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For any parents out there, our guest this week is Dr. Gordon Neufeld, author of Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers.
He speaks about the perils of peer attachment in our children and what we can do to win them back. I'm joined by a colleague in my co-working space, Suzanne, who is facing this right now, and Gordon provides Suzanne with some real-time advice, including sharing how he rescued his relationship with his own daughter.
We talk about effective strategies for preserving our child-parent relationships in the context of today's ubiquitous social media presence.
Links:
Hold On To Your Kids - The Book - amzn.to/46OiR6D
The Neufeld Institute - neufeldinstitute.org/
Chapters:
00:00:00 - The Essence of Being Human and Humane
00:05:28 - The Original Meaning of Empathy
00:10:41 - The Dehumanizing Factor of Numbing Out
00:16:04 - The Importance of Connectedness and Togetherness
00:21:19 - The Impact of Separation on Children's Attachment
00:26:40 - Surviving in a Lord of the Flies scenario
00:31:35 - The Complicated Nature of Feelings in Males
00:36:48 - Being the Answer for Your Daughter
00:42:07 - The Importance of Peer Orientation and Tribalization
00:47:10 - Reclaiming our Children
00:52:32 - Restoring Connection and Rebuilding Trust
00:57:32 - The Importance of Togetherness
01:02:39 - The Importance of Intergenerational Care and Cultivating a Fully Human Society
01:07:33 - The Challenges of Parenting
01:12:40 - The Influence of Peer Orientation on Social Media
01:18:04 - The Influence of Social Media on Peer Orientation
01:23:03 - A Secret Conversation - บันเทิง
I thought it would be too long to listen to but now I finished it I wanna listen to it again - it was amazing !
Great podcast, this knowledge is the wisdom from the agrarian societies. In cities this has been lost. This was truly and insight.
Great one! Thank you.
I really got so much out of this episode. I think you may have helped heal my relationship with my daughter 🤞
BTW algorithms led me here due to my interests in Dr Schubener another incredible teacher, who you interviewed in a previous episode. Thankfully I subscribed.
Brilliant - that's fantastic.
53:10 and Anne, a parent comes in and already you hear why a village is needed when it comes to growing a wholesome human who is wrapped up in their own being. Wr alk have an image of what, how things ought to be but are we correct? I am a parent with 5 boys and 2 girls and i would have share Anne's way of thinkings a while back. I am also a parenthelp for a career and while in and out of different dynamics of various families, one thing is clear. There is no expertice when it comes to bringing up ones kids. But the good is that they dont belong to us, they are a part of the jigsaw. My mom used to say that she was just a channel that god without her permission used to perfom his will and for that she held her accountable in doing all that was necessary for her burden to be light. Light it was not observing feom outside in but she challenged it with all the tools she had all the way to the age of 90 years age❤
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The lady is pretty defensive
She keeps twisting what the expert is saying to make herself out as not being responsible and blaming her daughter. Maybe that's part of the problem in her relationship with her daughter. She's not actually understanding or even willing to try.
If only she'd let her guard dowm, be less defensive, try less to be 'right'...
The fact that you compare your daughter to your 'ideal' sons... That's pretty harsh and will make her feel worthless
Maybe she showed more love and acceptance to the sons and that's why they were more 'ideal'