Your superweapon against the narcissist is the silent treatment. They can't manipulate you and when they get no response it crushes their ego. They NEVER get over it. Years may pass and they will never change or be remorseful. No matter how nice they try to portray themselves, it's just an act....don't be fooled. The hatred is simmering beneath the surface. They're waiting for the opportunity to hurt you again.
Why us though? They liked us more so they hurt us worse? I would have happily gone on the way things were with the narc, demanding nothing from him except to acknowledge me when he saw me outside of our apartments. But he started playing games, making himself less and less available (I guess wanting me to chase him) until I felt totally ignored. I'm not like his ugly girlfriend (one of...) who leaves presents at his door. I don't reward bad behavior. He was so punishing of me, more than anyone I know here. Why me? And he won't let it go. My parents were the same way. My siblings got into all kinds of trouble, not me. I had to take care of things. So what did they do? They bought them cars, one a house, etc. Me, nothing. My mother tried to apologize to me before her death and asked me to forgive her. Moments after I said I did, she called me bitter. I told her she hadn't been a very nice person. She hung up on me and I never spoke to her again even though she had her caregiver emailing me telling me that she hung up the phone on accident because of her Parkinson's disease. Yeah, right. Why us though? Honestly.
Goin no contact with a narcissist will save ur life, ur peace , ur sanity. I'm goin 4 years now. U have to be 2 steps ahead of them if u have children. I've been single ever since with therapy and unfortunately some anxiety medication I'm able to pull through. It was very hard to listen to the therapist say ur a victim of narcissistic abuse. It takes time. Prayers for anyone going through this. U win if u don't play. ❤
I've received silent treatment and Stonewalling for 4 years and was so confused what was happening. It's through Danish's and Dr. Ramani's videos I realized and got the guts to return the silent treatment to the narcissist. First I always wanted to defend myself and keep communicating. Now with these videos I've gone no contact for 7 months & now I don't even open the messages he sends. Thank you!
Thank you for stating this, can take us unawares since most discuss that partner relationship. We live and learn and always Tomorrow is Another Day. Danish has taught me great deal for 3 years. Much Love and Light for you in your New Year. 🤗🕯️🌟@@deiadraper6358
To be honest, I feel so happy and satisfied to give silent treatment back..... because this is what I have received throughout my life...they all deserve so....I see it as my weapon to fight back and for my protection as well..... Thank you so much Sir🙏🏻
My parents used to stop talking to me over ridiculous things. Sometimes they'd go for years at a time, then love bomb me. I wasn't present for either of their deaths, not having spoken to either one of them for some time, my choice.
@@ayoeaishiteru yap...when you know it, it will never go back...the truth that they are narcs will always make us hang up a different thought about them and start to go a big circle around this kind of people.
Thank God, I'm strong enough to tackle these treatments. I love the silent treatment. I can do the same to him. For me, silent treatment is peaceful. No gaslighting, no manipulation, no nothing. I don't need the guy for finances. Thank God for that. Thank you, Danish, for exposing them and for helping many of us. We love you.❤
Same here. when i used to be with a narc, i would welcome getting the silent treatment from the narc, meant i would have some peace and relief from the abuse. I enjoyed the silence, in fact i used to look forward to the silent treatment, and after the narc would finish giving me the silent treatment, i gave the narc the silent treatment for double the amount of time . i never told the narc that's what i was going to do, i just did it. eventually the narc learned that i was impervious to the silent treatment and that i actually preferred it. so, drats, the narc stopped giving me the silent treatment, and eventually i got tired of all the nonsense and abuse and left. effing narcs, i thought to myself, you think giving me the silent treatment is going to bother me, eff that, i LIKE the silent treatment, so take that you efffing narc.
Once you realize that they are disrespecting you for no reason other than they are full of sheit. They need to get the silent treatment. The permanent Silent treatment
You are 💯 percent correct. You couldn't have said it any more perfectly than that. Everything you say is exactly how it has been in my life with this man. 27 years I gave my all to him and got nothing back but horrible disfunction and cruelty. I am so grateful for you and the healing you have provided me. I am proud to have you with me on my healing journey. Thank you and God bless you.
That sounds terrible.. I hope you can peacefully extract yourself away to regain your self worth and start living the best virsion of yourself in your best life.. 27yrs of cruel criticism by design is more about a control freak not your imperfections and can't be taken personally..
This is the point I have reached. Currently still in the marriage 'for the sake of the children ' but reviewing that. As you say, exhausted. Whatever you say has the potential to be turned against you. You never know when they will react against whatever topic you are talking about. And God forbid you try reply assertively once he is annoyed or you disagree. Plus facial expressions need to be blank. The rages i have had to endure because i have 'looked annoyed' or a 'nasty face'. Not to worry about me enduring shouting/swearing/rage/ranting. Also must remember not to make any noise...he gets so annoyed if i tut or sigh, or he thjnks i have! As you say, you think how can I go 'no contact' inside this marriage? How can i divorce before a physical divorce? How can i protect myself from abuse? At least silence cannot be misquoted. Gray rock. He's srarted getting annoyed with it. A useful phrase ive used is 'ive nothing useful to say'.. 'im listening'
Oh my goodness. Please consider packing up and making absolutely new life without Any of that HORROR you have come used to. Even if leaving with ONE SPOON. GO! Please go to your NEW LIFE WAITING. IT IS IN YOUR HANDS ONLY. 📿🕯️🫂🌈🌟
When you go silent do it for yourself. If you connect it with them then you are still in the game. Go silent to heal no matter how long that takes. Once you do that if you decide to still have a relationship of any type with them then you go in eyes wide open and stay with all you have learned from the silence Lastly take responsibility for your part in it. Doesn't matter what they want
Too many chances, too many stories of THEIR "high" abusing me. Like a drug abuser chasing, narcissistic abuse is no less than using people like a punching bag showing their worst at inappropriate times and testing your vulnerability and loyalty to them. It is disgusting to know all those times I tried giving and showing love, tolerance, and patience, I could have been loving and giving to someone else, including myself. Yes, "I'M DONE" is a real life changer for me and allows me to look at my sanity and grow stronger.
I haven't gone silent on anyone. I simply refuse to talk about anything until the elephant is addressed: a legitimate legal divorce and damages settlement.
It’s been almost 5 years since I went no contact and blocked her number. I know it drove her crazy since she’d try to contact me with other numbers and get the last word. She gave up eventually but I didn’t give her the power to affect me anymore by not responding. They’ll be someone else’s problem now!
I’ve been silent with my soon to be ex narcissist husband for 9 months and I prayed and ask God that I don’t want to see or talk to him ever again in life and God made that happen. All glory and praise to Jesus Christ 🙏🏽
I am grateful to hear this! I felt guilty going silent but every thing that was said was exactly why I did what I would encounter if I made contact for my wellbeing it is the best to go silent. Hope others can also find this freedom
My Mother-in-law is a Narcissist. She is the reason for my trauma since 8 years or 2 months after I got married to her son. I was not able to recover. I got depressed, panic attacks what not. I completely shaped out in my appearance as well. Only I can see her true intentions and others think she is a saint. I have no intention to prove her wrong nor take a revenge. I just want to be strong and smart enough to stay away from her. Your videos are doing just that. Yes, I'm treated like a piece of furniture for her son. I'm there just for the sake of being there. Im a trophy for her that's all. I hope her sons and daughters as well see her real nature one day. She has completely made my parents as her doormats. I just don't understand why she has to do all this. Why can't she just chill. 😢
@@meritahasani9750everyone can be selfish and self absorbed at times however Narcissistic Personality Disorder is like pregnancy either you are or you aren't. You can't be a little bit pregnant. It's is for life and people with it don't get better they get worse with age.
I couldn't figure out what I had done to make her mad when she stopped talking to me, sitting on the porch to have a cigarette. Then, weeks later, I refused to have a "discussion " with her, and 3 days later, I was thrown out of the house. Nice way to treat your mother. Now I am recovering, and I'm no contact. Funny how the flying monkeys have popped in over the holidays. I don't respond to them either. I'm good.
Unfortunately, he lives a few doors down. I can smell when he's home. When we were in our "situationship" he was always visible, taking out his trash, sitting in a common area. Then when he was ignoring me for a couple of weeks, I poked the bear by implying that he wasn't as deep as he was boasting about to a friend of mine he happened to be talking to. (He said he would know if a certain celebrity died because he would "feel it." I said, "You're so deep-feeling that you would feel when someone you've never met has died?") Well, the smear campaign spared no pain. It lasted over a year, right here in my building. In the beginning, I asked him to talk to me, in a note. Instead of talking to me, he gave me the silent treatment, but before that he really acted out, like a midlife crisis. He went out of his way to befriend people I don't like, pretty much the narc's playbook. Once when someone else said, "Doesn't he look good in those?" I was going to say yes, but before I could, he said to me, "I'm waiting for the cut down." I had no idea why he said that. Over one little comment months before? So finally I wrote the note and expected to hear from him, like he was normal or something. That's when the silent treatment started, and no eye contact. But now, a year and a half later (more) he's not around much, pretty invisible, but when I see him, he looks me up and down and makes eye contact. The other day the sun got in my eyes and I squinted. He thought I was giving him a dirty look so gave me a dirty look back. I just want to be able to afford to move. After all this, somehow, for some godforsaken reason, I still find him attractive. It's a cruel trick on my brain (mind and body).
I prefer it when my narcissist brother gives me the silent treatment. Otherwise, he pounces on me every time I leave my room and follows me around talking nonstop. If he can't be my best friend, he hates me with a passion and calls me evil. Even the slightest critisism is seen as a deep and cutting personal attack worthy of absolute rage and revenge.
@@lanao.2889 Has she maneuvered her way into your life is such a way that she cannot be avoided like my brother has too? It is so much easier to go no contact.
@@karta4345 I’ve only recently blocked all of them, and it’s been peaceful since then. Otherwise they were hoovering and lovebombing me every couple of days which literally made me sick. They don’t know of my actual whereabouts so they can’t come around and create chaos either, thankfully.
He would go days and days without talking to me and ignoring me! I would ask him what was wrong and he would tell me your 39 figure it out! I would rack my brain an had no idea what I did!! It was so draining 😢😢 I don’t miss any of it!
I work with two indian women who speak indian all day. I got use to it and work in silence. Now it is holiday, one is not in the office and the other complained to boss i dont talk with her (apart from work related). Bad luck, i amnot a sare wheel
The x husband to a T. Courts gave be sh*t bc i would not communicate at all with him. Infact, i was told, " you HAVE to communicate with the father of the children" on the contrary, my therapist confirmed and encouraged "absolutely no communication" bc of his abuse and toxicity. I wish i had started therapy day 1 not year 4. EMDR#1
I can completely relate to this. After 5years of marriage we got divorced and within 6months he got married. Even since I wonder will he be treating his present wife like me? Or is there really some problem in me in adjustments.
One question am.I a narc if I am sad and worried if someone blocks me or doesnt respond Like I feel like that my heart dropped down Bur there is something weird about the other person,likr when I asked this person if we meet gor the last time or have a conservation gir the kast tine say things that are unclear and nkt yes or no and when I confronted this person because its rude because we promised mot to.block each other ,this person goes to complaining or getting heated after getting confronted
You've helped me a lot! 2 years and 1 month No Contact by me for entire narc, cruel "family" .
👏👏🥂
Continue to stay no contact and live ur life. God doesn't forget his people
I am happy for you,we are on the same road.
Good for you! It's not easy but it's the only way for sure.
I agree. Silence is our best protection. Go and stay silent and the narcissist will reveal themselves without you saying a word.
Your superweapon against the narcissist is the silent treatment. They can't manipulate you and when they get no response it crushes their ego. They NEVER get over it. Years may pass and they will never change or be remorseful. No matter how nice they try to portray themselves, it's just an act....don't be fooled. The hatred is simmering beneath the surface. They're waiting for the opportunity to hurt you again.
Why us though? They liked us more so they hurt us worse? I would have happily gone on the way things were with the narc, demanding nothing from him except to acknowledge me when he saw me outside of our apartments. But he started playing games, making himself less and less available (I guess wanting me to chase him) until I felt totally ignored. I'm not like his ugly girlfriend (one of...) who leaves presents at his door. I don't reward bad behavior. He was so punishing of me, more than anyone I know here. Why me? And he won't let it go. My parents were the same way. My siblings got into all kinds of trouble, not me. I had to take care of things. So what did they do? They bought them cars, one a house, etc. Me, nothing. My mother tried to apologize to me before her death and asked me to forgive her. Moments after I said I did, she called me bitter. I told her she hadn't been a very nice person. She hung up on me and I never spoke to her again even though she had her caregiver emailing me telling me that she hung up the phone on accident because of her Parkinson's disease. Yeah, right. Why us though? Honestly.
Goin no contact with a narcissist will save ur life, ur peace , ur sanity. I'm goin 4 years now. U have to be 2 steps ahead of them if u have children. I've been single ever since with therapy and unfortunately some anxiety medication I'm able to pull through. It was very hard to listen to the therapist say ur a victim of narcissistic abuse. It takes time. Prayers for anyone going through this. U win if u don't play. ❤
I'm praying for you. I know how difficult living with the narcissist. I'm one of their victims.
@Isabela2024-yr 🙏🩷🩷🩷🩷
I'm so glad you found a therapist who gets it. 🎉❤ keep going, you are enough. X
I've received silent treatment and Stonewalling for 4 years and was so confused what was happening. It's through Danish's and Dr. Ramani's videos I realized and got the guts to return the silent treatment to the narcissist. First I always wanted to defend myself and keep communicating. Now with these videos I've gone no contact for 7 months & now I don't even open the messages he sends. Thank you!
It has been 28 years dealing with a narcissist, they finish you gradually
🙏💔
47 years I'm not drugged down yet and this is with a girlfriend not a husband boyfriend we are just best friends
True
Thank you for stating this, can take us unawares since most discuss that partner relationship. We live and learn and always Tomorrow is Another Day. Danish has taught me great deal for 3 years. Much Love and Light for you in your New Year. 🤗🕯️🌟@@deiadraper6358
That’s right
To be honest, I feel so happy and satisfied to give silent treatment back..... because this is what I have received throughout my life...they all deserve so....I see it as my weapon to fight back and for my protection as well..... Thank you so much Sir🙏🏻
My parents used to stop talking to me over ridiculous things. Sometimes they'd go for years at a time, then love bomb me. I wasn't present for either of their deaths, not having spoken to either one of them for some time, my choice.
The silent treatment damages them and they realize how it feels to receive their own medicine
If they realize, they block it from themselves, for they don't change.
So so true. 'I'm done with trying to reason with you. I'm done with pleading with you'
Thank you for clarifying the difference between the two silences.
When you know they are narcissistics, you go no contact and go silent naturally😂 who the hell would like to deal with a childish "adult"
But flying monkeys are Ready to punished it. Sometimes it’s unfair . But we’re already know that narc never fair play
@@ayoeaishiteru yap...when you know it, it will never go back...the truth that they are narcs will always make us hang up a different thought about them and start to go a big circle around this kind of people.
True
But it’s very sad and hard how they treat my husband does do I know
Thank God, I'm strong enough to tackle these treatments. I love the silent treatment. I can do the same to him. For me, silent treatment is peaceful. No gaslighting, no manipulation, no nothing. I don't need the guy for finances. Thank God for that. Thank you, Danish, for exposing them and for helping many of us. We love you.❤
Same here. when i used to be with a narc, i would welcome getting the silent treatment from the narc, meant i would have some peace and relief from the abuse. I enjoyed the silence, in fact i used to look forward to the silent treatment, and after the narc would finish giving me the silent treatment, i gave the narc the silent treatment for double the amount of time . i never told the narc that's what i was going to do, i just did it. eventually the narc learned that i was impervious to the silent treatment and that i actually preferred it. so, drats, the narc stopped giving me the silent treatment, and eventually i got tired of all the nonsense and abuse and left. effing narcs, i thought to myself, you think giving me the silent treatment is going to bother me, eff that, i LIKE the silent treatment, so take that you efffing narc.
Once you realize that they are disrespecting you for no reason other than they are full of sheit. They need to get the silent treatment. The permanent Silent treatment
You are 💯 percent correct. You couldn't have said it any more perfectly than that. Everything you say is exactly how it has been in my life with this man. 27 years I gave my all to him and got nothing back but horrible disfunction and cruelty. I am so grateful for you and the healing you have provided me. I am proud to have you with me on my healing journey. Thank you and God bless you.
That sounds terrible.. I hope you can peacefully extract yourself away to regain your self worth and start living the best virsion of yourself in your best life.. 27yrs of cruel criticism by design is more about a control freak not your imperfections and can't be taken personally..
Your words are very healing. It feels very relieving to know that there is someone who understands what exactly happened.
Honestly don't see the silent treatment as a punishment. It's a way for you to heal. It can be a huge relief to not hear from them.
Thank you again for an excellent vid. Very helpful!
Agreed! Thanks Danish! 😁🥰
Danish is very helpful and reassuring. I enjoy listening to his words of wisdom. Thank you, sir!
You are really helping the human beings
This is the point I have reached. Currently still in the marriage 'for the sake of the children ' but reviewing that. As you say, exhausted. Whatever you say has the potential to be turned against you. You never know when they will react against whatever topic you are talking about. And God forbid you try reply assertively once he is annoyed or you disagree. Plus facial expressions need to be blank. The rages i have had to endure because i have 'looked annoyed' or a 'nasty face'. Not to worry about me enduring shouting/swearing/rage/ranting. Also must remember not to make any noise...he gets so annoyed if i tut or sigh, or he thjnks i have! As you say, you think how can I go 'no contact' inside this marriage? How can i divorce before a physical divorce? How can i protect myself from abuse? At least silence cannot be misquoted. Gray rock. He's srarted getting annoyed with it. A useful phrase ive used is 'ive nothing useful to say'.. 'im listening'
Oh my goodness. Please consider packing up and making absolutely new life without Any of that HORROR you have come used to. Even if leaving with ONE SPOON. GO! Please go to your NEW LIFE WAITING. IT IS IN YOUR HANDS ONLY. 📿🕯️🫂🌈🌟
Please consider the example you are giving to your children
Be strong, you need to get out NOW. I am a survivor!The kids are getting nothing from you being together. Pls reach out if i can help.
Be strong, you need to get out NOW. I am a survivor!The kids are getting nothing from you being together. Pls reach out if i can help.
I am going thru this phase now from past 2 months after 2 decades of marriage.
When you go silent do it for yourself. If you connect it with them then you are still in the game. Go silent to heal no matter how long that takes. Once you do that if you decide to still have a relationship of any type with them then you go in eyes wide open and stay with all you have learned from the silence
Lastly take responsibility for your part in it. Doesn't matter what they want
Too many chances, too many stories of THEIR "high" abusing me. Like a drug abuser chasing, narcissistic abuse is no less than using people like a punching bag showing their worst at inappropriate times and testing your vulnerability and loyalty to them. It is disgusting to know all those times I tried giving and showing love, tolerance, and patience, I could have been loving and giving to someone else, including myself. Yes, "I'M DONE" is a real life changer for me and allows me to look at my sanity and grow stronger.
🫂🙏🏼 Thank you Danish for many good lessons and many blessings in your New Year 🌈🌟🎉
Explaining the difference between the two silences was very helpful 🙏
100% truth! I am dealing with this now. Raging narcissistic abuse. 🙏🏻
Very very true words 💯 It's happened with me
I haven't gone silent on anyone. I simply refuse to talk about anything until the elephant is addressed: a legitimate legal divorce and damages settlement.
You rule Danish! Thank you for helping me and so many others stay strong with no contact 🙏
So young, so wise. Thank you, Danish!!!!
It’s been almost 5 years since I went no contact and blocked her number. I know it drove her crazy since she’d try to contact me with other numbers and get the last word. She gave up eventually but I didn’t give her the power to affect me anymore by not responding. They’ll be someone else’s problem now!
Right to the point, Danish! Thank you!
I’ve been silent with my soon to be ex narcissist husband for 9 months and I prayed and ask God that I don’t want to see or talk to him ever again in life and God made that happen. All glory and praise to Jesus Christ 🙏🏽
I am grateful to hear this! I felt guilty going silent but every thing that was said was exactly why I did what I would encounter if I made contact for my wellbeing it is the best to go silent. Hope others can also find this freedom
My Mother-in-law is a Narcissist. She is the reason for my trauma since 8 years or 2 months after I got married to her son. I was not able to recover. I got depressed, panic attacks what not. I completely shaped out in my appearance as well. Only I can see her true intentions and others think she is a saint. I have no intention to prove her wrong nor take a revenge. I just want to be strong and smart enough to stay away from her. Your videos are doing just that. Yes, I'm treated like a piece of furniture for her son. I'm there just for the sake of being there. Im a trophy for her that's all. I hope her sons and daughters as well see her real nature one day.
She has completely made my parents as her doormats. I just don't understand why she has to do all this. Why can't she just chill. 😢
You have described my dad to a T and my experience going silent on him
Thank you, Danish Bashir. These videos are a wonderful benefit.
Thank you
thank you Brother for giving insight and advice year round Happy New Year
Thank you 😊 Danish for your input and wisdom 🙏 wishing you and all here a happy new year 🎉
Thank you.
Well said
Hi, can someone suffering from schizophrenia or bpd or any other mental illness be also a narcissist?? Please answer.
They could have both
Everyone has some narcissism in them. That's ok. These are some serious mental health issues that should be monitored by a doctor.
@@meritahasani9750everyone can be selfish and self absorbed at times however Narcissistic Personality Disorder is like pregnancy either you are or you aren't. You can't be a little bit pregnant. It's is for life and people with it don't get better they get worse with age.
I miss you sharing your a psychologist
I couldn't figure out what I had done to make her mad when she stopped talking to me, sitting on the porch to have a cigarette. Then, weeks later, I refused to have a "discussion " with her, and 3 days later, I was thrown out of the house. Nice way to treat your mother. Now I am recovering, and I'm no contact. Funny how the flying monkeys have popped in over the holidays. I don't respond to them either. I'm good.
Unfortunately, he lives a few doors down. I can smell when he's home. When we were in our "situationship" he was always visible, taking out his trash, sitting in a common area. Then when he was ignoring me for a couple of weeks, I poked the bear by implying that he wasn't as deep as he was boasting about to a friend of mine he happened to be talking to. (He said he would know if a certain celebrity died because he would "feel it." I said, "You're so deep-feeling that you would feel when someone you've never met has died?") Well, the smear campaign spared no pain. It lasted over a year, right here in my building. In the beginning, I asked him to talk to me, in a note. Instead of talking to me, he gave me the silent treatment, but before that he really acted out, like a midlife crisis. He went out of his way to befriend people I don't like, pretty much the narc's playbook. Once when someone else said, "Doesn't he look good in those?" I was going to say yes, but before I could, he said to me, "I'm waiting for the cut down." I had no idea why he said that. Over one little comment months before? So finally I wrote the note and expected to hear from him, like he was normal or something. That's when the silent treatment started, and no eye contact. But now, a year and a half later (more) he's not around much, pretty invisible, but when I see him, he looks me up and down and makes eye contact. The other day the sun got in my eyes and I squinted. He thought I was giving him a dirty look so gave me a dirty look back. I just want to be able to afford to move. After all this, somehow, for some godforsaken reason, I still find him attractive. It's a cruel trick on my brain (mind and body).
Stay blessed dear mentor ❤
I prefer it when my narcissist brother gives me the silent treatment. Otherwise, he pounces on me every time I leave my room and follows me around talking nonstop. If he can't be my best friend, he hates me with a passion and calls me evil. Even the slightest critisism is seen as a deep and cutting personal attack worthy of absolute rage and revenge.
Urgh. This is my covert narcissistic sister. It’s like walking in eggshells being around her, she’s exhausting.
@@lanao.2889 Has she maneuvered her way into your life is such a way that she cannot be avoided like my brother has too? It is so much easier to go no contact.
@@karta4345 I’ve only recently blocked all of them, and it’s been peaceful since then. Otherwise they were hoovering and lovebombing me every couple of days which literally made me sick. They don’t know of my actual whereabouts so they can’t come around and create chaos either, thankfully.
@@lanao.2889 So glad to hear it! It hurts to give up on people, but it's worth it because a narcissist will never actually care about you.
They call your phone all day because they can't handle silence. No contact works
He would go days and days without talking to me and ignoring me! I would ask him what was wrong and he would tell me your 39 figure it out! I would rack my brain an had no idea what I did!! It was so draining 😢😢 I don’t miss any of it!
The diffrence is when we go silent on a nassasist, we are not playing.
Whenever my ex narcissist would give me the silent treatment. I was silently happy. Little did he know I was waiting for him to stfu 😂
I work with two indian women who speak indian all day. I got use to it and work in silence. Now it is holiday, one is not in the office and the other complained to boss i dont talk with her (apart from work related). Bad luck, i amnot a sare wheel
Btw is it also stonewalling if the ither person slowly distancr themselves while the other person keeps workung on the friendship/relationship
Been told that I am tocic and enjoy the toxicity very recently
The x husband to a T. Courts gave be sh*t bc i would not communicate at all with him. Infact, i was told, " you HAVE to communicate with the father of the children" on the contrary, my therapist confirmed and encouraged "absolutely no communication" bc of his abuse and toxicity. I wish i had started therapy day 1 not year 4. EMDR#1
I can completely relate to this. After 5years of marriage we got divorced and within 6months he got married. Even since I wonder will he be treating his present wife like me? Or is there really some problem in me in adjustments.
Danish. Can you do a video on how to sign up for your courses? Interested.
But now worried that me going continually gray rock and mostly silent is going to being on more anger and rage....😢
A narcissist counts on your fear to manipulate you. The more you learn about narcissism the better. Hang in there.
Yea. They WILL get enraged when you start to ignore and focus on yourself. Do it anyway. You are your own priority
What if the silent treatment lasts around a year ??
Truth
One question am.I a narc if I am sad and worried if someone blocks me or doesnt respond
Like I feel like that my heart dropped down
Bur there is something weird about the other person,likr when I asked this person if we meet gor the last time or have a conservation gir the kast tine say things that are unclear and nkt yes or no and when I confronted this person because its rude because we promised mot to.block each other ,this person goes to complaining or getting heated after getting confronted
They are brutal Aliens!
nothing happens, the only thing happening, they start Stonewalli
ng and they do shit talk about you all over the place...
💯
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