For the boys, don’t try skipping this stage I only got humbled by this girl and we had to start from square one. Now I’m competing with another guy all cuz I tried to skip it
You're right, and she will be able to tell if you are talking to other girls as well. Definitely dont get clingy, and dont ghost her. Just have different options.
Honestly, especially since I am on the younger side, the talking stage is fine and me and my man have talked about it. It’s less pressure but we both know we like each other.
GIRLS I NEED ADVICE. I’m in middle school. Let’s start with that. There’s this guy. He’s perfect , there’s not words to describe how amazing he is. We both like eachother , but when we confessed he told me he wasent ready for the commitment. He told me we should just be best friends. And right now, we are. The thing is yes we’re just friends and we don’t say we’re dating because we aren’t, we still act like we’re more than friends by complimenting eachother and acting a bit more than just friends would, so the thing I’m wondering is , is it a talking stage? Is this a relationship? Are we really just friends?
@@rixnana can’t speak for him but I’m guessing through the questions you ask, through how she presents herself when she’s alone with you compared to when she’s with you and her friends are there or when she’s just with her friends and I think through the way she wants to be treated and how she treats others
help me out guysss…. i’ve been talking to someone who has REALLY liked me for over two years now and i like talking to himfor over 5 months now, but i don’t know if i like him back. he asked me out about a month ago and i told him i would have to think about it… what do i say????????????????????????
From a dude who has trust issues from being laughed at all through elementary, jr high, and the past 3, starting 4, years of high school, I’m going to need to see from afar before I decide if I a) trust her as a friend and b) like her. There have been 2 girls that have caught my eye and that was because they made an effort to make sure everyone was involved in the friend group.
talking stages can last longer depending on age, when ur older, just ask them out, tf u doing w a talking stage? i think a month is fine for young adults, but for teens it can be more. it just sepends
Me and my guy are pretty much dating but we just say we’re talking because his parents are strict about dating. We’ve already kissed, I talk to him everyday, we say I love you and we hug every time we say bye.
My cousin had a beach crush and when he came to talk to us he said "you guys wanna see my hermit crab? I said"cool" And my cousin said "oh yea we had hermit crabs.....they died" and he was like"oh"💀
Unpopular opinion, but "Red Flag" by Anne Wilson has the MOST important rule ever "He's gotta love you but he's gotta love Jesus just a little more girl, its worth waiting for girl"
As a boy I agree with all except for effort cause there some things that I'd expect some effort in. Though I do agree with not acting like you're dating.
@@iqrahussain6010What if a guy came up to you after meeting you 4 days prior for a date? Is that something you take, that is if you like the guy of course.
@@diamondtheif4007 yeah probably, though i'd prefer the date to be something quite chill; involving a hobby we both like and having the time to get to talk and know each other better
Can you pls explain the stages? I mean a lot of ppl don’t even know if there are any stages when we start dating initially or getting to know someone. I am one of them. 😅
I just got my first heartbreak a couple mins ago. I’ve been texting him for maybe a month and he hadn’t been responding to me so I was in ft w my friend and I text while on FaceTime and the first thing he said was “I got a gf🥳” Like I quite literally confessed my love to this man and he said “oh dang” not even thank you at minimum and he said like he’s intentionally trying to make me bawl my eyes out Then he asks “are you sad” What do you think OF COURSE I AM WHAT DID YOU THINK I WAS HAPPY Anywho if you have any tips for first heartbreak let me know 😢
Ok guys I need advice here… So a few days ago my ex best friend told my crush I like him and he started blushing. The next two days all our friends tease us about it but he’s constantly smiling and blushing when I’m mentioned .That girls then proceeds to tell my crush WITHOUT MY PERMISSION that I want his number and his friend gave me a number. I suspected it was fake because why would he like me, anyways, I didn’t message or call the number and the next day his friends are like “ did you call him? He gave you fake number bro that’s sad” Few hours later my fake friends decide to give him my actual number and he gives it back saying “ I’m not interested sorry” now all everyone talks about is how I got rejected by him. What do I do and does he like me and is trying to hide cuz we’re different religion or is he actually just not interested
From what I can assume from your situation is that may be he is not interested... but it's better to ask him out directly that you are interested in him and want to get to know him and ask for his number. It will clear all your confusions and no one thinks about religion and all if they are interested in someone.. what's wrong with knowing someone? It's not like you are asking him to marry you and get into a relationship now.. You asked this a month ago... so I dont know if it's too late
no one will ever manage to talk me out of something more than straights giving advice on straight dating, like i don’t even need it but thanks for the encouragement to keep being better ig
Y’all ima go talk to my crush more info soon Ok I did he was silent and walked away I don’t think he cared😢 He came up to me today and said he likes meeee 😊 He asked me to be his gf today!!! I remembered I can’t date until 8th grade😮 Skrew it I’m saying yessss🎉 I did and now we are together🤭 I have to tell my bsf!!! I guess she liked him too… She got mad and told everyone I’m scared she will tell my sister since they are friends to😰 She didn’t yet but she told me we will only last a week I want to prove her 😑 Ok I have to break up with him right? Well I liked him since last YEAR!!! I have to or I will be grounded for life 😢 Ok my bsf told me he kissed another girl 😭 I broke up with him and I feel much better about myself now 👁️👅👁️
I’m committed and I tried to talk to another guy just to keep my options open or whatever. But I felt bad the whole time lmao. And the other guy I don’t really like tbh. I need help. 😭
@@toucheCS2 I was talking about I needed help bc I’m fucked up for doing that lmao but anyways that whole fiasco is over. It was my first time talking to someone so yk you live and learn as you go. Imma just be real I was being an attention whore and I’m aware of that.
My boyfriend prob took less then a day to fall in love with me aka my first day cuz 2 weeks ago I was new to a new school then a couple days before Valentine’s Day he asked me to be his valentine and 2 days ago he asked me if I can be with girlfriend soo
Hii! I have a small request (I’m sorry if you don’t them) but can you do “how to tell if they like you” but without communication? (like you guys to talk, text, etc)
He thinks I’m dating him and I don’t think I’m dating him because he never ask me to be his girlfriend but he always call me his girlfriend so idk what type of situation I’m in rn can anyone help me?
And now after 2 weeks of constant texting he is ignoring me. Idk why, idk if he lied about having a girlfriend but i know he knows a lot of girls and possibly im just another option for him. He is barely replying to me now. Idk why. Idk if i should just tell him that im cutting him off
So you need questions umm ik you are probably gonna say If they are not interested then don't bother but I really need to pull them back how do spark that connection again like keep it alive in the talking stage because I find my self really trying and they just don't give me all the focus
We’ve been talking for 7 years 😭😭😭 But I mean I would rather that then picking the wrong person tbh Edit: also he is kinda my besties enemy but like he knows that we like each other but still teases me in a funny kinda way but his friends sometime take it a bit far
this woman has no idea what she is talking about. If you like a man put in the effort and let him know you like him. it puts all the cards in his hand. If he doesnt want you, you will find out really quick after that. @@leiajones852
For the boys, don’t try skipping this stage I only got humbled by this girl and we had to start from square one. Now I’m competing with another guy all cuz I tried to skip it
Bro this is actually really helping like i skipped this stage and then boom me and her broke up
How’s it going?
👏🫶
Competing with another dude for a girl ? Bruh you need help
Never compete bro. Your not some choice. Back out and move on
If a girls is interested, she will spend time with you. If she make you wait, it's mean she talking to 5 other guys and your just an option to her
You're right, and she will be able to tell if you are talking to other girls as well. Definitely dont get clingy, and dont ghost her. Just have different options.
We're all looking for out best option before we commit
i gave it 7 months because i was madly in love with this man and were together now and ive never been happier
I give effort cause I want him to understand that I’m for real and a little flirting never hurt right 😜
I disagree with the month, if you’re serious about dating to marry then it can very well take months
Really?
I agree
Fac
A month and a half tops.
Someone can be serious but want to take things slow
I don’t get talking stages as a whole. Ask them out or don’t. I’ll personally never be with someone who wants a talking stage first
I have the friend stage instead of the talking stage lol
Bro why is this shi so difficult in this age 😭
Honestly, especially since I am on the younger side, the talking stage is fine and me and my man have talked about it. It’s less pressure but we both know we like each other.
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Yeah, we need more!
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@@NikiPatton what should i do if this guy has a gf? 🤔
@@NikiPatton ooooo can I do middle school crushes
GIRLS I NEED ADVICE. I’m in middle school. Let’s start with that. There’s this guy. He’s perfect , there’s not words to describe how amazing he is. We both like eachother , but when we confessed he told me he wasent ready for the commitment. He told me we should just be best friends. And right now, we are. The thing is yes we’re just friends and we don’t say we’re dating because we aren’t, we still act like we’re more than friends by complimenting eachother and acting a bit more than just friends would, so the thing I’m wondering is , is it a talking stage? Is this a relationship? Are we really just friends?
Tbh For me if I’m talking to a girl I have to get to know her real deep meaning i got to know who she is a as persons how she put her self out there.
how do u do that? like how do you bring it up?
@@rixnana can’t speak for him but I’m guessing through the questions you ask, through how she presents herself when she’s alone with you compared to when she’s with you and her friends are there or when she’s just with her friends and I think through the way she wants to be treated and how she treats others
help me out guysss….
i’ve been talking to someone who has REALLY liked me for over two years now and i like talking to himfor over 5 months now, but i don’t know if i like him back. he asked me out about a month ago and i told him i would have to think about it…
what do i say????????????????????????
From a dude who has trust issues from being laughed at all through elementary, jr high, and the past 3, starting 4, years of high school, I’m going to need to see from afar before I decide if I a) trust her as a friend and b) like her. There have been 2 girls that have caught my eye and that was because they made an effort to make sure everyone was involved in the friend group.
She’s got the crazy eyes…..that’s enough right there for me, honestly
Currently in one, im so scared bruh😭😭 pls help
same 😭
Me too bro, can’t tell if she’s into me fully!
Scary part is that she’s a coworker
Me too
talking stages can last longer depending on age, when ur older, just ask them out, tf u doing w a talking stage? i think a month is fine for young adults, but for teens it can be more. it just sepends
Me and my guy are pretty much dating but we just say we’re talking because his parents are strict about dating. We’ve already kissed, I talk to him everyday, we say I love you and we hug every time we say bye.
What if the conversation just feels like a bunch of questions?
Me and my crushes talking stage was 1 week which is pretty good
My cousin had a beach crush and when he came to talk to us he said "you guys wanna see my hermit crab? I said"cool" And my cousin said "oh yea we had hermit crabs.....they died" and he was like"oh"💀
Unpopular opinion, but "Red Flag" by Anne Wilson has the MOST important rule ever "He's gotta love you but he's gotta love Jesus just a little more girl, its worth waiting for girl"
I still can’t get out of the friken taking stage 😭
how do i handle getting cheated on? i’m really struggling rn.
As a boy I agree with all except for effort cause there some things that I'd expect some effort in. Though I do agree with not acting like you're dating.
I want 3 months talking stage personally
mine is 2 months for now, i feel it takes a while to build a serious connection if i'm looking for something long term
@@iqrahussain6010What if a guy came up to you after meeting you 4 days prior for a date? Is that something you take, that is if you like the guy of course.
@@diamondtheif4007 yeah probably, though i'd prefer the date to be something quite chill; involving a hobby we both like and having the time to get to talk and know each other better
Fr like I need time to build trust and connection
Can you pls explain the stages? I mean a lot of ppl don’t even know if there are any stages when we start dating initially or getting to know someone. I am one of them. 😅
I just got my first heartbreak a couple mins ago. I’ve been texting him for maybe a month and he hadn’t been responding to me so I was in ft w my friend and I text while on FaceTime and the first thing he said was “I got a gf🥳”
Like I quite literally confessed my love to this man and he said “oh dang” not even thank you at minimum and he said like he’s intentionally trying to make me bawl my eyes out
Then he asks “are you sad”
What do you think
OF COURSE I AM WHAT DID YOU THINK I WAS HAPPY
Anywho if you have any tips for first heartbreak let me know 😢
Thumbnail is that stalker girl meme
Okay I need to know this because I’ve heard both responses to this, does the talking stage mean you both like each other
Yes
Her: it can’t take longer than a month
Also him just existing: GERMAN
Ok guys I need advice here…
So a few days ago my ex best friend told my crush I like him and he started blushing. The next two days all our friends tease us about it but he’s constantly smiling and blushing when I’m mentioned .That girls then proceeds to tell my crush WITHOUT MY PERMISSION that I want his number and his friend gave me a number. I suspected it was fake because why would he like me, anyways, I didn’t message or call the number and the next day his friends are like “ did you call him? He gave you fake number bro that’s sad” Few hours later my fake friends decide to give him my actual number and he gives it back saying “ I’m not interested sorry” now all everyone talks about is how I got rejected by him. What do I do and does he like me and is trying to hide cuz we’re different religion or is he actually just not interested
From what I can assume from your situation is that may be he is not interested... but it's better to ask him out directly that you are interested in him and want to get to know him and ask for his number. It will clear all your confusions and no one thinks about religion and all if they are interested in someone.. what's wrong with knowing someone? It's not like you are asking him to marry you and get into a relationship now..
You asked this a month ago... so I dont know if it's too late
@@allishapanigrahi8924 thanks that helps a lot, no I’m still stuck in the same situation 💀👀
@@allishapanigrahi8924 btw I just got to the talking stage with him but we can’t date. He likes me back but our religion doesn’t allow so yeah
no one will ever manage to talk me out of something more than straights giving advice on straight dating, like i don’t even need it but thanks for the encouragement to keep being better ig
Respect!
This was actually so helpful
I NEED MORE
Y’all ima go talk to my crush more info soon
Ok I did he was silent and walked away I don’t think he cared😢
He came up to me today and said he likes meeee 😊
He asked me to be his gf today!!!
I remembered I can’t date until 8th grade😮
Skrew it I’m saying yessss🎉
I did and now we are together🤭
I have to tell my bsf!!!
I guess she liked him too…
She got mad and told everyone
I’m scared she will tell my sister since they are friends to😰
She didn’t yet but she told me we will only last a week I want to prove her 😑
Ok I have to break up with him right?
Well I liked him since last YEAR!!!
I have to or I will be grounded for life 😢
Ok my bsf told me he kissed another girl 😭
I broke up with him and I feel much better about myself now 👁️👅👁️
💀i be holding that talking stage for 5 months until the guy decides to give up 😭✋🏽Am I the problem?
My bf skipped the talking stage and just straight up asked me and now our convos are like so akward
Lmao this why it shouldn’t be skipped. The talking stage is for you to get to know each other but also get comfortable around each other. 😂
@@leiajones852 it’s been a month and now we’re comfortable tlwking
Wait he just asked you to be his gf ? I've never heard of that before
@@diamondtheif4007 I used to think that’s how dating went when I was younger ngl lmao
BAHAHHA WE BROKE UP I HAVE ANEW BF BOW
Okay talking stage. Dating. What's the difference
Talking to multiple people when you are not committed is actually okay. If you are committed, then sorry no
I’m committed and I tried to talk to another guy just to keep my options open or whatever. But I felt bad the whole time lmao. And the other guy I don’t really like tbh. I need help. 😭
@@leiajones852Then you’re not committed? Loyalty isn’t hard, what do you need help with
@@toucheCS2 I was talking about I needed help bc I’m fucked up for doing that lmao but anyways that whole fiasco is over. It was my first time talking to someone so yk you live and learn as you go. Imma just be real I was being an attention whore and I’m aware of that.
We’ve been talking 3 days, he’s asked me out already, I think I like him but it’s long distance and I don’t know do I’m read yet what do I do???
I’m in the same situation 😭😭😭
Avoid women like this guys, they're not relationship material.
His red flag is that he eats pancakes and bacon together
My boyfriend prob took less then a day to fall in love with me aka my first day cuz 2 weeks ago I was new to a new school then a couple days before Valentine’s Day he asked me to be his valentine and 2 days ago he asked me if I can be with girlfriend soo
Me watching this video after going thru the talking stage: 😐😐😐😐
Hii! I have a small request (I’m sorry if you don’t them) but can you do “how to tell if they like you” but without communication? (like you guys to talk, text, etc)
are u a male or female? cuz its different on context. but typically you will know because they make it obvious.
What if ur 11 and the talking sTagw goes on for more than a month?
Whomp whomp
How do you know your in the talking stage
Like my friend asked if my crush liked me and he said maybe, what does that mean??
I've been dating my girlfriend for over a week she hugs me talks to me and we talk over the weekends a lot what stage is that
He thinks I’m dating him and I don’t think I’m dating him because he never ask me to be his girlfriend but he always call me his girlfriend so idk what type of situation I’m in rn can anyone help me?
And now after 2 weeks of constant texting he is ignoring me. Idk why, idk if he lied about having a girlfriend but i know he knows a lot of girls and possibly im just another option for him. He is barely replying to me now. Idk why. Idk if i should just tell him that im cutting him off
Yeah a girl did this to me and it sucks
So you need questions umm ik you are probably gonna say If they are not interested then don't bother but I really need to pull them back how do spark that connection again like keep it alive in the talking stage because I find my self really trying and they just don't give me all the focus
We’ve been talking for 7 years 😭😭😭
But I mean I would rather that then picking the wrong person tbh
Edit: also he is kinda my besties enemy but like he knows that we like each other but still teases me in a funny kinda way but his friends sometime take it a bit far
Your a tool!
A month? Too long.
dont show the dude effort hes gona just use you as a side piece. horrible advice. women dont understand men at all.
Give me advice please? I’m a woman btw what should I do?
this woman has no idea what she is talking about. If you like a man put in the effort and let him know you like him. it puts all the cards in his hand. If he doesnt want you, you will find out really quick after that. @@leiajones852
your life must be miserable af to generalise half the world's population
men are not going to date your or take you serious, if you choose to not show girlfriend like perks.
But im not allowed to date, but we're talking sooo
This may be some of the worst advice I’ve ever heard
Yo how Tf am I supposed to get a girl out the talking stage
Be like can I tell u something. “I’m starting to like you and she wht she say
@@PrettyRonFlacko I’ll keep that in mind but got caught up between 2 girls so not needed anymore
But haven’t talk to anyone n years😂😂😂😂
You remind me of the before video of a rape victim