The Money of the Female in Islam (Altaf Hussain, Aneesah Nadir & Nouman Ali Khan)
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- Question: "You mentioned about how the husband has a financial obligation to take care of the household of course. What about when the Female or the wife actually works and brings in some money as well, can you explain about what happens with the money she brings in Islam? Is she also responsible to take care of the Household?"
Answered By: Dr. Altaf Hussain , Dr. Aneesah Nadir & Nouman Ali Khan
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Every women needs a big brother like Brother Nouman. Allah has blessed him. Husna is a lucky little girl to have a dad like this who is intelligent and a personal Arabic tutor. May Allah Almighty protect this beautiful little family.
Not every women.. only deserving women
I love brother Nouman so much he nailed it
Ooga booga ooga booga. Me primitive cave man that loves 6 year old girls. Absolutely disgusting. Its the 21st century fairy tales don't exist and never did. Wake up and grow up sheep.
Maershkin Schrabs Please give an intellectual response if you want to be taken seriously you intellectual dwarf
Me too!!!
I just love it what you are doing for this Muslim society. Opening the eyes of people. who is using name of religious for their action. Love it . Love it . I went through in-laws abused in my life. Finally I have to take divorce.
SHAMIMA AHMED
How are you now? Is everything going fine?
well explained by all of them usatdh nouman is literally the gem of this ummah
Ustadh Nouman's answer was on point!! Glad he pointed this out!
Even though Hajj Nouman Ali Khan will modestly state that he is not a Shiek, Imam Siraj Wahhaj has called him by that title, Shiek Ali Khan is a living example of the power of dua, requesting of Allah, knowledge and understanding of Arabic, because he loved the Quran above all other things. Allah answered his dua as he so often does with abundance and blessed our brother with the wisdom and the ability to make others love it too. I remember Shiek Ali Khan in my prayers and may Allah bless him.
It is easy to separate one's culture from Islam by doing only what the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) would do, or saying only what he would say.
In other words, just follow the Sunnah of Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him.)
This is beautiful.
Love u nouman ali khan. Thank u for nailing it.
Bless you for awakening such people! keep going!
THANK YOU NOUMAN ALI KHAN!!!
May Allah SWT increase us all in beneficial ILM and Amal, put lot of barakah in all’s ILM, Amal, time, life, rizq, health and efforts and reunite us in highest levels of Jannat ul Firdaus Ameen 🤲
Nouman Khan champion for the umah!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Amen, real talk
The title could have been: "speaking the ideal vs reality"
A man is obligated to maintain a household, yet an earning woman has no obligation whatsoever... why is there double standards in this matter? and why are people happy that this is perpetuating double standards?
@@citizencan4444 have you watched the video? It’s not that double standard (or the sad reality) that we talk about.
@@nel1122 I've watched the videos twice. And the speaker clearly says that a man is obligated to finance the household. But the woman, if she earns, keeps 100% of her earnings, without any obligation to spend on anyone. And if she does spend on her household, that considered charity (which is not obligatory). So one gender (man) bears all the financial obligations, while another gender (woman), even if she is earning, has no financial obligation whatsoever. How is that not a form of double standard? And why are people cheering and rejoicing the perpetuation of such double standards?
@@citizencan4444 oh, now I see your point. That’s because in Islam men and women differently share social responsibilities while they are equals in terms of God’s judgment. Just like men cannot bear a child and it’s not a double standard. In an ideal Islamic society, men bear all the financial responsibility while for women working is optional. In return, men can inherit more than women depending on their closeness to the deceased person. You can search for details, but they find a balance when they share the social roles, like completing one another rather than competing.
As for the cheering, the mistaken assumption was that women had no rights in Islam. Apparently this regulation shows that women are not discriminated against but arguably even cared more - sth that makes women happy :)
@@nel1122dumb comparison!! Men biologically cannot have a child. Men want respect but telling us you aren't accountable to your man is bogus. We're accountable to each other. If I mess up it makes you look bad. If you mess up, it makes me look bad. If you make a bad investment and lose your $$ why should I bail you out? It was your decision right?? So you should clean your own mess up not run to your man to protect you from your own bad decisions.
MashaAllah
nouman is a wow person. He should come to my house . Put my husband (cuz off money , his family support him) straight.
Subaxana Allah!
Alhamdulillah
سبحان الله و بحمده سبحان الله العظيم
ya its true many of our sistrs are faceing such problms
Salaam aleikum brother (and good to see you back.)
Your commentary was right-on.
A universal human tendency is to not follow what one's religion says one should do. Consider the KKK in the American South and what they did to blacks--which goes against what's taught in their Bible.
I'd add that one shouldn't confuse a culture with a religion--those Westerners who abhor the treatment of women in some majority-Muslim countries, should realize that culture and religion are often different.
subhanallah
I respect your support and voice for those people who are not allowed to speak about their sorrows. I would wish to see People like u enter jannah even before the victim.May Allah bless you and your family
Hlo
Allhamdulillah
Agreed.
good
Alhumdolillah
we just have too much social ills in our Ummah unfortunetly : ( its so sad. my duas are to those oppressed sisters who are going through such injustices
Okay so for all the comments on cases where the man can't t (emphasis on can't) provide properly for the entire family then after discussion the woman can work and help out the family. Now, obviously if a family is struggling (like lack of food, clothes, bills) and the woman rather spends the money on herself than help the family out then it is very obvious that she doing something wrong. But do keep in mind that neither the man nor the woman should waste their money. And if a man does spend his money on unnecessary things and creates a struggle in the family then its he who needs to fix himself first.
If by any chance I got something wrong then please do correct me and forgive my mistake.
A man is obligated to maintain a household, yet an earning woman has no obligation whatsoever... why is there double standards in this matter? and why are people happy that this is perpetuating double standards?
how can i find whole lecture?
May Allah help us understand the true spirit of Islam
A man is obligated to maintain a household, yet an earning woman has no obligation whatsoever... why is there double standards in this matter? and why are people happy that this is perpetuating double standards?
@@citizencan4444 What double standard?
@@ttllz3537 The double standard of expecting men to foot the bill for everything, yet an earning women has no obligation whatsoever to financially contribute to the household.
@@citizencan4444Because it aint her role. If a man wants intimacy, she MUST be available if she aint sick or doesnt feel pain. In Islam thats the right of a man. Its not like women have all rights and men are slaves.
So these are roles. If you are amuslim then followthe sunnah and quran. If you are not your liberal views dont imply on us
@@ttllz3537 "If a man wants intimacy, she MUST be available if she aint sickor doesnt feel pain." So her role is just to be sexually available to her husband? That's very "progressive" and "empowering"...
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How can u inforce this
Also women get rewarded twice as much as men do when they provide for their family
I almost sacrificed my whole family to defend my arranged marriage wife. Before my parents agreed with me to keep her as my wife. All because she was ill.
Can some one points me to the source of "Women keeps every penny of her job money and if she decides to spend on Household it will consider as charity"?
....some scolars are even saying that she's not allowed to help finansly her husband, no charity...
I'm really sorry about that woman brother Nouman mentioned. May Allah protect her and reward her for her forbearance and may Allah also guide her husband to take good care of her.
But I think brother nouman has mentioned this story so many times that it starts to sound like stereotype. Not all Pakistani men and their families are like that and that was an extraordinary case.
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I kind of agree with you. I would add, however, that only the non Islamic customs and ways should be filtered out. And, any Western culture-base ways of young Muslims anywhere in the world should be filtered out--if they conflict with Islam.
God bless you NAK
Most men in western society think, if they pay taxes then they are not islamically responsible to support their families because the women can go get government benefits to do that.
This is hindu tradition that some muslims in south Asia have maintained.
can a wife spend money, who saves it from monthly expenditure given by husband , according to her wish or she requires husband permission to do so?
Farha Zabeen
If her husband gave her money like a gift, or he was spending on her, then the money is now hers. She doesn't need permission to spend.
A wife can do whatever she wants. She doesn't need her husband's permission to do anything.
The wife has her own money for her own usage and doesn't have to give any of her earnings of said Money to her husband and this is coming from a Muslim female her self
@@princesszeldaprincess447 Can a husband stop paying bills and keep his money to himself, maybe until there is an eviction and probably divorce ? It really sounds like wife is no different to p********!
@@princesszeldaprincess447 A man is obligated to maintain a household, yet an earning woman has no obligation whatsoever... why is there double standards in this matter? and why are people happy that this is perpetuating double standards?
Awwww :(
What if your husband cannot make enough or get a high-paying job because of his past and the wife is not qualified in a high-paying career, and jobs are scarce? Can she work anywhere? I'm curious.
Not every man is rich and many women think that we are. So on top of paying for everything, what is in it for us? I am to pay all of that and set us both up for retirement?? That is delusional and next to impossible.
She can ask me for $$ but I can't track her spending? There is no accountability for women at all and no way I want to get married if that is the case.
My husband steals from me n sends my money bak home he hasnt worked for 3yrs earns 0. I trust him just to learn he lies. Wen i confront him he raises his voice to avoid the question. I aks him nicely it drives me crazy
Why are you still married to a bum who hasn't worked for 3 years? You know you can leave the marriage through the mechanism of Fasakh...
Talk to someone about it
@@citizencan4444Even fask cannot take place like that. You play with shariya you follow the rules of shariya.
There may be some experts to guide us about kinds of jobs/professions that any good woman should [ must ] avoid, InshaAllah.
hopefully Experts may also guide us about kinds of Jobs/Profeessions that any good Man should [ must ] prefer.
P S Some people who hate Islam do know the difference between a culture and a religion--but use things such as the horrible treatment of women by some Muslims as an excuse for their hate campaign.
A man is obligated to maintain a household, yet an earning woman has no obligation whatsoever... why is there double standards in this matter? and why are people happy that this is perpetuating double standards?
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can a man marriage a rich women to satel
Not surprising as the logical conclusion is that generally the wealthy and older and privileged men should have wives and procreate. Some men get harems while others get no chance at a family.
I am listening to this, hoping my husband will hear it too. But he reads Quran loudly, so he doesn't have to listen.
I support everyone in my family financially. My 2 step children too. My husband has a well paid job and pays for WiFi and gives me a token amount each month that does not cover even one weeks food. My older son from a previous marriage is not allowed to use the WiFi which my husband pays for. I pay for food, rent, all the bills and I clothe all the children, my 2 step children included. At times I hope it is a sadaqa.. But when my husband is being unkind, I resent it completely, and I wish he would move out and pay for himself.
why do you still remain married to this man if you resent the arrangement? Islam provides a way out for women, called Fasakh...
But if a single parent (woman)dies can she give her savings and assets for charity. After spending all during her life on kids. What does our religion say about that?
You asked 4 yrs ago. Anyhow yes, she can gift/give away her money to charity or anybody else before her death, while she is alive. But not after her death.
After she dies, her wealth, estate, property, money, savings will all be divided by the law among her heirs (children etc) as per Sharia rules.
Even I am suffering, my husband don't spend a penny on me and I am forced to work for my living and food and even I raise my daughter with my earnings.
You can divorce him
....he's not even allowed to stay with you and touch you !
Respectfully, let's be honest here. You are not forced. You CHOOSE to stay with a husband who won't provide for you and his child, and you CHOOSE to work and pay for him, yourself and your child. You can CHOOSE to remove yourself from this situation by informing him of his duties and to get a job. If he won't, you can divorce him.
The choice is yours. Women who are educated and resourceful should not paint themselves as weak and helpless. You are not helpless. You can support yourself and your child if you choose to divorce him. He is wrong, yes. But you are wrong for staying and enabling his wrong behavior by not putting your foot down. Stop blaming him when you CHOOSE to tolerate his behavior.
@@Sas-rf9syWhy did Muhammad took money from khadija then??
@@youngcoder4721 because he didn't. In fact Khadija spent it all in way of charity and lived with the prophet in a life of poverty which he chose. In Islam husband have no claim to their wives money, salary savings, property, jewelry, or any assets. It remains her. The duty to provide is on the man whether his wife is a rich or not.
So sad to hear Nouman Ali Khan talk about the case in Canada of Pakistani lady who suffered abuse at the hands of her in-laws. I am shocked.
Why are you shocked... It's common within the Pakistani community...
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This is some straight up bullshit. If the husband gets sick or injured, and they have children, that wife better get her ass to work. This is feminism, womans liberation at it's extreme. A marriage is a partnership not a free for all to financially abuse your husband and children. It's sad that Islam has reached this point. Take a percentage and use the rest to feed your children!
No-one mentions or has an issue when men are treated like banks and nothing more.
Who or what is an "Ummah"?
Ummah means nation
so much confusion...i just saw few video of some dr. imam and other imam they says it is not ok (shirk) for muslim women to work and now i c this video...wtf
Sashakta Singh
shirk? really? brother/sister shirk is when one ascribes partners with Allah and there is no sin greater than it. if the imam you watched actually said that a woman working was shirk, then I am afraid that imam is a fraud. this is basic Islamic knowledge. the prophet's (pbuh) first wife Khadijah (ra) was a business woman. the prophet's (pbuh) wife Aisha (Ra) was a woman who became a scholar and taught many men Islam. She even led her own army at one time I believe (not sure).
JAILBREAKER259 muslim sister shouldnt work by yas yasir qadhi.... watch this vid
Sashakta Singh
I watched the video. In it Yasir Qadhi does not say it is shirk or it is haraam for women to work. He simply took a very conservative stance on this topic sticking to the traditional family structure in which the man works and the wife stays at home.
He was asked what kind of work he would recommend women do. he said that he would not recommend women work. this was not a fatwa but was merely his opinion based on his understanding and knowledge of the Quran and Sunnah. He goes on to admit that there are fields that require females and he also lists of some careers he recommends for women.
From this I gather that Yasir Qadhi doesn't say that it is haraam much less shirk for women to work but that women should not unless they have to. His is a more conservative position.
what fatwa man we r human ...no one can decide what we want
Sashakta Singh
what? I'm very confused by what you are saying.
you said the imam said it was shirk for women to work. I watched the video and the imam didn't say it was shirk. He didn't even say it was haraam. he was just giving his opinion that women shouldn't work unless they have to. this was not an official Islamic ruling. the same with how in this video women are encouraged to work but is not an official Islamic ruling just the opinion of an imam based on his understanding of Quran and Sunnah. Both opinions can be considered valid because they rely on the Quran and the Sunnah and not some other source.
And also. For a Muslim the Quran and Sunnah are the ultimate guide on how to live. if the Quran and Sunnah say that something is forbidden then it cannot be made permissible. if it is permissible then it cannot be made forbidden. and everything is permissible unless it has been made forbidden. and to go again at the teachings of the Quran and Sunnah will cause a Muslim to fall into sin. so yes, while we are human, God's commands take precedent over what we personally desire.
3:20 and that is why Deobandi Ulema say it is Haraam for Muslim women to work, because they know their own people, and they know that their own people, if told that women can work, will use it to force their wives into working a job and they will take all of that money away from the women. That is that reality of this world, that there are people from this Ummah (just like how there were in the Banu Israel) who do their best to use the Deen to fulfill their twisted agendas.
May Allah SWT protect one and all
and i thought my family was crazy :(
Am I the only one thinking that the woman speaker's voice sounds like Michelle Obama? LOL..
there is rolls for men money
no offense
Brothers: i'd say from experience, it is unacceptable for a man to be embossed as a financial slave!
No wonder why the divorce rate is so high, no woman should have the right to tell her husband she will use his income, home, resources to earn her own savings and stash them in her personal account getting rich leaving the husband in debts, i've seen a few men like that my wishes go to them!
No man should marry in these curcumstances!
In Islam, we have faith in God above all else. If you do bad things with evil intent, the wealth you have now is worthless and short-lived. Allah SWT will punish you if you have these bad intentions. But inshallah assuming that both have good intentions, yes the husband must provide for everyone in Islam.
The woman is creating life in her own body! Isn’t that an incredible thing? Even still, this is what Allah SWT has decreed.
You’re not a financial slave, you’re a husband taking care of his family. If this is something that truly troubles you, you should ask yourself why? Ask Allah SWT why you have such trust issues in your own partner and how you can overcome them.
Constantly feeling like your own wife, someone who we believe is your soulmate, who we don’t say “until death do us part” because Muslims believe love will continue to Jannah, someone who will care for you as you care for them, someone who will be your family! That someone, you are afraid of giving your money to? Allah SWT says to fear nothing in this life. The fear is temporary, the pain, the wealth, the greed. Trust is a huge part of marriage. It’s something we should all learn to embrace as best we can inshallah. Peace and guidance
@@ifyoulikepinacolada254 A man is obligated to maintain a household, yet an earning woman has no obligation whatsoever... why is there double standards in this matter? and why are people happy that this is perpetuating double standards?
@@ifyoulikepinacolada254sounds like a slave to me!! She can ask for whatever yet you can't do the same as a man?? She can spend your $ but you can't ask her for anything?? She can keep you accountable for what you spend but you can't do it to her? And in a divorce she can take the home and 50% od your retirement if you have it??
I wouldn't get married either!!
@@citizencan4444Ppl think that a 1% man earning so much money, he has more $$ than God will be every man. The average man can afford certain things in life yet he's required to give a woman all if this? She wants what he has not the other way around.
I agree that it isn't fair to watch your husband stress and break his back yet she can save her $$ and literally walk away w/ so much that she could discard you. She'll lose respect for you.
I agree that it isn't fair for men at all and I'd say if that's the case (though the Quran advises against it) then marry a non-Muslim woman that won't have this mindset that will contribute.
@@citizencan4444 there is no double standard. In Islam there are roles assigned to men and women. Men are the providers and protectors of their women and households. In addition to the many responsibilities assigned to men (far exceeding those of women), men also enjoy extra rights. Otherwise you can also ask why women inherit less than men, why in financial matters the testimony of a woman is considered half of a man's, why men dont need a guardian but women do, why men can marry more wives, women can't, why men dont have to be obedient but women do, why men dont have to cover their heads but women do, why men can give divorce but women can't, etc.
It's not double standards. Its the wisdom of Allah. Its islam. No, Muslim can question it. We obey Allah who gave us the Quran and the it is clear on the matter of spending and earning being the duty of a man.
I nowadays understand why so many are following #mgtow
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“The wife’s money is her money and the husband’s money is both their money” is a lie spread by Nouman Ali Khan. As long as the husband is providing for her rights, she cannot take a single penny without his permission. She can only take it if he’s not providing for her and she must only take what is sufficient for her needs to be met. The ruling is taken from this Hadith:
Hind bint ‘Utba said, Oh Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)! Abu Sufyan is a miser and he does not give me what is sufficient for me and my children. Can I take of his property without his knowledge?” The prophet (ﷺ) said, “Take what is sufficient for you and your children, and the amount should be just and reasonable.
And if he’s not providing for her, there’s even a difference of opinion amongst scholars about whether she needs to go to a qadhi first or she can just take the money.
Muslim feminists have spread false “rights” of the wife like the husband’s money is the wife’s money, yet reject the husband’s rights which are clearly proven from the Quran and Sunnah such as the husband’s right to be obeyed.
How about if he is abusing her, does she still have to obey him???
@@-.mina.- No, she should take her own initiative to leave the marriage by dissolving the marriage. She can do this through the mechanism of Fasakh....
Best way to avoid that is keeping ur bank accounts seperate.
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Consider a woman who is educated and qualified to work. What will be the point of her working if she cannot spend it on her family, unless it is accepted by her family as a charity? Can I please get reference from our muslim religious scriptures that is the basis of this opinion?
She is not obliged to. The man cannot have an authority on her if the woman has to earn and spend it on herself and the family.
Women marry a man to be looked after financially. If we have to do that for ourselves, why would we marry a man? The obedience towards husband is in return for him paying for his wife's expenses
@@areejshams3253 I thought both men and women marry for love and family. But looks like some people marry to be looked after financially. And the absence of financial aspect makes the marriage meaningless for such people.
Can I please get a reference to the premise in your comment to make sure it is based on Islam and not a particular cultural belief.
@Makhtar725 Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband's) absence what Allah would have them guard.
Surah Nisa:34
You can search any translation and any context to these verses. You will get the details of what the verses are referring to
@@areejshams3253 I fully agree with what you said and it feels good in the way you expressed it. But the points expressed in this video goes far beyond what you are saying. I don't think it is supported by any references and it is based on conservative thinking of the speakers.
@@muneerakhtar244 please brother highlight the points of concern. If I have knowledge, I would definitely try to answer them Insha'Allah
This does not work for families where the man does not make an exceptional wage. Many non-Muslim families I know both contribute, they do have family values, it actually works very well for many families.
Then don't marry such men
@@sash8099 A man is obligated to maintain a household, yet an earning woman has no obligation whatsoever... why is there double standards in this matter? and why are people happy that this is perpetuating double standards?
@@citizencan4444 Because this is Shariah and that is a man's duty. Women have other responsibilities but providing is solely a man's responsibility. They also have more restrictions compared to a man. That's also not fair! None of the Sahabas had any issue with it. Why do you?
@@sash8099 Thank you for explaining and confirming that there is double standard in this matter.
Q: "None of the Sahabas had any issue with it. Why do you? A: I am neither a Sahaba nor I am living in the same era and environment as them. My life is not the same as them, so why would you expect me to live like them?
@@citizencan4444 You can live your life the way you want but beware you are also answerable for it. Men have way more freedom and opportunities than women. Isn't that a double standard too?
Nauman Ali khan...you are ma sha Allah Good and Allah has blessed you with good intellect. While praising you I must condemn your biased stand on gender. Please stop blowing things out of proportion and mixing your like or dislike with words of All mighty. If traditional Mullah have one extreme, you are hell bent to introduce another extreme. I see no difference in you or mullahs...Both have agenda, both are twisting Allah's words, both are biased.
How is this person biased?
@@CathyKitson A man is obligated to maintain a household, yet an earning woman has no obligation whatsoever... why is there double standards in this matter? and why are people happy that this is perpetuating double standards?
@@citizencan4444 It's double standards because men are given more responsibility than women. This is unfair. Men and women should have equal responsibility.
Marriage is a partnership and as a partner you suppose to share everything with each other and support each other.
But sometimes comments like here cause more mistakes in understanding how every aspect is different and too many young people possessing knowledge of Islam think they have the right to go and give their perspective.
Please for the Love Of Allah stop making comments for the sake of fame or whatever you are doing it for.
I hope I am not offending anyone but it has to be said.
From 73 sects only 1 are the people of paradise and 72 are people of hell.
Which one do you think you belong.
Keep your Tongue silent unless it's needs to be said.
Follow the behaviours of Sahabas peace be upon them and how they talked and what they said about being quiet.
Syed Ali That's some trash you said right there about 72 sects going to hell. Neither you, I or any one on this planet has the right to say who goes to hell and who doesn't that right only.belongs to Allah.
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Learn to read
I said this is which is stated in Islamic teachings.
I have never said it's my comments.
We are All at the mercy of Allah
So please learn to read before leaving negative comments.
Syed Ali loop
You are defective.
Now tell which part of your ignorance delusional hypocritical knowledge found out this knowledge and don't just write Islamic knowledge.
You have to be able to quote exactly which verses from the Quran and the Hadith.
Otherwise keep your ignorance lying tongue ugliness insulting comments to yourself.
I LIKE TO GIVE YOU A LESSON THAT I HAVE NOT HEARD ANYONE TALKED ABOUT IT BEFORE.
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What if the man is cheap and doesn’t care to spend on his family?
Because they are more than men. Is not that right?
Say Islam as it is. Yeah, it's true women have the right to keep their money. But before that, she needs permission to work from her man. And woman earning money is the least acceptable thing in Islam. It creates problems in the family. The high rate of divorce even among the hijabi Muslims is a clear sign of that. Nouman Ali diverted focus from the actual question by bringing up what ignorants in his home countries do.
she can work IFitis stipulated in her mariage contract
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...she's totaly free to make her own chose... her husband not allowed to decide anythink for her !
@@le_chat4911soo is the husband allowed to make his own choice. he is not forced to spend on her.
@@youngcoder4721
in islam, the husband is forced to spend for the whole family... he's not allowed to know how much $$$ his wife has...
@@le_chat4911 you are wrong in Islam a husband has more share of her wife's wealth than wife has of her husband in inheritance. You don't follow Quran you have some sort of your own ritualistic belief.
Awww poor victims 😢……. This is the most basic amateur level of analysis and it’s sad that one of the panel members is an actual intellectual. It’s so sad when people bring up exceptions and clear errors to justify their basic level of explanation. There are conditions where the money she makes is NOT her money. But GENERALLY that’s true. But that aside how disgusting did the lady on the panel talking about “expecting” as an advise! What a disgusting marriage that would be.
A man is obligated to maintain a household, yet an earning woman has no obligation whatsoever... why is there double standards in this matter? and why are people happy that this is perpetuating double standards?
I have a question if the money she earns is all hers ? And the is the right of the women? What about the right of the man when the wife dutys such as the home dutys are neglected and being to tired after work or getting home to later and being to tired to do these things and refusing her husband at night cause she us too tired ? So the man's rights are out the window now?
A women in is under n obligation to do house work. Infact the Prophet s.a.w use to help do housework n some of the sahaba women had servants to clean the house for them so if u want the house clean do it urself! She is not your mother n u r a grown ass man with working arms and legs. The only time she is obliged to do housework is if its in ur contract if its not n u want her to do it u can actually pay her or if she does it herself it's considered charity btw if u had a daughter would u want her to be treated the way u treat ur wife someone's daughter n sister (Not saying u treat her bad idk ) if ur wife was brought up not doing housework u have to continue that lifestyle she was provided u have to treat her like a princess n then maybe shell actually like u n put up for u. U as a man have to treat ur spouse super well n then she wont want to refuse u women r like a rib if u try to stretch them bend them away they wont then theyll snap. K bye.
No* obligation
Who told you that it is woman's duty to work at home? The prophet saw used to share all household tasks with his wife. Islam loves women and trear them like queens, muslims are another story.
Moe If she's married and has got kids to look after, then she is equally responsible for her family. So no, the money's not all hers. Housework is no more a woman's duty than a man's. Also it's not her duty to be sexually available if she doesn't want to. Just like a man; she just may not want to.
raphael44ify her money is hers untill n unless she by her wish n will wants to give to her husband or spend on kids or watever .... n she should be available for her husband wen he calls her
my inlaws is like they treat me like a slave.and i work there house more than a maid..
Jocelyn Villamor sorry May Allah make you easy and open door for you Amen 🙏🏽
why don't you just leave?
Assalamu Alaykum thank but I already leave 2years ago and I am with my family now.
Well, I hope it's actually a cultural tradition that's not based on Hindu dogma.
hmm, free-mixing
What if a husband's earnings ability are very less and straggling to provide and expand according to wife's demands/expectations/standards of livings? And the wife doesn't want to understand/care and not willing to cooperate or contribute to house/family maintenance to help her husband to fulfil her demands/expectations/standard of livings?
The Poor husband can provide according to his best of ability/capacity/reality by a low living standard with a full of his hardship life, but wife still doesn't wants to contribute from her earnings/savings as a responsibility but still wants to have all the expectations/demands/standard of living.
So I think the only way husband can do in these cases is-he should start crime, bank robbery, and stealing from other peoples to earn some extra to provide for his house/facility/wife. And a highly qualified and efficient wife should just stay home or enjoy with her friends and relatives, or if she work then her money only will go to her saving!! Wow!!
+philip anten Hazrat Khadija R.A was a trader....
Dewan Rahim No. If a woman were like that, she is obviously being very selfish. He should have it out with her, and if she won't change, then he should divorce her.
philip anten Your attitude is appalling. Of course women can work; they can do whatever they want, just as men can. You're really patronising, saying women only make money to "spend on make-up and handbags." They make money in order to LIVE! You know, food, clothes, bills, etc. And they're no more likely to attract other men than their husbands are to attract other women.
@@anierizvi9496 And Khadija shared her wealth with the Prophet. If women want men to be like Muhammad, why don't they also follow Khadijah's lead...
@@citizencan4444selfish and haughty!! It is all about her and her needs not her man. (In general) men do what's best for everyone incl. their children. Women do what's in their own best interests.
"The Money of the Female in Islam"
The very phraseology of the title illustrates the contempt in which islam holds women.
It is even rumored in some islamic circles that most of the inhabitants of hellfire are women.
A man is obligated to maintain a household, yet an earning woman has no obligation whatsoever... why is there double standards in this matter? and why are people happy that this is perpetuating double standards?
A man is obligated to maintain a household, yet an earning woman has no obligation whatsoever... why is there double standards in this matter? and why are people happy that this is perpetuating double standards?
like there are double standards when women don't get as much share in their fathers' property as men? calm down!
@@mahamkhan1590 exactly... so much double standards...
@@mahamkhan1590but the double standard is also there when husband gets more property of wife in inheritance and wife gets less share in percentage from husbands inheritance.
The women must stay at HOM sir !!!!!!
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In your dreams
The man must make enough too
Musims, there is no logical reason to expect, to demand that the husband provides for the family but not have such expectation about the wife. Both husband AND wife should provide for the family.
A man is obligated to maintain a household, yet an earning woman has no obligation whatsoever... why is there double standards in this matter? and why are people happy that this is perpetuating double standards?
Most of the videos shows woman as oppressed but can anybody start talking for men too ? Yes man has to provide for his wife but how much ? What if she is spending too much and straining the husband? These issues must be cleared. A husband is not a free source of income which a woman abuses as she wishes so. A zakat is 2.5% but how much spending on wife?
A man is obligated to maintain a household, yet an earning woman has no obligation whatsoever... why is there double standards in this matter? and why are people happy that this is perpetuating double standards?
It's not the right of the women to work. So, if the husband allows the wife to work and she's not able to fulfil the rights of the husband, does she then compensate with money?
Of course women have a right to work! The husband's in no position to either "allow" or disallow - it's nothing to do with him! If a husband works and is not able to fulfil the rights of the wife, does he then compensate with money?
@@CathyKitson dude shut up. Are you even Muslim??
@@salaahkhayr2398 No, I won't shut up. Everyone has the right to say what they think. You're very welcome to disagree, it's what's called free speech. It's none of your business what religion I am. Do you have to be Muslim to criticise Islam?
Women definitely have the right to work.
@@CathyKitson A man is obligated to maintain a household, yet an earning woman has no obligation whatsoever... why is there double standards in this matter? and why are people happy that this is perpetuating double standards?
In Sweden girls is using brothers -.- They think they are the queen of the world or something :/
Typical islamist comment.
It's right to say man should fulfill the needs of women. But the problem is women most of it today are taking in advance to work morethan a man. And in the of the story. Women will squeeze her husband by saying I'm working and earning morethan you. So u don't have the rights to take or to have any pieces in our property. So how would u answer that? Muslim women b4 are different in nowadays.
You seem pretty sexist to put all the woman in one box.......
A man is obligated to maintain a household, yet an earning woman has no obligation whatsoever... why is there double standards in this matter? and why are people happy that this is perpetuating double standards?
Typical islamic doctrine and theology, or lack of it.
Yeah but our brother Noman sugar Coats can’t tell the truth directly as he approves Islamic women to be on stage and join men in debates 👏👏 sorry to say but Shaik asim al hakeem is much much better !!
Well they have different interpretations on certain some topics. Now Sheikh Assim for instance prohibits music but I see you are into pop music. Nice profile picture of that zayn (boyband member). You must have a different interpretation too then.
I thought this is a Ahle sunnat wal jamat page, but this page have brought Nouman Ali Khan, who says Our Prophet is illeterate. nauzubillah. this kind of wahabi ideology preacher is bad for ummah
READ THE QURAN
If you read the Quran you will find this is written in the Quran. Shame, some people don't read the Quran and understand it's content.
the bLaCK woMaM said something nonsense !!
what kind of woman is she that doesn't heLp her husband in mistakes :)
her words was very hilarious
Black!!!!!! Our Religion don't teach us to call one with something that they don't like.
For god sake, speak a good word or remain silent!!!!!!!!
Why is alot of inhabitants of hell fire are women ??... So majority of men are lucky ppl who will dwell in jannah ..
Deen Walid There are actually more men than women in the world.