I was thinking the same thing today that why in most relationships only one people give their all possible efforts and the others seems to remain calm by pretending that they are practical. Thanks for awakening us..
Sandhwi ma'am agar koi problem hai to bata dijiye plz mai apki kaafi help kr skta hu ma'am plz jhut mat boliye problem apko bhi hoti hai but abhi aap khul kr nahi bol rahi.mujhe frnd samjhiye or bataiye
I was in toxic relation. Even I could feel everything is so toxic so wrong I always tried to fix things I did everything in my power to save but at the end I walked away. It was not easy but I want to advice all who are reading or seeing this great video You have to know your worth. If you ever feel like you are not treated right, being blamed for everything, your hapinness is ignored and you have to compromise everytime. Just walk away without a second thought. It is difficult but trust the process. Because when you are out of the relation you will see things which you couldnot when you were in that relation.
@Anime Hub Trust me I have been there. It hurts but eventually you will see and realize that how much wrong everything was. To make it work and make it right both of you have to be willing to understand and empathise each other. One cannot solve it alone. It will drain you all. So until you both are equally willing to fix I suggest you drop the idea of fixing and leave. Hope you take a stand for yourself. 😊
@Anime Hub I guess you already have tried conveying her your feelings. But if not. Try saying her that you understand that she has all the right to give time to other imp people in her life and you appreciate how she takes care of them. But in doing so she is somewhere making you feel unwanted. If she can take out some time for you both it would be really make you feel wanted and appreciated. If she loves you she will understand your feelings. And try to work it out. If she still justifies or gives reasons then I am afraid she won't ever understand your pov and empathise with you. It's time to move
@@HumorUp ohh good dear u take great step in ur life kuch log steps lene se darte hai but aap unme se nahi thi well done ma'am 👍I can feel ur situation
I just wanted to know. Have you been in a situation between self respect and love? If so how to choose one. If we choose love then have to be in toxic relationship. If we choose self respect then have to sacrifice love. Both hurts. And it's impossible to have both in my relationship. 😭
Beautiful topic! I suffered in this kind of relationship but i took very early decision to get rid of it! Now I'm feeling proud of my decision... It results into best decision of my life.☺
@@Himaniarora__ ma'am aap kyu darr rahi ho itni i think aap to punjabi ho or Punjabi kaha itna kisi se darte hai ma'am aap wohi karo jo aap chahti ho i m with u
@@109puneetkaur3 aap bhi to punjabi ho itni aasani se apne kisi ko dil bhi de diya or 1 month 5 day me wapas bhi le liya😜🙏sorry ma'am I can feel ur problem
I am in a toxic relationship. My friends are supporting me and help me to normalise my mental state. I am trying to get out of this relationship. It's been three years that we are together and it's very hard to over come and get out of this. But I am trying. I hope this comes to an end. Your video was very helpful. Thank you
I went through something very similar. I was about to get married to the guy. My friends and family kept on telling me this is not right, you are not getting the respect you deserve. This can become physically abusive. He had thrown things in anger, intimidated me by yelling, and pressed my hand in anger. His parents used to tell that he's impulsive and has anger issues but he loves you dearly. So you need to know how to handle him so you don't trigger his anger and keep him calm. When you stop provoking him he will not use abusive words. I had started doubting myself. I thought me and my parents are too demanding. Just because I earn well we are not able to compromise and act as per the expectations of the ladkewalas. They wanted to dominate everything in the wedding preparation as they were paying for half of the wedding and were not ready to accommodate any needs of my parents. The guy told me that my father is an arrogant man and he will take revenge from my father when time comes. I was so scared and i had no idea what's my responsibility and what's not. What's my fault and what's not. Finally the guy was not allowing me to choose my wedding dress. He said i was too stubborn to think of choosing ny dress on my own (that too after his mom had already given approval to me but she might have denied that to her son). I felt I have had enough. I'm sacrificing a lot by getting married and moving city, job everything for a guy who can't understand me or stand up for me. He was financially dependent on his parent's business. His parents had refused to let him draw any salary on request of my parents and they wanted to control financial decisions. I brokr off the engagement and didn't get married. I still think about the good parts sometimes and I'm finding it hard to move on. The guy tried to apologize and suddenly he was realizing all his mistakes and said that he was unable to see all the issues and will make changes. But this time I was unable to trust him and was really scared of living with his manipulative and controlling mother (who he used to think as a very wise and sensitive lady). 3 months after apologizing to me and saying that he still loves me, he got engaged to another girl and posted romantic videos on Instagram. I've lost a lot. Lost my self esteem. Started feeling that I'm not good at choosing clothes, or not good enough in speaking, talking to people and what not. I still get nightmares about things his mother told me, things like I'm not mature enough and I'm not prepared to live in sasural as my mother has not been able to teach me. It's an ongoing PTSD and I just hope to recover.
U took the right decision at the right time dr ..don't worry u will get the better one tht day u will feel u got the best gift from God ..u saved urself from a spoiled life orelse life long u need to suffer... Good decesion dr i pray God u will overcome it☺️
Sister god saved you don't worry i am also going through the same life is not same for everyone. Just have self confidence.the guy idk am dating or was posted picture with another girl hanging out and at the same time lashes me out hanging out with my friends and what not.....i m too going through alot we too decided to get married but no, god has better options for us idk its been two months for you better getting out of it friend ❤
A friend sent this to me because she is currently in Toxic relationship and I've been telling that to her for months now... I hope she is able to get out of this mess... Because she is clearly not happy
@Exmuslim Sahil😊 Almost every religion affects the empowerment of women but it's not the fault of the entire religion, it's the people who follow them. Sometimes people who follow a certain religion use it for their own benefits and oppress women. And yes, religions should definedly change with time because there is no point in living an ancient life in the 21st Century. And No, marriage is not necessary if you don't want to. A bond is a bond. If you love someone, you CAN stay with them without marrying them if you like. Marriage just gives you certain legal and social advantages. But if you love a person and don't wanna marry them, it's fine. It doesn't mean that you don't love. It just means you don't believe that some stupid rituals or a legal piece of paper is necessary for your bond with that person to survive. Marriage is a choice, not a necessity
I was also in relationship with a narcissist. Bahut zaiyda nuksaan hua ..... Mentally , psychologically, emotionally, physically, careerwise , education ...bahut zaiyda toxic.... Gave my 6/7 years to a narcissist who still abuses me after 2 years of leaving him. Infact, I start shivering if that person ever comes to my life.
Totally understand your situation. I was in a toxic marriage for 10 years with narcissist and didn't know whatever is happening is wrong. I left him and build my life from scratch. I was never happy before. Glad I make this decision.
Now finally understood why my relationship not worked even after trying so much before watching it I use to think it was everything my fault bt now I am able to understand the reason thanks u dii♥️🙏
If you are not sure whether you’re in a toxic relationship or not, ask yourself these two most important questions. How has this relationship affected my self-esteem? How do I feel when I am around my partner? 💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
One and only thing I have to say is, if you become unstable by any unexpected response from your partner and don't have patience and ways to make thing better, never get married
Thank you for imparting the knowledge about toxic relationship. After the watching now I am sure that I am into a toxic relationship. Everything you said holds true in my case. I was thinking of getting out of it but was unsure about it as I am afraid of being alone. But now that I know what I am through, I would definitely take a stand for me and my kid. Thank you so much!
Still suffering from that toxic relationship😓😓i dont how to get out from this rlt ship .Everyday i wake up with a hope that today i m free from that relation ship bt nothing changes as usual everyday i confront him saying lets break up yet he always tries to save the relationship .i feel like i m in a jail. At first i thought he was not that toxic bt slowly later he reveled his real face and started being soo much of toxic. Cant understand where was the mistake of mine that he used to scold me later i realized all was his fault and i was innocent.just hoping that one day i will however get out of this realtion and always focus on my carrer
Kindly inform him directly that you are abusing me and I can't continue the realtionship , please don't accept sorries ,gifts , sympathies and warm emotions from him ,while he apologizes to you .
Same...He is not just letting go perhaps because he knows he will not find someone as dismissive but still loving as me.. I hate myself and I just dont understand how I get out of it .I am tired of this its been 5 years ..or had hoti h yr kisi insan k sehne ki
Same thing is happening with me. But in my views you should get rid off this relationship because he can never change. And acceptance is very important
I'm in a toxic relationship, my husband is a Narcissist n I'm suffering from past 18 years 😥 I have tried a lot to correct our relationship but it's of no use.. I don't know how to get out of this. Plse guide.. I need help
Toxicity and hypocritic patriarchal societal does hand in hand. Narcissistic people are smartly manipulative. Over trusting and over depending them can be a very dangerous game. Many girls who lack communication skills about their feelings cannot feel protected or feel secure amidst the narcissistic spouse and or his family.
Thanks to so many such videos i found that im also in a toxic relationship such long time and gave away so much that someone should not sacrifice. But now im moving on. Hope things will work in right manner.
Yes you are correct seems my partner (wife) is narcissist & I am in Toxic relationship with my wife. Now post identification of issue please make video on next step/conclusion.
I think I am over thinker and I see pattern in me that I argue with my husband often on reasons in past present and future , my inlaws always taunt me they blame me for no reasons . My husband also get influenced by their parents words and we often fight on pity issues. I feel bad that I am never appreciated or loved equally in the house like my husband.
Yes IM from last 30 year ....even I have lost myself emotionally and mantalyy in total. I Am56 year old laddu Also facing my kids impacted of this kind of Relationship ...Its taught to survive now
Rn I'm crying since 3 days... It's not affecting him anyways .. i had insecurity . Instead of solving he chose avoiding me and took a break by ignoring me .. i cried for hours nd hours... I called him and explained y i cried and comfort him but instead of understanding he told me he still want some tym nd don't wanna talk.. last night he called me nd wished me good night love .. .. today it was a normal day going without any arguments but when i had anxiety i told him today he said he don't want to talk about these things at all
Never ever get marry to tht person who left u when u are in sad and crying and he don't even care bec these type of ppl are very dangerous they will not even value u after mrge..after u will suffer better leave tht stupid guy...same situation i faced, starting he proposed me he run after me showed somuch love care but now i cry or i get angry he don't care ignore my feelings not value me..After seeing his changes i realised only one thing i m only getting hurt pain crying but he is hpy routine doing his works all...now i breakup with him i feel free really pain is there i m trying to forget him..but daily daily rone sae accha ek baar acchese rolo aur khatam kardo.self love and self respect important tc..😊
Is it possible to keep attracting narcissist people or maybe need to solve the narcissism within oneself? Empathy comes naturally to me, so just wondering and pondering if that could be the reason to attract such relationship dynamics? Let me know your thoughts. Also is there a possibility to deal with Cognitive dissonance effectively? Thanks
Sooo very much thanks for the information... yes I can relate this in my life, I had a this type of relationship with that type of man as maintain in this video ... plz plz help to get more knowledge about this narcissistic people
Well explained. As n when there are misunderstanding, v should always clarify issues with our partner at the earliest, so that the relations remain healthier. Beat way is to first praise your partner, so that She gets in good mood and then explain the misunderstanding. 😁 Lastly, saying the word Sorry to her solves the issue . 😀
My one of friends is in toxic relationship seen 1 year's I can clearly see it because her bf always want her to be in his control , he also said if she wanted to be in relationship u need to listen me iam not and her bf is not a understanding type .she always telling iam the one who compromising then it's became okay then it's not .from the beginning I told just get out but she didn't listen to me .now their relationship is going smoothly it's good now' but I still fear of it became like before...... And iam happy its going fine . sorry my english is not that good.
In a toxic relationship the other person do not bother about your opinions and accept those things which they like or which they want They wants you to go as per them and are over possessive about you this behaviour turns your relationship suffocating They suppress you and are egoistic In my case he didn’t aloe me to talk to any other boy or have other boys in my account I want me to dress according to him and have a lot of ego and anger I love the person unconditionally and blindly accept the other person as it is but toxicity leads to fights and trust issues and major disputes I some how accepted to be with him as he wants But in the end he left me but I was stupid I tried again and again to fix things but he disrespected me me a lot till 4 or 5 months This is how a toxic relationship could ruin more than a year of your life
Thankyou mam 8 saal s toxic relationship m hoon pta he nhi tha kya hota sb samjhaye or aaj youtube p apko suna now I understand or voh mujhe chhor bhi diya hai pr jaa nhi raha hai life se or phir se baar baar arha hai call uska nd ab m samjh gyi mujhe kya krna haii
No one talks about this topic thanks a lot for making this video this video jus touched my heart now I feel I was a fool because I m living in a toxic relationship 😔
I was being in a toxic relationship since last 5 months every small thing which was happened in our relationship he always blamed me for that i always thought that he will change and i tried to adapt things according to him but yesterday I realised that he can never change so I gave up 😖
One question If the person always abusing you and your family using foul words and in return you never abuse her or him rather justifying that its not her or his fault why she or he is like that , its her up bringing ,its the culture what they had been from birth. Some time they took you to that level that you lose your control and they again start blaming you over that behavior. Even after so many wrongthing if you compromise they again hold you guilty but you do the compromise to have peace , for betterment of kids and also peace in the family . It's like you lost the battle. You want to go out of this jail but not getting the way.
You were right to some extent but you shouldn't have just mentioned a male narcissist because there are women too who are toxic and rest all your points were good.
My parents are in toxic relationship. My grand parents were in toxic relationship. My great-grand parents too were in toxic relationship. It scares me whenever I remember this .
damn was i actually toxic? like i wasnt putting in any efforts at all. only he was. sort of i didnt want to be in the relationship at all and thats why i never put any effort. did that make me the toxic partner for that 3 months span we were in one?
@@insiya4561 i dont know. i just didnt like him and came into the relationship for the sake of it. then later realised this is not how it works. i just couldnt get myself together to put efforts because i didnt want to. rather i did put efforts because it felt like my responsibility but i was doing it half heartedly. eventually i ended it realising that it is not working :( felt bad because he really liked me but now we are over it.
@EXTREME nyah doesnt make a difference. he himself is one :) and feminists arent toxic, only some are. i might be one of them, but that reason is not valid. gIvE mE a ReAsOn PeOpLe this place isnt a place to diss feminists its to give me proper reasons la understand my situation, dont start another fight. cant we be peaceful for once? You know what, you people are useless I will ask him only if he felt like I was toxic
@EXTREME bruh stop. That is outright rude and I am from North India. And I was his first, he was mine. Stop judging people without knowing anything in depth. No one is a simp over here. Stop trolling on the internet and find a better job to do. I can't handle anyone online talking bad about anyone I know. If you think its rare for people who look like me to have bfs then okay stay ignorant. Bye.
Tumhari ex tumhe choddke chali gayi is a past. Leave the past behind. In present your ex is not with you and in future also your ex will be not with you. Accept your present that your ex is not with you in present. And live in present
Very well told... But i stopped sharing my issues as it will gets into extra marital relationship... People try to take my benefit... Wife ko to koi farak nahi padega... Wo to kid leke chain se rahegi...
@@Aniket.0x0 we broke coz i was not able to talk with her on daily basis but i never stopped her loving. I'm a middle class boy required to work for college fees. Long distance relationship
I was in this kind toxic relationship that you mentioned here,,but I can't move on my journey,my exam is near but I am in depression I can't focus on study 😞😔,what should I do now ?how can I overcome this situation?
randomly I dont know but I guess god kept this video in the suggestions and i felt like she is talking about me..I recently broke up and I am like a butterfly who just came out of the net..
I am in a relationship where i feel too much toxiness.. i felt traped in my own love for the person he shows he Loved me so much but i want to leave him but he shows me different faces of himself... Many times he shows me love i am married to this man he is not changing a little bit.. i want to move out from this marriage please god help me give me the power
I want to end it because it is making me feel like suffocated from inside but at the same time i don't wanna hurt her. what should I do? as I know I can't change her basic nature
I have been in a toxic relationship since past 9 month's and he Every time blamed me for everything and this time he gave a stupid reason to break up . I used to bring lunch for him to college which was momos that day and i ate 2 momos from it and he told me he didn't wanted to Share he was just sharing cuz it was my lunch and after i ate the 2 momo he got angry and told me he want me to stay away from him . 🙂
I think I am in a toxic relationship I am just 18 and I am so attached with him this is my first relationship and I am with him for almost 2 years I don't know what to do I am a neet aspirant and a dropper I want to get rid of this but can't. It spoilt my career. I was a very bright student before getting into this relationship but now I am so bad in my studies as well. I just don't know what to do.
I'm in a toxic relationship for last 4 months ! She doesn't listen to me at all even if I am correct. According to her she is right & I am wrong all the time. She doubts me everytime that I'm talking to girls but when she talks with other boys she says it's okay. I can't even talk to my friends relatives over the phone because if she finds my phone busy, then she'll creat scene out of it ! I hardly miss her calls but she hangs up or rejects my call regularly ! I want to break up but my emotions are not allowing me to do so ! What to do ?
"Reverse blame" is the problem I faced for a long period of time.
I was thinking the same thing today that why in most relationships only one people give their all possible efforts and the others seems to remain calm by pretending that they are practical. Thanks for awakening us..
Sandhwi ma'am agar koi problem hai to bata dijiye plz mai apki kaafi help kr skta hu ma'am plz jhut mat boliye problem apko bhi hoti hai but abhi aap khul kr nahi bol rahi.mujhe frnd samjhiye or bataiye
@@Ghanshyamtiwari19 iam in relationship with myself 😊
@@sandhwikumari3183 no ma'am aap khush nahi ho i know
@@Ghanshyamtiwari19 how do u know??
@@sandhwikumari3183 bcoz ma'am apke upper wale comment me apka dard saaf jhalak raha hai
Most toxic thing in a relationship is a "3rd person"
Heyyyy do reply
😊 Ek tha raja Ek thi raani
koi teesra a gya...
khatam kahani.... 😊
100% true
Tisre ko dosh kyu dena jab khud hi Thik nhi hai 🙂
@@atreyeedasgupta8782 Bharosa naam ki chij hoti hai madam kuch ☺☺
I was in toxic relation. Even I could feel everything is so toxic so wrong I always tried to fix things I did everything in my power to save but at the end I walked away. It was not easy but I want to advice all who are reading or seeing this great video You have to know your worth. If you ever feel like you are not treated right, being blamed for everything, your hapinness is ignored and you have to compromise everytime. Just walk away without a second thought. It is difficult but trust the process. Because when you are out of the relation you will see things which you couldnot when you were in that relation.
@Anime Hub Trust me I have been there. It hurts but eventually you will see and realize that how much wrong everything was. To make it work and make it right both of you have to be willing to understand and empathise each other. One cannot solve it alone. It will drain you all. So until you both are equally willing to fix I suggest you drop the idea of fixing and leave. Hope you take a stand for yourself. 😊
@Anime Hub I guess you already have tried conveying her your feelings. But if not. Try saying her that you understand that she has all the right to give time to other imp people in her life and you appreciate how she takes care of them. But in doing so she is somewhere making you feel unwanted. If she can take out some time for you both it would be really make you feel wanted and appreciated. If she loves you she will understand your feelings. And try to work it out. If she still justifies or gives reasons then I am afraid she won't ever understand your pov and empathise with you. It's time to move
@@HumorUp ohh good dear u take great step in ur life kuch log steps lene se darte hai but aap unme se nahi thi well done ma'am 👍I can feel ur situation
@Anime Hub ohh anime plz take a step
I just wanted to know. Have you been in a situation between self respect and love? If so how to choose one.
If we choose love then have to be in toxic relationship. If we choose self respect then have to sacrifice love. Both hurts.
And it's impossible to have both in my relationship. 😭
Beautiful topic!
I suffered in this kind of relationship but i took very early decision to get rid of it!
Now I'm feeling proud of my decision... It results into best decision of my life.☺
Can you please tell me how you get rid of it. Because I am also in this kind of relationship and i don't know what to do. I am very scared
@@Himaniarora__ ma'am aap kyu darr rahi ho itni i think aap to punjabi ho or Punjabi kaha itna kisi se darte hai ma'am aap wohi karo jo aap chahti ho i m with u
Dharma ma'am abb thik hai apki life me sab. Apko dekh kr to lag raha hai aap abb kaafi positive way pr hai😁👍
@@109puneetkaur3 aap bhi to punjabi ho itni aasani se apne kisi ko dil bhi de diya or 1 month 5 day me wapas bhi le liya😜🙏sorry ma'am I can feel ur problem
I am in a toxic relationship. My friends are supporting me and help me to normalise my mental state. I am trying to get out of this relationship. It's been three years that we are together and it's very hard to over come and get out of this. But I am trying. I hope this comes to an end. Your video was very helpful. Thank you
Hey.. how are now?
I went through something very similar. I was about to get married to the guy. My friends and family kept on telling me this is not right, you are not getting the respect you deserve. This can become physically abusive. He had thrown things in anger, intimidated me by yelling, and pressed my hand in anger. His parents used to tell that he's impulsive and has anger issues but he loves you dearly. So you need to know how to handle him so you don't trigger his anger and keep him calm. When you stop provoking him he will not use abusive words. I had started doubting myself. I thought me and my parents are too demanding. Just because I earn well we are not able to compromise and act as per the expectations of the ladkewalas. They wanted to dominate everything in the wedding preparation as they were paying for half of the wedding and were not ready to accommodate any needs of my parents. The guy told me that my father is an arrogant man and he will take revenge from my father when time comes. I was so scared and i had no idea what's my responsibility and what's not. What's my fault and what's not. Finally the guy was not allowing me to choose my wedding dress. He said i was too stubborn to think of choosing ny dress on my own (that too after his mom had already given approval to me but she might have denied that to her son). I felt I have had enough. I'm sacrificing a lot by getting married and moving city, job everything for a guy who can't understand me or stand up for me. He was financially dependent on his parent's business. His parents had refused to let him draw any salary on request of my parents and they wanted to control financial decisions. I brokr off the engagement and didn't get married.
I still think about the good parts sometimes and I'm finding it hard to move on. The guy tried to apologize and suddenly he was realizing all his mistakes and said that he was unable to see all the issues and will make changes. But this time I was unable to trust him and was really scared of living with his manipulative and controlling mother (who he used to think as a very wise and sensitive lady).
3 months after apologizing to me and saying that he still loves me, he got engaged to another girl and posted romantic videos on Instagram.
I've lost a lot. Lost my self esteem. Started feeling that I'm not good at choosing clothes, or not good enough in speaking, talking to people and what not. I still get nightmares about things his mother told me, things like I'm not mature enough and I'm not prepared to live in sasural as my mother has not been able to teach me. It's an ongoing PTSD and I just hope to recover.
U took the right decision at the right time dr ..don't worry u will get the better one tht day u will feel u got the best gift from God ..u saved urself from a spoiled life orelse life long u need to suffer... Good decesion dr i pray God u will overcome it☺️
Same
Sister god saved you don't worry i am also going through the same life is not same for everyone. Just have self confidence.the guy idk am dating or was posted picture with another girl hanging out and at the same time lashes me out hanging out with my friends and what not.....i m too going through alot we too decided to get married but no, god has better options for us idk its been two months for you better getting out of it friend ❤
Instagram picture doesn’t defines his actual relationship
I m going through same that what if he changes and give all love to another girl but the point is he was toxic for me. And may be always will
A friend sent this to me because she is currently in Toxic relationship and I've been telling that to her for months now... I hope she is able to get out of this mess... Because she is clearly not happy
@Exmuslim Sahil😊 Almost every religion affects the empowerment of women but it's not the fault of the entire religion, it's the people who follow them. Sometimes people who follow a certain religion use it for their own benefits and oppress women. And yes, religions should definedly change with time because there is no point in living an ancient life in the 21st Century.
And No, marriage is not necessary if you don't want to. A bond is a bond. If you love someone, you CAN stay with them without marrying them if you like. Marriage just gives you certain legal and social advantages. But if you love a person and don't wanna marry them, it's fine. It doesn't mean that you don't love. It just means you don't believe that some stupid rituals or a legal piece of paper is necessary for your bond with that person to survive. Marriage is a choice, not a necessity
I was also in relationship with a narcissist. Bahut zaiyda nuksaan hua .....
Mentally , psychologically, emotionally, physically, careerwise , education ...bahut zaiyda toxic....
Gave my 6/7 years to a narcissist who still abuses me after 2 years of leaving him.
Infact, I start shivering if that person ever comes to my life.
😥
Can understand you
Totally understand your situation. I was in a toxic marriage for 10 years with narcissist and didn't know whatever is happening is wrong. I left him and build my life from scratch. I was never happy before. Glad I make this decision.
@@praj1573 congratulations dear.
I can feel and understand whatever you have faced in those years.
Same. I had to call cops on him to get away from my door in middle of midnight . I got scarred for life plus he had audacity to come back.
Thanks to God that I got rid of narcissist.🕊️
I too experienced the same relationship for 25 yeara but couldn't understand..Now I got it..Thanks
Now finally understood why my relationship not worked even after trying so much before watching it I use to think it was everything my fault bt now I am able to understand the reason thanks u dii♥️🙏
Shreyasi now how can u feel r u still in same position? Feeling so sad for u plz get up
Aapne jaisa bataya bilkul waisa hi hua tha mere sath or me khud ko blam krti hu bss
Pr ab me toxic relationship se bahar aa gyi hu
If you are not sure whether you’re in a toxic relationship or not, ask yourself these two most important questions. How has this relationship affected my self-esteem? How do I feel when I am around my partner?
💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
Toxic relationship me rehne se hum v toxic ban jaate h 😢
One and only thing I have to say is, if you become unstable by any unexpected response from your partner and don't have patience and ways to make thing better, never get married
Thank you for imparting the knowledge about toxic relationship. After the watching now I am sure that I am into a toxic relationship. Everything you said holds true in my case. I was thinking of getting out of it but was unsure about it as I am afraid of being alone. But now that I know what I am through, I would definitely take a stand for me and my kid. Thank you so much!
Sushmita ji ur decision was good I'm with u I can feel ur pain. But get up dear u r a fighter
Still suffering from that toxic relationship😓😓i dont how to get out from this rlt ship .Everyday i wake up with a hope that today i m free from that relation ship bt nothing changes as usual everyday i confront him saying lets break up yet he always tries to save the relationship .i feel like i m in a jail. At first i thought he was not that toxic bt slowly later he reveled his real face and started being soo much of toxic. Cant understand where was the mistake of mine that he used to scold me later i realized all was his fault and i was innocent.just hoping that one day i will however get out of this realtion and always focus on my carrer
Kindly inform him directly that you are abusing me and I can't continue the realtionship , please don't accept sorries ,gifts , sympathies and warm emotions from him ,while he apologizes to you .
Same...He is not just letting go perhaps because he knows he will not find someone as dismissive but still loving as me.. I hate myself and I just dont understand how I get out of it
.I am tired of this its been 5 years ..or had hoti h yr kisi insan k sehne ki
Same thing is happening with me. But in my views you should get rid off this relationship because he can never change.
And acceptance is very important
It is very true aise log kuchh bhi ho jaye kabhi badal nhi sakte
I'm in a toxic relationship, my husband is a Narcissist n I'm suffering from past 18 years 😥 I have tried a lot to correct our relationship but it's of no use.. I don't know how to get out of this.
Plse guide.. I need help
Mam I was in a toxic relationship. My partner was very egocentric. After watching your video I can understand everything.
Toxicity and hypocritic patriarchal societal does hand in hand. Narcissistic people are smartly manipulative.
Over trusting and over depending them can be a very dangerous game.
Many girls who lack communication skills about their feelings cannot feel protected or feel secure amidst the narcissistic spouse and or his family.
I got scarred for life as I wanted to give last chance.
I have found that people who call others as narcissistic are actually the ones who are narcissistic. Evil calls other as Evil is old saying.
Thanks to so many such videos i found that im also in a toxic relationship such long time and gave away so much that someone should not sacrifice. But now im moving on. Hope things will work in right manner.
An important topic discussed. Totally can match with my experience.
Thanks for the knowledge.
I think I am one of those narcissists... 😭😭😭
Same bro 🥲
Yes you are correct seems my partner (wife) is narcissist & I am in Toxic relationship with my wife. Now post identification of issue please make video on next step/conclusion.
Great topic discussed
Knowing the signs of toxic relationship is really important
I think I am over thinker and I see pattern in me that I argue with my husband often on reasons in past present and future , my inlaws always taunt me they blame me for no reasons . My husband also get influenced by their parents words and we often fight on pity issues. I feel bad that I am never appreciated or loved equally in the house like my husband.
Yes IM from last 30 year ....even I have lost myself emotionally and mantalyy in total. I Am56 year old laddu Also facing my kids impacted of this kind of Relationship ...Its taught to survive now
I was in a relationship like this kind of toxic one..Few days before she left me..I'm happy now!
Thanks for making on this topic..❤️
@@anshika2850 how is your status now??
Thanks for the video!!.. Nicely explained.
Im in toxic relationship from 10 years 😓
Rn I'm crying since 3 days... It's not affecting him anyways .. i had insecurity . Instead of solving he chose avoiding me and took a break by ignoring me .. i cried for hours nd hours... I called him and explained y i cried and comfort him but instead of understanding he told me he still want some tym nd don't wanna talk.. last night he called me nd wished me good night love .. .. today it was a normal day going without any arguments but when i had anxiety i told him today he said he don't want to talk about these things at all
Never ever get marry to tht person who left u when u are in sad and crying and he don't even care bec these type of ppl are very dangerous they will not even value u after mrge..after u will suffer better leave tht stupid guy...same situation i faced, starting he proposed me he run after me showed somuch love care but now i cry or i get angry he don't care ignore my feelings not value me..After seeing his changes i realised only one thing i m only getting hurt pain crying but he is hpy routine doing his works all...now i breakup with him i feel free really pain is there i m trying to forget him..but daily daily rone sae accha ek baar acchese rolo aur khatam kardo.self love and self respect important tc..😊
Same is happening with me
so helpful..i was feeling vry low..nd got this video in my timeline 🖤
@Amazing World nooopeeee..just one.. ✨
Is it possible to keep attracting narcissist people or maybe need to solve the narcissism within oneself? Empathy comes naturally to me, so just wondering and pondering if that could be the reason to attract such relationship dynamics? Let me know your thoughts. Also is there a possibility to deal with Cognitive dissonance effectively? Thanks
Amruta ji apki life me bhi same problem thi kya abb solve ho gayi? U r nice person
There is no solution in the world.... because there are no problem
Appke sareh signs true h
Sooo very much thanks for the information... yes I can relate this in my life, I had a this type of relationship with that type of man as maintain in this video ... plz plz help to get more knowledge about this narcissistic people
Manasi sorry I can feel ur problem now apko ek step to lena padega ma'am I m with u👍u can do it
@@Ghanshyamtiwari19 🤣🤣😛
@@dr.kirandixit7456 Abey fake doctor kiran😆
Thankyou thankyou thankyou so so so much.... doctor
Well explained.
As n when there are misunderstanding, v should always clarify issues with our partner at the earliest, so that the relations remain healthier.
Beat way is to first praise your partner, so that She gets in good mood and then explain the misunderstanding. 😁
Lastly, saying the word Sorry to her solves the issue . 😀
Bapp re after hearing your talks i think am in a toxic relationship 😢😂 bt ultra pro n my exams are next week 😂😂❤️ bless me
My one of friends is in toxic relationship seen 1 year's I can clearly see it because her bf always want her to be in his control , he also said if she wanted to be in relationship u need to listen me iam not and her bf is not a understanding type .she always telling iam the one who compromising then it's became okay then it's not .from the beginning I told just get out but she didn't listen to me .now their relationship is going smoothly it's good now' but I still fear of it became like before...... And iam happy its going fine . sorry my english is not that good.
Please also make a video on someone who is self harming
In a toxic relationship the other person do not bother about your opinions and accept those things which they like or which they want
They wants you to go as per them and are over possessive about you this behaviour turns your relationship suffocating
They suppress you and are egoistic
In my case he didn’t aloe me to talk to any other boy or have other boys in my account I want me to dress according to him and have a lot of ego and anger I love the person unconditionally and blindly accept the other person as it is but toxicity leads to fights and trust issues and major disputes
I some how accepted to be with him as he wants
But in the end he left me but I was stupid I tried again and again to fix things but he disrespected me me a lot till 4 or 5 months
This is how a toxic relationship could ruin more than a year of your life
Learn to Love Yourself to save yourself
Everything is true didi 😢
Thankyou mam for making this video n sharing this info
WOW!!! what a explanation... thank you ❤️
Void r u fine now?
Yup mam, I am also in a toxic relationship.
Very nicely explained
Most toxic is having children with that person, you cant swallow or spit out
Thankyou mam 8 saal s toxic relationship m hoon pta he nhi tha kya hota sb samjhaye or aaj youtube p apko suna now I understand or voh mujhe chhor bhi diya hai pr jaa nhi raha hai life se or phir se baar baar arha hai call uska nd ab m samjh gyi mujhe kya krna haii
Well said 👍 Thank you :)
So actually I'm in a toxic relationship!💔😢
No one talks about this topic thanks a lot for making this video this video jus touched my heart now I feel I was a fool because I m living in a toxic relationship 😔
I was being in a toxic relationship since last 5 months every small thing which was happened in our relationship he always blamed me for that i always thought that he will change and i tried to adapt things according to him but yesterday I realised that he can never change so I gave up 😖
One question
If the person always abusing you and your family using foul words and in return you never abuse her or him rather justifying that its not her or his fault why she or he is like that , its her up bringing ,its the culture what they had been from birth.
Some time they took you to that level that you lose your control and they again start blaming you over that behavior. Even after so many wrongthing if you compromise they again hold you guilty but you do the compromise to have peace , for betterment of kids and also peace in the family . It's like you lost the battle. You want to go out of this jail but not getting the way.
Main bhi 3 years tk ese hi rishte main Rahi I suffer alot now I left him forever and I am healing myself 😢
Thank you so much for this
You were right to some extent but you shouldn't have just mentioned a male narcissist because there are women too who are toxic and rest all your points were good.
Hello dear plz upload more videos on toxic relationship it's very important know people abt truth of human behaviour in close relationship...
I was in a toxic relationship and empathetic wala point bilkul sahi hai
Yaa mam you are right.✅thnk u soo much mam
My parents are in toxic relationship. My grand parents were in toxic relationship. My great-grand parents too were in toxic relationship. It scares me whenever I remember this .
Same here
Thankyou so much Mam ❤️..It is extremely helpful❤️
Yes your right i have gone through the same situation but not able to understand ki kya kia jae
damn was i actually toxic? like i wasnt putting in any efforts at all. only he was. sort of i didnt want to be in the relationship at all and thats why i never put any effort. did that make me the toxic partner for that 3 months span we were in one?
Answer me people, don't just like it
do you observe that in you?
@@insiya4561 i dont know. i just didnt like him and came into the relationship for the sake of it. then later realised this is not how it works. i just couldnt get myself together to put efforts because i didnt want to. rather i did put efforts because it felt like my responsibility but i was doing it half heartedly. eventually i ended it realising that it is not working :( felt bad because he really liked me but now we are over it.
@EXTREME nyah doesnt make a difference. he himself is one :) and feminists arent toxic, only some are. i might be one of them, but that reason is not valid. gIvE mE a ReAsOn PeOpLe this place isnt a place to diss feminists its to give me proper reasons la understand my situation, dont start another fight. cant we be peaceful for once? You know what, you people are useless I will ask him only if he felt like I was toxic
@EXTREME bruh stop. That is outright rude and I am from North India. And I was his first, he was mine. Stop judging people without knowing anything in depth. No one is a simp over here. Stop trolling on the internet and find a better job to do. I can't handle anyone online talking bad about anyone I know. If you think its rare for people who look like me to have bfs then okay stay ignorant. Bye.
Thank you
Mra relationship hi toxic ha aj apki puri vedio mry relationship py ha Jo k m aj thank gai hon ic relationship sy
Nice tq u for beautifull explain🤗🤗
Thanks for information
Right.... thanks for the information 🙏
Tumhari ex tumhe choddke chali gayi is a past. Leave the past behind. In present your ex is not with you and in future also your ex will be not with you. Accept your present that your ex is not with you in present. And live in present
0:35 but I am pure single and still now I have no relationship.😂😂😂
Very well told... But i stopped sharing my issues as it will gets into extra marital relationship... People try to take my benefit... Wife ko to koi farak nahi padega... Wo to kid leke chain se rahegi...
I think i am narcissist person. Thankfully she left me for good.
Yeah I am happy for that girl because people like you break others heart and make their life so worst
@@Aniket.0x0 exactly. What should i do to change myself?
@@ChiefOfCrop bro now just chill now next time be mature and if someone love you so love her if she don't love you then don't love her
Love is expensive people like me put time and do etc so next time love that person if they love you
@@Aniket.0x0 we broke coz i was not able to talk with her on daily basis but i never stopped her loving. I'm a middle class boy required to work for college fees. Long distance relationship
I was in this kind toxic relationship that you mentioned here,,but I can't move on my journey,my exam is near but I am in depression I can't focus on study 😞😔,what should I do now ?how can I overcome this situation?
Why does it feel like am living this.
randomly I dont know but I guess god kept this video in the suggestions and i felt like she is talking about me..I recently broke up and I am like a butterfly who just came out of the net..
I am also suffering from toxic relationship
narcissist really hurts😢😢❤❤
I am in a relationship where i feel too much toxiness.. i felt traped in my own love for the person he shows he Loved me so much but i want to leave him but he shows me different faces of himself... Many times he shows me love i am married to this man he is not changing a little bit.. i want to move out from this marriage please god help me give me the power
borderline personality traits are also similar.
Yes I am in toxic relationship
How do you check whether you are narcissist or not?
damn a question i want to ask too, and so a few others
High ego,
non flexibility,
over self importance,
less understanding,
Fake personality
@@fitindia8856 ah thank you so much!!! I will try to observe if I do those
@Exmuslim Sahil😊 thank you for the explanation!!
I want to get rid off the relationship but can't find any solution
Then I am 110% in toxic relationship with my husband
I want to end it because it is making me feel like suffocated from inside but at the same time i don't wanna hurt her.
what should I do? as I know I can't change her basic nature
Am in toxic relationship from past 15 years and still continuing not able to come out
Amazing mam 😢😢
i have no gf still watching this,,,😂😂
I m narcissistic 💔
I have been in a toxic relationship since past 9 month's and he Every time blamed me for everything and this time he gave a stupid reason to break up . I used to bring lunch for him to college which was momos that day and i ate 2 momos from it and he told me he didn't wanted to Share he was just sharing cuz it was my lunch and after i ate the 2 momo he got angry and told me he want me to stay away from him . 🙂
True!
So you suggests that we have to reject them and live them alone?
I think I am in a toxic relationship I am just 18 and I am so attached with him this is my first relationship and I am with him for almost 2 years I don't know what to do I am a neet aspirant and a dropper I want to get rid of this but can't. It spoilt my career. I was a very bright student before getting into this relationship but now I am so bad in my studies as well. I just don't know what to do.
I would suggest all the males out there to stop marrying or getting into relationship it would automatically solve all the problems in your life
@EXTREME no feminist would marry you in the first place. And anyone who is not stupid is a feminist. So good luck
@EXTREME I'm waiting for that trend too, it would be a relief if people like you stopped marrying. So many women would be happy
@@ahemahem7056 these boys really like to think that women are going to love them more than their cats and children atleast they are cute
3rd person comes, when ur present relationship is toxic.......
I'm in a toxic relationship for last 4 months ! She doesn't listen to me at all even if I am correct. According to her she is right & I am wrong all the time. She doubts me everytime that I'm talking to girls but when she talks with other boys she says it's okay. I can't even talk to my friends relatives over the phone because if she finds my phone busy, then she'll creat scene out of it !
I hardly miss her calls but she hangs up or rejects my call regularly !
I want to break up but my emotions are not allowing me to do so !
What to do ?
O my god ये तो मेरी कहानी है
@@abhilash7510 it ended few months ago, she just f*cked my mental health
bro meri bhi same story hai....kya kya socha tha uske saath but kya ho gaya. I want to end this pain but couldn't due to my love for her.
Shi bat hai I can't adjust
Ha mem Shai he aap ki baat