अपनी INSULT का जवाब देना सीखो | How to react when someone insults you? 3 EASY WAYS
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3 WAYS TO REPLY ON AN INSULT
1- AGGRESSION , ANGER, FRUSTRATED REPLY
2- QUIET AND AVOIDING THE INSULT AND NOT CARE
3- USING HUMOUR TO COUNTER THE EMOTIONS
AGGRESSION IS NOT A GOOD OPTION
BEING QUIET IS GOOD FOR PEOPLE WHO YOU DON'T KNOW
BEST TO USE HOMOUR FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE CLOSE
0:15 he is telling story about Lord Budhha 🙏🏽❤️
Yess bro. U are right
Jai ho
Yeah
Yes
haa ye story suna suna laaga tha aab yaad aaya
My mom is told me that " if someone says that you are an idiot, so don't react because if he/she says you an idiot, you won't become one." Thank you mother.
But what if you are really an idiot
@@aadisingh8742 bruh! 😂😂
@@aadisingh8742 He be like Gajab Bejjati Hai 🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@sanyamrawal7773 😂😂
@@aadisingh8742 he is not reacting on you, so that's your insult 😂😂😂
Guys, I tell you the Best way to deal with the person who insulted or insults you.
If You are feeling being insulted or hurted because of the words of the rude person. you do not need to bear it and if you are bearing it by being silent or getting away from the situation. It’s not the right way to deal with the rude people. And you are silent at that moment it's mean that you are not courage to respond them. Here you have the problem of confidence that you are not responding well. Be fearless and destroy them by saying sentences that hurt them and. On which topic the person is insulting you, understand the topic and then insult them back. Here i am trying to teach you ruding skills because ruding skills is very important to deal with rude person. If somone hits you 1 slap, then you must hit them 2. This is my rule. But don't forget that in the time when rude person is insulting you. You should not be angry but calm and start insulting them by being fearless like a king ( aslo don't angry at this moment ) but show them their real aukat. This is way they realize that you are the wrong person for insulting. If your time and energy are wasting. Let it be waste because you are learing some skill that will always help you in such taugh situations in future.
If you face such situation then you would see it as a opportunity that you are going to learn insulting skills that will protect you from every toxic people and with the passage of time you would become expert in destroying the rude people. In staring you will not be able to deal with rude person. You may think that your mental condition is not good after facing rude person but remember this is the beginning and you are feeling this because you are not a pro
Thanks you if you read it completely
Ty bro
@@shreyajais5012 most welcome sister
"Never say anyone ugly"
Because ugly starts with "U"
Best..
Suga
No its u 😂
Ofc it's bad but this prase or whatever is just total s*it and has no logic!
Hey don't steal our Suga line he is our savage king 👑👑👑👑👑💜
Definitely he's a Buddhist monk as the thought is not a thought but a quote of Buddha
😂😂😂
Top 3 ways react/respond in insult
1- Refuse
2- Avoid / Ignore
3- accept the insults with humour and use it in our favor
@Monu Rauth no ignoring is not right
@Monu Rauthhe insults you again and again
Ignore and do a fake smile 😁
@@Chhotu668 but why you even care why you give value to their words?
@@Chhotu668 ,g,uu,g,,,,,uf,u,u,uuug,uuug,ug,g,g,g,g,uyuuzugzgz
When someone call me ugly
Me: No one is Born ugly , we are just born in a Judgemental Society
~ARMY
~Kim Namjoon.
@@divyanandle59
No, it is said by an Army, Not Joon
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@@divyanandle59
Welcome ❤💜🥞🧈
Hey army
I am so happy that I am receiving the right knowledge at the right turn of my life....😃
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Already ho chuka he
@@Sponting1 konsi video mein
@@SujitKumar-ek1qz bhai tu bot hai kya
Seeken is best
I have unsubscribed GIGL after his video on elon musk and jack ma debate
He have not watched that full video and made video on that topic
GIGL thinks that GIGL is smarter than jack ma😂😂
He didn’t understood jack ma ‘s points
Yebook also.
Conclusion of this story is Do not get angry at someone's point.
Imagine if me and my enemy both are watching the video at the same Time....😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Alas, it could be
Then everything will be fine😀
Good question question 🤣
Yes iam yours
Oo maa guu turu peace
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When I get insult I insult him back by laughing , this is the best tip
no this is not right thing
Keep quiet is the best tool to avoid frustration and have to undertake this as a challenge..
When someone insult me :
1) accept, if I did any mistake with smily face😊🤗
2) I don't react ( I don't give value to their words)
3) I don't take things personally
4) I take long breathe
❤
Really all this happens to me often.... I get angry very quickly and react immediately... so now I will definitely do all this.....thanku so much...🥰🥰
When I get insult
I say Thank you
They get more jealous lol
Me too😘
No , you think the get more jealous if somebody say that i always reply welcome cool ☺️
Best way is to ingnore .
Swag lvl 9999999999+😏😏😏😏😏😎😎😎
Same i give a killer smile
Same😃
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Tysm for this beautiful thought....
I just react overly positive - neutral.... When you react positive and speak for niether your own defence, or to counter their insult, they start to seem like the actual bad guy😂. I've had cases where people had to reluctantly apologize due to themselves getting overwhelmed by positivity!😂😂
Today I faced one situation where someone insult bcoz of his misunderstanding and he was very good friend of mine. He always do this but I took it casually but today I blocked him for lifetime and I m feeling very relaxed...
"you are ugly"
Me: "i don't care what u think"
He: 0 Me: 1
He --0 you--100💥
No your are ugly
@@Chibi_Cats again an idiot comes 🤣 he don't care what you think fool
I say "For You I am Ugly" For me I am Better Than You
I guess a better respond would be "i know and them give a smile."
I simply say "Thank you" when someone insults me😏
❤️❤️❤️Sometimes silence better than thank you ❤️❤️
Same
Same
Same
@@shortscabuniverse3189 yess u r ri8
Best way is to not react. Just distance yourself from disrespectful person
Bhai jab kismat kharab chal Raha ho na to har koi bolkar chala jata hai 😞
Haa bhai
Sir, I am Using you 3rd Method since last 2years 😂 but Now I will Try both 1st & 2nd.
Thank you ❤️
Bhai kaise use kare humour??
@@rowlattgamer3355 hey humour use karna bahuth badee baath nahi he.... Humour doesn't mean comic
Because of you, I started reading books. Thank You
I'm not a monk... I work n get paid... So never compromise with integrity n ego...
0:23 शांत रहने से कोई काम नहीं होता है
दूसरा इंसान जो गालियां दे रहा है उसको और अच्छा लगता है कि इसने तो कुछ नही कहा
Aas paas agar log ho to shaant raho is'se us aadmi ki bohot insult hoti hai maine khud try kiya hai.
@@helicopterrrr wo gaali dene wala agar bahot gusse me ho to shant rehne se uski bezzati hoti hai but agar wo ( or uske sath aur kuch log ) calmly apki insult kare to kya kare ?
*Some notes here*
How to deal with insult
*1) Aggression*
It is a weak response, and this for three main reasons:
*It shows that we take the insult, and therefore the insulter, seriously*
*It suggests that there may be some truth in the insult*
*2) Quite*
Best way to win argument is to avoid it Ignoring the insult/argue is much easier, and, in fact, more powerful.
*3) Humor*
Humor is best response to insult.
It diffuses the tension of the situation*
It undercuts the insulter and his or her insult
*My passion is to make summary. I started doing it on my channel* ✌️
Kaheka passion... ghatiya summary banai he
Being quite is not either good
Cause if you will be quite then he will start to insult more
@@amanmanak2400 np its from my recommendation I have already broke friendship with that type of friend
Summary of a summary
@@Sponting1 tum isse acha bana sakte ho
पिता नीम के पेड़ जैसा होता है
जिसके पत्ते भले ही कड़वे हों
लेकिन छाया तो ठंडी। ही देता है
एक लाइक पापा❤️ की लंबी उम्र के लिए
👇👇👇
I like your comment
@@angelpreety453 Tqqqq🥰🥰माय नाम आरुशी २२ इयर ओल्ड ड्राइंग टीचर में बहुत हार्ड वर्क करती हूँ प्लीज सपोर्ट एंड सब्सक्राइब
@@drawing629 ok
Papa ki pari 🐈🐈
@@proudindian204 Ha ji hu or kuch 🥰
Thanks man, you are making my life... Much easier than previous one. Thanks a lot
I think that 99% viewers are students😊😊
Hm😞
“Happiness is not an ideal of reason, but of imagination.”
👉 #Positiveseed
Areee chup chap cute si smile mardo😂 , everything will be fine then..
@@aravsingh6995 lalit bhai 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@faizansari4269 bade harami ho bhai😂
@@aravsingh6995 Mirzapur nahi dekhe ho kya bhai😂
😂
"LET YOUR SMILE BE YOUR BIGGEST WEAPON"✨
When tolerance crosses limit intolerance becomes duty
When anyone Insult me I told that guy that" Thanks it'S my Pleasure
And Me to myself : I don't Care Man.
Lol you're soo dumb 🤣🤣🤣🤣
When some one give me bad complement I accept the complement and give him to complement.. this way I deal with any insults
Nice Solution
What to do when someone insult your love ones? I can tolerate anything but not those who insult my idols .
Thanks dear ,your all videos are pretty motivating and knowledgeable. Keep telling us the facts of life and human nature 🙏🌼
Sir, PlZ make a video on "How to increase the Sense of Humor"
That would be very halpfull
Tabhi point maaro jb aapko lage aapke pass achi line hai
Har time nahi
helpfull
Bahot simple hai..
Right brother
It all in it. Timing , delivery ,time and place are imp
"Unhone accept Kara" ❎
"Unhone accept Kiya" ☑️
Hmm thats interesting
😅
Face those people who want to see u down .. Just face them with smile and ignore them ❤️
❤😂
I don't care when someone insults me... But when someone insults my loved ones, I'm out of control
My cousin always keep insulting me, she calls me a fool always
And whenever she insults me everybody around us starts laughing, whenever I say something back to her I really sound stupid and again everyone laughs
She makes me fell so bad about myself. I try to forget all the things happened but unfortunately I am not able to
Even I face such situations many times....some people are borm to insult u ....one thing is best avoid them
@@supreetanaik6699 yeah, thanks😊
Don't give a shit to her. Don't react on her comments she will make foll out of her self.❤️❤️
Success is the best REVENGE
@@rupreti6511 thanks for saying it 😊
THANK YOU SO MUCH🧡 , I was not able to handle bullies and insult by my fellow classmates. but from now I know what to do just because of you! 😄
Hi army
Hi army "I am so lovely you are so lovely we all are lovely lovely lovely"💜💜😁😁
Hi army
अपने अपमान का बदला कभी भी
झगड़ा करके नहीं लिया जाता है,
बल्कि सामने वाले व्यक्ति से ज्यादा,
सफल बन कर लिया जाता है #ShriKrishnaNiti_Official
Pahle hum bohot gussa karte the par uske bad silent bhi try ki or finally hum is video dekhne ke pahle se hi hum third vale par aa gaye or ab bada maza aata hai .
Prophet Muhammad pbuh ne kitna achcha guide kiya h hume.❤️❤️❤️ Peace be upon him..❤️❤️❤️
Abhi isme prophet Muhammad kya guide kar diya
@@statusvidz6992 abhe jhaantu tum hindu hamesha chutoye hi rahonge
1 -reply aggresivily
2- be quiet
3- be optimistic
Thanku
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Pahle ka to pata nahi but in present maximum monks are fake. I realised as a villager in last 8 months.
@Mr. Symbol kya matlab bhai?
Agreed
Yes only some are trustworthy
True words great respect to you sir🥺🥺
Our teachers tought everything 💫🔥
After watching this video I can say that I have been dealing with my insults greatly
And safe to say that by reading self improvement book u can develop in multiple fields of life
That's what arnold schwarzenegger say "don't listen naysayers "
Oye itachi
this is your one of the best and most useful video according to me
Mujhe jaldi se gussa aa jata hai kabhi kabhi but jaldi hi normal bhi ho jata hu. Lekin apne man me kisi ke prati kuch bura nahi rakhta jo kehna hai vo key deta hu aur god se sab ke liye acche ki kamna karta hu.
God bless you dear....always be happy and do what you are doing 🙂👍
Don't upset about people, and situation becoz both are powerless without your reaction 👍😎
I extremely need this video thankyou so much😭😭❤️❤️😊 hai
Same here bro
🙄 I will ❤️💗
I am also
same
Same to you
Mai janta hoon ki apko ye video banane me bahut time laga lekin kuchh log hi hai jo yeh feel kar pate hai thanks for motivation
The 3rd points was so, awsome 😀
Thanks for shareing👏👏
I actually laugh when I get insulted 😌😂
Me too😖😂😂
Me to
Me too but just for hiding the pain
@@notop-upgaming7046 yaa u r right 👍
@@LforLyf Bhai us time pe samajh hi nhi aata ki hm kuch bole, hasse ya roye . Haina Bhai ?
BEST REACTION FOR SITUATIONS LIKE THIS IS OUR SMILE😊
Best "how to react to insult" video I've seen
Main toh itne din se logon ki baaton mein gussa ho jata tha lekin apki yeh video dekhar mujhe bohot accha lag raha hai
Literally! Your on another level of explanation of human behavior 👏 !
Wow..
Love your work❤️ But, the first story is of Gautam Buddha, you should have mentioned it!
Right
Definitely
Correct
Yes 👍👍👍👍
Exactly!
Main apni insult ko deal pehle gussa krke krta tha par jab maine aapki baton ko suna to maine uss cheez ko try Kiya. Aap beleive nai kroge ki 98% situations apne aap deal ho gyi mujhse. Thankyou so much 😍😍😍
Their is also a saying of Successful People that Smile is the way to solve many problem and Silence is is the way to avoid the problems. I
Nobody :
The resting face of the characters in this vdo : 😏
What do you mean l cant understand
@@AyanKhan-vt4my 6:26 look at Steve's resting face
Oh😂
@@biswaranjan1191 tum bhi anime dekhte ho kya?
@@biswaranjan1191
7:50 🔥🔥🔥🔥😂👍 Pura Aag🔥 Laga Dala 😂😂
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U have covered mostly all the phases keep it up buddy
I'm in class 11th, our session started from July this year. There are some people in my class who always like to make fun of my ways of talking to the teacher, doing my work, etc. I just ignored them. I sometimes laughed with them as well. This did nothing but encourage them more to pick on me. Then the numbers of insulting people, the amount of insults and the degree of insults just grew as people started to think "ye to bada ch**iya insaan hai." After that i had to put in an application to the school putting forth my problem after which things got under control, until now when these guys are starting to bug me again.
Moral of the story: there is a limit to ignoring and refusing. You can't be Gandhi all the time, you have to become SC Bose at times and then become Sardar Patel to keep the situation under control.
PS: Their degree of annoyance is just increasing everyday. I need to find ways to deliver witty comebacks to their insults and hence shut their mouth or my performance in class will get affected...
Respond then by sat ng thank you it's best way ig
Yes there is limit to ignorance and refusal.... They will not stop instead other people join them to trample on you
@@grace-wu5mp that's exactly what my school counsellor explained to me. I should learn how to fight back by either giving them a solid reply or to complain to the school authorities timely. Also, having a friend circle with whom you could sit with and feel safe is necessary as well since they work as a support system for you. You can never succeed in life without any actual friends even when you get in college.
Phele har baat par react krta tha , gussa, frustration, orr khud ko andr hi andr hurt krna but ab mai aage unn bato Ko dhyan mai rkhunga jo apne btaye hai
My friends try to bully me at school for my skin tone n my presence of mind(sometimes ) . I used to get offended but now I love my skin tone so idgaf n just remain silent coz trying to be explanatory for someone who is so prude isn't a good thing 😎😎👍🏾
I never comment on videos bt today i faced insult & i felt angry bt i controlled it and stayed quiet bt i imagined myself reacting in 3rd way in that situation...& it could be better way...thank you 👍
This Is the best personality development video I ever seen 👍👍
I used to argue and fight with people when they used to abuse me.
and they just loved it when I was very angry and frustrated.
It gave me lots of Pain mentally.
My experience in my life taught me that We should never React to our Criticism.
I have one problem, my teacher used to insult me before lockdown,all children were laughing at me...I used to be very sab about almost to cry😢and I am not a too bad boy,I am quite good, I cant neither ignore him or tell something to him.....
@jay shree Ram thank you
@Rajeev Ranjan good👍
Man I troll my teachers😂😂😂
Damn!
I'm here after 9 months and 60 likes wow
And now I don't even remember when and what teacher insulted me, for.
I guess he did it for good sake of me
Wow Bro😊. You make awesome videos... How do you solve these problems so easily.... You are doing great work.... Well done& keep it up.
Wonderful insights as always in videos. 😊 thanks
Last option sbse msst tha ase hi treat kiya jana chahiye humorously👌👌🤣
This story was told by SANDEEP MAHESHWARI
Definitely yes
Is it coincidental or inspiration 😊
Ha bhai...par dono channels pe alag alag subscribers rahenge na...impt toh msg hai...phir voh chaahe koi bhi de...🙂
Yeah
Unhine bhi pdi h books me given h
All says that ignorance is the best thing to deal with the disrespect person 😔
I do this but others say that" you are a child and not know to do something 😩😩😩😖
It's very true .thank you for the video 😊
Eagerly waiting for Seeken day 🎉🎉🎉
Thanks Seeken... For increasing our Knowledge 🙏🙏
That is what I do. Amazing 🇮🇳👍 finally someone open the secret.
U r true guru ty for making video for us n helping us
Thank you so much this video really helped ❤🙌🙌
Totally impractical way for a common man. A counter insult is a best way.
Before i watched this video i always used to deal insults in that way n kindly whatever he suggested are truly effective
Brother Thank you very much u change my mindset a lot. Thank you for this priceless content.
Thanks roni❤️ for sending me such a useful link , Thanks againg. Nd also thanks Sir for giving me such a awesome tricks 👍
3:19 He literally killed the man for calling him ugly 😂🤣😂😂😂.
Well, I believe everyone is beautiful ❤️ as the way they are.🌟☺️
Also, don't compare your beauty (yourself, personality etc..)with others or you'll be misjudging yourself...✨🥰🤗
👍I am impressed by your thoughts ❤️
Mere according usne bilkul theek kia.. Be a alpha if anyone try to inault you
You are really inspiring bro.. Keep it up.. ❤️✌️
You really helped me bro because I wanted to take revenge of my friend's insult in any case I wanted to protect her
Thank you so much sir 😄
I will remember it 😊
Focus in your work. Dont get distracted with negative people's statements.
Exactly
Jb koi meri insalt krta h to me chup rehti hu or hasti hu wo mujhe pagal samajh kr aage kuch nhi kehti 😁😁😂😂
My friends always bullied me because I am not that much rich & I'm dark tone. I hv problem of sinus so I mostly caught cold in every 7 days. So whenever i say them that I'm having cold so i will not come to play (because I care that they should not catch cold because of me) so after that whenever on that day when i come in my balcony/outside so they tease me that - *Congratulations madam ka bukhar thik ho gya* *jab khelne ki baari aati hai toh madam ko bukhar ho jata hai kyunki madam ko khelna nhi aata*. And that made me cry but i will NOT CRY. I will love myself and I'm not that good in games but i hv many talents more than them.
The best way to Express this 5:05 line- Silence🤫Is The Best Response For Fools.😈😈👿😈👿😈😈😈😈😈