Hooking a girl's attention (and interest) is one of the most essential skills in game. Yet somehow it's one that almost nobody (including those who teach game) are any good at! This type of information (what to say and how to communicate) is a part of game known as "Verbal Game". For more on that, check out verbalgameacademy.com
Hey Todd would you ever consider doing Subscriber challenges on your channel? It would be awesome to see your perspective though I know you have done this many times.
My future son: "Dad, why my sister's name is Rose?" Me: "Because your mother loves roses." My future son: "Thanks Dad" Me: "No problem, Verbal Game Academy"
Finally a detailed video about hooking a set(which nobody in the community talks about). I started out with M3 model but all it told me is to tell DHV stories after opener and it never worked because why would a girl be interested in hearing a stranger's story?! This method makes more sense. Thanks a lot Todd I really needed it!
FOCUS - Call her attention. "Hey, excuse me", often does the work RELEVANCE - If it's about her, it's relevant. Do a mini cold read about her EMOTION - Time to start inserting a man-to-woman nature do the conversation, like the famous "you look like trouble" DECISION - She decides that she wants to stay. In the video, there was no objection from her part to Todd sitting and she introduced herself after Todd.
@@AyushSingh-wz9lwort of. It has to be relevant to the interaction as a stranger. If you see her on grass and she has some tennis shoes, you could compliment her shoes; then you could imply if she does sports. These are good ice breaker questions and/or observations. This is the art of conversation and intent. So, if she is wearing a dress and it’s hot, you could compliment her dress and mention how hot it is outside. Or if she has decorated jeans, you could comment how she might be creatively dressed and tie that to if she is an artist or does something creative. Revelance means importance and it’s a smooth way of showing insight to information. Good conversations exchange information smoothly and implies intent & progression.
@@lilflash3686 Girls will always talk about their style, driving force behind it, etc. I got rejected 48hrs ago, but when I approached her and mentioned her style, she lit up. I should have asked at least a question to follow that up versus false time constraint, etc. She looked me up and down. She's sort of got some edge to her and I'm a clean cut all american whiteboy...so, I think she felt I may have been too conservative...anyway, she loved that I mentioned her style and it was a super easy open.
The FRED system is similar to the AIDA system for marketing/sales -> Awareness/Attention, Interest, Desire, Action. There's a good deal of literature out there if anyone's interested in further reading, I've always found sales stuff is pretty relevant to general human interaction. Also made me think of Alec Baldwin's scene in Glengarry Glen Ross. "You know what it takes to talk to women? It takes brass balls to talk to women."
Great video, with most of the pickup world having moved away from scripted game I feel like we've also lost a lot of the integral pieces that came out of that era, like getting to the hook point and locking in. Other important things are group openers, merging sets and dealing with amogs, really fundamental things that are just gonna happen time and again if you're going out for a few hours 4-5 nights a week. Thanks for drawing our focus to something relevant. I feel driven now to improve this early aspect of interactions
Don't forget if they don't respond in a way that's attraction, it could straight up be she's nervous. Or even intimidated if she perceives high value in you.
A friend recommended this video to me, and it looks like you are overthinking it. Just go for it! If you embarrass yourself it's fine. You're unlikely to run into that person ever again.
Your overall approach and technique seem logical and likely to be effective. I just question starting with "adorably," "adorable," and "you look like you could be trouble." The first two are, like, "Hi, I'm here to pick you up (and I'm not Uber)!" The second is, like, "Wow, Kreskin [showing my age], you can read that deep into my personality after just 20 seconds, of which YOU were speaking for 16 of them!?" She responded positively, though. It would be nice to see where the rest of the convo went.
You gotta find your flow and things you would say that aligns with you.Just follow todd rules and apply it to yourself. you can find infield of todd which helps but you gotta make sure you practice in person.
@@abdoulgueye8630 I think there is room to both understand/respect the process and also question the timing and application of certain words/ideas that MAY just as well be perceived as creepy and cheesy as cute and playful. My perspective is that, in a neutral zone (like a park), an attractive, single woman, who is not signaling, is being exceptionally nice to let a stranger engage her, sit by her, and take her time. Immediate (and conflicting) comments about how she has been perceived by a stranger as "adorable" but "trouble" just seem premature and a little disrespectful.
You are literally the most sensible person in this comments section. Yes you are correct to not do that gamey line shit. The girl literally had the most awkward laugh when he opened. The convo cut off because there is no way he got the number. Why should we believe from him that she's interested without seeing the number close.
@@stonalisa3729 Thank you much for the compliment, Stona. Your comments are quite "sensible," too. Not objecting to Todd sitting down, and exchanging first names barely qualifies as "interested." Todd may eventually have gotten to Decision ("sale" or "transaction"), but we don't see it. I'm sure these cold approaches are always long shots. After a second viewing, I was thinking that, when she says, "I'm definitely trouble," it could just as much be a "so watch your step" move as a return flirt. As a female (I assume), what's your take on that?
I wish you sold a program to teach guys this. I paid for your program that you had but never got anything on your end. I sent your support 3 emails but never heard back
Ok awesome I love this! Thanks Todd! What’s next after the decision? Flirtatious banter and cold reads? Am I qualifying her? Do I find connection and interests we share that could be possible future date setups? You da man!!!
From Hello to Interested Everytime ToddVDating Hooking Made Easy : Have you experienced - Being Ignored - Short Answers - Immediate Resistance All of these symptoms of not hooking the set. F. R. E. D Repeatable Hooking Structure Stamger to Enough Interested : 1-Do you have her Attention? 2- Does She Care? 3- Is She Compelled? 4- Decision OR Escalation ? Four Concrete Steps : 1- Focus - You must get her to pay attention to you. 2- Relevance - She needs to feel that whatever you're saying or you as a person in some way have relevance or meeting or Something in her Life. It needs to some tie to her in some way. 3- Emotion - Is she complled to that? Is She have some emotion behind it. 4- Decision - She decides that She wants to Stay.
Sounds like teasing is the simplest way to create emotion, or even just saying how you feel and state transference to the girl (as long as it man to woman) . If you make her feel something based on something relevant to her she’s likely to decide to continue speaking with you. (As long as you’re not too weird or offensive)
Todd - question for you I think would be good for a video.. once one gets into pick up/game there tends to be a phenomenon where one is constantly cognizant of themselves (not saying self conscious), in other words while they’re in set the “game” is always in their mind. Even when you find the natural aspects of your personality to convey, this tends to still persist. What are your thoughts on this inherent phenomenon and what suggestions do you have to balance it out?
Omg yes. +1. Please shed some light into this. It seems the more I learn the more I am in my head and the more I think about "what's the best thing to say here" and forget to be normal... it feels like if I slip I'll go back into either "too nice guy" state or become incongruent. So for example one of the mistakes I do right now is I make it too playful as I keep amusing myself and coming up with push-pulls and mysterious/curious things to say that she gets hooked and am not sure when to actually let her have some Wins and get past the Hook part.
@@cellshaded I think the best thing to do here is to stop consuming this type of content for awhile, especially if you’re like me and you’ve heard pretty much all the “theory”. Have a deep trust in yourself that you’ll reflexively know what to do and that everything you need to know is already ingrained in your mind. “We ain’t talking about the game, we talkin bout practice”
new to the channel, does todd have vids on failed attempts and breakdowns of why he failed? and what happened at the end of this interaction with the girl in this vid
He never mentions his failures however you can tell base on his interactions nothing will happen at the end. Just editing giving you the impression of a success story.
hey sir im hard of hearing profound and would i be succesful with dating life? only my concern is that ove dating some but after 6 month of relationship they would just leave me, is it because i wouldnt understand what she say sometimes?
Dear all-knowing supreme genius, Off-topic, but could you explain the paradox of persistence in game from a female psychology standpoint? Given all we know about what entails "good game" (= getting her to chase), how is it possible for a girl to fall into your frame when she already knows she has you, thinks you're in love with her, and sees you as a sure thing? Is it possible for her to actually start liking you for who you are instead of some intangible value gap? Simps all around the world could use some technical tricks on how to make this work, or some common errors to avoid... because for most guys this strategy leads to a frustrating trainwreck and subsequent hatred for women. I know you've talked about this before but you never really explain why and how persistence works, or what the girl's experience of it is. ... personally, I'd also like to know if this means romance isn't dead after all in your eyes :p
Very good question. As a non-experienced guy, I would say that you gotta increase your value by seeing other girls (if you can), improving your style, carreer, being generally more social, having more money (for a better lifestyle). However don't do this improvent for girls, but for yourself, otherwise it won't work. In my eyes romance isn't dead, but after knowing game, it loses the image it had in the past, since it's almost everything about power and if you lose the power, you're done. So, romance may exist, but power is more important.
@@thisisrandomphrase thanks for your reply! I must confess the simp angle was only meant to push his buttons haha. He hates the redpill, and has admitted to being a professional simp himself. What I'm actually asking for though are some tactics for when you already are a high value guy & you already have options, but then you meet that one girl you "actually like" and she can feel it. At that point you no longer have to increase your value, you just have to know what the fuck you're doing. (Since posting my question I've realized he answered most of it already though, in bits and pieces.)
@@thisisrandomphrase For IRL situations disqualification is key. But the trainwrecks I mention actually tend to happen in text. Guys just lose their shit when they get ghosted. The "value-offering text" technique in response to silence is in my eyes the most advanced technique in the entire arsenal of game. It's what allows you to juggle a rotation, it's what can get a girl to like you when she disliked you before, it's what makes you rise above the rest in online game, and - when done with a girl you "actually like" - it should also be completely congruent to your personality, because if she doesn't like your personality then why would you "actually like" her in the first place? Depending on how long you persist with this, it does start to look a lot like simping though, and you're basically just hanging on until she gets dumped by some other guy.
@@jeroenbauwens1986 I agree mostly and yeah, I think it's part of game to keep chatting with her. There's always gonna be some guy who was fucking her before you and if she's worth it, you can continue offering value.
I started to go out for the last two weeks at night to bars and met a lot of girls. I have no problem opening groups or groups includes guys or lonely girls which is big for me on its own. The problem I have is that even though I try to use the lines and mindset I see you use I get negative respond most of the time. Even when I feel like the girl is hooked, I don't go further than an instagram or number that leads nowhere. I feel like I am doing it man to woman.(I think on comfort-value spectrum my value is not good enough to them but what is your comment on that?) A side question is that I have been more successful when I go approach alone. But when I have a wingman the results are usually worse. Is there any logical explanations to this? I know these questions will be lost under the pile of comments but I would appreciate it If you gave answers.
don't use pickup lines. Gamey lines will literally work against you. "Hi can I meet you real quick" is far better as an opener and won't make the girl think "oh great. another weird ass pickup artist guy"
when you talk to the gril "soft" set up the date during th einteraction so there is a logical reason for her to GIVE the number. If you get just the number it will be mopre work and you can become a pen pal
You need to be honest if your wingman even has good game. If you both are watching this guy with no results I would just stop. Back away. And access the shortcomings. Are they being a creep with gamey lines? are they entertaining the group and leading the conversation, or are they just letting you do most of the work? Are the girls watching you two "scan" the room and work up confidence, yes girls notice this shit. Hope this helps.
@@stonalisa3729Never thought about women looking for men who are scanning the room. Good point. I scan every room I am in regardless of time of day or location and get to know who I am in the room with. I think it is important to move around and not stay in one place otherwise people start to notice your more and hone in on your negative traits.
Was a number exchanged? Did you guys meetup again? To me this is just casual talking, how did you push for her contact info? I've had plenty of these interactions where it seems like she's interested, but asking for contact info she'll play hard to get.
Interested "every" time is misleading because you can't get every single girl's interest you approach. It's still a numbers game at the end if the day. Even the best coachs don't have a 100% hook success rate. Some girls might not be in the mood,might not find you attractive etc
I would have prolly been richer than I am now if I had given ears to random advice on TH-cam on stocks investment and trading earlier but all the best I'm good
How does one go from extremely anxious and awkward to such high confidence? Is it trail and error? I wouldn’t be able to ask a cute girl for directions let alone to hook up. How can i over come this fear?
Doing pickup will desensitize you real fast. If you want to do it the slow and nervous way, I recommend learning to strike up conversations with random people and working yourself towards hot girls over some time,
I spent most of my early to mid 20s doing cold sales from door knocking to call centre stuff. When first get into cold sales it is petrifying you feel like you are going to die approaching strangers to sell them something they never even thinking of buying. Over time it gets slightly easier but there is never a time where you aren't crapping yourself at the beginning. What you learn to do is spend less time pacing and just rip the band-aid straight off ASAP the less time you ponder the less time you have for the anxiety to fester
And then...part 2, "last time I talked about the FRED model, BUT that was the process of what the girl does. Model for what you would do is called FAME."
Hooking a girl's attention (and interest) is one of the most essential skills in game. Yet somehow it's one that almost nobody (including those who teach game) are any good at! This type of information (what to say and how to communicate) is a part of game known as "Verbal Game". For more on that, check out verbalgameacademy.com
Hey Todd can you do a video on escalation in day game and night game
This was a video I didn't know I needed: explaining FRED and breaking it down in infield. I'm all for this 👍🏾 thanks
Todd you are amazing thank you
please stop promoting Todd and just release the product. We're ready!
Hey Todd would you ever consider doing Subscriber challenges on your channel? It would be awesome to see your perspective though I know you have done this many times.
Todd, you look adorably studious in this video
Why do you want to hook Todd
@@_Trakman Bruh.
Whats atudious?
@@slickcatricky7694 studious?? A serious person who studies consistently I would say
@@maelerose5807 ah I get it.thanks!
My future son: "Dad, why my sister's name is Rose?"
Me: "Because your mother loves roses."
My future son: "Thanks Dad"
Me: "No problem, Verbal Game Academy"
Lol the fact that the son questioned about the sisters name and not why the heck his own name is Varbal Game Academy is hilarious in itself
Meant to say "Verbal"
Lol, that joke was over my head until I read the replies...
@@ToddVDating should change my son name to "Getting replied by Todd"
"And why is my name Fred?"
Finally a detailed video about hooking a set(which nobody in the community talks about). I started out with M3 model but all it told me is to tell DHV stories after opener and it never worked because why would a girl be interested in hearing a stranger's story?! This method makes more sense. Thanks a lot Todd I really needed it!
Thanks, Todd. Your content is so amazing. I am consistently using your stuff on my wife of 12 years. She loves it. Keep up the good work.
Man, props to you for taking care of marriage. True G!
😂 🤦♂️
FOCUS - Call her attention. "Hey, excuse me", often does the work
RELEVANCE - If it's about her, it's relevant. Do a mini cold read about her
EMOTION - Time to start inserting a man-to-woman nature do the conversation, like the famous "you look like trouble"
DECISION - She decides that she wants to stay. In the video, there was no objection from her part to Todd sitting and she introduced herself after Todd.
complimenting her about anything for eg: like her dress or shoes will bring relevance?? Pls answer
@@AyushSingh-wz9lw yes bro, due to the fact that it’s about her. With my game I’d rather instead of compliment, ask a question about her style etc.
@@AyushSingh-wz9lwort of. It has to be relevant to the interaction as a stranger. If you see her on grass and she has some tennis shoes, you could compliment her shoes; then you could imply if she does sports.
These are good ice breaker questions and/or observations.
This is the art of conversation and intent.
So, if she is wearing a dress and it’s hot, you could compliment her dress and mention how hot it is outside.
Or if she has decorated jeans, you could comment how she might be creatively dressed and tie that to if she is an artist or does something creative.
Revelance means importance and it’s a smooth way of showing insight to information.
Good conversations exchange information smoothly and implies intent & progression.
@@lilflash3686 Girls will always talk about their style, driving force behind it, etc. I got rejected 48hrs ago, but when I approached her and mentioned her style, she lit up. I should have asked at least a question to follow that up versus false time constraint, etc. She looked me up and down. She's sort of got some edge to her and I'm a clean cut all american whiteboy...so, I think she felt I may have been too conservative...anyway, she loved that I mentioned her style and it was a super easy open.
@@robwithrbk aye, I’m helping ppl from a 2yr old comment. Let’s all win!🦾
I wish I could thank this guy personally he game has changed my life
I get a buzz every time I read infield breakdown
The FRED system is similar to the AIDA system for marketing/sales -> Awareness/Attention, Interest, Desire, Action. There's a good deal of literature out there if anyone's interested in further reading, I've always found sales stuff is pretty relevant to general human interaction.
Also made me think of Alec Baldwin's scene in Glengarry Glen Ross. "You know what it takes to talk to women? It takes brass balls to talk to women."
thanks! which books would you recommend on AIDA?
We need the books, please tell us
Great video, with most of the pickup world having moved away from scripted game I feel like we've also lost a lot of the integral pieces that came out of that era, like getting to the hook point and locking in. Other important things are group openers, merging sets and dealing with amogs, really fundamental things that are just gonna happen time and again if you're going out for a few hours 4-5 nights a week. Thanks for drawing our focus to something relevant. I feel driven now to improve this early aspect of interactions
Don't forget if they don't respond in a way that's attraction, it could straight up be she's nervous. Or even intimidated if she perceives high value in you.
Protect this man at all cost
Hook, line, and sinker approach.
MOAR INFIELD TODD!!
A friend recommended this video to me, and it looks like you are overthinking it. Just go for it! If you embarrass yourself it's fine. You're unlikely to run into that person ever again.
Todd "Trouble" Valentine
My biggest takeaway from the infield is your TONE.
Great content. 1000% more applicable than other dating channels.
You look like trouble. Never gets old 😅
When she said " Im DEFINITELY trouble" validating herself... Todd knew it was game over for her
@@a.zennnn1206 truee eh
I saw a bio on Tinder the other day "Stop telling me I look like trouble.". The jig is up!
When i was starting, your model helped me a lot in hooking, i prefer the *FAME* model that you made. Thanks man.
What's that stand for
What does that stand for bro?
@@bobopatchnosuke229 Focus Arrogance Maintain Escalate,
I also explained it in the video i made about Todd.
@@KingCol I'll watch it, thanks
Todd, I enjoyed the video but was also wondering if you felt like you were talking too quickly in during the infield.
FRED! That’s me!
Tut tut, Todd didn't say he's got to go in a minute 😜
He did say he has to go soon but not 1 minute.
Tried your FRED method to her. Didn't work. Got a slap and "What the hell's gotten into you??!!", yelled my wife.
Todd please just take my money and release this product this weekend. I'd like to apply some verbal game asap :)
Your overall approach and technique seem logical and likely to be effective. I just question starting with "adorably," "adorable," and "you look like you could be trouble." The first two are, like, "Hi, I'm here to pick you up (and I'm not Uber)!" The second is, like, "Wow, Kreskin [showing my age], you can read that deep into my personality after just 20 seconds, of which YOU were speaking for 16 of them!?" She responded positively, though. It would be nice to see where the rest of the convo went.
You gotta find your flow and things you would say that aligns with you.Just follow todd rules and apply it to yourself. you can find infield of todd which helps but you gotta make sure you practice in person.
@@abdoulgueye8630 I think there is room to both understand/respect the process and also question the timing and application of certain words/ideas that MAY just as well be perceived as creepy and cheesy as cute and playful.
My perspective is that, in a neutral zone (like a park), an attractive, single woman, who is not signaling, is being exceptionally nice to let a stranger engage her, sit by her, and take her time. Immediate (and conflicting) comments about how she has been perceived by a stranger as "adorable" but "trouble" just seem premature and a little disrespectful.
You are literally the most sensible person in this comments section. Yes you are correct to not do that gamey line shit. The girl literally had the most awkward laugh when he opened. The convo cut off because there is no way he got the number. Why should we believe from him that she's interested without seeing the number close.
@@abdoulgueye8630 Plenty of his infields show girls not interested in his weirdness.
@@stonalisa3729 Thank you much for the compliment, Stona. Your comments are quite "sensible," too. Not objecting to Todd sitting down, and exchanging first names barely qualifies as "interested." Todd may eventually have gotten to Decision ("sale" or "transaction"), but we don't see it. I'm sure these cold approaches are always long shots. After a second viewing, I was thinking that, when she says, "I'm definitely trouble," it could just as much be a "so watch your step" move as a return flirt. As a female (I assume), what's your take on that?
I know about value and treat already but how do i make a conversation a treat for the girl.
My dawg had film breakdown lmaooo he’s solidified
Do you have a video in which we can watch a full interaction? From hello to a close?
I wish you sold a program to teach guys this. I paid for your program that you had but never got anything on your end. I sent your support 3 emails but never heard back
I have experienced all of the three scenarios
Ok awesome I love this! Thanks Todd! What’s next after the decision? Flirtatious banter and cold reads? Am I qualifying her? Do I find connection and interests we share that could be possible future date setups? You da man!!!
From Hello to Interested Everytime ToddVDating
Hooking Made Easy :
Have you experienced
- Being Ignored
- Short Answers
- Immediate Resistance
All of these symptoms of not hooking the set.
F. R. E. D Repeatable Hooking Structure
Stamger to Enough Interested :
1-Do you have her Attention?
2- Does She Care?
3- Is She Compelled?
4- Decision OR Escalation ?
Four Concrete Steps :
1- Focus
- You must get her to pay attention to you.
2- Relevance
- She needs to feel that whatever you're saying or you as a person in some way have relevance or meeting or Something in her Life. It needs to some tie to her in some way.
3- Emotion
- Is she complled to that? Is She have some emotion behind it.
4- Decision
- She decides that She wants to Stay.
Congrats on the success
Haha Todd have u applied the AIDA concept here to pick up?
Please make a comparison video of the FRED system vs the DENNIS system.
Where's the dude that usually summarizes everything in a comment?
Definitely the best content outhere
thanks a bunch for this one
Great content, this stuff surprisingly works.
Master of game
showsome more vids how exactly showing premise and how to setupa casual frame
Yo Todd. When are you going to make a video about how to apply have to a coworker
A video on creating connection todd
Right on. Great video
Thanks 👍
Great stuff for this hard time after pandemic.
Way way better break down. Thank you 👍
I'm waiting on the verbal game to drop
Sounds like teasing is the simplest way to create emotion, or even just saying how you feel and state transference to the girl (as long as it man to woman) . If you make her feel something based on something relevant to her she’s likely to decide to continue speaking with you. (As long as you’re not too weird or offensive)
Todd just take my money and release VGA
When in reality she be saying to Todd you look like trouble 😂
thanks todd
How many black shirts you have todd?
Just the one by the looks of it. I was looking at this too
Todd - question for you I think would be good for a video.. once one gets into pick up/game there tends to be a phenomenon where one is constantly cognizant of themselves (not saying self conscious), in other words while they’re in set the “game” is always in their mind. Even when you find the natural aspects of your personality to convey, this tends to still persist. What are your thoughts on this inherent phenomenon and what suggestions do you have to balance it out?
Omg yes. +1. Please shed some light into this. It seems the more I learn the more I am in my head and the more I think about "what's the best thing to say here" and forget to be normal... it feels like if I slip I'll go back into either "too nice guy" state or become incongruent. So for example one of the mistakes I do right now is I make it too playful as I keep amusing myself and coming up with push-pulls and mysterious/curious things to say that she gets hooked and am not sure when to actually let her have some Wins and get past the Hook part.
@@cellshaded I think the best thing to do here is to stop consuming this type of content for awhile, especially if you’re like me and you’ve heard pretty much all the “theory”. Have a deep trust in yourself that you’ll reflexively know what to do and that everything you need to know is already ingrained in your mind. “We ain’t talking about the game, we talkin bout practice”
new to the channel, does todd have vids on failed attempts and breakdowns of why he failed? and what happened at the end of this interaction with the girl in this vid
He never mentions his failures however you can tell base on his interactions nothing will happen at the end. Just editing giving you the impression of a success story.
Can I use it with boys?
hey sir im hard of hearing profound and would i be succesful with dating life? only my concern is that ove dating some but after 6 month of relationship they would just leave me, is it because i wouldnt understand what she say sometimes?
Thanks for sharing bro
On a general sense why would a girl leave you on delivered even if she seems interested and asked for your number(not just one girl).
Because she is just Bullshitting on you playing around bro. Which in reality she has a side guy affair in most cases they do it man.
Dear all-knowing supreme genius,
Off-topic, but could you explain the paradox of persistence in game from a female psychology standpoint?
Given all we know about what entails "good game" (= getting her to chase), how is it possible for a girl to fall into your frame when she already knows she has you, thinks you're in love with her, and sees you as a sure thing? Is it possible for her to actually start liking you for who you are instead of some intangible value gap?
Simps all around the world could use some technical tricks on how to make this work, or some common errors to avoid... because for most guys this strategy leads to a frustrating trainwreck and subsequent hatred for women.
I know you've talked about this before but you never really explain why and how persistence works, or what the girl's experience of it is.
... personally, I'd also like to know if this means romance isn't dead after all in your eyes :p
Very good question. As a non-experienced guy, I would say that you gotta increase your value by seeing other girls (if you can), improving your style, carreer, being generally more social, having more money (for a better lifestyle). However don't do this improvent for girls, but for yourself, otherwise it won't work.
In my eyes romance isn't dead, but after knowing game, it loses the image it had in the past, since it's almost everything about power and if you lose the power, you're done. So, romance may exist, but power is more important.
@@thisisrandomphrase thanks for your reply! I must confess the simp angle was only meant to push his buttons haha. He hates the redpill, and has admitted to being a professional simp himself. What I'm actually asking for though are some tactics for when you already are a high value guy & you already have options, but then you meet that one girl you "actually like" and she can feel it. At that point you no longer have to increase your value, you just have to know what the fuck you're doing. (Since posting my question I've realized he answered most of it already though, in bits and pieces.)
@@jeroenbauwens1986 What you mean with "the fuck you're doing"? And who is he? Who's admitted being a simp?
@@thisisrandomphrase For IRL situations disqualification is key. But the trainwrecks I mention actually tend to happen in text. Guys just lose their shit when they get ghosted. The "value-offering text" technique in response to silence is in my eyes the most advanced technique in the entire arsenal of game. It's what allows you to juggle a rotation, it's what can get a girl to like you when she disliked you before, it's what makes you rise above the rest in online game, and - when done with a girl you "actually like" - it should also be completely congruent to your personality, because if she doesn't like your personality then why would you "actually like" her in the first place? Depending on how long you persist with this, it does start to look a lot like simping though, and you're basically just hanging on until she gets dumped by some other guy.
@@jeroenbauwens1986 I agree mostly and yeah, I think it's part of game to keep chatting with her. There's always gonna be some guy who was fucking her before you and if she's worth it, you can continue offering value.
I started to go out for the last two weeks at night to bars and met a lot of girls. I have no problem opening groups or groups includes guys or lonely girls which is big for me on its own. The problem I have is that even though I try to use the lines and mindset I see you use I get negative respond most of the time. Even when I feel like the girl is hooked, I don't go further than an instagram or number that leads nowhere. I feel like I am doing it man to woman.(I think on comfort-value spectrum my value is not good enough to them but what is your comment on that?)
A side question is that I have been more successful when I go approach alone. But when I have a wingman the results are usually worse. Is there any logical explanations to this? I know these questions will be lost under the pile of comments but I would appreciate it If you gave answers.
don't use pickup lines. Gamey lines will literally work against you. "Hi can I meet you real quick" is far better as an opener and won't make the girl think "oh great. another weird ass pickup artist guy"
when you talk to the gril "soft" set up the date during th einteraction so there is a logical reason for her to GIVE the number. If you get just the number it will be mopre work and you can become a pen pal
You need to be honest if your wingman even has good game. If you both are watching this guy with no results I would just stop. Back away. And access the shortcomings. Are they being a creep with gamey lines? are they entertaining the group and leading the conversation, or are they just letting you do most of the work? Are the girls watching you two "scan" the room and work up confidence, yes girls notice this shit. Hope this helps.
@@stonalisa3729Never thought about women looking for men who are scanning the room. Good point. I scan every room I am in regardless of time of day or location and get to know who I am in the room with. I think it is important to move around and not stay in one place otherwise people start to notice your more and hone in on your negative traits.
Next level shit man
You da man
If i convey premise, high value and tease can i also have a hook?
Did he get the digits ?
Trouble, you look like hey
Was a number exchanged? Did you guys meetup again? To me this is just casual talking, how did you push for her contact info? I've had plenty of these interactions where it seems like she's interested, but asking for contact info she'll play hard to get.
we ain’t playing hard to get , we think you’re creepy for coming up to us
Change it to the F.R.I.E.N.D. model and its good!
I wish Todd was my dad.
Then Todd would steal your girl
He is probably a few peoples dads 🤣
Do you have in person training?
yes. email todd@toddvdating.com and someone on my team can give you details about live-coaching.
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Lol she didn’t know what screenplay meant…definitely a MENSA member
Helps
Boss level
I wanted to like this but it's way to technical and conceptual.. You look like trouble on daygame? Night game yep but not daygame.. Next
Unskippable two ads to watch this? Yikes
Is this dude modern casanova
Not Hooking Well !!!! , or Maybe they simply are NOT interested in even talking to You.
Dude.... this is fucking epic. 🔥
Interested "every" time is misleading because you can't get every single girl's interest you approach. It's still a numbers game at the end if the day. Even the best coachs don't have a 100% hook success rate. Some girls might not be in the mood,might not find you attractive etc
It’s for the title bro, it’s marketing reasons, plus even if it’s not guaranteed, it’s guaranteed to work most of the time
@@escetity ik it is clickbait to market better,but that kinda irks me so I had to point it out haha
If you watch the video the girl doesn't even seem interested in Todd. You can hear the awkwardness in her laugh when she opened. This system is shit
Despites the economic crisis, this is a Still a good time to invest in Gold and Crypto
The rich spend less and invest more
Investing in these economic crisis will be one of the best thing to do
I would have prolly been richer than I am now if I had given ears to random advice on TH-cam on stocks investment and trading earlier but all the best I'm good
Everyone should start financing in stocks I can remember when Tesla stock was just $20bucks
There are a lot of investing options, it really gets confusing getting a great investment to finance or trade on
Would love to see examples of the higher levels of hook.
The D.E.N.N.I.S. system
Doesn't feel smooth and you seem anxious on the approach
Hey , you look trouble = hooked.
I feel like calling a girl ‘trouble’ or something like that is a bit overused. It just seems like they’d have heard that a thousand times already.
How does one go from extremely anxious and awkward to such high confidence? Is it trail and error? I wouldn’t be able to ask a cute girl for directions let alone to hook up. How can i over come this fear?
Doing pickup will desensitize you real fast.
If you want to do it the slow and nervous way, I recommend learning to strike up conversations with random people and working yourself towards hot girls over some time,
@@leomoe433 thanks🙏
Just dont care.. that is the best thing to do 👌🏻😎
No.
False
If you don't care then why are you talking to them?
@@johnhurley8918 care about f***ing only.
@@mymadbone dont care about sex, its low value :)
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Who else cringing
I spent most of my early to mid 20s doing cold sales from door knocking to call centre stuff.
When first get into cold sales it is petrifying you feel like you are going to die approaching strangers to sell them something they never even thinking of buying.
Over time it gets slightly easier but there is never a time where you aren't crapping yourself at the beginning.
What you learn to do is spend less time pacing and just rip the band-aid straight off ASAP the less time you ponder the less time you have for the anxiety to fester
And then...part 2, "last time I talked about the FRED model, BUT that was the process of what the girl does. Model for what you would do is called FAME."
Someone knows their stuff!
lmao YT algorithm hella weird sometimes. why do all this when 30$ gets the job done.
Quoting Mac Miller here, “There’s one thing I don’t do, pay for pussy!”
Ima nekog iz Novog Sada ko hoce da gejmuje?
This.
but u didnt get her 😂
step number one: be attractive
Ron Jeremy.
I think if you opened with “you look adorably compelling” you could have just gotten her # right away… Overcomplicating things as always Todd lol
Todd, you used to be the best teacher but now it's too technical, addd more real case example
That's the point, the technical shit is what gets you to the next level
@@bobopatchnosuke229yep it's a business
This is so cringe. Just say hi and be genuine and funny. So simple
And I’m sure you’re swimming in options Kazar. Make a video about it
This video shouldn't be free
I think the same about all of Todd's vids
@@Heeect00rrr Thanks, guys :)
@@ToddVDating Doing God's work🙏🏼
@@Heeect00rrr Todd's Plan