Why is a narcissist nice to everyone? | When only you see the TRUE version of the NARCISSIST
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- Why is a narcissist nice to everyone? Do you feel like you are the only person who sees the true version of the narcissist and can't figure out why the narcissist is nice to everyone but you? Narcissistic abuse by a narcissist can be damaging to your mental health and lead to anxiety, depression, and other mental health concerns. Even if you know that the narcissist is nice to everyone one but you, you might wonder if you stay and if you have been trauma bonded. Narcissists use impression management as a way to devalue you while making themselves appear competent to others. Through their manipulation, narcissists can control how others see you and you are not the crazy one!
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They take you for granted and expect more.
This is driving me insane everyone loves him and thinks he's a good person
Except for all the people who are closest to him and have witnessed his true colors. They know he's not a stand-up guy. Everyone that wants to take his side, they aren't worth a crap anyway so why would you want to have them on your side, they are such a bad judge of character. I let all those fence rider's go also. I feel like a lone wolf lots of times but that's okay, I know I'll never turn on myself.
To all the people that don't want to pick a side, they want to ride the fence & I figure if you're not for me, you're against me. And it's amazing how they all miss you when you're gone.
How can I get a counseling session with you?
@@rexwillhite4751we’ll said!
then everyone else is living in his reality not their own🤷🏻♀️
My narc mom was nice to everyone but me. She treated me like trash. They do this because they know you have figured them out and they can't win you over.
High-5 across the aisle as the 50-yr old scapegoat son. I just told my mom to cancel her airplane tickets 2300 miles away to my decades now adopted HOMEtown. Gotta love how they provoke, and then pretend like you're the SUPPOSED "bad" guy.
They always have to REWRITE the narrative in the Karpman Drama Triangle
My narc mother would even say it “ everyone thinks I’m a good person “ meanwhile I see the sadistic side often..
i almost cried when you said "i trust your perceptions"
My husband is singled out by his brother. His brother is nice to EVERYONE but my husband. He has a great family, nice children, but when it comes to my husband, he is very mean and abusive. We have now set boundaries! We have such a happy life distancing from his brother!
Absolutely, seeing through Narcs' true selves often engenders the priviledge of being targeted.
Narcs are nice with the duped ones falling under their spell.
Narcs'mindset: being uncovered is being threatened.
As a consequence, Narcs isolate, silence, slander or abuse those who dare see right through them and are able to discern their true intentions.
Narcs can't help who they are. Narcs can't help What they are
I hate this about them. It's crazy making.
It's one of their many tactis - whether you notice, you honestly have no choice, but leave that inmature and toxic indyvudual
That's why he never takes me anywhere. Because when people meet me they like me and he is jealous of that. Also he pokes in to listen for fear that I am telling what he is really like. I kept recordings of him leaving me messages on the phone. His tone for me is anger, demanding, impatient and condescending.
100 percent true.
Yes, you got it! Then the infamous smear campaign. They have everyone else thinking your trash, even people who don’t know you. ‘I have experienced this in the Christian circles, wow, wow, wow. All I can say is God’s watching and taking notes. 💕
being with a narc- makes me think " what did i do wrong-oh its proabably just me being alive" then suicidal thoughts start kicking In.. #feeling Useless-worthless#
I get it 😢😢😢
100%. It's gotten so commonplace in our society, especially the workplace, that there's so few of us that can spot it anymore. It's the real Pandemic.
It is a pandemic because we are living in the end times, people are becoming more rude and hateful than ever before.
2 Timothy 3:1-5
Ragingly Insane Times Will Come
3 But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come. 2 For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, slanderers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good, 4 treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 holding to a form of godliness although they have denied its power; avoid such people as these."
Exactly! Have everyone fooled. Mean and cruel
Mean and cruel make them sound like good people compared to what they actually are. I've never met anyone as evil as a narc
I have experienced this many times with family members, they have gossiped among themselves, act angry at me but never tell me what they are angry about.
scapegoating.
I lost a whole community, which I set up, because of a psychic attack from a narcissist. She has done a really good job at making everyone see that I’m the one that’s being unreasonable. I’ve learnt to step away. It’s not worth the stress! She may have done a smear campaign on me, but nobody is letting me know about this. I see narcissists everywhere!
I've mentioned my Narcissist in a tiff that she's hostile and scornful over everything. And she snottily replied, "only with you cause you cause me to." And I replied, "so by that admission you know better, but choose to not be civil with me." Ahe replied with haste, "-what does that even mean?!"
If I complain he says “I can’t ever win” with you! He even says he’s NOT gonna walk on egg shells!!! I’m the one he complains about and yells if I ask him to do anything.
So sweet to say someone understands
My only sister, and all my life and we are now 72 & 74.
My narcissist ex friend is married and has a good relationship with friends and family. She has more superficial friends than I do by far. She treats me with such disrespect and I feel it's because I don't have the high status she's so impressed by. I'm her punching bag and sounding board. I know she's going crazy without me because she can truly be herself around me. But I'm done being abused. My friends and family can see right thru her too and they all hate her
All three close narc family mbrs are masterful at doing this. It's impressive, yet horrifying!
I've seen your videos before and hit and miss for me meaning some things applied to my situations. And some didnt.but this video you hit the Nail on the head.a co worker with 3 other men that I have seen in 3 years with my own eyes has them hooked 1 of them is in love with this woman. I am the only person that sees what this female is doing and my co workers are like.i will say her first name.they will say no leave Claudia alone she's a sweet person never go against her. the company loves her.shes flirted with me.and other men right in front of my eyes.and she's gotten hostile with me for GRAY ROCKING her.wow this video has given me strength and opened my eyes even more thank you so much.theres so much more this woman has done to others and me as far as touching sexual advances .she seems to be a Angel smart company oriented. But a devious demon in disguise.i did subscribe.wow perfect video thank u God bless 👏
You described my living situation to a t. We're told that we should let people who support us know what's really going on with a narcissist, yet any time I've tried to do that, everybody does turn it around and say that I'm crazy because they believe the narcissist to be the coolest person ever. It's gotten to where I don't share others, all the BS the narc does to me, set for few people who I know for sure are on my side. All the others, think it's my weakness and inferiority complex that makes me lie to them about the narcissist f@cked up vices and character traits. I decided that people who don't believe me and accept what I say as fact, art worth having in my life anyways. Great video I liked and subscribed. First time I've seen your channel. What was your name?
My wife. She is just like this explained in this video. Oh well.
Great explanation
Thank you!
This video is great! I have the same exact situation with my ex co-worker at a daycare center when I work. My ex co-worker was totally nice to everyone including the new employees but was not nice to me. When I work with her in the big infants room, she seems to be very impatient with me. I asked her if she needed help putting some stuff away getting the kids ready for breakfast, lunch, nap, and snack, she would say no in a rude way. She even criticized me how I talk to infants but I was doing fine. She never taught me how to change diapers or anything, she just makes me feel invisible. When I see her talk to other co-workers, she seems friendly towards them but why can't she do the same to me. She made me hate working with infants/toddlers. She doesn't seem to like me very much. BUT I'm glad she got fired because she was lying to my boss about certain things and she also had other issues! I'm glad some people see the bad side of her! I'm also glad that she's not allowed in the building anymore! Thank goodness! I'm glad I have other coworkers respect me and I stopped hating on working with infants/toddlers. My other co-worker made me love working with them because she taught me everything and explain what I should do, unlike my ex co-worker. No more narcissism at my work place anymore. 😊
I was part of a great team of volunteers for several years. A new woman turned up, she initially seemed quiet, pleasant, warm, nice. I got to know her and realised she had a very dark side where she would be sweet to people's faces then vicious behind their backs. She'd criticise everyone to me and was scheming to get another person's job. After a while she started manoeuvring herself into the centre of the group, I knew she wanted to run it. She became dismissive and patronising and cruel to me whilst being charming to others. Nobody else seemed to see the real her so it was a disconcerting experience. By chance the group lost funding and closed down which was v sad but I think she'd have ruined it had it continued. Unfortunately most people are unaware of narcissism and take charm and niceness as proof of good character. It was a lesson for me in not befriending and trusting new people too soon.
Until this day i am the bad guy, yet they randomly attacking me and randomly shouting insults and blowing cold and flirting with other women around me, playing emotional games, cheating. One time they cursed at me for dropping just a bit if coffee ground near the garbage, even the floor was getting vaccumed the next day yet they pretend to be so cool and nice. I found out they actually was joke insulting family members.
My narcissistic boyfriend is always super nice to everyone,he often goes over the top to impress anyone but me.He has put me down many times in front of everyone,so I do not go out with him anymore ...people tell me how lucky I am and what a great guy he is lolol😮Right now he is playing a new game with me,he leaves the house every night and noone knows where he is😮including me,that hurts ,I know I have to see him.fir who he is,a monste r😢😮 with no love for me....😮soo much suffering....thanks for the reminder
Stop being with him now! Get the courage before it is too late, I’m 77 and I know. It will ruin your health
my narcissist treats me like crap. what he likes to do to me is every time I speak to him and I mean every time whether it’s in person or on the phone every time he always says what I don’t understand and I have to repeat it every time.. and we are arguing about one thing I don’t know where he’s talking about something else apples and oranges he’ll switch the conversation to throw me in the loop of what are you talking about then he’ll go back to the original then he’ll go back to the house he just plays cat and mouse with the conversation this man makes me hate him sometimes with everything I know
I honestly feel hate towards my Narcissist wife , it's such a challenge to make it threw one day of peace... I feel ya
Mine. Mine is famous (I mean working with such people such as members of The Cure) and connected with everyone. It has left me completely isolated and not listening to any of the music I did my entire life. This person has almost everyone bamboozled. Everyone loves this person.
I never say anything because no one would EVER believe it. No one believed it when another person spoke out (not even me). It has completely destroyed my life.
are you looking for approval to leave from these people? I know its frustrating if no one believes you, but it shouldnt be the driving force to stay?
Came to this video because I was triggered by a narcissist I used to date. He was just so mean to me and treated me like nothing I did was ever right yet he was so nice to so many other women and other friends. I just saw him being so nice to another woman and I just don’t get it. I am the nicest and friendliest woman. I’m always trying to be accommodating and respectful to everyone I meet and he would just push me into being so defensive and it was always so confusing and still is, even though we aren’t dating anymore.
Right! Then they gas light you because when they yell at you or something they say they where trying to help you. I literally went outside to pass gas and this boss was standing there drinking water watching how ridiculous.
Thanks , this was my life for 35 years of marrage , so i left, the best thing i did in my life
Awesome! I am proud of you!
Unfortunately I can get upset inside and get angry because she's deceiving everyone this woman that loosened my apartment and I feel like telling them can't you see through this woman.
Can't you see that she's lying it just makes me angry inside to see these Sharades going on. And she's got all these people falling her and thinking she's such a wonderful wonderful person and it just makes me angry inside I don't know why I get angry maybe because I hate seeing lies I hate seeing injustice.
Attention like you'd not believe, your undivided @ all times. They don't care what you have to do.
There are so many questions I have… 21 years of Bs… counseling probably wouldn’t even help
I thought I was the only one my nanny hates my guts but gets along with everyone it sucks
So true. TY
Even the doctor thinks he is the kindest nicest person if they only knew
Please make a video about narcissistic adult children and their abuse of their parents.
Love ur statement necklace and overall getup❤️❤️❤️
Thank you!
You're a threat if you can see straight though them with your narcissist detector. They fear anyone that could expose them for what they are or the things they have done.
narc cousin love bombed my ailing mother to have a room at our house while gaslighting and demeaning me i kept telling my mother the cousin is a narc yet mother couldn't see it mother was a sweet innocent being taken advantage of by a selfish narc now i am stuck with the narc she makes up excuses not to leave and brings up hard luck stories
Their lives are a daily contradiction.
I went to my distant cousin wedding. SO many friends. I Wonder what I did wrong??? Am I really that bad? Hahaha
😂😂😂😂 That's so funny I have had THIS conversation with a few people 😢😢😢 you are the only screw up.
For a long time I've been getting into these type of relationships, friendly and romantic, until I understood not these, cause these stuff about narcissism is kinda news still, but I figured out I am familiar to narcissism since I was a child and that's why I keep detecting and attaching myself to these familiar type of people... and... well I want to know how to feel attraction for other more balanced kind of people? Is that even possible?
My other question is a biz question, narcissistic types tend to be very social, influential, admired because of how they present themselves to the world, they tend to be more "out there", thus kind of more useful in a local biz level (which I have to say is one of the main reasons I LOVE internet, even thou I do miss more human physical connection) anyways my question is:
if I find someone (I mean in person) I would like to network with, that I admire and I have a lot of similar interests with, and I know they also find me interesting, but I kind of sense they are narcissistic, and I sense they are trying to test to see if it's safe to drop their facade with me, usually by starting to be shady friendly or making tiny disrespectful stuff like constantly interrupt or text while you talk, or always keep you waiting, etc... IS THERE SOME WAY (and if there is HOW) to draw a line between "yes we like each other we can help each other but NO I WILL NOT stand you dropping your narcissistic facade with me and start abusing me", like... is that POSSIBLE?
or if I sense that narcissism from someone is it better to back off even if I really like what they do and want to collaborate with them (if only they didn't transform so much as soon as they felt comfortable)
Don't rush into any type of relationship. You can believe someone might be high on the scale of narcissism and still get along well but keep a strong boundary/guard up.
Thank you. Very helpful.
You're welcome!
Respectfully, maybe if you're negatively obsessed with some person, who gets along fine with everyone but you, it's you who's not being ok with you and your projecting that onto the other person.
I mean, why do you need to prove to others that this is a bad person? If you find the person to be objectionable then maybe the best solution is for you, yourself, to distance from him/her.
You mean too say selfish.
But you don't say why they single you out..once they were so kind and loving to you....why now do they suddenly turn on specifically you..when you were so nice, kind , loving and generous to them...they treat you like if they enjoy making you suffer and want you dead
They know that you adore them...they know what makes you happy and they don't want you to have it
They are willing to punish themselves in order to punish you but why???
Of course experts at mind f ing
My narcissist would take from me to give to others just to make them happy. It make me feel so sad.
I live with my narcissistic second cousin and my malignant 84-year old narcissist aunt. I have seen my cousin Mike barely eat at holiday dinners, jump up within 10 or 15 minutes,take huge portions of the ham and or turkey, with all the fixings, bag the food up and immediately head over to supplies homes, as a way to butter the supply up & feel like he's giving something back to his supply sources. At least that's how I rationalize his behavior, because normally he contributes nothing to all of his relationships with anybody. He lets everybody else pay for everything & expects everybody to drop what they're doing and cater to him. Narcs are the most self-centered & irrational people I've ever met. It would be OK if he ever actually bought any of the groceries in the house, but that will never happen. Even when he gets food stamps, he will trade them for weed. Talk about working everybody including the system. No conscience mother effers!
Somehow I thought I was replying to your comment about the narc taking from you to give to others. If you look in the comments section above your comment, you can still hopefully enjoy my story of exactly what you were talkin about. God bless you and your search for peace and prosperity
Every social encounter for a narcissist is an opportunity for them to determine who will help them in their quest to be viewed as superior and boost their self-esteem. The more people they can bring into this circle, the better for them!
Can I speak to you on something that is very similar to what you said on this video
what's weird is my narc cousin has 500 plus contacts on linkedin and has a vague profile my friend with a detailed job and work and school history has 91 contacts this is so weird
It's also known as "Street Angel and House devil". They are skilled actors, as they have spent a lifetime mastering the art of deception.
Oh my gosh yes!!! Parents nice in the store and everyone else. Behind closed doors they're terrible. Same with ex husband!!!
EXACTLY 💯
My son is a narcissist ,now I and my hubby are going to part our ways from him,he tried to divorce between us😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😅😅😅😅
YES! Thankyou. He's a charmer to everyone but me. Goes to mass, does volunteer work and noone would believe me if I told them. He ignores me, uses silent treatment, discards and returns when he feels like it. Has been physically abusive tome and my daughter but now he's triangulating us when I called him out. And she's falling for it because she wants her dad's approval.
He denies his contempt for me, gaslighting. Stonewalls me. Has done sneaky things behind my back. Recipe for insanity or Cptsd at the very least.
I'm stuck with a narcissist who is mean to me but nice to everyone else, everyone thinks he's amazing but truly hes a bullie to me. im trying to get my life back on track an be strong enough to get him out my home I'm registered as disabled dew to my mental health, hes registered as my carer, I'm trying to educate myself so I can understand what hes doing. I'm not horrible like he makes out to people. I do everything I can an more for everyone in my life. Xx
Damn, I'm sorry to hear that you're stuck, stuck with a narcissistic caregiver. Do you have to put up with his BS? Nobody else close to you who could be your caregiver? Well good luck and I hope you had a great Easter
People at work say to me "your husbands lovley" if only they knew aithough as he's got older he has got better or mybe it's coz I doesn't really effect me any more
I'm sooo married to the person you just described... 30 yrs and so fed up ... I just turned 60 . Peace of mind is never allowed in my home . You hit the nail on the head with your Discription. Thank you. Signed: help...
preach it! this video needs a lot more views. youtube shorts and stories seem to boost your standing in the algorithm. esp if its about narcissism, could get LOTS of new ppl viewing this page. your no bs approach is uplifting. a lot of people would benefit greatly from seeing this
Thank you for the support and your recommendation on how to increase the views! I hope to one day crack the TH-cam Algorithm and grow the Mindset Therapy Family even more! 🤗
@@DrEmilyMayfield for sure its gonna happen. narcissism is being unmasked globally, in real time. the amount of people searching for insights will grow and grow. its the survival of humanity, in question, at this point. its a serious call to action. thank you for your contribution to the good fight 🤙🤙🤙
@@kreagan4826my son says about his mrs everyone loves her. Cant tell u hard ive tried only to be his emotinal punchbag. Guess lost my only kid let her cop it instead of me im not young
This was exactly what I experienced in 18 years of marriage. Spot on.
Not having this information several years ago, I thought I was crazy. This person and I were supposed to be “one.” How could he treat me as he did and say the foul things that he said. What did I do to him??
Things I said to him:
- I know both of your faces.
- Why are you so angry HERE (at home).
- People (me and our children) you are emotionally connected to catch hell from you.
- We have to communicate better. He started screaming and asking who needs to communicate better.
- He spent two hours talking to a young girl who he didn’t know about her personal situation. But I couldn’t talk about anything deep.
- Everybody thinks he treated us royally. As long as we expressed none of our own thought, opinions or feelings.
- Purposefully, for one week I agreed with everything he said and things went smoothly. As soon as I made a slight disagreement he went off.
- He had had surgery and needed his incisions cleaned daily. Half the time he wasn’t even speaking to me as I cleaned them.
Of course I could go on forever. I suffered for 27.5 years before I just couldn’t take it anymore.
Thank you for sharing your story. I hope you are finding time to now focus on your own emotional and mental well being after giving so much to someone who didn't reciprocate.
this is exactly the way im headed i swear..,🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤 i hate but love him so much... i dont want any hate between us but its hust there....i dont think i can leave him because nobody else would put up with my Fucked up ass.... oh god i wish i could talk to my parents anout this.. but they arent all there 😰
Yeah wow! I'd say that's 27 years too much, to put up with narcissistic abuse! I can't imagine how you put up with it for that long without losing your mind. Or your life! Hopefully 27 years of abuse didn't completely ruin the silver and golden years of your life. I'm pretty sure if that was me, I'd have pulled the old Farrah fawcett burning bed routine on his ass.
@@kusnttimoyakin8384 narcissist's constantly degrading you, ruining your reputation to others & playing their head games and controlling you, causes you to lose all self-confidence & self-esteem eventually. So don't say that nobody will accept your fucked up ass. Especially if you just need to build your confidence levels up & I'll bet that you are always saying you're sorry, when in reality there's no apology necessary. First stuff, are you unable to stand on your own two feet financially? I'm trying to figure out why you say that nobody else will have you! If you split from him, give yourself time to grow and heal, before getting back into the dating game.
Yes my narc husband and his sister own a tire shop and he is like a super star around town ever body stops him can’t go no where he turns it off and on like a light switch nice to everyone but me ever his sister they act like there partners it sick he put her in place were his wife should brand she makes a point to let me no I can come in between them he thinks or act s like I’m not good enough for him and never has anything to. Say but I don’t have a answer for you and he know he’s got me I can’t move out and not enough money no friends turn Ed my family against me 14 years of pure hell don’t no how to cope with this
Jesus. He has healed my heart of narc pain.
Same he's familly and friend think he's a good person and it's driving me insane I'm so sad I seem like the crazy one and everywhere we go everyone knows him and like him and look at me like I'm crazy af
Im in LA u probably don't trust me I have trust issues too we can meet a public mall I go to 24 hr fitness I need help and he was the same with he's sister but she passed away and now he's worst
Don't cope. Yell scream fight and get out or make new rules.
Ex would invite me out, even pay for the uber. Then when I walked in the door, ignore me and leave me at the table.
So everyone is a narcissist to me
I hava a narcisist as a coworker i gray rock him and im dull and boring to him i dont give him any supply.
Lol NO mansion or nice car is worth that shit!
Truth I walked away left it all behind
The mansion the beach house the holidays the clothes/shoes ... left it all started all over again, now I'm Happy HAPPY 😊
Thank you so much for all your amazing eork.my daughter in law has gaslighted manipulated poisoned and brainwashed my loving innocent son against me cut us off from our only g daughter we took such loving care of till she was a year young ,claiming we were competing sith her and that we wanted to separate her from our son..and that I was violent , wd love to have a video on this . devastated
Mine is a few memebers of my family 😢
That's why I put up ring cameras at my house. I can prove how bad she is. Yep my mother. Uggh. I have sent the videos to my friends.
I got drawn into the narcissist that lives in my senior's complex she was really nice to me and then she started lying when she was caught stealing and the landlord had it on camera and she denied it and she stole it from my friend a pair of glasses but she denied it and when I said that She should give the glasses back she got angry with me and ever since then she hasn't do anything with me and she's been telling stories and gossiping and running me down with your allies and she puts this fake for me syndrome like for instance she can walk really fast she can actually run if she wants to she's in her eighties and when her friends come over she all of a sudden says that she needs help To the car or she needs to go for a walk and she needs to hang on to someone.
Now that she knows I'm on to her she has been a real wicked person towards me for instance I was in the lobby and she was upstairs with her care aid and she was talking about me saying I was trying to teach her how to use a cell phone and yes that's true I was because I wanted to help her a couple years ago but then she said I was doing devious things with it. And the carriage was just sucking this all up and saying oh that's not nice she shouldn't be teaching you that and she says yeah I'm very honest I wouldn't ever do anything like that and I was almost ready to walk up those stairs and say to her Stop your lying you troublemaker but I keep my mouth shut.
I remember years ago she was saying to me that she was abused by her mother and her mother was controlling so I felt sorry for her. And maybe that made her into a narcissist but don't treat other people bad just because people find out that you lie. And she can put on the biggest show that you've ever seen she's so sweet and nice like that little old grandma that you want to visit and then when these people go there she's gossiping about them.
She has sworn at me she has lifted her dat dress and bent over and said kiss my you know what so I got it on video to prove it to somebody whoever needs it.
At 4:30 in the morning about 4 days ago she rang my intercom and woke me up And I told the landlord about it and he could see it on the outside cameras it was her so he said he went and talked to her. He says oh she'll forget it as she has Dementia. I think she's just playing the dementia card and people have used that to get the wrong way because she can cook she can clean I've seen it where for myself. Maybe she is getting old but there are times when she knows exactly what she's doing.
Yesterday evening at 11:30 she rang my intercom again and woke me up cause I'm in bed early. At the landlord saw And said he'll go talk to her.
The landlord's mother had dementia and I think that's why he Doesn't see through her and thinks it's just an act of dementia.
I used to talk to her but I don't now and I never will.
I had Suffered for many years without having my parents around because both of them died before I was 20 and I became CO dependent so I would gravitate to these narcissists.
I didn't even know what the term was until about 5 years ago when I started questing somebody I knew Who would change their personality be nice to you and then change and I thought what's wrong with this person so I knew what bipolar was about I knew what schizophrenia was about but I wasn't too sure what narcissistic personality disorder was and that's what he was it was clear as day.
And over the last 4 years I have been interested in narcissistic personality and it's so prevalent now that I've been educated. There are other TH-cam teachers on that subject and doctors And they all hit it on the nail exactly right.
When I 1st learned about it I saw it on TH-cam and I kept saying yes that's right how did you know yes that's what they do yes that's what I felt yes that's how they deceived me and yes that's how they made me feel guilty and the more I watched the more I was wiser.
But what makes me mad is that she can pull the wool over people's eyes and even a friend of mine who comes in here and does the cleaning of the lobby and the stairs and up the unit talks to her and says that it's just her dementia. I feel like why isn't she listening to me why is she getting deceived buy this woman.
Yesterday while I was sitting in the lobby A neighbor came up to me and said that this woman was putting me down and saying awful things so she put her in her place and she says I shook my finger at her and told her not to lie. Now this narcissist doesn't want even talk to her. And she says I don't care if she doesn't talk to me.
But why would this woman stick up for me and my friend says I don't really want to take sides. She says that's not a good thing to do. Then she should say to the narcissist I don't want you to talk about my friend.
It just hurts when people look at the narcissist and thinks that she is so nice and that she wouldn't do anything wrong that's what I hate about this whole thing and the fact that she's using her dementia card. Can you still have dementia and narcissistic behavior at the same time
Thanks
I had this with a few friends
Sometimes they're not a narcissist, they just hate you specifically
Yes, that is true that someone can hate you while not being a narcissist. However, this video is entitled "Why is a narcissist nice to everyone? | When only you see the TRUE version of the NARCISSIST" and is specifically about narcissists.
So true💯💯💯Thank you Dr🙏🏻❤
My ex and I at work he’s a nightmare nerd who works in the IT department. He runs when I’m nice to him yesterday was the last straw I asked him for a mouse for my laptop. He never brought it back I said forget it I’ll go buy my own.
Is it possible that someone hates you before you even know them and then they build up rapport with you and put you down for every single reason, disrespect and mock you, harass you and then when you start exposing them, they move on to their next victim while still maintaining connection with you? Like what do they want?
If a blind def person told him they seen me do something bad while out but I was with the Queen the whole time and she said no such thing happened. He’d believe the blind def person and dwell on it for years brining it up when the focus at the moment was on his wrongdoings.
🤫over here. Your so right. So what should I do😂 I'm not crazy🎉
I Love how she shows on her face the child they are on her face in the beginning
Mom is narc, was always aweful to my dad n i but nice to all others
This is exactly what I go through
Yes!!! Parents!!!
Yep! Living it.