10 Things to Stop Doing If You Want to Be THAT Girl

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  • @SwastikaSingh-pm8vd
    @SwastikaSingh-pm8vd 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +456

    Be THAT girl:
    1) Stop saying yes to everything.
    2) Stop ignoring your boundaries.
    3) Stop chasing validation from others.
    4) Stop neglecting your health.
    5) Stop comparing yourself with others.
    6) Stop overthinking.
    7) Stop gossiping and engaging in drama.
    8) stop dressing for others and start dressing for yourself.
    9) Stop being afraid of the spotlight.
    10) Stop waiting for permission to start.

    • @KATERINOBALO
      @KATERINOBALO 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Thank you for making the list always helping me !!!❤🎉

    • @Rollforever754
      @Rollforever754 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Thank you, great points in this video, especially I notice don't be afraid of being on the spotlight, I normally tend to lower myself and hide, I also liked the start now! ❤🙏🌷

    • @Rollforever754
      @Rollforever754 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thanks, worth listening to the full video too

    • @anacristinamoura881
      @anacristinamoura881 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you❤

    • @wcgirl
      @wcgirl 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you.
      And all great points❤

  • @jessicaj8148
    @jessicaj8148 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +360

    This Jessica needed this today

    • @oambitiousone7100
      @oambitiousone7100 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Was thinking, dang Jessica’s getting swatted today !

    • @jessicacerkoney
      @jessicacerkoney 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      This one too ❤

    • @milarepa1234567
      @milarepa1234567 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      LOL!! Get it together Jessica! 🤣

    • @Vivian-oq5wz
      @Vivian-oq5wz 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      You are in the hot seat today.😂

    • @Layan..1
      @Layan..1 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Who's jessica guys 🤔?!

  • @KishaxGabriel
    @KishaxGabriel 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +147

    This woman is my mom and big sister I never had❤

    • @dardevilaaa
      @dardevilaaa 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Mine too🥹❤️

    • @elab4187
      @elab4187 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Agreed

    • @hannahdcruz5555
      @hannahdcruz5555 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Same here 🥹

  • @JenniferKristin888
    @JenniferKristin888 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +65

    Funniest thing is when she calls out random names, "....Jessica please...." 😂

  • @kimjaniga7517
    @kimjaniga7517 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    I love it: trendiness is one step away from tackiness.

  • @MortenMarina
    @MortenMarina 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +78

    03:02 Stop sayin yes to everything (FOMO&JOMO), "Does this serve me?"
    06:20 Stop ignoring your boundaries (write your top-3 boundaries)
    07:50 Stop chasing validation from others (!!!)
    10:20 Stop neglecting your health
    12:46 Stop comparing yourself to others
    14:39 Stop overthinking everything (24 h for decision, подумали и до свидания!)
    16:44 Stop gossiping and engaging in drama
    18:14 Stop dressing for others and dress for yourself
    20:02 Stop being afraid of the spotlights
    21:57 Stop waiting for permission to start

  • @picklanguages3667
    @picklanguages3667 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    i LOVEEEEE the way you talk and get angry by Jessica 😂😍😍

  • @MandyJRoss
    @MandyJRoss 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +36

    If you're reading this I pray something amazing happens for you today.💗🙏🏼

  • @jessicagoode9544
    @jessicagoode9544 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    My name is Jessica and eveytime she says my name it gets my attention so much😂 feels like I'm really being spoken to and I love it

  • @arielelizabeth6469
    @arielelizabeth6469 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +57

    You came for Jessica hard today 😂😂😂

  • @CaRa-zj2yo
    @CaRa-zj2yo 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    Thanking margaritas ancestors for bringing her in our life times! Starting 2025 right by ordering the Her journal! ❤

  • @manarliah9451
    @manarliah9451 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    I prefer your videos this way, love it !

  • @jessicajoyhardee6668
    @jessicajoyhardee6668 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    I love!!! You spoke directly to me “Jessica!” 😆 Thank you! I will watch this over and over again as a pep talk! 🙏🏻💞

    • @paularezendeteacher
      @paularezendeteacher 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I wondering who was this Jessica she was talking to haha

    • @jessicajoyhardee6668
      @jessicajoyhardee6668 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Just watched it again! Yes!!!!🔥✨

    • @jessicajoyhardee6668
      @jessicajoyhardee6668 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😆 The universe always speaks and it was so loud and clear! ✨😆

  • @oambitiousone7100
    @oambitiousone7100 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    I think of your ancestors-surviving speech whenever the inner critic scrutinizes my face, my nose, hair, height.
    Took that attitude to my dating profile and didn’t hide my looks behind filters . Found a man who loves THIS face & body.

    • @tanvisalunkhe4166
      @tanvisalunkhe4166 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      I am so happy for u💗💗

  • @mellin3920
    @mellin3920 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Find it so hard to find women doing this as mum bloggers etc talking about femenine energy. So grateful for your work

  • @TeacherCasidy
    @TeacherCasidy 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Love my new HER Journal! Highly recommend it- daily affirmation, a place to put three things that you are grateful for, and a thoughtful journal prompt. I have been using the PDF version and just using it to write down things in my own journal that way I can use as much space as I want. Sometimes I will start with one of the prompts and end up three pages later somewhere completely different, which is great because it’s helping me to explore my subconscious- thank you so much for your wonderful work! Becoming her feels great ❤🎉

  • @ekaterinakrutakova9781
    @ekaterinakrutakova9781 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Once I heard a very nice advice how to make hard decision. You need to picture yourself as an ancient person right before you're about to pass away, in that state of mind you should ask yourself what decision you regret more. 😊

  • @AnastasiaBeaverhousen
    @AnastasiaBeaverhousen 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Get out of my face with breakfast cereal lmao. Why did I feel like that was spoken specifically for me 😂

  • @dking6041
    @dking6041 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Margarita honestly you have no idea how much you have changed my life for the good, I cannot thank you enough

  • @LaB567
    @LaB567 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Thank you Margarita for the MANY nuggets of wisdom you’ve shared with us in 2024. You have been a source of inspiration for my growth. I’ve been crushing goals by keeping my mindset strong and will continue through the new year. Thanks to all of our ancestors for bringing us here together. Happy New Year to all 🤍

  • @savannacarolina4948
    @savannacarolina4948 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Thank you for all your teachings during the year 2024. Discovering your channel helped me in many ways, both spiritually and in my social life. I wish you the best, always a hug from Brazil

  • @avleck
    @avleck 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    By the throat [2️⃣0️⃣2️⃣5️⃣]!🥂Onward ho! Learning loads from you. Better late [in 40s] than never. Thanks for all of your pearls, angel.

  • @Lives.v
    @Lives.v 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Love the intro.. exactly what i was telling my mom today... So exciting where all us women are headed

  • @audreydoyle5268
    @audreydoyle5268 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Ooh, a video to wrap up the year from my favourite life coach! Mother has blessed us ✌💖

  • @FeralFeminine
    @FeralFeminine 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Fantastic timing for the new year to establish a game plan! I hope all ladies take their health seriously and if they get dismissed by their normal doctor, they find a new one!

  • @ewa615
    @ewa615 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I love your sense of humor. 😂❤You're the only woman on youtube or any social media that really speaks to me.

  • @hopesatsuma6777
    @hopesatsuma6777 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My name isn’t Jessica but whenever she says Jessica, I feel like she’s speaking directly to me. 😂❤️

  • @Amiistymemory
    @Amiistymemory 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Keep posting videos like this, you’re the female figure every girl needs in her life❤ thank you so much ❤

  • @cherellethinks
    @cherellethinks 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just found your channel and obsessed already. You’re like the big sister I always wanted 😂❤️

  • @VacMont
    @VacMont 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    13:32 "And you are comparing yourself to Rebecca on instagram. What is she got to do with your life? WHO IS SHE?!" that cracked me up 😂

  • @elizabethlaughlin5111
    @elizabethlaughlin5111 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Amazing video! I definitely agree with the points about social media (I'm taking a break from Facebook and Snapchat). And not comparing yourself to others. Thank you so much, as always

  • @jessicarae6879
    @jessicarae6879 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My name is Jessica, and I approve this message 😂

  • @ALiSUN_dj
    @ALiSUN_dj 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I grew so much thanks to you, and I am still growing! Thank you for sharing your wisdom 💕

  • @julie-laurebernard3278
    @julie-laurebernard3278 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you very much Margarita ❤

  • @Borromeo377
    @Borromeo377 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you Margarita 🙏🏼 Grateful for you and your precious guidance 💫✨

  • @languageandmana9255
    @languageandmana9255 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I lllllllove when you talk about thing we should be doing to protect our boundaries and not be anxiously attached❤

  • @shaynalee
    @shaynalee 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is the most empowering succinct podcast out there. Simply the best Margarita ❤

  • @jebatasnia78
    @jebatasnia78 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    you changed my life. happy 2025!

  • @ellewinnifred2449
    @ellewinnifred2449 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Lol the "stop overthinking it rule" resonated with me today, and I was inspired to make a very important decision. Yay, thanks!

  • @Hillaby_House_Designs
    @Hillaby_House_Designs 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    My birthday is tomorrow! 12/31. Literally going into my new year with you! 🩷

    • @Margarita.Nazarenko
      @Margarita.Nazarenko  18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Happy early birthday! 🎉

    • @Hillaby_House_Designs
      @Hillaby_House_Designs 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Margarita.Nazarenkothank you! Love you so much. You have given me the confidence and strength I needed to make serious changes in my life.

  • @nathaliaclother3306
    @nathaliaclother3306 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Shine unapologetic ✨✨ this spoke to me, thank you, loved this sentence so much, even made a note here ♥️

  • @habsakhandakerhiya8357
    @habsakhandakerhiya8357 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    That’s my favorite girl ! ❤️

  • @annam.4184
    @annam.4184 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dear Margarita. Thank you so much for teaching me and showing different path to the one I'm used to. You help a lot. Have a blessed week!

  • @tanvisalunkhe4166
    @tanvisalunkhe4166 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The thumbnail is iconic! Loving it! Such a diva you are!

  • @MaddiMorgan-d3t
    @MaddiMorgan-d3t 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I listen to every episode twice then watch the YT video just so it really sinks in
    Love having you in my ear Margarita it feels like my higher self talking to me 😂

  • @elenav5700
    @elenav5700 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you Margarita for your wisdom! Is always a pleasure to hear and know more from you ❤

  • @Jessica.McDermott
    @Jessica.McDermott 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you!
    Love,
    Jessica 🖤

  • @summmer77
    @summmer77 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    7:30 note 10:22 health #1 18:50 wow well said I agree❤ 20:00 This hit home! SPOTLIGHT ON! Downplaying your strengths to avoid attention holds you back so don’t give a s*! 👌

  • @LovelySoul33
    @LovelySoul33 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Girl another great message. Thank you so much ❤

  • @TheJayJay26102
    @TheJayJay26102 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's 25 cents a page at my library😂 definitely going to Amazon🎉 The cover for the book is❤️‍🔥

  • @PinkTalks_Dee
    @PinkTalks_Dee 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Yesssssss.....
    I finally stop giving a damm, and just press GO! 💚
    Thanks 😉

  • @thevegetablequeen
    @thevegetablequeen 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Omg your videos are so insightful, and the information is so life-changing that I literally have to re-watch to take notes!

  • @540Joy
    @540Joy 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ✨I appreciate that, but I'm prioritizing what I'm doing right now.

  • @sofiabelfelice1108
    @sofiabelfelice1108 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oooh that Jessica! She get so wrong! 😂 love you Margarita. I'm re reading you book and have given a copy to my best friend x

  • @SheShe33
    @SheShe33 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “Well stop doing so much!” Solve so many problems.

  • @Julilovesapple
    @Julilovesapple 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I‘m having a journal for every year. Going to write this down asap.

  • @zyrineandmore
    @zyrineandmore 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You’re like the big sister I never had. I’m so glad I found you this year. I’m ready for 2025, claiming it already with my vision board and all. Thank you, Margarita, for being you. ❤ 🥰

  • @womanlyire1217
    @womanlyire1217 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    😢 the makeup is so fresh, I bet you feel just beautiful.

  • @julxo777
    @julxo777 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you sis

  • @smileandjustbreathe
    @smileandjustbreathe 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Come on Jessica!! Get it together!! 😂😂

  • @thevegetablequeen
    @thevegetablequeen 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you, Margarita, for #3: I need "stop chasing validation from others!!!" beaten over my anxiously-attached head multiple times a day until I'll finally get it!

  • @Melanie-bc7kf
    @Melanie-bc7kf 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for all of this. You are empowering us. I really appreciate your openness!

  • @chesta2261
    @chesta2261 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    this is my new year mantra

  • @sofi1200
    @sofi1200 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Amazing ❤
    I do feel bad for Jessica tho

  • @kameliasarafska1527
    @kameliasarafska1527 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amazing!! I need to relisten to this every week! I’m really looking forward about topics like getting in shape and your best version, personal branding and making money like a woman! ❤❤❤

  • @Cutiethisside
    @Cutiethisside 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks a ton margarita❤️ you have helped me alot this year🌻hope this new year brings you happiness,good health and whatever you desire 🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @anastasiiazinkevych9130
    @anastasiiazinkevych9130 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love your channel, Margarita!
    Thanks for all your wise videos ❤

  • @Aki5589-ru8barzhmm
    @Aki5589-ru8barzhmm 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Girl I'm early so I would like to comment..hope you read this but I love your videos on anxious attachment style and slowly but surely I'm overcoming it😘💖

  • @fienno1
    @fienno1 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I've listen to your vids now for over a year among others that create this kind of content and it is finally starting to hit. I am worthed, I'll be that woman in 2025 xx

  • @LisaTebbenhoff
    @LisaTebbenhoff 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Thank you for your savage message!!! 2025 here we come!! 🎉

  • @lightsandstars
    @lightsandstars 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You also made two phenomenal videos on self-concept/self-image and Identity. Could you please do a video on that topic because since the self concept video came out I have been on my prime, would love an updated video if you got more info! Love your videos 🩷

  • @veronicabugarin
    @veronicabugarin 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Obsessed with your content . Thank you so much ❤

  • @Pari99900
    @Pari99900 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just discovered you and LOVE you. I am the same way. I don't like to follow any trends and just do what I like to do in all the areas 😆❤

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    8:17 😊❤ thank you!

  • @talkativeacademy4528
    @talkativeacademy4528 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes, we're gonna kick ass! Thank you, Margarita.

  • @peachesssssssssss
    @peachesssssssssss 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thankyou this was much needed

  • @sofiabelfelice1108
    @sofiabelfelice1108 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Lots of love Margarita. Happy New Year x

  • @JustDara1
    @JustDara1 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    MOTHER POSTED AGAINNNNN 🎉❤

  • @stoney6747
    @stoney6747 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m sorry but I have to just tell you that I discovered you today and you inspired me very much I cannot wait to rewatch this but you opened my eyes ❤ god bless

  • @angelaartspractice3710
    @angelaartspractice3710 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    🙏🏼💕2025 x let’s go Jessica !

  • @steffiesmith4765
    @steffiesmith4765 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Can you please do a video listing all the boundaries women should have whether it’s at work or socially or at home.

  • @Obsidiansarah
    @Obsidiansarah 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for this ❤

  • @loisbats4972
    @loisbats4972 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks Girl🩷🪷🌷👑🍓🌸

  • @martadriessen7784
    @martadriessen7784 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Margarita, I love you. Thank you for this content. Again. Much Light from Amsterdam!

  • @kristinolan7240
    @kristinolan7240 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy New Year to you!! I love your content and look forward to it !!❤❤❤❤🎉❤❤

  • @Arihasopinions
    @Arihasopinions 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love your channel you are such an elevated queen ✨

  • @btwthblood
    @btwthblood 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love you.... Happy New Year!

  • @ejusup
    @ejusup 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This might be your best video! Just what I needed reminding of , Happy New Year xx

  • @vanessacarroll4462
    @vanessacarroll4462 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! Love you…this is bang on what I need to hear. Happy new year from a fellow Aussie 🎉 ❤😊

  • @Highvibin11
    @Highvibin11 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Please invite teal swan as a guest.. shes amazing in the topic of polarity and femininity please

  • @yabkakundi9065
    @yabkakundi9065 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    its like an energy recharge for me.

  • @veronikatothova2307
    @veronikatothova2307 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for your videos, they are so helpfull. Btw I love your humor, you make me laugh so much 😂

  • @jessicashebel4287
    @jessicashebel4287 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As a Jessica, I loved this so much.

  • @mellin3920
    @mellin3920 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Really need the post pregnancy health video. Im definitely losing the weight after my second pregnancy and being healthier!

  • @annaavacado3985
    @annaavacado3985 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love u so much - you're so funny and just really genuine ❤

  • @ShelbyBusiness-o8b
    @ShelbyBusiness-o8b 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love love! Thanks for the everyday inspo

  • @Shlayskates
    @Shlayskates 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amazing tips SIS. Happy new year to you and yoursX

  • @athen_inj
    @athen_inj 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love that u're slavic

  • @kairivint
    @kairivint 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you!

  • @crystalcleargirl07
    @crystalcleargirl07 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    love you Margarita!!!! Happy New Year 🎉