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Cultural appropriation is western concept that hardly anyone cares about in Asia at least in my country, people rather feel proud when others participate in our culture. We appropriate whatever we want here and not care about appropriation as it causes divisions and double standards. Western countries are so diverse yet people there tends to rather restrict esvhother from cultural exchange then what's the point of multiculturalism if u can't participate, embrace n enjoy eachother culture..
A lot of people are confused with the the words Cultural Appropriation. Cultural Appropriation is when a person who is from different culture takes from a specific culture such as traditional hairstyles, foods, traditional dances, traditional clothing etc and then renames it and says that they are the ones who invented and came up with it when they didn’t. A black woman wearing a Kimono is not cultural appropriation it is cultural appreciation. Please know the difference between cultural appropriation and cultural appreciation!
I find it so interesting that it’s always people who AREN’T from that country, that want to scream appropriation on their behalf. But then the locals are all like “oh we don’t mind! We love you experiencing our culture!” 😂😂
Yup! I think people are just trying to find new ways on hating on other people by calling them appropriators, racist, sexist, etc., not realizing these words have completely different meanings. 🫠
So true! When I put a photo of me wearing a furisode for my coming of age ceremony on the internet long ago, people who were hating on it were all non Japanese people 😂. and the ones who knew I was half Japanese also added that even if I'm half Japanese, I am still not allowed to wear one since I look full white 😂 really sad how people have to hate and make every positive thing into a negative one. 😒
Just like avril lavignes music video for hello Kitty. Everyone was yelling at her saying shes racsist and the japanese LOVED it and absolutely adore her
As a Japanese person, let me tell you and everybody that wearing kimonos isn’t cultural appropriation. Kimono literally translates to “something you wear,” and they’re just that; just clothes. There’s nothing sacred attached to them, so anyone who wants to should wear them freely! Wearing kimonos isn’t cultural appropriation, but rather cultural appreciation; it brings a smile to my face to see people from overseas appreciate my culture. You look so elegant and beautiful in kimono 😊🇺🇸🇯🇵
afaik kimonos are worn on specific festivals or celebrations or whatever and are not a typical wear. and the design of the kimono is unique and specific to the japanese culture. so tell me more how wearing a kimono is not a cultural apropriation, japanese person. and this video means nothing, people will aways be nice to hur simply becouse manners and japanese are famous for being nice no matter what. if she wants accurate resaults then she shuld make a poll availible to lets say 100k japanese at least, and lets see the resaults then.
@@zendraw3468 Well, thanks for sharing things as far as you know. But I may know a wee bit more, seeing as how I’m … Japanese? Kimonos aren’t just worn for special occasions; there are plenty of people who wear kimono casually on a daily basis, and there are no rules that say you are only allowed to wear them for special occasions, though there are occasion-specific kimonos (kind of like how people wear all sort of dresses for daily use (summer dress, casual dress, etc.) but not wedding dresses.) Are you Japanese? I don’t know why you’re so angry about something that Japanese people are assuring isn’t offensive at all. If you’re suggesting that the voices of the Japanese people don’t matter because “we’re nice” and aren’t as important as yours, well that’s something I _do_ find offensive.
@@EddVCR you are not the japanese voice, same way im not my country`s voice, like i said, atleast 100k poll with japanese peple for a somewhat accurate statistic. and again, the kimono is not just a random made up dress. it has history and culture. same as an indian garb. maybe appreciate your culture more and dont be so accepting of western perversion. western people trying to act like japanese is cringe. and no im not japanese nor angry.
I truly appreciate your comments. I was born and raised in Brazil, and have been living in Canada for 10 years now. When I finally had the chance to visit Japan, I was so excited to wear a yukata! I felt so beautiful, and felt nothing less than pure joy and appreciation for Japan. For me, all this discussion about culture appropriation is ridiculous, especially when the person is motivated by such positive feelings towards another culture. ❤ Thank you for understanding!
@@zendraw3468 There is a TH-camr named Sora The Troll - he also confirms that the Japanese like it when people wear Kimono, talk about Manga, Anime etc since they are showing an effort to understand and enjoy Japanese culture. Everyone should be this way honestly, but in the U.S. we don't really have any one culture. You just sound like you hate Japanese people honestly.
As a 70-year-old Japanese person, I must say I have never thought of this topic before and have never seen a black person wearing a kimono or yukata before. I am all for it. Absolutely nothing wrong with keeping this worthy tradition alive.
My first thought when I seen the inside of that kimono shop? "Can you use that to make a kilt?" I am positive creating a "cultural abomination" is much worse than appropriation :) but now the idea wont leave my head... which means the next Highland Games here will be much more colourful!
As a white girl who grew up and Japan, the women in my community would all gather at our home to dress me up in a kimono. A Yukata (basically a summer version of a kimono) is a popular garb to wear for summer festivals (maturi's), but because my mom wasn't Japanese she didn't know how to properly dress me. So I literally had a team of a dozen women from my neighborhood who did my makeup, hair, dressed me and even do photoshoots. It not only produced core memories for me, but looking back it definitely made my mom happy being so welcomed and accepted by the women in the community who lent such a big hand. My take from it is that they are more concerned of losing the tradition of wearing a kimono (or yukata), so it brings relief and joy to see not only their youth but people from different ethnicities wearing and appreciating such traditions.
As a Japanese woman. I LOVE SEEING OTHER PEOPLE WEAR the KIMONO. She looks beautiful in her kimono!!! We encourage other people to visit Japan and experience our culture. Including Clothing, food and other tradition. ❤
@@jpm83We Japanese would be happy to see northern Western men wearing fundoshi. In Japan, we see white men wearing fundoshi and participating in traditional Japanese festivals. We Japanese are very happy to see them participating in Japanese festivals.
@@gakidomo9561 We Japanese are happy to see Koreans wearing kimonos and fundoshi. The only thing we Japanese do not like is when foreigners make fun of traditional Japanese costumes or wear them in a disheveled manner, which makes us very uncomfortable.
I am a woman of colour and I wore a kimono while in Japan for my friends wedding. I was plus sized at the time and got so many compliments! Everyone was thanking me for being respectful and loving their culture.
As humans should act towards each other. I go to karate 2-3 a week. Do I approrpriate karate from the japanese? Did the japanese appropriate karate from the koreans and the chinese? "Cultural appropration" is a deeply divisive term, that should be - well - cancelled.
@@shyviking True, it's such a bullshit term. Most things were developed on the basis of something that existed before. Building cars isn't cultural appropriation of German culture. And if a fashion brand uses a certain pattern that has been used before, then this is just normal.
Too bad black ppl don’t feel the same way about braids. It’s funny how they like to gatekeep stuff from their culture but then go to somewhere like Japan an dress in their cultural clothes. Bunch of hypocrites 😂
Hello, I am Japanese. I am sorry if I have offended you unintentionally because I am using the translation function. I wanted to comment on your kimono because you look so nice in it. It suits you very well! It is like a kimono made for you.🥰 We are happy that our country's culture is shared and enjoyed. Thank you for experiencing Japanese culture！❤
I am Japanese. When I see people from other countries wearing kimono, I am happy. Since you have come all the way to Japan, I hope you will wear a kimono and experience its culture, no matter where you are from! Ignore silly opinions such as cultural theft, and just walk around proudly and happily！
Thank you for clarifying that. It's appreciation and appropriation. Americans just want to put the white guilt everywhere and now it spills over across over ethnicities and cultures..I am sick of this
I would like to say that in my opinion as a Japanese, you look very good in kimono. I don't think it is cultural theft in the slightest. Rather, I thank you for your interest in Japanese culture. My one concern is that many foreign tourists think of Japan as a theme park. Please remember that Japan is a place where people live just like your country and there are rules and manners there.
@Christopher Jacobs No, that's not true; Cos Play is more of a minority culture. Kimono is not Cos Play. It is formal wear. There are many Japanese who do not like anime. It is true that most Japanese do not speak English. But they can talk to cats.
i visited japan a few years ago and now im studying japanology - japanese language and culture. i wish to become a translator or something of sort, studying your culture has been very enlightening and i wish to visit toyama again someday
Wow, let that sink in that all the people that were attacking her weren’t Japanese, and all the people that were complimenting/pleased to see her in a kimono were Japanese. Loved the video. One of the best ways to understand and appreciate another culture is by listening to those who are a part of the fabric of that society. Listen to their stories, understand the implications behind the aspects of their culture that you are interested in, and use that understanding to broaden your worldview, and you did that.
Yeah but the big two, Chinese and Japanese people traditionally don't raise a stink about it, even since the great "enlightening". Traditionally it's always been white and black people who are the most offended.
I will say it and I will say it again, I got hated for liking Japanese culture by my ex friends in middle school because I made it a piece of me, They thought I was just stupid for liking it and me liking it made them very angry. You were the reason why I liked it again. And you inspired me to not be afraid to like it. And you know what, I am asking my mom to make me a traditional kimono and I’m making apart of my ward robe. Thank you so much
If Japanese people don't think it's appropriation, then it's not appropriation. It's their culture so theirs is the only opinion that matters. People on the Internet love to be offended on behalf of others without actually knowing what those people think. And you are correct that most people do not understand the correct definition of cultural appropriation.
Honestly the only people who are offended are those who even created the ideology that wearing other cultures are offensive. When in reality it’s not racism at all
She did it right with respect. That is what matters. There are some young Japanese girls who doesn't seem to have any respect towards our own culture and they wear kimono in more exposed way (oiran) for a formal occasion such as seijin-shiki ceremony, we see that as a disgrace.
I think there is a difference in the perceptions of people in their homeland and diaspora. I am Indian and I absolutely have nothing against people from other cultures wearing a bindi, even as a fashion statement. But my second generation Indian-American friend considers it appropriation because if she wore it in her small American town, she would not be treated well. So who knows how the Japanese diaspora may feel about the kimono being worn by a non-japanese person?
Interesting because recently there was a vid on tik tok of a white hairdresser braiding a black girls hair and she did it so beautifully but she received SO much hate. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. This side of YT seems to be safe, but some areas of the internet are filled with very angry gate keepers...
As a Filipino, I feel honored when foreigners wear our traditional Barong Tagalog and appreciate its beauty. It a cultural pride we proudly share with the world.
I just googled that after seeing your comment, and I have to say, it surprises me how similar the Barong is to our romanian "ie". At least for the male ones, the form and the embroidery is visually similar. Very nice!
Same for my country. As a Puerto Rican, I love seeing people dress up in the traditional Jíbaro attire. It’s gorgeous and should be appreciated by anyone (as long as it’s done respectfully ofc)
I was gonna insult you but I’ll try to be decent. We don’t need your whiteness to carry traditions and culture. People of color exist without or with you. If you stopped existing tomorrow, I wouldn’t go “damn who is gonna remember my culture?!”. You’re allowed to participate when it’s normalized and invited. Don’t create generalizations for your selfishness knowing you come from people who have in fact erased entire cultures with their insistence on being admitted and included, before then taking over and capitalizing off non western people including the Japanese who never recovered from forced cultural re education programs. We’d all like to be forgotten more by you if it means avoiding that
I’m just being honest, not mean, white insistence of participation can only be addressed so kindly though when you make habit of speaking over and for others
People learnt the word appropriation and ran with it, many don't know what it actually means. wearing traditional clothing in the country itself, where the money has gone directly to locals, is probably the top form of appreciation.
ALL HISTORY IS BLACK. Black people cant appropriate any culture they abandon. ok give them the Kimono ( which is EDO) not edo Japan Edo the real on in Nigeria. TAKE THE DRUMS BACK AND THEIR NIGERIA NAMES... because the real japan moved out when they moved in.
@@blushchuu you mean came up with the idea of braid box and those specific kind of style right? Cos braids also used in many countries and ethnicity or race, some even look almost similar with corn row too.
As a Japanese myself, when I see Gaijin try out our tradition, I feel nothing but joy and excitement. If they are willing to learn, I'd love to teach them. Afterall, sharing ideas is fundamentally a human thing.
True! Same here with Mexican culture. It only becomes a problem when others take from our cultures, and claim it as their own. Or use it to discriminate. But, it’s such a wonderful thing to share cultures! :)
@@inatm7862 Japanese language shortens everything. I’ve never felt any discomfort when designated as « Gaijin ». Pretending this word is meant to be offensive is Holywood made BS…
You live in Japan for years, speak the language, understand Japanese nonverbal communication, understand the culture.... I would say you're assimilating, not appropriating.
As a Japanese, I can only be happy to see such proper knowledge and respect for Japanese culture. If you ever come to Japan, do some research on various cultures and customs. I don't think it is plagiarism to touch the culture with respect in that way.Also, Kamakura is a nice place. Come and visit if you like.😊
I would say you got those positive comments because you do actually look good in the kimono! and the women at the store put it on you properly!That was the vibe I got from the older ladies. And I can't believe how well the lady did your hair - beautiful.
Actually felt my eyes get a bit teary when so many people complimented you in under a minute. I'm Dutch but with Indian ethnicity and just thinking about how happy that must've made you feel makes me so happy. Great video, hair stylist did an incredible job too!
Here in Singapore, there's a day called racial harmony day where we are allowed to wear any traditional costumes to school to celebrate. My friend who was born in the UK but brought up in SG wore a kimono over (her mum's japanese) and she won best outfit. She looks Soo stunning in the kimono
@@keribere244 every person, every country has culture. You might just not recognize yours because it’s hard to recognize culture from the inside. To you, your food, clothing, celebrations just seem like the normal way to do things, but they are your culture.
nice to see a fellow sgrean!! i agree that racial harmony day is really nice to be able to embrace one another’s cultures and wear our friend’s traditional costumes! tho there was an incident in my sec sch where the teachers banned a kimono for one of the classes when they wanted to present it for the fashion show competition for whatever reason idk (i think its cos its not one of the main races in sg) :(
Agreed, I feel like anyone that isn't disgracing the kimono or to expand to lens to the culture(s). It's fine in my book and I appreciation when people embrace the views/lifestyles of other cultures besides their own. And sometimes with the view/lifestyle could blossom into better understanding of how one another lives.
And JUST like that I am healed in 11 minutes. Thank you for that perspective. It’s easy to be defensive when you don’t speak the language. You are beautiful.
I'm hafu, born in Japan but lived the majority of my life in America. My looks favor my Italian half. Back home in Japan, no one bats an eye, but in America, people get up in arms about it. A lot of people that will call out "appropriation" are people not of that culture
I'm actually mixing VK (visual kei) and Yami Kawaii into my style. I love the fashion and culture as well as the music genre of VK. And by throwing Yami Kawaii into the mix not only does the dark themes with cute images speak to me personally but I also feel that I might help spread awareness about menhera that mentally ill people deserve better treatment and are people too.
It's really disgusting how some people take pleasure in insulting and demeaning others, because they think the internet affords anonymity. I'm so glad you are clapping back at your haters in the classiest way possible.
couldn't disagree more. I couldnt care less what loophole she's making with definitions and usages etc. By what appropriation means by majority of media users and "cancellers" she is indeed appropriating the culture by simply using it. just like many many others who simply just dress in styles of black or asian cultures harmlessly and are harassed for it. she should not be exempt just bcz she's not white. (im a brown middle eastern btw so no this is not a white rage vomit, im just not a fan of hypocrisy) the good reception and reaction she got doesnt show anything but the fact that the japanese people are more well-mannered and cultured than americans who shout and argue over everything (digitally or in person). if she'd done the same in her own country she would not have gotten a good reaction there. conclusion; as long as the silly appropriation fiasco exists she should expect those comments. if she has a problem with the term then she should stop using it for her own culture as well, and call out the ridiculousness of it altogether, not just separating herself from the notion just bcz she "knows better" than to call the clothes anything else but their names (like she said other do with other cultures).
@@rootedpen2 Of course you are. Your not Japanese so shhhh. Don’t speak for us . This does come as white girl cries of Internet. You can rent them just like you rent movies. If she was white there will be nothing but silence. Since she black you quick to point out. Why do you insist in pointing fingers then actually learning?
@@Saralightff im referencing the Japanese people shown in this video so idk why ur getting heated, im not speaking for anyone im just stating their reaction shown here (AS IT WAS THE CREATOR'S INTENTION) so if u feel like someone is speaking for u u should actually call her out. im not caring about her being black and wearing kimono/yukata, I'm "pointing fingers" as u wrongly put, bcz she's being a hypocrite when she was faced with cultural appropriation comments. She stated her displease of others using her (black culture) other than back people themselves, but when she's wearing another's culture's traditional features it's studently okay? " If she was white there will be nothing but silence", no there wont be. many get harassed on internet for wearing anything but their own cultural attires. I'm against the use of term "cultural appropriation" altogether, as long as anyone is respectful toward the origin of that dress/hairstyle and loves it where is the harm in trying it. so im happy that she wore the kimono and liked it, but then she went on about others wearing black hairstyle and that's still appropriation and she doesnt like it. that's hypocrisy. if she has a problem with being called out, then she should stop calling others out too. regardless if she's black or not idc. i hope u get my point instead of being rude and jumpy.
@@rootedpen2 her hypocrisy is out in the Open and it's only reinforcing her high demand for attention and arrogance. The Japanese hates the kind of behavior she demonstrates with vanity being in the forefront, because they are a respectable culture who hold manners and dignity above all else, of which she has none but pretends to be classy, honest and humble. She personifies the exact opposite of the positive cultural character traits that the Japanese cherish.
@@rootedpen2 You said, "By what appropriation means by majority of media users and "cancellers" she is indeed appropriating the culture by simply using it. just like many many others who simply just dress in styles of black or asian cultures harmlessly and are harassed for it. she should not be exempt just bcz she's not white." It seemed like her argument was against the overuse of the term appropriation. She was calling out folks who overuse that term. Also, I got zero impression that she thinks she is exempt from being called a cultural appropriator due to being black. That is your own projection. Also, you said, "The good reception and reaction she got doesn't show anything but the fact that the japanese people are more well-mannered and cultured than americans who shout and argue over everything (digitally or in person). if she'd done the same in her own country she would not have gotten a good reaction there." As other commenters have pointed out, there is a big difference in wearing the dominant culture's clothing while visiting that culture, versus doing it in your own country. It depends on whether you are part of the dominant culture when you are using that culture's items. For example, the kimono. The setting really matters. Being an American who lives in Japan and choosing to learn all about kimonos, their history, their appropriate use, and customs, and then wearing a kimono in a culturally appropriate way and in the right setting while in Japan is very different than a non-Japanese American wearing a kimono as a costume in the Japan Town neighborhood in San Francisco, where there are native Japanese people living. The big difference is that, in Japan, you are not part of the dominant culture, and so your wearing of the kimono, if done respectfully and within context, is showing cultural appreciation of the dominant culture you are surrounded by as a minority within the country. You're not intimidating or harming them because you are the minority and wearing something from their culture while in their culture doesn't threaten members of their society. On the other hand, doing that in Japan Town in SF could be viewed as an act of hostility that threatens members of the native Japanese culture that live there in that neighborhood surrounded by the dominant American culture, especially if you do it as a caricature. So, wearing a sombrero in Mexico as a visiting American at some Mexican history event in a culturally appropriate way is totally acceptable and is cultural appreciation, but wearing a sombrero to a local Mexican restaurant in America where Mexicans and Mexican Americans work, could be viewed as appropriation and could be viewed in a threatening way especially if your behavior while wearing it seems like you are mocking Mexicans. In that case, you are from the dominant culture and it could be viewed more as harassment of the Mexican minorities, as opposed to the example where you are in Mexico, and you as a visiting minority is showing your appreciation to the dominant culture you are surrounded by. Finally, you said, " if she has a problem with the term, then she should stop using it for her own culture as well." Nowhere in her video did she say she uses that term with respect to "her own culture". You are just assuming because she is a young black lady that she runs around chastising non-black folks for cultural appropriation. I think all she was trying to say in this video is that context matters. What was your intent when wearing it, did you wear it in a culturally accurate way, were you appreciating the culture you were borrowing from or mocking them, were you wearing the garment while immersed within the culture you are representing with your clothing... Overall, I think she presented a very nuanced and well-thought-out argument for the difference between cultural appreciation and cultural appropriation, and it is an argument that many "cancellers" as you called them should consider before they jump to any conclusions.
I wore a kimono with a hijab while i was in Japan for my honeymoon. I could hear an excited couple talking about how interesting it was for them to see kimono being worn that way (i could understand japanese a little bit). It was honestly a wholesome experience
well kimono aren't really "fitted" they're supposed to be straight and flat, no they're not supposed to be a very curvy garment. Kimono usually cover most of the body and if worn properly, won't show curves of the body. Even a yukata, thin summer kimono, shouldn't be a curvy garment.@@juneseghni
I am Japanese. It really suits you. Some people say that wearing a kimono abroad is cultural appropriation, but that is not true. If you don't claim kimono as your country's culture, it won't be cultural appropriation. Thank you for wearing the kimono❤❤
The people using the word to insult generally don't even know what it means. It's just that one day a progressive decided to look in a dictionary for once and instead of looking for actual definitions, he found a new word to misuse and now all the progressive woke racists constantly use it.
As an Indian, this makes me so happy. I also love to see foreigners wearing out traditional clothing. I don't think it's appropriation at all, but I just see it as them wanting to take part in the culture and be a part of the country they're visiting or living in. I remember a Dutch family visited my church and they wore Indian clothes and they looked really nice wearing them. My mum has friends from Tanzania and they gave her their traditional dress. It's not appropriation at all! It's appreciation and sharing 💖
In a similar vein I got a qipao from my mom's boss, who is Taiwanese. One of my sister's coworkers (not Taiwanese) told me I would be racist if I didn't get rid of it because I'm White. I did eventually donate it because I never wore it and had no room for it, but like... who am I going to listen to in that situation? The _not_ Taiwanese person calling me racist or the person who gave me a dress from _their own culture_ and _specifically wants me_ to have it? I'm not saying bad cultural appropriation doesn't exist but it's so much more nuanced than people make it out to be.
@@ArnicaMachado If it means anything my mom's boss had me try it on to see if it would fit, and it was very pretty. :) Black with silver accents and flower print on it.
I'm going to a traditional Indian wedding in May. My fiancé is the best man and we are excited to wear traditional clothes. I'm going as full at as I am allowed. I'm giving my all to embrace those 3 days of celebration because it will be a very rare event for me to attend, so I want to experience every bit! 😊
People really get appreciation mixed with appropriation & oftentimes shout appropriation in utter ignorance. She looks stunning and lives, works, speaks and very obviously appreciates the Japanese culture ❣️
Lindsey Ellis explains it perfectly. This is ALL cultural appropriation. It's only a problem when it becomes cultural MISappropriation. I'm tired of this gen z appreciation bandwagon narrative.
Yep, like how some Asian countries make fake western products and brands to sell by the millions in markets across Asia. No culture is more appropriated than western culture. China is the biggest appropriator of the world.
Yeah my bestie and I used to go to Southall in the UK which is a big area of Indian and Pakistani culture with a long high street lined with shops full of gorgeous clothes and jewellery. We would buy fabric, Indian skirts and and bindi's and wear them, and buy incense for our homes and ate lunch in the local hole in the wall place. We did this because we appreciated the culture and we treated everyone with respect. I never dreamed that one day I would be accused and judged for wearing an item of clothing from another culture because I thought it was beautiful. We should be able to share and appreciate each others cultures-if we hold on too tightly then it just created barriers. Shall we stop tourists from buying Scottish kilts for example?!
I just want to say thank you so much for being a beautiful figure in Japan for black women. As a black woman myself I appreciate other cultures seeing our femininity because so many are fed lies about us (stereotypes) that is only a minority and not the majority of us. ❤ I am going to Japan 🇯🇵 this October because I have had a love for both Japanese traditional and pop culture since I was like 8. 🎉
@@starloved6824 Most likely not. These PoS Americans can't be bothered to study the country's language before going. Also funny how they said black women and not black people solely on excluding their men. Excellent display of American behaviour.
She would have looked more pretty in a solid baby blue or even a white kimono. I didn’t think the kimono she wore was nice for any woman. She’s so sweet anyway. 👘👀👍🏻
Cultural Appropriation is such an alien concept to other countries. I'm from the Philippines and nothing makes me happier than other cultures wearing out clothes, singing our songs, cooking our food etc. Cultural Appropriation is the silliest thing I've ever heard of especially when it's almost 2024 and the entire world is connected to an insane degree.
Been to Japan for the first time last year, all I had to do is try and be respectful, was treated so good it left a lasting impression. Not an expert but you wear that well , and look awesome.
I teared up seeing so many Japanese people praise and encourage you!! This is the Japan I grew up with and love. When I visited Tokyo this past winter (2022), it felt so much colder. Im going back for my cousin’s wedding in Meijijingumae in a few weeks and will be wearing a kimono then and was a little nervous as I know I dont look fully Japanese (im half). This was very encouraging and hopeful to watch. Thank you for making this video!
@JanekRozmanowski Nostalgia? The op did say they grew up there and most likely moved away for whatever reason, so if anything, why *wouldn't* they cry over the memories they've made there?
I am very self-conscious and have really bad social anxiety, but this video just made me want to go out and wear clothing that I like and not care what others in my own area think
I was that way when I was young. Now that I am almost 60, I don't care anymore. They can not walk in your skin and breathe your breath. Find some time to enjoy your life. People who actually care about you will understand. Those who don't care about you, well, their opinion is bad gas.
I was smiling ear-to-ear when all those people were complimenting you throughout, it was so refreshing and moving to see people love other peoples appreciation of their culture
I was stationed at Camp Kinser on Okinawa in 1983 and at Marine Corps Air Station Iwakuni, Japam in 1989 -1992. During my tour I developed a moderate level of speaking the Japanese language. I really loved people within the different Prefectures.Going out meeting different types of Japanese socialites gave me a different perspective of the Japanese people as a whole... most are very welcomlng outside of those close minded communities....
As someone who’s Japanese and American, I can’t explain how important this video is!!! I get asked the same question (like “Is wearing Kimono appropriating the Japanese culture?”) so many times and was always so sad that someone felt the need to ask that question. Like, YES!! OF COURSE!!! The Japanese people absolutely LOVE foreigners having interest and appreciating our culture 🥰 🇯🇵 Honestly, some people (especially Americans😅) are sometimes wayyyy too sensitive about cultural appropriation that many people can’t even tell the difference between cultural appreciation 😢
True true, it's sad people have to ask for something harmless like I once saw someone on youtube ask "is it appropriation if i use pencil/chopstick to make a hairbun" I was like, that's being practical when there is no hair tie, nothing about appropriating any culture
It's a very annoying phenomenon for sure because sincerely partaking in some cultural practices of others can be a good way to be more connected with people of different backgrounds around you, and God knows we need more sharing and connectedness in our fractured societies right now, not some odd game of "am I allowed to do this if x"
Asians who live in their origin country tend to have no problem with foreigners wearing their culture. Because we practice our culture in daily basis. We see our own people wearing our traditional clothes, speaks our own native language, etc. Meanwhile that does not happened to Asian (or any other PoC) in US, they have to stripped their identity to assimilate & living the (white) American way. That’s why they’re easier to be offended seeing foreigners wearing their culture, because they themselves doesn’t have much chance to do the same.
I’ve been living in Japan since 2017 (so 6 years already). I’ve wore kimono twice. It went like this both times. Japanese people didn’t stop throwing complements at me the entire time, the same ones you were told. They (mostly nice ladies) even came to talk to me and ask me why I’m here, why did I choose to study in Japan, why do I like it, etc. They all looked so happy that I was enjoying, appreciating and interested in their culture.
I’m a Black American, too, and visited Japan. In my experience, Japanese people were very excited when I was excited to learn about their culture and were very eager to show me different things. I think it’s all about respecting a culture and wanting engage with the people rather than just doing it for an aesthetic without care to learn.
Why is it cultural appropriation for a japanese person to wear locks but not for a black american to wear kimono tho? Both are using them just as an aesthetic at the end of the day.
@@muava1487 wdym? Why would a japanese person wear locks? Because they like how they look. And a black person may use a kimono because she likes how it looks. Nobody is concerned with the history and practical uses of them, its all because of how it impacts their physical appearance.
@@kirakishoushirobara2898 Do you know what is the historical use of kimono? To be worn. As an outfit. The word "kimono" literally means "a thing to wear", if you look at the kanjis the word is written with.
@@aino-kaisav5504 bro I study japanese as a third language. Of course I know what it means. So what is your point? Just because it serves the same use as a t shirt then you are saying is completely devoid of history and cultural ties to japan? Sorry, but no. Say that to a Japanese American if you want to hurt their feelings. It still doesnt matter. Its beautiful designs make it part of an aesthetic too even when religious patterns are used. Locks and braids which have been used by many cultures around the world also form part of an aesthetic regardless of their history and practical uses. The African immigrants in my country who make a living out of braiding non black people with straight hair obviously couldn't care less about non blacks using braids/locks. They just want to put food on the table while giving people nice looks. Let them be.
Wow she did such a great job with your hair and so carefully! Like you said, she didn’t even hesitate, she just jumped right in and killed it with confidence!
Im Japanese, but a lot of people who aren't even Japanese try to say its cututal appropriatian wich i think its so dumb! Its not! shes such a beautiful woman 🥰❤️❤️ i feel appreciated when she wears my cultures clothing. its so beautiful!
I totally agree~ 👍 She looks stunning in the kimono~ 👍 I wish they would have kimonos over here in America. I've wanted to wear one since younger but not sure where to get one~ I am curious though & I hope this doesn't sound rude but very curious is a kimono considered sort of as a dress in Japan? I love the outfit~ 💖👍
I am Russian and I admire how politely you explain the misunderstanding of Cultural Appropriation. Admiring other cultures has nothing to do with it. You look and sound lovely! Also thank you so much for showing people, that Japanese are kind. That is very important too.
This was a beautiful video. You wore the kimono and accessories very well and very respectfully. The Japanese people were very sweet, kind and very complimentary. I see why so many of our people have moved there over the years.❤❤ Thanks for the video. It was a joy to watch.
When I went to Japan in 2010, I visited a yukata shop because my sister had a few from her trips to Japan and I wanted one of my own. The shop I went to in kyoto was absolutely wonderful. The elderly shopkeeper recommended a red one with Japanese maple leafs after I mentioned being Canadian. I still own it to this day and it is a very treasured possession
That lady was well informed! Makes me wonder if they have kimono patterns for someone cat obsessed. Some women at a kimono booth at a convention wanted me to try them on because I'm so small. It was fun, I wish I could have afforded it at the time.
my grandfathers second wife gifted me her kimono from when she visited japan as a young woman. she kept excellent care of it and it's gorgeous, if a bit discoloured from age (the lining used to be white, it's more of a cream colour now). i would love to try it on but trying to figure out how to dress it properly is intimidating XD
I see this as accepting the local culture, showing your love and respect of the Japanese people. You took the time to get informed, respect all the involvements... You should be proud of that day 🙂.
Wise words from a wise person. I wish westerners would understand that cultural appropriation is wrong and is just another way to say "I am a racist that doesn't want to be called a racist. We need more people like you.
As a black girl living in Asia I always do my braids in various colors (bc I did same back home) and I always get long looks which always made me uncomfortable and I kept my guard up. But after living here for 4 years and understanding some of the language all I hear is "wow your hair is beautiful " in thier language and I'm able to let my gaurd down bc I know what they are saying and I often respond in the language too...the little I know.
Where do you get your hair done, if you don’t mind me asking? Like do you go to a black salon in the country in Asia that you are living in, or one than specializes in locs and braids? Or do you have to do it yourself at home?
That’s the problem with black Americans, they think staring mean disrespect or racism but in fact it’s just curiosity and wanting to know more, but people can’t communicate due to language barriers and Asians are very shy.
Tairone Wassup, I agree with you and that’s because they actually don’t have a “culture” culture means an appropriate unique way of manner, appearance and the way they live their life and work, all I see is some people going to work getting drunk and cussing at each other and 24/7 on concerts and clubs which is literally opposite of “living” it’s just trash, unhealthy and problematic and sad also the diet is so poor, fast foods 💀 literally most of those self-made unique issues are caused by peoples’s idiotic illiterate opinions for example the cancelling and slurs or cultural appropriation, you can’t see those stuff in other places or countries cause they don’t exist, they don’t create words that have such a bad influence on others or they tend not to use it therefore it doesn’t exist cause of their behavior
@@sammierose1150 I have other black friends who know what they are doing with hair so I call and make an appointment. In a country you might only find 1 or 2 black salons which means we often have to travel to get your hair done . People like me who can't do it make the trip. But others learn how to do thier own hair ...my sister does her own hair but she's in the US and I honestly don't know a thing with hair....I can bake n make fun stuff but hair and makeup I am just stupid at those.
@@gltme2403 I agree, only in America is where opinions without facts actually do hold water which is bs. No other countries let’s you work or attend Ivy League school based on color of skin. They wonder why failure rate is so high. I believe it’s part of black culture to rob, be disrespectful , and hurt people. When a black man goes to jail and returns home, they get heroes welcome like they served in a war . How can black folks say black excellence. Making money from robbing people, cheating the system, riots (teens in Chicago), beating people up for fun ( sf stonestown mall) . I mean 12 year olds are committing adult crimes and carrying guns in school! All black folks can really do is bring up mass shootings but that doesn’t even compare to the daily murders. Black folks claim they built America, if so, they would be doing well in society. To be fair this is regarding most black population in America.
As a Jamaican I also want to add that there are cultures where if you wear their traditional garbs or colours, speak their dialect, use slang words or phrases from their lingua, eat their food or act in ways stereotypical to that culture it is seen as flattery!!! I am a Jamaican and I can tell you that there is nothing more flattering to us than see other nationalities and ethnicities embrace the elements of our culture that make us uniquely Jamaican! So when Volkswagen had a Superbowl ad where a white guy spoke 'Jamaican' or when Adele attended a Caribbean festival wearing a Jamaican colour bikini we absolutely loved it!!! Meanwhile Americans were yelling cultural appropriation and ready to cancel Volkswagen and Adele. As you said in this video the problem is when something that is culturally specific is rebranded and claimed by another ethnicity or race (primarily a more dominant race or ethnicity)...that is when it becomes cultural appropriation. Que Jamie Oliver's 'Jerk' rice!!! 🙄 In my opinion Americans (of course there are always exceptions) would do well to learn about other cultures. The world isn't America and we don't all live in a space where racial sensitivities and divisiveness prevails so stop forcing your perspectives on the world and perhaps instead try to learn and value those other perspectives! Lovely video!
I've always wanted to do this even as a kid because I've always loved the Japanese culture, but as a black girl growing up in America I always was told or heard that it was Culture Appropriation and would offend the people that are Japanese. This video really helped me see that it didn't offend them or it wasn't wrong. Now I would definitely love to do this in the future.
What I've noticed is most cultures will embrace outsiders who want to dress and learn their culture. One thing is to make sure your normal clothes are appropriate for the country you are going to. Not many countries like to show bare shoulders or cleavage but are happy to assist with traditional attire.
I seriously think its just America that have this entitlement of my culture is only for me and my people. In my country, we welcome foreigner to enjoy our foods, our old garments, and so on. I was able to go to Jamaica a few years back and my light skinned cousin got braids and the locals were happy with the hairstyle. I'm going to S. Korea and you best believe I will be renting a hanbok while I'm there
I’ve never read so many kind hearted responses to a video. And I watch a lot of TH-cam. This is awesome. You seem like such a sweetheart of a girl. I love this video and I’m going to watch more of your content!❤
I wore Kimono here in the US for a Japanese festival. I learned how to properly put it on with all the parts. At the festival an older Japanese woman saw me and asked if I dressed myself I said yes and she was so surprised and excited. She also offered to retie my obi since I didn't tie it tight enough. That obi was secure for the next 10 hours lol. We roamed the city after and I got so many compliments. We went to a Ramen restaurant for dinner and the waitress was so excited and asked me so much questions and told me she never wore one before. She even brought out the cheif to see my Kimono 😅 Short ver: I am American and wore a Kimono in the US no negativity from anyone Japanese just 1 bad comment from a fellow American 🤷🏽♀️
As a Japanese, I’m happy to hear that you enjoyed Japan. And I had a similar experience, since fastening the obi is sometimes a little difficult. An older lady came and told me that my obi was untied and she would fix it. I think especially older people are happy to see younger people(no matter what nationalities they have) enjoying kimono. Thank you for sharing your story😊
I'm a white guy and living in Japan I was asked several times to dress in kimono. Like you I was complimented on how it looks and how I carried myself/respected the culture. My best friend even gave me his as a parting gift. A great vid and you bring up important issues to consider when we partake in other people's cultures.
As a black woman, I really liked watching this video. It was nice seeing you wear a Kimono while respecting and getting to learn more about their culture! It looked so good on you!!
@@annadamico1685 I mean as long as they’re not claiming to invent the styles and changing the names of them (which I’ve seen people do already). Only thing is these styles were meant to protect coarser hair textures so it can be damaging to straight hair…
@@annadamico1685 Most black people don't wear if non-black people wear braids or cornrows. The entire black population doesn't consist solely of a small subsection of sensitive Western black people.
@@MysteriousRed23 The thing is, no culture can really claim to ownership to braids, since there are a number of independent traditions of braiding in many cultures through out history. Ancient Mesopotamian and Egyptians had both braids and dreadlocks. Ancient Greeks are portrayed with this hairstyles too, probably influenced by the Egyptians. Minoans had dreadlocks and Vikings had braids. The point is, americans who are obsessed with cultural appropriation fail to understand that in human history cultures have always influenced one another, and people had no problem having the same hairstyles or clothes. So it makes no sense to restrict braids to only a group of people, or for that matter anything that doesn't have sacred/religious meanings.
@@ningsquaredddd You're right, it's mostly people in the US who obsess over cultural appropriation. Here in Europe people share cultures without any problem.
This was really moving thank you for sharing. I’m glad you got to feel beautiful :) and thank you for the note on not being defensive. I was so embarrassed for asking for to go when they didn’t allow that for my leftovers and it ruined a few days, especially with the elder next to me staring at me. I appreciated how you said this could just be a judgment.
I lived in South Korea for 6 years and always tried to avoid wearing Hanbok clothing because I didn't want to anger anyone by wearing their traditional outfits. Instead, I actually ended up offending people when I was turning down their requests to try on Hanbok. Throughout my time there, friends and coworkers constantly tried to get me to try on Hanbok because they were so excited to see how I would look in it, and were excited to share that part of their culture with me. After years, I finally caved and rented an outfit with a group of my friends, and was so scared to offend someone. Instead, I have never in my life received more compliments throughout the day, and appreciation from random strangers for expressing an interest in their culture. It was such a nice change in perspective.
Because people in America are so sensitive, and the cancel thing is absolutely ridiculous, those stuff don’t exist outside America cause people are sane and rational, like tf what you gonna do If I were the clothes that belongs to ur culture 💀?! I own the clothes, you own the traditional values and respect and pride and should feel honored that others are trying your culture, that literally gives value to that culture
I'd be pissed off if someone refuses to try wearing my traditional clothing in my country, I'd think, "This person thinks they're too good for my clothes."
I don’t know how many of you remember this but Katy Perry wore a kimono a during a performance and a lot of Americans screamed about appropriation. I saw a lot of man of the street interviews with Japanese people about it and the question asked wasn’t “do you think this is cultural appropriation?” it was “do you know why people might be upset at her for this?” And none of the people asked had any idea - this concept doesn’t really exist in Japan. I asked my relatives in Japan as well and they weren’t familiar with the idea. It’s honestly ridiculous to be offended on behalf of another culture, or worse, tell people of that culture that they should be offended. This mindset is poisonous and is the opposite of “progressive” thinking. The end goal should a world where everyone is able to enjoy whatever part of other cultures they want. The modern day “progressive” thinking in America is so inclusive they’ve become exclusive, so far left they’ve fallen off the edge.
This doesn't take into account the opinions and rightful questioning of Katy Perry by Americans of Japanese descent whose perspectives are different from continental Japanese people.
@@djsapien3448 Exactly. People born and raised in Japan might not know about the underlying racism the West has in regards to Kimonos and Japanese culture.
I remember that people were also angry with her for blending Chinese and Japanese clothing, but I don't see the issue. What's wrong with blending cultures? Have you ever heard of "Wafrica"? It's Japanese traditional clothing with African inspired patterns and colors and it's dreamy.
I think it is fine to share cultural things, in fact it is normal. Perhaps the root of it here regarding peiple calling her out who are not japanese is because japanese culture appears, from the outside at least, to be well preserved. No one would ever mistake it for a modern invention. Whereas things in USA (where I assume the comments may have come from) seem to be, viewed as an outsider, more mixed, so if you come across a way to dress or do your hair that appears modern and it is in the media, you may not know where it comes from or to show appreciation. I wouldn't expect someone to research everything they might do, so mistakes might be made. I also think unless it is a sacred thing, it might not garner any feedback from the culture it belongs to regarding it being appropriate (unless in this case, you do it on social media!). I am not protective of hairstyles that are from my culture, I don't really care and think it's not important to me, but can see why for others if they have no sense of their culture being highly regarded or if beyond their country of birth they have no other country they might be connected to, i.e. descendants of enslaved people, I haveas my culture the country of my birth and a caribbean country as heritage for many generations before that. But there is nothing in my heritage that is particularly specific that isn't just associated with most people who are black, and/or who have my texture of hair, and/or are from that climate/area of the world. Additionally being born to a different country to that of my parents there is another layer of a different culture and being removed from my parents one, so perhaps I am less anchored to a culture than I could be.
I’m not usually emotionally affected by most content, even when I recognize the emotional weight behind it, but this video caused me to form tears. I love how you framed this experience with empathy instead of the expectation of malice from others. Odd how being less critical of other people instantly makes them less critical of us. Very beautiful, well done!
Same here. It was so moving, and it made me appreciate and admire the Japanese so much more. Wish I could visit Japan before I die; it's such a beautiful country filled with beautiful people.
That stylist did a phenomenal job!! As a stylist in the US I’m honestly amazed she not only stepped up with 0 hesitation, but absolutely blew that style away, it was beautiful. I wouldn’t know a lot of white stylists here that would do the same thing. That was awesome to see. In terms of people stopping you, I could also see it happening just because kimonos formally dawned are often just admired in general, especially when you’re out in the rural areas. It would be like if someone in the US was wondering around in an incredibly elegant ball gown-people would look/compliment them. If it’s not a specific holiday or event you will get attention just because the dress itself is appreciated & seen as beautiful, people really appreciate not just the dress but how it is worn.
I feel like she was ready for the challenge. I’m not a stylist and don’t know anything about it (I get shitty military haircuts) but I’d imagine it was a once in a lifetime opportunity for her to see if she can do it. Wonder if she took a picture for her portfolio too lol.
You guys keep saying this like people weren’t being canceled for literally what she’s doing. Katy Perry got hella backlash for wearing a kimono, and she wasn’t wearing it pretending she invented it or being disrespectful. Cultural appropriation as critique has mostly been a tactic to be racist and attack people.
Cultural appropriation is made up bs for weak minds. Choose what you like on a personal level and dont bow to the clown world. Imagine a world where only the race that created something was allowed to use it. So idiotic.
I remember when I booking my Maiko transformation I was so nervous of taking pictures outside thinking people would think I'm silly or stupid, but the clerks in the store were very emphatic about other people loving it. I accepted, but still thought they might be pushing it just because it was more expensive to shoot outside.... In reality, I was stopped by so many groups of japanese girls who wanted to take pictures of me, surprised that I knew how to speak in Japanese, asking me were I was from and being super curious. I ended up crying back in the store because I had never been complimented on looks before.
I really loved this video! Thank you so much for sharing! Side note: I also appreciate you including Japanese subtitles and translations in your videos. It has been helping me learn
As a person of African heritage, I love when I see other cultures APPRECIATE black culture. I think it's great, and this is what the world should be like. As for those that complain about appropriation, I truly believe that are a small - albeit very loud - group. I hope they get a grip soon, so we can all go back to being happy and appreciating each other.
Do you know where to find more information regardless African myth and folktales? I want to write story about Mami Wata but the information on internet is pretty limited about it 🥲
You as an African person have a very different experience with appropriation than a black American so you should speak for you and only you. Being through centuries of discrimination, at one point black women were forced to shave their heads bc whites women didn’t like their husbands admiring black womens hair. Kids getting suspended from school or black hairstyles being deemed ghetto just to have white models celebrated when they do it is very different than someone simply wearing a dashiki. Pls.
Hi, i was wondering, as a black person, do you get offended by people from outside your race (asian, white, etc) wear box braids ? i see that alot of american get offended :/ so i was wondering as a person (i assume, you are from Africa) would get offended over box braids ? Thanks
@@gethina-come7885 Not at all. People wear wigs to resemble Caucasian hair. Perfectly fine for people to APPRECIATE box braids. I think it’s great and we are moving in the right direction. A whole lot of loving is better than a whole lot of hating.
My husband and I visited Japan in April 2019. When we were in Kyoto, we did a photo shoot with kimonos. For roughly an hour our photographer took photos and then we had a few hours to spare before the kimono shop closed for the day. So we mostly walked around and took pictures of our own. We got a lot of compliments, but what shocked us more was locals asking if they could take our picture. The best was a group of school children (I think they were middle school, but I could be wrong), asked if they could take a group photo with us while we were along the Kama River. I wish we could have gotten a photo with them too, but we were so taken back, that after they left and started walking away my husband suddenly said “Shoot! We didn’t get a picture with them with our phone!!” Later on when we returned to our Airbnb, our host was outside and we showed him pictures of our day in kimonos. When I asked him what he thought, or if it was culturally appropriate since we are pale white Canadians wearing kimonos. He looked at me as if I had grown a second head, laughed and then said “We love it when tourists come here and try on kimonos. It shows us that they love our culture. If you think about it, technically we are wearing western clothes all of Japan now right? Technically speaking we are also culturally appropriate for that aren’t we?” Putting that aside, you look so gorgeous and elegant in your kimono! Can’t wait to check out more of your videos!
That is an awesome story. It’s always nice to see people appreciating each other and sharing positivity. As an Indian, the thing most people know us for is our food. I know lots of people who would like to try our food, and some of them have even taken it upon themselves to learn to cook it as well.
I spent 3 years in Okinawa , since there's a dozen or so US military bases, photo studios that so shoots in kimonos are a dime a dozen. There was a store in the mall that I think rented kimonos for 20th birthday celebrations (there were no prices on them as opposed to the other store that had prices and they were NOT cheap) where I was browsing one day and one of the employees came up and said "try ok" and motioned for me to follow her. She let me pick one out and dressed me than took photos, it was fun playing dress up. I used my translator app to tell her she was very kind for it
Woooowwwwww I honestly expected people them to have said not nice things, but I was blown away. That’s the other part that you mentioned that is important, language!!! Not knowing the language can make you make assumptions about what others are saying. This video was very insightful and you looked lovely in that kimono❤
As a Japanese person, I'm really happy and proud when non-Japanese people wear kimono and yukata. I can't wait to see my fiance wear his traditional wedding kimono (紋付羽織袴), he's Mexican but more knowledgable/passionate about certain Japanese topics than me! 😂 Also, the "似合ってるよ!" from the ladies are just so genuine and you can tell they were all in awe of your beauty 💖💖💖
As an American, I think you have every right to be proud! Kimonos are so beautiful, and I have had such an admiration for Japanese art and architecture for such a long time. Everything is so elegant and calm. I think many Americans admire Japan so much they wish they were Japanese.
My family is Ukrainian and I’d be honoured to see someone of another culture wearing our traditional clothing. Appropriation and appreciation are different!
Exactly! I'm not Ukrainian but I feel the same way! I honestly believe that there is more into it... maybe some lobby to stop the foreign influence and make people buy only clothes styled by their country of origin. I think there might be money involved. There is a loooooot of money in fashion
@@neffyg35 Yesssss, I also don’t know the name but the flowers are huge part of it. Personally I like the white blouses with red flower embroidery on them. I wish my family had more of our traditional clothing because I’d love to wear my cultures clothes more often.
Ukrainians are horrible racist people. Why you'd tell a lie like that when you know this black woman would be filleted alive if she did that in that wartorn hellhole.
I really love that it also wasn't just one demographic of locals. Elders, young people, middle aged; all loved your look. Not one person upset over it. and that kimono color and pattern looked great on you.
I love this video for so many reasons. When you bring this leaves of love, peace, education, bravery, compassion, grace, and humility to the world….I understand your walk down the middle. #Goddess
Japnese descendant here. There is nothing wrong with foreigner wearing kimono. It is even positively moving. The problem is when it is done in a caricature fashion, a sex fantasy approach or without the proper wearing (there are a lot of rules for everything you do in Japan). Since you wore it beatifully, beatiful it will be.
There is nothing wrong with wearing it in a sexual way or charicature They can be worn however. Who suddenly came up with these rules. These didnt exist before.
I did a paper back in university on exactly this topic - "Is foreigners wearing kimono cultural appropriation?" We didn't find a single Japanese person in our interviews that said it was. The only remark was maintaining an air of respect for the garment and culture. I've seen the exact same dynamic, for example, where African-American and African people completely disagree on a topic. A channel called Jubilee does group discussions and interviews just like this and its really opened my eyes to the true dynamism of human opinion. Segragating all of us - "White people wear this, black people wear that, Asian people wear that" is quite literally the definition of racism and an over generalization of opinion.
It's sad that you even have to conduct such interviews. Ever since the topic of cultural appropriation came up, it was clear as day that people that contribute directly to the culture in question are not appropriating anything.... How the hell did this stuff get so convoluted that Americans feel the need to harass other people for a concept that is strictly American and applicable only to the US?
Generally here in East Asia our traditional costumes are welcome for anyone to wear, just don't wear them wrongly, even we would criticise ourselves for wearing them wrongly lol Also I just want to talk about gyoza because it's a very unusual case that you brought up. Gyoza is originally a Chinese dish, and is still considered Chinese even with a Japanese name, gyoza is actually the Japanese pronounciation of 餃子/Jiaozi. This is pretty straight forward, but then there exist another name called 锅贴/guotie, which actually means pot sticker in Chinese. Which means gyoza/jiaozhi/guotie/pot sticker are all the same things, at least in general. Because there's another twist, jiaozi and guotie are extremely similar dishes, but they have slightly different ingredients, probably because they were the same dish made in different regions of China, but they are so similar that most people including myself can't really tell them apart. I suspect that in the West, it was originally the Chinese themselves who translated guotie into pot sticker, but then Japanese gyoza arrived and people couldn't tell them apart, so they became interchangeable.
Potsticker/guotie usually denotes the type of dumpling that is pan-fried, while jiaozi are the boiled or steamed variety. Technically, Gyoza are potstickers.
@@HomuresuBijuarukei Makes sense and adds another twist to it lol Sounds like Japanese gyoza are named after jiaozi but is actually made with the guotie/pot sticker method
Agreed, as a Chinese, seeing on twitter that a white girl got flamed because she wore qipao (a traditional chinese dress) to prom for 'cultural appropriation' is so weird! I only saw appreciation and love for our culture there, and everyone attacking her was not Chinese anyway, they've offended me more than the girl. I think as long as you show respect to the culture you're wearing/enjoying, that's good enough for me.
I've only seen Chinese culture from my Western home and I'm concerned at how limited is my knowledge of my own culture. I would love for more recognition of Chinese clothing, I've only seen it once in my life despite living in a multicultural city (or once I could remember) also on the topic of dumpling-type foods, apparently they are all turkic in origin.
Ultimately I do whatever I want unless they call goofers on me, but unlike many other modern people I am good at adapting and integrating when want.. Part of growing up in shiddy conditions among and move to different places and institutions staying alive.. I watched this movie when an Arab line came up very fast and I just copied it the guy next was quite surprised at that little fest and could see a smile..
The moment where the Japanese were complimenting how you looked in the kimonos/furisodes, made me feel happy. It was very moving and I could feel your happiness! You are amazing and people can see that
Enim with dreads and a kimono bright, Walks through the streets of Japan's delight, Bringing joy to all who cross her way, Her presence brightens up their day. The people stop and stare in awe, Mesmerized by her beauty and all, Her smile, her grace, and her style, Makes everyone around her smile. She moves with a gentle breeze, And sways with every step with ease, Enim's aura is a sight to behold, Her charm and charisma never grow old.
this made me cry. I've always wanted to visit Japan and wanted to wear a kimono. I love the culture. I get excited when other cultures appreciate my culture as a Jamaican. Thank you for reminding me to go for my dreams in this short life
AAAAA A FELLOW JAMAICAN!! Same throughout this video i was jus thinking about how excited i get when ppl loc their hair (especially when go "bobodread" style cuz i dnt even like tht style... But this foreigner appreciates it that much??!) And when they attenpt to learn patois (so cute) among other things. Im also in love with japanese culture even the language is so poetic and beautiful. Anyway srry i got excited seeing a mirror of myself here 💀💀
Of course, it's not cultural appropriation. You weren't wearing it and saying it was from your background. I'm sure the people were honored to see you in it. When you spoke and when you laughed (with your hand over your mouth) it felt like you were Japanese. You captured the energy - perhaps subconsciously. Perhaps because you've lived there long enough. And it is obvious to anyone that you are very kind. Kindness is the universal language. I speak several languages and have lived and travelled many places in the world. Most people I've met have been flattered when I pick up things from their culture. When I was in college, my Japanese roommate dressed me up in her kimono. When I worked with refugees, Somali Bantu women dressed me in their veils and screamed with laughter when I spoke a phrase in their language. I've worn traditional Russian skirts and scarves and have been wrapped in a sari. Every time was an honor for me. When meeting people from different cultures it's best to shed your expectations and eagerness to be offended.
@@MissPinkElf13 appreciate however much you want, it's still appropriation. You have to appropriate something to appreciate it in this context. It's just facts.
You are gorgeous and really Kawaii! So respectful also! This reminds me of a couple of friends. They had a baby. Their friends from Japan came to visit (in Brazil) and brought a little kimono for the girl. EVERYONE was offended, all the righteous non japanese people around. Except the japanese that actuallly gifted the kimono. They were thrilled when the little girl wore it.
1. The woman who confidently styled your hair is so talented, she must have been doing that for a long time to do such a good job in such new circumstances. So professional! 2. Every single Japanese person you asked to interview seemed much more uncomfortable with being randomly addressed on the street than they did about anything you were wearing. This is not an accusation, just an observation. Privacy and keeping to one's self seem to be valuable things in Japanese culture. 3. The way I laughed when they said they were Korean! XDDD Oops, sorry guys! 4. The way both men and women of various ages complimented you in that short segment on the street was truly magical. I think that speaks louder than any explanation could about what Japanese people usually think about foreigners wearing traditional dress. There will always be some people who disagree, but at the end of the day you could not have been more respectful with how you went about enjoying traditional Japanese style and culture, and I believe this is why so many spoke up to compliment you. 5. I know this isn't the point but I need so much more context on those pigeons! XDDDDD
That's quite accurate all my family members would prefer to be swallowed by the earth to have to speak aloud with someone stopping them on the streets But they are just too shy Happens to a lot of japonese, especially young ones
When I was a Teenager my Kendo club went to Tokyo for an exchange. The japanese People were so nice to us and asked everyone if we would like to wear Yukata for an evening. Of course we all agreed. They showed and helped us to dress correctly. It was such a special feeling to wear these clothes as a sign of friendship between germany and japan.
My heart! Oh my goodness i teared up at all of the nice compliments you got. Thank you for sharing this. I'm Black and I grew up in Los Angeles, CA and always frequented Little Tokyo. I felt like I was always accepted and encouraged to visit frequently or to learn more about the culture. LA is such a great place to be exposed to multiple cultures. Blessed to have grown up there. But again thank you for sharing your experience!
I was at one of their festivals years ago so I don't recall. I mentioned I wish I could wear a Kimono but I didn't want to upset anyone. Ended up with a few older ladies encouraging me and showing me a kimono. I ended up buying the kimono with intentions to wear it one day but I never ended up ever wearing it. It's hand made to so maybe one day I will find someone to pass it to. The only time I felt awkward was finding any type of wooden sandal because compared to Japanese woman I have a mans foot. It's an excitement to share their culture and to keep history moving.
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貴女には明るい色の着物が良く似合います😊
You are soooo humble…. It sounds amazing and I love how sweet you are! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Cultural appropriation is western concept that hardly anyone cares about in Asia at least in my country, people rather feel proud when others participate in our culture. We appropriate whatever we want here and not care about appropriation as it causes divisions and double standards. Western countries are so diverse yet people there tends to rather restrict esvhother from cultural exchange then what's the point of multiculturalism if u can't participate, embrace n enjoy eachother culture..
@@Raderade1-pt3omit’s mainly black Americans who cry cultural appropriation.
We wuz kangz n sheeit
Cultural appropriation is leftist BS. Wear what you want.
A lot of people are confused with the the words Cultural Appropriation. Cultural Appropriation is when a person who is from different culture takes from a specific culture such as traditional hairstyles, foods, traditional dances, traditional clothing etc and then renames it and says that they are the ones who invented and came up with it when they didn’t. A black woman wearing a Kimono is not cultural appropriation it is cultural appreciation. Please know the difference between cultural appropriation and cultural appreciation!
And also profit off of it**
II agree 💯.
Like Korean Karate.
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Can you give some examples of this happening?
I find it so interesting that it’s always people who AREN’T from that country, that want to scream appropriation on their behalf. But then the locals are all like “oh we don’t mind! We love you experiencing our culture!” 😂😂
Yup! I think people are just trying to find new ways on hating on other people by calling them appropriators, racist, sexist, etc., not realizing these words have completely different meanings. 🫠
So true! When I put a photo of me wearing a furisode for my coming of age ceremony on the internet long ago, people who were hating on it were all non Japanese people 😂. and the ones who knew I was half Japanese also added that even if I'm half Japanese, I am still not allowed to wear one since I look full white 😂
really sad how people have to hate and make every positive thing into a negative one. 😒
It's even better than "we don't mind," it's "this is great!"
Sadghuru is right, problems originate from taking an identity. If everyone just identified as a child of the cosmos then we are all the same.
Just like avril lavignes music video for hello Kitty. Everyone was yelling at her saying shes racsist and the japanese LOVED it and absolutely adore her
As a Japanese person, let me tell you and everybody that wearing kimonos isn’t cultural appropriation. Kimono literally translates to “something you wear,” and they’re just that; just clothes. There’s nothing sacred attached to them, so anyone who wants to should wear them freely!
Wearing kimonos isn’t cultural appropriation, but rather cultural appreciation; it brings a smile to my face to see people from overseas appreciate my culture.
You look so elegant and beautiful in kimono 😊🇺🇸🇯🇵
afaik kimonos are worn on specific festivals or celebrations or whatever and are not a typical wear. and the design of the kimono is unique and specific to the japanese culture. so tell me more how wearing a kimono is not a cultural apropriation, japanese person.
and this video means nothing, people will aways be nice to hur simply becouse manners and japanese are famous for being nice no matter what. if she wants accurate resaults then she shuld make a poll availible to lets say 100k japanese at least, and lets see the resaults then.
@@zendraw3468 Well, thanks for sharing things as far as you know. But I may know a wee bit more, seeing as how I’m … Japanese?
Kimonos aren’t just worn for special occasions; there are plenty of people who wear kimono casually on a daily basis, and there are no rules that say you are only allowed to wear them for special occasions, though there are occasion-specific kimonos (kind of like how people wear all sort of dresses for daily use (summer dress, casual dress, etc.) but not wedding dresses.)
Are you Japanese? I don’t know why you’re so angry about something that Japanese people are assuring isn’t offensive at all. If you’re suggesting that the voices of the Japanese people don’t matter because “we’re nice” and aren’t as important as yours, well that’s something I _do_ find offensive.
@@EddVCR you are not the japanese voice, same way im not my country`s voice, like i said, atleast 100k poll with japanese peple for a somewhat accurate statistic. and again, the kimono is not just a random made up dress. it has history and culture. same as an indian garb.
maybe appreciate your culture more and dont be so accepting of western perversion. western people trying to act like japanese is cringe. and no im not japanese nor angry.
I truly appreciate your comments. I was born and raised in Brazil, and have been living in Canada for 10 years now. When I finally had the chance to visit Japan, I was so excited to wear a yukata! I felt so beautiful, and felt nothing less than pure joy and appreciation for Japan. For me, all this discussion about culture appropriation is ridiculous, especially when the person is motivated by such positive feelings towards another culture. ❤ Thank you for understanding!
@@zendraw3468 There is a TH-camr named Sora The Troll - he also confirms that the Japanese like it when people wear Kimono, talk about Manga, Anime etc since they are showing an effort to understand and enjoy Japanese culture. Everyone should be this way honestly, but in the U.S. we don't really have any one culture. You just sound like you hate Japanese people honestly.
As a 70-year-old Japanese person, I must say I have never thought of this topic before and have never seen a black person wearing a kimono or yukata before. I am all for it. Absolutely nothing wrong with keeping this worthy tradition alive.
I have never seen this as well but if they do it's because they admire the culture.
My first thought when I seen the inside of that kimono shop?
"Can you use that to make a kilt?"
I am positive creating a "cultural abomination" is much worse than appropriation :)
but now the idea wont leave my head... which means the next Highland Games here will be much more colourful!
As a white girl who grew up and Japan, the women in my community would all gather at our home to dress me up in a kimono. A Yukata (basically a summer version of a kimono) is a popular garb to wear for summer festivals (maturi's), but because my mom wasn't Japanese she didn't know how to properly dress me. So I literally had a team of a dozen women from my neighborhood who did my makeup, hair, dressed me and even do photoshoots. It not only produced core memories for me, but looking back it definitely made my mom happy being so welcomed and accepted by the women in the community who lent such a big hand.
My take from it is that they are more concerned of losing the tradition of wearing a kimono (or yukata), so it brings relief and joy to see not only their youth but people from different ethnicities wearing and appreciating such traditions.
It was very sweet of them to do so
Do you also like classical music - I see that you follow some channels with classical music. Good choice
Eh whatever people has lost it today, too little ruffles around as a kid and now they get offended over everything i am defence even me..
Your description reminded me of the part in Mulan when they're helping her get dress for the matchmaker. ♡ I hope you enjoyed your time there :)
That sounds lovely.
As a Japanese woman. I LOVE SEEING OTHER PEOPLE WEAR the KIMONO.
She looks beautiful in her kimono!!!
We encourage other people to visit Japan and experience our culture. Including Clothing, food and other tradition. ❤
How about nothern European man wearing fundoshi?😜
@@jpm83We Japanese would be happy to see northern Western men wearing fundoshi.
In Japan, we see white men wearing fundoshi and participating in traditional Japanese festivals. We Japanese are very happy to see them participating in Japanese festivals.
@@mo5zy How about Koreans wearing them? We don't mind as well! Hello comrade!
A kimono/ yukata are probably one of the best traditional clothing especially with the artwork
@@gakidomo9561 We Japanese are happy to see Koreans wearing kimonos and fundoshi. The only thing we Japanese do not like is when foreigners make fun of traditional Japanese costumes or wear them in a disheveled manner, which makes us very uncomfortable.
I am a woman of colour and I wore a kimono while in Japan for my friends wedding. I was plus sized at the time and got so many compliments! Everyone was thanking me for being respectful and loving their culture.
As humans should act towards each other.
I go to karate 2-3 a week.
Do I approrpriate karate from the japanese?
Did the japanese appropriate karate from the koreans and the chinese?
"Cultural appropration" is a deeply divisive term, that should be - well - cancelled.
Again Japanese people will always compliment you . Does not mean they mean it. They are not as direct as foreigners.
Aww
@@shyviking True, it's such a bullshit term. Most things were developed on the basis of something that existed before. Building cars isn't cultural appropriation of German culture. And if a fashion brand uses a certain pattern that has been used before, then this is just normal.
Too bad black ppl don’t feel the same way about braids. It’s funny how they like to gatekeep stuff from their culture but then go to somewhere like Japan an dress in their cultural clothes. Bunch of hypocrites 😂
Hello, I am Japanese. I am sorry if I have offended you unintentionally because I am using the translation function. I wanted to comment on your kimono because you look so nice in it. It suits you very well! It is like a kimono made for you.🥰
We are happy that our country's culture is shared and enjoyed.
Thank you for experiencing Japanese culture！❤
Hi I am turkish who's born and live In France. I love Japan and your beautiful culture. I would love to speak japanese.❤
It's a really good translation and appreciated comment. Have a nice day 🙏🏻
😊❤Domo arigato gozaimas Hanna no nippon. Aishiteru.
Such a nice person
I am Japanese.
When I see people from other countries wearing kimono, I am happy.
Since you have come all the way to Japan, I hope you will wear a kimono and experience its culture, no matter where you are from!
Ignore silly opinions such as cultural theft, and just walk around proudly and happily！
That's right, I also think kimono is beautiful in any person💕🌸
THANK YOU! As long as folks are cool with it and respecting culture, then that’s amazing.
Know that you're a minority and I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Thank you for clarifying that. It's appreciation and appropriation. Americans just want to put the white guilt everywhere and now it spills over across over ethnicities and cultures..I am sick of this
Excatly 🔥🇳🇬🇬🇧I’m British Nigerian and lived in The Netherlands 🇳🇱 I identify more with the Dutch culture and Nigerian than British.
I would like to say that in my opinion as a Japanese, you look very good in kimono.
I don't think it is cultural theft in the slightest. Rather, I thank you for your interest in Japanese culture.
My one concern is that many foreign tourists think of Japan as a theme park.
Please remember that Japan is a place where people live just like your country and there are rules and manners there.
Beautiful culture
@@lamontwhite7752 Your homeland also has a wonderful culture!
@@miyan0908 thank you every since i was a child i often wanted to visit japan and china
@Christopher Jacobs No, that's not true; Cos Play is more of a minority culture.
Kimono is not Cos Play. It is formal wear.
There are many Japanese who do not like anime.
It is true that most Japanese do not speak English.
But they can talk to cats.
i visited japan a few years ago and now im studying japanology - japanese language and culture. i wish to become a translator or something of sort, studying your culture has been very enlightening and i wish to visit toyama again someday
Wow, let that sink in that all the people that were attacking her weren’t Japanese, and all the people that were complimenting/pleased to see her in a kimono were Japanese. Loved the video.
One of the best ways to understand and appreciate another culture is by listening to those who are a part of the fabric of that society. Listen to their stories, understand the implications behind the aspects of their culture that you are interested in, and use that understanding to broaden your worldview, and you did that.
They just mad they didn’t have the balls to do it
cause they think they did something for that other person when they're actually just annoying as shit. they need to stfu and sit down for once
Basically western morality police. "Cultural appropriation" is an extension of the Not-see (german accent) racial purity theory.
I feel like thats always how it starts and it's irritating bc people try to speak for others when they don't need to.
Yeah but the big two, Chinese and Japanese people traditionally don't raise a stink about it, even since the great "enlightening". Traditionally it's always been white and black people who are the most offended.
I will say it and I will say it again, I got hated for liking Japanese culture by my ex friends in middle school because I made it a piece of me, They thought I was just stupid for liking it and me liking it made them very angry. You were the reason why I liked it again. And you inspired me to not be afraid to like it. And you know what, I am asking my mom to make me a traditional kimono and I’m making apart of my ward robe. Thank you so much
Make a video in Japanese teLLing Japanese about your story
If Japanese people don't think it's appropriation, then it's not appropriation. It's their culture so theirs is the only opinion that matters. People on the Internet love to be offended on behalf of others without actually knowing what those people think. And you are correct that most people do not understand the correct definition of cultural appropriation.
Logic left
Honestly the only people who are offended are those who even created the ideology that wearing other cultures are offensive. When in reality it’s not racism at all
I think cultural appropriation is total b******* therefore it is.
She did it right with respect. That is what matters. There are some young Japanese girls who doesn't seem to have any respect towards our own culture and they wear kimono in more exposed way (oiran) for a formal occasion such as seijin-shiki ceremony, we see that as a disgrace.
I think there is a difference in the perceptions of people in their homeland and diaspora. I am Indian and I absolutely have nothing against people from other cultures wearing a bindi, even as a fashion statement. But my second generation Indian-American friend considers it appropriation because if she wore it in her small American town, she would not be treated well. So who knows how the Japanese diaspora may feel about the kimono being worn by a non-japanese person?
I actually appreciate the hairstylist for trying to do her hair. She could have just said “no I can’t”, but she tried it confidently and slayed.
Seriously her hair looks so good! I love the result 🌺
It looks so cool.
Interesting because recently there was a vid on tik tok of a white hairdresser braiding a black girls hair and she did it so beautifully but she received SO much hate. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. This side of YT seems to be safe, but some areas of the internet are filled with very angry gate keepers...
@@SkyeAten "anti racist" racist white people on youtube shorts when a black woman isnt treated like stepped-on dog sh*t:
Same
As a Filipino, I feel honored when foreigners wear our traditional Barong Tagalog and appreciate its beauty. It a cultural pride we proudly share with the world.
I just googled that after seeing your comment, and I have to say, it surprises me how similar the Barong is to our romanian "ie". At least for the male ones, the form and the embroidery is visually similar. Very nice!
As a Thai, I, and most of my people, share your sentiments.
❤❤❤❤
Same for my country. As a Puerto Rican, I love seeing people dress up in the traditional Jíbaro attire. It’s gorgeous and should be appreciated by anyone (as long as it’s done respectfully ofc)
Cultural appropriations of clothing is a sham
ほんとにほんとによくお似合いです！
着物の柄と色があなたの肌や髪に合っていてとってもきれい！！
道行く皆さんが思わず声を掛けちゃうのも頷けます🥰
It's so sweet of the people to say you look lovely in that kimono. You absolutely do.
Thank you 😊 Yes, even when editing I was really touched by their kind words.
@@EnimsLifeinJapan Where can we buy online?
Because the japanese people are very polite, and their political elite are coward under American foot.
Most people are happy when you share their culture, because it means you appreciate and respect it. Nobody wants their culture to be forgotten.
I was gonna insult you but I’ll try to be decent. We don’t need your whiteness to carry traditions and culture. People of color exist without or with you. If you stopped existing tomorrow, I wouldn’t go “damn who is gonna remember my culture?!”. You’re allowed to participate when it’s normalized and invited. Don’t create generalizations for your selfishness knowing you come from people who have in fact erased entire cultures with their insistence on being admitted and included, before then taking over and capitalizing off non western people including the Japanese who never recovered from forced cultural re education programs. We’d all like to be forgotten more by you if it means avoiding that
I’m just being honest, not mean, white insistence of participation can only be addressed so kindly though when you make habit of speaking over and for others
White people in the states get slammed for Appropriation constantly.
@Nothereforit174 I'm not white, dudes right. We like seeing our cultures around the US. That's what America is all about at least
This 💯🙏
People learnt the word appropriation and ran with it, many don't know what it actually means.
wearing traditional clothing in the country itself, where the money has gone directly to locals, is probably the top form of appreciation.
ALL HISTORY IS BLACK. Black people cant appropriate any culture they abandon.
ok give them the Kimono ( which is EDO) not edo Japan Edo the real on in Nigeria. TAKE THE DRUMS BACK AND THEIR NIGERIA NAMES... because the real japan moved out when they moved in.
The real facts are,twenty years ago people didn't even care about this
cultural appropriation crap.
so can we werar braids since you wear our dresses?
@@i-3137 Yes. Wearing braids isn't cultural appropriation. It's only if you pretend you came up with the idea of braids or something
@@blushchuu you mean came up with the idea of braid box and those specific kind of style right? Cos braids also used in many countries and ethnicity or race, some even look almost similar with corn row too.
日本人の私から見ても、着物も髪型も全て似合ってるし可愛い！🥰
最近着物(浴衣)着てなかったから、久々に着たくなったな…😌👘
As a Japanese myself, when I see Gaijin try out our tradition, I feel nothing but joy and excitement. If they are willing to learn, I'd love to teach them. Afterall, sharing ideas is fundamentally a human thing.
True! Same here with Mexican culture. It only becomes a problem when others take from our cultures, and claim it as their own. Or use it to discriminate. But, it’s such a wonderful thing to share cultures! :)
who you callin gaijin >:O
@@user-zp3pt9zt6t Yeah the 99% of people who don't give a f@ck, because life is too short
@@The_Gallowglass
Many old Japanese people think gaijin is just short version for “gaikokujin ・外国人 ・foreigner”.
They never knew it's bad means.
@@inatm7862 Japanese language shortens everything. I’ve never felt any discomfort when designated as « Gaijin ». Pretending this word is meant to be offensive is Holywood made BS…
You live in Japan for years, speak the language, understand Japanese nonverbal communication, understand the culture.... I would say you're assimilating, not appropriating.
Preach
As a Japanese, I can only be happy to see such proper knowledge and respect for Japanese culture. If you ever come to Japan, do some research on various cultures and customs. I don't think it is plagiarism to touch the culture with respect in that way.Also, Kamakura is a nice place. Come and visit if you like.😊
Thank you for your words.😊 Its good to know the opinion of a native person.
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I think most Americans want to go to Japan for the women lol
Specially I love Asian culture beautiful ppl
@@jakecowsert6185 I think most americans want to go to Japan cuz they watch too much anime
I would say you got those positive comments because you do actually look good in the kimono! and the women at the store put it on you properly!That was the vibe I got from the older ladies. And I can't believe how well the lady did your hair - beautiful.
Actually felt my eyes get a bit teary when so many people complimented you in under a minute. I'm Dutch but with Indian ethnicity and just thinking about how happy that must've made you feel makes me so happy. Great video, hair stylist did an incredible job too!
ME TOO IM HOLDING BACK TEARS LMAO
felt the same way!! Was so nice to see such great reactions, warmed up my heart 🥰🥰🥰
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Here in Singapore, there's a day called racial harmony day where we are allowed to wear any traditional costumes to school to celebrate. My friend who was born in the UK but brought up in SG wore a kimono over (her mum's japanese) and she won best outfit. She looks Soo stunning in the kimono
That’s beautiful.
I wish I could partake in those things but I basically have no culture 😅
Omg u from Singapore I'm from USA sadly but I LOVE Singapore so much y'all are the best I wanna retire there ヽ( ᐖゞ)
@@keribere244 every person, every country has culture. You might just not recognize yours because it’s hard to recognize culture from the inside. To you, your food, clothing, celebrations just seem like the normal way to do things, but they are your culture.
nice to see a fellow sgrean!! i agree that racial harmony day is really nice to be able to embrace one another’s cultures and wear our friend’s traditional costumes! tho there was an incident in my sec sch where the teachers banned a kimono for one of the classes when they wanted to present it for the fashion show competition for whatever reason idk (i think its cos its not one of the main races in sg) :(
It’s not cultural appropriation. It’s cultural appreciation.
Agreed, I feel like anyone that isn't disgracing the kimono or to expand to lens to the culture(s). It's fine in my book and I appreciation when people embrace the views/lifestyles of other cultures besides their own. And sometimes with the view/lifestyle could blossom into better understanding of how one another lives.
Oli London said that same quote 💀😊
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same thing...
@@princessprincess7708dutch braids don’t have an origin on african tribes, these were the braids the viking women used
And JUST like that I am healed in 11 minutes. Thank you for that perspective. It’s easy to be defensive when you don’t speak the language. You are beautiful.
I'm hafu, born in Japan but lived the majority of my life in America. My looks favor my Italian half. Back home in Japan, no one bats an eye, but in America, people get up in arms about it. A lot of people that will call out "appropriation" are people not of that culture
The way the term is used seems to be a uniquely American or Western usage
An incorrect usage for sure.
get up in arms about what? being mixed race?
they don’t know that they’re mixed and they look more non-japanese than japanese.
Not western, just American really
@@McDuck94 Bullshit. Most western countries are way more woke than America is.
I am Japanese. Thank you for honoring Japanese culture. I wish more people would explore other cultures the way you do. Also your Japanese is great!
I'm actually mixing VK (visual kei) and Yami Kawaii into my style. I love the fashion and culture as well as the music genre of VK. And by throwing Yami Kawaii into the mix not only does the dark themes with cute images speak to me personally but I also feel that I might help spread awareness about menhera that mentally ill people deserve better treatment and are people too.
It's really disgusting how some people take pleasure in insulting and demeaning others, because they think the internet affords anonymity. I'm so glad you are clapping back at your haters in the classiest way possible.
couldn't disagree more. I couldnt care less what loophole she's making with definitions and usages etc. By what appropriation means by majority of media users and "cancellers" she is indeed appropriating the culture by simply using it. just like many many others who simply just dress in styles of black or asian cultures harmlessly and are harassed for it. she should not be exempt just bcz she's not white. (im a brown middle eastern btw so no this is not a white rage vomit, im just not a fan of hypocrisy)
the good reception and reaction she got doesnt show anything but the fact that the japanese people are more well-mannered and cultured than americans who shout and argue over everything (digitally or in person). if she'd done the same in her own country she would not have gotten a good reaction there.
conclusion; as long as the silly appropriation fiasco exists she should expect those comments. if she has a problem with the term then she should stop using it for her own culture as well, and call out the ridiculousness of it altogether, not just separating herself from the notion just bcz she "knows better" than to call the clothes anything else but their names (like she said other do with other cultures).
@@rootedpen2 Of course you are. Your not Japanese so shhhh. Don’t speak for us . This does come as white girl cries of Internet. You can rent them just like you rent movies. If she was white there will be nothing but silence. Since she black you quick to point out. Why do you insist in pointing fingers then actually learning?
@@Saralightff im referencing the Japanese people shown in this video so idk why ur getting heated, im not speaking for anyone im just stating their reaction shown here (AS IT WAS THE CREATOR'S INTENTION) so if u feel like someone is speaking for u u should actually call her out.
im not caring about her being black and wearing kimono/yukata, I'm "pointing fingers" as u wrongly put, bcz she's being a hypocrite when she was faced with cultural appropriation comments. She stated her displease of others using her (black culture) other than back people themselves, but when she's wearing another's culture's traditional features it's studently okay?
" If she was white there will be nothing but silence", no there wont be. many get harassed on internet for wearing anything but their own cultural attires.
I'm against the use of term "cultural appropriation" altogether, as long as anyone is respectful toward the origin of that dress/hairstyle and loves it where is the harm in trying it. so im happy that she wore the kimono and liked it, but then she went on about others wearing black hairstyle and that's still appropriation and she doesnt like it. that's hypocrisy. if she has a problem with being called out, then she should stop calling others out too. regardless if she's black or not idc. i hope u get my point instead of being rude and jumpy.
@@rootedpen2 her hypocrisy is out in the Open and it's only reinforcing her high demand for attention and arrogance. The Japanese hates the kind of behavior she demonstrates with vanity being in the forefront, because they are a respectable culture who hold manners and dignity above all else, of which she has none but pretends to be classy, honest and humble. She personifies the exact opposite of the positive cultural character traits that the Japanese cherish.
@@rootedpen2 You said, "By what appropriation means by majority of media users and "cancellers" she is indeed appropriating the culture by simply using it. just like many many others who simply just dress in styles of black or asian cultures harmlessly and are harassed for it. she should not be exempt just bcz she's not white."
It seemed like her argument was against the overuse of the term appropriation. She was calling out folks who overuse that term. Also, I got zero impression that she thinks she is exempt from being called a cultural appropriator due to being black. That is your own projection.
Also, you said, "The good reception and reaction she got doesn't show anything but the fact that the japanese people are more well-mannered and cultured than americans who shout and argue over everything (digitally or in person). if she'd done the same in her own country she would not have gotten a good reaction there."
As other commenters have pointed out, there is a big difference in wearing the dominant culture's clothing while visiting that culture, versus doing it in your own country. It depends on whether you are part of the dominant culture when you are using that culture's items. For example, the kimono. The setting really matters. Being an American who lives in Japan and choosing to learn all about kimonos, their history, their appropriate use, and customs, and then wearing a kimono in a culturally appropriate way and in the right setting while in Japan is very different than a non-Japanese American wearing a kimono as a costume in the Japan Town neighborhood in San Francisco, where there are native Japanese people living. The big difference is that, in Japan, you are not part of the dominant culture, and so your wearing of the kimono, if done respectfully and within context, is showing cultural appreciation of the dominant culture you are surrounded by as a minority within the country. You're not intimidating or harming them because you are the minority and wearing something from their culture while in their culture doesn't threaten members of their society. On the other hand, doing that in Japan Town in SF could be viewed as an act of hostility that threatens members of the native Japanese culture that live there in that neighborhood surrounded by the dominant American culture, especially if you do it as a caricature. So, wearing a sombrero in Mexico as a visiting American at some Mexican history event in a culturally appropriate way is totally acceptable and is cultural appreciation, but wearing a sombrero to a local Mexican restaurant in America where Mexicans and Mexican Americans work, could be viewed as appropriation and could be viewed in a threatening way especially if your behavior while wearing it seems like you are mocking Mexicans. In that case, you are from the dominant culture and it could be viewed more as harassment of the Mexican minorities, as opposed to the example where you are in Mexico, and you as a visiting minority is showing your appreciation to the dominant culture you are surrounded by.
Finally, you said, " if she has a problem with the term, then she should stop using it for her own culture as well."
Nowhere in her video did she say she uses that term with respect to "her own culture". You are just assuming because she is a young black lady that she runs around chastising non-black folks for cultural appropriation.
I think all she was trying to say in this video is that context matters. What was your intent when wearing it, did you wear it in a culturally accurate way, were you appreciating the culture you were borrowing from or mocking them, were you wearing the garment while immersed within the culture you are representing with your clothing... Overall, I think she presented a very nuanced and well-thought-out argument for the difference between cultural appreciation and cultural appropriation, and it is an argument that many "cancellers" as you called them should consider before they jump to any conclusions.
外国人が着物を着てると、日本の文化を愛してくれてる様で嬉しく思います。☺️日本人は、成人式には着物を着るのが一般的です。自分の結婚式に着る人も居るし、親族の結婚式にも着物です。人生に関わる一大イベントには着物で、お祭り等は気軽に着れる浴衣を着たりします。☺️男性は、祭りでもあまり浴衣は着ませんが、旅館に泊まった時に寝巻きで浴衣を着たりするぐらいですかね…。
着物がとても似合ってて可愛かったです！。☺️❤
よかったです。ありがとうございます。😊
Nice
I wore a kimono with a hijab while i was in Japan for my honeymoon. I could hear an excited couple talking about how interesting it was for them to see kimono being worn that way (i could understand japanese a little bit). It was honestly a wholesome experience
Woah, you got me curious about how it would look, so i googled it, it's gorgeous!
how does kimono fit with hijab thiough as it is so fitted to the body?
well kimono aren't really "fitted" they're supposed to be straight and flat, no they're not supposed to be a very curvy garment. Kimono usually cover most of the body and if worn properly, won't show curves of the body. Even a yukata, thin summer kimono, shouldn't be a curvy garment.@@juneseghni
I am Japanese. It really suits you. Some people say that wearing a kimono abroad is cultural appropriation, but that is not true. If you don't claim kimono as your country's culture, it won't be cultural appropriation. Thank you for wearing the kimono❤❤
The people using the word to insult generally don't even know what it means. It's just that one day a progressive decided to look in a dictionary for once and instead of looking for actual definitions, he found a new word to misuse and now all the progressive woke racists constantly use it.
Especially if you’re wearing it correctly aka with the help of a professional! 💯
Right! And adding on to that, there’s African print kimonos. I’m a woman of African descent and I have a Japanese kimono and an African one.
Minus the makeup that goes with it.
unless its cosplay or have some official function, like in martial arts, i dont see how is it not cultural apropriation.
As an Indian, this makes me so happy. I also love to see foreigners wearing out traditional clothing. I don't think it's appropriation at all, but I just see it as them wanting to take part in the culture and be a part of the country they're visiting or living in. I remember a Dutch family visited my church and they wore Indian clothes and they looked really nice wearing them. My mum has friends from Tanzania and they gave her their traditional dress. It's not appropriation at all! It's appreciation and sharing 💖
In a similar vein I got a qipao from my mom's boss, who is Taiwanese. One of my sister's coworkers (not Taiwanese) told me I would be racist if I didn't get rid of it because I'm White.
I did eventually donate it because I never wore it and had no room for it, but like... who am I going to listen to in that situation? The _not_ Taiwanese person calling me racist or the person who gave me a dress from _their own culture_ and _specifically wants me_ to have it?
I'm not saying bad cultural appropriation doesn't exist but it's so much more nuanced than people make it out to be.
@@gonebynow5612 That's true. But it's really sad that you didn't get to wear the qipao :(
@@ArnicaMachado If it means anything my mom's boss had me try it on to see if it would fit, and it was very pretty. :) Black with silver accents and flower print on it.
@@gonebynow5612 That's great! It does seem very pretty ^^
I'm going to a traditional Indian wedding in May. My fiancé is the best man and we are excited to wear traditional clothes. I'm going as full at as I am allowed. I'm giving my all to embrace those 3 days of celebration because it will be a very rare event for me to attend, so I want to experience every bit! 😊
Watching everyone’s happy reactions as well as your happy reactions were so heartwarming and adorable 😭💖💖💖
People really get appreciation mixed with appropriation & oftentimes shout appropriation in utter ignorance. She looks stunning and lives, works, speaks and very obviously appreciates the Japanese culture ❣️
Lindsey Ellis explains it perfectly. This is ALL cultural appropriation. It's only a problem when it becomes cultural MISappropriation. I'm tired of this gen z appreciation bandwagon narrative.
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Yep, like how some Asian countries make fake western products and brands to sell by the millions in markets across Asia. No culture is more appropriated than western culture. China is the biggest appropriator of the world.
The concept of culture appropriation is just stupid.
Yeah my bestie and I used to go to Southall in the UK which is a big area of Indian and Pakistani culture with a long high street lined with shops full of gorgeous clothes and jewellery. We would buy fabric, Indian skirts and and bindi's and wear them, and buy incense for our homes and ate lunch in the local hole in the wall place. We did this because we appreciated the culture and we treated everyone with respect. I never dreamed that one day I would be accused and judged for wearing an item of clothing from another culture because I thought it was beautiful. We should be able to share and appreciate each others cultures-if we hold on too tightly then it just created barriers. Shall we stop tourists from buying Scottish kilts for example?!
I just want to say thank you so much for being a beautiful figure in Japan for black women. As a black woman myself I appreciate other cultures seeing our femininity because so many are fed lies about us (stereotypes) that is only a minority and not the majority of us. ❤ I am going to Japan 🇯🇵 this October because I have had a love for both Japanese traditional and pop culture since I was like 8. 🎉
Thank you so much! I appreciate your comment! I wish you safe travels on your way here!
That’s so cool! Have you been learning Japanese so that when you go you’re able to understand them more clearly?
@@starloved6824 Most likely not. These PoS Americans can't be bothered to study the country's language before going. Also funny how they said black women and not black people solely on excluding their men. Excellent display of American behaviour.
Let me guess youre a black american woman, the insecurity is oosing right out of you
She would have looked more pretty in a solid baby blue or even a white kimono. I didn’t think the kimono she wore was nice for any woman. She’s so sweet anyway. 👘👀👍🏻
Cultural Appropriation is such an alien concept to other countries. I'm from the Philippines and nothing makes me happier than other cultures wearing out clothes, singing our songs, cooking our food etc. Cultural Appropriation is the silliest thing I've ever heard of especially when it's almost 2024 and the entire world is connected to an insane degree.
cultural appropriation is essentially taking a part of someone's culture without acknowledging said culture
Cultural Appropriation is an alien concept to Russians too. I love seeing people enjoying our culture, clothes, food, etc…
@@sollerona it only applies in western countries because they make things more complicated 🙄🤣
@@LegitimateW eastern countries appropriate too
Agreed its a bizarre and ridiculous American twitter creation.
Been to Japan for the first time last year, all I had to do is try and be respectful, was treated so good it left a lasting impression. Not an expert but you wear that well , and look awesome.
I teared up seeing so many Japanese people praise and encourage you!! This is the Japan I grew up with and love. When I visited Tokyo this past winter (2022), it felt so much colder. Im going back for my cousin’s wedding in Meijijingumae in a few weeks and will be wearing a kimono then and was a little nervous as I know I dont look fully Japanese (im half). This was very encouraging and hopeful to watch. Thank you for making this video!
I think it's safe to say that any large city will be colder. NYC is going to be colder than Yonkers, Paris colder than Aubervilliers, etc.
@JannRozmanowski Why are you not?
@JannRozmanowskibro stfu let them cry
@JanekRozmanowski Nostalgia? The op did say they grew up there and most likely moved away for whatever reason, so if anything, why *wouldn't* they cry over the memories they've made there?
big city's tend to be that way no matter the country.
I am very self-conscious and have really bad social anxiety, but this video just made me want to go out and wear clothing that I like and not care what others in my own area think
I was that way when I was young. Now that I am almost 60, I don't care anymore. They can not walk in your skin and breathe your breath. Find some time to enjoy your life. People who actually care about you will understand. Those who don't care about you, well, their opinion is bad gas.
@@sheilag.834 thank you, you are so sweet
I agree with Sheila G... live your life for YOU. Be your own Super-Hero
Yes. Go out and celebrate whatever culture you desired to celebrate!
Try wearing clothes, hair and accessories that black people do, and see what happens then.
I was smiling ear-to-ear when all those people were complimenting you throughout, it was so refreshing and moving to see people love other peoples appreciation of their culture
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It was adorable they complimented one after another!!
Same here.
Yeah, me too, it was heartwarming
agree
I was stationed at Camp Kinser on Okinawa in 1983 and at Marine Corps Air Station Iwakuni, Japam in 1989 -1992. During my tour I developed a moderate level of speaking the Japanese language. I really loved people within the different Prefectures.Going out meeting different types of Japanese socialites gave me a different perspective of the Japanese people as a whole... most are very welcomlng outside of those close minded communities....
As someone who’s Japanese and American, I can’t explain how important this video is!!! I get asked the same question (like “Is wearing Kimono appropriating the Japanese culture?”) so many times and was always so sad that someone felt the need to ask that question. Like, YES!! OF COURSE!!! The Japanese people absolutely LOVE foreigners having interest and appreciating our culture 🥰 🇯🇵
Honestly, some people (especially Americans😅) are sometimes wayyyy too sensitive about cultural appropriation that many people can’t even tell the difference between cultural appreciation 😢
True true, it's sad people have to ask for something harmless
like I once saw someone on youtube ask "is it appropriation if i use pencil/chopstick to make a hairbun"
I was like, that's being practical when there is no hair tie, nothing about appropriating any culture
Unnecessarily white Knighting things they have no business in, nor affecting them in any shape or form.
Japanese are arguable more racists than Americans
It's a very annoying phenomenon for sure because sincerely partaking in some cultural practices of others can be a good way to be more connected with people of different backgrounds around you, and God knows we need more sharing and connectedness in our fractured societies right now, not some odd game of "am I allowed to do this if x"
Asians who live in their origin country tend to have no problem with foreigners wearing their culture. Because we practice our culture in daily basis. We see our own people wearing our traditional clothes, speaks our own native language, etc.
Meanwhile that does not happened to Asian (or any other PoC) in US, they have to stripped their identity to assimilate & living the (white) American way. That’s why they’re easier to be offended seeing foreigners wearing their culture, because they themselves doesn’t have much chance to do the same.
I’ve been living in Japan since 2017 (so 6 years already). I’ve wore kimono twice. It went like this both times. Japanese people didn’t stop throwing complements at me the entire time, the same ones you were told. They (mostly nice ladies) even came to talk to me and ask me why I’m here, why did I choose to study in Japan, why do I like it, etc. They all looked so happy that I was enjoying, appreciating and interested in their culture.
How it should be
I’m a Black American, too, and visited Japan. In my experience, Japanese people were very excited when I was excited to learn about their culture and were very eager to show me different things.
I think it’s all about respecting a culture and wanting engage with the people rather than just doing it for an aesthetic without care to learn.
Why is it cultural appropriation for a japanese person to wear locks but not for a black american to wear kimono tho? Both are using them just as an aesthetic at the end of the day.
@@kirakishoushirobara2898 How are they using them as an aesthetic?
@@muava1487 wdym? Why would a japanese person wear locks? Because they like how they look. And a black person may use a kimono because she likes how it looks. Nobody is concerned with the history and practical uses of them, its all because of how it impacts their physical appearance.
@@kirakishoushirobara2898 Do you know what is the historical use of kimono? To be worn. As an outfit. The word "kimono" literally means "a thing to wear", if you look at the kanjis the word is written with.
@@aino-kaisav5504 bro I study japanese as a third language. Of course I know what it means. So what is your point? Just because it serves the same use as a t shirt then you are saying is completely devoid of history and cultural ties to japan? Sorry, but no. Say that to a Japanese American if you want to hurt their feelings. It still doesnt matter. Its beautiful designs make it part of an aesthetic too even when religious patterns are used. Locks and braids which have been used by many cultures around the world also form part of an aesthetic regardless of their history and practical uses. The African immigrants in my country who make a living out of braiding non black people with straight hair obviously couldn't care less about non blacks using braids/locks. They just want to put food on the table while giving people nice looks. Let them be.
Wow! I find it amazing how she stepped up and did your hair! Sooo cute! You look stunning by the way!
Wow she did such a great job with your hair and so carefully! Like you said, she didn’t even hesitate, she just jumped right in and killed it with confidence!
Right?! She did wonderfully!
Im Japanese, but a lot of people who aren't even Japanese try to say its cututal appropriatian wich i think its so dumb! Its not! shes such a beautiful woman 🥰❤️❤️ i feel appreciated when she wears my cultures clothing. its so beautiful!
Today Japaneses wear more western clothes than traditional japanese clothes. So it is cultural appropriation? NO! The Woke propaganda is so dumb!
I totally agree~ 👍 She looks stunning in the kimono~ 👍 I wish they would have kimonos over here in America. I've wanted to wear one since younger but not sure where to get one~ I am curious though & I hope this doesn't sound rude but very curious is a kimono considered sort of as a dress in Japan? I love the outfit~ 💖👍
@@Sunny10tv nice
I am Russian and I admire how politely you explain the misunderstanding of Cultural Appropriation. Admiring other cultures has nothing to do with it.
You look and sound lovely!
Also thank you so much for showing people, that Japanese are kind. That is very important too.
I loved your comment! Blessings!
Plz remind me, ruzzian culture is to kill innocent children?
Thks for your comment... I would love to visit 🇷🇺 as well❤
the excuses she makes to defend her culturally appropriating others culture while condamning those who does the same to her
@@xFuuw when did she say that?
This was a beautiful video. You wore the kimono and accessories very well and very respectfully. The Japanese people were very sweet, kind and very complimentary. I see why so many of our people have moved there over the years.❤❤ Thanks for the video. It was a joy to watch.
When I went to Japan in 2010, I visited a yukata shop because my sister had a few from her trips to Japan and I wanted one of my own. The shop I went to in kyoto was absolutely wonderful. The elderly shopkeeper recommended a red one with Japanese maple leafs after I mentioned being Canadian. I still own it to this day and it is a very treasured possession
That lady was well informed! Makes me wonder if they have kimono patterns for someone cat obsessed.
Some women at a kimono booth at a convention wanted me to try them on because I'm so small. It was fun, I wish I could have afforded it at the time.
my grandfathers second wife gifted me her kimono from when she visited japan as a young woman. she kept excellent care of it and it's gorgeous, if a bit discoloured from age (the lining used to be white, it's more of a cream colour now). i would love to try it on but trying to figure out how to dress it properly is intimidating XD
I see this as accepting the local culture, showing your love and respect of the Japanese people. You took the time to get informed, respect all the involvements... You should be proud of that day 🙂.
Yep, looks like the locals did too 🥰
私は日本人です。他国の人が着物を着る事を日本人は誰も盗用だなんて思いません。むしろ日本の文化を楽しんでくれていると、みんな嬉しく感じてる筈です。
日本人は気にしないのに、他国の人が文化盗用だと気にするのがすごく不思議😅
Wise words from a wise person. I wish westerners would understand that cultural appropriation is wrong and is just another way to say "I am a racist that doesn't want to be called a racist. We need more people like you.
ホントこれ、何着てもいいし楽しんでくれれば俺らも嬉しい
外野が「日本人の怒り」のフリをして自分の意見を押し付ける方に怒ってるのに。
文化の盗用って言ってる人の感覚が全く理解できないよね、意味分かってその言葉を使ってるのかなって不思議に思う。
起源主張してるわけでもないのに笑
これが文化の盗用なら日本人は洋服着れないよ😂
自分等は真似されてもいいが、
真似するのは盗用とは上からの奢り傲慢。もしくは日本文化が気に入らない勢力と結論が出ている。
Oh wow i just found you on yt. Your amazing. I feel inspired. Fantastic Video. Great message. Thank you.
As a black girl living in Asia I always do my braids in various colors (bc I did same back home) and I always get long looks which always made me uncomfortable and I kept my guard up. But after living here for 4 years and understanding some of the language all I hear is "wow your hair is beautiful " in thier language and I'm able to let my gaurd down bc I know what they are saying and I often respond in the language too...the little I know.
Where do you get your hair done, if you don’t mind me asking? Like do you go to a black salon in the country in Asia that you are living in, or one than specializes in locs and braids? Or do you have to do it yourself at home?
That’s the problem with black Americans, they think staring mean disrespect or racism but in fact it’s just curiosity and wanting to know more, but people can’t communicate due to language barriers and Asians are very shy.
Tairone Wassup, I agree with you and that’s because they actually don’t have a “culture” culture means an appropriate unique way of manner, appearance and the way they live their life and work, all I see is some people going to work getting drunk and cussing at each other and 24/7 on concerts and clubs which is literally opposite of “living” it’s just trash, unhealthy and problematic and sad also the diet is so poor, fast foods 💀 literally most of those self-made unique issues are caused by peoples’s idiotic illiterate opinions for example the cancelling and slurs or cultural appropriation, you can’t see those stuff in other places or countries cause they don’t exist, they don’t create words that have such a bad influence on others or they tend not to use it therefore it doesn’t exist cause of their behavior
@@sammierose1150 I have other black friends who know what they are doing with hair so I call and make an appointment. In a country you might only find 1 or 2 black salons which means we often have to travel to get your hair done . People like me who can't do it make the trip. But others learn how to do thier own hair ...my sister does her own hair but she's in the US and I honestly don't know a thing with hair....I can bake n make fun stuff but hair and makeup I am just stupid at those.
@@gltme2403 I agree, only in America is where opinions without facts actually do hold water which is bs. No other countries let’s you work or attend Ivy League school based on color of skin. They wonder why failure rate is so high. I believe it’s part of black culture to rob, be disrespectful , and hurt people. When a black man goes to jail and returns home, they get heroes welcome like they served in a war . How can black folks say black excellence. Making money from robbing people, cheating the system, riots (teens in Chicago), beating people up for fun ( sf stonestown mall) . I mean 12 year olds are committing adult crimes and carrying guns in school! All black folks can really do is bring up mass shootings but that doesn’t even compare to the daily murders. Black folks claim they built America, if so, they would be doing well in society. To be fair this is regarding most black population in America.
How about Cultural Appreciation. How about we learn to share and appreciate the uniqueness of one another? We're different, and that's beautiful. ❤️
Only if you are white and wear black hair style is cultural appropriation
Yeeeeessssss so much to appreciate in this world, let's enjoy it and each other to the fullest!
I have NEVER heard Japanese people openly compliment someone so much in public…you are honored!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
You know nothing.
Wow are you serious? Are you around or talk about Japanese enough to even say that? Wow an idiotic comment .
same here even though I'm Japanese born and raised in Japan lmao
@@jan_phd what do you mean?😊
@@jan_phd You're weird
Goes to show that there's so many more kind people in the world than we first think! Love how supportive people were. You look gorgeous
As a Jamaican I also want to add that there are cultures where if you wear their traditional garbs or colours, speak their dialect, use slang words or phrases from their lingua, eat their food or act in ways stereotypical to that culture it is seen as flattery!!! I am a Jamaican and I can tell you that there is nothing more flattering to us than see other nationalities and ethnicities embrace the elements of our culture that make us uniquely Jamaican! So when Volkswagen had a Superbowl ad where a white guy spoke 'Jamaican' or when Adele attended a Caribbean festival wearing a Jamaican colour bikini we absolutely loved it!!! Meanwhile Americans were yelling cultural appropriation and ready to cancel Volkswagen and Adele. As you said in this video the problem is when something that is culturally specific is rebranded and claimed by another ethnicity or race (primarily a more dominant race or ethnicity)...that is when it becomes cultural appropriation. Que Jamie Oliver's 'Jerk' rice!!! 🙄
In my opinion Americans (of course there are always exceptions) would do well to learn about other cultures. The world isn't America and we don't all live in a space where racial sensitivities and divisiveness prevails so stop forcing your perspectives on the world and perhaps instead try to learn and value those other perspectives!
Lovely video!
Thank you.
What do you call bacon from Jamaica? Jabacon.
Fine said!
It's sad, America hasn't always been like this. I'm so happy that other countries embrace people appreciating their cultures.
say beer can in a jamaican accent@@abstract5249
I've always wanted to do this even as a kid because I've always loved the Japanese culture, but as a black girl growing up in America I always was told or heard that it was Culture Appropriation and would offend the people that are Japanese. This video really helped me see that it didn't offend them or it wasn't wrong. Now I would definitely love to do this in the future.
全然問題ないよ、日本人は洋服着てるし
Yes that makes sense@chrisbirch2002
What I've noticed is most cultures will embrace outsiders who want to dress and learn their culture. One thing is to make sure your normal clothes are appropriate for the country you are going to. Not many countries like to show bare shoulders or cleavage but are happy to assist with traditional attire.
Do what you want as long as it's with respect. Haters gonna hate, as they say. ドンマイ、ドンマイ！
どこかの国のように起源を主張しなければ何も問題ないよ。
I seriously think its just America that have this entitlement of my culture is only for me and my people. In my country, we welcome foreigner to enjoy our foods, our old garments, and so on. I was able to go to Jamaica a few years back and my light skinned cousin got braids and the locals were happy with the hairstyle. I'm going to S. Korea and you best believe I will be renting a hanbok while I'm there
Is your cousin biracial or just a light skinned black woman?
@@liastorm795 European looking hispanic
Lol, why would it matter? I don't think they get offended with white people appreciating they're culture either.
@@liastorm795 There you go, you just proved their remark about it being pretty much an American obsession.
@@liastorm795 directly showing why an american USA is such shallowminded
I’ve never read so many kind hearted responses to a video. And I watch a lot of TH-cam. This is awesome. You seem like such a sweetheart of a girl. I love this video and I’m going to watch more of your content!❤
I wore Kimono here in the US for a Japanese festival. I learned how to properly put it on with all the parts. At the festival an older Japanese woman saw me and asked if I dressed myself I said yes and she was so surprised and excited. She also offered to retie my obi since I didn't tie it tight enough. That obi was secure for the next 10 hours lol. We roamed the city after and I got so many compliments. We went to a Ramen restaurant for dinner and the waitress was so excited and asked me so much questions and told me she never wore one before. She even brought out the cheif to see my Kimono 😅
Short ver: I am American and wore a Kimono in the US no negativity from anyone Japanese just 1 bad comment from a fellow American 🤷🏽♀️
As a Japanese, I’m happy to hear that you enjoyed Japan. And I had a similar experience, since fastening the obi is sometimes a little difficult. An older lady came and told me that my obi was untied and she would fix it. I think especially older people are happy to see younger people(no matter what nationalities they have) enjoying kimono. Thank you for sharing your story😊
I'm a white guy and living in Japan I was asked several times to dress in kimono. Like you I was complimented on how it looks and how I carried myself/respected the culture. My best friend even gave me his as a parting gift.
A great vid and you bring up important issues to consider when we partake in other people's cultures.
As a black woman, I really liked watching this video. It was nice seeing you wear a Kimono while respecting and getting to learn more about their culture! It looked so good on you!!
So, if this isn't cultural appropriation, can non black people wear braids/cornrows?
@@annadamico1685 I mean as long as they’re not claiming to invent the styles and changing the names of them (which I’ve seen people do already). Only thing is these styles were meant to protect coarser hair textures so it can be damaging to straight hair…
@@annadamico1685 Most black people don't wear if non-black people wear braids or cornrows. The entire black population doesn't consist solely of a small subsection of sensitive Western black people.
@@MysteriousRed23 The thing is, no culture can really claim to ownership to braids, since there are a number of independent traditions of braiding in many cultures through out history. Ancient Mesopotamian and Egyptians had both braids and dreadlocks. Ancient Greeks are portrayed with this hairstyles too, probably influenced by the Egyptians. Minoans had dreadlocks and Vikings had braids. The point is, americans who are obsessed with cultural appropriation fail to understand that in human history cultures have always influenced one another, and people had no problem having the same hairstyles or clothes. So it makes no sense to restrict braids to only a group of people, or for that matter anything that doesn't have sacred/religious meanings.
@@ningsquaredddd You're right, it's mostly people in the US who obsess over cultural appropriation. Here in Europe people share cultures without any problem.
This was really moving thank you for sharing. I’m glad you got to feel beautiful :) and thank you for the note on not being defensive. I was so embarrassed for asking for to go when they didn’t allow that for my leftovers and it ruined a few days, especially with the elder next to me staring at me. I appreciated how you said this could just be a judgment.
I lived in South Korea for 6 years and always tried to avoid wearing Hanbok clothing because I didn't want to anger anyone by wearing their traditional outfits. Instead, I actually ended up offending people when I was turning down their requests to try on Hanbok. Throughout my time there, friends and coworkers constantly tried to get me to try on Hanbok because they were so excited to see how I would look in it, and were excited to share that part of their culture with me. After years, I finally caved and rented an outfit with a group of my friends, and was so scared to offend someone. Instead, I have never in my life received more compliments throughout the day, and appreciation from random strangers for expressing an interest in their culture. It was such a nice change in perspective.
That is really wholesome
I appreciate your comment, thanks for sharing your lovely experience!
Because people in America are so sensitive, and the cancel thing is absolutely ridiculous, those stuff don’t exist outside America cause people are sane and rational, like tf what you gonna do If I were the clothes that belongs to ur culture 💀?! I own the clothes, you own the traditional values and respect and pride and should feel honored that others are trying your culture, that literally gives value to that culture
You got that right. Great job. I tell people when they travel outside the US,do the opposite of what the US thought you, you'll be appreciated.
I'd be pissed off if someone refuses to try wearing my traditional clothing in my country, I'd think, "This person thinks they're too good for my clothes."
I don’t know how many of you remember this but Katy Perry wore a kimono a during a performance and a lot of Americans screamed about appropriation. I saw a lot of man of the street interviews with Japanese people about it and the question asked wasn’t “do you think this is cultural appropriation?” it was “do you know why people might be upset at her for this?” And none of the people asked had any idea - this concept doesn’t really exist in Japan. I asked my relatives in Japan as well and they weren’t familiar with the idea. It’s honestly ridiculous to be offended on behalf of another culture, or worse, tell people of that culture that they should be offended. This mindset is poisonous and is the opposite of “progressive” thinking. The end goal should a world where everyone is able to enjoy whatever part of other cultures they want. The modern day “progressive” thinking in America is so inclusive they’ve become exclusive, so far left they’ve fallen off the edge.
This doesn't take into account the opinions and rightful questioning of Katy Perry by Americans of Japanese descent whose perspectives are different from continental Japanese people.
@@djsapien3448 Exactly. People born and raised in Japan might not know about the underlying racism the West has in regards to Kimonos and Japanese culture.
I remember that people were also angry with her for blending Chinese and Japanese clothing, but I don't see the issue. What's wrong with blending cultures? Have you ever heard of "Wafrica"? It's Japanese traditional clothing with African inspired patterns and colors and it's dreamy.
I'm a white, American woman married to a Japanese man. We have three grown daughters. If we all wear kimono's for a photo, who is appropriating?
I think it is fine to share cultural things, in fact it is normal. Perhaps the root of it here regarding peiple calling her out who are not japanese is because japanese culture appears, from the outside at least, to be well preserved. No one would ever mistake it for a modern invention. Whereas things in USA (where I assume the comments may have come from) seem to be, viewed as an outsider, more mixed, so if you come across a way to dress or do your hair that appears modern and it is in the media, you may not know where it comes from or to show appreciation. I wouldn't expect someone to research everything they might do, so mistakes might be made. I also think unless it is a sacred thing, it might not garner any feedback from the culture it belongs to regarding it being appropriate (unless in this case, you do it on social media!). I am not protective of hairstyles that are from my culture, I don't really care and think it's not important to me, but can see why for others if they have no sense of their culture being highly regarded or if beyond their country of birth they have no other country they might be connected to, i.e. descendants of enslaved people, I haveas my culture the country of my birth and a caribbean country as heritage for many generations before that. But there is nothing in my heritage that is particularly specific that isn't just associated with most people who are black, and/or who have my texture of hair, and/or are from that climate/area of the world. Additionally being born to a different country to that of my parents there is another layer of a different culture and being removed from my parents one, so perhaps I am less anchored to a culture than I could be.
I’m not usually emotionally affected by most content, even when I recognize the emotional weight behind it, but this video caused me to form tears. I love how you framed this experience with empathy instead of the expectation of malice from others. Odd how being less critical of other people instantly makes them less critical of us. Very beautiful, well done!
Also just wanted to say that you have such a pretty name!
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Man I was wondering why was I crying rn and see many comments saying the same thing!
Same here. It was so moving, and it made me appreciate and admire the Japanese so much more. Wish I could visit Japan before I die; it's such a beautiful country filled with beautiful people.
I feel literally the same way!
Wholesome content I needed in my life!!!
That stylist did a phenomenal job!! As a stylist in the US I’m honestly amazed she not only stepped up with 0 hesitation, but absolutely blew that style away, it was beautiful. I wouldn’t know a lot of white stylists here that would do the same thing. That was awesome to see.
In terms of people stopping you, I could also see it happening just because kimonos formally dawned are often just admired in general, especially when you’re out in the rural areas. It would be like if someone in the US was wondering around in an incredibly elegant ball gown-people would look/compliment them. If it’s not a specific holiday or event you will get attention just because the dress itself is appreciated & seen as beautiful, people really appreciate not just the dress but how it is worn.
I feel like she was ready for the challenge. I’m not a stylist and don’t know anything about it (I get shitty military haircuts) but I’d imagine it was a once in a lifetime opportunity for her to see if she can do it. Wonder if she took a picture for her portfolio too lol.
Nice
Cultural appreciation exists. Intentions and respect goes a long way. The world needs more love and less hate. Thank you for this video 💖
Intention is everything
You guys keep saying this like people weren’t being canceled for literally what she’s doing. Katy Perry got hella backlash for wearing a kimono, and she wasn’t wearing it pretending she invented it or being disrespectful. Cultural appropriation as critique has mostly been a tactic to be racist and attack people.
Cultural appropriation is made up bs for weak minds. Choose what you like on a personal level and dont bow to the clown world. Imagine a world where only the race that created something was allowed to use it. So idiotic.
yeah
The problem a lot of the time is that intention is never expressed unless asked giving free rein to attack someone for "appropriating."
I remember when I booking my Maiko transformation I was so nervous of taking pictures outside thinking people would think I'm silly or stupid, but the clerks in the store were very emphatic about other people loving it. I accepted, but still thought they might be pushing it just because it was more expensive to shoot outside....
In reality, I was stopped by so many groups of japanese girls who wanted to take pictures of me, surprised that I knew how to speak in Japanese, asking me were I was from and being super curious. I ended up crying back in the store because I had never been complimented on looks before.
See japan isn't that bad
Why do people make these videos like the japanese are racist
wow where did u book it and how much was it??
Nice
I really loved this video! Thank you so much for sharing!
Side note: I also appreciate you including Japanese subtitles and translations in your videos. It has been helping me learn
As a person of African heritage, I love when I see other cultures APPRECIATE black culture. I think it's great, and this is what the world should be like. As for those that complain about appropriation, I truly believe that are a small - albeit very loud - group. I hope they get a grip soon, so we can all go back to being happy and appreciating each other.
Do you know where to find more information regardless African myth and folktales? I want to write story about Mami Wata but the information on internet is pretty limited about it 🥲
You as an African person have a very different experience with appropriation than a black American so you should speak for you and only you. Being through centuries of discrimination, at one point black women were forced to shave their heads bc whites women didn’t like their husbands admiring black womens hair. Kids getting suspended from school or black hairstyles being deemed ghetto just to have white models celebrated when they do it is very different than someone simply wearing a dashiki. Pls.
Hi, i was wondering, as a black person, do you get offended by people from outside your race (asian, white, etc) wear box braids ? i see that alot of american get offended :/ so i was wondering as a person (i assume, you are from Africa) would get offended over box braids ? Thanks
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@@gethina-come7885 Not at all. People wear wigs to resemble Caucasian hair. Perfectly fine for people to APPRECIATE box braids. I think it’s great and we are moving in the right direction. A whole lot of loving is better than a whole lot of hating.
The hairstylist did an awesome job!
Totally. It was stunning
My husband and I visited Japan in April 2019. When we were in Kyoto, we did a photo shoot with kimonos. For roughly an hour our photographer took photos and then we had a few hours to spare before the kimono shop closed for the day. So we mostly walked around and took pictures of our own. We got a lot of compliments, but what shocked us more was locals asking if they could take our picture. The best was a group of school children (I think they were middle school, but I could be wrong), asked if they could take a group photo with us while we were along the Kama River. I wish we could have gotten a photo with them too, but we were so taken back, that after they left and started walking away my husband suddenly said “Shoot! We didn’t get a picture with them with our phone!!”
Later on when we returned to our Airbnb, our host was outside and we showed him pictures of our day in kimonos. When I asked him what he thought, or if it was culturally appropriate since we are pale white Canadians wearing kimonos. He looked at me as if I had grown a second head, laughed and then said “We love it when tourists come here and try on kimonos. It shows us that they love our culture. If you think about it, technically we are wearing western clothes all of Japan now right? Technically speaking we are also culturally appropriate for that aren’t we?”
Putting that aside, you look so gorgeous and elegant in your kimono!
Can’t wait to check out more of your videos!
That is an awesome story. It’s always nice to see people appreciating each other and sharing positivity. As an Indian, the thing most people know us for is our food. I know lots of people who would like to try our food, and some of them have even taken it upon themselves to learn to cook it as well.
I spent 3 years in Okinawa , since there's a dozen or so US military bases, photo studios that so shoots in kimonos are a dime a dozen. There was a store in the mall that I think rented kimonos for 20th birthday celebrations (there were no prices on them as opposed to the other store that had prices and they were NOT cheap) where I was browsing one day and one of the employees came up and said "try ok" and motioned for me to follow her. She let me pick one out and dressed me than took photos, it was fun playing dress up. I used my translator app to tell her she was very kind for it
Woooowwwwww I honestly expected people them to have said not nice things, but I was blown away. That’s the other part that you mentioned that is important, language!!! Not knowing the language can make you make assumptions about what others are saying. This video was very insightful and you looked lovely in that kimono❤
As a Japanese person, I'm really happy and proud when non-Japanese people wear kimono and yukata. I can't wait to see my fiance wear his traditional wedding kimono (紋付羽織袴), he's Mexican but more knowledgable/passionate about certain Japanese topics than me! 😂
Also, the "似合ってるよ!" from the ladies are just so genuine and you can tell they were all in awe of your beauty 💖💖💖
As an American, I think you have every right to be proud! Kimonos are so beautiful, and I have had such an admiration for Japanese art and architecture for such a long time. Everything is so elegant and calm. I think many Americans admire Japan so much they wish they were Japanese.
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My family is Ukrainian and I’d be honoured to see someone of another culture wearing our traditional clothing. Appropriation and appreciation are different!
Exactly! I'm not Ukrainian but I feel the same way! I honestly believe that there is more into it... maybe some lobby to stop the foreign influence and make people buy only clothes styled by their country of origin. I think there might be money involved. There is a loooooot of money in fashion
I just Googled traditional Ukrainian clothing and I'm in love with the hair flowers. Not sure what it's called but it's very pretty
@@neffyg35 Yesssss, I also don’t know the name but the flowers are huge part of it. Personally I like the white blouses with red flower embroidery on them. I wish my family had more of our traditional clothing because I’d love to wear my cultures clothes more often.
@@Emshii_ they look comfy. Like loose in the right places but still fitted in the waist.
Ukrainians are horrible racist people. Why you'd tell a lie like that when you know this black woman would be filleted alive if she did that in that wartorn hellhole.
I really love that it also wasn't just one demographic of locals. Elders, young people, middle aged; all loved your look. Not one person upset over it. and that kimono color and pattern looked great on you.
I love this video for so many reasons. When you bring this leaves of love, peace, education, bravery, compassion, grace, and humility to the world….I understand your walk down the middle. #Goddess
Japnese descendant here.
There is nothing wrong with foreigner wearing kimono. It is even positively moving. The problem is when it is done in a caricature fashion, a sex fantasy approach or without the proper wearing (there are a lot of rules for everything you do in Japan).
Since you wore it beatifully, beatiful it will be.
There is nothing wrong with wearing it in a sexual way or charicature They can be worn however. Who suddenly came up with these rules. These didnt exist before.
@@DarkAngel2512 I think they mean sexualizing it...and that's quiet disrespectful
@@nowayhome20878 it isnt disrespectful to sexualise it. Woke bs
@@DarkAngel2512 when someone sexualises your mom then you'll know
I did a paper back in university on exactly this topic - "Is foreigners wearing kimono cultural appropriation?"
We didn't find a single Japanese person in our interviews that said it was. The only remark was maintaining an air of respect for the garment and culture.
I've seen the exact same dynamic, for example, where African-American and African people completely disagree on a topic. A channel called Jubilee does group discussions and interviews just like this and its really opened my eyes to the true dynamism of human opinion.
Segragating all of us - "White people wear this, black people wear that, Asian people wear that" is quite literally the definition of racism and an over generalization of opinion.
It's sad that you even have to conduct such interviews. Ever since the topic of cultural appropriation came up, it was clear as day that people that contribute directly to the culture in question are not appropriating anything.... How the hell did this stuff get so convoluted that Americans feel the need to harass other people for a concept that is strictly American and applicable only to the US?
so can we wear braids?
@@i-3137 yes.
@@i-3137 Go ahead, but remember it's not for non white people hair and that you may lose damage your hair
Well said. You summed it up perfectly
Absolutely wonderful. So thrilling to see very reserved Japanese responding so warmly
Generally here in East Asia our traditional costumes are welcome for anyone to wear, just don't wear them wrongly, even we would criticise ourselves for wearing them wrongly lol
Also I just want to talk about gyoza because it's a very unusual case that you brought up. Gyoza is originally a Chinese dish, and is still considered Chinese even with a Japanese name, gyoza is actually the Japanese pronounciation of 餃子/Jiaozi. This is pretty straight forward, but then there exist another name called 锅贴/guotie, which actually means pot sticker in Chinese.
Which means gyoza/jiaozhi/guotie/pot sticker are all the same things, at least in general. Because there's another twist, jiaozi and guotie are extremely similar dishes, but they have slightly different ingredients, probably because they were the same dish made in different regions of China, but they are so similar that most people including myself can't really tell them apart.
I suspect that in the West, it was originally the Chinese themselves who translated guotie into pot sticker, but then Japanese gyoza arrived and people couldn't tell them apart, so they became interchangeable.
Potsticker/guotie usually denotes the type of dumpling that is pan-fried, while jiaozi are the boiled or steamed variety. Technically, Gyoza are potstickers.
@@HomuresuBijuarukei Makes sense and adds another twist to it lol
Sounds like Japanese gyoza are named after jiaozi but is actually made with the guotie/pot sticker method
Agreed, as a Chinese, seeing on twitter that a white girl got flamed because she wore qipao (a traditional chinese dress) to prom for 'cultural appropriation' is so weird! I only saw appreciation and love for our culture there, and everyone attacking her was not Chinese anyway, they've offended me more than the girl. I think as long as you show respect to the culture you're wearing/enjoying, that's good enough for me.
I've only seen Chinese culture from my Western home and I'm concerned at how limited is my knowledge of my own culture.
I would love for more recognition of Chinese clothing, I've only seen it once in my life despite living in a multicultural city (or once I could remember)
also on the topic of dumpling-type foods, apparently they are all turkic in origin.
Ultimately I do whatever I want unless they call goofers on me, but unlike many other modern people I am good at adapting and integrating when want..
Part of growing up in shiddy conditions among and move to different places and institutions staying alive..
I watched this movie when an Arab line came up very fast and I just copied it the guy next was quite surprised at that little fest and could see a smile..
The moment where the Japanese were complimenting how you looked in the kimonos/furisodes, made me feel happy. It was very moving and I could feel your happiness! You are amazing and people can see that
Enim with dreads and a kimono bright,
Walks through the streets of Japan's delight,
Bringing joy to all who cross her way,
Her presence brightens up their day.
The people stop and stare in awe,
Mesmerized by her beauty and all,
Her smile, her grace, and her style,
Makes everyone around her smile.
She moves with a gentle breeze,
And sways with every step with ease,
Enim's aura is a sight to behold,
Her charm and charisma never grow old.
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Brilliant poem
Beautiful!
I got emotional too! Just watching people compliment you! You did look amazingly beautiful!! And culture is meant to be shared!!
this made me cry. I've always wanted to visit Japan and wanted to wear a kimono. I love the culture. I get excited when other cultures appreciate my culture as a Jamaican. Thank you for reminding me to go for my dreams in this short life
AAAAA A FELLOW JAMAICAN!! Same throughout this video i was jus thinking about how excited i get when ppl loc their hair (especially when go "bobodread" style cuz i dnt even like tht style... But this foreigner appreciates it that much??!) And when they attenpt to learn patois (so cute) among other things. Im also in love with japanese culture even the language is so poetic and beautiful. Anyway srry i got excited seeing a mirror of myself here 💀💀
Do it! 😊
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You do realize blacks came out of Africa and populated Asia. Learn your history sis
You should, you will love it!!
This is so wholesome. Im sharing this all over! I hate how the term appropriation is abused by certain groups here in America...
日本人は「文化の盗用」の意味がわからないほど気にしていないから。
むしろ嬉しく思っているのに真逆の議論が出てくるのは悲しい😢
Trust me, not only in America, sadly, in France it's the same
Of course, it's not cultural appropriation. You weren't wearing it and saying it was from your background. I'm sure the people were honored to see you in it. When you spoke and when you laughed (with your hand over your mouth) it felt like you were Japanese. You captured the energy - perhaps subconsciously. Perhaps because you've lived there long enough. And it is obvious to anyone that you are very kind. Kindness is the universal language. I speak several languages and have lived and travelled many places in the world. Most people I've met have been flattered when I pick up things from their culture. When I was in college, my Japanese roommate dressed me up in her kimono. When I worked with refugees, Somali Bantu women dressed me in their veils and screamed with laughter when I spoke a phrase in their language. I've worn traditional Russian skirts and scarves and have been wrapped in a sari. Every time was an honor for me. When meeting people from different cultures it's best to shed your expectations and eagerness to be offended.
No. It's appropriation. It's all appropriation. It's not misappropriation. I reject the appreciation narrative.
@@RecoveringChristian this is wrong
@@MissPinkElf13 appreciate however much you want, it's still appropriation. You have to appropriate something to appreciate it in this context. It's just facts.
@@RecoveringChristian that doesn't make sense. The definition is literally on google
@@RecoveringChristian ”noooo it’s appropriation because i said so and won’t present any argument to back up my claims !!!”
You are gorgeous and really Kawaii! So respectful also!
This reminds me of a couple of friends. They had a baby. Their friends from Japan came to visit (in Brazil) and brought a little kimono for the girl. EVERYONE was offended, all the righteous non japanese people around. Except the japanese that actuallly gifted the kimono. They were thrilled when the little girl wore it.
1. The woman who confidently styled your hair is so talented, she must have been doing that for a long time to do such a good job in such new circumstances. So professional!
2. Every single Japanese person you asked to interview seemed much more uncomfortable with being randomly addressed on the street than they did about anything you were wearing. This is not an accusation, just an observation. Privacy and keeping to one's self seem to be valuable things in Japanese culture.
3. The way I laughed when they said they were Korean! XDDD Oops, sorry guys!
4. The way both men and women of various ages complimented you in that short segment on the street was truly magical. I think that speaks louder than any explanation could about what Japanese people usually think about foreigners wearing traditional dress. There will always be some people who disagree, but at the end of the day you could not have been more respectful with how you went about enjoying traditional Japanese style and culture, and I believe this is why so many spoke up to compliment you.
5. I know this isn't the point but I need so much more context on those pigeons! XDDDDD
That's quite accurate all my family members would prefer to be swallowed by the earth to have to speak aloud with someone stopping them on the streets
But they are just too shy
Happens to a lot of japonese, especially young ones
I totally thought I was the only one in the comments entranced and deeply curious about the pigeons!
When I was a Teenager my Kendo club went to Tokyo for an exchange. The japanese People were so nice to us and asked everyone if we would like to wear Yukata for an evening. Of course we all agreed. They showed and helped us to dress correctly. It was such a special feeling to wear these clothes as a sign of friendship between germany and japan.
My heart! Oh my goodness i teared up at all of the nice compliments you got. Thank you for sharing this. I'm Black and I grew up in Los Angeles, CA and always frequented Little Tokyo. I felt like I was always accepted and encouraged to visit frequently or to learn more about the culture. LA is such a great place to be exposed to multiple cultures. Blessed to have grown up there. But again thank you for sharing your experience!
I was at one of their festivals years ago so I don't recall. I mentioned I wish I could wear a Kimono but I didn't want to upset anyone. Ended up with a few older ladies encouraging me and showing me a kimono. I ended up buying the kimono with intentions to wear it one day but I never ended up ever wearing it. It's hand made to so maybe one day I will find someone to pass it to. The only time I felt awkward was finding any type of wooden sandal because compared to Japanese woman I have a mans foot. It's an excitement to share their culture and to keep history moving.
Thank you for the lovely video and for addressing cultural appropriation in an honest and factual way.