Entitled Parents GIVE their Son's BIRTHDAY to his SPOILED LITTLE SISTER - Reddit Podcast
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0:00 My Entitled Parents take away my birthday for 8 years and give it to my sister instead, and I am so sick and tired of their favoritism. (u/Black-sheep-B-Boy)
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The fact that a 10 year old is throwing a tantrum over not getting an actual car that they can't even drive says a lot on how much the parents spoiled her
This kid's going to end up a serial killer because of his parents and his sister. And I totally don't blame him. By serial it just means you have to do the same thing to more than one. Mom dad sister. I can totally see this happening
An 8 year old actually. Though they still know they can't drive a car at this age
Edit:nvm that was a mistake she was 10
Another edit 5 months later: she is 8 years old
Wouldn’t she be 8? I totally agree tho lol
@@ronnas4592 I totally picture that child as one of those bleach blonde Children of the Corn babies from that movie in the late '80s early 90s.
@A Potato im 2 years old and I'm a grandpa
What the parents don't realize is that they may have ruined this poor guys childhood, but he gets to choose their nursing home.
the sister would probably scream at the parents to buy her a nursing home too!!!!
They better home he chooses the nursing home. It sounds like the daughter would leave them on the streets.
PREACH!!!
@@THY_LEMON_LORDLMAO!! Facts.
I hope he chooses the nursing home equivalent of how Alcatraz was to the prisoners. 😂
AN UPDATE!
The sister is so screwed in the head, that she got herself kicked out of boarding school. Picked fights, went on hunger strikes, self harmed. Now she's been committed to a psyche ward indefinitely. Diagnosed with narcissism and PTSD
Mom is no better, smuggling junk food while the sister was in boarding school, attacked dad when sister was sent to the psych ward. She got committed too!
Thank you for this update man
Wow just wow that girl and mum are so screwed up they both deserve to stay committed in there or at the very least mum needs to be sent to prison for that attack. Domestic violence is not ok
@@Nekogal21 mom has been released since
@alicedelgado955 I hope that dad is far away from her and the Satan spawn. Even if he contributed to their ways he didn't deserve that attack and is definitely not safe in the same house as her or same area. I also hope OP is continuing to live his happy self too
@Nekogal21 OP tried to get more info, but dad told him stay out of it and focus on his own life. The most he got was the sister thought about harming him and tried to make a scene the way OP did on her own birthday so she could go home and be a spoiled brat again. OP is currently in therapy
This story made my blood boil. Those parents can NEVER pay back the "Debt" they accrued by stealing the rest of his childhood birthdays.
Not just the birthday partys, everything was about her the places they went, who got blamed for things if I were that guy I'd never speak to my parents again
Bro if that happend to me first i would train marifcal arts and if my sister destoryed the car she would get the heaven says beating
@@nevaehfigaro5695nah I'd moved out asap I would also pick up the birthday cake and throw it at the sister.
For me my blood is not boiling
It has reached the state off being gas because it pissed me off that much
@@bahmautcat4317 my blood has became gravity
Man, Imagine the feeling of going to your spoiled sister's boarding school then just starts grinning at her till she screamed.
every time he gets something new he goes to visit her at school "look at this new computer I got"
Sister: screams at the top of her lungs
Principal: slaps a ruler into her hand
Sister: shuts up
OP: laughs "i see you've made progress"
Sister: glares
@@KaityKat117wow what a vivid assumption
@Lemons is not an assumption, it's a story of what I think would be a funny outcome.
I would just ignore her and forget that she is my sister and try to toon out the screaming by music and ignore her suffering I would literally feel nothing maybe satisfaction but maybe nothing.
@@KaityKat117 That sounds like something I would do to rub it in her face. Sadly, I think the sister is done for and will never ever grow out of it. Her overwhelming sense of arrogance has replaced her sense of pride and honor. How do I now? I knew a lady in her forties with two kids and became a grandmother in the time that we were friends, who behaved very much like the sister in this story whenever everything wasn't about her. So as to not to bury the lead, here is how her life turned out: her kids went no-contact, she has no relationship with her grandchildren and she's still married to her much beleaguered husband while she takes care of her mother-in-law. It's worth pointing out, her mother-in-law hates her guts and to say there is no love lost between them would be a gross understatement. She gets to wait on her mother-in-law hand and foot as she is called the b-word, the c-word and is reminded how she turned her kids into spoiled entitled brats while putting her own selfish wants, needs and desires above everything else
The grandparents did a better job than his actual parents. Glad they stepped up once they knew what was going on.
They said that they thought he was okay with it. He shouldn’t blame them, the parents most likely twisted it around. I wouldn’t be surprised if they said that OP insisted on it while the parents tried to let him have his birthday.
yeah, common grandparent W tbh
And now their grandson can build up his life again knowing his little sister is suffering because of her actions
@@onimatonimat_14mc16and to think. All of this happen because the little sister wasn’t gonna be born 😑
@@SDragonPVP yup that's crazy
These parents should’ve been charged with child neglect. WHO’S WITH ME?!
I'm with you! Those parents deserve to be charged!
Me
YES
@@Qunillious i wasn't focusing on the last part of what you said so i thought you said "those parents deserve to be hanged!"
YASS
Father's brother: what is wrong with you?
Father: nothing, I just...
Father's brother: just what, huh? You have completely neglected your own son for 8 years and for what?
Father: it was a bit of a mistake ok!
Father's brother: MISTAKE! Giving your son's birthday to your daughter was just a mistake?
Father: I ...well ...umm
Father's brother: as a dad, you're supposed to love all your kids, not just one. You should know this. That is not how dad and mom raised us. Why would you do this to your son?
Father: I'm sorry ok
Father's brother: too late. I'm embarrassed that I ever looked up to you.
The sad part is it’s not even the sisters fault.
Her parents raised her to think she’s entitled to not only have it be about her all the time but also she thinks she can get away with anything.
They have fucked this child up irreparably and she will live the rest of her life as a Karen
Damn that could be true
I also feel like sending her to boarding school was a mistake. They should have corrected their own parenting methods and reversed the damage they did themselves. Admittedly, I don't know much about boarding schools, but I don't really feel like she's not going to be safe there, and that other kids aren't going to be safe from her either. I feel like it's just another way for the parents to be lazy neglectful, and to not face up to the problems they created.
@@mowserbedowser5436 exactly they aren’t even trying to fix their mistakes they are just dumping her on someone else.
@@spencerbowden2979 I don't really think they would be able to truly correct their ways, at least at the boarding school she learns how to live in society and to have rules to respect
Just send the daughter to a mental asylum and put the parents in jail for the 8 years of child abuse and just make there be a week-long party for the OP because of 8 years of lost birthdays.
This is still one of my favorite quotes ever.
"Every child needs a parent,
Not all parents need a child."
These stories prove it 100%
My guy that's true
It's actually "every child deserves a parent.
But not all parents deserve a child".
@@pratikgaikwad7472 wat da diffence
Every parent needs a child, if not, they aren't parents.
@@BangladeshTheBest The person didn't include the "but" and they also said "need" instead of "deserve"
When he said his parents had the “don’t hate us” smile I would looked at them and said quietly “oh don’t worry I still do” along with having my hand down to my side flipping them off to not make it obvious.
I was holding tears at the first story, I actually feel more than horrible for this guys 18 years of hard work, just for his own parents to get rid of all of the possible stuff he could’ve ever had. I would literally donate 10k if I could to that guy.
I'll never understand why some parents just have this blatant favortism towards one of their kids and treat the others like slaves
In this case it stemmed from a traumatic, near death birth for both mother and child. Not an excuse I know but this is where it started IMO.
Bruh it's just a made up story.. But yes some parents are like this but probably not this extreme. I'm happy that my parents atlest acknowledge my existence.
@@InfestedSlab I don’t think that it’s made up.. because there really are such people out there and the brother of my friend is also the fav child of their parents. And it’s really bad in these places and really toxic
My two brothers where the golden children, and I was the slave
Same
The fact the father exploded on the son for ruining her "moment" is disgusting. It was his graduation and his birthday and it's still her moment.... i would slap both of them across the face and tell them i no longer have parents and they are dead to me. Then they can have their wonderful live with their golden child.
I know
It’s so unfair
Right! Mad at the 18year old teenager and for getting mad at his 18th birthday. His graduation party. That was not about him.
Mad that he got upset that we’re at a fucking kids club palace versus somewhere that he wanted to go to. They brought out of pink and white cake with 10 candles for her!
But the spoiled teenager was wrong for getting mad about that. 🙄
Hey guys can any of you report the mistake one 13:44
I would've been satisfied if they were charged with "Child neglect" and were sentenced to 100 years in prison
I remember this one story (the first I heard in this beautiful channel) about a mother trying to basically steal the son’s house for her spoiled daughter. In the end, the mother got separated from the daughter, and the daughter eventually became a a good person. I sincerely hope the daughter turn her life around.
I know which one you mean.
Grandparents in stories like these are awesome
I am so glad that the extended family actually acknowledged the fact they were oblivious and wrong for so many years because thats a hard skill that shows your kindness
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Yah not every family member is willing to look at the reality of the situation of their family. As someone who was in a sorta similar situation only a few have actually acknowledged it. I went to a funeral couple years back and I just got the stink eye from some since I stirred up family dirt.
my heart began to beat so fast when i heard all about these sons of a pickled bastard called parents this child had to deal with. the amount of pure s a t i s f a c t i o n i felt when the relatives chewed out his parents is immeasurable.
I was also very s a t i s f i e d
I only wish that it had happened before
When I heard him say that they we're cussing at them, I just imagined the parent's mental state
Damn the *s* *a* *t* *i* *s* *f* *a* *c* *t* *i* *o* *n* when the grandparents took care of the situation, there grandad was a g for the car
How s a t i s f y i n g
This kind of made me tear up just because of how unjust it was, I can almost feel the negligence through the screen
This story makes me go crazy!!! I would have never put up with that for the first year! I can’t imagine what that was like!
This type of stuff is literally unforgivable. In my opinion, favouritism is one of the worst kinds of child neglect and mental abuse. The first story is the perfect example of that.
Those parents are pure 100% evil. Giving their son’s entire birthday to his sister for a disgusting 8 years and literally telling him to just accept it and watch as his life was turned into his sister’s parade. This guy deserves every drop of success and happiness he can have in his life. And those parents got what they should have gotten years ago. They just pushed their own son into depression for a good portion of his life and put their lives into their mission of spoiling their daughter. If this isn’t bad parenting, I don’t know what is. What were they even thinking?
The sister isn’t in the right either. I mean, don’t get me wrong, I understand that she was raised like that, but that doesn’t mean that she’s any less in the wrong than she is. The family could have at least tried to explain why they decided to have a party for the OP, because he was forced to go through 8 years of having no birthdays at all, while she got 2 a year. Even worse, she literally goes as far as destroying her brother’s new car because she couldn’t have one when she’s 10 YEARS OLD! Again, the parents should’ve told her she’s too young to have her own car, but nope. And if she can’t mentally comprehend it, then why send her to a boarding school instead of getting her some type of mental help? At least she got punished with that boarding school until she’s 18, but I honestly don’t know if she’ll learn from this (by the looks of the way she’s acting now, there’s a very high chance that she’s too far gone and it won’t work). But I *DO* know that if she doesn’t, when she’s an adult, she’s going to turn into a *MEGA KAREN!* And that makes the parents *EVEN MORE* evil. Because if that does happen, then it’s *ALL THEIR FREAKING FAULT!!!*
The extended family, while not completely innocent for not doing this years ago and just watching, at least they’re nowhere near as bad as the parents or the sister, as they did help him when he needed it, so they did at least did the right thing and earned my respect in the end.
Now, as for the OP being the jerk, I would have to put a big, fat, chungus, strong, powerful, solid, *NO!* His parents and his sister are the jerks. I hope they get worse karma in the future. But the OP deserves *ALL* those lost birthdays back, and I hope he never has to deal with his family again. He did the right thing. I hope he has a perfect adult life as a reward for going through all that pain and suffering!
Bro one time my friend had a spoiled sister and he also had a nice brother THEY WERE FREAKIN PYROMANIACS and then came to my birthday party. the brother was putting tin foil in the microwave until i stopped and unplugged the microwave. Then the sister came into my back yard and was jumping on the trampoline until her brother thought “hey what if we set this dude’s house on fire” and then she kept jumping until he whispered “hey sis, you wanna help make this party lit” she knew exactly what he meant and said yes. Then the two came to my lawn and poured a gallon of diesel onto my lawn and trees and was about to ignite it when suddenly “CAKE TIME!” They all gathered together and sang happy birthday but then the sister wanted to blow out the candles and steal my presents, then i smelled the gas and checked for it.
She went to the backyard and ignited the gas RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME, MY FRIEND, AND HER BROTHER. I immediately was pissed to my limit, and then i said “WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU GIRL!?!” As she was angry with me, i decided to put out the fire and go tell the family, and then i saw something shocking, ONE OF MY PRESENTS WAS A NEW CAR a green tesla with a touchscreen. AND THEN HIS FUGGN SISTER cried in anger and was so pissed that she set MY CAR, ON FREAKIN FIRE while the family watched.
I immediately tied her up in my room and set the lighter on fire and chucked it at the front lawn, fortunately there was already water on it so it went out quickly. As she saw my bounce house, she immediately wanted to get in there, then when my mom told her no after what she did, SHE PUT DIESEL INSIDE THE PUMP AND IGNITED THE WHOLE GODDAM BOUNCE HOUSE ON FIRE, my party was officially ruined because of that devil, so i completely went berserk and decided to grabbed her diesel and went nutz AND FUGGN SET HER CAR ON FIRE TOO, this was my worst party ever, fortunately she was not allowed at any birthday party again besides her own, my friend and his brother was though so thank god.
My friend’s sister was grounded for the rest of 2022 and got all of her stuff taken away, including her plush rabbit, that i wanted to set on fire but i resisted since i felt a little bad. Thank god that she also was banned from going to her friend’s house for until she was 14, *she is 12 now* SO THANK JEBUS SHE WAS GROUNDED
When you're too privileged equality feels like prosecution
There's always that one comment that is a literal essay
@goplayoutside3599 did you get a new car though
I literally had a silent tantrum over how bad the parents where treating him
Me too. And the fact that the harm can't ever be undone ):
Same bro I wish that was me cause I woulda punched the immediate family in the face.
I completely agree
I know I was mad too I couldn't believe what I was hearing about how bad they treated him and how spoiled his sister was they're the reason why she is the way she is and she's going to cost to be having problems because the way they raised her
Same.
I actually had to hold back tears hearing this and I was so sad when he talked about the part of the outside of the offbrand Chuck E. Cheese and the son was finally making his voice heard
My parents are actually very strict, and stories like these show me why and why it’s a good thing. I am very proud of my parents for raising me the proper way and not treating me like the spoiled child. I also have a baby brother.
Mine are too, and after seeing this, Ik why.
Mine as well I never knew parents could be this cruel like this
@@michaelshworaknot cruel. Just stupid
I had a story very similar to this. My youngest cousin was the spoiled princess in the family that everyone had issues with because her parents just gave her whatever she wanted to keep her quiet.
The middle cousin, let's call him Bill, always got in trouble because of her. Anytime she screamed, his mother would badger him about why she's screaming rather than being a parent and disciplining her. One day, I come over to hang out with Bill and play on the PS3. The youngest sees this and told me to give her the controller and I told her it's not hers and she didn't ask. She pouted and walked away, then I hear a loud screech downstairs and her crying. My aunt comes upstairs and asked me, "Did you hit her?" to which I said no. She goes downstairs and gives her a solid smack on her hand for lying. Bill looks at me and says, "She never believes me when I say it". Which was true.
On a handful of occasions, Bill would be accused of something by his sister and immediately he would be punished by his mother even when he didn't do anything wrong. My aunt was the type of person to just believe whatever and ask questions later. She didn't take much part in parenting because she was busy smoking or taking naps. Being a parent was a part time job for her, while Bil and his older sister were the ones who managed the youngest 90% of the time and if she acted up they all get in trouble.
One day, B just blows up because the youngest was getting a brand new iPhone randomly while he was stuck with a flip phone with only 120 minutes a month. He yells at them that he's always responsible for her even though she's 9 and when he was 9 he got whipped with a wire hanger for accidentally spilling shampoo on the bathroom floor and that he's had the exact same clothes since middle school and he gets bullied for it that other kids in class give him random clothes as a donation. He broke down and that's when I saw the evil parts of that family. I told him he could always stay with me and my mom, but he decided he'll hold out for a year cause when he's 18 he's leaving. I had money I was saving for a car but I knew I'd make his day if I had gotten him an actual gift. I decided on two gifts, a new iPhone and $250 to help him get new clothes ( I didn't know how much he needed but I just wanted to give enough to afford a new wardrobe at least).
Some parents really aren't fit to be parents. What's that sayin? Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child.
Ahhhh, let me guess… because if she dared to blame you the way both blame him they know damn well they’d have to answer to *your* actually functioning parents.
@@wildfire9280 My mom is the eldest sister so yeah if my aunt did shit to me and my mother hears about it, she'd freak tf out. Plus my mother knows my aunt is still cracked out, smokin it up saying she'll quit soon but that's a lie.
The short of it, yeah she won't do shit
@@wildfire9280 that doesnt make sense
Wow, that sound terrible.
@@gtrwiouwthgeguwg he means that the aunt did not scold the commenter when he blamed the younger sister because if she did then the aunt will have to explain it to the commenters parents
Favoritism is annoying. How can you care more about one child and leave the others? Atleast treat both awful or both as an angel.
Big words for Someone who is escaping A Dead Weight's Child support moneh
@@deaththekid7626 I bet your the kid he's paying for
@@not-that-guy-pal- nah My Dad's Dead
@@deaththekid7626 may he rest in peace ☹️
There’s this classmate that is in my class and he always uses favoritism as an excuse whenever he gets caught with stupid shit and calls the teacher racist
Love your children equally. I think this story went from misery to breakout. The son was suffering from vulnerability and he somehow found the courage to speak out.
So the parents completely mess up both of their children’s lives (in very different ways) then send the youngest off to boarding school so they don’t have to deal with her
right, they dont have to fix the problem they caused anymore
ok but props to the grandparents for giving a pretty sincere apology, letting op sit in their minivan to calm them down, and the grandfather going so far as to repair a whole damn car for his birthday.
And it also makes me happy that he admits he was wrong and nobody argued when he said that they were equally wrong for not stepping up
@@ethantan9434 Indeed
As a little sister, he is not the jerk, she gets to blow out the candles on HIS BIRTHDAY that's terrible parenting, she gets to pick where they go, what they do, AND BARGES INTO HIS ROOM?!? That's next level favoritism
Imagine having your room as basically storage. I have so much stuff in my room and closet that aren’t even mine, my room is a “hangout” for everyone when there’s an event going on.
And on top of that I never celebrated my birthday alone. It was always mixed with my sisters.
(Granted. We were born a year and a day apart.)
Every birthday I subconsciously thought “oh. So it’s more for her than for me? Okay. I’ll try and stay out of the way.”
@@shadowking278hat sucks man but i want to complain too haha i only have half a wall so everybody Can see me all the time but you have it worse
I suffered from favoritism too, because my brother (an anime fan who was spoiled as HELL) got whatever they wanted and I was stuck with watching a TV and having a single plush of Fume-shroom from PvZ. He always got stuff like ball-jointed dolls, anime DVDs, figures, etc. and I got NOTHING. Eventually I yelled the HELL at of him and told my parents that I’ve had enough of the other kid in the house and that they’re a spoiled brat, and that was at a family reunion, and then the idiot was told to go to the car and I had some peace. Happens the kid was going to have his anime toys taken away indefinitely. I was given a bunch of Plants vs. Zombies plushes to compensate for my torture and the anime kid was throwing a very long tantrum and tried to beat me up, but I kicked him and CURSED at him. Needless to say, he never talked shit to me again.
@@djm334wogso you threw a tantrum because your brother had more toys then you?
@@victorlolxd7347 it was my brother, not me
i got ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, not even some candy.
i had a few plushes but my parents only cared about the brother and fucked me up, plus they spanked me a lot and let him do whatever
6:17 chuck himself must have been shocked too
This actually got me mad tight. Wow. That was just... unbelieveably sad and heartbreaking. I was so mad at the parents and his sister. Wow. Again, that was messed up. It just makes you think how lucky you are to have a good parent. And if you don't, its always good to reach out. There are help lines out there. I hope we all have a good life, and i hope you never have to experience that.
On their son's 18th birthday, they put 10 candles on a cake and had the 10 year old sister blow out the candles. Wow. At no point did they think "There should be 18 candles on this cake and we should have out 18 year old son blow out the candles."
I fricking hate the parents like why do abusive parents exist!!!!!!
@@Sabrina.The_CartoonFan Why do they think it's a good thing?
And the cake was pink with flowers in it-
@@gogetassjgd17 it’s fine if a boy gets that cake but the 18 yr old but doesn’t want cuz ofc it’s his birthday the parents make that for the sister
"Who? Oh right that other child who lives in our house nah it should be fine it's not like it has feelings"
I literally can't believe how he managed to not physically hurt either his parents or his bratty sister. So props for that anger management, I couldn't have done it
Indeed. That's some villain origin stuff he was getting put through
If he went full villain arc, I would fully understand.
I agree. If that was me, the sister would be deformed for life.
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No. Birthday child always blows the candles out first, then they get re-lit for other kids.
Nah only bday child. Theyres rlly no reason for the other kids to get to blow out the candle since they have their own bday
Listening to this made me realize how awesome my parents really are.
Yeah, my parents are awesome too. Im sad for all the people with bad parents
@Lihapäärynä ESPECIALLY Asian parents 😔
@@Eep2653 are you asian?
@@Eep2653 not all Asian parents
SAME 😍😍😍
The parents and the sister shouldn't have been invited to the make-up party. The fact that the constant neglect that the poor guy had to endure for 8 YEARS while the sister was treated like the golden child is just heartbreaking.
YUPPP....
Just because the pregnancy/birth was complicated and near fatal doesn’t justify raising a “Rainbow Baby” as an ultra spoiled brat.
I would abandon the sister
You gotta admit, seeing the little twerp going berserk for not getting her royalties and paying with her happiness BECAUSE of it was one hell of a satisfying comeuppance
Yeah, and that was his childhood too, especially those teenage years where he already needs to deal with a lot.
Aw man. That Boy Had A Sad And Miserable Life. Why Is The Younger Sister A Spoiled Princess? Let's Blame The Parents It's All Their Fault! ALL THEIR FAULT!!!! 😡
The victim: literally the guy that’s “always happy”
The daughter: who cares bout emotion gimme what I want
The family should have gone to some sort of counseling after the birth of the sister because from what was described here, there was absolutely some sort of PTSD that caused them to hyperfocus on her instead of their son. If they had done that, they may have avoided this entire situation but alas they didn't and as a result they let their son suffer emotionally and mentally for eight years until it was far too late to reasonably expect any sort of meaningful relationship in his adult life. Now they may have a son that will eventually go completely no contact whatsoever and a daughter that is so spoiled that it may already be too late to completely correct her behavior. Sad, but as the OP said: They brought it upon themselves.
@A Potato PTSD COULD cause something like that. And I don't think "lazy" is the right word to describe them. From the story, is obvious they actually put a lot of energy into their daughter. Irresponsible and misguided, for sure, but not lazy.
And as for you being a parent suffering from PTSD, I wish you the best, but please, even if you think you are going through something similar, try not to project your own experiences into other people. Everyone experiences their own life on their on way, and sure is nice when people try to be understanding of that. It doesn't justify anything though. Those people were still horrible parents.
@@GeekPsychologist He/she is not projecting their own experiences. They only said they weren't sure if the behaviour of the parents in the story's case is caused by PTSD. He/she even mentioned as example to back up their statement with 'it's not uniform to everyone with PTSD, but in his/her case....'
@A Potato It is true that PTSD does affect everyone differently, I made the guess based on parts of the story where OP described both his sister and their mother going through a physically traumatic experience with her birth to the point to where the mother lost her ability to have children and almost resulted in both of their deaths. I can see that leaving some sort of mental impact that could affect their ability to make good decisions regarding the raising of their children.
@@Jenkinsc37 I mean you are right, they have definitely some kind of stress/anxiety posterior to some traumatic event. Does that make it PTSD? I don't know if the story gives us enough information to say.
Magical book, I'll answer here to not double post. I never said they were projecting, I just asked not to do it. Leaving semanthics behind, they did say they are a parent with PTSD, which implies they are using their own experiences as such to form an opinion, saying it was lazy parenting.
I can agree with this comment so much. I really wanted to punch my screen while watching this.
So when the parents said, "Your a boy, and boys don't have to worry about it". I lost it, WHAT ABOUT THE DAD?! WHAT ABOUT THOSE BOYS IN AFRICA STARVING?!
Thank you for your time.
common stereotype about boys, they can't cry since they are men
What really sucks about the situation is that at 18 You probably only have memories that go back only to about seven years old so for him it felt like he was being shunned his whole life.
I’m just gonna say, the poster could’ve also said as a way to undo damage, DO THE REVERSE! Blow out his sister’s candles, open her presents, get a boys cake with her name and eat the cake!
I would pay big money to see a movie based off of this, and give every single cent to this poor boy for having his life stolen away. He deserves every royalty.
same
why does this feel like a hour long movie?
@@zrhunt I don't know. Maybe it's the way he compiled so much of his life story, and all the trauma and resentment that just weighed him down for years.
@@joshuabassett7069 I think I meant "why this feels like it would make a hour long movie"
No arguments here. As he stated, there are 365 days in the year, and I couldn't have 1 day that was about him?
Sending that 10-year-old to boarding school was going easy on her. They should have sent her to freaking military school
Maybe that is the school a military boarding school!
"I AM GUNNERY SERGENAT HARTMAN! YOU WILL NOT LIKE ME CAUSE I'M HARD!"
@@gabrielcalderon6715 here's hoping
Although I’ve never been there, my mom was training for the military (she never got into it though), and there are some people she knows that she has said that if they would ever go to a military school or something like that, they would never make it. My mom says they do NOT put up with ANY bullshit.
i got a better idea tie her up on a boxing bag and just imagine what do next (: i wont tell cuz is too brutal for comments
One thing for the first story ,, no one can escape justice "
For the 1st story my parents did the exact same thing for my brother by giving him a present on our birthdays and i have 7 siblings and he expects to be able to blow the candles or get a present but they rarely do that now ever sense my grandpa got after them for it but they still spoil him by giving him what he wants
I've got big sympathy for the person from that first story. I had a similar situation, but with a step-father who didn't much care for me in favor of his own two kids. I never even got birth-day parties and the few times something was done to celebrate my own life it usually devolved into something for his own two kids or just himself.
The sad ending of my own story is that first, I was kicked out of the house at 17 because 'you've graduated high-school, it's time for you to move out'. Somewhat ironically I managed to do well for myself only to have my mother and siblings move in with me after said step-father died from a heard attack caused by years of hard drug and alcohol abuse. I ended up raising his two young kids since out mother was too much of a train wreck to look after then after that. This was in the early '00s. They've adults now and doing fine. They always tell me that I did more for them than either of our parents ever did.
Bro u really have a big heart, if i was in your showes i wouldn't have taken either of the children along with my mom because she didn't said anything to my father while he kicked me out of the house and now they are here to me because I have money and they can leach of my now and don't have to live in the street just because the father died because of a overdose which he bought to himself.
So the children while you took care of them were okay at least?
I hope your doing so much better, and all that you’ve gone through, I wish that never happened to you.
You are one of the best things to ever come onto God's green Earth.
Better person then me. I would have told my mother "you're an adult now go find your own place to live. There's a bridge down the road you can sleep under."
Geez, that first story was crazy! I am a middle child in a family of 7 people and I thank God none of us were shown favoritism like this. Hope the guy has a good life away from his parents and sister.
Luckily im an only child but still im with you man i understand your pain, also i bet the guy had the best of ever! And having a tiny bit of vengeance, makes it a little bit better.
@@CattoBoi339 I decided to ask my older sister (I’m the youngest) if there was any favouritism in our family. I was relieved when she said no
I’m also a middle child and I can see favoritism but I’m so happy that it isn’t this bad.
Im the second youngest of 6 girls and all of my older sisters were moved out by the time I was 13, there definitely was and still is favoritism with my little sister and I but I’ve always been really independent so I guess my parents don’t worry much about me, it’d still be nice to get to pick the place for my birthday and have some kind of celebration and I can relate to the story in that sense but my sister definitely isn’t near as spoiled as his sister mostly because I raised her a lot as well and I didn’t put up with any bs from her
@@C0smicTrash good to know. Still I feel the birthday person should always pick the destination
about the gifts on other kids birthdays : usually my family USED to do that (before my family fell apart), and if it was your birthday you get 2-5 gifts and everyone else got 0-1.
I think the worst part about this story is how believable it really is
Im just gonna say, those grandparents in the first story are amazing. They realized their mistake and fixed it
Only after having to be called out on it.
My daughter has a niece and nephew like this. One is the 'golden child' and one is basically invisible, and she keeps trying to tell their parents that they are massively screwing up BOTH of these babies. One is going to grow up thinking they are worthless, and one is going to grow up with an overinflated ego. She's already a little hellion. The only time she minds is when my daughter has her because she KNOWS that you come to Auntie's house, the rules are different. Over here, you MIND or ELSE. My daughter is a lot like me. My way or My way. NO highway option. So, for the short time they they are with her, they get treated equally, the little boy actually gets attention, GOOD attention, and SHE has to mind, and then they go home, and it goes right back to he's either invisible or in trouble, and she's an angelic princess who can do no wrong. They are both still under 5 right now. You just wait. In 10 years, one or both of them will be in jail, or dead. The 'ignored' child will get tired of it, and kids like that tend to act out because attention, ANY attention, is something, and they'll take it. Unfortunately, it will blow back on him, until it becomes too much for him, and I worry about what's going to happen if he gets overloaded and decides it's not worth it anymore. :( - Her...I fully expect that she will be in jail before she's 18, and more than once. Her behavior will continue to escalate because her parents will bail her out and say "Oh, she didn't do anything wrong." and continue to dismiss her discretions until she gets into a mess that they CAN'T bail her out of, and she does something that can't be undone, and either hurts someone or kills someone because they have something she wants or didn't do what she wanted and no one put a stop to the crap. All because their PARENTS won't grow up and BE parents.
Heck naw I ain’t reading that
Me too
5:32 dude went after all kids restaurants with games
I am so sorry your parents did it to you. I am also sorry because your story made me feel better about my parents. For me, the "she doesn't understand it's your BD, so if we don't give her a gift too, she'd cry" only lasted a few years.
Ugh, Story 1 is my life. Both of us were tough pregnancies, but my sister was the precious one. She was perfect in every way according to my parents. I was “encouraged” to spoil my sister or I was threatened with getting kicked out of my own house. Well, finally on my birthday I’d had enough and I exploded - and cue eviction. My sister makes fun of me and other autistic people for kicks. I’d had enough of the abuse. I’d had enough of the bullying that brat did to me since her toddler years - pulling my hair, biting me, beating me up, calling me names every day, rolling her eyes at me breathing, and lying about me behind my back. The worst part is, none of my family believes me because of how outlandish this child is. Now she’s of driving age and I’m avoiding her like the plague. I’d rather never see any of them again after they kicked me out on my birthday.
ayo we are here for you
i'm sorry
I’m sorry that’s rough I know this probably won’t help but as soon as you can leave leave and have the peace knowing your sister is going to have a bad life when she grows up.
No one is gonn read this back
im sorry for what happened to you and wish you the best of luck
I hope OP gets therapy and the family keeps icing out the parents. This made me so sad and angry and as the 'other child' of my family, this hit me way too close to home. I hope the sister shapes up and learns her lesson and I hope the parents learn theirs too. Tho I have no doubt that none of them will change for the better.
I had similar issues with my brother. I’m second born and the only girl in the family. My brother is autistic and by god it made my life hard after we were put into foster care. I was forced to go to so many movies I had no interest in, I never wanted to go out because if we went out for lunch or dinner my brother would scoff down his food as fast as possible and then demand to leave, regardless of whether I had finished eating or not, as well as me feeling so embarrassed at being seen with him because he would yell and scream if he didn’t get his way. He would steal my things, destroyed my dvds and my room more than once and I was still expected to allow him to come in whenever he wanted to watch tv. And any time he wanted to watch tv I had to turn off what I’d been watching. He didn’t take over my birthday but he always managed to upset me until I got to the point where I had no interest in having a birthday. It wasn’t until my 21st when my partner insisted I let her throw a party that I enjoyed it again. He was never told off but I was always at fault for everything. Once I was upset on HIS birthday and I got yelled and screamed at for ‘ruining’ his birthday because I couldn’t bring myself to smile after the awful day I had had. Nothing was ever about me. So I fully relate to this. Unfortunately I didn’t do anything about it and still haven’t to this day. I wish I had. Maybe things would have been different.
Edit: There is honestly so much more but it would be too much for a TH-cam comment. We have a good relationship now though but the wounds have never healed.
Am I the jerk is a gift to the world
if i was the grandparents im gonna chant ”BRING HER TO THE ORPHANAGE!” as loud as i can, she CLEARLY needs a lesson for respect.
Nah they need to send her to that one anime orphanage
@@user-b4ll5of which anime orphanage?
@@user-b4ll5the promised neverland😂
@@ItsmehAlfaisn't it the one where the mom feeds a demon
@@elliotepegs7369 the caretakers farms child brains to give to the demon
Those parents literally set the girl up for failure …… they spoiled the girl so much it’s literally all she knows, and then sent her to a boarding school where she ain’t gonna learn a lesson but she is gonna learn how to get away with stuff and when she grows up she still won’t understand how she isn’t always the centre of attention and become on of those crazy entitled Karen’s.
The first story made me have flashbacks… but in a much better.. way
The fact that the other family members thought the teller was ok with it is crazy
With the amount of stories i've ever read and heard.
This is by FAR made me the most angriest, happiness, and absolute being crazy on how such a family exist and ALSO learning this is a common thing for a family???
Looking at it now, i am THANKFUL that both my parents and grandparents was always strict and rewarding.
I'm pretty sure most parents have a tiny bit of favoritism for the younger child but not enough for it to have much of an effect. THIS however, is on a WHOLE OTHER LEVEL!
Obviously, this wasn’t enough to make up for his ENTIRE LIFE being ruined, but the other family yelling at the parents, and the parents grounding and sending the hell spawn sister to boarding school felt so good to hear
I know this is going to be harsh but I would’ve spank her ass after all the things she did to him
I honestly know what that kid was going through for his birthdays
This shows how cruel parents can be
The parents got what they deserved
Now they have resentment from both kids now despite them trying to correct their actions
OP is still resenting them for the rest of his life because of how miserable he was and I would be miserable too if I was in that position
I like how the first story where he is explaining how his parents and sister are terrible makes you wanna say: I hate humanity, but then the rest where he explains how they all stood up and DESTROYED the parents makes you wanna say: I love humanity
The duality of Man
I hate humanity already!
More like the second part says: you called my bluff OP, you called my bluff.
Humanity is good… except for something’s but still.
True Facts.
Those parents are the worst and should be put in prison for child abuse😡😡
I want to see a part two where the sister is a grown adult
You’d have to wait 10 years or so for that part
They did irreparable damage to 2 of their kids and it will probably stay with them their entire lives. I wouldnt blame the sister as much since that was literally how she was raised. She was not taught any better. I can imagine the exact feeling the OP had at the party. I have more than 1 major event ruined by my parents. Last year i graduated college with a 5 year degree. Had a job lined up making 70k out state. This was last day all of my friends would be together for a while. I asked my mom not to leave early. As she did with my HS graduation. My mom, uncle, grandma, and step dad were there, my dad passed away in 2019. I knew if she left, then everyone would. As the ceremony ends i see a text to call her and i already knew, she had left and was waiting at the resturant. So not only did i have no one to enjoy the moment and get pictures with, i had to rush out and couldnt track down my friends. Or they would all be waiting an hour for me to get their. At the restuarant i ended up quietly blowing up on her. It was the one thing i asked of her and after we just sat in silence. She ended up running to the bathroom in tear while my grandmother apologized. She didnt know i asked her to stay and I never asked her as well since i knew they would ride together. I also didnt expect to have to beg my parents to wait until my College graduation was over before leaving. I didnt speak to my Mom the entire meal and it was just awkward. There was a small graduation party the next weekend that the only reason i showed up as was i invited several friends and didnt want to explain why it was canceled. I just accepted the fact the most important moment of my life so far was over. It was ruined and that chapter was closed. There are no do overs and no going back. I left that campus with not a single picture capturing the moment. Im just glad i had a house party to go to that night so i was able to get shit faced with free booze to forget about it.
Those parents just raised the ultimate Karen.
People become who they are in their formative years (age 0 to 8). It is too late for the sister to change who she is now, and because of that, she's grown up thinking that the world will give her anything and everything she wants on a silver platter (which is what her parents did for her), only for the world to cut her back down as the world is under no obligation to cater to her every whim.
The sister (unlike her brother) has no sense of self-sufficiency and likely would not be able to do anything for herself, hence she will be completely reliant on people to take care of her.
Isn’t it from 13-17?
@@rockingamingwiththesahit2145 Your personality is formed in 0 to 8.
Your belief system and ideals are established at around 10 to early 20s.
That's how I understand it at least.
And dont traumas affect your personality even if you're no longer in the age of becoming who you are?
There is a difference between loving your child and outright spoiling them
I really love your storys and I specifically love this story
That first story is so infuriatingly unjust, my blood practically turned to liquid rage. If I had my birthday given to my brothers, good reason or no, I could guarantee you my life expectancy would be equivalent to that of a fish out of water. Anyone who forces that onto someone has no conscience or soul and deserves to burn in the deepest depths of hell or whatever equivalent of that may or may not exist.
Liquid rage you say. I hope you don’t have a red ring near you.
(This is probably a stupid joke. 😅)
My wife's nephew went through something similar with his mother and stepfather. He was raised the first years by my late MIL, and when she passed he went to live with his mother and stepdad. To say he was miserable is an understatement, his stepdad took clear favoritism for his own kids, which you can argue is somewhat understandable since he never really agreed to take him in, but the kid's mother never stood up for him either. The stepdad's own kids would be as loud and playful as they wanted, but when my wife's nephew even so much as laughed too loudly or enjoyed himself the stepdad would immediately scold him and punish him, taking away any and all toys from him and just forcing him to sit quietly for hours upon hours until bed time, sometimes outright denying him dinner and breakfast the next day. Many times the stepdad would even lock him out of the house because he got annoyed with him, often in rainy weather. Disclaimer that my wife's nephew was by now 8 years old, his stepdad would berate and mentally abuse him by calling him retarded. Because of this the kid's school grades tanked hard, and this only emboldened the stepdad telling him: "See? It's because you are retarded". Meanwhile his mother, my SIL, would stand by and do nothing.
One day, the next day after the kid's 9th birthday, my wife and I got a call from the police at 3a.m. They told us the kid had been removed from the home and the boy had asked for us specifically to be called. We immediately got dressed and went over, and they explained to us that the kid had been locked outside once again, this time during a pretty bad thunder storm, from 2 p.m. up until 9 p.m., which is when one of the neighbors saw him just sitting outside getting soaked and took him in, fed him and called the police, which is when they took him. They explained to us that the kid would not be returned to his mother, and if no other relative would take him then he would be put in the foster system. My wife and I didn't even think it twice. We signed all the paperwork and when they took us to see him the boy was asleep. I gently woke him up and as soon as he saw me he drowzeely jumped into my arms. The case worker was almost in tears when she saw this. He was dry but his clothes still felt damp. We finished up and I carried him in my arms back to the car with my wife in tow. His mother, my SIL, suddenly appeared, and she looked distraught. She wanted to approach me with the boy still in my arms and I, with fury raging in my eyes, looked at her and told her bluntly: "Shut.the.f**k.up. Don't say a f**cking word". She did as was told, sobbing, and a couple of police officers simply held her back while I put the boy on the back seat and drove back home.
He has been with us ever since, and I am proud to say that this boy is my son, a kind hearted, if somewhat insecure, 15 year old boy now. He is an honor student with top grades in his class, graduated middle schools with honors and aspires to be a biologist, and also has passions for culinary arts. I honestly couldn't help myself while writing this to you all, to put the phone down for a sec and give him a big strong hug. I love him so much, he is my boy, my son, and that will always remain true to me.
Just to clarify for anyone that read this far and may have questions:
-This did NOT happen in the U.S.
-My son called us specifically because sometimes he would visit us, my wife and I, and it was the only place he wasn't treated like garbage.
- My wife and I were aware of some of the bad things that had been going on, but we didn't know the true extent of it. We often had stern talks with my SIL about the boy's situation, to the point I sometimes outright yelled at her for her neglectful attitudes. These where always met with assurances that things would change, but I always had my doubts. I wasn't wrong.
- Because of my son's frequent visits, we had arranged the spare room to be his while he stayed with us. When it all went down, he already had a place he would call his own, so he had almost no trouble adjusting.
Any more questions feel free to ask.
*EDIT because I accidentally hit send before finishing typing this up.
What happened to your sister-in-law and her husband
@@billmurphy577 Legally, nothing. Because my SIL is lazy and codependent she refused to press charges or accuse his then husband of any wrong doing. Because of that no formal charges were pursued and no evidence of the mental abuse could be proven. The only reason they could prove the boy's "undefended" state (legal term in our country) was because of the neighbors' testimony. Since then my SIL and her husband have been on and off again in what the entire family describes as an "awful toxic relationship". Currently they are "off", but everyone is expecting for her to take him back yet again. Suffice to say, the entire family absolutely HATES that man's guts.
That is so beautiful. You guys are amazing parents that child desperately needed. I wish your family well.
u and ur wife are amazing
Bless you, your wife, and your son! I pray that you all will live long and happy lives as a family
this makes me think how amazing my parents are
LOL, hearing that the girl had a temper tantrum over her brother's grad party is hilarious
The parents in the first story are so toxic, i have never seen a level of favouritism this high in my life.
Here I thought my parents simply paying more attention to my more multi-faceted sister was bad...
"Why doesn'tmy kid vist me" - 🧔
I don't like when parents choose favorites
Me neither
@@Kuromi_-68t neither do I
16:20 His spoiled sister should be sent to jail for vandalizing his car because I think it’s ILLEGAL 😤
She was under 18. The most she would've gotten would be time in Juvie
By the age of 18 it's a little too late to retract all of the years of being neglected like that.
My house is full of only me, my older sister, and my mom. And even though my sister is older then me, my mom always plays favorites towards her.
This same scenario happened to my cousin. When his sister was born, his parents just...forgot him. The younger sister was their entire life, and he was barely an afterthought. When he turned 18, he moved halfway across the country and didn't so much as talk to them for nearly 15 years. But he got his revenge in a way, since he is now wealthy and highly successful, and little sister turned into a drug addict and had 4 kids by 4 different fathers.
what about the your cousins parents?
Are you still in touch with him?
These parents are BEYOND horrible. The fact that op’s sister thinks it’s not okay for op to have something of his own is RIDICULOUS. And it’s all because her parents treated her like a queen for 8 years.
This story was SPICY!!! Keep posting! I love Am I the Jerk!
Man, god bless this kid. Hope he feels better
Props to his extended family, especially his grandparents.
If I was in the same situation as the kid in the first story, I would have blown out the candles on the cake before the sister could have.
Then the sister proceeded to turn into a demon, killing everyone and smashing everything because she didn't get to blow out the candles first
This is what I think should happen now:
The sister should end up in Juvenile jail with some state-renowned therapist instead of boarding school when the parents are just making her feel worse about them by basically disowning her until 18.
The whole family should have to compensate all of the money and recources they spent on the sister down to the last penny. I'm fairly sure that will get OP a brand new car, maybe even a recent model judging by the way the parents babied the sister.
If there is more than enough money for a decent car, then they should have to use the extra money to buy at least 4 phones for the 8 years he probably used the same one, and if there's still money left, the presents should have to buy OP as many gifts as the can with the remaining money, and if he doesn't like them, he should cut all contact. Because like, it's been 18 damn years since he was born, they should know what he likes by now, and if they don't, they are worse parents then they already are. And that's saying something considering their attitudes.
They probably know the names of all of the toys their daughter has ever had or wanted in the history of her life. They should be able to know their son's interests too.
The presents and sister also all deserve to be disected alive, ground to a pulp, and put be together wrong every time in an infinite loop.
They were so afraid of losing a child that they actually lost another child.
The first story is a perfect example of the phrase “Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child.”.
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Did u just copy that other guy?
@@69randomguy420 who?
@@yngbro nonsense guy moment
@@lifeiscats1337 jthecross
I almost cried at this story how can someone be this spoiled and entitled
i cried imagining how hard it must have been for the OP
@@maheshkumthekar3909 same
@@SkiiFeroKii she was raised like a single child with a helper to do everything for her (basically me but I’m not spoiled as fuck and I actually help with the chores etc)
I had a very simular experience growing up. It got to a point that when i was su1c1d4l my parents cared. My parents divorced. And i live with my dad now. Me and my sister rarely talk if ever but shes still treated the same.
What I would’ve done to the spoiled brat whenever she was being like that I would have said “ You need to learn that world isn’t revolved around you, you mean as much as a ant to this world, and if you can’t get over that, you will never grow up and you won’t have a actual life”
Now as for the parents I would’ve said “Youre literally damaging the child’s future by spoiling her and giving the world to her while you leave me as dust in a desert, you don’t deserve anything from me, because all you do is make the world about a little girl, you can at least be equal towards us and not have favoritism.”
Never heard of parents ruining their relationship with both of their children in completely opposite ways before. I am both impressed and disturbed that two people could screw up so badly.
OP'S rest of the family are the true MVPs, I heard of parents showing favouritism before, but not THIS extreme. And goddamn, OP'S sister was out of control, literally just turned into a rabid monster.
They really aren't. I don't buy their excuse. There's no way they didn't see it for exactly what it was. His friends were banned because they objected to the treatment. If even children could identify that this was hurting him then full grown adults were much more capable of getting that conclusion. Especially when it's been said in front of them.
They'd have seen his friends no longer being there but hers there, her favourite restaurants, her favourite themes. Her getting presents but him not on her birthday. And no 11,12 year old is that good at hiding facial expressions.
They knew exactly what was going and all took a step back and let it happen because it was easier for them. They only stood up and did the right thing when the 'easy' option was taken away from them by him kicking off.
Now they are miminalising their role and responsibility to obsolve themselves of feeling guilty.
My SO was the black sheep, all extended family did the exact same thing, stood back and left him fall because it was easier for them. Then when he lashed out half the family don't speak to him but all blame him because he acted out. Not that their behaviour was the reason why he was acting out.
unrelated to the comment but i like your profile picture
@@falynch I'd murder. These types of parents are the reasons those mass shooters are there. Not all but that case in Australia is well known.
Dude had very low IQ and showed dangerous signs of hurting animals and people without remorse. They gifted him a rifle like damn you.
Yes ofc he then murdered like 24 people.
While asian parenting has its downsides, she should be teleported to one family and will quiet down within 5 secs.
@@smoothiepop2253 organge
@@falynch they probably weren’t even invited to those birthdays so they’re not actually the black sheep
What they don’t tell you is that the father stole a golden ticket which he gave to the little sister who’s name is veruca. And she’s sent to a chocolate factory and when she tried to keep a squirrel as a pet the squirrel called his buddies and threw her into a garbage chute which leads to an incinerator.