Why I Went Looking For An African Wife Overseas
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 พ.ค. 2024
- Why I went looking for a wife overseas is a question I got asked often in Canada and in the comments. It's not always openly talked about amongst friends and family. Going overseas to get an african muslim wife was the best decision i ever made and this is my reasons.
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You have your born right to choose whoever you want to marry. You don't need to explain yourself to anyone. May Allah bless your family.
Amin
As salaamu alaykum
Alhamdulilah
Aameen 🤲🏽
He can explain himself because it sucks here they don’t even give me a chance because they generalize western women.
I’m an Africans woman I live in America. I never act like that and I will never be like that. I will still be like I’m African woman taught by my good mother to respect husband.
بارك الله فيك حبيبتي
بارك الله فيك يا اختي❤
Is this guy genuine.
Why must a woman be submissive.
He is looking for a servant.
You want to be his slave go ahead just shut up
My Ghanaian 🇬🇭sister. I wish you all the best with ur husband. He is funny. 🙏🏿🙏🏿
Her energy is so contagious 😂❤ this man will never be bored
❤❤Stay keeping each other first
But cleaning is not only womens job let’s support and care and love each other
When your husbands works full time and provides. At least have the decency to do basic housework. If she’s not working and mainly at home, why not cook and clean and take care of hubby? Yes hubbys also help, but it’s not a competition.
@@ZazezooI agree
Honestly I have a great job and make great money at my corporate job.
My mom and dad are traditional couples and when I am married,I would rather stay home cook healthy food for my husband and kids and be a housewife.
As an African who grew up partly in Africa and the US, still struggle to fit in the the US 😞
@@Zazezoo ya if she is a housewife it’s fine if she do it !just saying if both working and only the women do everything house work plus outside work but if she is a housewife agree with u
But the man can also say that earning and providing is not my job! Allah has made both partners equal but given different roles. Women can multitask, and has qualities and required skills for becoming good homemakers. I hear so many working women complaining about their male colleagues flirting with them, and they feel guilty for neglecting their home and kids. Isn’t it much better to let men go out and earn, which is what nature intended.
@@lanatube6070I understand you. I am married, my husband and I work. He got someone to come to our house once a week to do the major cleaning around the house including laundry. He drops me off and from work each day and when I am home I cook and clean for him, and he assists sometimes too. When I am too tired to cook, we order out or he does the cooking. Like someone said, no competition, just try to always be nice and considerate of each other.😊
I’m a one of your subscribers from America I am Christian I am also very much a woman I see all the ratchet behavior that happens on social media I do find much of it sad however I have to say there are good women in America I’m one of them my daughter is one of them I have the upmost respect for myself I’ve always taught her to have the same with this being said the things in those clips you showed are not the behavior of every woman in America. Actually when it comes to relationships I very much traditional! I’m glad that you said you’re sure every woman isn’t like that. I watched your first vlog showing how you went to find your wife I think that’s wonderful!
yea im sure not every American woman are like, thats just my experience with them. And thank you for watching i appreciate
Even our five finger isn't same so everyone is deferent I agree 💯
Please bro I come back you don't have your friend she need a woman to marry him please when you have it tell me your brother or your friend now almos 7 to 8 years now I am not in relationship because I am tired of some man laya
Good man Shipra five times a day she know something about the Quran me I am not the Hafiz Quran bahut I know sometimes in Quran because of that I need the man she know something about Quran because of I Kalyan excellence something from him this life drinks love somebody because of money please bro help I need one mon she is very serious thanks me Allah bless you
Yes you’re right maybe a good amount of them are like that. I am Muslim and I am not like that and I know many women who are not like that. But he is right it’s becoming more difficult to get married and women are influenced by the feminist movement.
Masha Allah Alhamdulilah, Im Muslim ☪️ American Born and Raised here in the states. Im a revert I definitely understand where you coming from. It goes both ways too. A lot of Muslim men here in America play games and want to do things before Marriage Subanallah. Some even want to have secret lovers. Alhamdulilah My Husband is from West Africa 🌍 ( Nigeria 🇳🇬) He is so loving and Caring. I pray That Allah Bless all My Sisters and Brothers with loving Spouses ❤️ Allahuma Amiin
Ameen
Amen 🙏 ahora soy feliz
Alhamdulillah
I am a Christian from Uganda but really i like to listen African women we never disappoint.greetings to my African Zainab.
Ahh sisi let's not lie we do disappoint. Ppl are ppl no matter the location. Good honest people are hard to come by nowadays.
Masha ALLAH
Ma sha allah, you did make a right decision
@@venusgodess2636weWe, we do value marriage and a bit more God conscious. it’s only now that we are becoming more and more negatively influenced by the media. Those remote villages are still doing ok though.
Your too come both of you❤❤ greetings from Uganda
Every where in the world materialistic women are there even in africa. Your just lucky to find zainab who appreciate and give."am an African"
YESSSSSSSSSSSS!THAT IS WHATIM SAYING! BAD MATERIALISTIC AND NOT HAVING SELF RESPECT HAVING WOMEN ARE ALL OVER THE WORLD! Not just America. Africa has Gold Diggers also! Every place does its sad! With that being said I ADORE their Love story ❤️❤️
Indeed even in Africa we have money chops, naughty and good people too
My family is surprised how my children grow up in Western world with good manners and religion. I always say it's Allah plan Alhamdu Lillah
Im african and our women are appreciative and not demanding. Typically like Zainab
Alhamdulillah ☝🏾
But its less in Africa
Its very sickening & i am Carribbean. I agree with you completely. My mom & dad was married 61 years...Its so dam shameful......Its why my grandsons will be exposed to African & Carribbean culture. The West is out of control.....
My dear there are a lot of horrible things in both Carribbean and African culture. Some men also can’t be faithful so it’s no
Panacea.
@@benitabettard9664Yes that's true, but we're not demanding $50,000.00 rings and cars and all this foolishness... Yes it's imperfect, but it's much better.
You do realize that Caribbean “culture” is part of the west?
I sooooo agree!!!
Lots of Love for you both for Allah's sake. From Nairobi Kenya ❤
From Kenya too
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Mombasa 🇰🇪 👊
Can you send me your mail id
Alhamdulillah Im African Caribbean from the UK. I married with an Egyptian and we live in Ghana. I love to obey my husband and be a traditional wife Alhamdulillah.
I am from East Africa and have been married to my North African husband for 18 years MashaAllah. Mixed marriage based on the love of Allah SWT, respect, honesty and traditional values. 4 beautiful children Alhamdulilah. Build your marriage based on Allah's principles, less social media and stay true to yourselves. Just be careful with showing too much of your selves on line. Rasool S. A. W said the evil eye is real. So many people getting problems because of the eyes. May Allah SWT protect you and bless you.
MashaAllah thats great and yea ill be careful inshaAllah thanks
That's true MaashaAllah
Alhamdulillah
From where your husband in north Africa
I think that goes both ways. I am American (black) and my husband is Australian. I waited a long time to get married because I didn't want to settle or be mistreated. It seems that in Western society, women who grew up in traditional households that you described are overlooked. We are perceived as frumpy because we cover up, and old-fashioned because we know how to cook and clean. When you are respectful, feminine, living an upright lifestyle, some men are looking for a certain type (hair, nails, lashes etc). That's just my experience. I am happily married now and we live traditional gender roles.
New sub here love your content always make your family happy and live inpeace and harmony and you will see blessing from allah
With all the due respect, covering up means nothing. I used to live in chicago amongst a majority arab/muslim community qnd i’ve seen what some hijabis women (both married and single) are able to do. I was left speechless. Lots of people in Muslim communities equate covering up with being pious. You don’t have to put a scarf on to be a good woman/person. I don’t cover my hair and the majority of the married women I personally know don’t, yet they are very good wives, amazing mothers etc. this is not to say that all covered women are no good.
Couldn’t agree more. I’m the same way, I grew up in the west but I’m traditional and come from a traditional Muslim family. Been overlooked my whole life 😂. But to be fair I’m only 22, so I was overlooked in like university and stuff where guys wanted girlfriends for fun so perhaps they did me a favour lol.
Beautifully explained. May you both always be happy together
@@BreakfastatTuscanys she never said women who don’t cover are bad, don’t take it personally
Stop naming your wife in your videos titles as my African wife ... Khalaas we already know that ... name her with any other name other than my African wife... it's really annoying 😒
Agreed, he's african too it's solely for the purpose of more people to click on the video.
The title definitely helped me click the video. Just because its annoying to you, doesn't mean it is to everyone else. I clicked the video because of the title and eventually got to learn about the woman in question as i watched.
Finally another video from a lovely husband and wife
I was soo hungry waiting and waiting for them to post their videos🎉❤ cheers to us u likes be4 watching😊
Don’t get so attached to “social media” relationships please. Wish them the best and go make sure your relationship with the CREATOR is where it should be because as you may or may not know, sometimes these relationships aren’t what they seem when the 10 minute clips are over… wishing them the best
I am Christian and this was a wholesome video to watch💕.
Me too.
I'm a born again Christian lady from Africa and I agree with you brother in everything you said.
Much love to you both❤❤❤❤
Alhamdulillah I have been waiting ❤
The amount of material wealth a husband can provide depends on how much wealth he has to offer. If a woman grew up with material wealth, and has acquired even more wealth due to her own efforts, it is not likely that a poor man will be an acceptable marriage partner for her. Liking nice, expensive things, in and of itself, does not necessarily make one a bad person. I am happy that he found a suitale spouse. May God grant them a long, happy, fruitful marriage.
What’s material wealth to you, how long do you think you can keep the wealth.
Sorry, but it's not that they come from rich family and they ask for same lifestyle... People from worst conditions expect things like 200k car, 1.5M house and a yacht in countries like Croatia. So, it's not that you are raised as rich, you're just delusional if you ask for that as leftover woman or average at best.
Look, I am not a Muslim. However, I think the videos you chose as examples t are to the extreme. That’s not fair. I am so happy that you both found each other. However, there are loads of American women who respect their partners and respect their spouses and have loving unions. Also, Zainab welcome to this side of the world.
Just a piece of advice Akhi: you don’t have to pinpoint in your videos that you have an African wife. We see it n quite frankly what is important is that its wife no matter what her ethnic group is. Just say my wife not African wife subhanaAllah.
I think he is saying it because there are certain values that she was taught in Africa. I am honestly surprised because although miles apart I sort of thought that everyone understands marriage to be this type of partnership that requires the wife to be humbled.
Thanks for the video hope to see you soon my favorite couple.greetings from 🇺🇬we love you
I respect your real Muslim man i appreciate love from India ❤
Thanks
I am from Italy and you
@@MdMasum-gz9qy Indian❤️🫰
@@MahdiandZainab👎🏿👎🏿👎🏿
Eeeks black and white OMG
I am from India kerala
By the way obey the husband doesn't mean he takes advantage of her or controls her every move. She obeys him to keep their bond strong and their family etc and where she is having all her rights fulfilled at same time.
About the cooking and cleaning, I don’t quite agree with that. Yes, a woman should know how to do housework, and a man should know how to do it as well. He should be able to help her out in the kitchen, not just expect her to do it without him doing anything.
Kkkk
No
Well it is not as if the husband does "nothing". He provides for her with food, housing, clothes and safety. And in turn she serves her husband, takes care of the house and the children.
@@adamelmahdaoui4899 inshallah
@@adamelmahdaoui4899but its a modern era, both women and men can work which is why women are choosing to have kids later so they can focus on their careers.
Alhamdulilah and may Allah bless you two with a lot of years together. I'm a revert from America and I agree with you wholeheartedly! You two make a very beautiful couple. I know it was Allah's will😊
I’m so teary 🥲
This is so beautiful 😍
My favorite couple greeting from France 🇫🇷 we love you
Happy to see you back on the channel. Me and my family enjoy watching your videos.
Awesome! Thank you!
@@MahdiandZainabmy brother name Allah bless you Alhamdulillah you are happy with my sister Zainab my name is Ayelsha I am Ghanian
We just love you guys plus please take care of my African sister
Masha ALLAH
Maa Shaa Allah ❤😊More Baraka in your marriage Mahdi and Zainah❤❤
Love from Singapore ❤
MAY ALLAH SWT BLESS BOTH OF YOU WITH A VERY LONG,HEALTHY AND HARMONIOUS LIFE, AMEEN
Amin
MashaAllah. may Allah protect you guys
I clicked so fast, may Allah SWT protect you guys ❤
Me too 😂
Aameen❤
Be posting frequently, Much love from 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
Was waiting for your new blog with Zainab. Lots of love from India 🇮🇳. May ALLAH SWT bless you both with lots of happiness
Amin
hey thanks for watching
Thanks u r back..stay blessed
This is beautiful! Inshallah all will be open minded enough to listen! I am a Catholic woman and traditional from the Caribbean. I take great pride in obeying, loving and caring and cooking for my husband.
Islam is a beautiful and blessed practice. In my country we celebrate Christianity, Hinduism and Islam 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Exactly In the point period brother. May Allah bless you both!❤
Ameen thanks brother
English born British revert Muslim alhumdulilah. Found my wife in Indonesia. She is traditional, feminine, shy, loyal and trustworthy. Hard to find all those qualities in women born in the west. Unfortunately, many Muslim women also in the West lack traditional qualities.
Are you loyal? Or is just a demand from your wife? You can't have the requirements to have a good wife when you don't build up to be a good husband.
@@otiliamanuelajurj needless to say that a man also has to display and carry out actions befitting of a good husband. But the topic of the video is about looking for a wife, not a husband
@@mdidris4414question was whether you are loyal and of good character or not.
Very interesting video. I met my partner in Church. I never choose him .God did it and it has been a blessing relationship . I do clean and cook but he also help me everyday. Woman and man were made to support each other ❤
You just got two subscribers, my wife’s and mine. 😊
Hey welcome!
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I love there calmness ❤❤ once a notification pops just watch your video Right away ..love this couple❤
Mauritania in Africa 100% Muslim but 75% divorce rate. Highest divorce rate in the world. I agree that you are more likely to find a wife outside America that are closer to what you desire. But there is also just an issue of the human heart.
No country has 100% Muslim… SubhanAllah
They are predominantly Muslim and you should look for the reason for divorce. Also, divorced women over there are highly desirable. So they are doing well than average Americans.
Facts
"DIVORCE" their you go which means there was a no hookup and slutty behaviour and the relationship was marriage, divorce is not bad, it can still be done with mutual respect... ISLAM doesn't prohibit divorce, if things don't work out it is a valid option....
Can you please tell me where you got those statistics from. Find it hard to believe. Especially as accurate stats are hard to obtain in such a remote please like Mauritania.
@@mdidris4414 search it up it’s on the news and the Maldives is a muslim country and it has the highest divorce rate in the world.
Masha Allah my allah bless your family brother and sister ❤️❤️ from Somalia 🇸🇴
im somali to it rare to find somalis these days ❤
But please try to love and also respect your wife as well I beg
Of course he does
It’s a two way thing…
That’s actually a concern of mine - that he does love, honor and respect his wife much as he expects the same from her.
Why does he say every time an African wife why he can't say, my wife or something else?
@@nafisaahmed9190you don't have to be worried about that.she is OK with it.
Yh❤❤❤
i have been waiting your video seriously ❤️❤️
By the way aren’t you Moroccan and isn’t Morocco in Africa😂😂😂😂
Why do you keep saying African wife
Is he morrocan. So funny to say African when he himself is African
I enjoyed watching this. Truth is a lot of family values have been lost in the modern era and it's actually refreshing to see those who uphold them! Christianity also advocates for wives to be submissive to their own husbands. It's pretty sad that some interpret it the way they want and not the way God said. All in all, the best marriages out there are between people with shared values of love and respect 🙏 ❤
Welcome back guys waiting for more vedios
I tolally agree in your words, more importantly you raised a stage of Mt. Everest, that is the place I belong to. Stay happy and with strong bond with your wife always!
I don't know what it's like in Canada, but here in the U.S., inflation is insane. It cost a lot more to live now than it did back-in-the-day -- even in smaller towns. I can agree that submission has a bad rap. However, this is mostly due to men expecting women to do everything (cook, clean, take care of the kids) -- and go 50/50 -- while the man has a crappy job and can't provide. Man fail to carry their weight. Men have an economic advantage over women and should know how to make money.
May God bless ur marriage ,lets pray to get humble men like mahid...
I totally agree with you brother,much love ❤️
Hh
Yes.love.❤️
❤️🤪🌹
I love Zaina the way she speaks and presents herself!
I love how you backed each of your points with a piece of evidence 🙏 I wish you guys the best of luck in your marriage 💑 much love from Ghana 🇬🇭
Thanks Mahdi for sharing your intentions to marry from abroad. I wish you and Zainab a very happy marriage. You have very good reasons as a moslem man to make this decision because in that way you're sure you have what you want in a woman. With that said, not all African women are like Zainab.
This is the beginning of your journey, just as in every marriage, there are going to be challenges ahead. In sha Allah when babies start arriving, it will become practically impossible for Zainab to provide you with the same amount of care, one of the reasons why you married her in the first place. In fact, she may need support no matter how small to keep up with all her responsibilities.
Even at this stage, many men still demand the same amount of care from their wives, making such women extremely exhausted.
When, that time comes, I think it would be nice to waive some of your rights because caring for kids, taking care of the house are exhausting in addition to completely satisfying a man"s rights can be overwhelming when she gets no help from other family members
Mashallah, May Allah protect you guys 😍😍
May allah protect you and i wish you happy marriage ❤❤❤ am happy to see you guys 🎉🎉🎉 watching you frm Zimbabwe🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼
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Finally🎉 I have been looking forward to your next update here. To be honest Mr Mahdi, I agree with everything you said.
If a man has a good wife, he will live a good life. May Allah continue to keep you guys happy.
Lots of love from Nigeria❤❤
Amin
Vice versa
Wow we have been craving for your next video but alhamdulila we don't have regrets this is so far the best you have given us the best reason as to why you went all the way to Africa to find your wife I know Zainab will comfort , love,cherish and above all obey you cause this is what she was tought.May Allah bless your marriage insha'Allah.
Amin
I love what you said its true in the bible.If you are a woman and dont know how to humble your self you have a long way to go
@anonymousanonymous870 that's a different context
I am a Christian from the RepublicofTrinidad and Tobago.and l truly am happy for you and your wife The two shall be one God has heard your prayerandgiven you both the desire of your heart may God continue to bless your union andkeep you both Until death do you part.
Hi i missed you guys
I always smile when I see your posts…
Can’t wait to see more of these😊❤
Yay! Thank you more to come
I m senegalese girl🇸🇳 mashallah So proud of you
Thank you.
Me too
Senegal in the house! We are so proud of both of you. Keep it up! May Allah bless your marriage and reward you with goodness in both worlds. amen. Stay strong and blessed!
@@fatimakane3052 yes😆
@@fatimakane3052 really
you're my fav couple tbh and I really enjoy watching your videos.. don't take too long to post, please :)
May allah bless both of you
alright ill try to do more videos sooner Thanks Ameen
Good to hear this from you Bruh, She is a wife material, take good care of her.God bless your family and keep you safe
Amin
Im a Ugandan married to a Turkey husband .and l really love you guys. And thanks for respect loving caring husband thanks so much. Much love from Uganda
She is so beautiful.May God bless your marriage 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Much love from Nigeria!
Ma shaa Allah. May Almighty Allah grant you His Rahmah and Barka as you uphold the tennets of Islam.
Love and happy for you guys ❤❤
I’m an American Muslim and I had not good experiences with American men. I’m a traditional woman but I felt it’s not much traditional men or men that hold their religious close. I decided to look outside of America and I’m now married to an African Muslim.
You're so right and true in everything you say. I'm so happy you found your wife that was God calling 🙏🏽.
Allahuma Barik Fiha, Masha Allah! Lots of love from Senegal🥰
Hi I’m Zainab, I moved to Morocco because I was in a horrible relationship with a rich narcissist for 7 years . I didn’t know any better. I wanted a real man . I reverted to Islam & I got married to a Moroccan man but it did work out due to cultural differences , age difference and I had some flaws and he wasn’t perfect. Plus his family was nasty to me. We agreed to move on alhamdulilah. Now I’m back here in the states I have 2 children and I try my best to be a good Muslim mother ❤️ Inshallah I have the real Muslim righteous man will find me. ✨
P.s new subscriber
In shaa Allah sister, may Allah SWT bless u with a pious man who will respect u and appreciate u.
I'm not Muslim I'm Christian but I love this i truly believe in being submissive and obeying your husband. This was truly a blessing to watch.
I am from ethiopia iam following you ,you are happy may Allah protect you 🎉🎉
Even here in Nigeria we have wicked and ungrateful Husbands, which they don't appreciate their wives. A wife will do and over do domestic work. Cook, wash his underwears. All in vain the outcome is negative. Is only God that can reward. Happy married life to u Mahdi and Zainab ❤
Sis there are two sides to every story. Yes, he shows the "hijabis" who appear materialistic in the western world but the men are also not very different in that they are not faithful. I am not Muslim (but studying) but my husband is. I am in a FB group of Muslim women from all over the world. They have their own set of challenges with Muslim men, that when I read their posts, it makes me want to cry. They take alot without much reward, recognition or appreciation from their husbands. The husbands take second and third wives #secretly; they beat their wives; they withdraw intimacy from their wives while indulging in pornography or much infidelity - so Muslim men are not so perfect either. When a hijabi sees this, what would make her want to marry? BUT, al hamdullah, I am so happy for this couple. I thank Allah for their YT success and pray that they continue to grow and prosper in their marriage and their channel. It's something very special about this couple that Allah allows their videos to have many positive eyes. Don't forget to like and subscribe to their channel.
Wow. It seems we live in different world. I am Nigerian but I have a very good experience of our men. Just try to get a responsible Nigerian man to marry as it is applicable around the world, dont go for the pookies amongst us. Also, don't ignore the red flags during your dating period.
yes.relry..
Don’t delete comments
@@childrentoys4537 . happy.broed.and..sister.zainad..
First of all may Allah bless you guys and all of us
Ameen
Ami
My family ❤ I love watching your videos keep on loving each other
The way how this man's wife looks at her husband. I wish you both the best, may God protect your union.
Nice content really love it
Love you brother. If you were in front of me, i would have hugged you right away. Such a beautiful message. ❤
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You wont belive how much eagerly i was waiting for your vlog..really enjoy watching ur vlog..may allah bless you both forever❤
Masha-Allah u choose the right path my brother.... May Allah bless your marriage Amin.
you are so original, better original and genuine than fake. Good video!
yea thanks
Love you guys no matter what.
i wish you well in your marriage. God bless you both for sticking to the original family values
May Allah bless your home and your union. Also from Ghana 😊🇬🇭
Alhamdullllah. May Allah grant you peace ❤❤❤
Alhamdulillah
Masallah brother u choose well ❤❤❤
Allahumma barik u made the best decision, u make such a great couple Ma Shaa Allah, plus i like the tone of your voice very calm
Zainab is such a happy soul. May Almighty Allah keep you both happy and strong, Ameen.
Amin
Happy to see u back. I'm from Kashmir. But watching u from saudia Arabia Madinah near Haram. Allah bless both of u. ❤❤❤❤
That's true I a Muslim living in canada and couldn't find a Muslim then ending up with different religions person finally the relationship goes very bad. I don't mean the other religion is bad but,better to be same.
yea i understand what you went through bro
I agree with you 100 percent. Wishing you a happy marriage. Ameen.
Ma shaa Allah, much love from 🇹🇿
Happy to see you both masha allah ❤..! Loads of love and best wishes 🌹
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Congratulations from Kenya