Entitled Parents Came Back Apologizing After They Made a Facebook Post Berating How I'm Ungratefu...
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 พ.ค. 2024
- 00:00 1st story:
My (28/f) dog growled at my niece (3/f) after she spent an entire evening harassing him. Now my brother (31/m) wants me to put the dog down. (u/throwra_toddlerdog in r/relationship_advice)
08:48 2nd story:
AITA for embarrassing my parents for forgetting my birthday? (u/anon_78912 in r/AmItheAsshole)
17:36 2nd story:
Something went on between my (F32) husband (M32) and my sister (F26). What do I do? (throwRA-eifn in r/relationship_advice)
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OP’s brother goes to the zoo with his daughter.
Tiger growls at her
OP’s brother to the zoo keeper: oh my god i demand you put beast down.
I can imagine that happening, or even with a housecat, cuz cats have less patience than dogs when it comes to kids in some cases. Not all, but a lot, which I can relate to.
_"Dad hated seeing his wife so upset."_
His wife was upset because she realized she had forgotten her own daughter's birthday.
Great mindset by dad there.
8:15 the brother is an idiot, the little girl needs to learn how to behave with pets, for her safty.
Yes he needs to teach his daughter how to act around animals before she does something and actually gets hurt.
OP is definitely one of the best dog owners (pet owners in general) I've ever heard of in social media. Good on her for sticking up for her pet!
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No he isn't. He constantly allows his dog to be provoked by his niece and it didn't stop until the dog finally growled at her.
@@anubishound8179 You obviously did not listen to the entire story. OP did what she could to stop her niece, but her brother kept undoing all of that by disrespecting her and her decisions.
@@BPJD2004 So you deal with the brother as definitively as his own wife did later.
@@BPJD2004the op admitted they were wrong later tho
If I was OP at this point I’d say I AM criticizing his parenting
I brought 2 girls home to 2 pitbulls. Both dogs loved kids and the dogs would let a kid do anything to them. Still I didnt leave them alone together, as my girls didnt know the signals dogs can send.
My 2 nephews grew up with my cocker spaniel. He was a rescue, pretty messed up, but not aggressive. They were excellent with him, and did everything they were supposed to. Still, I kept my eye on them. It's just what you do🤷♀️
I have a huge lab we rescued from the streets, and she is the sweetest thing on the planet. THE ONLY time she's ever gotten mean was with my cousin's kid, who was trying to root her out of her spot. She didn't bite him, she nipped him, but not hard enough to break skin. Was his mom mad? Yes, but it was her own fault because she was on her phone, and not paying attention.
With regards to the first story, if I was SIL, I would tell the husband to back all the way off and apologize to his sibling for being an immature, overreactive moron who refuses to teach our child how to properly interact with an animal. The dog growled. Dogs growl. It is how they let you know to back off. Animal control would not put the dog down for growling at a child. The brother would probably instead be scolded for not teaching his daughter how to treat animals with respect. He is actively making things more dangerous for his daughter by refusing to do this.
Story 3: that's a sad story. Male victims of sa are afraid to speak up because no one believes them.
Story 2: shitty parents, made a mistake and blame their adult daughter.
The route to save face tho...that's enough to make me question my interactions with them. Getting yelled at for being attacked basically for no reason. I understand losing a family member but I'd have gone low contact after. They did it once, they can do it again.
Story 3:
Since society often views men as the villain we also confuse ourselves as the same. Often when a man is SA we often believe it is our fault.
It sad.
Moral. Of the story stop using illicit drugs.
@@NakaidaBeauzec unfortunately common sense is often anything but common.
@@NakaidaBeauzecthe moral of the story is that male victims need support and to not SA people no matter your state. I’ve been high on many occasions but I’ve never SAd someone while high, or at all for that matter. Being high doesn’t make you a bad person. Also in many places (like Canada and some states) weed is not illegal, because it is not as harmful as other drugs, being pretty equivalent to alcohol.
Committing a crime on weed is no different than committing a crime drunk. You still committed a crime and it is still not caused by the substance. This sounds the same as “you were both drinking so really he didn’t SA you” to a woman who tells you she was SAd at the bar or a party? Would you say that to a woman?
bc women totally dont get blamed for their SA experience. boohoo men sad.
@@NakaidaBeauzecthat’s what you got from that?
Story 2. OP is the family’s punching bag and is 100% fine with it… she’s been conditioned to accept being treated like shit by her family
Well she was all messed up she just buried her dad.
Grief is hard to deal with sometimes
@@juliearmfield2634and she took her grief out by emotionally abusing her daughter because she dared to have people actually care about her
@juliearmfield2634, that's no excuse. My mother died 5 days before my 21st birthday, and not only did they remember my birthday. They insisted we celebrate even though i didnt want to.
Story 1, boi op's brother is setting up his daughter to be harmed a random animal fr, and I'm sad for the kid since her dad don't realize it,
Dude They are not choosing a just a dog over your daughter, they know the dog isn't a threat, and you are refusing teach your child boundaries with animals and correcting her behavior,
Seriously how many dogs have to die to get though your skull, that no you are not right and you need to correct your daughters behavior man before she actually gets hurt.
Story 2, Nta and naw op's mom and dad are aholes, i understand grief (i have experienced, and I'm surprised I'm half ok still.),
But that behavior towards op was ridiculous, like y'all lied on op and yelled at her for no reason,
Everyone makes mistakes but own up to it and apologize.,
Last story, violence isn't always the answer but after finding out my sibling sa my partner and claiming it as "mistake",
like no, no, hell no i would have to resist from laying hands on, you disgusting self after what you did to my partner,
your not my sibling anymore at that point, your just a stranger that will catch the fade when i see you from now on,
and NO doing shit like that is not a mistake take that bs somewhere else.
S1: brother is traumatizing his daughter and setting her up for major failure.
S2: needs a public apology for true reconciliation
S3: husband needs to grow a spine. Don't let anyone destroy your family. Guy was ready to nuke it himself over guilt
"Can we meet and talk about this to resolve the situation as best we can?"
"I CANT BELIEVE YOU JUST WANT TO PRETEND THIS NEVER HAPPENED!!"
OP in story #2 is spineless. "My parents forgot my birthday AND threw me under the bus to save face, but they gave a weak apology with crocodile tears so we're cool now."
Story 1. The brother is 100% in the wrong here. He will not teach his daughter how not to respect the dog. Young children need to be taught not to annoy animals. I never allowed my children to climb all over dogs or pull their tails and ears. The brother needs to get it into his head that he should watch his child and not allow her to hurt animals. Young children don't automatically know that they are hurting an animal. That is why parents have to teach them how to treat animals.
Dude the bro who wants the dog put down needs to get a harsh reality check on his behavior he's a bad boy but the do is a good boy he just growled like bro you wanna be put down for yelling
Forgetting a birthday is one thing but the behavior was wrong.
Some people dont understand that dogs aren't people. They are dogs and that means they have their own instincts and ways of doing things.
You have to work with their behaviors.
Ignore them at your peril.
That being said. Golden Retrievers are the worlds most gentle breed of dog. To cause one to act out to a child, it must have been extreme and long-lasting abuse.
2nd story: I'd forgive, but parents would be on thin ice if it were me. It's one thing to forget a birthday during an emotional time like the death of a close family member, and the physical and emotional exhaustion that comes from a long trip and getting the house back in order (unpacking, grocery shopping, etc.). It's a TOTALLY different thing to be mad at someone for making a totally neutral post that doesn't even mention you about something YOU are in the wrong about. The normal thing to do is apologize to the wronged person (you can even give the above excuses) and say you'll make up for it.
The mother made a social media post that she thought OP would never see, that falsely called OP out as the guilty one in the situation, in a way that would make other family members think less of OP. She basically sacrificed her own child to make herself look better in the eyes of extended family and friends. And poor OP might have had those relationships negatively affected without any idea why if she didn't get notified of the post by mistake. Who does that?? The fact that their first two reactions to being called out for forgetting OP's birthday were 1) anger (at OP??), and 2) trying to manipulate and lie to seem like the real victims, has some serious DARVO energy that should not be easily brushed aside.
Yeah this is crazy....she is completely ignoring how shitty her parents were about this whole situation. Forgetting is fine, but everything else is not okay
@@reneeharper84 It makes me wonder if this really is out of character for them, or if it's the first time the behavior was overt enough for her to notice it.
That's what I thought too... what kind of mother just throws her child under the bus to avoid taking responsibilities of her own mistakes ?
I'd go low contact with them for a while and maybe forgive but certainly not forget. If they treat you like that over a minor issue, what will happen when it's a major one ?
OP is a doormat.
This just hits a little close for me because my birthday was fairly recent, and my girlfriend forgot completely until I told her a couple days after. It hurts, knowing you apparently aren't worth remembering about
I dont think the death of a loved one is an excuse to forget a birthday unless its your own, its okay to hold off on celebrating but not forgeting.
My dad and siblings didn't forget my birthday, which was 5 days after my mom died(in 2010, it was my 21st) of cancer. They even insisted I celebrated, probably as it was a milestone birthday.
So upset about the first story. That niece DESERVES to LEARN KINDNESS. its a learned behavior. Now she is going to learn the lesson by hurting people
Story 1 screw the brother the dog did nothing wrong growling is a dogs way of saying go away the brother needs to teach his kid to leave dogs alone glad OP isn't listening to him and putting the ( innocent) dog down
Oh. Come on as a mother you never forget giving birth.
God damn how is Opie from first story and Opie from Second Story so f****** weak if my mother ever did anything like that she'd be cut back out of my life I've been through and put up with a lot with my mother but forgetting my birthday and then trying to publicly guilt me as if she had remembered is b******* I wouldn't accept that from anyone clearly her parents don't give a f*** about her but their own face and relationship and then feeling so upset and sad because your brother wants you to put down your dog because he can't figure out how to teach his child what you can start teaching a child how to treat an animal correctly at the young as 4-months-old yeah both of these situations are relationship ending I wouldn't even want to be friends with somebody let alone acquaintances with somebody who demands a dog gets put down because their child doesn't know how to treat an animal because they refuse to be a parent and I wouldn't even want to associate with anybody who lies about remembering their own kids birthday just so they can guilt their child
Oh you just know the neice in Story One is going to be raised as a spoilt, entitled little princess.
17:19 If they really haven't done anything like this before, I could see it being a bullsh!t kaleidoscope they couldn't see a way out of. I just really hope it is the only time, because wow, this was WILD. Every step of this conflict was nuclear from the pin drop.
Story 1: OPs brother needs an IQ check or SOMETHING
S2 op is a spineless person your parents not only forgot your birthday but again this is the 2nd time they forgot
If the parents teach them how to treat animals, the parents are in the wrong
I remember I had my cat and I told my niece to stop messing with her or you'll get scratched like "you.'re gonna get scratched you cause you're messing with her" she got scratched She looked at me pikachu faced.And im like I told you 😂 went crying to her grandpa
S2:i am happy you resolved this out OP, i have never celebrated a birthday since i was 12 (i am 31 now).
I am the only one in my family that they always forget his birthday so i gave up on it.
Wish i would go back to my pre 12's childhood..
I'm sad for the birthday OP :c my grandfather forgot my graduation, called to scream at me and made me feel awful about it.
Story 1, if that child got a Lab to growl at her that child truly is a demon
🤬 the OP in the first story was MUCH calmer than I would have been if someone tried that with my furbaby. Yes kids don't know how to handle animals most of the time. It takes patience and training. Definitely not "oh no your dog growled at my daughter so put it down. Look at me handling this so much better than others would have that would have called animal control on your beast." Yeah no that is not handling it better at all. It is being an entitled ahole that doesn't want anything but their way done. I petsit and 1 of my clients has an aggressive dog. They know this and are worried about potential reactions like this and have me walk the pup so the pup keeps my scent and learns I am not a threat and a provider of treats instead. Sometimes I've noticed I moved to quickly for the pup and they react negatively. I don't blame the pup. It's how I acted that set the pup off so on me to fix it. Not "oh yeah your dog growled at me so put them down." Daughter needs to learn how to handle animals or suffer future consequences and be banned from the house.
In the USA people put down animals like is a sport. In my country even if the dog bite someone it's the court who decides if he is to put down or not.
And when the court decides to put down the animal you going to see many comments how he don't deserve thar and it's the fault of the person bitten or ir owner.
Was story 2 a sitcom? Sounds like the plot of a shitty sitcom
S3 is too sad. Men can be victims of SA and could be drugged as well. It wasn't something he didn't know could happen to a man by a woman. At least he took precautions in case OP didn't believe him and didn't realized they had cameras which led to a divorce
If you teach a child how to treat a dog, you have a better chance of this not happening
My child got bit by a friend's dog,it was her fault. I didn't blame the dog
S1 why is op bending over backwards to accommodate ah of a brother?
wtf is going on in that title
S2 op is a spineless person your parents not only forgot your birthday but again this is the 2nd time they forgot