Demonic Mind Games Narcissists Use to Control You
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ก.ย. 2024
- The enemy is constantly working to deceive you and keep you from God’s best for your life.
One of his favorite tactics is using toxic people to infiltrate your world. These individuals may seem charming on the surface, but behind the scenes, they’re carrying out demonic schemes.
That’s why in this LIVEstream, we’ll be diving into the demonic mind games narcissists use to control you.
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Could you please do a video on Narcissist Gangstalking
Thank you so much 🙏
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1. Invalidation
2. Emotional blackmail
3. Stone-walling
4. Love-bombing
5. Triangulation
6. Pity plays
7. Blaming
8. Projection
9.Gaslighting
Thank you Kris for another outstanding video. Very enlightening. Bless you.
This has been my life with my parents.
Remember if you're leaving a narcissist? Don't tell them you're leaving. Wait until they're gone and just leave.
Just like that when my ex wife was gone after she refused to confess and take counseling
@glendabuchanan-s5t yes perfect example a doc on Netflix the wife said that same thing after the fact she told him and it ever ended in a tragedy my crazy ex maybe
.never tell the devil your plan.
@@electricLuLuland😂❤🎉 yes!!
I had a hard time with this for a long time because it seems to be really rude and I thought that that reflected on me and I should always be polite and I'm the best person I can be but we have to remember you cannot solve unusual situations with usual rules and manners. It's okay to appear rude.
All I can say is God led me here!
Thank you Jesus!!! ❤
He's too stupid to know what validation means! He breaks my things when I'm not around. He's a monster demon! I have no friends or to family and can't afford to leave.
The Dark gets irritated by the LIGHT
My Mother 😢. She’s 85 and still healthy and strong in her demonic narcissistic ways , I always pray for her salvation. She has destroyed my family if I only knew then what I Know now. Praying for all here in the comments 🙏
Extremely sad! I was recently enmeshed with an 84 y/o woman who did the same with her family and me. It was an unbelievable nightmare! The control, entrapment, deceit, lies and slander was the likes I could never imagine. The older they get, the more skilled, more entitled and out of control they become without any remorse! I’m sorry and praying for you and yours!
🙏🏻Yes! Prayers for all that are suffering! 🌸☀️🕊🍃
You , too. My mom will be 80 this year…it’s oh so sad to watch, especially when they’ve gotten to this age in life.🖤
My 86 yo MoMster recently caused my puncture ear drum after using her rest room. I was about 5 ft away from her with a wall between us, I was walking down the hall. NEARLY fell to the ground.
Mum is very Christian in the Sadistically CATHOLIC way. Best friend is a Nun & she's tight with the now cold "FROST" LIKE MONSENIOR. GOT many FAMILY members that are Leo's, highway patrol, local city & county sheriff as well, one Superior Court Judge in the footsteps of her "NON"-NARCISSTIC FATHER.
my mother 84 ...its so clear now ..more than when she was younger
Yes, I’ve experienced the narcissist’s insanity.
I have had the invalidation done to me for 26 years. I’m glad I’m free! By prayers and the grace of God I feel great!
My ex is a covert narcissist. I am so glad I am not with him anymore. He hurt me so much and the Lord removed him from me. He managed to turn my children against me also, and now I do not see my grandchildren either. I have been isolated. I am praying the Lord will undertake for me and bring healing and restoration.
I can really relate. My covert husband left me after 31 years without warning or consideration. He did this while my mother was living her last days (last month) He also turned our children against me slowly over time. I will pray for you... You are not alone. There are others like me who understand and will be here for your support if needed. God bless you with peace, healing and comfort.
Sounds just like my ex! I took my kids numbers off his phone. Hid his prized possessions in storage, prayed he wouldn’t beat me up. I waited until he started putting me down and cursing Jesus (he was supposed to be a christian), and I told him to leave or I wouldn’t give him his lock box/stuff back! He left, I immediately changed the locks! I later placed all of his stuff at a neighbor he liked so he could pick it up. Oh-he also started seeing a woman clerk who I work with…. Just to irritate me. She’s probably moving in with him-more gullible!
AMEN!!!
SITTING AND CRYING AGAIN AGAIN....
My mother has been doing all this what you said Chris 😢I’m so deeply hurt & I m a single mum, I didn’t know that this is narcissistic, but I knew she controlled me extremely & always turning everything against me. You speak really exactly what I m facing.i so thankful i finally find you Chris.
My heart ❤️ is with you.
I can relate, I deeply feel your pain. May you find some comfort knowing you are not alone. Kris Reece is amazing, she has helped Mr understand all the abuse, support and validation is so important.
I also follow Dr Sherri Campbell, another great lady who specializes in narcissism, etc.
God’s grace and peace be with you 🌷
“We are not called to battle satan we are called to rebuke and flee”. Thank you bc I believed I was called to battled since it was one after the other and so exhausted and angry with God for my own misbelief he was using me to expose them! It’s me and not God! I will now rebuke and flee! Boundaries are everything!
Me too! I thought I was called to battle instead of rebuke and flee!! No more!!! Thank you Jesus!!
Amen. We are told to turn away!
2Ti 3:5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.
Pro 22:24 Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go:
Pro 22:25 Lest thou learn his ways, and get a snare to thy soul.
God doesn't need you to fight his battles. EVER. that's another demonic tactic.
That is not the great commission! We are to do as Jesus did; He gave us all power and authority over unclean spirit's. This was NOT a request. It is a command. Read your bible's, pray, and take your God given authority!
@@donnamarie2282
Pro 22:24 Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go:
Pro 22:25 Lest thou learn his ways, and get a snare to thy soul.
2Ti 3:1 This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.
2Ti 3:2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
2Ti 3:3 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,
2Ti 3:4 Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;
2Ti 3:5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: FROM SUCH TURN AWAY.
Bless you for your openness & transparency. When we recognize and grieve over our sin it's not narcissism, it's evidence of God working in our heart.
I appreciate your podcast so much. I dealt with three soon-to-be ex-husbands, an adult son, and his wife. The son's wife was a tie-in toxicity to my ex. My son broke my heart by marrying a woman like his stepdad. Learning about these people and healing from codependency Makes sense as to why my son is a narc and married a covert narc. Number # 3 brought pain to my heart and flashbacks. It's shocking for all of the abuse I went through with them. I am doing well with Jesus' help. You can't heal and interact with these people without Jesus, and having a solid prayer life and meditating on scriptures Psalms 31 is one of my favorites My doctors are convinced that my cancer diagnosis is from these people. Please don't stay in these relationships. The devil will absolutely use them to destroy you!
You're correct. I pray total healing for you from the crown of your head to the souls of your feet, holistically, in the Healing Name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
Thank you for sharing that. I prayed for you and then read Psalm 31. I really needed that. You blessed me today. May God bless you with healing, now & forever.
Do they care when you give them the silent treatment? NO!
I think it may depend on if the one who has gone silent or no contact was primo supply for them, or not
@@debbie7326no contact when we decide to leave, Yes that bothers them! But during the marriage or relationship, when we’re expressing our needs or hurts by them, they will give the silent treatment to shut down the conversation and if we return the silent treatment… they do NOT care.
This is probably the most accurate helpful resource on covert narcissism (my soon to be former husband) I have ever heard! I am so grateful I came across this today.
My husband of 31 years left me without warning or consideration after taking care of him (he has MS) and my terminally I'll mother at the most vulnerable time in my life. I had just buried my best friend since I was 4 years old the same month when he left me and my mother passed away. I have so much heartache and loss to process all at once. Any observant person would see that he did this at a time I needed him most. With God I know I can get through this even though I don't see how sometimes.
KRIS REESE YOU ARE SUCH A BLESSING TO ME! YOUR CHRISTIAN & TO THE POINT & DIRECT & STRAIGHT UP! I LOVE YOU FOR THIS! GOD BLESS YOU! I WAS WITH A COVERT NARCISSIST, HE WAS ALWAYS QUITE, SOFT SPOKEN & THEN VIOLENT OUT OF NOWHERE but STRANGELY CALM WHILE PHYSICALLY ABUSING ME AS I A TERMINALLILL & SHOWED NO EMOTION TOTALLY WOULD TRY TO INVALID ME BUT SAYING IM TOO FAT & I'D TELL HIM I DONT CARE WHAT YOU THINK, I DIDN'T ASK YOU WHAT YOU THOUGHT OF ME, TAKE A LOOK AT HIMSELF! HE'D TRY TO TAKE AWAY MY SELF ESTEEM & I WAS VERY AWARE OF IT & SHUT HIM DOWN FAST AS HE OPEN THAT POISION OUT OF HIS MOUTH. AND ITS TAKE MY MONEY TO KEEP ME. I PACKED UP & LEFT & LIVED IN MY CAR TERMINALLY ILL. AND IM STILL ALIVE & FIGHTING TO LIVE PRAISE GOD! AND YES IVE SEEN THE COLD EYE STARES & SLIENT RAGE & IT WAS FRIGTHING BECAUSE I DIDNT KNOW WHAT HIS EYES WERE HIDING. NOW I KNOW BETTER.
🙏🏻 GOD BLESS YOU! No one deserves to be Degraded like what he Did… And you being so Sick! I can not imagine what you have gone through!
🙏🏻Love & Healing! 🌸☀️🕊🍃
I told my ex narcissist husband back in September that he was a narcissist and as soon as I got a job he quickly devalued me and divorced me. I prayed before I told him too. I couldn’t take it anymore. I guess with God’s grace he answered my prayers . If someone does call them out it only works if it is God’s will. I’m free and feeling better than I have for 26 years
Good for YOU!!
Omg GOD BLESS YOU FOR MAKING A TH-cam CHANNEL YOU SAVED MY LIFE !!!!!
This is so healing and helpful to hear!!!! It’s not an accident I came across this tonight. %Godislove❤
My sister does these things….all of the time….all the while she accuses everyone around her of Emotional Abuse and narcissistic tendencies.
Kris thank you so much for the clarification the prayers the support the compassion and may the Lord be with you always through this mission! Hugs
Jealousy, Insecurity and Competition!!!
This is on point so glad my eyes are wide open!! Glory to God!! Thank you for these videos you're phenominal!🙌🙏
A lot of educated narcissists will tell you they are an empath.....
That’s scary
I've used the word "Animosity" -- their extreme animosity.
Awesome Advice! Mind games are the worst, and the enemy knows just how to use them to get to you! Thank you, Kris, God Bless you my friend and sis in Christ!!
Absolutely. I have seen my #1 narc, during shady business deals with me, drop down, stare away, eyes flatten, moisten, and twitch, while delivering a script of lies and distorted reality. Now he knows I know. Unfortunately I let myself be at his mercy to access a home I just built. Time to lawyer up. 😐
I'm not crazy OR suicidal. 😅 Thank you SO much for helping me see what I'm dealing with. The devil in the flesh.
Kris, I so appreciated the time that you took to explain all of this and the nine characteristics that seem to of finally gave me answers to more things that I thought I knew and yet this was more confirmed. Coming to understand what these narcissistic traits are I also see them mixed with portions of a Jezebel spirit as well. I have been utterly crushed under the pretense of what I thought was a close friend I met in a Bible study group. I only discovered these things as they occurred when my spirit was in such an elevated heightened state of awareness, when I was picking up on words that were abusive. I already had past trauma and was medicated for nearly 3 decades for it. I was barely one year off of all meds when I met this person only to encounter what I did. I was absolutely beside myself and thought I was going to lose my mind! Abba, help me, finish the work of what You’ve started.
🙏🏻Kris, Blessings to You for Being so Vulnerable! Yes, We can all be less than perfect! But, it is the true Disciple that keeps turning to Repentance & Striving to do Better! Bad Motives… And justification is not of GOD! You are a Great Example of a Striving Disciple!
🙏🏻God Bless! 🌸☀️🕊🍃
Thank you so much for obeying the Lord and being a light to us Kris! God bless you and your family!
Thank you so much Kriss for your insight! Your videos help me greatly in dealing with my elderly narcissist mother. One of the hardest things in my life has been coming to the realization that my Christian mother is a narcissist...and now the Lord is helping me to learn and understand how to deal with her. Your videos have been a great blessing! Blessings and Shalom to you. ❤🙏❤️🙏
Kris, I feel like you've been such an inspiration to me, your truth and faith remind me of myself❤
The vulnerability at 54:00 was powerful. I need to hear that. Thank you for sharing, Kris!
Thank you so much.Sending blessings from Croatia.❤🙏🌹
Kris you’re a blessing to us!!!
So far out of everything I've learned and watched about the narcissist, this is the best and most accurate description on all levels as described. So worth watching ! Thank you for this. I know I'm not crazy .
This is an amazing video. Thank you for creating it. I have experienced all of these dark tactics. I have been with my husband for 33 years ( 17 years married) and I feel so stuck and trapped. I came from a narcissistic abusive family ( scapegoat) and lo and behold I found someone who is just like my dad narcissistic and abusive. The problem is- I have a teenage autistic son who loves his dad and the thought of leaving ( I really need to for my dignity) makes me feel so overwhelmed and guilty. I don’t know what to do. I have been leaning on God and praying
me too, scapegoat of narc fam, married same. Just learned I am high functioning autistic. My ex does have legion in him. We fight not flesh, but spiritual wickedness. I dont want to scare you, but encourage you to get into your prayer closet, ask Father for His will. I did not know I was autistic, and imagine that fight in court. And family court really was filled with nasty people. So my ex bribed the judge and I lost my children to him, even though I had primary custody. I wont say more because it has been a nightmare. But it DID teach me to seek The Lord...and realize that The Bibel DOES SAY to look at the fruit, like Kris is teaching us. Please seek The Lord before you decide. Learn how viscious a malignant narc (filled with legion, I saw his black eyes) can be if you even tell them you might leave. Domestic violence can help, gather as much support around yourself before even hinting you might leave. Currently, my adult children hate me, though they claim to know Jesus - they refuse to reconcile or talk about things. Their dad did brain wash them to hate me, and a narcissist uses witchcraft manipulation to cause even your friends to take their side and defend them. Please research and learn...it will help you anticipate the narc's move. The better prepared you are...especially being able to hear Jesus our Shepherd's Voice...and Abiding in Word og God... it will make things smoother for your son. I promise to pray for you that Father God's perfect will is done in your life and your son's life. Keep learning...so you will stand strong :)
**Bible sorry for the typos
Hi Sarah, thank you for sharing your story. I’m so sorry that you are going through so much and you lost your children to your narc husband. I can’t image what that feels like and on top of that, your diagnosis of autism. That is so stressful :(. As you know married to a narc is absolutely draining and mind boggling. I have been reading a lot about narcissism in biblical and physiological perspectives- interesting and scary. Now I keep quiet mostly and watch my words and try not to get angry and share in his sin. I have a stepson too who is in his thirties and he’s a narc too - treating me badly right now ignoring me and treating his brother like he doesn’t care- praying leaning on God and asking him for direction. God has helped me so much especially in the last three years. I’ll pray for you and I wish God’s strength upon you 🤍
Praise God for you and your videos! My son met a beautiful, meek, godly Christian lady. Little did ANY of us know she was grooming him! They had a short courtship and quickly married. She kept her facade for 3 years, but I witnessed a few strange behaviors along the way. It was after their first child was born that she began to have emotional problems. She couldn’t handle being a mother. Then, she cheated on my son for over a year and he tried to save their marriage, but she kept cheating and treating him like dirt! She is definitely a Covert Narcissist! Their little girl is 3.5 now. My son had enough and is now in the middle of a divorce and custody battle. His wife is still treating him awful. She is playing mind games with their daughter. My son is a loving Christian man and I am so proud of how he’s handling all this. He has Bipolar and ADHD. His wife wants alimony, child support, and 80/20 visitation. She has done everything bad possible to him for 2-3 years. His mind is not good. It’s like he has PTSD! He has started divorce classes and therapy, but he is really struggling because she beat him down emotionally. She abused him emotionally! I’m trying to help him. I’m disabled and I can’t get around, but I can write and talk. I need help to help him. He has no money. He can’t seem to get a job. He has had problems keeping jobs over the last year, mostly because of stress from his cheating, narcissist wife! I’ve been looking for a lawyer. I think he needs one because of how awful his wife is and she is a big liar. She can act like an actress! ??Would you be able to give me any council or help me, help my son, in any way??
@@dancersmom4u I’m praying for your son & family.
My heart goes out to you and your poor son. I have walked in his shoes with a highly narcissistic ex husband ( diagnosed NPD and anti social personality disorder). Your son needs a lot of support… as much as you can possibly give him and the best legal advice if at all possible … can you try to access Legal Aid? Narcissists love to use the family courts as a weapon to exact punishment upon their victims… even you as the grandmother are not safe from her.
Keep praying too for your son and your grand daughter’s protection as the Narcissist will enact parental alienation upon him increasingly as the little child grows up. Seek out as much social, legal and emotional support for your son now as he will need to be surrounded with a strong support system. God is the only ONE who can keep this demonic force under control. Never stop praying!!
I am praying for you all right now and hope that my warning and advice will help you in some way.
God Bless you 🙏🏼🕊️♥️
Looking at the situation at the present time is exactly what the enemy wants, get himself some skills or a trade starting right now so he can be financially stable down the road. As men we must have vision foresight, not get caught up in the moment and no it's not easy but your encouragement will spark the flame of progress in the positive. Have a plan and keep that plan to yourselves, be wise as serpents and harmless as a doves.
Blessings to you. I encourage you in the Lord!❤
Thank you Jesus for this wisdom.
My biological mother brought in one of my brother’s friends to take my place as her son, triangulation!!!
Nailed the stonewalling from my family..
Nailed my inlaws. My mother inlaw 87 still pits her kids against each other.. She's evil but only I see it.. Everyone says she's so nice.. She lies all the time. Manipulates everyone.. Cripe 30 years ago I said I wanted to start my own holiday traditions she said she didn't care and that WE WILL be at her house. She said she didn't care if we had fun either just be there. And she had get togethers for EVERY holiday. I swear flag day was time for a get together.. 34 years later I finally said NO..
Thank you for opening with worship music!❤🙏🏽
Kris, thank you! I have been watching your videos for a while now, about a year, and the Lord has done a mighty work in me and you have been a godly resource for my overcoming of people pleasing and having fear of toxic people. I feel like a new me. Thank you for the beautiful and heartfelt prayer, I praise God almighty and I thank you again and again may the Lord multiply his favor over you!
Meeee too. You said better what I could not!
👍 Thank you - dealing with narcissistic parents my whole life 😢
I am literally living in mind game #5 as you speak!!! My husband is committing actual adultery as I type. He met a stripper and is now living with her after I asked him to leave our home to get his alcoholism and addictions under control away from the children! Oh man I pray for this unsuspecting woman, her job choice set aside I am sure he is feeding her all types of lies. It’s truly insane. I praise God for allowing the children and I to escape and have a restraining order to keep him away. I ask all here to pray for myself and my 6 children who have put up with this covert narcissist for over 10 yrs. Bless you all and thank you so much Mrs Reese
You are a beautiful person for praying for that stripper. They are lost souls, too. Yes, you know he's feeding that lady the same lies. God has shown you mercy in him finally leaving when you told him. You and your children are safe.
Deceiving, and being deceived, meaning both sides are running game on each other.
Praying our heavenly Father comforts you as he has comforted me. My covert ex-hub left right after my cancer diagnosis for porn and men. I know your pain very well. Our God will sustain you and give you peace Psalms 29:11 and Psalms 31 Psalms 37 Hugs.
My husband like that he just got silent in other country for 3 months but when our 1st wedding anniversary he sent wahtsapp anf want to meet me and want to buy my flight ticket but lucky God protect me.He got angry because he tried to blame me but i reply witj nice words i couldnt under intimidatioj anymore. I have peace and happy life without him and he was very angry. I Was understand more about narsistic from you. I am very blessed to not get under his intimidation anymore i saw God prptect me with brougjt him out of my life. THANKS GOD
Thank you Kris. God bless you.❤
My sister in Christ, the Lord used you to touch my heart today and answer a question that’s been heavy on my heart for a long time. I often felt like it was me that was toxic in my marriage now divorced. The explanation you gave between iniquities and a struggles, I felt the Spirit answering that question for me for the first time coming out of a long covert narcissistic relationship.
I heard your heart. Thank you so much for allowing God to use you in sharing a personal part of you. It has blessed me and lifted a weight I’ve been carrying for a long time!
May the Lord Blessed this channel!
Thank you for your videos. They gave me much more insight. (30 years ago) I fell for love bombing. I didn't know borderline (she said she was). Nor was I familiar with narcissism, but I knew the mechanisms, from my counseling course at bible school. Your videos help me to help people, thank you, again! God bless you, Eric from Ede, Holland!🎉🙏
I'm so grateful for you and your videos, Kris! I just ended relationship with a man who is the very epitome of EVERY demonic, narcists trait!!! It lasted 1.5 years, 4 break-ups....at times I could literally see his eyes glaze over with evil! I loved him so and wanted it to work because of all the "good times". 2 weeks ago, after another very traumatic gaslighting argument, I heard God tell me.."Let him Go"! And that is what finally got my eyes to open completely! I want to be obedient to my Father! Not Satan. Thank you again :)
Go Girl!! You Got This!!
Same here, I did it for 5 1/2 years .
I pray for protection and for all the light the ones that hold the light with in we shall not be flooded in or groomed in sin. Write in the tablet in my heart. Im beside not above not beneath. I want to grow Lord i stand up to save myself and my 3 year old son.
I’m so glad I found you! I’m accused of lying deflect deflect deflect and then he says I play the blame game. I’m always the victim.
Kris you are well loved in healthy education teaching how to stay safe when in a relationship are over coming out of a toxic marriage keep up the good work spreading Gods work Amen 🙏🙏🙏
Wait a second, my husband emotionally and verbally abuses me, why do I feel like the Narcissist? He rages and dismisses my concerns. He is very hard to approach on anything he doesn’t want to deal with, my stomach gets in knots just talking to him and I’ve learned to shut down and just not communicate because I can’t get put into a mind battle. He gave me a thermometer one day when I had been sick for days, I put the thermometer in my mouth and after it beeped he said,“I did wash it with soap and water, it was used on the animals but I washed it” I said, you used this on the rear end of a cow?!” He threw up his hands and yelled at me and said, “0h I can’t do anything right!” I wash it, it’s clean!! I said,” washing with soap and water is not sterilizing it. He stormed out of the room. It’s a digital thermometer it has crevices on it you can’t get clean and the mere thought of it being up a cows butt made me want to vomit. My friend said he’s gaslighting you.
That's horrible..... My husband loves that line. "I can't do anything right.." of course I don't answer. But no he can't because he doesn't try. He half a$$es everything. I used to think it was adhd but now I realize narcs do that if it's unimportant to them.
Honey may I be blunt? The only solution for your situation is to joyfully, quietly- don't tell him- LEAVE.
Trust me on this. You will understand the answer to your question soon soon soon after you have left him but not until you get some space..
Wait a second.... One cotton picking moment- I recognize your post here from other places.... Hmmmm. Feels off.
This is like listening to my three year situationship.
Word for word, its like a script .
I wondered how he brainwashed me. You exlained it perfectly. im not crazy now but thought back then i was going to end up in a nut home.
he came back and i could feel the control straight away. its all over and im healed now🙏
You are telling my story 😢 please pray for me. I'm stuck here between a brother and sister. I cannot walk away. I must deal with this until I can remove myself from this situation 😢😢😢
Breathe Love
Thank you for your Vulnerability, and I'm sorry for your pain. And I thank you for all your knowledge.
I always have confidence in myself.
I'm not crazy 🙏
Amen.
I enjoy a lot this moment. I studied music in an adventist university. In Medellín Colombia. Always the class starts praying. And we had many teachers. Pastors, and wives who were also great singers and musicians.
Never was music, and education that fun.
Thank you. You are like another teacher of that time.
Never studying music was so insignificant as in these days. Because no matter how good you performed. Everybody used to answer...Amen. no clapping. No cheers. No whistle.
Only that. And that change my soul. For good I think.
To share my talent is not a job.
To do what I'm capable of. And to be prepared for a little more difficult.
Sorry for my English. Did I myself enough clear? You are also English teacher for me. I have to thank you more than a little. But not clapping or screaming. Amen doc. I enjoy your authenticity.
Thank you so much Chris and I appreciate your vulnerability because
At the moment, when you were saying, you don’t want the criticism to turn into gossip, I have been repenting lately for this, and I just don’t wanna keep going to God about the same thing… what you said show me that I’m really growing because there was a time where I would be telling my truth about how I felt about being wronged and then it turned over to gossip without me even realize it… thank you so much and God bless❤
I thank The Lord for you @Kris_Reece for all you are doing to open our eyes about toxic/Narcissistic people. God will surely make the impossible possible as we try to heal and live victorious lives as Christ intended for us.
God bless you.🙏
It's strong of you, to be honest, Chris, may the Lord release you from this trait and continue to give you his peace. Amen.❤
Thank you kris,
I just gave up stuck in silence didn't want to leave my bed but I also was taking drink and drugs to self mediac my sell bcoz I would go out people were too much for me constantly being drained by them I'm a really sensitive person and it can be too much for me being around people all I want is to be years ago when neabours and people cared not many people now will stop if you see someone upset or struggling I would stop to check on them no wot I mean not now there's to much pain and suffering in the world now and my vibrations get to overwellmed me and feel really sick to my stomach and have to go home 🏡 but I'm getting better thanks to you and Jesus christ almighty and God 🎉😂💖😻👌🙏🤝all my love from me and my family to you and yours xxxx sincerely Yvonne 😊
"Godly" people can be the worst of narcs. Watch out who you ask to be a sounding board.
Hello I'm Dawn McCullar I'm 43 with a 3 year old son. I have my heart and spirit still and yes I hear you good.
👍 just wanted to say i really appreciate your content. Only son of a covert narc father, you’re absolutely right when you say they do a number on you! Content like this has been very helpful in my biblical walk to recovery and growth, thanks again.
Kris thank you so much for your encouragement and prayers and your vulnerability with us. God bless the work you do in fighting and helping us fight the forces of darkness.
Thank you dear sister and also for your own honesty with your own struggles/vulnerability regarding narcs. I TOO, when wanting to empty my heart and vent to another about a FACTUAL experience with narcs (without exaggeration nor false accusations) seem to feel guilty afterwards as I ask myself, was that an innocent conversation as per disclosure of an incident/event that DID TAKE PLACE or did that end up criticising and gossiping about this perpetrator??? It feels great to offload and feel heard and validated regarding these experiences. To be able to speak with someone in the physical realm in real time, feels so healing also... I feel caught between a rock and a hard place, between our precious King Jesus and God in the spiritual realm or a loving ear and shoulder to cry on when it all gets too much with another human. I feel damned if I ever do and damned if I don't. I confess and ask for forgiveness, but I feel guilty for sharing my pain with another. I feel I have nowhere to go anymore... with anything. I feel bad whining about to these things to God OR whining about it to another. I am nearly DONE!!!! I am finding it difficult to keep on loving the human race right now.. NARC demons seem to be EVERYWHERE now. Dear Yah, forgive me!!!
God Bless your Ministry !
Fasting / Forgiveness / Eucharistic adorations / Praying and Blessing your enemies / Renew / Recreate / Heal /
Gym / Exercise / Intermittent fasting / Deep R.E.M sleep / Supplements / Sauna / Cold Plunges / Grounding / Forest Bathing / are great ways to heal!
Amen. Lets take care of the Lord temple. Inside & out.
Amen. I value what you offer!
Thank you Zoe! ❤️
It’s driving me crazy right now 😢
Amen sister i pray for you i pray dear Lord heal her heart by the ones who . Your overcoming them. You can do it. Im walking with yiu sister. Amen
I'm retired at 27, went from Grass to Grace. This video here reminds me of my transformation from a nobody to good home, honest wife, $35k biweekly and a good daughter full of love ❤️.....
I'm highly inspired.
Please spill some sugar about the bi-weekly stuff you mentioned.
I raised 75k and Christina Ann Tucker is to be thanked. I got my self my dream car 🚗 just last weekend, My journey with her started after my best friend came back from New York and saw me suffering in dept then told me about her and how to change my life through her. Christina A. Tucker is the kind of person one needs in his or her life! I got a home, a good wife, and a beautiful daughter. Note!:: this is not a promotion but me trying to make a point that no matter what happens, always have faith and keep living!!
Wow 😱 I know her too
Miss Christina Ann Tucker is a remarkable individual whom has brought immense positivity and inspiration into my life.
I started with a miserly $1500. The results have been mind blowing I must say TBH!
< I know that woman(Christina Ann Tucker)
If you were born and raised in new York you'd know too, No doubt she is the one that helped you get where you are!!
Thank you for your insight!
Many thanks, Esteemed ❤
My husband is making me feel like I am the narcissist. He threatened to burn the house if I dare to ask court for a right division and I run away and he played the victim saying “my wife abandoned me”. I have been suffering so much, even feeling dying on bed.
Get away at ANY COST. Just Go. No money. No nothing. Find a shelter and get out. It will not get better. Sorry. You can do this.
Kris, this is my second comment and the video is over , so you may never see this…I want you to know how very much you have helped me learn about my son’s narcissist wife. He is Christian and loves the Lord very much! I pray for you, Kris, and that God will continue to bless you and your channel. You have been a huge blessing in my life. Thank you so much for everything! ✝️🙌🏻🛐🙏🏻🤍⭐️🕊️🌼💜
You really nailed this one and have a full understanding of the nature of the NARCISSIST! I love you, Chris, for being so honest and caring.
always love your heart and prayers. Your strong biblical perspective is very resonating and confirming for my spirit.♥
Holy cow, Kris. You really are an expert in this stuff. It’s like everything you say rings true in my history. Very well done and thank you 😊
Your so wise and kind thank you. I am being taken advantage of by a women renting my home and she has been using the most sinister dark threats - it’s frightening
Wow this is my husband!!
He left me for a younger woman. I wish I could warn her. But you're totally right about the long game. Yes that's him!
Preciosa Kris, gracias por este magnífico trabajo, un abrazo desde España 🇪🇦
She did exactly what you just said about the cold silent rage. The eye shift , change in demeanor , I could see an inner boiling of sorts in body. I felt it was demonic. Eyes I’ve never seen before. . The shift was brought on by me asking a simple question that triggered shame in her past behavior. She turned it back on me in a blame shift and demanded I apologize for an event that occurred a year earlier that never actually occurred. Like a true codependent empath , I apologized. But I made it a conditional apology. This led to a verbal rage on her part with cursing and name calling, all in a public restaurant.
The narcissist ive been dealing with my wife its hit me a few weeks ago she doesn’t love or respect me. Its not the first time ive come to this realisation, i think this is the last time. Ive been through all the lies, the manipulation, even my friend said shes a fake christian and he wasnt christian himself but he was correct. Im done and i hope God lets me out of this sham of a marriage. Thanks for the great explanation Kris, your videos help a lot!
Exactly. A big AMEN. They don't died in his flesh.
Ur amazing helped me so much. Love ur honesty about your struggles none of is are perfect xx
A M E N ! P T L ! 🔥 THANK YOU, JESUS! ALL GLORY BE TO GOD!💥❤️
Appreciate you very much Kris. The website finally fell off and I’m reeling. Walked right into it, 4 years ago. The lies just amaze me.
Yes my opinions are like zero - no regard
My father was a genius and a classic narcissist! He even moved to another country! He was a Christian and could quote the Bible…I was concerned for his soul(even though he rejected me-he actually hated me!). But before he died, he suffered terribly (multiple strokes from receiving a madierna vaccine.)Broken hip with repair, became bedbound with dementia. Finally, the suffering he endured brought him to the Lord(all He wanted was my dad’s heart!) my dad became a sweet, loving person before he died! He also kept asking for me-the one child he never loved!
This is deep. Yup. Great post. I almost hugged the screen. Well said about the low the energy wants you to believe. Moody video. Cinematic. Your videos are absolutely
Amen and Amen. Thank you Kris Reece for this work.🙏🏽💫
"They elevate themselves at the expense of others" .... 💯 True😳🤯😡.. Just beginning to really see 👀 and understand 😯 now in my 40's that this has been my father and sister's intention ALL along, to destroy my life and obliterate my chances to be independent, happy and thriving let alone have my own relationships or a husband and family (which I could be as I'm very well educated and capable and well mannered and kind and had good friends growing up and at university). I pray God delivers me NOW, compensates me double for their trouble and lies AND blesses me with a BEAUTIFUL HUSBAND and life and career totally separate from my father and sister 🙏🤲✨🔥🔥🔥💗💗💗.
?Our daughter is married to a narcissist who won’t let us talk to her. She is going along with him, when she is allowed to talk to us . Is it wise to try to go visit her so we could possibly talk to her alone? She is not allowed to talk to us on our phones. We don’t know what she is thinking, of her relationship. Are she and her two babies in trouble ? We don’t know. We live 3 days drive away from her 😢
We don’t know what we should do. We haven’t been able to talk to her for months.
We sooo appreciate you Kris Reese you have taught us so much! I just wish we had seen your program 4 years ago 🥺
I hope Kris gave you some help here. I won't try to answer completely- just a few scattered thoughts having been in your daughter's shoes.
First, may I please say THANK YOU! Bless you for still caring. My parents...well, things were so broken before I got together with my narcissist person I never even was able to tell them WHAT was really going on during or after.
AFter my life was shattered and everything fell apart. I could barely pay my bills. Just because I couldn't focus enough to do the job, not because I didn't have the money even.
I was that crazy. He had dismantled my mind.
So, yes. Your daughter is in grave danger and your grandchildren too. But first off, if she leaves she does put herself in more danger, as Kris says. You have to engineer these things very very carefully and and play The Long Game with these fellows. They are wily and sneaky and will say anything at any time that gets them what they think that they want at the moment. So, just letting your daughter know that you are always still out there. Waiting if she 'ever needs you'. Which she will, but not until she's ready.
Just let her know that you support her no matter what she decides, because not only is he a danger if she leaves, but if you push her or jump on too early, she might dig in and believe you don't love her because you don't understand her love for this person you see as less than safe and happy.
These people take you in and they mess with your mind. When you are Trauma Bonded, the Narcissist has become your God. It is a terrible thing and a waste of time and life... Just be there for her...no matter what.
@@sunnyadams5842 thank you so much for sharing your experience and advice and knowledge come at a very important time! Gods timing! We realized after just listening to a few minutes of Krises podcast yesterday that we REALLY NEED TO LEAVE our daughter in Gods hands! HE alone can fix this problem!! A few months ago He told me “ This is too big for you I have to deal with this one! So I must have FAITH that my Heavenly Father will take care of her and HE LOVES her more than I do! Thank you for confirming this to me! Can I email you directly?
Thank you for sharing your knowledge and your heart. You’re very special..