How Friends And Family Can DESTROY Your Relationship

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  • @theresadunlap4953
    @theresadunlap4953 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Family will add to stress and create selfish behaviors.

    • @Prodigy1320
      @Prodigy1320 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      FACTS EXPERIENCING FIRST HAND NOW

    • @djswole11
      @djswole11 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      me tooo it's really stressful
      @@Prodigy1320

    • @thedramainew
      @thedramainew 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah 😑 it's a toxic environment

  • @BeyondBodie
    @BeyondBodie ปีที่แล้ว +18

    100% AGREED with ALL of this message!

  • @brownshugakale2410
    @brownshugakale2410 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Gotta cut ties & Focus on each other, respectfully. The other side of the coin is being in a relationship with someone who has horrible detachment issues with their family, but talks about it all the time. Drives a wedge 😔

    • @Confessions089
      @Confessions089 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Just leave and find someone who has graduated from that level.

  • @teresadilts7331
    @teresadilts7331 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My marriage was butted into by my mom and mother-in-law. I told them both to butt out, let my marriage alone. It worked

  • @jdclec7877
    @jdclec7877 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    VERY ACCURATE!!!! ..no matter how you try too spin it 💯👏🏽✊🏽

  • @cynthiagomes2979
    @cynthiagomes2979 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yup!! The messy, jealous, want your man/ woman friends and family. I keep them out from the beginning.

  • @crystalsloan2898
    @crystalsloan2898 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Family & Friends will be toxic to your relationship but sometimes family and friends see the things you don't

  • @devatheflyelegantprettydiv2269
    @devatheflyelegantprettydiv2269 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Family can be the most divisive tool in any relationship, you have to learn how to keep them totally separated because family will ruin
    Your life. The Bible says separate from them if you want to make it,
    You allow them in, look for it to be over

    • @ChaseGohunnid
      @ChaseGohunnid 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What it’s means by the allow it to be over part

    • @thedramainew
      @thedramainew 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ChaseGohunnidit means once you allow your twosome to become a threesome or moresome then expect nothing but loneliness by your lonesome 💯 enmeshment is toxic and a very dangerous form of abuse if ignore or goes unseen

  • @reddz521
    @reddz521 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ain't it worth it? Damn good question! Let's see if it is.... engage set boundaries mode!

  • @Islandgirl198
    @Islandgirl198 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes it was very true but he finally told his family that he gave up to quickly on our relationship he has prayed about it and can see the changes happening in our life so we have decided to give this another go, but I’ve told him I want to keep this between us until we have built a strong relationship before we are comfortable to tell ppl again we are back together it feels good right now just focusing on us and what our plan is going forward

  • @DrineThePoet
    @DrineThePoet ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Facts create boundaries

  • @godsgrace9158
    @godsgrace9158 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so true. 💯 %.

  • @chulah4051
    @chulah4051 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    It’s usually a jealous mother or sister that will have you ending your relationship over simple things. Ice cream vs cookies.

  • @EmeraldLuvsYouALL
    @EmeraldLuvsYouALL ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey act right or be gone 😤 nobody has time for foolishness trying to stop true love because their miserable. Nope 👎

    • @Confessions089
      @Confessions089 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Been there and done that. Sometimes you have to realize that it wasn't true, even as much as we wanted it to be. If it were true then that person would correct their family and put certain measures in place to keep that love. If they're not doing this then it's not true love. Someone who loves you will do what is in their power to keep that love.

  • @moubhattacharyay6891
    @moubhattacharyay6891 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Men/Women Hv To Be Enough Mature-Tactful & Courageous To Set Boundaries With Family/Frnds/Relatives Not To Influence Their Role To Navigate Ur Personal Choice & Relationship..
    Generally Men Hv To Be Enough Bold In Their Manley Characters & "HV TO POSSESS A STRONG SPINE/BACKBONE" When It Come To Their Woman & Relationship That Nobody Can Cross Their Limits/Can't Be Unnecessary Nosy Without Ur Permission.. 🙂

  • @ebonieoduro797
    @ebonieoduro797 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man the total truth!! God bless!

  • @sheilaboykins9544
    @sheilaboykins9544 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's hard and the gilt alone is harder when it comes down to it.

  • @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848
    @apositivechangeisjustadaya7848 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Who marries for love anymore? I don't agree with this. Two people in a relationship are supposed to cleave to each other. Not friends or family.

  • @debbiepinkpea2783
    @debbiepinkpea2783 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen ❤️🙏

  • @silvatavitian9628
    @silvatavitian9628 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @sarahalvaradoq2753
    @sarahalvaradoq2753 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So true man I love your advice ❤❤

  • @victorial8764
    @victorial8764 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Babies’ mamma. (Except when necessary for co-parenting)

  • @janicesmith1807
    @janicesmith1807 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes❤

  • @sharonyoung1679
    @sharonyoung1679 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    True!🙏💘

  • @Jasminepsalm
    @Jasminepsalm ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aye! Facts

  • @GiorgioSimpson-mg4og
    @GiorgioSimpson-mg4og 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Family will destroy your relationship if you let them. Stop telling them everything and if y’all argue that’s none of there business what y’all do in your home I y’all business.

  • @jenniferarzadon2525
    @jenniferarzadon2525 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    True💯❤️

  • @jdjenkins8
    @jdjenkins8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes. It’s worth it….

  • @maxstewart635
    @maxstewart635 ปีที่แล้ว

    Totally true ther bro 👍🔥🔥

  • @arseniodelossantos7357
    @arseniodelossantos7357 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love of my life. Some friends and family

  • @javon6568
    @javon6568 ปีที่แล้ว

    100% I told them to get them out they head and they didn’t know look at them

  • @user-el5kn8yx4t
    @user-el5kn8yx4t ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely 💯

  • @lynnlambert6448
    @lynnlambert6448 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely !

  • @slim6289
    @slim6289 ปีที่แล้ว

    TRUE 👍💯✝️

  • @shawanahickman6952
    @shawanahickman6952 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes you are ❤

  • @MillzCoop
    @MillzCoop 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think it’s toxic to suggest cutting family and friends off for a relationship. I think it’s important to have the proper balance and to make room for both…. Now, I’m going to say if the family/partner becomes toxic we need to rethink separation…

  • @mattrainey7120
    @mattrainey7120 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen

  • @stevegarcia8459
    @stevegarcia8459 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Real

  • @tericollier8232
    @tericollier8232 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, it is worth it.

  • @cristysmith3797
    @cristysmith3797 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very true

  • @KrayJSongz
    @KrayJSongz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just broke up with mines because of her family gotten involved

  • @mitziejenkins0476
    @mitziejenkins0476 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @teresajura2575
    @teresajura2575 ปีที่แล้ว

    Definitely ❤️

  • @jovelhamilton601
    @jovelhamilton601 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    100%

  • @LunarFrequenciesHD
    @LunarFrequenciesHD ปีที่แล้ว

    yup.

  • @maryalmah5516
    @maryalmah5516 ปีที่แล้ว

    True

  • @jeaninewhitner9658
    @jeaninewhitner9658 ปีที่แล้ว

    TRUE

  • @amandastankorb9864
    @amandastankorb9864 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @doreenmccormick6620
    @doreenmccormick6620 ปีที่แล้ว

    YES❤

  • @tonywalker1954
    @tonywalker1954 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Not at all
    If they are jealous they are shit friends but most people will be happy for a new relationship people see things you don't
    And you side with that 1 person
    Over everyone else
    Don't be surprised when you feel like you're dangling from a thin stick
    When you had thick branches under you

  • @mca217
    @mca217 ปีที่แล้ว

    10000000000%

  • @shawanahickman6952
    @shawanahickman6952 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hell yes it's worth it

  • @queenieford4107
    @queenieford4107 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen 🙏 yes 🙌 😊

  • @user-mh1fr1md4n
    @user-mh1fr1md4n 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Stop meddling and bagging in people's relationships point blank

  • @sharinaross1865
    @sharinaross1865 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nothing wrong saying that

  • @ritaceron7329
    @ritaceron7329 ปีที่แล้ว

    hardships will pass Prayers work let’s keep it coming ❤ thank goodness families morel’s ❤️‍🩹✊☮️

  • @Lifeofcivilrightactivistanetra
    @Lifeofcivilrightactivistanetra ปีที่แล้ว

    The part the " love of my life"" it's all worth Jesus Christ his my first husband my thr love my life of this earthy not worth lost Jesus #BlackLivesMatter

  • @leemontedavi
    @leemontedavi ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes ❤