How To Show Interest Without Being Needy

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  • @Yacob88481
    @Yacob88481 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1454

    Just a tip, if you're stuck. Stop watching any self help/pick up videos for a month and just live naturally and push yourself. After a month you will revisit the content and get a new and valuable meaning.

    • @isaacasdreams
      @isaacasdreams 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I got pretty good but hit a pleatou and got burnt out... took 9 months off to play video games.. got back into game irl recently and fawk I feel like I could be legit pua. I make tables behind me in restaurants fall into my frame. fun shyt. sucked when I was burnt out.

    • @michaelkluge328
      @michaelkluge328 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thanks. I guess i m going to do that now.

    • @thecultofdannydevito7852
      @thecultofdannydevito7852 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I did that and was friend zoned

    • @CommandoMaster
      @CommandoMaster 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I got rejected by a girl I like and now I'm sad and depressed and going to die alone!

    • @Trillavision
      @Trillavision 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yung dagger dick!

  • @SammyCee23
    @SammyCee23 6 ปีที่แล้ว +832

    1. Do things that are emotionally relevant
    2. Spike her emotions both positively and negatively
    3. Be unpredictable

    • @biggus6633
      @biggus6633 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      SeouL
      What’s emotionally relevant? Empathy???

    • @seanhsjung
      @seanhsjung 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Big Gus No. It means to say things that are relevant to the girl that will make them emotionally react in some sort of way. Versus saying something platonic (I.e. hey, what’s up, how are you) that your grandma could say to you and sparks no emotional/flirtatious reaction whatsoever

    • @victorespino5650
      @victorespino5650 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Entitled vs needy

    • @prashunpcchakraborty70
      @prashunpcchakraborty70 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      But HOW? That's the key question

    • @droberts4791
      @droberts4791 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      any tips for the negatively aspect, the positive pretty much speaks for itself, just compliment her but what if she genuinely hasn't done anything you disagree with, how do you push the negative emotion buttons then?

  • @ashharkausar413
    @ashharkausar413 6 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    Like how intellectual you are when explaining.

    • @IllDawgable
      @IllDawgable 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He goes into detail without being too complicated.

    • @stupidrainbo
      @stupidrainbo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dude, he's pretty goddang smart. I feel like he could really accomplish so much more, like PUA training is nice but he could make like a richer difference in people's lives totally apart from the dating arena.
      Personally I think people would only watch these kinds of videos if they're insecure with how they date, and the videos give some specific quick-fixes for success in dating (with some hints that are applicable to general life). But I think the principles beneath it (confidence, etc) are better and stronger for improving *everything* in your life, including dating.
      But then it's also true that videos specifically about dating are sure to get clicks and sustained views. I mean it worked for me. So from a marketing perspective I think it's the 'right' decision. I just feel like Todd has so much more potential to become much greater with his talents.

  • @jay1592
    @jay1592 6 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    We're honestly lucky, you're a great teacher Tod, allways explaining clearly and in a way people can really understand what you're trying to deliver. Thanks

  • @sleazyrider4966
    @sleazyrider4966 6 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    Todd V, the last real gangster...
    When everyone is going woo woo, its a good thing we have this guy around...

    • @jamesmorell1758
      @jamesmorell1758 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I'm super sick of RSD talking about woo woo spirituality and topics they aren't versed in, instead of game. The woo woo stuff is valuable but I'm tryna pimp

    • @Rustyhound-Cartoons
      @Rustyhound-Cartoons 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Sleazy Rider this is so fucking true, Todd deserves a medal considering it all

    • @LeonardoDiVaio
      @LeonardoDiVaio 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yes sir, all the natural kinda bullshit by rsdmax or the others... i Need a strict Game Plan and this is what todd gave me. Other instructors be like: believe in your gutt feeling. Be natural!
      Todd be like: fuck you. Here is your Plan a b c d e f g
      Love you todd ❤️❤️

    • @billiesimon88
      @billiesimon88 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Todd is gangster, but the "woo woo" stuff is very important outside of the strict game realm. As Tyler always says "dude, not everything I do is about fucking more whores!". You have to understand that RSD is just trying to implement more useful things into your life.

    • @LeonardoDiVaio
      @LeonardoDiVaio 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Billiesimon88 if u want to do more spiritual stuff i would recommend sadhguru, because he is the master of spiritual Things. Rsd is no Master in that

  • @shashaantil2690
    @shashaantil2690 6 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I paused Midway to write that this value should not be given for free.this is amazing stuff.

  • @Surgicalsensei
    @Surgicalsensei 6 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    "Worrying about if something is needy, is actually very needy." This is gold. I hate when guys try to give advice and call what you are doing is "needy", it's like they don't really know how to give proper advice so all they know what to say to you is "You're being so needy!".

  • @RafaelCintron
    @RafaelCintron 6 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    Im so happy you left RSD

    • @Fxx308
      @Fxx308 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Rafael Cintron why?

    • @mism2897
      @mism2897 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      More money for Todd

    • @BenDover-cm5mo
      @BenDover-cm5mo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Fatih Doğan He now won’t be restricted.

    • @wilmercuevas6491
      @wilmercuevas6491 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I didn't know about this... What do u mean? was there any problem or something?

    • @RafaelCintron
      @RafaelCintron 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It was holding him back

  • @jamesgedak551
    @jamesgedak551 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Solid advice! Your last comment about what to do if your date isn't getting back to you about a tentative plan is exactly what I am dealing with today. It is not a pleasant experience. I've been going back and forth with the appropriate move and what you said is perfect! On the one hand, I don't want to appear to be needy, but I also don't want to be treated with disrespect. To all other men, stand up for yourself and don't let this kind of behavior be tolerated. Obviously, be nice about it, but also be prepared to walk away from the situation.

  • @gambit_toys6554
    @gambit_toys6554 5 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    I'm at 110 approaches and I've been rejected 14 times in a row. Hit a plateau haha.
    I dont give a fffff.
    Keep pushing!

    • @Adam-he4kn
      @Adam-he4kn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Damn man that's awesome!! I'm going out tomorrow and hopefully doing my 10first approaches ever

    • @gambit_toys6554
      @gambit_toys6554 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Adam-he4kn I'm at 188 approaches. The more you do it the easier. Be brave!

    • @Adam-he4kn
      @Adam-he4kn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@gambit_toys6554 It really is scary but I really want to do it too!!

    • @gambit_toys6554
      @gambit_toys6554 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Adam-he4kn start today just do 1 approach

    • @wavychico2.0
      @wavychico2.0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Keep it going. Youll be numb to it, by then, smooth sail

  • @axelmane1536
    @axelmane1536 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    thank you man, i learned that i always had the game in me i was just affraid of her reaction. Its been so natural to me now that i am more confident. Their reaction to my approaches is always possitive no matter how direct i am. Its all about assertiveness and assuredness. Again. thank you.

  • @mcmoodoo
    @mcmoodoo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Todd is the Explanaitor of the Pickup! You only understand something to a degree you can explain it to someone else. He can explain so well. It means he knows female psychology from inside out

  • @PaulTrippy-bj8ho
    @PaulTrippy-bj8ho 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    your videos from 2017-2018 is Gold brother.

  • @jonasholmer4161
    @jonasholmer4161 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Presistents is key if you want the girl. She likes it when she feels you like her and you both know whats going to happen even if you dont say it. Meaning in the situation is what you make of it its all made up in your head. If your cool then she will be cool with it. Give your self the favors and think your awsome. All positive mindsets. Even if you fail your still awsome for trying and learning most dont even try.

  • @InspectorDeck
    @InspectorDeck 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Todd, you're not just an experienced gamesman, you are also a talented teacher. Thanks for the consistently high-quality material!

  • @FranzVonGaart
    @FranzVonGaart 6 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Todd's gonna last through the recession

  • @MikeHersnt
    @MikeHersnt 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    In a conversation like this, you really need to be in between. You can't just give the moon and the stars in one conversation with a girl. Be persistent in a good way. Devote your time each day to at least talk or message her at least once or twice in a day. Thanks for sharing this video bro. Amazing thoughts and content.

    • @xermy1648
      @xermy1648 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Once everyday? That's way too much. Once every few days is fine. Texting her everyday just shows her that you don't have nothing better to do with your life.

  • @27eabell
    @27eabell 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    So pretend the girl is a car sales person, make them want to have business for u

  • @angelmerc2626
    @angelmerc2626 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is powerful. Women want directness but, being to direct may be attractive to her but, may also come across as outcome dependent.

  • @thehealthylife5715
    @thehealthylife5715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I like todd. Out of all the dating channels. Down to earth straight to the point and no pathetic bullshit like some other channels

  • @SuperAdityakaushik
    @SuperAdityakaushik 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Whenever I watch your stuff, it seems like why the fuck did I not think of it that way? I really like the way you broadly categorise and actually leave the viewer with a lot to work with. Otherwise it’s just like the PUA’s will promote random products and tell you to be confident. I’ve seen only a few of your videos, and I’m beginning to see a change. Thanks for your videos man! I hope you keep making such amazing content!

  • @vincenterey1640
    @vincenterey1640 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    From my experience, being needy in a playful manner really got the job done. I first size a girl up to figure out if she's that type I can be playful with. But not always playful

  • @CommandoMaster
    @CommandoMaster 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Always confirm plans a few hours beforehand with the person you are meeting. This way you don't waste your time and waiting for them to show up if they didn't want to.

  • @BleAcHADmin
    @BleAcHADmin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been seeing this girl for a while every time we go out we have great talk n we escalate the emotions perfectly and the way I want it to be but when ever I try to go out with her I keep thinking I am needy and tod is so right if you think ur being OVER needy it's probably not like when we have plans and she cant come or doesn't ask about you need to treat her like your friend because in a relationship you need to be friends and more but ite the basis she will be ur friend and lover so I am starting to understand this a lot more now. Thanks tod!

  • @pumpituppowell
    @pumpituppowell 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So many good points Todd! Especially the part about being flaked on and then pretending like it didn’t even happen hit home.

  • @PeterChao0cool0FTW
    @PeterChao0cool0FTW 6 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    Good shit Todd! If you can, can you make a video for those who are younger and in their early years of college or late HS...Regardless I love you brah!

  • @bndkamarxu931
    @bndkamarxu931 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    EXTRA TIP :-
    just remember that when someone figures out your needs, they start unconsciously disrespect you. Just dont show your needs.

    • @bndkamarxu931
      @bndkamarxu931 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vantyvinitoza yes sure

    • @rkv3731
      @rkv3731 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bndkamarxu931 Give me a example bro im 18 and im talkin with two girls in collegue i let em talk the most and they seem interested, im big coz the gym, got a masculine vibe too but i dont know how to advance should i compliment her? Or what? Help

    • @bndkamarxu931
      @bndkamarxu931 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rkv3731 just Visiualise yourself giving her a "genuine" compliment and stop trying to look perfect, just be genuine. You will effortlessly have a sexy vibe. Go ahead.

    • @xermy1648
      @xermy1648 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Worst tip ever if one is already in a relationship, you just end up loosing when doing that.

    • @justjayy85
      @justjayy85 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This guy is right, a girl I approached started doing this and I caught on a lot later after so many times we crossed paths that she was doing this. I had to realize it was more of a shit test. If you put her in her place respectfully. She'll be attracted to you. You just have to know to be able to do so. The reason they do this is to stir up emotional confrontations for themselves. You just have to deny her requests if she asks you for something outright. Odd as it is, it's to see if you aren't a pushover. So it's not a bad thing.

  • @marcrigor6423
    @marcrigor6423 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Two high-level questions I have never seen addressed by the pickup community and would like to see you answer: 1) Higher level guys who are pulling multiple times per week have girls always trying to lock us down and I'd like to know if you have a good way to deal with these tendencies? 2) I'm seeing 9s only a few times per year (at high end clubs, etc), so where are all the 9s?! Am I rating too low or are there simply very few true 9s in the world?

  • @DmitryHimself
    @DmitryHimself 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This guy knows what's up.

  • @renegadezen7841
    @renegadezen7841 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The psychological working component here is "intermittent reinforcement"

  • @lazcaveli
    @lazcaveli 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The very best advice, wow! you did great. It's so common to see advice that are at two extremes but this is in the grey and most realistic advice.

  • @markcorpuz3538
    @markcorpuz3538 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're a good guy bro, the way you tallk to the bros and deliver is right one man. Thx, I want to take a bootcamp with you!

  • @ToddVDating
    @ToddVDating  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The great paradox of game. How to show interest without being needy. In this video I give you a few different solutions that should help you to get through that frustrating intermediate game level and into a more advanced form of game.
    And don't forget to check out systembytodd.com to get your game to a truly advanced level

  • @Bablos112
    @Bablos112 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great advice, funny how I just thought the same thing about being entitled and then you posted the video. Always so much value from your vids.

  • @TheAGCproductions
    @TheAGCproductions 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is one of the best advice on dating videos that ive seen ! thanks man!

  • @joec1212
    @joec1212 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This guy is gold. Some of his messages are choppy and dont conveail his real thought, but all in all. GOLLLLD

  • @evelic
    @evelic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    00:22 LOVE how that smiles instantly fades hahahahaha. Brilliant.

  • @ZimmyTatro
    @ZimmyTatro 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Knowing it and applying it is very different.

  • @KillerDUDE2595
    @KillerDUDE2595 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really great stuff man. The way you choose your words is very amazing

  • @eddie-gomez9154
    @eddie-gomez9154 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Some of the best info.!!! More videos of infield approaches would be great to see and get a better idea of evrtng you are teaching us. Thanks alot for all of this priceless information.

  • @JamesWattMusic
    @JamesWattMusic 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    the last part about being confident and entitled is not being needy, is good stuff.

  • @hamid237
    @hamid237 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very true! Any action is better than no action!

  • @tantricsurfer
    @tantricsurfer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    rip RSD. This guy is a genius.

  • @Sonicxis4ever
    @Sonicxis4ever 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Todd, you live in New Jersey/New York? Thats dope! By the way, I love your videos. This is like advice from the brother I never had.

  • @nobodynothing00000
    @nobodynothing00000 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The movie "waiting" actually poked fun about this subject, vis a vis that one guy who can't stop asking the girls "are you okay, can I get you anything". You got to act like you DGAF if they are ok or not for the most part.

  • @xchalibur77
    @xchalibur77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And if you say to her that you don’t have much time to talk to her and she says... bye? How can you respond to that not looking to needy?

  • @caleblyons3744
    @caleblyons3744 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely the best dating coach ever! I mean not to give him a big head or anything.

  • @haalandoates
    @haalandoates 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've genuinely never heard the word 'entitled' utilized so positively before. Kudos. Also, throwaway, nonchalant use of the term 'butt-hurt' = hilarious

  • @sewme7861
    @sewme7861 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    wow, great intro, really kinda stands out from other youtube intros

  • @framemaxxer
    @framemaxxer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Its interesting, cause i actually have trouble showing interest - im a bit too shy, and lack in showing interest, and kind of repel the girl because she thinks i dont like her... funny story

  • @hexadecimal5236
    @hexadecimal5236 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I learn more from Todd in one video than I learn from an hour in RSD ra ra sessions.

  • @luckyday9729
    @luckyday9729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Look what we have done to ourselves as men. Would be nice if we have a week called,” No man stare at or ask out girls.” Because, it’s gotten way too toxic nowadays. The more tips and tricks we touch each other the worst it gets.

    • @dirkauditore8413
      @dirkauditore8413 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That would be nice. No asking girls out or approaching them for a week, see how they would react. U think they would take the initiative then?

  • @AustinKelly
    @AustinKelly 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    this probably sounds stupid! where do you buy your black t-shirts ? i was at zara yesterday searching for cool black v's

  • @bluedrago2398
    @bluedrago2398 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Todd do a video about college
    Logistics, reputation, how to pull like crazy on campus, how to escalate, etc

  • @JaredBrandolph
    @JaredBrandolph 6 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    College video would be amazing todd 😍

    • @KHhero
      @KHhero 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      "how to pimp your campus without being #meToo'd (solution: #meTo'dd ;)"

    • @jamesjohnson6309
      @jamesjohnson6309 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      jCrazii yessss

    • @dzllz
      @dzllz 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Theres a video about this on the todd backup channel - and a very good one at that!

    • @stephenhughes5156
      @stephenhughes5156 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeh. I’m a little confused about whether I should be approaching girls at college and asking them on dates. Or relying on inviting them to social gatherings/parties (or then inviting me), and isolating there.

    • @mkazmi
      @mkazmi 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stephenhughes5156 social game is the best for college. There's a fantastic book on this called "conquer your campus"

  • @TotalWarish
    @TotalWarish 6 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    I dont remember my first kiss because i never had one to begin with. LoL

    • @giovannijohnson1885
      @giovannijohnson1885 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How old r yall ?

    • @tonytrilex2555
      @tonytrilex2555 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Makes sense look at your profile pic you are asking for attention and look for validation which in turn doesn't look confident.

    • @stupidrainbo
      @stupidrainbo 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tonytrilex2555 At least he's being vulnerable.

    • @biggus6633
      @biggus6633 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tony Trilex
      Can’t see his face. Maybe he is ugly af!

    • @asdfasdfwae
      @asdfasdfwae 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I m just 24

  • @varungawande9321
    @varungawande9321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can anyone help me out with examples of what those emotional spikes look like and how to come up with them?

  • @michaelwingman7266
    @michaelwingman7266 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi i got a question:i got a guitar student that rarely texts me so we rarely talk.but when we do she indirectly asks me out;but she very rarely contacts just when she got question or sth.if she is interested why does she do that?during our convshe is really cool and responsive.but then she does not contact me.anyway i tried to show her some interest.but she did not show much intetest.is she playing with sending mixed signals?

  • @Shari_Tejp
    @Shari_Tejp 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Listen to this jazzy and classy intro... you already know this is some real shit!

  • @bismarckfamily277
    @bismarckfamily277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Gosh your tutorials are so great but... also complicated in some way... for example I am very confused on which game vid tutorial I should use to actually start a relationship

  • @backside6193
    @backside6193 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Todd's videos have the best B-Roll

  • @fexbio
    @fexbio 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's easy: are you talking to her like you're panhandling or like you bought something and you're calling the seller about a delay on delivery?

  • @SuPaMaNallday
    @SuPaMaNallday 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aye Todd. You should link up with “Marni Your Personal Wing Girl”

  • @eminem252525
    @eminem252525 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dropping HUGE massive value 😍🔥

  • @songsofthecentury3909
    @songsofthecentury3909 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dude why do you make everything complicated. Keep it concise & understandable.

  • @jpp4566
    @jpp4566 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What does “spike her emotions positively and negatively” mean

  • @starttofinishmediaco.2520
    @starttofinishmediaco.2520 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Todd. You are the man and have changed my life. Thx 🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @fredclements5474
    @fredclements5474 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When you haven't had your first kiss though 💀
    Literally me, the reason I'm watching this video

  • @JBulsa
    @JBulsa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tip watch the last 2-3 minutes of the vids on youtube then go back and When watch from the beginning.

  • @thereisnorabbit
    @thereisnorabbit 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What lens are you using for these? The bokeh is awesome

  • @soulking4330
    @soulking4330 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm wearing the same clothes I wore yesterday 😂

    • @richardmoores
      @richardmoores 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s why you’re winning at life.

  • @capricornwolf101
    @capricornwolf101 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stupid sounding question. As for this issue of seeming needy, why would it be that females do not embrace some level of being needed? It seems that just wanting men that are indifferent to them completely, would be counterpriductive. What is the nature of neediness they object to?

  • @theedit9028
    @theedit9028 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can anyone please explain me , what did he mean by emotionally relevant with example???

  • @SuperSymbiote1
    @SuperSymbiote1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    How many times as an advanced guy can you re-approach before moving on to another girl?

  • @MaccusFNS
    @MaccusFNS 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I remember What i had on yesterday... the same as today... with the exeption of socks... i'm sick

    • @gregthompson1743
      @gregthompson1743 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      cant spell either, but not important

  • @nairoj5007
    @nairoj5007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Another great way to show intent is to just talk to a girl about common things, and in the mean time look at her thinking " i would do you " or " you are beautiful." Most of the time they will get the hint too, some might even flirt back non verbally

  • @ek3241
    @ek3241 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for everything Todd

  • @stephan2176
    @stephan2176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Its good but to me sounds like to much game playing. Being just my self and do or say what want is better.

  • @mexicanlucky
    @mexicanlucky 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would add that keeping the objective present shouldn't be taken lightly. For example, hot chick, third date, starts playing games or flaking, I get pissed, I tell her I would never be her BF or marry her and cut her off... All the emotional roller coaster has made me lose focus on the primary intent, which was? Getting inside of her! Sheesh how difficult is that genius?! (talking to myself).

  • @MochitoMaker
    @MochitoMaker 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    smiles: "Hey, what's up, it's Todd and..."
    *smile vanishes*

  • @marcusmiles4234
    @marcusmiles4234 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fucking A Todd you’ve helped me in so many ways man. Thank you

  • @dzllz
    @dzllz 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cinematography on point!

  • @Chainman7
    @Chainman7 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    If that's the case then how do you cause negative emotional spikes?

  • @jackwilliam8167
    @jackwilliam8167 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Compared women to dogs in a very practical way.... nice

    • @williamtim5893
      @williamtim5893 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The explanation is so logical sound too

  • @sedated33
    @sedated33 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What camera do you use bro?

  • @lcardentey57
    @lcardentey57 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Todd make a video on how to implement the system in college.

  • @darkdestiny3700
    @darkdestiny3700 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Todd is there a point to texting a girl I'm going on a date with this coming Monday if I see her pretty much Monday through Friday in college?

  • @charlesluberisse4737
    @charlesluberisse4737 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you explain the difference when being overly confidence/entitled is necessary and not.

  • @ohno837
    @ohno837 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great content Todd. How does one schedule a Skype consultation with you?

    • @ToddVDating
      @ToddVDating  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      email todd@toddvdating.com

  • @chrisa9877
    @chrisa9877 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Todd.
    When you disqualify, how to respond if she tells you something that disqualifies her according to your standards (or mine) but you still want that one night stand with her? Or alternately you found out that you hate her already and you want to flee how to do that either?

  • @jment34
    @jment34 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is too complicated and difficult to do for a normal guy. It takes advanced social skills and a lot of studying and applying psychology.

    • @stefanv5972
      @stefanv5972 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And a lot of fucking creativity to come up with those things

  • @kehbab
    @kehbab 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know what i wore yesterday cuz u keep a journal, of what i wear when i last had it on and who i encouter throughout the day

  • @kazz5742
    @kazz5742 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am slightly confused, aren't we trying to show premise though?

  • @jeremyemilio9378
    @jeremyemilio9378 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if I do remember most things like what I wore yesterday and every conversation I had dating years and years back tho?
    You don't think it exists but some people just can't forget

  • @stephenhughes5156
    @stephenhughes5156 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    In the email, you say that most guys that go direct come off as needy.
    But going by the video, direct game isn’t necessarily needy right?

  • @vinesco5270
    @vinesco5270 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The word "entitled" throws me off a bit because its usually has a negative connotation, but youre using it with positive connotation. I was expecting you to say how being entitled is worse than being needy.

  • @alexsohn2648
    @alexsohn2648 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank god for Todd 🙏🏻 no more shitty three hour long non relevant or humorous Tyler metaphors with rsd Luke laughing annoyingly.

  • @mr12aT
    @mr12aT 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is awesome stuff Todd!

  • @viktorsocial
    @viktorsocial 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Todd, you are a busy guy, who has alot of commitment in many areas - how do you manage your time and focus around picking up girls and doing other things? Could you maybe do a video about guys that have alot going on in their Life? I'm currently struggling with that alot myself, I'm happy with where I've got with PickUp so far, but I absolutely need to fix other areas of my Life, and I've paused the dating aspect. The thing is - i know I can get all of where I was again, but at the same time, I wonder how successful people do it, because surely enough - we all have 24h hours and there are people that are absolutely crushing it and are more busy than me. So there must be something that im missing. I'm in college, working part time to survive and keep studying, gotta care about my family and what not, I don't waste time on TV, Soc media, etc, i barely get my 7h of sleep. I think I could be doing something wrong. Any time advice?

  • @miget3
    @miget3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "omg how dare you compare women to an animal!"
    HUMANS ARE ANIMALS HO