str1p.t3ase
    @str1p.t3ase 3 ปีที่แล้ว +484

    Me: literally going on a walk or doing anything
    Social anxiety: I bet everyone is judging you and you’re clothes

    • @blendyboi5023
      @blendyboi5023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Why are you walking like that?

    • @miss.random2235
      @miss.random2235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@blendyboi5023 wHy ArE yOu bReAtHIng like that
      When someone is near me I even try to hold my breath so they don’t hear me breathing

    • @blendyboi5023
      @blendyboi5023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@miss.random2235 why is this guy holding his breath?

    • @miss.random2235
      @miss.random2235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@blendyboi5023 well it happens with me I feel very nervous when someone is sitting or standing beside me and I think they will judge me if I breathe too loudly and if I breathe very low then they might get uncomfortable (sorry for English it’s not my first language )

    • @lynnxx1744
      @lynnxx1744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@miss.random2235 FR. whenever i have my headphones in and i'm just vibing, my brain goes: "what if you're like breathing really loud rn, that person looks really pissed off and is probably looking at you because of it"
      and then i hold my breath in case

  • @Crow-xn8sp
    @Crow-xn8sp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Teacher: Please introduce yourself to the class
    Anxiety: i'll do that too lol

  • @lol-xd9fr
    @lol-xd9fr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1993

    Just as i’m about to have panic attack perfect timing

    • @faeinacup
      @faeinacup 4 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      Hey, how are you doing? You okay? xx

    • @cosmindevil7074
      @cosmindevil7074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      I hope you are ok,my king

    • @gani4211
      @gani4211 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      I hope you are okay though.

    • @user-eu7zf5vf6i
      @user-eu7zf5vf6i 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      I had an anxiety attack while writing an exam today and I fricked up

    • @lol-xd9fr
      @lol-xd9fr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      I’m fine i gues idk it’s the stress of seing my therapist again. sorry for my english

  • @wisdom-for-all
    @wisdom-for-all 4 ปีที่แล้ว +468

    When your teacher says “If you don’t start raising hands, I’m going to have to call on random people” 😊 Fight back because worthiness is your birth right 🖖

    • @ifrahjama2215
      @ifrahjama2215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      👏👏👏

    • @dontdenyme
      @dontdenyme 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      I always get scared when my teacher calls on me

    • @dontdenyme
      @dontdenyme 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Robot Man that’s sad when I have to show my homework I but on the glitching sound and if they say type it In chat i my reconnecting in my name

    • @swagyoongi7733
      @swagyoongi7733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@dontdenyme same and my heart starts beating SO FAST and my hands are literally shaking :(((

    • @dontdenyme
      @dontdenyme 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@swagyoongi7733 school used to be about learning now its just passing like yoongi said school is a scam

  • @R4da.cant_art
    @R4da.cant_art 4 ปีที่แล้ว +841

    Old friend: This girl is really cool,introduce yourself!
    Social anxiety: Don't. Talk.

    • @seba-ho2xp
      @seba-ho2xp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Dilyana Chohadzhieva that’s me :/

    • @wernerhiemer406
      @wernerhiemer406 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Even worse my crush seems to have that disorder. Yet I let fall cutlerry onto table as I saw her coming into room. Well it got better but still no hugging that just barrely were able to touch elbow to elbow on passing by.

    • @inky_tea4186
      @inky_tea4186 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      My anxiety just starts screaming when that happens

    • @esmeralda1446
      @esmeralda1446 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's not social anxiety.

    • @stevencoil9831
      @stevencoil9831 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Social anxiety run away

  • @baal2.078
    @baal2.078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    ill never get over the constant uncomforting feeling sitting in a room filled with people. (Mostly talking about classrooms) I’ll sit there and talk to people, but on the inside I’m like having an anxiety attack right then and there.

  • @symnading7056
    @symnading7056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    I don't even resonate or feel comfortable around my friend and we've been friends for like 7 yrs. I can't open up to anyone.

    • @noelthornqvist6309
      @noelthornqvist6309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same here

    • @nezumi5678
      @nezumi5678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I opened up to my internet-friend but I think she didn't understand me and my fears

    • @arleth4740
      @arleth4740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      omgggg yeess, i feel really bad about that but yeah, i feel like they can't uderstand me and are gonna judge me idk

    • @shiprayadav9409
      @shiprayadav9409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I thought I was the only one. I have been friends with them for 12 years. Still I can't open up to them and I feel like it's too late to open up now. My personality has changed over the years and I don't show them my this side. What if this weirds them out like they could think why have I changed my personality all of sudden?
      I only open up to my sisters sometimes

    • @reemsblox9783
      @reemsblox9783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      same but with my literal FAMILY. PARENTS. SIBLINGS.

  • @gc-qh7rr
    @gc-qh7rr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    I do all of these things.
    My dad, a natural leader, blames me for being “meek” and “shy”. He says I’ll come off as “stuck-up” which only ADDS to my social anxiety. I haven’t actually talked to anyone about this, so people reading this... congrats, you now know a random stranger on the internet has social anxiety and is even scared to talk about it unless she’s hiding behind a screen. Doesn’t help that I recently joined a soccer team who has been together for 3 years, I don’t know anyone, and they try to include me but I’m too shy to interact with anyone,
    5 months later edit: so Things have gotten a lot better and I’ve become more comfortable with my teammates :) thank you being so nice in replies :,)

    • @happyvirus5377
      @happyvirus5377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Don't be ashamed❤

    • @sweetbabycrumbs
      @sweetbabycrumbs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Nah, you're really brave 🙂
      Playing soccer is really cool btw
      I wish you good luck and hope everything works out for you ✨

    • @pikathemimikyu6655
      @pikathemimikyu6655 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel you. Don't worry, it'll get better.

    • @wonderlunar
      @wonderlunar ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so happy for you 💗

  • @izabellakoziel
    @izabellakoziel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2448

    is anyone scared to even talk to their mom in fear of being judged?😀✨

    • @imapomegranate9955
      @imapomegranate9955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      Sadly yes.

    • @izabellakoziel
      @izabellakoziel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @ᴀʟᴏɪs literally my life🌝

    • @faolanodonnell4378
      @faolanodonnell4378 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I dont talk to any one for that reason

    • @spicysalsa3576
      @spicysalsa3576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Yes scared, but also more like don’t bother cuz she doesn’t understand how anxiety works

    • @enbybee_7026
      @enbybee_7026 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Omg I thought I was the only one-

  • @MarizaHex
    @MarizaHex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    It's crazy because I knew something was wrong from a young age, anytime I was out with my mom I would always ask her to do social interactions for me, especially when ordering food or talking to doctors. I sadly didn't know I had the disorder till I was an adult, while I'm glad to know what I'm dealing with is common and others go through it as well, it's still difficult to work and keep a job and go out at all

    • @adt4025
      @adt4025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is me. I ask my mom to do these things too. It’s like I’m living in 3rd person sometimes but I don’t have a problem with it unless I’m expected to do it on my own.

    • @winterwithawhyknudsen5166
      @winterwithawhyknudsen5166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i thought that kinda stuff was normal! i also do it still.

  • @theinternettrashcan
    @theinternettrashcan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7925

    me: i have social anxiety
    my family: it's ok i was shy too when i was your age but you will get over it
    me: 🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃

    • @xlcver
      @xlcver 4 ปีที่แล้ว +521

      The same thing happens to me it's so annoying☹️ when we show most the symptoms of anxiety or something they just ignore it and think that it's just being "shy" and "you'll get over it". I hate it here 🥺
      And they wonder why we don't tell them anything anymore 🙄

    • @ordinaryguy6654
      @ordinaryguy6654 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      yesterday is not today Have you told them you think you have social anxiety disorder?

    • @theinternettrashcan
      @theinternettrashcan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      yesterday is not today i have legit told my family i have social anxiety, and they honestly think it's just shyness-

    • @xlcver
      @xlcver 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@theinternettrashcan you should try to tell them again but this time actually tell them it's rlly serious

    • @xlcver
      @xlcver 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@ordinaryguy6654 no cause they won't believe me

  • @tyloo17
    @tyloo17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I can't tell how many times I've ruined personal relationships because of my social anxiety.

    • @jajdude
      @jajdude 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Or never got into one, or didn't even try to get one

    • @sakumalover69
      @sakumalover69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I relate to this. I lost a lot of my friends due to my social anxiety 🙁

    • @saarinenj1
      @saarinenj1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hah i ruined my relationship already. SOCIAL ANXIETY IS A CURSE

    • @pangpang6982
      @pangpang6982 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I ruined a relation ship and I ruined multiple friendships. This is pretty much the reason why I only have 1 friend. I know that friend for 6 years and they understand my problems which is why I'm comfortable & open around them. The friends I lost most likely ditched me because of my shyness & because I would never be the first one to text them. Social anxiety has ruined my whole life and made me have a horrible childhood. I'm now going to college knowing I'll probably drop out because of my social anxiety, but I'm not giving up. I hope you guys aren't either, stay strong guys. ❤

  • @teca9481
    @teca9481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    When I feel like I’m getting better, something happens and it ruins everything... it’s so hard to live like this, I don’t wanna cry anymore

  • @drinasun6984
    @drinasun6984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Social anxiety has really drained me. It literally cost me my vision. It has cost me many opportunities in life. It crippled my social health, as well as my academic performance in school.

  • @inbasicterms-popculturevid1704
    @inbasicterms-popculturevid1704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I am severely overwhelmed with everything. It's come to a point that even small tasks make me feel like breaking down and crying. Everything is just too much for me now.

  • @rmsdimples8533
    @rmsdimples8533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +467

    Me: **walks**
    My mind: you're walking like your drunk and everyone sees it

    • @isthatawormwildbowreferenc4562
      @isthatawormwildbowreferenc4562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      my mom said i walk weird so for the rest of the day i looked down and tried to make my feet and straight as possible

    • @shanmathyv
      @shanmathyv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I can't walk in a straight. When i walk with my friends side by side i usually try to control myself from not hitting them.

    • @AdrianReyesMex
      @AdrianReyesMex 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@isthatawormwildbowreferenc4562 same they said u was walking like a penguin lol it was funny at first but then I tried walking straight as best I could

    • @isthatawormwildbowreferenc4562
      @isthatawormwildbowreferenc4562 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AdrianReyesMex whenever i try to walk straight it looks so stiff and forced and i still mess up a bit so

    • @AdrianReyesMex
      @AdrianReyesMex 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@isthatawormwildbowreferenc4562 I can totally relate

  • @waveykirby
    @waveykirby 4 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    "if you feel like you have this problem go and speak to a mental health professional"
    *me who is too anxious to speak to a professional but wants to*

    • @haseenabadshah5381
      @haseenabadshah5381 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      to.*

    • @taytaythehufflepuff8532
      @taytaythehufflepuff8532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @Wavey Davey
      me: has a slight desire to get help, but doesn’t know where to go, doesn’t want to cause a burden on my parents, and doesn’t think it’s bad enough and that I’d just be a bother...

    • @Tegan_The_Nobody
      @Tegan_The_Nobody 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@taytaythehufflepuff8532 This is so me it hurts

    • @theonewhovibes8228
      @theonewhovibes8228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me who wants to reply saying the comment is relatable but not knowing what to say other than "lmao same" so now im just 🙃

  • @devil-chan2466
    @devil-chan2466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    My social anxiety has really gone bad. It started when I was in elementary school or maybe even in Kindergarten. I was always bullied in Kindergarten and in every School. They always made fun of me, but I think one of the breaking point, was when a teachers critizied my drawing because I Drew a the ocean first with straight lines and then with Bevel lines. She said that makes in look ugly and no one else should do that because it was dumb and that I should start over (I was nearly finished and six) but in a way that everyone heard and then they started to make even more fun of me. The second breaking point that I went into puberty with seven and got my periods with eight. All the girl were Jealous, because I'm already and puberty and the boys were disgusting. And my Teachers wanted me to act like an adult. Because of that the bullying got worse and my friends started acting like I was their parent. The third point are my Family. My Parents don't love each other and often fight. My father is an narcissistic alcoholic that acts like a victim and commits Domestic violence. But my mother can't break up with him because of money. My brother act like we are all monsters and doesn't understand why my mother is broken and is angry because he didt know that I'm going through things and now he doesn't even contacts us any more and only talk with the rich side of the family (all of these people are monsters and he does not care because they have Money). My sister also is crazy and wants me to die and always said that I am the devil because I nearly killed her mother (first of all is our mother and second of all she was sick when she was pregnant with me and nearly died but didn't) And my grandmother is a narcissistic psycho. The fourth point is my old school. I got bullied from the teaches and my classmates. The Teachers always gave me a bad Testimony even tho I had straight As. All the years I started going less and less out with friends and started talking to them less and less. And stopped going to school. And now Im at a point were I don't go out anymore, were I don't have friends, were I can't hold a conversation. Were I can't do anything even know I anxious to get hated on. Even my therapist said he won't treat me if I don't go to school. I have to go into a clinic but I have to wait until next year. But next year is to late. Cause I will graduate next year. I'm just so lost

    • @paipai3796
      @paipai3796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I am really sorry for all the things that happened to you, I wish you all the luck of this entire world❤️❤️❤️

    • @devil-chan2466
      @devil-chan2466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@paipai3796 Thank you so much. I also wish you all the luck of the world

    • @paipai3796
      @paipai3796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@devil-chan2466 thank you very very much.
      Im trying to figure out if I have a bit of social anxiety or it's just my dumb stupide brain wanting attention.

    • @Laurren
      @Laurren 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bless you

    • @mostritozuri7443
      @mostritozuri7443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Dam,thats ruff I hope you can find A Caring person that will treat you well. Like a actual family member
      Sincerely 😄💙❤

  • @yara5465
    @yara5465 4 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    When all eyes on me I feel really uncomfortable and those physical effects are what I'm afraid of like literally my heart starts racing, my hands sweat alot like really alot and I start shivering but I try to control it plus I try to breathe more cz I feel like I'll die in any minute. I wish that our society would pay more attention for these points cz really some people out there with social anxiety need to be understood and without getting bothered by others because it's not a thing that we can control that much

    • @Haleighhubbard
      @Haleighhubbard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It scares me- that I think ima die- just any second..u never know when god just takes u- it could be- any minute or any day..

    • @ifrahjama2215
      @ifrahjama2215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sameee

    • @miniaturecreature
      @miniaturecreature 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And the limbs go stone cold, like literally cold

    • @yara5465
      @yara5465 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@miniaturecreature yeah cold and numb

    • @silverseen8300
      @silverseen8300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@yara5465 and when you feel your stomach flip and a wave of nausea hits😞

  • @maomao7098
    @maomao7098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1962

    *Okay class please introduce yourselves*
    *Social Anxiety: here I come!*

    • @Iloveunikolai
      @Iloveunikolai 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      XD

    • @roziewon2525
      @roziewon2525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I never knew any mental health issue until I become 18. I wasn't aware I've been this damaged.

    • @everythingisfine2046
      @everythingisfine2046 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      *Now this looks like a job for me!*

    • @Wren796
      @Wren796 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Social anxiety:let me introduce myself.. Or not, let's just stare at them panicking and not say anything!

    • @JoaoVitor-vj9kk
      @JoaoVitor-vj9kk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg these bots...

  • @demoniccatcomingforyou
    @demoniccatcomingforyou 4 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    Mom was right when she said that i need a therapist

    • @bananasmoothie_.
      @bananasmoothie_. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same my mom also said I needed a a therapist

    • @demoniccatcomingforyou
      @demoniccatcomingforyou 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I don't even know how to properly talk to my family without struggling to not stutter or say something stupid

    • @uncreativesupernatural387
      @uncreativesupernatural387 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Well, my mum wanted too, but I didn't want to, because of social anxiety, of curse

    • @atbashh
      @atbashh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, I’ve been thinking about getting one. But, now thinking about it I’m probably just going to freeze up.

    • @JR-qf1sv
      @JR-qf1sv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      haha my friends were all right. they were all right-
      edit i have generalized anxiety, not social anxiety, but i still do a lot of these things

  • @hhoneyteaa
    @hhoneyteaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    Honestly so sad how people assume "social anxiety doesnt exist" but it does, and thousands of people are suffering from it. To the Dads and Mums out there: Please treat your children better.

    • @montee3766
      @montee3766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I mean sort of pushing people with anxiety to social interractions is healthy

    • @amelhormatilha7847
      @amelhormatilha7847 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@montee3766 Yeah, it may be difficult but if you keep doing that some time you will overcome the anxiety.

  • @nothanks1239
    @nothanks1239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Watching this has actually made me realise how much I have improved. There are many things on this list I no longer do.
    I feel so relieved, I thought I would have social anxiety for the rest of my life.

    • @bookenjoyer3970
      @bookenjoyer3970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s so good! I’m glad I can finally say the same thing too, it’s taken me a while but it’s so rewarding to see all the hard work pay off 😊

    • @OliviaMorning
      @OliviaMorning 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But how? I'm trying to get out my social anxiety but it's hard😔

    • @bookenjoyer3970
      @bookenjoyer3970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Olivia Morning at least in my experience part of it will always remain, but for me I’m more aware of it now and I’ve learnt to be mindful enough to override it if I can sense it taking control

    • @nothanks1239
      @nothanks1239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@OliviaMorning Everyone will have their own ways to deal with it. For me, I just had enough one day, and started answering the phone every time it rang and started telling myself that nobody is worth this much worry. It has been a gradual process, not an instant fix. Just forcing yourself to do something out your comfort zone (no matter how small) each day is progress.
      Coming out of that comfort zone, at the beginning, is not an easy feat. So, take your time and don't put too much pressure on yourself.

    • @ritaruggerone4434
      @ritaruggerone4434 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yay!!! I'm so happy for you! Keep it up, you're an inspiration!!!

  • @astoldbynickgerr
    @astoldbynickgerr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Social anxiety feels like an invisible hand covering your mouth, while the other is around your neck. Suppressing your words. Amongst other things.

  • @pastaaaaaaaaoo3796
    @pastaaaaaaaaoo3796 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I was once served by a lady who just knew how to deal with my anxiety and she was so patient with me. Just wanted to dump a good story here.

  • @doesntmatter3769
    @doesntmatter3769 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Got diagnosed recently with social anxiety, I relate to a lot of the points in the video. Every social interaction with strangers literally stresses me out - I hate shopping, riding public transport, talking to a waitress, dislike phone calls. It's so stressful and so draining, I'm constantly tired because of this. Due to my anxiety I've developed another condition where if I'm super stressed I can't even eat properly and I can be in a lot of physical pain due to the amount of stress I'm under. I'm trying my best to improve and just become a normal person. It's not easy when family isn't really understanding either and they criticize you for being so stressed. It's not like I can stop stressing when someone tells me to stop stressing. I wish people wouldn't see us as lesser people, we're doing our best in life.

  • @handsdown8390
    @handsdown8390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    *If I could ignore phone calls without hurting anyone’s feelings I wouldn’t even use a phone for the purpose it was built for.*

    • @joesaba9134
      @joesaba9134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same

    • @caramel..
      @caramel.. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      *imagine having friends that call u*

    • @joesaba9134
      @joesaba9134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@caramel.. same

    • @joesaba9134
      @joesaba9134 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@caramel.. man thats life

    • @joesaba9134
      @joesaba9134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@caramel.. trust me itll be okay i mean its not for me but dont worry

  • @laurendaley2503
    @laurendaley2503 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Social Anxiety is a living HELL, its practically ruined most of my childhood and teenage life.

  • @oggdx
    @oggdx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +481

    Okay I have all that, now the bigger question: HOW DO I FIX IT

    • @lindakay9552
      @lindakay9552 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      In my experience, you never "fix" it. You just constantly work on making it better. How? A good psychiatrist is a good start. I went through about a dozen before I found the one I've been seeing for 10+ years. Therapy and possibly medication are essential.
      Get to know yourself. Self understanding is vital. Explore spiritually. Learn mediation and relaxation.
      Learn when and how to say no. Establish healthy boundaries. Learn to recharge.
      Build a support group of people who you can talk to openly about your anxiety. It's way easier to be around people if they know you are anxious. That way you don't have to try to pretend to not be.
      Know that is okay to be anxious. But, it's imperative to try to overcome allowing it to cripple you.
      Best wishes. 🥰

    • @faiqa098
      @faiqa098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@lindakay9552 but where I live we don't go to psychologist for issues like this. They consider going to psychologist means you're mentally disable😭 I'm just 16 and idek how to tell my mom. Because I come off as confident get good grades so she has no idea :(

    • @lindakay9552
      @lindakay9552 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@faiqa098 do you have someone like a school counselor or a trusted teacher who you can talk to? Church is a great place to find help. Any mental health issue can be considered a disability. But anxiety is a very natural human emotion. At 16, it's very important to find a way to tell your parents or other responsible adult if you have any psychological or emotional issues. It's their job to look out for you. Sending hugs. Stay strong.

    • @faiqa098
      @faiqa098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@lindakay9552 we don't have counselors here in our schools and churches aren't common here :( but I'll try to find a way thank you

    • @ultichu6612
      @ultichu6612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Linda Kay
      agreed. you can’t exactly fix it, you mostly have to learn to live with it in a way that’ll affect your daily life as little as possible. you should try to talk to someone and understand the kind of ways you can help yourself.

  • @Ashley-su1yw
    @Ashley-su1yw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I’ve had social anxiety probably for as long as I can remember. And I feel as though all of these points are really accurate, and I can relate to basically all of them. I once had a panic attack because of my social anxiety because I wasn’t around anyone I knew and I was hours away from home. It had felt like my throat was slowly closing up and as if I couldn’t breathe, but luckily I was still able to breathe. It felt as though my heart gonna beat so fast and just combust. It was horrible, but once I got to my mom she was able to help me calm down. I felt very embarrassed afterwards for seeming like I was freaking out for no reason. I haven’t been officially diagnosed with social anxiety, but I don’t think I need to be told that I have it, because I just know that I do.

  • @seymaae
    @seymaae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    "feeling lonely even when you're surrounded by people" this shit hits hard

    • @esmeralda1446
      @esmeralda1446 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is not social anxiety.

    • @esmeralda1446
      @esmeralda1446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@seymaae When you have social anxiety disorder it's very difficult to be "surrounded by people", it's difficult to have friends and even talk to your family sometimes.

    • @esmeralda1446
      @esmeralda1446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@seymaae Oh jajaj sorry, English is not my first lenguage... I though you meant something else xd

  • @williamdavis132
    @williamdavis132 4 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    I have social Anxiety and didn't know the actual word for that.

    • @ellen8540
      @ellen8540 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      you should get diagnosed if you think you have it and not just go around saying you do

    • @juniuws
      @juniuws 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@ellen8540 I'm even scared to meet a therapist what should I do

    • @ellen8540
      @ellen8540 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      jiminshibae it’s okay! If you do see a therapist, open up as much as you can, but it’s alright if you’re scared! And don’t forget that we can do hard things :)

    • @juniuws
      @juniuws 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ellen8540 Thank you, I'll try asking my parents :)

    • @peachy-wd6ci
      @peachy-wd6ci 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How should I tell my mom i think I gave social anxiety... I'm 13 and I do all of these I can't even look at people you don't understand how sad i get at school because of how anxious I am

  • @mistyBubblez
    @mistyBubblez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +570

    Teacher: Group time
    Everyone: yay
    Me who has no friends and socially okward and has social anxiety: NOOOOOO PLEASE NOOOO!

    • @linaberrada8489
      @linaberrada8489 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      that's meee

    • @ArmpitMiko.
      @ArmpitMiko. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      me: OUUU SHIIIIIIII-

    • @cjmiracle4013
      @cjmiracle4013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg that‘s so mee!

    • @automotiveworld-wide4378
      @automotiveworld-wide4378 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🤣🤣🤣🤣Definitely me... Anything done in a group please count me out... I used to lie and said I didn't feel well so that i don go to school cos the teacher announced a group activity the previous day

    • @Imnotspecial0.0
      @Imnotspecial0.0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I always prefered them to pick who i was going to be with since is not their choice nether mined, but when that happens i am that kid that nobody wants in their group, so a stay alone until any teacher comes to me and chooses what group should i be in :v

  • @juliatu2116
    @juliatu2116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The problem with me is that I feel watched and judged even when I’m alone doing or thinking normal things. Like, I’m thinking something and then I suddenly feel like I’m being judged by someone

  • @eliza91d
    @eliza91d 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I'm always on my phone and when someone calls me i just wait for it to end and than go back making excuses why i didn't pick up even though i just watched my phone ring the whole time...

  • @nox5574
    @nox5574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    My parents: "you should make friends."
    Me: "I try but its hard." *has severe social anxiety*
    My parents: Just don't be shy
    Me: "wow! I didnt think of that, problem solved" *sarcastic*

    • @fruty_ari2374
      @fruty_ari2374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So true

    • @miss.random2235
      @miss.random2235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      BiG bRaIn tImE seriously when ever I have to go to some public event my parents are like don’t be shy and here I get anxious even while asking where the washroom is

    • @nox5574
      @nox5574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@miss.random2235 IKR i always make my sister do the talking at social events

    • @miss.random2235
      @miss.random2235 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nox5574 ikr I just sit in the corner or don’t go at all

    • @coralinejone
      @coralinejone 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      my parents always say "you can make friends you just dont want to"

  • @rxzeni
    @rxzeni 4 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    I have social anxiety and socializing is hard like really hard for me people actually keep forcing me to socialize (example my mom) but i just cant im just too shy and i always get red or sweaty when im in the middle of socializing and if they ask for something for me i'll say sure because i dont want to be seem as rude or i just want to make a good first impression- its hard ya know when you dont wanna be lonely forever but your also scared to open up. But when im with those who are im comfortable with i became a social butterfly. Social anxiety really sucks..

    • @elliea5088
      @elliea5088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      it does i have it to and it has ruined my whole life , i want to let you know it's still really bad & hard to be around/talk to anyone but things have got a little easier after 12 years once i could open up it's still a back and forth struggle but i never thought anything could change , hang in there and if u want to talk about it i'm here i know how isolating it can be

    • @loaf41
      @loaf41 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Same
      When we go on a vacation my dad always forces me to befriend someone BUT I DON'T WANNA
      I keep telling him i don't want to but he keeps insisting and i hate that
      Like, nobody wants to be friends with me anyways and it'll be awkard when you approach someone in the pool and randomly say "hey, wanna be friends for no reason just to appease my dad?"
      And they'll be like "wth is wrong with you no"
      That's why i don't wanna talk to anybody cuz it will be more awkward and if anything like that happens i wouldn't be able to get out of my room bc of embarrassment
      I've been telling this to my dad for years and he still doesn't understand cuz he doesn't have a problem like that qwq

    • @Sapxhirez
      @Sapxhirez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same! i feel so bad ;-;

    • @uicolee
      @uicolee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      i understand how you feel. i go through the same thing❤

    • @iamagoodboy1929
      @iamagoodboy1929 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Same
      My mom tells me to go outside. She says,"If u r not gonna socialize, then u will never become a successful person. If u stay at home, u will be depressed all the times." I can completely understand what she says. But it's difficult. I have tried talking to myself in the mirror,to know what am I lacking in. I am a tweenager. I know if I don't take all this seriously, I will suffer till the end:, ( But it's hard. I have seen that. Even when I don't want to talk to some stranger, my parents force me to go approach them!!!!!! I remember one time I was on a vacation with my family, we were in a restaurant. She insisted me to ask the waiter for napkins, but I was way too scared, I just can't get over this problem. My mum scolded me there, and I literally had to go ask the waiter, I was acting weird when I rambled over upto him. I just need someone to understand me:( My family doesn't understand what "SOCIAL ANXIETY" is. They just accuse the phone every time, I am desperate for that miracle, when I am conversating with no hesitation.

  • @alecocothunder8277
    @alecocothunder8277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Social anxiety is not just the fear and paranoia of being judge by others. It's also the fear of everyone assuming things on you, assuming your actions and thinking, the fear of everyone putting you in a box. It is very aweful overthinking that a lot. You make irrational things when social anxiety hits you. And everything you say and act is always planned in your head so you don't get to embarass your self. And after interracting to people you get depressed thinking it was not the right response. You them think they'll gonna hate you, dislike you, look down on you, disrespect you, judge you, weirded on you, laugh at you, get away from you. Social anxiety is not as easy as you think it is humiliating and physically mentally draining. If you think you knew someone who have social anxiety please dont give them a hard time. ❤️

  • @maryc1267
    @maryc1267 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Me hearing 2:22 "avoiding phone calls"
    *ba-DUM* 😳-
    "why you gotta expose me like thattt?😫"

    • @bendyalien
      @bendyalien 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😳😂 yeah when my friends video call me and they have more than 3 people on the call I just ignore because I get too nervous 😖

  • @Haleighhubbard
    @Haleighhubbard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I have all these- and I’ll tell u this..it’s not easy..I isolate myself from others..even my friends...and I’m scared to be in public anymore...it’s like- everywhere I go..I almost go in panic mode- bc I think there judging me- from my appearance..and it rlly sucks.. trust me..if u don’t have social anxiety ur rlly lucky- bc us who have it- it’s hard to be around friends, family, and/or strangers- meaning- making new friend, it’s difficult and it can be so..frustrating at the same time. Bc u wanna live ur life the best way possible but u can’t bc it’s making u feel- like ur getting judged.

    • @moonofmida
      @moonofmida 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Everything u said is true..!! It has changed my life.. i literally avoid going everywhere.. I can't talk.. I can't eat.. I can't do anything!!!!

    • @Haleighhubbard
      @Haleighhubbard 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      c k, So I ain’t the only one not eating-...

    • @moonofmida
      @moonofmida 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Haleighhubbard yeahh..idk how to explain to anyone what i feel at that time!! I try so hard to be relaxed..but still..it gets my head!!!

    • @Haleighhubbard
      @Haleighhubbard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      c k, Ik how u feel-..it rlly sucks...like I’m about to go somewhere today and I’m terrified bc..I probably haven’t left the house in 2 months..ik it’s kinda depressing, but no one understands how hard it is to live with social anxiety, yah know? Like I understand if I don’t speak to ppl- ima not get anywhere in life..but I feel like ima day the wrong thing at the wrong time or just mess it up without doing anything, maybe just mess it up from my appearance..

    • @moonofmida
      @moonofmida 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Haleighhubbard i can totally understand that..i need therapy ..but not possible at the moment..and anybody besides me would never gonna understand how i really feel..so all I'm doing is being at home..even though i feel good sometimes .. feeling like i can get through this..but just before something i again get terrified..not even sure about my life and my career!!!

  • @Etigress
    @Etigress 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This is why I hang out with animals. Animals love you no matter how you look or feel. They don't judge you

  • @zayzay980
    @zayzay980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Me: minding my own business
    Social anxiety: aren't you worried?
    Me: about what?
    Social anxiety: idk
    Me: OH SHIZ UR RIGHT-
    This was a joke I know what having sa is like and I know it's horrible... Stay strong ❤️

    • @aye4413
      @aye4413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ikr

  • @Alex-kn4gk
    @Alex-kn4gk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    When you want to go see a counselor but your too nervous to go because you have social anxiety:

  • @chlxecxmb5578
    @chlxecxmb5578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +300

    Psych2Go: please seek a professional counselor.
    Me: First I can’t, I have school, second, I’m 13 I’m a girl, who’s gonna believe me? No one, cause they think it’s the hormones 😃👍

    • @chlxecxmb5578
      @chlxecxmb5578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Comment Monster I hope things go better for you soon, stay strong 😚✊

    • @chlxecxmb5578
      @chlxecxmb5578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Comment Monster no worries, you’re English is actually good, but you can’t take my opinion cause my first language isn’t English either. Anyways, wish you an awesome life / future

    • @Exotic_ssan111
      @Exotic_ssan111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same 😔✊

    • @nikutowin7334
      @nikutowin7334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      In general is kinda hard to get a diagnose, but it's even worse when you're a teenager. Why? Cus yeah, it could actually be just the hormones and the fact that we are young, this makes it even more hard to have an accurate diagnose. It's understandable that people will think the issue are just hormones but it also makes things more difficult, cus even if you really have a disorder it'll take a lot of time to be noticed and treated 😔

    • @JustMe-op2sp
      @JustMe-op2sp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same!

  • @someonenotcool7555
    @someonenotcool7555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Ithink my social anxiety got worse when someone started calling me crybaby (bc I cried a lot) then I stopped showing any emotions, now I’m sad but I can’t cry 👍

    • @happyvirus5377
      @happyvirus5377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9


      Somebody said the same thing to me so became extremely self-conscious around them and everytime I cry I keep telling myself that I'm a crybaby.
      It's so sad that it's so easy to literally destroy a person inside, but it's so hard to heal.
      I hope we'll get better❤

    • @ariesgal2676
      @ariesgal2676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      One person called you a crybaby and that person was an idiot. Crying is super healthy good for the mind and body releasing toxins etc. Cry WHENEVER WHEREVER anytime you feel sad. Aaand if anyone has a problem with it they're weak.

    • @theweebnextdoor_official
      @theweebnextdoor_official 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i thought it was just me :'> i used to also be a crybaby and even my mom would say I'm too emotional and for a while i could barely cry at all
      my depression also contributed to that though so it wasn't entirely from social anxiety
      but now a lot so at least i got feeling back TwT

  • @maryriamarano3613
    @maryriamarano3613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Always felt that I'm person who just passes by other people's lives but never even remembered🙁

  • @lalhlimpuiichhakchhuak9090
    @lalhlimpuiichhakchhuak9090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    You make psychology so interesting and it makes me want to become a psychologist. ✨

    • @jsarenefilms
      @jsarenefilms 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same :D

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Glad to hear :) How do you feel about thsi video?

    • @lalhlimpuiichhakchhuak9090
      @lalhlimpuiichhakchhuak9090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Psych2go I find it quite accurate and very informative. Amazing work as always❤

  • @Natalie-yq4yg
    @Natalie-yq4yg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Does anyone else with social anxiety purposely hide their face when introducing themselves because they don't want people to judge their looks

    • @gunshot768
      @gunshot768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ugly me - Yes!

    • @amna6842
      @amna6842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's why I like wearing masks eventhough i have asthma

    • @mrs.yeahright1797
      @mrs.yeahright1797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same especially when I'm meet new people...I usually hide my face by my hair automatically

    • @alisonjoseph450
      @alisonjoseph450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is why I don't introduce myself to people cause if I hide my face I look dumb and it think ppl laughing at me

    • @l3naru995
      @l3naru995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      quarantine made this so easy, just wear a mask! and if somebody asks you why, tell them there is a pandemic!

  • @nuhahafiz2490
    @nuhahafiz2490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    i ignore my friend's exitence and act like i didn't see her and man, i feel so bad.

    • @ramintasa9188
      @ramintasa9188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah... don't do that

    • @winterspringfail
      @winterspringfail 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I don't know entirely what you mean but many times I won't say hi to people I know. I know how hard it can be.

    • @Macmaniaaa
      @Macmaniaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      winterspringfail Same. Most of the time if I see someone I know I won’t say anything to them unless they something first. And I feel so bad cause sometimes they don’t say anything and we just kinda pass each other in silence

    • @ramintasa9188
      @ramintasa9188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Macmaniaaa i do that sometimes too, but ignore someones exitence?

    • @Macmaniaaa
      @Macmaniaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Raminta As Ok, I personally don’t go that far, but I don’t judge. Social Anxiety comes in all shapes and forms. I mean agree with you tho, that’s a little extreme.

  • @priya9370
    @priya9370 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have social anxiety.For it i can't make friends.i have to think a lot before asking for help,i feel tensed when teacher is calling our name,i feel fear asking for extra sheet in exam,i would rather not write than asking for paper,i cant talk to peaople easily.i always think about how i am looking,is my mouth smelling bad,if i talk will they see my bad shaped teeth,is my dressing sense bad,am i frowning,is something wrong with my dress,in a full class i look around and i see i am the only one not talking with anyone,i always feel frozen in my bench,feeling guilty, worthless,i cant make eye contact with people.i feel the fear of being judged.i feel lonely,i feel left out,i dont consider myself as a human,i wanna be a normal person,wanna have a normal life.being in a full room of people and not feeling weird because i am not talking to anyone... Is like a dream in my life.
    for real,i was a really fun girl all along my life till 5-6 grade..then in 6 grade i was in a really competitive exam.i couldn’t pass it.from then i was in depression.then i got adhd which was worse in lockdown.i dont what is it called but i had really bad overthing problem in grade 8.. even now i am a headache to me.when will it stop.my mother is a big roleplay in this.she always told me black and made fun of me, made my self confidence down. Now i am in grade 11-12.i have grown up.i will be 18 years old in this month.still i feel a lost a lot in my childhood.my childhood was shit.i dont know what is ahead of me in the future. I want know anything about me, what i will do in life,how i will manage everything later. will i be able feed me in the future. but i will do something.but i am really hating this time.i know people have their problems too.but at least they have friends, they laugh,they meet each other, move around,take pictures,eat,shop,make memories,what i am doing,nothing.why am i so left out.what i have done god.why are you punishing me like that.i know god has kept me very well.give me food,shelter,education everything, i should be grateful.but sorry god,i have done nothing to be punished liked that.i dont deserve this social anxiety.you have already gave me a lot of physical problems,i have endured that,but now enough with my mental health.give me a normal mental life or kill me.forgive me god.and give me a normal life.thank you.

  • @arthea1377
    @arthea1377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    having social anxiety is really hard , it's part of our daily life worrying because we have this. i regret because i let myself to be like this 😭. it's really seldom for me to go out and initiate conversation. I hope everyone who's having this can overcome and change because we shouldn't be like this forever.

  • @comfysnow7844
    @comfysnow7844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    “If you have any of these symptoms please speak with your mental health professional”
    *me being too anxious to do that🧍‍♀️*

  • @iamnothere700
    @iamnothere700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I really want to get a diagnosis, because every time I watch a video like this and resonate with all the signs, I’m like “what if it’s all in my head and I don’t actually have it even though I think I do.” And then I start worrying about that. It’s just difficult when you have parents that go “you’re just shy. I was pretty shy at that age too, you’ll grow out of it.” And then leave it at that. I’ve even had panic attacks at school and in other social situations WITH THEM. And they still won’t take me to see a professional.

  • @cyb3rk138
    @cyb3rk138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Today I had another panic attack when I was away from home and started feeling like I was going to be sick so I went to the bathroom and sat on the toilet with the toilet seat on and breathed and watched some of your videos they really soothe me and your voice is so relaxing thank you