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Most toxic men are known to project their toxic behaviors and use it as a coping mechanism to feel better. These men are highly gripped in explicit content that utterly brainwashes their mind, I believe we can learn better from "Thick thighs, more friends, waist to hip ratio to level attractiveness" we are living in a society where men are completly obsessed with female features. Hence, this leads to the escalating numbers of sexual abuse and violence. Men should also accept the fact that, they can't always have their way.
I love this format, would love to see Dr. K with other well educated people, e.g Dr Mike. They've had a podcast recently where they talked about medicine practice which was great Or other popular controversial people like Andrew Tate or Jordon Peterson, as you know dr.k will keep it respectable, and will bridge a discussion between two viewpoints which is really missing these days, with everyone living in algorithms adhering to their own echo chamber.
This format forces me to critically think about both sides of the argument which is very engaging. However, it lacks the structure and tight narrative progression of the standard format which is a winning formula. While this is a superior format for critical thinking and is more nutritious for our minds, it will most likely get fewer views and engagement. Perhaps a middle ground can be found by prepping guests with stricter guidelines so tangential arguments can occur but don't stray too far from the main theme. Grouping themes in the timestamps may help too.
He’s the one everyone should be listening to when it comes to porn because porn has nothing to do with physical health which is the only thing the female dr has training on.
@@JmanAnimates havent watched yet but dr.k literally has a video to not 'stop' porn if you are watching it and to go against stuff like nofap, its often times a bandaid to a wound and ripping a bandaid of doesnt actually help but rather the opposite. its okay to do unhealthy stuff as long as you are working to heal the wound, whatever that is. obv most people dont do that and its nuanced anyways thats what i got out of that video
I cant believe that one MAN has to "fight" with 2 females over clinical evidence, and research about dopamin, i mean hes on all of our sides for god sake hahahhaha
They advocating for women empowerment madness even if it something bad that's all what it is anything that involves a woman gives her control on society even if it's bad and evil we should not criticize ...Not only that Dr. Rena contradicts herself many times if you pay attention end up giving typical female stand on a subject that "corn" can be bad and can be good at the same time which is a ridiculous this is how women deal with problems in generals they normalize them instead find a solution ... any human beings with brain cells can see "corn" is harmful
Love Dr K. , bring on that neuroscience.☺👌❤ Can I request having Dr K back to talk about trauma/Complex PTSD and all the things it does to our brains and lives, so many are impacted by it.
As a woman I already don't like both women starting points. Adult films helping to explore ourselves might be true for their generation, but mine (now in their 20s) feels completely different in our experiences. We already know women can orgasm, masturbate etc., we are exposed to both male/female attention from very young age and overall figuring out our sexuality isn't that big of a deal - you're not gonna shock anyone by being gay or being into rough play. What really concerns me is men of my age having unrealistic expectations in sex from women and from themselves too. So much stuff from porn is giving this anxiety in building relationships, it'd be too long to describe everything. My first bf told me he liked me because I resembled his favourite porn actress! I felt so uncomfortable and it ruined all the feelings I had... Something about porn that messes up people.
This. Of course having access to this outlet can be stress reducing and taps into a natural urge of people. But with being so ever present and accepted and available and extreme, a lot of men who overconsume it then need and ask similar acts from their real life partners. And no, a lot of stuff in porn is not acceptable to women or done willingly. In fact a lot is plain violence, is painful, demeaning and the opposite of erotic to women. But consuming such extreme content of course cannot be left in that sphere and bleeds into real life. Where women are not paid for doing uncomfortable things with their partners, but are now pressured to believe they should want to do this anyway. This is the main point. Not empowerement or body image or comparison. Expecting women to accept or even want to be subjected to acts of demeaning violence. And it thus makes men lonelier in the long run. Because with such expectations and needs: good luck finding a hurt soul who wants to be hurt even further.
I was only ever used for sex as a blow up doll essentially. Men don't give 2 shits about women's pleasure, they just take, it doesn't matter how much you discuss the fact that you have needs too and you deserve pleasure too. If your fat or ugly and have no options in real life what do you do? I feel like they (both the experts on this podcast and society by and large) are talking about this from one single point of view and pretty much disregard most people out there. Not everyone can be in a "healthy" relationship, there's aren't that many healthy people out there so of course most relationships are shit.
Dr. K is way too educated in this specific field in comparison to the other two participants. His points are based in fact and literature so can’t be argued with from a anecdotal standpoint which both the other participants seem to be drawing from as they are further away from the actual effects.
Not to mention 2 women can never truly understand what it's like to have a male sex drive and be addicted to porn, just like men can never truly speak on difficulties of pregnancies.
Female drives can higher than men, but physiologically there is the fucker and the fucked. The basic physical action, the male fucks it is a dominant position. High or low drive, the male psyche is usually position of dominance over a female partner. Some men will trade that physical dominance, to get off but it is STILL mentally an act they control.
Not only that the female doctor contradicts herself if you pay attention end up giving typical female stand on a subject that corn can be bad and can be good at the same tine which is a ridiculous this is how women deal with problems in generals they normalize them instead find a solution ... any human beings with brain cells can see "corn" is harmful
As a woman, I can say I have struggled with porn and being stimulated enough visually and physically with a real life partner. Just wanted to throw that out there in saying its not just an issue for men.
Yes, porn and "death grip" applies to both men and women - over stimulating of the mind and genitals (with hands, toys) means sex with a partner will nowhere near be as stimulating. You have to go cold turkey for a few months, then start having sex with real people again, train your brain to be be turned on and orgasm to real physical touch from another person only.
The point is that it's most prevalent in men and the reason why Onlyfans is so popular and booming is because desperate, sexless men are paying to get their sexual needs met in an artificial way, which is extremely sad.
I think the bigger issue is that real men (and most men in porn) don't actually finish their partners, nor do they actually care about their partner's pleasure. If they did, the fact that there's no six pack or huge dong would be less relevant (like by 99%)
I can’t believe these women can’t see that if porn is bad for men, it’s bad for women too! Most women love and want to be in relationships with men-and if our lovely men are struggling, that worries and upsets us. We do actually CARE about men, amazingly enough!! Regardless though, porn is objectively desensitising and addictive for women too, even if (arguably) to a lesser extent.
your seriously saying men and women are the same? :))) for real? how delulu are you? depending on the individual, watching porn can be great. Just because it's not great for men doesn't mean most women don't benefit from porn. Let's face it, men by and large don't give a shit about their women's pleasure and they never or rarely pleasure their women partners. I am a single celibate woman who is done with selfish men. I've wasted too much time already on giving men chances only to always get the same stupid selfish behavior. I still deserve, want and need to feel physical pleasure, porn helps with that, along with masturbation and romantic books. Not everyone has access to being in a decent relationship, why should those people not feel pleasure? That's selfish and bullshit we deserve pleasure too
It's good to hear there are still women out there who care about men. If you listen to the internet and the media, we're everything that's wrong with the world. Men need to hear women still care about men, so let your voice fly whenever you can! Thank you.
Absolutely spot on. Women end up facing untoward consequences from men due to porn usage. It's true because I have experienced its adverse effects first hand. Makes you angry, depressed, anxious, socially awkward,aimless,hopeless. Misandry is at an all time high these days, blaming men for everything wrong in society so thank you for showing your love and concern for men. It's such a rare thing these days to see a woman do that ❤
Dr. K: gives a detailed analysis on why unregulated adult content is bad because of how it messes with the reward centers neurologically Foreign 304: I can sense you are only discussing this on a masculine level. is her entire argument that well it affects men so who cares because society tends to only care if the problem is men, it affects young boys also, this woman right here is coming with a cringe gender war argument as a reply to everything
This is as if Albert Einstein and two Kardashians would talk about quantum mechanics (ofcourse dr.K being Albert). This women are terrible! And I'm a woman. Dear men, these two DO NOT represent the view of women population. Dr. K is awesome, like always. Thank you dr.K and Steven ❤
Unfortunately, in my opinion, Erika made me want to turn this interview off. Society is constantly pushing this hyper-sexualised agenda and it is destroying us at a very fast pace. Other than that, great questions and really enjoyed the other participant’s perspectives. I still disagree that pornography has positive effects, I believe all pornography is disgusting and unnecessary.
correct. by the way, this hypersexualization is the best way to corrupt the youth and destroy cultures. It brings people down to a lover developmental level. The LEFT is doing this for 20 years and in the last 4 years, full throttle. why? Because people are easier to control on lower levels. This is also true of lower developed religious cultures like islam. One may ask why the left is importing muslims all over the world which is a bit strange, they are ultra conservative.... but seems all the left really cares about is division ( men vs women, religion vs religion, black vs white, poor vs rich etc.) to rule.
i also think she did a huge disservice to the discussion. consistently deflecting and trying to make it look like its others and not her when most consumed porn is clearly not her content. i wish it was just the other 2
Being the partner of a man with a secret compulsion/addiction, I can't be objective about this topic. The fallout of his 32 year use has been so devastating on so many levels that I can't see anything good in porn.
This is just a weird take to me because it's like you are faulting people for not having the precognition or the faith that they will find someone to have sex and fulfill a desire when plenty of people are struggling to find anyone to be with today at all. You are an unpredictable factor in your partners life. They didn't see you coming. You didn't see them coming. Meaning y'all didnt know when y'all would meet each other let alone be with each other. So you want people to live according to what might happen instead of living authentically.
"As a partner of an alcoholic I really can`t see anything good in alcohol." That`s exactly how you sound. Even though most people in society use alcohol responsibly and it has benefits in peoples social lives. It can be addictive to people, but the problem is the addiction, not the alcohol or the porn.
I think Erika Lust, is what is wrong in this era, you see both doctors being very sensitive to the complexity of this issue, and you see Erika, just supporting porn because she makes a ton of money out of it. We can all find someone to blame, like education, but education is not always enough.
Thank God I see people point this out, she gish gallop a lot to defend it, she will blame everything in society rather than the clear example of porn being bad, she will also slip in a gender war argument in their to make her point rather than just focusing on the objectivity of the matter
I think what's wrong in the world/in this era: it is your igorant opinion about somebody you don't even know. Go work in porn for a couple of years and then we will talk again.
She's considered cool and a role model for women empowerment nowadays. Are you sure you don't want to support her? You might lose social status points.
As a woman (59 /female/ recent widow/ married since 24 yrs old) who watched porn with my husband in our relationship… I realized (much too late) that porn definitely had a hugely negative impact on my husband’s brain. We watched it together and had a wonderful sex life … but what I didn’t know and came to find out about five years ago , that my husband became wildly addicted to porn and was watching it from sunrise to sunset , secretly. And the genre of porn we watched together was NOT what he was watching alone . He had leaned into the “under 18 “ videos and that’s not what we watched together. Any free moment he had during his day, he was on his phone , on his computer… seeking out pornography
You sound like a fake story Sunrise to sundown just jerking it old gold fuck yourself relax no dude has time to sit there and jerk from Sundown to sunup then you want to say oh he's in the 18 and younger lady they only sell like 18 and up fucking relax Jesus Christ
Porn has destroyed my life. From my age 13- right now and still continuing. I was so naive to understand what is actually doing at the beginning. But its engineered to hijack
Do they not understand the massive people trafficking involved in porn and how the vast majority of porn objectifies women and ignores the emotional and psychological of sex and the negative impact on viewers in regards to their emotional and psychological health. There is zero that is positive about porn.
@manangupta7338 People often listen to things just to reply and put their take out. It's very rare that people are actually interested in discussing, learning, or reaching an understanding
I watched a documentary that included Erika Lust and how she makes abuse videos, and the woman in her video was making her aware of how much pain she was in and Erika talked her into finishing the "scene" anyway. That poor woman looked traumatised afterwards. Erika is awful, and is only trying to sell you a product.
This woman is just here to promote her porn business. Like why would a porn business owner talk bad about porn? There are no benefits of porn to society, it's overall bad, nothing good about watching it.
@@twainalex996no he just gives more nuanced takes on the matter irrespective of gender and his experience speaks more to men watching than the women on the podcast. Don’t assume everything has to do with sexism. I don’t agree with the original comment speaking about qualified but i lean towards more with agreeing to dr k still.
Women barely watch porn in comparison and the entire porn industry is funded by men who pay for OnlyFans in order to satisfy their insane lust. No woman will ever understand the male sex drive and how it feels, no matter how much research they do on the topic.
@@nxrj5632As a registered MD in psychiatry Dr K. certainly is more qualified to speak on matters relating to neuroscience and the brain. It has nothing to do with sexism Lol.
I guarantee you that these chicks haven't watched adult content. To think that content that degrades you and is meant to fight a proxy war using your background is healthy, is pure insanity!!! And that's coming from an addict. You wonder why men "suck" right now? Maybe ask what creates insecure men who project bad ideas onto all women based on a few that he thinks represents them because he's stuck in an echo chamber! People also fail to realize how accessible this stuff is and misogynistic. Romeo trafficking is extremely popular on OF right now!!!! I theorize many girls got in or did more because their bfs wanted them to. A lot of these girls aren't even into some of these things but they're permanently etched in the internet.
As a man that has stopped watching porn, I believe that it stopped/screwed up past relationships due to the variety of seeing so many beautiful Women naked having sex every day, it made me look at the every day woman I came in contact with as objects.
I mean women are getting their fix on social media every day. If porn is ever outlawed for men, then social media will have to become a male-only activity.
@shin-ishikiri-no Nah, you stop watching porn as a man, It gets easier to filter out those social media addicted ones because your mind is no longer clouded by the drug. And you're treating yourself better, which means your standards raise, which means you'll notice women's bad behavior easier and faster and it gets easer to find good ones.
That's your fault. You can't keep balance. Nothing wrong with objectifying your wife or girlfriend in a calm and loving manner. Kissing her ear lobes and her shoulder because you objectify woman as a sexual nature.
Most men are deeply in denial re porn. As with all things harmful in life, honesty is critical in correcting detrimental patterns. ...Appreciate your honesty in sharing your growth.
In all honesty, Dr. K seems to be the most informed person about this issue .From the 2 ladies there, we getting more of their opinions, and of course, the producer's passion for solving a problem that's apparently a result of the industry that she's been in for so long. The emphasis that she doesn't post stuff that exposes her body😅, sounds more like a druglord selling products they wouldn't dare touch.
That's fucking bullshit man. It's all depends on ur libido. I have a high sex drive. No flapping even after one week, I get agitated, I don't sleep properly because I start dreaming about sex. Without the FAP I don't stay focused. So I'm the complete opposite, and I'm betting I'm not alone
check out dr.k video on this: Why You Shouldn't Resist Watching P*rn really goes against this idea. it doesnt need to be applied with porn, could apply with any addiction im pretty sure.
There is bliss in developing abstinence, celibacy and purity prior to any relationship. Social media, iPhones, videos are all addictive. They make the platforms to be addictive. It’s very destructive.😢
HealthyGamerGG wins the debate! Been following this guy for a long time, and I'm glad to see that he's growing in popularity and being invited to these bigger podcasts. 💯👌
The paucity or impoverishment of sex education does not mean porn is an antidote no more than cancer means a deficiency in chemotherapy. Appeal to your agendas all you like, when it comes to the benefit or benevolence of porn the body keeps the score.
yea, she is just there to promote her business and career, always starting with "I.......", rather than viewing and discussing the issue from a more sat back view, of the grander subject, sure making something with certain intention, but it's not that *orn is all about her own work, but the phenomenon of people watching their fellow species copulating remotely and alone, similar to the situation of enabling people to kill people in game which may desensitise the seriousness of harming or killing of others in real life, it's the potential yet she seems to be so focused on her own work and her ideals
@@Svansky831desensitization is the biggest problem related to sex with the death grip as a honorable mention. For dating a single guy who is watching porn on a regular basis is going to be much less motivated to put in the work and take the lumps which inevitably occur in dating.
Dating is pretty catastrophique now in the west. The motivation is not very high for both genders. I get your point and I agree but I doubt the relevancy of porn when it comes to dating nowadays 😅
Yes, I HAVE NOT FINISHED the entire podcast. I came in with an open mind listening what these two women has to say. But on the 30 minute mark, it was so hard to keep listening to them. Just the idea of "regulated porn" so it can be healthy, and not able to to recognize that there is such thing as bad p0rn, especially those that involves minors. I will drop this and will get back later on and just read the comments for people's take away. I believe I will learn more like that.
The ramifications of porn are rampant and evident. Especially rears its angry head in the dating scene. Like most addictions, porn creates more of the problem that gets most viewers there in the first place. People often view in response to loneliness and porn leaves them further isolated/unable to create authentic connection
99% of the comments come from igonorant sheep. I have worked in porno for over 20 years as a actor, director and producer and I loved it. Amazing really OPEN MINDED people and yes sometimes a a**hole, but they are in every industry.
No. It tells you the people with most negative emotions about porn are engaging this topic. Humans engage with negativity more than positivity. It's a well known fact and why salacious videos are made to garner interaction and attention
I'm about to add my porn positive comment. I have been commenting on others to make it more balanced. These negative comments are out of this world. The thing is, they don't see that more people would be open to talk about it if they were not shaming themselves and others.
“It is difficult to get a man to understand something when his salary depends on his not understanding it”. Erika is not even qualified to discuss against two doctors.
@@batzmaru2010yes because this is an objective fact that the person is stating , this is a debate based on evidence and various studies , she has not studied for years to be a doctor or have experience in human psychology or physiology while the other two do. You don’t need to be speciliased in a field to point this out lol .
That was a great interaction! Now we need a round table of some younger people discussing the same topic! Probably would give an insight from their perspective currently growing up in this crazy time.
That’s actually a lovely idea! Get those on the other side of it, who consume it (recreationally), who don’t and who don’t want to anymore to talk about it from their perspective! Young and older!
Can we have an episode where drug dealers are trying explain how good cocaine can be for you? ”But just a little bit of nice pure cocaine now and then makes you feel good. Weak men who get addicted are the problem. I produce some nice high quality and ethical powder so I’m a good person.”
boys none of us should be lying to ourselves anymore . we're getting into our late 20s early 30s now porn for the past 15 yrs has been a constant source of shame and escape which has hindered me in my life in countless ways its taken away my drive, my openness to life, and has prevented me from being my full self. married with kids now and I still can't get past it. just getting into Doctor K now and trying to finally deal with the emotions and pain that is at the source of why i keep going back
All things in moderation. You've given the idea of porn way too much power in your life. It's not any of those things if you know how to manage yourself. Clearly you are lacking in that regard.
Men, reject porn. Build the discipline to overcome lust-it will set you free. I know it’s hard, but it’s one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself. The journey isn’t easy, and you’ll stumble, but keep getting back up. Peace will come, and you’ll be unbreakable in all aspects of your life. I love you, brothers. Let’s take back our lives. 💪
Why should I reject porn? I'm dating, and trying to find someone for me, I have a good job, college degrees etc. Why would I reject porn? For the promise that I will find someone who will automatically sense with their super senses that I don't watch porn and they will be impressed?? Or maybe I should find someone that watches porn too and we both be happy. Like one of the doctors says it can do.
Apples and oranges. The women are not arguing the same point, they care about how it makes them feel about themselves and the control/confidence it gives them. Dr K, is explaining how it can f@ck up your mind as it’s not a natural interaction, stimulation process, even when sharing it with someone else. The medium in which it’s shared leads to overstimulation which damaging. If it wasn’t there would be no warning for kids at the start.
Steven, your fearless approach to experimentation is what truly sets you apart in the podcast industry. From introducing new formats like debates to constantly evolving how you engage with your audience, you’re always pushing the boundaries of what a podcast can be!
If porn is ok, when are you going to start making movies about taking drugs too. Junkies on screen shooting up and showing how to do it and share their highs and experiences. Oh yes, to be viewed and used "responsibly"....and then all is ok. Society is doomed. Oh yes, let all those promoting it, send their kids into it.
1 in 5 internet searches are for pornography is shocking to me… this is really sad. I think young children being exposed to pornography is a form of abuse.
please go to a factory farm and look at the abuse you have done by creating kids. and you still want to keep creating more. its immoral to domesticate animals. period.
Anyone who has any financial interest in a subject should always be excluded from the conversation due to obvious bias. Erika Lust may have good intentions but has the obvious bias unfortunately most people who work in the industry don't have her intentions.
Of course she will be biased towards protecting the industry she made a career in. Like all the great authors that appeared in this podcast that promoting their books. I don’t see the problem in a “yes, and…” perspective. Can adult film industry lead to addiction, reality distortion, physical problems? Yes. And it can be beneficial for others, when consumed and produced responsibly. Like Dr. K said… it’s not an either/or answer…
Our forefathers learned about sex by marrying young and just experimenting with their spouse. Today we are being taught by the 'invisible hand' and what we think is normal, it was absurd to our forefathers. In contrast, our forefathers had a lot of sex with just one partner, and we have little sex with multiple partners.
The "many people who use it fine without an issue" do not struggle with the current loneliness epidemic and use it extremely sparsely. THIS IS CHANGING THOUGH. Because a lot of men, even in relationships, are beginning to get more addicted. Because the stuff that is being produced begs your attention for far longer and the sites are built like social media websites. And we acknowledge social media addiction.
Totally agree. I say this as someone in a LTR : It is difficult for me as a woman to compete with the porn or pornographic imagery found online. Sure, porn does not remove the desire for real sex, but it DOES compete for attention, energy and time spent. No matter how I try to stay in shape and be fun and all that, I can't completely change looks every 24 h. I can never compete with the variety of porn. Thus, I feel incredibly frustrated any time my SO isn't interested because he already satisfied that desire looking at some other girl. It doesn't just affect the bedroom, it also changes how motivated he is to do things for me and the relationship. I used to feel pretty neutral about porn, but now I just hate it. Even if my SO isn't an "addict" it is undeniable that his porn (or instagram, in that sense) affects our relationship negatively.
I love the idea of a round table discussion, especially on subjects like this, however, the guests need to be on the same level so that everyone’s input is beneficial to the conversation. It feels like Dr K is having to downplay some of his opinions to plicate the other guests, which doesn’t allow for the subject to be discussed to its full potential.
Bravo! this topic is very relevant to our society most specially for the younger generation. We need more of this specially Dr. K. Everytime he speaks there is a certain magnet that draws us within.
*That was a great talk.* Steven, maybe we need more conversations like this for everyone? Especially when it comes to sexual temptations, I’d like to hear what a child psychologist recommends. Maybe we also need a researcher who studies *how smartphones affect our sex lives.* Thanks for inviting Erika. I didn’t even know that kind of pornography exists. Maybe we should also invite someone from the AI field who believes AI can be good, and include people who are cautious about technology in the discussion.
I hate it when this one woman (film maker" especially keeps laughing as if it's humorous. There are always excuses why xxx is necessary ... it's not, it's the destruction of humanity for the advantage of the few
Dr k ❤ really happy he is apart of this discussion one of the my favourite guest you have on your show I always tune in when he is on his theories are very relatable Erika is there to defend porn simple but her presence was necessary she is the proof of the problem Dr Malik approach 50/50 informative from a devil advocate perspective
I appreciate Erika's perspective, she clearly loves and believes in what she's doing, but I also feel like she's very unaware of her own biases. We've all got them, but statements like "everybody should pay for their porn" are wild. She can run her business however she likes, there are plenty of people that will pay for her films, but if an OnlyFans creator wants to post clips from their page in an effort to build an audience and sell to them, that's entirely their choice. If Bellesa House (similar concept to Erika's films, choosing their costars, etc) wants to make free content, they can absolutely do that. Just feels as though she's waiting (or in some cases, not waiting) to respond, defend herself, defend porn, instead of actually being part of the conversation.
The men I’ve been with who watched porn were terrible in so many ways. It is so destructive. Now being with a man who stopped watching porn years ago there is no comparison. It’s damaging and you can feel it
Sex is how men connect. Women advocating for porn is crazy, why is it so trendy for women to be indifferent and masochistic towards men's misery nowadays?
I see two people in denial and two showing a valid concern. It's odd that the females are in support of porn. My how the tables have turned from 20 years ago.
I might express this poorly, but isn't there data about sexual deviants and serial killers with a sexual element to their attacks have reported high levels of fantasizing and relying on fantasy in-between their next deviancy or murder. Just like the canary in the coalmine for sexual abuse in children has very clear signs, and the same can be said for fantasies perhaps?
Let's not allow people to have any fantasy at all in life. That's always good....someone that gets no pleasure in life at all. That won't have any consequences at all. Hahaha
I know men and even a woman who has difficulty being stimulated from real people because of a consistent porn and masturbation loop. Porn definitely does something to the brain and longterm it doesn't seem to be good.
What's crazy nowadays is that a lot of content on, for example, instagram is a form of pornography. And the attitude of youngsters 15 years and under is more so. The only thing they agree on is that it's "adult" content, but in reality it's not at all and there's no way to limit it. I personally find that even many young women 14-19 dress completely differently than they did over 10 or 20 years ago... Men really have it harder and harder.
Hahaha... You comment is so full of ignorance. Have you ever seen the movie(s) : the Matrix? Cypher: You know, I know this steak doesn't exist. I know that when I put it in my mouth, the Matrix is telling my brain that it is juicy and delicious. After nine years, you know what I realize? Cypher: Ignorance is bliss."
@@batzmaru2010 Maybe my favourite line in the movie. I do follow Dr. Kanojia and Dr. Malik, and their scientific research and knowledge can't be challenge by the shallow emotional charged counterpoints and with a high political bias of Mrs Lust.
@@lacoparota7592 they are not biased?? Remember, they are online. There base is you...possibly wildly conservative etc. They are not gonna say anything that goes against there point now even if they wanted to. They are too wildly successful because of their take on information. Believe me it's their take, which does not rule because other doctors can look at the same information and make different conclusions, that's just how it works.
I do not criticize the women speaking. One lacks education, and the other lacks common sense. Dr. K actually took the time to educate with each statement he made and was never disrespectful. Porn is harmful, no matter how much people try to justify it as good. Hopefully, everyone will take home the key points Dr. K shared throughout the entire episode.
You're not allowed to say that the man is smarter nowadays. You have to say that whatever the women said is fabulous and they are queens. The man was mansplaining because he's probably an incel loser.
It's not harmful if you do it 1 or 2 times a month. Relax. Everything has always been about balance. Also leave porn as porn. Just because you see anal 😏doesn't mean you need to sodomized your sex partner
Porn actors abd actresses have committed suicide. Users have had their lives destroyed. We are actually considering this disgusting thing a good thing.
Saying ___ group participants or users have selfed harmed could literally apply to any type of content creation (from books to television). I'm not claiming that pornography or the industry is necessarily good but self harm is not a causal indicator of the harm inherent to usage.
@@danielsbhsmk4936 Plus its no wonder they feel like that when there's so much social shame and even people telling them they're responsible for the world's issues... It's like everyone constantly tells them what they do is wrong and they are bad people and then those same people blame what they do for their issues instead of the abuse they inflicted upon them.
@@danielsbhsmk4936 I've never heard of an author so disgusted with themselves with what they wrote that they had to use alcohol and drugs to write the next page 🤔 Do you really think the majority of porn actors/actresses are mentally healthy individuals?
Fact: the estimates for “death by medicine” keep increasing. They went from 100,000 to 200,000 and now as high as 400,000. I think that's way, way, way more destructive and disgusting, but you are "worried" about a couple of actors/actresses who have committed suicide? Porn watching has never ever killed anyone.
The fact Ms. Lust is getting emotional & excited and raising her voice shows that she is losing the argument. I completely disagree when she says that we should educate children about sex. GTFO.
Some of the adverts on the mainstream p orn websites are pretty disturbing and you question who is circulating them and why? As well as things like family etc which are plastered all over the home pages
Porn when used creates a path whenever we alone it creates a direct path to porn and make it feel enjoyable other activities. It creates a conditional brain and hard to break. It destroys relationships and chaos in life and destruction. Erica should focus on same age and increase in chemistry rather than direct hit.
When I saw the thumbnail I thought, “oh great, they just made an edit compilation” 👎🏼 Then I scrolled to see the photo of all three of them at the roundtable and it immediately made me watch. Bravo to Steven and team for not defaulting to the “compilation content” out there. It comes across apathetic and this just raised the bar. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Prawn was fairly harmless when it was just pictures of women in magazines - but it's getting very hard to argue in good faith that in the last 20 years, with all the new technology, that it hasn't become a monster that's consuming our brains. The promise of endless s ual experimentation bringing happiness and fulfilment has clearly been proved to be a false god.
Steven, love your channel. Yes, I have (long ago) subscribed. Love your work (as stated). I think that one of the issues here is the hookup culture that is so dang prevalent nowadays (and has been for the last decade - at least.....we can discuss which came first - the porn addiction issue or the hookup culture - at a different time. I also think that "the hookup culture" topic would be a fascinating exploration and make an interesting video). To be completely transparent, I am 57 years old so my younger days are long since passed. I find this topic highly interesting. I am going to share something that might be highly unpopular: men are not as strong as my father's generation, or his father's generation. There are lots and lots and lots of contributing factors to this. An idea for a different video might be exploring how men could become stronger (not talking about "stronger" as in can bench press 315 lbs.....). There are a couple of women in this space who might be amazing guests for you. Courtney Christine Ryan and Helena King. Courtney is in Ohio, USA and Helena is in Germany. Just an idea, taking a tangent from this video.
It's just not good for you bro or woman😂. I don't think there's anything wrong with a husband doing the mercy jerk once or twice a month to save his marriage. I'm sorry but like oh my God if you need to jerk it to save your marriage your loss the mercy jerk is reserved for men that have a high sexual peak but their wife doesn't put out in order to not step outside the confines of the marriage one must do the mercy jerk so leave my porn alone also just because I watch sodomy doesn't mean I do sodomy in fact I've never sodomized my wife but I do watch it
If Erika was a decent human she would stop her adult movie company and start an anti porn campaign with the money what's left. This is a real problem, it destroyed my life between 16-24 what is right now.
go fuck yourselfes, there are people who fell in deep deep holes because of that and I think porn is one thing what will be humanity's downfall. The world would be so much better, if there wasn't porn
Perspective: Sexual abuse is more often inflicted on children before their being exposed to pornography. The abuse is then a catalyst for a cycle of dysfunctional relationship with sex as the individual grows up.
you can literally teach your child not to let anyone touch ther parts, and even talk about how human/animals reproduce, without exposing them to porn, wtf are you talking about? edit: I really didn't understood what you meant, but I guess someone could argue that exposing a children to porn is a form of Sexual abuse
That's what happened to me. My older teenage cousins first exposed me at 5 or so, then my forty something ex brother in law when I was 12... fast forward I managed to marry a porn addict who is incapable of a satisfying sex life. It is all so devastating it isn't even funny.
@@thiagoelav633you can, that doesn't mean someone else doesn't. Furthermore just because you teach the child doesn't mean they don't expose themselves to something they're not ready for.
21:14 When Erika states that the problematic use of pornography is mainly "a guy thing"... Is she really forgetting that for decades the porn industry has focused its entire business on hypersexualising men's 'a la carte' view of sex... at the expense of women (and children)?? Do we really need to see how that pans out the other way round, to know what the outcome is going to be?
I don't like what porn does to most people who don't see it as "entertainment". Sex is earned and it's harder for men to get sex than it is for women. Once this gap is dealt with then we can start looking at augmenting sexuality with pornography. Until your life is stable and you earn greater status as a man porn is creating destruction among men of all ages who aren't living fulfilled lives.
porn is destroying a lot of peoples life including me. the addiction is unbearable, hard to break through n kids nowadays arent learning about sex by natural ways specially teens is becoming satisfied by crazy masturbation which is not real sex. thousands of teens getting raped cuz of it. they've got to stopp this otherwise the world is going to cooked
dont blame porn. blame our abuse to nature. humans are exploiting wildlife and forcing animals and plants to suffer in domestication where they are genetically altered, lack natural selection, and have no reproductive rights. these issues are causing humans to have impaired thinking skills and blame the wrong stuff.
😂😂 you let it destroy your life you didn't follow the golden rules in the golden rules are balanced you should probably only do it one to three maybe four times a month that's basically once a week if that honestly there's nothing wrong with balance and for the record iWatch pornography I look at sodomy clips of women but I don't go in sodomize my wife never have and never will do you see how I do that you just separated it. Just like when you go to work you are supposed to leave your home life at home never drag your home life into work just like pornography never drag pornography into the bedroom with your partner leave it on the device things and stop dragging things all over with them we wouldn't have a problem now would we
The way Dr Alok validates the women on the panel and then comes to a total different conclusions needs to be studied, this could have easily turn into gender debate on pornograph but he stirred it away by simply not engaging.
A was listening to a former porn star now a pastor and she stated that porn not only affects you psychologically, its affects you physically, she also talked about how both men and women will develop STIs, and they are aware and transmit..she said the only good thing about performing porn is the $$ being made.
Sex overrides all the activity and priorities it first. Now the porn takes the sex place and dynamic new content, new content hards to build tolerance. New content tolerance develops again new content tolerance endless loop which is destructive.
It’s refreshing to see the overwhelming majority of this comment section on the same page. To argue the case FOR porn is insanity. There’s so much wrong with pornography and its role in our culture today, I have no idea where to even start that conversation. Props to this host for attempting to tackle a subject of this magnitude.
24:38. I'm an atheist sweetheart. Hindu background no less. The morals you're referring to isn't religious. When you watch at my level, you see lives get destroyed and permanently altered on all sides.
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Put your sources! I want the statistics of the pornography consumption on workplaces etc
Most toxic men are known to project their toxic behaviors and use it as a coping mechanism to feel better. These men are highly gripped in explicit content that utterly brainwashes their mind, I believe we can learn better from "Thick thighs, more friends, waist to hip ratio to level attractiveness" we are living in a society where men are completly obsessed with female features. Hence, this leads to the escalating numbers of sexual abuse and violence. Men should also accept the fact that, they can't always have their way.
I love this format, would love to see Dr. K with other well educated people, e.g Dr Mike. They've had a podcast recently where they talked about medicine practice which was great
Or other popular controversial people like Andrew Tate or Jordon Peterson, as you know dr.k will keep it respectable, and will bridge a discussion between two viewpoints which is really missing these days, with everyone living in algorithms adhering to their own echo chamber.
This format forces me to critically think about both sides of the argument which is very engaging. However, it lacks the structure and tight narrative progression of the standard format which is a winning formula. While this is a superior format for critical thinking and is more nutritious for our minds, it will most likely get fewer views and engagement. Perhaps a middle ground can be found by prepping guests with stricter guidelines so tangential arguments can occur but don't stray too far from the main theme. Grouping themes in the timestamps may help too.
I love this format. Get Dr K on every episode, because it's fun watching him in a more challenging setting , i love that guy
This is like having an ‘is sugar bad for you?’ debate and the panel is 2 doctors plus the CEO for Krispy Creme.
Haha so true 😂
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lmao. true
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i don't even have to watch the full video to know Dr.K is the one men should listen to on this podcast.
He’s the one everyone should be listening to when it comes to porn because porn has nothing to do with physical health which is the only thing the female dr has training on.
Musogunie!
@@Theeverydaymistic exactly. It’s not healthy for anyone because at the end of the day it’s a slippery slope.
When he said “teaching men how to be erotic”… wow holy shit. It’s been something I’ve done different but haven’t had the words for yet.
@@JmanAnimates havent watched yet but dr.k literally has a video to not 'stop' porn if you are watching it and to go against stuff like nofap, its often times a bandaid to a wound and ripping a bandaid of doesnt actually help but rather the opposite. its okay to do unhealthy stuff as long as you are working to heal the wound, whatever that is. obv most people dont do that and its nuanced
anyways thats what i got out of that video
DR K is the best!
I cant believe that one MAN has to "fight" with 2 females over clinical evidence, and research about dopamin, i mean hes on all of our sides for god sake hahahhaha
Haha yeah, facts 😂
Eve hasn’t changed…. Bite the apple.
Dr. K makes rational and emotional sense to me. As a female, I cannot personally relate to what these ladies are advocating for 🤷🏻♀️
They advocating for women empowerment madness even if it something bad that's all what it is anything that involves a woman gives her control on society even if it's bad and evil we should not criticize ...Not only that Dr. Rena contradicts herself many times if you pay attention end up giving typical female stand on a subject that "corn" can be bad and can be good at the same time which is a ridiculous this is how women deal with problems in generals they normalize them instead find a solution ... any human beings with brain cells can see "corn" is harmful
Females hate other females, reason why Buddha said he won’t allow women as his disciples 😂
Same
PORN ISN'T ONLY FEMALES SAME AS DOMESTIC ABUSE!
Its cool and trendy for a woman to advocate for porn in 2024, you might miss out on clout or social status points with other women
Love Dr K. , bring on that neuroscience.☺👌❤
Can I request having Dr K back to talk about trauma/Complex PTSD and all the things it does to our brains and lives, so many are impacted by it.
As a woman I already don't like both women starting points. Adult films helping to explore ourselves might be true for their generation, but mine (now in their 20s) feels completely different in our experiences. We already know women can orgasm, masturbate etc., we are exposed to both male/female attention from very young age and overall figuring out our sexuality isn't that big of a deal - you're not gonna shock anyone by being gay or being into rough play.
What really concerns me is men of my age having unrealistic expectations in sex from women and from themselves too. So much stuff from porn is giving this anxiety in building relationships, it'd be too long to describe everything. My first bf told me he liked me because I resembled his favourite porn actress! I felt so uncomfortable and it ruined all the feelings I had... Something about porn that messes up people.
This. Of course having access to this outlet can be stress reducing and taps into a natural urge of people. But with being so ever present and accepted and available and extreme, a lot of men who overconsume it then need and ask similar acts from their real life partners. And no, a lot of stuff in porn is not acceptable to women or done willingly. In fact a lot is plain violence, is painful, demeaning and the opposite of erotic to women. But consuming such extreme content of course cannot be left in that sphere and bleeds into real life. Where women are not paid for doing uncomfortable things with their partners, but are now pressured to believe they should want to do this anyway. This is the main point. Not empowerement or body image or comparison. Expecting women to accept or even want to be subjected to acts of demeaning violence.
And it thus makes men lonelier in the long run. Because with such expectations and needs: good luck finding a hurt soul who wants to be hurt even further.
I'm an older female and I appreciate your comments. I think they should be seen for the depth and potential they contain.
Who says that to their girlfriend lmao
I was only ever used for sex as a blow up doll essentially. Men don't give 2 shits about women's pleasure, they just take, it doesn't matter how much you discuss the fact that you have needs too and you deserve pleasure too. If your fat or ugly and have no options in real life what do you do? I feel like they (both the experts on this podcast and society by and large) are talking about this from one single point of view and pretty much disregard most people out there. Not everyone can be in a "healthy" relationship, there's aren't that many healthy people out there so of course most relationships are shit.
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Dr. K is way too educated in this specific field in comparison to the other two participants. His points are based in fact and literature so can’t be argued with from a anecdotal standpoint which both the other participants seem to be drawing from as they are further away from the actual effects.
Not to mention 2 women can never truly understand what it's like to have a male sex drive and be addicted to porn, just like men can never truly speak on difficulties of pregnancies.
@@nikitamarynich1794 men are addicted to porn, women are addicted to sex. You would be surprised how many women are addicted to sex.
@@nikitamarynich1794 this is relative, there's women with higher sex drives then men, even if they are a minority.
@@Iamam313tiny minority
Female drives can higher than men, but physiologically there is the fucker and the fucked. The basic physical action, the male fucks it is a dominant position. High or low drive, the male psyche is usually position of dominance over a female partner. Some men will trade that physical dominance, to get off but it is STILL mentally an act they control.
Why are women so often defending porn, even though they are treated like shit in 90% of porn content. It boggles the mind...
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Not only that the female doctor contradicts herself if you pay attention end up giving typical female stand on a subject that corn can be bad and can be good at the same tine which is a ridiculous this is how women deal with problems in generals they normalize them instead find a solution ... any human beings with brain cells can see "corn" is harmful
@@RenatasSam Exactly....
They like it.
women are irrational in their nature
I saw Dr. K, I click! I’m a simple man! 🤷🏼♂️
2020 called they want their comment back.
@@G2020- You literally have 2020 in your name bro.
@@LucasLinder man didnt consider that 💀
I hope you to sleep with him !
Fr, I trust his word like gospel
As a woman, I can say I have struggled with porn and being stimulated enough visually and physically with a real life partner. Just wanted to throw that out there in saying its not just an issue for men.
Yes, porn and "death grip" applies to both men and women - over stimulating of the mind and genitals (with hands, toys) means sex with a partner will nowhere near be as stimulating.
You have to go cold turkey for a few months, then start having sex with real people again, train your brain to be be turned on and orgasm to real physical touch from another person only.
The point is that it's most prevalent in men and the reason why Onlyfans is so popular and booming is because desperate, sexless men are paying to get their sexual needs met in an artificial way, which is extremely sad.
I think the bigger issue is that real men (and most men in porn) don't actually finish their partners, nor do they actually care about their partner's pleasure. If they did, the fact that there's no six pack or huge dong would be less relevant (like by 99%)
The problem is that you watching porn you support an industry that is based on trafficking and abuse, not that you don't get off with real men 😂
Definitely a bot there's no such thing as a female orgasm they all fake it anyway 😂
I would love this format with dr k, dr gabor mate and dr jordan peterson
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Yes!
Absolutely!!!
yess!
Yes, I agree. These two women bring nothing but irrationality to this debate. They’re clearly leading with emotion.
I can’t believe these women can’t see that if porn is bad for men, it’s bad for women too! Most women love and want to be in relationships with men-and if our lovely men are struggling, that worries and upsets us. We do actually CARE about men, amazingly enough!! Regardless though, porn is objectively desensitising and addictive for women too, even if (arguably) to a lesser extent.
your seriously saying men and women are the same? :))) for real? how delulu are you? depending on the individual, watching porn can be great. Just because it's not great for men doesn't mean most women don't benefit from porn. Let's face it, men by and large don't give a shit about their women's pleasure and they never or rarely pleasure their women partners. I am a single celibate woman who is done with selfish men. I've wasted too much time already on giving men chances only to always get the same stupid selfish behavior. I still deserve, want and need to feel physical pleasure, porn helps with that, along with masturbation and romantic books. Not everyone has access to being in a decent relationship, why should those people not feel pleasure? That's selfish and bullshit we deserve pleasure too
It's good to hear there are still women out there who care about men. If you listen to the internet and the media, we're everything that's wrong with the world.
Men need to hear women still care about men, so let your voice fly whenever you can! Thank you.
@@AulisVaara men who deserve to be cared for will always be cared for. Unfortunately there's too many women caring for men who deserve nothing
Absolutely spot on. Women end up facing untoward consequences from men due to porn usage. It's true because I have experienced its adverse effects first hand. Makes you angry, depressed, anxious, socially awkward,aimless,hopeless. Misandry is at an all time high these days, blaming men for everything wrong in society so thank you for showing your love and concern for men. It's such a rare thing these days to see a woman do that ❤
It's not cool to say that in 2024. You will be shamed by other women for saying that.
Pornography is the most accessible and lethal mental drug available
Not really, it is sugar and Americans are now sugarcans....
not for women
@@batzmaru2010Nope, the whole world is a sugar can.
no, its sugar.
Dr. K: gives a detailed analysis on why unregulated adult content is bad because of how it messes with the reward centers neurologically
Foreign 304: I can sense you are only discussing this on a masculine level.
is her entire argument that well it affects men so who cares because society tends to only care if the problem is men, it affects young boys also, this woman right here is coming with a cringe gender war argument as a reply to everything
This is as if Albert Einstein and two Kardashians would talk about quantum mechanics (ofcourse dr.K being Albert). This women are terrible! And I'm a woman. Dear men, these two DO NOT represent the view of women population. Dr. K is awesome, like always. Thank you dr.K and Steven ❤
Unfortunately, in my opinion, Erika made me want to turn this interview off. Society is constantly pushing this hyper-sexualised agenda and it is destroying us at a very fast pace. Other than that, great questions and really enjoyed the other participant’s perspectives. I still disagree that pornography has positive effects, I believe all pornography is disgusting and unnecessary.
Her views are decadent.
correct. by the way, this hypersexualization is the best way to corrupt the youth and destroy cultures. It brings people down to a lover developmental level. The LEFT is doing this for 20 years and in the last 4 years, full throttle. why? Because people are easier to control on lower levels. This is also true of lower developed religious cultures like islam. One may ask why the left is importing muslims all over the world which is a bit strange, they are ultra conservative.... but seems all the left really cares about is division ( men vs women, religion vs religion, black vs white, poor vs rich etc.) to rule.
Same honestly.
i also think she did a huge disservice to the discussion. consistently deflecting and trying to make it look like its others and not her when most consumed porn is clearly not her content. i wish it was just the other 2
I had the exact same reaction.
Being the partner of a man with a secret compulsion/addiction, I can't be objective about this topic. The fallout of his 32 year use has been so devastating on so many levels that I can't see anything good in porn.
Same, 23 year's and I hate it with a desperate passion.
Also someone want to comment on the stat that a relationship that incorporates porn has a 300x risk of infidelity in the relationship?
Exactly 😢
This is just a weird take to me because it's like you are faulting people for not having the precognition or the faith that they will find someone to have sex and fulfill a desire when plenty of people are struggling to find anyone to be with today at all. You are an unpredictable factor in your partners life. They didn't see you coming. You didn't see them coming. Meaning y'all didnt know when y'all would meet each other let alone be with each other. So you want people to live according to what might happen instead of living authentically.
"As a partner of an alcoholic I really can`t see anything good in alcohol." That`s exactly how you sound. Even though most people in society use alcohol responsibly and it has benefits in peoples social lives. It can be addictive to people, but the problem is the addiction, not the alcohol or the porn.
I think Erika Lust, is what is wrong in this era, you see both doctors being very sensitive to the complexity of this issue, and you see Erika, just supporting porn because she makes a ton of money out of it. We can all find someone to blame, like education, but education is not always enough.
Thank God I see people point this out, she gish gallop a lot to defend it, she will blame everything in society rather than the clear example of porn being bad, she will also slip in a gender war argument in their to make her point rather than just focusing on the objectivity of the matter
Erika Scum
I think what's wrong in the world/in this era: it is your igorant opinion about somebody you don't even know. Go work in porn for a couple of years and then we will talk again.
She earns money from this job. Anything she says is for the business.
She doesn't care about the viewers
She's considered cool and a role model for women empowerment nowadays. Are you sure you don't want to support her? You might lose social status points.
As a woman (59 /female/ recent widow/ married since 24 yrs old) who watched porn with my husband in our relationship… I realized (much too late) that porn definitely had a hugely negative impact on my husband’s brain. We watched it together and had a wonderful sex life … but what I didn’t know and came to find out about five years ago , that my husband became wildly addicted to porn and was watching it from sunrise to sunset , secretly. And the genre of porn we watched together was NOT what he was watching alone . He had leaned into the “under 18 “ videos and that’s not what we watched together. Any free moment he had during his day, he was on his phone , on his computer… seeking out pornography
Also , even though we were having an active and healthy sexlife - he also started having affairs late in our marriage…
Sorry he sounfs like a p.o.s and I'm glad you are free from him now.
@@tiana4102he was absolutely not a piece of shit. He was a man w an addiction.
@@tiana4102you sound like a man hating p.o.s.
You sound like a fake story Sunrise to sundown just jerking it old gold fuck yourself relax no dude has time to sit there and jerk from Sundown to sunup then you want to say oh he's in the 18 and younger lady they only sell like 18 and up fucking relax Jesus Christ
Porn has destroyed my life. From my age 13- right now and still continuing. I was so naive to understand what is actually doing at the beginning. But its engineered to hijack
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Like really ?
Porn didn't ruin your life you ruined your life then blamed porn lol
@@chrishanslip9140 You are very narrow minded. Edit: adding "lol" doesn't make your statement funny
Thinking your life is destroyed is destroying your life. Porn struggle is a sympton that your life sucks
Do they not understand the massive people trafficking involved in porn and how the vast majority of porn objectifies women and ignores the emotional and psychological of sex and the negative impact on viewers in regards to their emotional and psychological health. There is zero that is positive about porn.
The video was released 7 minutes ago and 3 minutes in you're rambling in the comment section.
Totally agree - it's a very lucrative industry worldwide and incredibly damaging. And nothing taught about relationships.
I mean Dr K is saying the majority of what you are saying too in the video
@manangupta7338 People often listen to things just to reply and put their take out. It's very rare that people are actually interested in discussing, learning, or reaching an understanding
Yeah....she is a producer... 😂 ofcourse she'd say there is a good thing about it
I watched a documentary that included Erika Lust and how she makes abuse videos, and the woman in her video was making her aware of how much pain she was in and Erika talked her into finishing the "scene" anyway. That poor woman looked traumatised afterwards. Erika is awful, and is only trying to sell you a product.
This woman is just here to promote her porn business. Like why would a porn business owner talk bad about porn? There are no benefits of porn to society, it's overall bad, nothing good about watching it.
Can you add a link to the documentary? I would like to see for myself and it could be a good stating point to look.
shes a feminist, and if you look into the background of that you will see why its a bad thing.
I feel like Dr k is the only one really qualified to talk about this lol
Exactly, Erica is like a drg dealer preaching the benefits of drgs.
😂😂😂 because he is a man? Bro 😎 grow up women are people too
@@twainalex996no he just gives more nuanced takes on the matter irrespective of gender and his experience speaks more to men watching than the women on the podcast. Don’t assume everything has to do with sexism. I don’t agree with the original comment speaking about qualified but i lean towards more with agreeing to dr k still.
Women barely watch porn in comparison and the entire porn industry is funded by men who pay for OnlyFans in order to satisfy their insane lust. No woman will ever understand the male sex drive and how it feels, no matter how much research they do on the topic.
@@nxrj5632As a registered MD in psychiatry Dr K. certainly is more qualified to speak on matters relating to neuroscience and the brain. It has nothing to do with sexism Lol.
I guarantee you that these chicks haven't watched adult content. To think that content that degrades you and is meant to fight a proxy war using your background is healthy, is pure insanity!!!
And that's coming from an addict. You wonder why men "suck" right now? Maybe ask what creates insecure men who project bad ideas onto all women based on a few that he thinks represents them because he's stuck in an echo chamber!
People also fail to realize how accessible this stuff is and misogynistic. Romeo trafficking is extremely popular on OF right now!!!! I theorize many girls got in or did more because their bfs wanted them to. A lot of these girls aren't even into some of these things but they're permanently etched in the internet.
He's right about the dopamine relation to satisfaction. It's not just sexual. Sugar does the same thing. Hence so much obesity.
As a man that has stopped watching porn, I believe that it stopped/screwed up past relationships due to the variety of seeing so many beautiful Women naked having sex every day, it made me look at the every day woman I came in contact with as objects.
I mean women are getting their fix on social media every day. If porn is ever outlawed for men, then social media will have to become a male-only activity.
@shin-ishikiri-no Nah, you stop watching porn as a man, It gets easier to filter out those social media addicted ones because your mind is no longer clouded by the drug. And you're treating yourself better, which means your standards raise, which means you'll notice women's bad behavior easier and faster and it gets easer to find good ones.
That's your fault. You can't keep balance. Nothing wrong with objectifying your wife or girlfriend in a calm and loving manner. Kissing her ear lobes and her shoulder because you objectify woman as a sexual nature.
Most men are deeply in denial re porn.
As with all things harmful in life, honesty is critical in correcting detrimental patterns.
...Appreciate your honesty in sharing your growth.
@@bumperxx1 Objectify, ... synonym of DEGRADE ... NOTHING healthy there.
In all honesty, Dr. K seems to be the most informed person about this issue .From the 2 ladies there, we getting more of their opinions, and of course, the producer's passion for solving a problem that's apparently a result of the industry that she's been in for so long. The emphasis that she doesn't post stuff that exposes her body😅, sounds more like a druglord selling products they wouldn't dare touch.
The dangers of no fap are you will achieve your goals, you will be mentally stronger and your sex life will be better.
If you see anyone opposing this, they are either a jew or heavily influenced by them
No fap is not an efficient way to deal with the addiction.
That's fucking bullshit man. It's all depends on ur libido. I have a high sex drive. No flapping even after one week, I get agitated, I don't sleep properly because I start dreaming about sex. Without the FAP I don't stay focused. So I'm the complete opposite, and I'm betting I'm not alone
check out dr.k video on this:
Why You Shouldn't Resist Watching P*rn
really goes against this idea. it doesnt need to be applied with porn, could apply with any addiction im pretty sure.
No fap works only if you have sex partner if non hello prostate cancer for boys and men.
There is bliss in developing abstinence, celibacy and purity prior to any relationship. Social media, iPhones, videos are all addictive. They make the platforms to be addictive. It’s very destructive.😢
HealthyGamerGG wins the debate! Been following this guy for a long time, and I'm glad to see that he's growing in popularity and being invited to these bigger podcasts. 💯👌
Biased
I am here for Dr. K.
The paucity or impoverishment of sex education does not mean porn is an antidote no more than cancer means a deficiency in chemotherapy. Appeal to your agendas all you like, when it comes to the benefit or benevolence of porn the body keeps the score.
Erika is that one friend that we all just... tolerate
I like her, but I don’t think it was fair/wise to include her in a discussion with two professional doctors.
yea, she is just there to promote her business and career, always starting with "I.......", rather than viewing and discussing the issue from a more sat back view, of the grander subject, sure making something with certain intention, but it's not that *orn is all about her own work, but the phenomenon of people watching their fellow species copulating remotely and alone, similar to the situation of enabling people to kill people in game which may desensitise the seriousness of harming or killing of others in real life, it's the potential yet she seems to be so focused on her own work and her ideals
cuz she's hot, which is super ironic, don't you think?
Because you "know"her? She is a really nice person and I really know her, so maybe you should not have/give a igonorant opion
Porn is unequivocally a detriment to your dating and sex life!
How is it a detriment for dating?
@@Svansky831desensitization is the biggest problem related to sex with the death grip as a honorable mention.
For dating a single guy who is watching porn on a regular basis is going to be much less motivated to put in the work and take the lumps which inevitably occur in dating.
Dating is pretty catastrophique now in the west. The motivation is not very high for both genders.
I get your point and I agree but I doubt the relevancy of porn when it comes to dating nowadays 😅
@@Svansky831things are bleak in the west. Your best bet is once you run across a good woman is to wife her up because they are hard to come by.
20 years ago I'd have argued with that - but the evidence in favour of your statement is getting overwhelming.
Yes, I HAVE NOT FINISHED the entire podcast.
I came in with an open mind listening what these two women has to say. But on the 30 minute mark, it was so hard to keep listening to them. Just the idea of "regulated porn" so it can be healthy, and not able to to recognize that there is such thing as bad p0rn, especially those that involves minors. I will drop this and will get back later on and just read the comments for people's take away. I believe I will learn more like that.
porn is actually good for women...we need to stop acting like men are more important than women and stop regulating everything according to men
That's NOT a "open" mind. You are bij definition very close-minded. Like so, so, so , so many (ignorant) people.
The ramifications of porn are rampant and evident. Especially rears its angry head in the dating scene. Like most addictions, porn creates more of the problem that gets most viewers there in the first place. People often view in response to loneliness and porn leaves them further isolated/unable to create authentic connection
99% of the comments are anti-porn. Which tells you whether or not this video is in touch with the realities of the subject.
99% of the comments come from igonorant sheep. I have worked in porno for over 20 years as a actor, director and producer and I loved it. Amazing really OPEN MINDED people and yes sometimes a a**hole, but they are in every industry.
No. It tells you the people with most negative emotions about porn are engaging this topic. Humans engage with negativity more than positivity. It's a well known fact and why salacious videos are made to garner interaction and attention
I think people just don't know how to balance it if you want porn 3 to 4 times Max a month how is that an issue like seriously
@@WhatIsRealAnymore can we pin this. I thought the comments were off. It seems everyone in the comments knows a serious porn addict.
I'm about to add my porn positive comment. I have been commenting on others to make it more balanced. These negative comments are out of this world. The thing is, they don't see that more people would be open to talk about it if they were not shaming themselves and others.
Great job by Dr K confronting disgust .
“It is difficult to get a man to understand something when his salary depends on his not understanding it”. Erika is not even qualified to discuss against two doctors.
I don’t blame her, Steven should’ve known that having two professional doctors and a layperson is not a good match
And you are qualified to make this comment?
@@batzmaru2010yes because this is an objective fact that the person is stating , this is a debate based on evidence and various studies , she has not studied for years to be a doctor or have experience in human psychology or physiology while the other two do. You don’t need to be speciliased in a field to point this out lol .
We needed a Dr K equivalent on the other side to make this make sense.
That was a great interaction! Now we need a round table of some younger people discussing the same topic! Probably would give an insight from their perspective currently growing up in this crazy time.
That’s actually a lovely idea! Get those on the other side of it, who consume it (recreationally), who don’t and who don’t want to anymore to talk about it from their perspective! Young and older!
Can we have an episode where drug dealers are trying explain how good cocaine can be for you? ”But just a little bit of nice pure cocaine now and then makes you feel good. Weak men who get addicted are the problem. I produce some nice high quality and ethical powder so I’m a good person.”
boys none of us should be lying to ourselves anymore . we're getting into our late 20s early 30s now
porn for the past 15 yrs has been a constant source of shame and escape which has hindered me in my life in countless ways
its taken away my drive, my openness to life, and has prevented me from being my full self.
married with kids now and I still can't get past it. just getting into Doctor K now and trying to finally deal with the emotions and pain that is at the source of why i keep going back
All things in moderation. You've given the idea of porn way too much power in your life. It's not any of those things if you know how to manage yourself. Clearly you are lacking in that regard.
Damn bro ! I pray for you buddy
Crazy how our experiences differ so much. Never had a bad or addicting relationship with porn. But I do believe you.
It felt like you were speaking directly to me here, almost exactly the same timeline and situation, thanks for sharing
anime nickname and anime profile photo, saying porn its not bad for them, its at least funny.
Men, reject porn. Build the discipline to overcome lust-it will set you free. I know it’s hard, but it’s one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself. The journey isn’t easy, and you’ll stumble, but keep getting back up. Peace will come, and you’ll be unbreakable in all aspects of your life. I love you, brothers. Let’s take back our lives. 💪
thank you for this
Why should I reject porn? I'm dating, and trying to find someone for me, I have a good job, college degrees etc. Why would I reject porn? For the promise that I will find someone who will automatically sense with their super senses that I don't watch porn and they will be impressed?? Or maybe I should find someone that watches porn too and we both be happy. Like one of the doctors says it can do.
Apples and oranges. The women are not arguing the same point, they care about how it makes them feel about themselves and the control/confidence it gives them. Dr K, is explaining how it can f@ck up your mind as it’s not a natural interaction, stimulation process, even when sharing it with someone else. The medium in which it’s shared leads to overstimulation which damaging. If it wasn’t there would be no warning for kids at the start.
Where do feelings and confidence comes from?? The mind.
Steven, your fearless approach to experimentation is what truly sets you apart in the podcast industry. From introducing new formats like debates to constantly evolving how you engage with your audience, you’re always pushing the boundaries of what a podcast can be!
This is not a debate. This is feminist women yapping how they hate men.
If porn is ok, when are you going to start making movies about taking drugs too. Junkies on screen shooting up and showing how to do it and share their highs and experiences. Oh yes, to be viewed and used "responsibly"....and then all is ok. Society is doomed. Oh yes, let all those promoting it, send their kids into it.
Yeah and use the patriacrchy to reinforce the need to greenlight the cause wtf
💯 ... Dumb it down along with p3dophilia, drug use, corruption ...
Everything goes in iconoclastic society.
False equivalence. Porn is hardly causing gang violence.
1 in 5 internet searches are for pornography is shocking to me… this is really sad.
I think young children being exposed to pornography is a form of abuse.
please go to a factory farm and look at the abuse you have done by creating kids. and you still want to keep creating more.
its immoral to domesticate animals. period.
I think it is shocking and really sad so many parents are keeping young childeren affraid or making them affraid of everything what is sexual
Anyone who has any financial interest in a subject should always be excluded from the conversation due to obvious bias. Erika Lust may have good intentions but has the obvious bias unfortunately most people who work in the industry don't have her intentions.
Because you know those "most people"?
Of course she will be biased towards protecting the industry she made a career in. Like all the great authors that appeared in this podcast that promoting their books. I don’t see the problem in a “yes, and…” perspective. Can adult film industry lead to addiction, reality distortion, physical problems? Yes. And it can be beneficial for others, when consumed and produced responsibly. Like Dr. K said… it’s not an either/or answer…
Our forefathers learned about sex by marrying young and just experimenting with their spouse.
Today we are being taught by the 'invisible hand' and what we think is normal, it was absurd to our forefathers.
In contrast, our forefathers had a lot of sex with just one partner, and we have little sex with multiple partners.
Absolutely right or only ending up with hand because of no dating culture in many countries
Because slaves and brothels didn't exist
Our forefathers were racists, homophobes, I'd rather not take advice from them
And you "know" this from what kind of "knowledge"? Have you ever looked at the ancient greeks? The Romans? The sex tempels in India?
I was just thinking about this. How normal and simple things used to be. I didn’t realize how pervasive internet porn addiction is! Wow!
The "many people who use it fine without an issue" do not struggle with the current loneliness epidemic and use it extremely sparsely. THIS IS CHANGING THOUGH.
Because a lot of men, even in relationships, are beginning to get more addicted. Because the stuff that is being produced begs your attention for far longer and the sites are built like social media websites. And we acknowledge social media addiction.
Totally agree. I say this as someone in a LTR : It is difficult for me as a woman to compete with the porn or pornographic imagery found online. Sure, porn does not remove the desire for real sex, but it DOES compete for attention, energy and time spent. No matter how I try to stay in shape and be fun and all that, I can't completely change looks every 24 h. I can never compete with the variety of porn. Thus, I feel incredibly frustrated any time my SO isn't interested because he already satisfied that desire looking at some other girl. It doesn't just affect the bedroom, it also changes how motivated he is to do things for me and the relationship.
I used to feel pretty neutral about porn, but now I just hate it. Even if my SO isn't an "addict" it is undeniable that his porn (or instagram, in that sense) affects our relationship negatively.
Women like Erika defending porn is absolutely nuts, women are treated terribly by the industry, why on earth would you defend it
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So amazing that you know women in the industry.... You also worked, like me for over 20 years, in porn?
Because as soon as they feel like they can get an ounce of power over men, all their principles go out the window.
shes a feminist
I love the idea of a round table discussion, especially on subjects like this, however, the guests need to be on the same level so that everyone’s input is beneficial to the conversation. It feels like Dr K is having to downplay some of his opinions to plicate the other guests, which doesn’t allow for the subject to be discussed to its full potential.
Porn is digital curse
Can't spell curse without cure, it's the cure, proven right there. Fact.
Excellent point
So is ignorance...
@@batzmaru2010and so is hate , lust , anger and jealousy your point?
Jesus lover
Thank you Dr K for everything! Saving lives saving love ❤
Bravo! this topic is very relevant to our society most specially for the younger generation. We need more of this specially Dr. K. Everytime he speaks there is a certain magnet that draws us within.
Pornography dwarfing Netflix is wild
Two experts against 1 filmmaker 😂
Best threeway I've seen today
no actually two females against one guy ... he was the only one explicitly saying corn is bad
*That was a great talk.* Steven, maybe we need more conversations like this for everyone?
Especially when it comes to sexual temptations, I’d like to hear what a child psychologist recommends. Maybe we also need a researcher who studies *how smartphones affect our sex lives.*
Thanks for inviting Erika. I didn’t even know that kind of pornography exists.
Maybe we should also invite someone from the AI field who believes AI can be good, and include people who are cautious about technology in the discussion.
I hate it when this one woman (film maker" especially keeps laughing as if it's humorous. There are always excuses why xxx is necessary ... it's not, it's the destruction of humanity for the advantage of the few
With all due respect, Erica, God has a special place for you in the next life.
Dr. K, thank you for helping millions.
😂😂😂 haha please no 😢
Idiot.... oh, sorry, with due respect offcourse...
Dr k ❤ really happy he is apart of this discussion one of the my favourite guest you have on your show I always tune in when he is on his theories are very relatable
Erika is there to defend porn simple but her presence was necessary she is the proof of the problem
Dr Malik approach 50/50 informative from a devil advocate perspective
I appreciate Erika's perspective, she clearly loves and believes in what she's doing, but I also feel like she's very unaware of her own biases. We've all got them, but statements like "everybody should pay for their porn" are wild. She can run her business however she likes, there are plenty of people that will pay for her films, but if an OnlyFans creator wants to post clips from their page in an effort to build an audience and sell to them, that's entirely their choice. If Bellesa House (similar concept to Erika's films, choosing their costars, etc) wants to make free content, they can absolutely do that. Just feels as though she's waiting (or in some cases, not waiting) to respond, defend herself, defend porn, instead of actually being part of the conversation.
The men I’ve been with who watched porn were terrible in so many ways. It is so destructive. Now being with a man who stopped watching porn years ago there is no comparison.
It’s damaging and you can feel it
Agree.
Sex is how men connect. Women advocating for porn is crazy, why is it so trendy for women to be indifferent and masochistic towards men's misery nowadays?
I'd love to see Dr K come back to talk about complex PTSD and how it affects lives
100% Gov should be bold and ban porn, absolutely no benefits and having such a negative impact on society
I see two people in denial and two showing a valid concern. It's odd that the females are in support of porn. My how the tables have turned from 20 years ago.
“Allows people to experience fantasies” … let’s just enable everyone to experience their disgusting fantasies , sounds smart
Indeed. "After Skool" made a great parable about what seeing endless fantasy does to people. And it's not good.
I might express this poorly, but isn't there data about sexual deviants and serial killers with a sexual element to their attacks have reported high levels of fantasizing and relying on fantasy in-between their next deviancy or murder. Just like the canary in the coalmine for sexual abuse in children has very clear signs, and the same can be said for fantasies perhaps?
Let's not allow people to have any fantasy at all in life. That's always good....someone that gets no pleasure in life at all. That won't have any consequences at all. Hahaha
I know men and even a woman who has difficulty being stimulated from real people because of a consistent porn and masturbation loop. Porn definitely does something to the brain and longterm it doesn't seem to be good.
Excited to see a debate on this channel!!!
What's crazy nowadays is that a lot of content on, for example, instagram is a form of pornography. And the attitude of youngsters 15 years and under is more so. The only thing they agree on is that it's "adult" content, but in reality it's not at all and there's no way to limit it.
I personally find that even many young women 14-19 dress completely differently than they did over 10 or 20 years ago... Men really have it harder and harder.
Erika Lust downgraded this podcast....it was a shame that Dr. Kanojia and Dr. Malik had to share their precious knowledge with her....
Hahaha... You comment is so full of ignorance. Have you ever seen the movie(s) : the Matrix?
Cypher:
You know, I know this steak doesn't exist. I know that when I put it in my mouth, the Matrix is telling my brain that it is juicy and delicious. After nine years, you know what I realize?
Cypher:
Ignorance is bliss."
@@batzmaru2010 Maybe my favourite line in the movie. I do follow Dr. Kanojia and Dr. Malik, and their scientific research and knowledge can't be challenge by the shallow emotional charged counterpoints and with a high political bias of Mrs Lust.
@@lacoparota7592 they are not biased?? Remember, they are online. There base is you...possibly wildly conservative etc. They are not gonna say anything that goes against there point now even if they wanted to. They are too wildly successful because of their take on information. Believe me it's their take, which does not rule because other doctors can look at the same information and make different conclusions, that's just how it works.
Dr. K is the only real one
DEBATES are always better than one-sided interview. This is the only way you can actualy see that there is no one true answer to any question.
I do not criticize the women speaking. One lacks education, and the other lacks common sense. Dr. K actually took the time to educate with each statement he made and was never disrespectful. Porn is harmful, no matter how much people try to justify it as good. Hopefully, everyone will take home the key points Dr. K shared throughout the entire episode.
You're not allowed to say that the man is smarter nowadays. You have to say that whatever the women said is fabulous and they are queens. The man was mansplaining because he's probably an incel loser.
It's not harmful if you do it 1 or 2 times a month. Relax. Everything has always been about balance. Also leave porn as porn. Just because you see anal 😏doesn't mean you need to sodomized your sex partner
Porn actors abd actresses have committed suicide. Users have had their lives destroyed. We are actually considering this disgusting thing a good thing.
Saying ___ group participants or users have selfed harmed could literally apply to any type of content creation (from books to television). I'm not claiming that pornography or the industry is necessarily good but self harm is not a causal indicator of the harm inherent to usage.
@@danielsbhsmk4936 Plus its no wonder they feel like that when there's so much social shame and even people telling them they're responsible for the world's issues... It's like everyone constantly tells them what they do is wrong and they are bad people and then those same people blame what they do for their issues instead of the abuse they inflicted upon them.
@@danielsbhsmk4936 I've never heard of an author so disgusted with themselves with what they wrote that they had to use alcohol and drugs to write the next page 🤔
Do you really think the majority of porn actors/actresses are mentally healthy individuals?
Fact: the estimates for “death by medicine” keep increasing. They went from 100,000 to 200,000 and now as high as 400,000. I think that's way, way, way more destructive and disgusting, but you are "worried" about a couple of actors/actresses who have committed suicide? Porn watching has never ever killed anyone.
The fact Ms. Lust is getting emotional & excited and raising her voice shows that she is losing the argument. I completely disagree when she says that we should educate children about sex. GTFO.
the other fact: you are part of the CLOSE-MINDED igonorant sheep
Some of the adverts on the mainstream p orn websites are pretty disturbing and you question who is circulating them and why? As well as things like family etc which are plastered all over the home pages
And how do you know that those adverts are pretty disturbing? You also did the right research about the (disturbing) effects?
The real question here is, why women are not affected by porn as much as men, Specifically in the dopamine area?
Because they don't have the DNA or inclination to reproduce constantly constantly constantly men are just programmed and wired to reproduce
Porn when used creates a path whenever we alone it creates a direct path to porn and make it feel enjoyable other activities. It creates a conditional brain and hard to break. It destroys relationships and chaos in life and destruction. Erica should focus on same age and increase in chemistry rather than direct hit.
When I saw the thumbnail I thought, “oh great, they just made an edit compilation” 👎🏼 Then I scrolled to see the photo of all three of them at the roundtable and it immediately made me watch. Bravo to Steven and team for not defaulting to the “compilation content” out there. It comes across apathetic and this just raised the bar. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Prawn was fairly harmless when it was just pictures of women in magazines - but it's getting very hard to argue in good faith that in the last 20 years, with all the new technology, that it hasn't become a monster that's consuming our brains. The promise of endless s ual experimentation bringing happiness and fulfilment has clearly been proved to be a false god.
Steven, love your channel. Yes, I have (long ago) subscribed. Love your work (as stated). I think that one of the issues here is the hookup culture that is so dang prevalent nowadays (and has been for the last decade - at least.....we can discuss which came first - the porn addiction issue or the hookup culture - at a different time. I also think that "the hookup culture" topic would be a fascinating exploration and make an interesting video). To be completely transparent, I am 57 years old so my younger days are long since passed. I find this topic highly interesting. I am going to share something that might be highly unpopular: men are not as strong as my father's generation, or his father's generation. There are lots and lots and lots of contributing factors to this. An idea for a different video might be exploring how men could become stronger (not talking about "stronger" as in can bench press 315 lbs.....). There are a couple of women in this space who might be amazing guests for you. Courtney Christine Ryan and Helena King. Courtney is in Ohio, USA and Helena is in Germany. Just an idea, taking a tangent from this video.
"pornography can be good for us" ,no its not.
What are single people supposed to do? Use their imagination?? How are we supposed to get off?
Well ignorance is even worse...
It's just not good for you bro or woman😂. I don't think there's anything wrong with a husband doing the mercy jerk once or twice a month to save his marriage. I'm sorry but like oh my God if you need to jerk it to save your marriage your loss the mercy jerk is reserved for men that have a high sexual peak but their wife doesn't put out in order to not step outside the confines of the marriage one must do the mercy jerk so leave my porn alone also just because I watch sodomy doesn't mean I do sodomy in fact I've never sodomized my wife but I do watch it
3 experts discussing Fapology thats a Mass-debate
Clever comment.
If Erika was a decent human she would stop her adult movie company and start an anti porn campaign with the money what's left. This is a real problem, it destroyed my life between 16-24 what is right now.
She is not responsible for your personal issues with pornography.
Bro just exercise self-control lmao.
Can’t blame others for your addiction buddy !!!
go fuck yourselfes, there are people who fell in deep deep holes because of that and I think porn is one thing what will be humanity's downfall. The world would be so much better, if there wasn't porn
The lack of empathy in this thread is shocking.
porn is poison for your soul
So is ignorance....
Nope 🙅♀️ 🙅♂️ 🙅♀️. Porn keeps the man in the marriage and the 2or3 times a month mercy jerk is a thing.
Perspective: Sexual abuse is more often inflicted on children before their being exposed to pornography. The abuse is then a catalyst for a cycle of dysfunctional relationship with sex as the individual grows up.
It is possible. I know in my case it wasn't, and I know porn has been massively detrimental to me.
you can literally teach your child not to let anyone touch ther parts, and even talk about how human/animals reproduce, without exposing them to porn, wtf are you talking about?
edit: I really didn't understood what you meant, but I guess someone could argue that exposing a children to porn is a form of Sexual abuse
"We're not free to love just anyone, we love in tracks laid down for us by our childhoods"
That's what happened to me. My older teenage cousins first exposed me at 5 or so, then my forty something ex brother in law when I was 12... fast forward I managed to marry a porn addict who is incapable of a satisfying sex life. It is all so devastating it isn't even funny.
@@thiagoelav633you can, that doesn't mean someone else doesn't. Furthermore just because you teach the child doesn't mean they don't expose themselves to something they're not ready for.
21:14 When Erika states that the problematic use of pornography is mainly "a guy thing"... Is she really forgetting that for decades the porn industry has focused its entire business on hypersexualising men's 'a la carte' view of sex... at the expense of women (and children)??
Do we really need to see how that pans out the other way round, to know what the outcome is going to be?
I don't like what porn does to most people who don't see it as "entertainment". Sex is earned and it's harder for men to get sex than it is for women.
Once this gap is dealt with then we can start looking at augmenting sexuality with pornography. Until your life is stable and you earn greater status as a man porn is creating destruction among men of all ages who aren't living fulfilled lives.
This is truly the battle of modern ages
porn is destroying a lot of peoples life including me. the addiction is unbearable, hard to break through n kids nowadays arent learning about sex by natural ways specially teens is becoming satisfied by crazy masturbation which is not real sex. thousands of teens getting raped cuz of it. they've got to stopp this otherwise the world is going to cooked
dont blame porn. blame our abuse to nature. humans are exploiting wildlife and forcing animals and plants to suffer in domestication where they are genetically altered, lack natural selection, and have no reproductive rights.
these issues are causing humans to have impaired thinking skills and blame the wrong stuff.
😂😂 you let it destroy your life you didn't follow the golden rules in the golden rules are balanced you should probably only do it one to three maybe four times a month that's basically once a week if that honestly there's nothing wrong with balance and for the record iWatch pornography I look at sodomy clips of women but I don't go in sodomize my wife never have and never will do you see how I do that you just separated it. Just like when you go to work you are supposed to leave your home life at home never drag your home life into work just like pornography never drag pornography into the bedroom with your partner leave it on the device things and stop dragging things all over with them we wouldn't have a problem now would we
The way Dr Alok validates the women on the panel and then comes to a total different conclusions needs to be studied, this could have easily turn into gender debate on pornograph but he stirred it away by simply not engaging.
Dr K makes me click on a video as fast as possible
A was listening to a former porn star now a pastor and she stated that porn not only affects you psychologically, its affects you physically, she also talked about how both men and women will develop STIs, and they are aware and transmit..she said the only good thing about performing porn is the $$ being made.
Sex overrides all the activity and priorities it first. Now the porn takes the sex place and dynamic new content, new content hards to build tolerance. New content tolerance develops again new content tolerance endless loop which is destructive.
No not really. The ignorance about sex is what's wrong with 99% of the ignorance sheep
It’s refreshing to see the overwhelming majority of this comment section on the same page. To argue the case FOR porn is insanity.
There’s so much wrong with pornography and its role in our culture today, I have no idea where to even start that conversation. Props to this host for attempting to tackle a subject of this magnitude.
24:38. I'm an atheist sweetheart. Hindu background no less. The morals you're referring to isn't religious. When you watch at my level, you see lives get destroyed and permanently altered on all sides.