I Visited The Town Where Women Cannot Cheat
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ก.พ. 2023
- Onna' is a town believed by many that married woman cannot cheat. I traveled to the town to find out why women can't cheat and after speaking with some people from the town I came to find out they have a deity that forbids married women from cheating ironically married men are exempted.
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I want Ekpo Nka Owo to build a communication satellite for me so that I can compete with the Americans, Chinese and other countries of the world.
AMAZING! African tradition vs foreign tradition.
Brother you content are great
I am from Onna L.G.Area. The youth president is my Church member and in our Church we do not believe in superstitions nor do we encourage infidelity.
Understandable
My guy you're not from Aks n onna
Because if you're from onna this is so real and true,
I am From Ikot Udo in onna L.G area
@@richmillz6081 it's okay
Love the way you said “they have a blind eye 👁️ to the men “. 😂🤣😂🤣😂
That's ironic 😂
This culture prominent amongst the edoic speaking people of the Benin kingdom eg isokos, urhobos, Beninese, esans and afemai
wow really
@@wowneche actually it is more pronounce in these places, I didn't know it is also practiced in that area you just projected
Yeah it’s also in my father’s family
@@wowneche yes.. in Delta state urohbo, isoko, ukwani it's called ishiaya) if a woman cheats & the husband is aware it would affect both of them, but if the woman confesses to her husband (family) they will ask her to use her own money to appeals the gods my uncle's wife die in this process she didn't confess until she was in labor trying to give birth to the child from another man, my dad's cousin also die from this .. she confess last minute before dieing
I’m urhobo and it works sometimes it kills the kids
It is common in many community in Akwa Ibom. It also kills the man if his adultrous wife come back to cook for him with the money she earn from any act of adultry. If spend one naira of that money on the husband the man may die except a scrifice is does fash to save him within hours. However the wife will surely die.
He's not nice because he's a Christian like you said, he's nice because he's a good person. Religion has nothing to do with your character. Nice contents you make brother, well done.
You're right
Thanks for watching
Just good natured
Religion definitely can have influence of your character one is supposed to reflect what there religions teaches.
Well done. Good investigative adventure. Keep it up !
Thank you
I went to know about my village too because my mom and dad always tell me something like this in benue state
Aleku
Not only ona L. G. A. It’s also done in the Annang clan it’s a general culture in annang clan and some part of ibibio in akwa ibom...
Interesting
I have an annang friend who told me this before.
When I was back home, I asked my dad about it and he confirmed it, I also know a person who died from this , plus why some people don’t die is because they weren’t married legally, if they’ve paid your bride price and you went ahead to cheat, best believe you’re meeting your ancestors
He said sometimes it happens during child birth and yes if she cheats and buys stuff with the money gotten from that act, it will affect you as well, if you as the husband is told and restitution is done but you ‘eat it alone’ Ancestors straight 😂
Plus it depends on the family though.. not the village
Are you scared of meeting your ancestors?
They are already there ,They will be glad you came.
😅😅😂😂Ancestors Straight😅😅😂😂
Very true ooo,am Essene town Ikot Abasi L.G Akwa Ibom,it's kill husband and wife and children if the woman collect money from another man and use it cook.
🤔🤔🤔🤔🌹🌹🌹🌹
This is my community and the thing is real. The thing attack my late aunty but she refused to confess she died.
Wow
@@calmbella8504 Wow
May her soul rest in peace!🙏🏾
I enjoy the video. I would also love to see the villages. Next videos, spend some time and stand on a high ground and show the villages. Would love to visit you one day so you can take me around.
Am from Nsukka somewhere in Enugu state a married woman cannot sleep with another man like you can’t cheat if you does …… madness follows
Not only in Onna. I don't know of other states, but it is an AkwaCross culture and varies by families. #ProudlyIbibio!
wow
I was about commenting this particular point.
It kills the husband when the wife cooks with the adultery money
Exactly what killed my grandma's elder brother's children 7 boy's because the wife was sleeping around before they could find out it was already too late
That’s so sad 😢why kill the children
Great and informative video Sirǃ
Glad you liked it
I'm a Yoruba man but I've seen 2 cases of such, our tenant and his cheating wife then, she later died, second one was my elder brother's friend, isoko man, until when the woman confess during child labour that was when she was relieved
interesting
I wish you will come Ghana 🇬🇭 we have so many cultures and many more 😢kudos to all ur videos
Does being a christian automatically make you a nice person ?That brother is naturally of good character.
Right
Good question. If all Africans could learn their history before Christianity & Islam, what these 2 religions did to the Africans & Africa centuries ago, then no African would dare to open their mouth that they're Christians or Moslems. No Africans will be Christians or Moslems. They will be practicing only their African religions. Also, no Africans will be answering the names & surnames of the same people who dehumanized & colonized their ancestors. The same people who looted their continent to build theirs & of course they're still looting the continent.
@@marysimpsons7545what an intelligent person who knows where he comes from. I fucking hate religion
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Nice one dear
Powerful ☺️
Right
You are trying your Channel is Authentic
Thanks so much
I love your videos bro
It's also the same thing in Enugu-Ezike Nsukka Enugu State
Yes you are right dear
wow
Am coming to Enugu ezike to get married
Kongo luba people of kasai province have the same tradition women Don t cheat
Ubulu Okiti in Delta State also has this tradition
Also do something on cross river state
Many villages and towns have this same culture like Nsuka and Nsugbe it also kills men when you turn a blind eyes to what your wife is doing and still sleeping with her and eating her food the man dies first
Interesting
Exactly same with benin
Well, I was schemed into marrying one J Gold whose mother, D Gold is from the said Onna. The people sleep with just anything: neighbors, female friends' husbands, elderly landlords, uber and taxi drivers, and my male friends. J Gold actually said I was gonna die like her own father who probably died because D Gold was sleeping with several other men. At a point, I was spitting blood and no clinic could diagnose what was wrong with me. Plus their bullies, abuses, and diabolical use of charms and witchcraft. It is only God that saved my life as J Gold left to continue sleeping with all kinds of men... You know that there is a tendency for law or rule to stir more sin, maybe that's why they cheat more...
@wowneche i just got across your video and I’ll like to say keep up the good work 👌🏾
Pls Is it possible to have the contact of the president of the youths?
I actually don't have his contact
@@wowneche ok thank for your response and keep the up with your rich and informing videos
This is one of the reasons why the continent is so behind. The people are oppressing their own nation, their own sisters, mothers, and superiority among their own selves! Once they let freedom reign for all, the continent shall flourish in success!
And how far have we gone as a country by committing adultery left, right, front, back, up and center. It's not about our culture man, it's our leaders and how they mismanage state funds. No visionary leaders hence no proper planning whatsoever. Let's stop trying to denigrate our culture, belief and customs
@@kstvchannel2503
They seem to worry about all nonsense, but what will make them the strongest nation on earth! A country must have laws that benefit all citizens as a whole. Create rules that protect all citizens in your country, and do not allow strangers to take advantage of or disrespect your people when they arrive on your land! Stop continuing stupid old traditions that serve no purpose! Stop child marriages, and let young girls become fully able and educated women! Stop polygamy, where one man would have more than one wife, which creates Poverty. Stop oppressing women in general that will help balance your continent! Finally, stop being corrupt, and realize this is your country you are taking down the drain, try your best to do everything right, and not only will you succeed, but the whole continent shall succeed! Stop being money hungry by taking any bribe from a foreigner who doesn't care about you or your people!
Talk about ur self and not for the continent. Because u seems not to understand even what they are talking about here. And what’s to give ur senseless opinion shame . Also I don’t understand where u get ur this mindset everything about u is considered behind for others it’s good dmmmm man fix ur self
Myopic reasoning indeed, did you read your comment again ?
Demonic misogyny is one of the reasons we are behind everywhere.
I think if a person believes in this thing it can happen but if you don't believe in this belief I think you can not die
True
@@wowneche the mind can be very powerful
Did they go to a doctor 🏥💊. To see if he had a disease.
In my village in Enugu state (Enugu ezike) inside Nsukka as far as u are a married woman u can’t cheat if you do so you will never run mad
Please read this your comment again,it is confusing
@@VersatileFx she wants to write "you will run mad.. Or, you'll forever run mad"
@@Franklin8701 well understood now
Am from Akwa Ibom State
I agree with you
Is also like that in my home town okpuje Nsukka local government Enugu State
interesting
Usually, the men who sleep around a lot aren’t that high value for a relationship, nor they Christians. In reality men pay a price for promiscuity and so do women that would pay the ultimate price in this world, but men's price for sinning will be eternal hellfire in after life.
Yes my brother that sounds good even the men should be attached too from Sierra Leone 🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱
True
Men could have multiple wives
Is also in Ikot Abasi where I came from
"You are a Christian right, that's why you are a nice person"
I loved that
As Christians,we are expected to be nice - Good example
Cultures and traditions exist every where in Africa even in South America ...
My mum is from uruan L G A, the same thing is in my mum's village.
That state is in south south and not south east
Ok thanks
Lol
Women have been suffering since one million years ago
I'm from Edo state Esan, and if you are married to an Esan man and your bride price is paid you can't cheat on your husband, if you must cheat on the man, do not go back home or cook for him or sleep with him or else either it affects the children or the woman dies.... Urhobos in Delta state have the same tradition too, am proudly married to an Urhobo man.
interesting
Urhobo man wayo...congratulations oo my sister
Them don sabi dribble the gods....
@@cvlavonou21caleb9 your on point am just reading and laughing at all this claims; things wey we dey see everywhere every day..
Wow for real !!?? So, women have to just accept with no question ask. Unacceptable
Right it's not fair
Unacceptable? Then you should marry into a family that has it, and cheat. 😡😡😡😡
@@wowneche you need to respect their culture because everyone has their own culture
When you travel to other countries, you'll see that they have a culture they practice. When you travel to the middle east you'll know that you don't shake a married woman's hand, go to Japan & you'll see that there's culture they observe & all foreign visitors are obliged to follow! It's only in Africa that we wrestle with our cultures. If it's possible some woman in Africa would have advocated for men to carry pregnancy as well.
In Akwa ibom and cross river
Wow,ride on
Thanks for watching
My place too,isukwuato Abia state
wow
Men found a way to control women😂😂😂..Women will cheat and never be found out at all..As long the man thinks his wife will not cheat, the woman can get away with it😂😂😂My friend from there cheats and the man doesn’t even know..
@BeTheLight OfThisWorld I don’t blame your mom, she is smarter than him..
@Tmacpherson “WOMEN WILL CHEAT AND NEVER BE FOUND OUT AT ALL..AS LONG AS THE MAN THINKS HIS WIFE WILL NOT CHEAT, THE WOMAN CAN GET AWAY WITH IT” 😂😂😂😂😂😂 exactly 🤷🏾♀️🫶🏾
We need this at Allen Avenue in Lagos 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Bro, there were Church, but traditions has began to exist before Church came;and there were some traditions that if you failed to obliged with, it will be making life difficult for you to become progressive until you gone and sort somethings out before you will become successful.
Ekpo nka-awo is not a masquerade. It's more or less like an internal deity. Like the land fighting against you.
Right
It is also practice in Delta State lot in isoko, Urwobo here I dere not try it whether u are a christian or not if u dare u die
Interesting
Interesting
Right
Many places in nigeria have this culture even isoko land
It is in all akwaibom stateoooo
Fornication is sin and sin is death and death is Hell . Unfortunately these men don't have the fear of Almighty God Above and don't know scripture but in their hearts they know it's wrong. Their souls are in danger of being cast down!
Thanks for watching 🙏🏾
Onna “South eastern part of Nigeria” 🤔 from which state in the southeast please.?🤔
Nah same thing for my side ooo... obollo/Nsukka
wow
I’m from Edo state. Naturally women are forbidden to cheat or collect money from another man when she’s married. Their is a repercussions for it if you do and think no one see you. Before its the husband or kids that will get seriously sick and die if not noticed early. But now they have returned it that the woman that cheated should bear the consequences. I edited this comment because of those people asking
Which part of Edo u think so
Exactly the same tradition of the luba people of kongo kasai province
Really 🤔🤔🤔
@@collinsebukaebuka4780 I am from Edo state too and I can confirm our married women don't cheat
Please don't confuse ibo culture with Edo culture the are totally and completely different.
Where in Edo state
There are similar things in Argentina,Brazil and so many other places....they are real.....people should pass history to younger generations and not pretend these traditions /cultures do not exist. Tell the youths the truth and they decide which way to go. We can also find our true values through tradition and cultures .It's not always negative..... there is part of my community,if you steal from someone farm,the farmer will surely meet you there bc you can not leave the farm land. My point is history should bet told the way it is .... well done guys
Ahh...I don see where I dey go find wife... 😁😁😁
😅
In my local government izzi in ebonyi state, married woman will never cheated in life and if she failed to do so she gets sick or die.
I will love to travel with you
I m from Akwa ibom,it is very true that thing exist in some places only iron people that don't have it.
Right
Iron people? Who are those?
@@samsimpson4448 Oron not iron
Akwa ibom My State 😂😂😂😂😂😂ekpo-nkaowo!!😂😂😂😂😂
This practice is also in Enugu ezike
In my village from delta states d thing dey always dey favoured women...And men dey die well well before they com change am say women nor fit dey cheat again....in my village it doesn’t mean whether you b Christian or not it will affect you...I love my culture so much
wow
Yes is true even in my village ibesikpo u can't have sex with another man when you are married
She said that it's not fair
It's all so in my village but not from any deity
It's like the women that cheats See's ir as a normal thing... Imagine the woman boldly asking of the other man.
Onna ppl are very particular about their beliefs
Villagers 🙆🏾♀️ Nawaoo 🙆🏾♀️
Well, they have it in Togo, too, but it goes after the man too.
wow interesting
This happens in all part of akwaibom not just onna
Interesting
Ekpo nkawo is real
Really
It's very true, that is my state
Almost all the family have it in Akwaibom state. It's even affected people who cheat on their husbands here in Lagos
Hmmm
Not my own family
Maybe in your village
Hmmmm
How about those that their husbands didn't paid their bride price or did not paid the complete bride price?
We have the same tradition in Nsukka
If u cheat on ur husband u will forever remain mad and if ur husband know about ur cheating and continue eating ur food he is the one going to die
thats not fair! i will never worship a deity like that. The man can get away with murder but any woman has to loose her life for cheating? 👎
Sad isn't it?
Point of correction, Akwa ibom state is in South - South zone and not in the South East zone
Thanks for watching
Is there anything like south south in world map?
That’s what I was going to ask, was this a culture or belief?
I’m finding in a lot of religion many things are not of The Creator, it’s “culture,” made up by men. When it comes to topics like this the culture is always in the favor of mans pleasures and dismay towards the woman. This isn’t right on any level. I agree with the young man saying, they both should be faithful.
And what makes you think Christianity and Islam is of the Creator? they were created by men, this you should know first. Look, when something is not good we should address it as it is. Every body is waiting for the slightest thing to insult African Culture. Trying to dirty our culture amidst solving a problem is a not the best.
This is how it is supposed to go. It is human who sermoned the deity/spirit to work in that fashion I strongly believe. You just have a meeting and talk to the head priest and tell him you don't like the idea of how females should die when they cheat, but men should live regardless. Please, we want you to talk to the deity that we want to make amends and that a man is allowed to marry as many wifes as he wants. Besides his wifes, he can't have an affair with no other woman otherwise he dies
@@kstvchannel2503,if you read my comment properly, I commented behind what was said in the video. I do know about Christianity and Islam. Why do you think it was an insult on Africa? You do know this happens elsewhere?
Can you answer why is it that way? Man marries many, can cheat, nothing happens; woman marries a man can’t cheat, dies when she does? Where did that culture come from? When did it start? It’s not just in Africa.
its in the family not akwaibom state
In my town , ekpoma Edo state
If a woman cheats, is the husband that will bear the consequences
Perfect this should be implemented world wide
😂
Am a traditional religionlist it's true the youth president doesn't know,it's works depends if the man has paid something on your head you go die ooooo some dey catch men some dey catch women.
IF HE CAN CHEAT THEN YOUR WOMEN SHOULD HAVE AS MANY HUSBANDS AS SHE CHOSES,TRUTH
unfortunately it's not
We have it in my family.
I think it's in almost all akwa ibom state but different punishment.
In my village the women do die but in my kids town the men do frustrate and become useless
In some town their children die.
In my mum family the man do die.
Is it only Eponkao or akwa Ibom people, No! It’s all people from southeast Nigeria especially igbo race, they all have this deity that keeps their women for them, I have seen several igbo men boasting that even if they travel as far as Singapore or Australia for years their women will still not cheat on them and this how I conclude that people from that region may be active in the church but their minds men and women are always with their idols, in other words it’s difficult to get genuine worshippers of God from southern part of Nigeria…
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A deity whose cure is money, it is to be questioned. Has it got a fixed amount that every adulterer is a ware of? If it has a price, can the woman secretly pay the money in advance before the act?
They don't just give it money
they buy things for sacrifice to appease the deity
Yes is happening in my village too called isua Akoko in Ondo State our own is very seriously that if you cheat on husband you will die or your husband will die and your children will die as well too that why I didn't married in my village go are asked is killing many people in village l want you to go to Isua Akoko in Ondo State
If married you do not cheat on husband but your husband can do anything he with another woman
Our elders trying to find a solution to it but
they can't
Go to Isua Akoko in Ondo our own is real
wow
Am from akwa ibom state and i also hear about but i will like you to go to obot akara L G A and check
From my side in Edo state my family if the wife cheat on her husband, is either the male child dies or the husband
I would not get married as a woman then. Rubbish
Am from Benin and this is our Tradition if you cheat get ready for the consequences except you speak out that you have committed adutry so some things can be done before its too late. And if the wife is cheating and the husband is aware of it but keep a deft ear and didn't tell anyone then he continue drinking and eating the woman food then the man will die.
Even in Enugu ezike, but why would married women cheat for?
Interesting
Point of Correction.. It's not in SOUTH-EAST.. It's SOUTH-SOUTH..
It's not fair
Is real oo