If you are a foreigner and want ro marry Filipina, dont join any dating sites. The best way to meet young, single and no kids yet Filipina is to come to phils, spend some time here, go to malls where gazillion of young sales ladies working in the malls, pleasant servers work in the gazillion restaurant, call centers and many places in the Philippines. Philippines has so much women than men..you have variety of women you can choose. Plus, please gentlemen, dont put so.much burden in your life...there are infinity filipina who are authentic single, stay away from one has a child already and stay away from big families. Find someone who is currently working, educated and from the urban city girls.
Absolutely right stay away from the ladies who have children already wow I can tell you the experience that I just had unbelievable beware of the love scam mark my words
Well said, & another major point Don't get a Separated Filipina you could go to jail if the ex husband finds out. It's really hard to get a Divorce in the Philippines 🇵🇭.
Thank you for the advice. Also your information is much more important to hear than the music playing at the same time which makes it hard to hear at times. Either get better microphones or ditch the music. Both would be a good solution. You don't have to make the video a real production to be good. Good honest words go a long way. Thank you very much you're a great couple.
I am amazed by you two. Chrissy answered a question I wondered about. Why would an attractive 45 yrs Filipina think I might be a scammer. Chrissy on this video may have given me an insight. Thank you both for your shared insight. New sub.
My older kids are supportive of my relationship but my youngest wants nothing to do with my Filipina. It happens. I won’t give up my happiness for her inability to understand I have one life and I deserve to be happy.
Dear Chrissy and Rob You have apparently chosen interesting subjects from the start, but your design and image quality are far more professional today, just 6 months later, which is quite impressive. Best regards from Denmark 😀
Great vlog...I can resonate with everything you both have said. Chrissy is a very clever girl. Big bonus is she is also very attractive. She is a real keeper. subscribed.
Hi Rob & Chrissy, I am a new subscriber to your channel, and wow, I am so impressed by how the two of you are such a loving couple, and your advice is so well thought out, and very inspirational to me. I’m looking to retire, and move to Philippines by February. I’m Hopefully looking forward to meeting the two of you, and being interviewed by the two of you, as a newcomer. I find myself incredibly inspired by you, and motivated to get over there. Congratulations again, on finding each other, and keep up the great blogs, 😎😉🙏🏼❤️❤️.
Very good info...I have been researching this for at least 2 years. Also was in the PI 35 years ago and always wanted to come back. I am going to...soon.
It’s inspiring that you met chissy she is a good beautiful woman. I’ve had a hurtful experience online finding she was sexting with my friend in Australia plus she had a Filipino boyfriend and she had at least 30 guys online She seemed so sweet and innocent. Now I am very careful and only want a lady I can trust. Never give up! Thanks guys.
Yep that happens. Did you meet her in person? That’s when the real relationship starts…anything online no matter how much your feelings get involved is just a chatmate relationship, like a penpal. She likely is using it as her main source of income. I can hardly fault these girls if they need the money. It’s better than being a bar girl or an escort. I’ve met a number of escort girls online using face recognition search. I’d try to meet her in person and understand her situation and if she is just bad news or maybe just in a bad spot…and remember there are plenty of other girls to explore once you are boots on the ground.
@@etfremd we met online 44 days before we met in person. No money changed hands. Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment. It really helps the channel.
Yes your story is amazing! I agree about the money situations. Don’t send money outside of maybe load and small money. The relationship starts for real when you meet in person. I think most of these girls think they will never meet the guy they are chatting with? Maybe that’s their plan…I recently met a provincial girl where it is all clicking! I hope I’m lucky. However, I’ve sent some load and small money for WiFi. Time will tell…Traveling in March if things work out. I will go on a recon mission regardless. Great channel keep the videos coming!
I really loved the sensible and mature nature of this video. Your wife seems to be a real lady, and you seem to be a true gentleman. I will be looking at your other videos, and I look forward to your future videos. Subscribed.
Wow you two are identical to my relationship ! We Met on Filipina Cupid , shes single mom , 6 year old son , she was 33 I was 65 . Met after a few months in person 7.5 years later we still going strong . For me it was a perfect situation . Actually I preferred she did not have a working job 8 t0 8 etc. 6 days a week i was selfish . We formed a corporation which she runs and manages our properties and takes great care of our properties , her son , our condo and me . When I’m gone she will be set for life as well as her son and i was happy to be able to do that for this fine loving person !
Met my first girlfriend from the Philippines on mutual a Christian app. We dated for about 4 months before I arrived into DevOps or only together about 3 weeks. I then use a foreign affair to meet my current girlfriend. We have been together for 9 months. I came back to Arizona in March and Emory training soon to devalue just discovered your channel. Did some interviews with Geo and Paul last year. Looking forward to seeing more of your content
Yes, online dating can be a cesspool. Isn't it better to use a matchmaking agency to help you set up dates with women in real life? You can meet them at a resort or another location over the course of a week or so. This way, the agency can set you up with women who are marriage-minded and actually want that. They would at least help you vet for scammers.
I don’t have any first person experience with these, however I have watched a dozen TH-cam videos regarding these services in Ukraine and 🇵🇭 and I think it is expensive and possibly worth it if English is not widely spoken- for example in China etc.
If you want to go to a matchmaking event, be my guest. You will just have to tolerate repeat customers there for only 1 thing. When you make that list and you hear the girl you likes name coming up at the lounge area about how she slept with some repeaters, and they get graphic, sharing pics, etc.. and you cross her off. Guess what? You'll be crossing off your list 1 by 1 until you have bottom of the barrel. That's what happened to my list, and my time there was consumed by who these 4 dudes dated so I could simply cross them off. You will notice how experienced they are at the whole process. For me I was just angry the whole time. The ones I like got ran through, and I was not going to risk putting a ring on the carrier of someone else's child. Edit: if you want to talk about it send me you email and I will reply with my # I live in Phoenix 10 minutes away from that agency. Last I checked they were the only ones doing it
I'm like Chrissy, I'm a one person at a time messaging person. It has come back to bite me because I know almost everyone on the internet is not like me and are talking to multiple people. lol I'll be moving to the Philippines late next year. I'm so excited for this next step in my life.
I used Christian Filipina and actually found my fiance and future wife from there. Like anything any site can have scammers and be hit or miss. I just happened to ask God to put her before me, and bam there she was.
I met my Cebuana wife on Ok Cupid here in Chicago 10 years ago. We will retire in Cebu in less than 2 years. I am very lucky because she already has a house and property there. She is the best human being i have ever met and could not imagine my life without her. For guys out there looking for a real LIFE PARTNER,definitely keep Filipinas in mind.
@@to_mm_ei_alves Visaya and Cebuano are closely related languages, but they are not exactly the same. Visaya is a broader term that refers to a group of languages spoken in the Visayas region of the Philippines, which includes Cebuano as one of its major languages. Cebuano, on the other hand, is a specific language within the Visayan group. So, while Cebuano is a type of Visayan language, not all Visayan languages are Cebuano. There are other Visayan languages such as Waray, Hiligaynon (Ilonggo), and more.
Just found your channel and subscribed , I found this vlog very informative and interesting as I’m on the investigation stage of looking for a place to find a partner and country to retire to from the Uk I’ll be watching your channel going forward .
Very relatable chat. I used Pinalove, filtered through the chaos to find a woman to really connect with. We chatted for about 2 weeks before I decided that we had to meet. I booked a ticket 6 weeks out. With her daughter and sister she picked me up at the airport for a 3 week bonding experience. Best time of my life! So much more than I could have hoped for. I don't think this caliber of woman exists in America. I've been back in the States for a week now. I'm trying to figure out the next steps. I'd like to bring her over. I just wish her tourist visa was easier to get. Seems like a K2 is the only way to go. How do you take your time getting to know somebody when you can't be with them? There is a lot of challenges here guys.
I’ve been using PinaLove and man so many scams and scammers. I don’t know how many I’ve filtered through 200-300 at least…I think I’ve found the one! My ex wife I met in China online, that was before smart phones, I was lucky my company was doing our manufacturing there so I was able to travel on business. We chatted for 2 months then I flew to Shanghai for our first date. After 10 days I was fully hooked! My next trip I brought a ring and officially proposed after meeting her mother and sister in Chengdu near her hometown. Before that I had met her sister who flew to meet me since she was with her husband on a work assignment here in the US. I travelled as often as I could while we processed the K-1 visa. It took almost a year. We were married here in the US just a year later after I put a ring on her finger. We had 2 amazing boys 14 and 16, but communication and her unhappiness led to our divorce. She wanted a divorce. Now I am dreaming my Filipina can give me two daughters and make my life complete. I want to marry her in the Philippines and see if we can get a tourist visa for her to visit.
I think I will wait until I arrive to meet someone. I did try Christian Philippina for 3 months, and I think about 80%+ are likely red flags. Keep doing your wonderful TH-cams! I watch some more than 1 time.
That’s an interesting subject about having a child with your Filipina partner. Your family back home should be supportive unless they are looking and counting the money on what they think is their inheritance. I think you should explore that more…maybe try to have a daughter if she wants another child. Since a daughter can better identify with Mom…You found a real gem! ❤
That’s very true Rob to meet in person than see the photo or something, Christie probably the way you used filter may no be like other but to be honest it is more convenient to show your real look on the dating site to express your true look than filtered and when you meet than see what saw before completely different than the one front of you, that’s my opinion it may not be for everyone.
Hi Rob, Having another child with Chrissy would be a gift and a responsibility, no doubt. Give her something she wants in the relationship. Like you continue to say, Chrissy is beautiful and you are lucky to have found her. There is so much golf you can play. I have two children and a step-daughter and grandson. Don’t be afraid of responsibility… surprise her someday…
Hey Rob & Chrissy, This is so cool, and funny, lol!!! I’m about to comment on your awesome blog, and saw that I watched, loved, and commented on it, a year ago, OMG, 😂!!! Well, a year later, I loved it more, especially bc you ask the greatest questions, Rob, and Ate Chrissy is such a genuinely, wonderful woman, with equally great feedback, into the mind, of a good, traditional, loving Filipina. I know what I want, I want a “Chrissy of my own, lol. BTW, part of the reason why Chrissy looked much more beautiful, and petite in person, is bc the camera adds 10 lbs, when we’re on, 😎🙏🏼❤️.
I spent 7 wonderful months in the Philippines came back to the USA in March to take care of business . I love the Philippines coming back to do life there in October. Date in Asia is free dating app and the best I found to meet people on line just be careful of scammers it's not hard to figure it out.
Meeting online on a dating site seems troubling with the high percentage of scammers. I have been to the Philippines 4 years ago. I did spend a few days in Dumaguete. I live in Gilbert Arizona right now.
Amazing video, great insights thank you. I hope your family watch a few of these and can accept Chrissy and your happiness together. I'm in my mid 40's, divorced a few years ago and have been researching and familiarising with PH on youtube since then. Coming to Cebu in December for 5 weeks to roll the dice. Do most filipinas go back to their home province for a xmas break?
I met Filipinas right here in the States. The best women. Even the one Filipina who thought she was sneaky was time well spent as compared to the Western women I dated. None of them were after my money. The Prettiest Filipina from Queens insisted on paying most of the time. I definitely should of married the one in Florida. She deserved better. Im sure she found it. Great video! Very helpful. She's very beautiful. Congratulations sir!
Ohh man, I’ve tried the online dating stuff. It was for sure not what I thought it would be. Some women were ready to get married just after 2 days. Then it seems that you could never get a video call. All they want is to text. Think I’ll just wait to do the in person thing.
That’s been my experience as well… No shortage of very obvious scammers on the apps and the apps with supported video calling seemed to be more trouble than they were worth. One of the huge red flags is when meeting someone online and within a few minutes they’re calling you “honey and or sweetheart” and talking about marriage, it probably won’t take long before you hear of their sick Mom, or electric bill is overdue, etc., etc. These encounters can be somewhat entertaining and I view them as learning experiences. I’ve had much better success with simply approaching women I notice when I’m out. You know what they look like, you get a much quicker feel for their personality, etc., but that’s simply my personal preference… Regardless of what approach one takes, it’s all a process and once a western man has experienced an Asian woman, it’s not likely they’ll go back ! That has certainly been my case having been previously married to a Vietnamese woman who had a hidden gambling problem that eventually destroyed our marriage. I came to the Philippines mainly because English is widely spoken and quickly learned the women here are absolutely amazing in a much gentler way than my previous Asian wife and she was amazing… Good luck gentlemen
Excellent video, just a tad long. Can you tell me the province where Chrissy is from? I'm like you, Rob. Watching videos about the Philippines, planning to come. Good to hear the viewpoint of the Filipina. A very nice balance.
I never thought of sending everyone the same message. I personalize every message that I send. Filters are absolutely aggravating to me, because I don’t want to choose someone based of of an artificially enhanced image.
My thoughts on having a child in my late 50s… I felt like it would be unfair to the child. It their most hormonal and stressful time in their life (junior high and high school), all they would be worried about is ‘will dad die before I graduate’. Also, as a father, our job in life is literally to procreate, and protect our children. It’s tough to beat down a mean boyfriend or husband when you’re in your 70s and 80s. I lost a potential wife in Thailand due to an ultimatum that she gave me… I don’t do well with ultimatums. She should have just spent some time convincing me. It would have worked out better for her.
Hey guys I’ve used numerous dating sites , and I’ve been in Manila and you only have to walk thou malls - even go to MacDonald and sit and just eat in store and there is a big chance you will meet a girl , but the only thing she probably a working girl so you have to be careful, girls will approach you in malls same deal there working but the opportunity is there , best to find a good spot and sit and watch
Let not your heart be troubled! Rob Your fiancé, Chrissy( By the few videos I have watched) Is willfully ready to give you her complete"fidelity" Nurture it❤
Hello there. You two are awesome together and very honest visit with each other. I have purchased my flight to the Philippines yesterday. I will be there the 2nd of December for 1 month and leave the 2nd of January. I have a question about the visa do I wait until I get there and get it or get the visa before I leave the USA.
You get the visa upon arrival. 29 days right now by December might change to 59 days free. If you decide to stay longer, make sure you extend it before your time is up
here is my challenge with the phillipines and visiting..... it is dangerous and I moved to mexico and mexico is nothing compared to the phillipines. I mean I want to visit but then I listen to some of the americans that have gone and the stuff that has happened. robbed, beaten up. takin down dark alleys pretty scary stuff .. what safety measures should be taken?
I’m sorry to hear that. I spent four months in Mexico the last two years and never had a problem myself, but I ran into several people who had been car jacked and robbed But here in the Philippines. I haven’t met anyone yet who’s had trouble.. I heard from someone who’s been here for 13 years is if you give respect to get respect and for people who get in trouble back home are the people who get in trouble over here ..if you’ve been out drinking and walk around quiet streets at night 2 AM I think trouble will find you.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines I apologize Rob that came out wrong. I have never had a problem in Mexico. I love it here in Mexico. I heard about those problems in the Phillipines. Then I talk to someone like you and they have always been safe. I was thinking about going in 90-120 days out and staying in BGC. Have any experience there ?
Yes, I really like BGC it’s just a little pricey and Makati is even better for first time visitor. It’s a good place to visit for three days before moving on.
I am married to a Filipina and we live in Australia. My wife has four beautiful sisters who are all educated, living at home and come from a respectable family. They are all looking for a future husband but he must be serious, responsible, have a decent job and good future prospects. They are not on any dating sites perhaps because they are too shy to communicate. But so hard to find such quality men.
I use the Signal App only !!! Because first it's totally secure with triple encryption !!! And free to anywhere in the World !! For voice calls, video calls or chatting !!! And have used for to and from the Philippines !!! But will depend on the Filipina' s location and Internet reliability !!!
Sorry, the CP dating site does support video messaging, in the last two weeks I'm lucky if I can even get a woman to agree to regular "chat" feature versus sending messages between each other, my membership only has 50 total messages available per day and those get burned up quickly dealing with scammers. So when asking to chat, there is almost always some excuse why they can't do it, no one has ever video chatted. They also don't use facebook so they say ( all of them) I thought that was BS.
My Filipina girlfriend wanted to have a child within months of being together. She already has a 10 year old boy and a 13 year old girl. She understands I am adamant that I do not want anymore children.
Hi Rob and Chrissy, Rob do you still have a home back in Arizona you can rent out. It sounded like you wanted to go back home in 5 or 6 years. I have been to PI 6 times but the gal I had for 4 years was cheating on me because her sister being a Nun contacted me to let me know she had a boy friend living with her and I ask who that guy was and she would say her brother. Sounds like you found a real keeper.
Crissy, my name is Jeff from Cebu. I am in a relationship with a Filipina from Davao City. She was married to a Pinoy and she has 4 children. Her ex partner and my gf are separated. Since then he’s remarried by becoming Muslim. My question to you is since you reside in CDO and had your marriage annulled, can you please recommend honest and qualified attorney in Davao City? Appreciate your assistance. Salamat, Jeff
Whoa, whoa, what??? Chrissy was able to have her marriage annulled??? That alone is shocking!!! But to hear that her annulment was “successfully” completed in a “year”, is completely unheard of!!! Please share with me/us, who was her attorney, 😎😉🙏🏼???
When I'm ready, I'm going to be after an older Filipina and I can't wait to send a picture to my family and lie about my 45yr old Filipina being 21. Hahaha... I'm going to let them fester for a while before I break it to them too.
Hello I had literally just subscribe to your channel I do like what you guys have to talk about I've also done dating apps and it's pretty rough even for guys I post one profile got hundreds of messages to go through them all and narrow it down to one person is pretty insane I think most Filipinos for whatever reason like white skin so I think that's why a lot of Filipinos use filters I like the natural look and I like dark skin that's my preference so when somebody uses a face app to me that's being dishonest from the start anyone that ask for money should be blocked immediately that's a must for you Americans you want the ones that don't ask for money and refused to take it if you offer that's the tip I can give you
But I did get pretty lucky found a pretty amazing woman can't wait to see her this January 2024 destination Cebu not going to lie it's a little nerve-wracking I've never left the United States but I guess I got to put my big boy pants on😂 you guys keep up the good work I definitely love your topics
My partner doesn't want more children. And I'm glad I have 4 already..😁 But it's really nice to have a mixed blood child. But at my age I don't think I can still manage to carry a fetus in my womb.😊
Funny, when Rob left he does not go far. Keep in mind the reflection behind you 😉 By the way, I am serious about moving to Philippines. I already whats apped with a scammer and traveled there. I spent a couple days with her. She wanted money but did not get any. I am glad to find you both as I have learned much. I watch all your videos. I love the Filipina insight I get from Chrissy. It helps to screen out the dishonest; this also helps the Filipina reputation. Thanks Chrissy and also allow me to extend a thanks from all the honest Filipina's. Perhaps it is time for Chrissy and a female guest to do a video and discuss meeting a out of country man. An honest one like me. 😁 66 years here too. I do not want to meet a lady in 40's or 50's. I have a fear of a lady too young leaving when I grow older. Also, I desire an educated lady that may carry a good conversation. Thailand was not for me for same reason.
Great information, can you please provide links to "real" legit websites. I'm beginning to dip my toe in this world of expat relationship dating and I would value ya'lls opinion. Thx.
There is a very big problem that filipinas dont understand. You do not know if that one girl you have chosen is the right one. So you spend hundreds of dollars and after 3 weeks of dating it does not work, the foreginer goes home with nothing to show for his effort. So you had better plan to meet several when the first one does not work out
For me online dating is a no no. I prefer a Filipina who is open and honest with me in the real world when I am there personally. Then only marriage. Looking for a girl with Christian values. I was scammed online by fake ones. Never doing it online again
What she says, is true about meeting a guy while he’s in his country and coming to see her. But I tell you this. I would never spend thousands of dollars and take time off from work just to go see one Filipina it’s a Numbers game just like it’s here in the USA. Why put your eggs all in one basket there are too many horror stories of guys going over there just to see one girl I would never ever ever ever ever do that. If she doesn’t turn out to be what you want just think of all that time and money that you wasted, and can never get back. If a Filipina is too fragile to come see you, if you meet her on an app while you were here, she probably wasn’t worth meeting in the first place
Thanks for viewing. That is why I think an exploratory visit should be for 45 days or more just in case your initial meeting with someone doesn’t work out. The Philippine passport is very very weak and getting a Filipina out of the country to go visit somebody she met online is almost impossible.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines for those of us who are not retired a week or two is all we have. But your point is well taken. Especially the PI passport being weak.
Thanks for the feedback Thomas we have 110 videos. The one you make a comment on here was one of our first 10 or 15 videos and we’ve learned a lot since then.
being much older than the bride, chances are you will die before you. Having a child to leave behind would be to her benifit, if you truly are into each other.
BRING IT ON!!!!!! FUCK MALE LONELINESS, SINGLEDOM AND INVOLUNTARY CELIBACY!! I'd Much Rather Be A Slave To A WOMAN! FILIPINA WOMAN That Is. BRING IT ON!!!
It's not fair for you to judge a Filipina this way, it is more honorable for someone who is financially desperate to be interested in financial security, than some independent woman in the USA who only wants you to improve her life, which is already comfortable, would you rather have a materialistic woman or a desperate woman? I don't think there's anything in between
If you are a foreigner and want ro marry Filipina, dont join any dating sites. The best way to meet young, single and no kids yet Filipina is to come to phils, spend some time here, go to malls where gazillion of young sales ladies working in the malls, pleasant servers work in the gazillion restaurant, call centers and many places in the Philippines. Philippines has so much women than men..you have variety of women you can choose. Plus, please gentlemen, dont put so.much burden in your life...there are infinity filipina who are authentic single, stay away from one has a child already and stay away from big families. Find someone who is currently working, educated and from the urban city girls.
You two are a ray of sunshine thank you for all the great videos🤔🥰
Absolutely right stay away from the ladies who have children already wow I can tell you the experience that I just had unbelievable beware of the love scam mark my words
Well said, & another major point Don't get a Separated Filipina you could go to jail if the ex husband finds out.
It's really hard to get a Divorce in the Philippines 🇵🇭.
This was was I needed to read, Thank-you !!!
That's exactly what I want. No kids. No tattoos. A job. Some education. Not too young or old. Not fat. Is that too much to ask for?
Wow! Congratulations! May your relationship grow stronger! May you inspired more people!
Thank you so much!
Chrissy gives hope that one can actually find an amazing Filipina like her from a dating app…🙏🙏❤️❤️ Their story is so inspiring!
Thank you for the advice. Also your information is much more important to hear than the music playing at the same time which makes it hard to hear at times. Either get better microphones or ditch the music. Both would be a good solution. You don't have to make the video a real production to be good. Good honest words go a long way. Thank you very much you're a great couple.
Thanks for the feedback, it was a video we made 14 days into our journey, we have purchased new equipment and dropped music
Great you dropped the music.
Hi Rob & Chrissy, wow, you guys are great - the chemistry and how beautiful and smart Chrissy is! You are very lucky Rob.
Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts. We appreciate it
I am amazed by you two. Chrissy answered a question I wondered about.
Why would an attractive 45 yrs Filipina think I might be a scammer.
Chrissy on this video may have given me an insight.
Thank you both for your shared insight.
New sub.
Thanks happy new year 🎆
This is probably the best video on this subject I've ever seen!
Wow. That puts a smile on our faces.
Im so thankful for your video! Find myself in your exact position right now!!
Thanks
I just came across your video. I absolutely love how both of you are rwal real people!! Thank you for the videos!
Thanks for viewing, subscribing and sharing. Such a nice feedback.
My older kids are supportive of my relationship but my youngest wants nothing to do with my Filipina. It happens. I won’t give up my happiness for her inability to understand I have one life and I deserve to be happy.
I feel you
Very true, unless you have a right to dictate to her who she has a relationship with, she doesn't have that right over you.
Dear Chrissy and Rob You have apparently chosen interesting subjects from the start, but your design and image quality are far more professional today, just 6 months later, which is quite impressive. Best regards from Denmark 😀
We appreciate the positive feedback, Ben
Great vlog...I can resonate with everything you both have said. Chrissy is a very clever girl. Big bonus is she is also very attractive.
She is a real keeper.
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Thank you for subscribing! We appreciate receiving your feedback. Yes- Chrissy is the real deal!
Hi Rob & Chrissy,
I am a new subscriber to your channel, and wow, I am so impressed by how the two of you are such a loving couple, and your advice is so well thought out, and very inspirational to me. I’m looking to retire, and move to Philippines by February. I’m Hopefully looking forward to meeting the two of you, and being interviewed by the two of you, as a newcomer. I find myself incredibly inspired by you, and motivated to get over there. Congratulations again, on finding each other, and keep up the great blogs, 😎😉🙏🏼❤️❤️.
Well, Pete, what a great comment and I definitely would love to meet you when you come to the Philippines
Very good info...I have been researching this for at least 2 years. Also was in the PI 35 years ago and always wanted to come back. I am going to...soon.
Thanks, hope to see you out here!
Good luck to ya fella.
Great information on this topic and unique content that some men maybe afraid to ask or simply don’t know when entering this dating arena !
Thank you 😊
I enjoyed the vid. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for the positive feedback and for supporting our channel
Excellent information, presented in a pleasant manner.
Thanks for sharing your feedback.
It’s inspiring that you met chissy she is a good beautiful woman. I’ve had a hurtful experience online finding she was sexting with my friend in Australia plus she had a Filipino boyfriend and she had at least 30 guys online She seemed so sweet and innocent.
Now I am very careful and only want a lady I can trust. Never give up! Thanks guys.
Totally agree never give up. Thanks so much for watching and taking the time to comment.
Yep that happens. Did you meet her in person? That’s when the real relationship starts…anything online no matter how much your feelings get involved is just a chatmate relationship, like a penpal. She likely is using it as her main source of income. I can hardly fault these girls if they need the money. It’s better than being a bar girl or an escort. I’ve met a number of escort girls online using face recognition search. I’d try to meet her in person and understand her situation and if she is just bad news or maybe just in a bad spot…and remember there are plenty of other girls to explore once you are boots on the ground.
@@etfremd we met online 44 days before we met in person. No money changed hands. Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment. It really helps the channel.
Yes your story is amazing! I agree about the money situations. Don’t send money outside of maybe load and small money. The relationship starts for real when you meet in person. I think most of these girls think they will never meet the guy they are chatting with? Maybe that’s their plan…I recently met a provincial girl where it is all clicking! I hope I’m lucky. However, I’ve sent some load and small money for WiFi. Time will tell…Traveling in March if things work out. I will go on a recon mission regardless. Great channel keep the videos coming!
@@etfremd 👍
I really loved the sensible and mature nature of this video. Your wife seems to be a real lady, and you seem to be a true gentleman. I will be looking at your other videos, and I look forward to your future videos. Subscribed.
Wow, thank you!
Well done sir . She is great. Good luck you two !
Thanks for the kind words
Good story! Thank you for sharing your experience
Thanks for watching!
Very useful and grounded info. I plan to travel to PH from NZ for a one month, been on line and now realise this is not the one to meet someone
Thanks for watching. Good luck
Wow you two are identical to my relationship ! We Met on Filipina Cupid , shes single mom , 6 year old son , she was 33 I was 65 . Met after a few months in person 7.5 years later we still going strong . For me it was a perfect situation . Actually I preferred she did not have a working job 8 t0 8 etc. 6 days a week i was selfish . We formed a corporation which she runs and manages our properties and takes great care of our properties , her son , our condo and me . When I’m gone she will be set for life as well as her son and i was happy to be able to do that for this fine loving person !
A brother from another mother 😃
Met my first girlfriend from the Philippines on mutual a Christian app. We dated for about 4 months before I arrived into DevOps or only together about 3 weeks. I then use a foreign affair to meet my current girlfriend. We have been together for 9 months. I came back to Arizona in March and Emory training soon to devalue just discovered your channel. Did some interviews with Geo and Paul last year. Looking forward to seeing more of your content
Thanks for sharing
mutual app is the LDS dating app? my brother in law is on that app
Yes, online dating can be a cesspool. Isn't it better to use a matchmaking agency to help you set up dates with women in real life? You can meet them at a resort or another location over the course of a week or so. This way, the agency can set you up with women who are marriage-minded and actually want that. They would at least help you vet for scammers.
I don’t have any first person experience with these, however I have watched a dozen TH-cam videos regarding these services in Ukraine and 🇵🇭 and I think it is expensive and possibly worth it if English is not widely spoken- for example in China etc.
Can you please send your address
If you want to go to a matchmaking event, be my guest. You will just have to tolerate repeat customers there for only 1 thing. When you make that list and you hear the girl you likes name coming up at the lounge area about how she slept with some repeaters, and they get graphic, sharing pics, etc.. and you cross her off. Guess what? You'll be crossing off your list 1 by 1 until you have bottom of the barrel. That's what happened to my list, and my time there was consumed by who these 4 dudes dated so I could simply cross them off. You will notice how experienced they are at the whole process. For me I was just angry the whole time. The ones I like got ran through, and I was not going to risk putting a ring on the carrier of someone else's child.
Edit: if you want to talk about it send me you email and I will reply with my # I live in Phoenix 10 minutes away from that agency. Last I checked they were the only ones doing it
I'm like Chrissy, I'm a one person at a time messaging person. It has come back to bite me because I know almost everyone on the internet is not like me and are talking to multiple people. lol I'll be moving to the Philippines late next year. I'm so excited for this next step in my life.
Wish you well. Thanks for sharing
I used Christian Filipina and actually found my fiance and future wife from there.
Like anything any site can have scammers and be hit or miss. I just happened to ask God to put her before me, and bam there she was.
I met my Cebuana wife on Ok Cupid here in Chicago 10 years ago. We will retire in Cebu in less than 2 years. I am very lucky because she already has a house and property there. She is the best human being i have ever met and could not imagine my life without her. For guys out there looking for a real LIFE PARTNER,definitely keep Filipinas in mind.
Awesome, thanks for sharing
@@to_mm_ei_alves just a very small difference
@@to_mm_ei_alves Visaya and Cebuano are closely related languages, but they are not exactly the same. Visaya is a broader term that refers to a group of languages spoken in the Visayas region of the Philippines, which includes Cebuano as one of its major languages. Cebuano, on the other hand, is a specific language within the Visayan group.
So, while Cebuano is a type of Visayan language, not all Visayan languages are Cebuano. There are other Visayan languages such as Waray, Hiligaynon (Ilonggo), and more.
The person to person thing is very important !!! And I have researched all the different Philippine's Visas lengths and costs !!!
Thanks for watching and sharing
Thank you for the honest heartfelt comments it was very helpful.
Thank you for your feedback
Just found your channel and subscribed , I found this vlog very informative and interesting as I’m on the investigation stage of looking for a place to find a partner and country to retire to from the Uk I’ll be watching your channel going forward .
Awesome thanks for your support and best of luck in your search
She really love you Rob
I saw it in her eyes after you came back to sit down
Thanks for sharing that
Very relatable chat. I used Pinalove, filtered through the chaos to find a woman to really connect with. We chatted for about 2 weeks before I decided that we had to meet. I booked a ticket 6 weeks out. With her daughter and sister she picked me up at the airport for a 3 week bonding experience. Best time of my life! So much more than I could have hoped for. I don't think this caliber of woman exists in America. I've been back in the States for a week now. I'm trying to figure out the next steps. I'd like to bring her over. I just wish her tourist visa was easier to get. Seems like a K2 is the only way to go. How do you take your time getting to know somebody when you can't be with them? There is a lot of challenges here guys.
Glad you had such a great experience
I’ve been using PinaLove and man so many scams and scammers. I don’t know how many I’ve filtered through 200-300 at least…I think I’ve found the one!
My ex wife I met in China online, that was before smart phones, I was lucky my company was doing our manufacturing there so I was able to travel on business. We chatted for 2 months then I flew to Shanghai for our first date. After 10 days I was fully hooked! My next trip I brought a ring and officially proposed after meeting her mother and sister in Chengdu near her hometown. Before that I had met her sister who flew to meet me since she was with her husband on a work assignment here in the US. I travelled as often as I could while we processed the K-1 visa. It took almost a year. We were married here in the US just a year later after I put a ring on her finger. We had 2 amazing boys 14 and 16, but communication and her unhappiness led to our divorce. She wanted a divorce.
Now I am dreaming my Filipina can give me two daughters and make my life complete. I want to marry her in the Philippines and see if we can get a tourist visa for her to visit.
Video call.
I think I will wait until I arrive to meet someone. I did try Christian Philippina for 3 months, and I think about 80%+ are likely red flags. Keep doing your wonderful TH-cams! I watch some more than 1 time.
Thanks so much for watching and taking the time to share your comment. Best of luck to you. It’s all about persistence and patience.
Hi from Singer,live in the state of New Hampshire... I find your videos very knowledgeable and sweet ..than you so much... Singer
So nice of you
That’s an interesting subject about having a child with your Filipina partner. Your family back home should be supportive unless they are looking and counting the money on what they think is their inheritance. I think you should explore that more…maybe try to have a daughter if she wants another child. Since a daughter can better identify with Mom…You found a real gem! ❤
Thanks for your comment
Great Vlog, love the style
Thanks so much!
Thanks for the info.
You bet!
Very nice interview😊
Thank you for such a nice feedback
Filipinas are great. Just keep her in the Philippines to prevent a costly divorce in your home country.
Thanks for watching
That’s very true Rob to meet in person than see the photo or something, Christie probably the way you used filter may no be like other but to be honest it is more convenient to show your real look on the dating site to express your true look than filtered and when you meet than see what saw before completely different than the one front of you, that’s my opinion it may not be for everyone.
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Living in Washington state with daylight savings time it is 15hrs behind Cebu.
Hi Rob, Having another child with Chrissy would be a gift and a responsibility, no doubt. Give her something she wants in the relationship. Like you continue to say, Chrissy is beautiful and you are lucky to have found her.
There is so much golf you can play. I have two children and a step-daughter and grandson. Don’t be afraid of responsibility…
surprise her someday…
Appreciate you watching the video, thanks!
Hey Rob & Chrissy,
This is so cool, and funny, lol!!! I’m about to comment on your awesome blog, and saw that I watched, loved, and commented on it, a year ago, OMG, 😂!!!
Well, a year later, I loved it more, especially bc you ask the greatest questions, Rob, and Ate Chrissy is such a genuinely, wonderful woman, with equally great feedback, into the mind, of a good, traditional, loving Filipina.
I know what I want, I want a “Chrissy of my own, lol. BTW, part of the reason why Chrissy looked much more beautiful, and petite in person, is bc the camera adds 10 lbs, when we’re on, 😎🙏🏼❤️.
Thanks, Pete
@ No, Kuya Rob, and Ate Chrissy, salamat, to “you”, ❤️😎😉.
I spent 7 wonderful months in the Philippines came back to the USA in March to take care of business . I love the Philippines coming back to do life there in October. Date in Asia is free dating app and the best I found to meet people on line just be careful of scammers it's not hard to figure it out.
Meeting online on a dating site seems troubling with the high percentage of scammers. I have been to the Philippines 4 years ago. I did spend a few days in Dumaguete. I live in Gilbert Arizona right now.
Thanks for viewing and sharing
Amazing video, great insights thank you. I hope your family watch a few of these and can accept Chrissy and your happiness together. I'm in my mid 40's, divorced a few years ago and have been researching and familiarising with PH on youtube since then. Coming to Cebu in December for 5 weeks to roll the dice. Do most filipinas go back to their home province for a xmas break?
If they are not working, then yes
I met Filipinas right here in the States. The best women. Even the one Filipina who thought she was sneaky was time well spent as compared to the Western women I dated. None of them were after my money. The Prettiest Filipina from Queens insisted on paying most of the time. I definitely should of married the one in Florida. She deserved better. Im sure she found it. Great video! Very helpful. She's very beautiful. Congratulations sir!
Thanks for sharing and your feedback.
Ohh man, I’ve tried the online dating stuff. It was for sure not what I thought it would be. Some women were ready to get married just after 2 days. Then it seems that you could never get a video call. All they want is to text. Think I’ll just wait to do the in person thing.
Thanks for sharing your experiences and watching a video and supporting our channel
That’s been my experience as well… No shortage of very obvious scammers on the apps and the apps with supported video calling seemed to be more trouble than they were worth. One of the huge red flags is when meeting someone online and within a few minutes they’re calling you “honey and or sweetheart” and talking about marriage, it probably won’t take long before you hear of their sick Mom, or electric bill is overdue, etc., etc. These encounters can be somewhat entertaining and I view them as learning experiences.
I’ve had much better success with simply approaching women I notice when I’m out. You know what they look like, you get a much quicker feel for their personality, etc., but that’s simply my personal preference…
Regardless of what approach one takes, it’s all a process and once a western man has experienced an Asian woman, it’s not likely they’ll go back ! That has certainly been my case having been previously married to a Vietnamese woman who had a hidden gambling problem that eventually destroyed our marriage. I came to the Philippines mainly because English is widely spoken and quickly learned the women here are absolutely amazing in a much gentler way than my previous Asian wife and she was amazing…
Good luck gentlemen
Excellent video, just a tad long. Can you tell me the province where Chrissy is from? I'm like you, Rob. Watching videos about the Philippines, planning to come. Good to hear the viewpoint of the Filipina. A very nice balance.
Zamboanga del Sur. Thanks for the feedback
it was not long it was perfect damn the things you guys complain about...simp
Thumbs up here for Mindanao women
I never thought of sending everyone the same message. I personalize every message that I send.
Filters are absolutely aggravating to me, because I don’t want to choose someone based of of an artificially enhanced image.
Street racing thanks for sharing
My thoughts on having a child in my late 50s… I felt like it would be unfair to the child. It their most hormonal and stressful time in their life (junior high and high school), all they would be worried about is ‘will dad die before I graduate’. Also, as a father, our job in life is literally to procreate, and protect our children. It’s tough to beat down a mean boyfriend or husband when you’re in your 70s and 80s.
I lost a potential wife in Thailand due to an ultimatum that she gave me… I don’t do well with ultimatums. She should have just spent some time convincing me. It would have worked out better for her.
Thanks for sharing
Hey guys I’ve used numerous dating sites , and I’ve been in Manila and you only have to walk thou malls - even go to MacDonald and sit and just eat in store and there is a big chance you will meet a girl , but the only thing she probably a working girl so you have to be careful, girls will approach you in malls same deal there working but the opportunity is there , best to find a good spot and sit and watch
Thanks for sharing Perry
I am like you in the beginning. Watching TH-cam for hours. I want to try the online dating. I am recently divorced at 62. I like your video.
Best of luck! Thanks
Let not your heart be troubled! Rob Your fiancé, Chrissy( By the few videos I have watched) Is willfully ready to give you her complete"fidelity" Nurture it❤
Thank you
33:49 Focusing Focusing
Perhaps a better pronunciation next time
Hello there. You two are awesome together and very honest visit with each other. I have purchased my flight to the Philippines yesterday. I will be there the 2nd of December for 1 month and leave the 2nd of January. I have a question about the visa do I wait until I get there and get it or get the visa before I leave the USA.
Just show up, you get 30 days stamped in your passport, then renew for 3030 pesos before 30 days are up etc. Thanks for your feedback
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines thank you for the reply. Have a great day or night it's afternoon here
You get the visa upon arrival. 29 days right now by December might change to 59 days free. If you decide to stay longer, make sure you extend it before your time is up
Just a wink, she's really nice ❤
Yes, I know I got lucky
here is my challenge with the phillipines and visiting..... it is dangerous and I moved to mexico and mexico is nothing compared to the phillipines. I mean I want to visit but then I listen to some of the americans that have gone and the stuff that has happened. robbed, beaten up. takin down dark alleys pretty scary stuff .. what safety measures should be taken?
I’m sorry to hear that. I spent four months in Mexico the last two years and never had a problem myself, but I ran into several people who had been car jacked and robbed But here in the Philippines. I haven’t met anyone yet who’s had trouble.. I heard from someone who’s been here for 13 years is if you give respect to get respect and for people who get in trouble back home are the people who get in trouble over here ..if you’ve been out drinking and walk around quiet streets at night 2 AM I think trouble will find you.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines I apologize Rob that came out wrong. I have never had a problem in Mexico. I love it here in Mexico. I heard about those problems in the Phillipines. Then I talk to someone like you and they have always been safe. I was thinking about going in 90-120 days out and staying in BGC. Have any experience there ?
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines oh and thanks Rob appreciate you
Yes, I really like BGC it’s just a little pricey and Makati is even better for first time visitor. It’s a good place to visit for three days before moving on.
I met "mine" in FB group focused on Philippines & foreigners meeting.
Free. Lots of scammers. Lots of fake accounts. I'm the FB groups I had to weed through close to 100 "ladies" before I narrowed it down to top 3.
Thanks for sharing!
I am married to a Filipina and we live in Australia. My wife has four beautiful sisters who are all educated, living at home and come from a respectable family. They are all looking for a future husband but he must be serious, responsible, have a decent job and good future prospects. They are not on any dating sites perhaps because they are too shy to communicate. But so hard to find such quality men.
How can I find out the 36 questions? You said what the website was for the 5 love languages.
All 36 questions appear on screen in text
I use the Signal App only !!! Because first it's totally secure with triple encryption !!! And free to anywhere in the World !! For voice calls, video calls or chatting !!! And have used for to and from the Philippines !!! But will depend on the Filipina' s location and Internet reliability !!!
I didn’t know that thanks for sharing and watching her video
Sorry, the CP dating site does support video messaging, in the last two weeks I'm lucky if I can even get a woman to agree to regular "chat" feature versus sending messages between each other, my membership only has 50 total messages available per day and those get burned up quickly dealing with scammers. So when asking to chat, there is almost always some excuse why they can't do it, no one has ever video chatted. They also don't use facebook so they say ( all of them) I thought that was BS.
I myself am 59 waiting til 61 12 hrs difference time wise tough to communicate hopefully im lucky enough to find a beauty that wants me forever
Yes 12 hours is difficult
My Filipina girlfriend wanted to have a child within months of being together. She already has a 10 year old boy and a 13 year old girl. She understands I am adamant that I do not want anymore children.
Thanks for watching and sharing your comment
If she doesn't respect your choice, that's a red flag in my opinion.
You won the lottery!
Thanks
Hi Rob and Chrissy, Rob do you still have a home back in Arizona you can rent out. It sounded like you wanted to go back home in 5 or 6 years. I have been to PI 6 times but the gal I had for 4 years was cheating on me because her sister being a Nun contacted me to let me know she had a boy friend living with her and I ask who that guy was and she would say her brother. Sounds like you found a real keeper.
No Larry I don’t
Crissy, my name is Jeff from Cebu. I am in a relationship with a Filipina from Davao City. She was married to a Pinoy and she has 4 children. Her ex partner and my gf are separated. Since then he’s remarried by becoming Muslim.
My question to you is since you reside in CDO and had your marriage annulled, can you please recommend honest and qualified attorney in Davao City? Appreciate your assistance. Salamat, Jeff
We are sorry but the attorney can not be referred or recommended, Zamboanga City attorney and not willing to recommend. Best of luck
By the way Christian Filipina dating site wants $256 for 3 month . You mentioned the other site was $90.
Thanks for sharing
I am flexible on children but do have an Age requirement of at least 30 years old and can be older just a little maturity thing !!!
Yes I agree
Walay sapayan. ❤
Thank you for the “you’re welcome“. 🙏
Wow dude looks good for his age
🙏 Amigo
Whoa, whoa, what??? Chrissy was able to have her marriage annulled??? That alone is shocking!!! But to hear that her annulment was “successfully” completed in a “year”, is completely unheard of!!! Please share with me/us, who was her attorney, 😎😉🙏🏼???
When I'm ready, I'm going to be after an older Filipina and I can't wait to send a picture to my family and lie about my 45yr old Filipina being 21. Hahaha... I'm going to let them fester for a while before I break it to them too.
@@carsonc1272 Love it
How to meet a Filipina well you can meet him anywhere The problem is do they want to meet you are they interested in you That's the question
Thanks Michael for commenting
Hello I had literally just subscribe to your channel I do like what you guys have to talk about I've also done dating apps and it's pretty rough even for guys I post one profile got hundreds of messages to go through them all and narrow it down to one person is pretty insane I think most Filipinos for whatever reason like white skin so I think that's why a lot of Filipinos use filters I like the natural look and I like dark skin that's my preference so when somebody uses a face app to me that's being dishonest from the start anyone that ask for money should be blocked immediately that's a must for you Americans you want the ones that don't ask for money and refused to take it if you offer that's the tip I can give you
But I did get pretty lucky found a pretty amazing woman can't wait to see her this January 2024 destination Cebu not going to lie it's a little nerve-wracking I've never left the United States but I guess I got to put my big boy pants on😂 you guys keep up the good work I definitely love your topics
Thanks for watching our videos and for such an expensive, best of luck to you in January
You're welcome and thank you I'm sure I will have a good time
$90 3 month subscription to what??? What is the name of the app???
We met on Filipino Cupid
What app did you guys use to meet?
Vito, Filipino Cupid
May i ask how did the two of you meet?
Hi, we met in Filipina Cupid.
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My partner doesn't want more children. And I'm glad I have 4 already..😁 But it's really nice to have a mixed blood child. But at my age I don't think I can still manage to carry a fetus in my womb.😊
Filters is false advertising. I wouldn’t want someone to think I’m better looking than I really am, then see me and be disappointed 😂
Yes, false advertising
Chrissy looks like a Beautiful Chinese woman in this clip.......
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Thanks really appreciate it
are you able to break up the timelines by each question
It’s possible- requires extra editing
Funny, when Rob left he does not go far. Keep in mind the reflection behind you 😉 By the way, I am serious about moving to Philippines. I already whats apped with a scammer and traveled there. I spent a couple days with her. She wanted money but did not get any. I am glad to find you both as I have learned much. I watch all your videos. I love the Filipina insight I get from Chrissy. It helps to screen out the dishonest; this also helps the Filipina reputation. Thanks Chrissy and also allow me to extend a thanks from all the honest Filipina's. Perhaps it is time for Chrissy and a female guest to do a video and discuss meeting a out of country man. An honest one like me. 😁 66 years here too. I do not want to meet a lady in 40's or 50's. I have a fear of a lady too young leaving when I grow older. Also, I desire an educated lady that may carry a good conversation. Thailand was not for me for same reason.
Kurt Thanks for your suggestion. Appreciate the feedback. I do private consultations … flymetothephilippines@gmail.com
Forget the scamers on Christian Filipina, the site itself is a big rip off.
They cost something like $5k don't they? That's allot of money for no guarantee!
Omg that background noise!!
We moved
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines
I meant the "music"
Early days of making video…oops
Great information, can you please provide links to "real" legit websites. I'm beginning to dip my toe in this world of expat relationship dating and I would value ya'lls opinion. Thx.
We have an entire video based on a survey of most effective… uding your tool
Just found your channel, i see 665 likes , i will wait until after you get the next like then i will click
You are a devil
There is a very big problem that filipinas dont understand. You do not know if that one girl you have chosen is the right one. So you spend hundreds of dollars and after 3 weeks of dating it does not work, the foreginer goes home with nothing to show for his effort. So you had better plan to meet several when the first one does not work out
Saul thanks for viewing our video and taking the time to comment and share your thoughts
For me online dating is a no no. I prefer a Filipina who is open and honest with me in the real world when I am there personally. Then only marriage. Looking for a girl with Christian values. I was scammed online by fake ones. Never doing it online again
Thanks for sharing
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Welcome brother.
What she says, is true about meeting a guy while he’s in his country and coming to see her. But I tell you this. I would never spend thousands of dollars and take time off from work just to go see one Filipina it’s a Numbers game just like it’s here in the USA. Why put your eggs all in one basket there are too many horror stories of guys going over there just to see one girl I would never ever ever ever ever do that.
If she doesn’t turn out to be what you want just think of all that time and money that you wasted, and can never get back.
If a Filipina is too fragile to come see you, if you meet her on an app while you were here, she probably wasn’t worth meeting in the first place
Thanks for viewing. That is why I think an exploratory visit should be for 45 days or more just in case your initial meeting with someone doesn’t work out. The Philippine passport is very very weak and getting a Filipina out of the country to go visit somebody she met online is almost impossible.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines for those of us who are not retired a week or two is all we have. But your point is well taken. Especially the PI passport being weak.
Please have discussions where your voices don't echo. Inside your house is bad
Thanks for the feedback Thomas we have 110 videos. The one you make a comment on here was one of our first 10 or 15 videos and we’ve learned a lot since then.
being much older than the bride, chances are you will die before you. Having a child to leave behind would be to her benifit, if you truly are into each other.
Take your wallet out. Boom you've met a Filipina.
Thanks for sharing
BRING IT ON!!!!!!
FUCK MALE LONELINESS, SINGLEDOM AND INVOLUNTARY CELIBACY!!
I'd Much Rather Be A Slave To A WOMAN! FILIPINA WOMAN That Is.
BRING IT ON!!!
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@@FlyMeToThePhilippinesthat was very classy of you to reply kindly to a derogatory comment
It's not fair for you to judge a Filipina this way, it is more honorable for someone who is financially desperate to be interested in financial security, than some independent woman in the USA who only wants you to improve her life, which is already comfortable, would you rather have a materialistic woman or a desperate woman? I don't think there's anything in between
get retired, go to south east asia, enjoy it, you might meet som special, but enjoy all the other women too.Its all about money, nothing else.
Dating a person online , imo is not dating.
Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts
My first ex wife name is Chrissy
Thanks for viewing
I am a one-woman Man and won't do the shopping for woman thing !!!
Men hate to shop