"I promise I won't leave you again!" She promised once, that's the "till death do us part" line. Why should OP trust her again when she broke the same promise before?
You definitely not AITA .. you have the right to be upset with her even if you love her as you say. She left you without blinking an eye and now she wants you back, that action is shady enough to be confident at 50% at least, that she went to someone else, that chance is there and you know it, at your place i would dig, dig, and dig even more to find the truth if you considering to take her back because if you give her another chance you have no guarantee that she won't do it again in the future. don't give her a second chance for free, that's the main reason why she left you, she got everything from you served at golden plate without any effort from her part , I personally would let her do all the hard work in the relationship, to see how much she really wants to win you back, to convince you through her actions and approach that it's worth to try again with her, so that she gonna have a reason to respect you and your relationship as she put an effort from her part. this change of dynamics for your relationship is crucial otherwise same equation will have same output.
NTA but stop treating her like a wife with all the help you give her if you don't want her to see you as a partner.
this guy needs to move on and stop being a doormat for his ex wife
Yeah... no. The daughter excuse isn't flying. He's a simp. Grow a pair and move on. She's his EX-wife. Treat her that way.
You can't fix crazy and stupid, and you shouldn't have to put up with it.
"I promise I won't leave you again!"
She promised once, that's the "till death do us part" line. Why should OP trust her again when she broke the same promise before?
THIS!! ALL OF THIS!!
She made the vow to never leave once & broke it! She can always break it again! Hope op stays strong!
Nta for rejecting her yta for even considering it
so this clown let his 15 y/o stay with someone unstable, he practically chose the ex over the daughter.
Well we don't know how unstable she was.
The ex wife could be pregnant by another guy who dumped her and wants a safety net for herself and her new baby.
NT A for refusing to remarry. Definitely the A for all the other simp sh1t.
You definitely not AITA .. you have the right to be upset with her even if you love her as you say. She left you without blinking an eye and now she wants you back, that action is shady enough to be confident at 50% at least, that she went to someone else, that chance is there and you know it, at your place i would dig, dig, and dig even more to find the truth if you considering to take her back because if you give her another chance you have no guarantee that she won't do it again in the future. don't give her a second chance for free, that's the main reason why she left you, she got everything from you served at golden plate without any effort from her part , I personally would let her do all the hard work in the relationship, to see how much she really wants to win you back, to convince you through her actions and approach that it's worth to try again with her, so that she gonna have a reason to respect you and your relationship as she put an effort from her part. this change of dynamics for your relationship is crucial otherwise same equation will have same output.
Nta