He was basically like, “You get pregnant… we abort the baby and I’m out.” while she was being delusional with the idea of it could bring them closer. He wants no attachments.
@@NoRockinMansLand oh am a woman and while I didn't get to do that with the guy I fell for, I guarantee it is real thing. You feel great, his just your friend but everyone can see the "extra" to THAT friend!!!
Whenever me and my girlfriend have a rough patch, and we feel the passion fade away, we get a couple abortions and we're right back where we're supposed to be.
She’s not wrong. I’ve heard of circumstances where it put the 2 parties in a position where they have genuinely contemplated going ahead with the child and decided to try out being a committed couple as a result. She highlighted a possibility that has become reality for some people. Nothing weird about what she said
@@FaithsStardust an abortion is not a closer- bound thing... It not!!! This is why some men and women are gaining in their arguments of abortions being a contreception method.. This maddening shit is one of the reasons the dating market is so f* up! Hell the shame of the Mellinials and younger generations!!!! Geesh! Scary!!!!
@@mst-pierrem5729 Never said it was a good thing, I just don’t think she was wrong in highlighting that almost/loosing a child could bring people closer together. Not saying it’s good, but i’m sure it’s a reality for some 🤷♀️ I interpreted her response as her speaking generally, as in she wasn’t being specific to their scenario. It seems other comments have interpreted her comment as her secretly wanting them to become closer if she aborts the baby.
I agree but I feel like they would probably never have it without this setting, so maybe it's actually for the better in the long run for them despite the cringe.
@@ConsciousYouthInitiative this is one of the most ridiculous statements I've seen from the pro killing baby side of things like yourself... You personally are technically just a bundle of cells so does that mean it's okay to abort you from life ... Women don't give birth to lamp shades or to airplanes or to elephants... They give birth to humans,every single time it's a human, we call that offspring and they choose to kill it ... And it's not losing a child it's actively going to kill a child there's a big difference between I think it would bring us closer if we decided to commit a murder together versus an actual loss of a child that was inadvertent circumstance of a tragic moment or potential health catastrophe... You people that actively pursue delusion versus reality when it comes to killing small babies really are disgusting
@@MyRoosterWisdom bro come on. I spent all that time typing it out like that and even put quotes around it only for dummies like you to still not see it’s sarcasm. Do better.
She's asking all the questions that women ask when they find out their spouse or boyfriend cheated.. boo boo, you clearly feel like this is a relationship, so either set your terms that you want something -or- love yourself enough to move on to somebody who will
@xraf32 She might be getting laid, but it's not what she wants. As a man in a similar situation, you get material for the spank bank so don't complain like a little bitch, stay in your lane and aim for what you can achieve.
@xraf32[He can be upgraded with the label incel or ghey!😂 But srsly, Hollywood and Disney especially romanticized the belief of soulmates and the one-true-love business, why(?) bc it's business! Spending💰to impress♀️is the game! Some people can grow comfortably into relationships, and maybe working towards a higher pay-range can open up avenues to higher SMV♀️, but shooting for low-maintenance and down-to-earth to work together at happiness is more realistic! *IF,* you don't pay attention to objective reality of the divorce-rates and general promiscuity!✌🏼💊]
@@chaoswitch1974 The producers of the show write the cards and lay them out for the couple and they lay juicy questions out depending on how much they know about the contestants.
Most women get infatuated with sex and drama 🙄😒 all she is doing is ruining her ability to pair bond ( microchemerism ) she is going to be the type of women that goes for bad boys and players and a normal healthy relationship with a average guy will bored her. She will never admit that she's attra to toxic traits in men, women are notoriously known not to take accountability for their poor choices
@@kuja5809 bro this shit is toxic. Just because a girl is with a guy does mot mean it’s a player. And the “nice normal guy” she probably isn’t attracted to them and they are still there simping and that shit makes it more unattractive. You don’t need to be a player. Just respect yourself and don’t get too caught up on one girl if your not in a relationship. Don’t simp for one. And they get bored when the guy does not respect himself and is available and trys to hang out even after she flakes and things like that
She's with a white dude, she doesn't care. I've seen so many of them do this here and in South East Asia. They have difficulties thinking for themselves.
My bf and I started out thinking we'd be FWB, but we discussed all this shit day one, and when I realized I was in love I told him right away. Comunication is everything.
Women tend to over value or under value themsleves so much. When they undervalue themselves they find someone they like a cling to them so much hoping for reciprocation of feelings, then they are willing to do crazy shit just to keep them close like an abortion. Women who over value themselves are usually the type to see themselves as above everyone and they want a guy that can match this inflated sense of self who comes running at ever beck and whim, a guy who is attractive but sees her as a goddess even if she is average looking.
Girl. Please save yourself some dignity. If he was into you he would’ve committed. He WILL commit to the woman he wants to. And that’s not you. So don’t be a placeholder.
not necessarily. People can be into each other while still not wanting to have a committed relationship, sometimes you just need to be single and some people don't feel like being in monogamous relationships at all! What's wrong in this equation is the fact that they don't even slightly share the same goals with what ever they are doing. he wants to enjoy life, with her and others and she seems to have a set idea on him as a boyfriend.
Bruh he literally said if she got pregnant and aborted, he wouldn’t be down for a round 2 and she followed that up with ‘yea but this experience could help us get closer’....in how many ways does he have to say he doesn’t think of her like that😭
in that moment sis became an advocate for trauma bonding- since any bond will do at this point... The get out sequel now stars her as the lead. Runn sis; runnnnnn
Right it’s like if he gets married to another woman she’s gonna feel like she was just used as a fuck toy😭 even tho that’s not true they both used each other for sex
Why does he sleep with her, if he knows it means much more to her than him? I mean: she's stupid to hope after getting soooo many sign of the "I'm not interested", but he for sure got the "I'm so into you" signs from her. At that point he should havs been the one to not even start anything. But he just doesn't care about her AT ALL. My guess they .aren't even friends. It's just the benefits on his part.
@@moons4363 why u sneak dissing him like that though ,i doubt you got the looks to be disrespecting this random stranger like that , fair play if u not attracted to the guy but don't make it seem like he's ugly cuz he deff not
And this is exactly why, feminists, discussions about ABORTION must be had. It’s ok whether you’re for or against it, but we can’t operate under this rhetoric that we can’t have a discussion including men, and that like men get 0 choice and women can do whatever they want. Yes the baby comes from their body but when people have free reign to be this flippant and non chalant about something, it’s not a good thing at all.
Just my guess but : She may be afraid of commitment and at the same time uncomfortable with the concept of poly. She definitely should work on fixing the issues that are making her unable to commit/trust instead of staying in this twisted relationship that's only going to worsen things.
I think it's how he dangles the prospect of a relationship in front of her eyes and snatches it when she reaches her hand that's enthralling to her, make no mistake she's definitely more into him than he is into her, and she is hanging around, showing him she's a cool girl who is cool with being a FB because she's a liberated cool city girl, she is easy going with him and laughs at every little gesture he does, she's clearly trying to present as the ideal girlfriend but he's fine with the way things are. She'll get hurt, mustache it isn't worth it.
What’s really fucked up is that people forget the main part of the phrase: FRIENDS with benefits. If you can’t see them as friends and be able to be honest with them, then you aren’t FWBs, you are honest to god fuck buds. That’s it.
And I just wanted to add, I’m speaking from a place of actually have a current friends with benefits. We went out, it didn’t work but we still liked being around each other. And now we have more of an intimate friendship. We call and check on each other, help each other with money, hang out and watch movies, literally all the things friends are known to do. And we have sex and actively take steps to protect each other if we do go “elsewhere”. This is just fucking messy
@John Langley we grown bro lmao, as long as we being responsible to ourselves and each other, it really is none of my business after us communicating about it
@Vienna Sausage nah fwbs vs fuck buddy is the same difference as renting a hotel room vs getting an apartment. Fuck buddies prioritize sex over friendship while fwbs is the opposite
Honestly, their FWB relationship started going downhill as soon as she caught feelings and didn't say shit..... Also, the look she gave when he said he hooked up with someone else gives "I'm about to kill a bitch" vibes 😂
Aba saying stop embodied my emotions right there. "Abortion could make us closer" is some new stuff I've never heard before. Edit: Homegirl needs a backbone.
it has helped by realizing if you're irresponsible enough to accidentally get pregnant, then you would be irresponsible enough to leave that little mutha fka "AcCiDeNtAlLy" in a car, on the hottest part of the day, I rest my case.
I can't believe people really thought he was into her. She's clearly 3rd or 4th on his list. Dude was even like "i couldn't fall head over heels in love with you". She needs to bail and stop wasting her time.
Preach is an extrovert that has been forced to be an introvert. Aba is an introvert that youtube has made a extrovert. Thank you guys. You aim for truth.
Been single close to two years, 5 mins in, It’s reinforced the fact I either just happy to be alone or the dating scene is a complete shambles. The fact that she says “it could bring us closer together”, when this topic kills so many couples. She’s willing to completely disregard her morals and it shows how woefully unaware and in denial this girl is… and he’s hooking up still and you’re not, come on fam!?
She probably an Asian girl rebelling against strict parents by living in the big city and having FWB with a white guy. It's gonna be years before she starts considering morals or anything approaching traditionalism
[Umm, nobody's looking at the body language? Not a shrink or even amateur psychologist, but either he's loaded and/or she's trying to pull away to force his more aggressive response! I'd warn him from fwb in this case, she's almost certain to baby-trap his butt when she decides either he has to commit (weds,) or she wants her own bundle of joy like all her friends have or family pressure or her own ticking biological clock!✌🏼💊]
Double strategy, play the fun game, and after goes serious (i don't play games anymore), you get the cake and got to eat too, but if you were not serious from the beginning, who will believe you later?
What gives it away he doesn't feel her that way is the not putting her first or even second for plans. Whenever a guy wants to hang out he will make time for a woman he's feeling
Yup, that goes for men and women both. It’s just how people are you know? If you had the choice to go to Disneyland or to the Post Office to run an errand for free, which would you choose? Everyone would choose Disneyland. & so if a person doesn’t hit you back and triple books/flakes, then you obviously ain’t the “Disneyland”... it’s sad. I’ve been through this a couple times. It really sucks. It’s totally messed up. Instead, he’s holding onto her as something to do when he’s got nothing else to do, while consistently hooking up and developing feelings (at least for her); and he’s treating her like an inconvenience... I’d say it’d be a much better choice for him (and people LIKE HIM) to just go on a few dates and stop seeing them altogether... it almost seems like she’s a chore and the only thing that’s happening is that he’s enabling her to her own demise... because he’s selfish and can’t go without a Plan C for the night... Yikes. Sorry haha I’m rambling but I just know how bad this hurt. I hope she finds someone who likes her. Heck, if she wants she can hit me up! Lol. He really doesn’t know what he’s losing.
@@ItsSamStone This pattern is more common with women, to get free food from men who believe they have a chance. He is playing the game women played long time, friendzone is a codename for: i know what you want, but i will keep you along because is useful to me. Now people are surprised a few men can play the same way.
I get the feeling that if he finds someone else to be fwb with this chick might go into complete depression especially after “an abortion would bring us close together “ like what woman says that? 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
An abortion brought two couples I know closer. They went through a difficult time together and were there for each other. It's sick to think about that ahead of time though. Idk wtf that was about. Couples fell apart due to abortions too
She's delusional from love, she likes him so much that she sees anything as potential factors/situations that could make them get together. She want him so bad when he doesn't even want her all that much yet he's still telling her whatever she wanna hear 💀💀 (Don't worry tho I don't think she's gonna go through a depression if that ever happens, I mean maybe but hey she's probably gonna make it !)
@황의건 lol. I was referring to the girl in the video, not myself.. I've been married 12 years to someone who adores me and that I adore..knock on wood - lol
This has got to be the most immature "friends with benefits but I totally don't have any feelings whatsoever, like unless you do." It's any wonder why people are emotionally scarred from stuff like this.
Not always. Ive had friends w benefits that were significantly older than me and had more money. With that, i never saw a future with them and contrastly they didnt see a future with me. But sex worked and it worked for years with 1.
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@@eileennwachukwu7620 I’m just not built for it 🤷🏽♀️
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@@critiquemytechnique1135 exceptions to the rule don’t negate the rule. From what I’ve seen, it rarely works out amicably
Friends with benefits almost always either ends with one side catching feelings that the other doesn't reciprocate or they both catch feeling which is more rare.
It's not losing it, you don't chose to lose things. You don't chose to lose your car keys, wallet, or charger. Killing a baby breaks a lot of marriages, yes.
@@MidnightSnackx damn... pro life huh. I was trying to cover miscarriages when I used the word lose. An abortion is always a hard decision, no one wants to do it. It's like euthanasia, you can call it killing your dog or dad but at the end of it, you did lose your dog/dad. Well sure killing a fetus is technically right but hey we breed, factory farm, and eat mammals that can experience suffering that is way way more than any fetus can. I looked into when brains can start to start to experience pain on a physiological level and I do agree that late-term abortions can be called "killing the baby", that is like 1% of all abortions and that just means we should make it cheaper, easier to abort the fetus before it becomes cruel to abort. So no, it's not killing, and it's not a baby, that is the wrong way to conceptualize it. Abortion should never become an alternative to conception but a zygote is not that different from a sperm cell imo, so unless I'm committing mass murder when I fap, I think it's ok. But hey, maybe I am wrong, maybe there is a god, and every time a zygote is formed, god puts a human soul into it. If that is the case... god save us all cause we are killing 56 million innocent infants every year for reasons like career, finances, and unsure of how good of a dad the father will be.
@@AdityaPrasad007 They used lose in the context of an abortion, and I love how you missed that part. I'm...not gonna sit here and write an essay about how x, y, and z are incorrect, I'm just gonna say that it's misrepresentation to lump miscarriages and abortion in the same came, misrepresentation to the point of, one could even suggest, deceit. I'll just conclude with a Reagan quote: "The common trait amongst those that support abortion is they weren't aborted."
They sound like they are still in high school. Why are maturity and responsibility drastically decreasing nowadays. Some people need to mentally grow up.
I see this more and more with adults I interact with on a daily basis. Grown ass adults stuck in the high school mindset getting out in the real world and maturing at a snail's pace. Yet they're legally old enough to use their vote to change the country. It's scary stuff man.
@@xXRazorbacksXx I agree with almost all of what you said, except that last part. Don't worry about votes. When countless votes are cast by corpses, You know the entire show is BS. Don't take that the wrong way, I'm not politically inclined in any direction - I believe red vs blue is a manipulation of the minds of the masses. When states can settle tied elections with a coin toss... You know the entire show is BS (yes, that has actually happened, and is legally still in effect, last I checked). You know when polling machines are about 2-3 decades-out expired tech, yet still being used... THAT THE SHOW IS BS. Voting isn't real. Political parties aren't real. Its a SHOW... Don't worry about the votes of these two /fuck buddies/. :)
I grew up socially underdeveloped because of severe anxiety and general lack of social awareness but at least this generation is slowing down so i can catch up :)
@@xXRazorbacksXx ok but I don't like it when people are trying to force me to vote when I have no idea what I am voting for I'm 22 and I chose to not vote but I get threatened all to hell for not voting it's an endless cycle of confusion
Can’t wait for the “where are they now” web series that follows up on these cringefests in 5-10 years so we can all watch these people facepalm at the memory that they ACTUALLY & SERIOUSLY SAID THESE THINGS. There will be so. many. regrets for having these conversations immortalized on the internet.
He is giving mixed signals though. He said “maybe, possibly yes” to the first questions but his actions say otherwise. It’s sad she doesn’t know her worth and wait to find someone who will make her his plan A.
Honestly when you showed the comments of people thinking he's actually into her I was kinda surprised. I'm a 21 year old virgin and even I could tell that she's into him more than she wants to admit, and he's just leading her on and testing his options. That relationship is doomed from the start.
Yeah but I bet if she wanted *YOU,* you'd have notta damn clue! That's why you still a virgin imma bet you! I know homie got game, you're just cursed like the rest of us guys to *never* know when a woman is coming on to you. Her: "Come up in my room and fu*k me, I'm so horny. Like for real, I think you're hot. Any Guy: "HAHA! Oh my God you're a riot!" Her: Whatever, I'll be in my room then so.... Gonna be naked... Guy: *45 mins later* I've been here for a while, and she's still not done changing.. I guess I'll send her a text on my way out, I've gotta work tomorrow..... HA! She already text me! "srsly wtf get in here n fork meeee!" oh my God she's hilarious! I hope she invites me to hang out again! Man... I wish she seriously did want to fu*k tho... That girl is fiiiiiiine! ... She'd never be into me though. Oh well... At least we're friends. Sorry, just came to my mind when you said 21 year old virgin, and even you knew. You know when it's anyone else, but never yourself... Haha. I'm not sure if you care or not that you're a virgin (don't give me an answer to that, not my business). If you are bothered by it, I can assure you it'll happen in the blink of an eye, and then you'll be spending all of your time with the punanna, on the punanna, or in pursuit of the punanna. Enjoy your freedom while it lasts. Take care brother. Do lots of dumb shit with your bros while they aren't in committed relationships and don't have kids. In about 8 years tops those friends won't exist anymore basically. Yes I'm 29 before you ask lol.
She didn't say "losing a baby" might bring them together she said MURDERING A BABY would bring them together. Murder brings people together in strange ways.
hmm i’ll think about killing it. idk probably. it’s actually gross lol. what a right to have and this is supposed to represent empowerment and feminism. killing babies represents feminism everyone.
Eh you know "pro choicers" worked really hard, and I mean really hard, to indoctrinate to their followers that abortions are "simple medical procedures" like "any other small procedure" so now they sound super dumb and get defensive when called out.
@Rusty Howe that is your choice, I do not know why they are so angry about, whats the point of fighting so hard for a choice when they are not going to respect peoples choices?
@Rusty Howe who has told you to get an abortion? When people announce they are pregnant I congratulate them on being a parent I don't tell them to abort wtf???
We live in an age of anything goes and no accountability. Parents need to teach their children Character and Integrity instead of waiting on the schools to do it....because the schools won't.
@@matthewharris8819 what an absolute shitty excuse to MURDER an innocent HUMAN BEING that has no to blame about you are being dumb enough to not even use a condom properly
It's not "losing" a child. That would be terminating a child. Let's get our terms right. And if terminating a child brings you closer, you might want to examine your humanity.
@@ayomidetejuoso3455 a fetus is a human being in one of their early stages in life. No difference as an elderly person is a human being in an elderly stage of life. I don't feel bad for women. They're adults.
Unless the parties involve are heavily, and I do mean HEAVILY Anti child or no child no way abortion could ever bring two people closer together. Either the father or the mother is gonna feel guilt about killing off their own child and then before they know it the guilt would of eaten away at them and will cause problems within the relationship if it hadn't already imploded on itself already.
Any normal person feels guilt and shame about killing a baby. To be that anti-child is to be anti-human, which is sociopathy. Abortions aren’t the same as any other routine medical procedure, but people like to make it seem like one.
Some relationships have straight up ended bc of abortion one way or another. This is worse than when some people are having major issues in their relationship and say "You know what let's bring a child into this world so it can fix our problems". Insanity...Just when I thought I've heard it all wtfff
You letting a girl with a half-ass makeup and a weird looking face, treat you like a boyfriend when you have made it clear your not interested? Love yourself, sweetie! 💜
For me, it is strange to see how people normalize abortion without analyzing the emotional aspect of killing or eliminating your child, also the way the couple in the video handles their relationship, seems to me very irresponsible and naive.
yeah, it's even weirder that she acknowledges it would be emotional/traumatic(hence, why it would "bring them close together") It's like she's pre-planning a traumatic event to rope him into a relationship, at the cost of their kid. Damn.
@@TheLivingPizza4 I really want to believe you are trolling. The thought that there's more than just a couple people in our entire country that not only think like this but believe they are firmly on the moral High Ground is baffling.
I'm surprised no one has made a comment on the dude's "moustache" yet. On top of the sadness that is this girl being into him and he not into her and everything we also have to look at those rat whiskers? Hotdamn
[To be fair, maybe he's young and not capable of growing a more manly set of face-whiskers as yet! But he prolly looks younger than what he wants others to see him as! Kinda in the same boat; for Halloween it's super-easy to pass for✂️asian! And almost to the exact meme: without my beard, I seem like a schoolboy in my face!✌🏼😂]
In the beginning I got the feeling he was more into her based on how they answered the questions, but when she started asking questions not on the card I was like "ohhh he's just playing the game"
@@haraldisdead Hm wouldn't avoiding the question that might point out an instance where it would be reasonable to ask who someone had sex with without being in an exclusive relationship be special pleading on your end? 🤔 And technically every connection you have is a different sort of relationship, so to clarify: do you mean exclusive/committed relationships? Edit: Nevermind, I looked into some examples of special pleading, and it doesn't apply to anything here. There would have to be a rule that someone is using an irrational excuse to try to be exempt. Asking who someone had sex with to avoid getting STDs isn't an example of that. It's a perfectly reasonable question even if you're not in a committed relationship.
This is one of the problems a lot of people face when it comes to dating. You think that just because you’re not getting what you want staying with em through any type of relationship can just magically open the door. It usually don’t. Short term satisfaction leads to long term issues. If I knew shorty personally I would tell her to be honest with what she wants and if she can’t have it let it go. It’ll suck but that short term hurt is better than get you guts rearranged by a nigga you got unreciprocated feelings for and actively associate with.
And then when they're getting what they need in a marriage they leave because there are no tingles. I'll never understand how women leave so prematurely when they don't feel the spark but they'll stay with toxic and try to make it work
When you are watching and listening to the awesomeness that is Aba and Preach and then you get distracted by Preach pushing his bresticles together lol.... Though the whole friends with benefits thing rarely works, One of the parties normally develops feelings that the other can not or will not reciprocate, this is turn causes stress and tension between them and ends badly.
A family doesn't always make you closer. Many times a family is what breaks you apparent as it doesn't go as planned. One wanted that family the other didn't.
I mean from what I know abortion usually destroys relationships…. Especially if one of the people in the relationship wasn’t completely onboard with the idea. The amount of girls that I know who have been coerced into them by their boyfriends is actually really fucking sad.
So is the amount of women that have had abortions without consulting the man on if he wants his child killed. I get it the child grows in the woman but a child is half genetic material of each parent. When I rent a storage Locker and store things in it that doesn't make the things belong to U-Haul or whatever storage place.
@@jimjangles8345 true, I’m a girl so I’ve only mostly heard of other girls being coerced into abortions by men or parents but I’m sure there’s many men out there that didn’t have a say on their child’s life. It’s fucked up.
Me and my husband started like this. He caught feeling first. Then a few months later I got pregnant. I wasn't gonna get one. But i told him because it wasnt part of the plan , he could bounce and I would take care of it myself. After a few weeks he said " let's do this". We've been together 24 years and married 22 July 03. We have a great marriage. People always tell us we give them hope for real love for themselves.
[On the plus side, s*x dolls and bots will be commonplace in the very near future! Hopefully also man-made wombs, so socializing won't even be necessary, period!🤖💊]
@Dick Izzinya It definitely did the internet just makes everything more visible now. Kinda like how older people think crime is the worst its ever been bc its always reported somewhere even though violent crimes have on a steady decline since the 90 s
I've been the messy person in a friends with benefits relationship before, and I've also been the person who liked the other person more than they like them before. Neither is fun. I would not recommend
@@milkcookies2008 I mean it sounds like they would both want to go the abortion route. Just that the guy would want the relationship to end afterwards while the girl would want it to continue... might as well end it now
@@aisherwasher6959 tru it created a clean escape form the toxic relationship. But if he going to be doing to women on the regular than he needs a vasectomy.
Aba and Preach sooooo much respect for the level of importance and weight you bring to these important conversations and life experiences that are often handled with less concern than a late night fast food order.
@@Koozomec bro what 😂😂. Its ok to get pum pum but don’t say its the perfect strat. Game is not just going around and hurting woman. We all go through a stage but there comes a time where you need to grow up
Nobody should ever be in a friends with benefits relationship... you are NOT someone's friend when you are capable of having "casual" sex with someone you like, because there is no such thing as casual sex. It always affects at least 1 person negatively.
Except abortion is not "killing a child" it is terminating a pregnancy. A fetus is not a baby until it forms into one not more than an egg is a baby chick until it forms into one. There is a process. You terminate the process, there is no chick. You make scabbled eggs instead.
I'm assuming this 100%.. but I think in her head it was meant like how other things that might be bad bring people together. Like commiting a crime with someone, being in a hostage situation brings the hostages together, or like being in an awkward social interaction might bring people together. But she is blinded by the feelings she can't admit to having.
Yup. And if you don't want to procreate and have someone else make decisions for your offspring, use birth control until you're ready to have kids. Applies to both sexes.
@@greent16 The thing is birth control and condoms aren’t as much a guarantee as people think. I’d say don’t have sex with someone you aren’t willing to raise kids with (or take responsibility for their wellbeing in general, tbh), but at least people shouldn’t be trying to reinvent the wheel with each individual relationship like they’re doing something unique. Edit: fixed autocorrect error
@@brittybee6615 I agree. People want to have it both ways. Casual sex with whoever and no consequences. Then they have a snit if the other person wants to keep or lose the pregnancy.
Anyone that's been in his shoes knows exactly what's going on. He was dirty for how he talked about the possibility of the relationship. That was all, "I know this is what you want to hear, let me string you on a little. Cause I already told you this isn't going any further..."
How has abortion improved your relationships?
It hasn't. Never had one though but our 7-month-old coming into our lives has improved it.
The cost, despair of the situation and realization that I as man have no reproductive rights brought us together ❤
What is relationship
We don't speak to each other anymore.
Today is my 21st birthday 🍻😭
He was basically like, “You get pregnant… we abort the baby and I’m out.” while she was being delusional with the idea of it could bring them closer. He wants no attachments.
And she's in that phase where she doesn't want to admit to herself she's falling for him... Ah, damn brings back painful memories!!!
@@mst-pierrem5729 damn son
@@NoRockinMansLand oh am a woman and while I didn't get to do that with the guy I fell for, I guarantee it is real thing. You feel great, his just your friend but everyone can see the "extra" to THAT friend!!!
I don’t think he has attachments at all
As long as he is transparent about it that's ok. I know guys lead on woman by feigning emotional attachment just as woman do.
Whenever me and my girlfriend have a rough patch, and we feel the passion fade away, we get a couple abortions and we're right back where we're supposed to be.
Lol...fucked up joke man.
I laughed so hard
Oh my god. So funny dude. Bars!
LMAO nothing brings two folks together like a good ol fashioned abortion
Damn
“Maybe losing a baby could make us closer.”
Me: “that’s enough internet for today.”
🚪🚶🏻♀️
Yup
She’s not wrong. I’ve heard of circumstances where it put the 2 parties in a position where they have genuinely contemplated going ahead with the child and decided to try out being a committed couple as a result.
She highlighted a possibility that has become reality for some people. Nothing weird about what she said
@@FaithsStardust an abortion is not a closer- bound thing... It not!!! This is why some men and women are gaining in their arguments of abortions being a contreception method.. This maddening shit is one of the reasons the dating market is so f* up! Hell the shame of the Mellinials and younger generations!!!! Geesh! Scary!!!!
@@mst-pierrem5729 Never said it was a good thing, I just don’t think she was wrong in highlighting that almost/loosing a child could bring people closer together. Not saying it’s good, but i’m sure it’s a reality for some 🤷♀️
I interpreted her response as her speaking generally, as in she wasn’t being specific to their scenario. It seems other comments have interpreted her comment as her secretly wanting them to become closer if she aborts the baby.
Gotta check if I'm still in the Matrix.... Woah!
Says she’s afraid of commitment … & commits here body and feelings to this guy
thats what im saying🤦♀️
Lmao
She’s afraid to have an actual conversation with him because she knows he doesn’t feel the same deep down.
Deluuuujunal
She wants that white guy western dream. Its sickening. Screw her, bet she doesnt have many minority friends.
This isn't a convo they should be having for the first time in front of random people
Yeah, but that's exactly the sort of thing those knock off Buzzfeed channels like to do.
@@analyticalchick3064 true and I guess everyone wants to be famous so they willingly submit to these places
I agree but I feel like they would probably never have it without this setting, so maybe it's actually for the better in the long run for them despite the cringe.
Who gives a shit, if they wanna make fools of themselves I'll welcome the entertainment.
She's right, losing a baby would bring them closer. Closer to a mental, physical, emotional and mental drain/breakdown
“iT’s nOt LOsInG A bABY, iT’s jUsT A bUNdLe oF cELlS”
They are sick
@@ConsciousYouthInitiative this is one of the most ridiculous statements I've seen from the pro killing baby side of things like yourself...
You personally are technically just a bundle of cells so does that mean it's okay to abort you from life ...
Women don't give birth to lamp shades or to airplanes or to elephants...
They give birth to humans,every single time it's a human, we call that offspring and they choose to kill it ...
And it's not losing a child it's actively going to kill a child there's a big difference between I think it would bring us closer if we decided to commit a murder together versus an actual loss of a child that was inadvertent circumstance of a tragic moment or potential health catastrophe...
You people that actively pursue delusion versus reality when it comes to killing small babies really are disgusting
@@MyRoosterWisdom bro come on. I spent all that time typing it out like that and even put quotes around it only for dummies like you to still not see it’s sarcasm. Do better.
@@ConsciousYouthInitiative some people man
If you’re plan C, you’re the friend and he has all the benefits.
Home girl is sickly in love 😂😂💀
Lmfao
I was so confused when you said plan C than 8:17 she said he _triple_ booked himself when making plans with her.
So sad people put themselves through relationships like this…
@Cookie Food Not just America
Not sad but happy these stupids don’t deserve sympathy
Desperate for human intimacy, but also scared of real intimacy & any kind of commitment. It's really tragic. I just feel bad for them.
Jordan Peterson
"If you can't talk about it (sexual relations), then it's too premature in the relationship to engage in that behavior."
Yep.
Amen to that
JP is always the MVP.
@Growing Fluent that was perfect
@Growing Fluent Literally read it in J.P voice. Perfect
She's asking all the questions that women ask when they find out their spouse or boyfriend cheated.. boo boo, you clearly feel like this is a relationship, so either set your terms that you want something -or- love yourself enough to move on to somebody who will
And it’s really that simple so many people stay in these “situationships” hoping that they blossom into something better when they very rarely do
@xraf32 She might be getting laid, but it's not what she wants. As a man in a similar situation, you get material for the spank bank so don't complain like a little bitch, stay in your lane and aim for what you can achieve.
@xraf32[He can be upgraded with the label incel or ghey!😂 But srsly, Hollywood and Disney especially romanticized the belief of soulmates and the one-true-love business, why(?) bc it's business! Spending💰to impress♀️is the game!
Some people can grow comfortably into relationships, and maybe working towards a higher pay-range can open up avenues to higher SMV♀️, but shooting for low-maintenance and down-to-earth to work together at happiness is more realistic! *IF,* you don't pay attention to objective reality of the divorce-rates and general promiscuity!✌🏼💊]
Yeah but I'm unclear about the premise of this show. Did they write the questions, or are they given to them and random?
@@chaoswitch1974 The producers of the show write the cards and lay them out for the couple and they lay juicy questions out depending on how much they know about the contestants.
There’s no emotional connection from the guy to her so she’s romanticising a trauma bond lol
This should be #1 comment.
Most women get infatuated with sex and drama 🙄😒 all she is doing is ruining her ability to pair bond ( microchemerism ) she is going to be the type of women that goes for bad boys and players and a normal healthy relationship with a average guy will bored her. She will never admit that she's attra to toxic traits in men, women are notoriously known not to take accountability for their poor choices
@@kuja5809 bro this shit is toxic. Just because a girl is with a guy does mot mean it’s a player. And the “nice normal guy” she probably isn’t attracted to them and they are still there simping and that shit makes it more unattractive. You don’t need to be a player. Just respect yourself and don’t get too caught up on one girl if your not in a relationship. Don’t simp for one. And they get bored when the guy does not respect himself and is available and trys to hang out even after she flakes and things like that
@@kuja5809 the concept of microchemerism has been manipulated to pseudoscientific territory to anathemize casual sex
@@kuja5809 wow you got all that from this one video?
She doesn't know her value. Ladies never agree to a situation like this. It will never end well.
💯
She's with a white dude, she doesn't care. I've seen so many of them do this here and in South East Asia. They have difficulties thinking for themselves.
My bf and I started out thinking we'd be FWB, but we discussed all this shit day one, and when I realized I was in love I told him right away. Comunication is everything.
Women tend to over value or under value themsleves so much. When they undervalue themselves they find someone they like a cling to them so much hoping for reciprocation of feelings, then they are willing to do crazy shit just to keep them close like an abortion. Women who over value themselves are usually the type to see themselves as above everyone and they want a guy that can match this inflated sense of self who comes running at ever beck and whim, a guy who is attractive but sees her as a goddess even if she is average looking.
What a lazy ass assumption to make.
Girl. Please save yourself some dignity. If he was into you he would’ve committed. He WILL commit to the woman he wants to. And that’s not you. So don’t be a placeholder.
Yupp and it's just gonna hurt when you realize that's all you were. I did that but only for a couple months before I figured it out. Never again
"nah he just shy"
not necessarily. People can be into each other while still not wanting to have a committed relationship, sometimes you just need to be single and some people don't feel like being in monogamous relationships at all! What's wrong in this equation is the fact that they don't even slightly share the same goals with what ever they are doing. he wants to enjoy life, with her and others and she seems to have a set idea on him as a boyfriend.
@@speedude0164 LOOOOOL
Why do you associate sex with "dignity "?
“Well make the rules right now”. The producers are always on demon times man. But aye, anything for content.😈
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Lol
I love it
Yup can’t blame em they gotta get them views however they get em
Ik and I respect the shameless villainy
“Why can’t I be your significant other?”
THAT DAMN MOOSTACHE DUDE!!!
😂
wtf do you mean I need a stache like that
I kept thinking something was on my screen
@@yoshi_1803 - no
😂😂😂
I screamed when she asked, “When will I meet your parents?” 😂😂😂
For real. Why?!
😂😂😂
Bruh he literally said if she got pregnant and aborted, he wouldn’t be down for a round 2 and she followed that up with ‘yea but this experience could help us get closer’....in how many ways does he have to say he doesn’t think of her like that😭
in that moment sis became an advocate for trauma bonding- since any bond will do at this point... The get out sequel now stars her as the lead. Runn sis; runnnnnn
✌ On both of them, and I'm only 3 minutes in.
Right it’s like if he gets married to another woman she’s gonna feel like she was just used as a fuck toy😭 even tho that’s not true they both used each other for sex
Why does he sleep with her, if he knows it means much more to her than him? I mean: she's stupid to hope after getting soooo many sign of the "I'm not interested", but he for sure got the "I'm so into you" signs from her. At that point he should havs been the one to not even start anything. But he just doesn't care about her AT ALL. My guess they .aren't even friends. It's just the benefits on his part.
@@richardkovacs2006 cuz the pussy good bro
I feel so bad for this girl throwing her youth years away for THAT MUSTACHE
But she also would look better with some self worth on her
Exactly. A man that looks like that can't be playing me 😂😂 should of been the opposite. She can do so much better than that mustache guy 👨
@@moons4363 Ey… Don’t harass mustache man, his mustache got him the girl.
@@adunce.5422 😂😂😂😂
This is what modern women call sexual empowerment lol
@@moons4363 why u sneak dissing him like that though ,i doubt you got the looks to be disrespecting this random stranger like that , fair play if u not attracted to the guy but don't make it seem like he's ugly cuz he deff not
The lack of accountability in their rhetoric and delusion is unreal. "We might grow closer" L.O.L. okay buddy.
He'll probably comfort her until she doesn't have it then he is going to cut and run
@@wolverineg89 nah he don't seem like the type.
And this is exactly why, feminists, discussions about ABORTION must be had. It’s ok whether you’re for or against it, but we can’t operate under this rhetoric that we can’t have a discussion including men, and that like men get 0 choice and women can do whatever they want. Yes the baby comes from their body but when people have free reign to be this flippant and non chalant about something, it’s not a good thing at all.
This is what it is for woke people, a fake male feminist(misogynist) and a dilusional woman. A normal guy will not be that stupid.
@@wolverineg89 No shit, she's being used and manipulated like a fiddle. She for the streets.
Honestly she doesn’t seem THAT into him, but she is clearly more invested than he is
Just my guess but : She may be afraid of commitment and at the same time uncomfortable with the concept of poly. She definitely should work on fixing the issues that are making her unable to commit/trust instead of staying in this twisted relationship that's only going to worsen things.
I think she's scared to admit just how interested she is because she doesn't want to be rejected.
I think it's how he dangles the prospect of a relationship in front of her eyes and snatches it when she reaches her hand that's enthralling to her, make no mistake she's definitely more into him than he is into her, and she is hanging around, showing him she's a cool girl who is cool with being a FB because she's a liberated cool city girl, she is easy going with him and laughs at every little gesture he does, she's clearly trying to present as the ideal girlfriend but he's fine with the way things are. She'll get hurt, mustache it isn't worth it.
What’s really fucked up is that people forget the main part of the phrase: FRIENDS with benefits. If you can’t see them as friends and be able to be honest with them, then you aren’t FWBs, you are honest to god fuck buds. That’s it.
And I just wanted to add, I’m speaking from a place of actually have a current friends with benefits. We went out, it didn’t work but we still liked being around each other. And now we have more of an intimate friendship. We call and check on each other, help each other with money, hang out and watch movies, literally all the things friends are known to do. And we have sex and actively take steps to protect each other if we do go “elsewhere”. This is just fucking messy
The whole makep doesn't work amyways.
@John Langley we grown bro lmao, as long as we being responsible to ourselves and each other, it really is none of my business after us communicating about it
@Vienna Sausage nah fwbs vs fuck buddy is the same difference as renting a hotel room vs getting an apartment. Fuck buddies prioritize sex over friendship while fwbs is the opposite
I don't think John understands that you can fuck someone and not want a romantic relationship with them.
Y'all better congratulate Aba & Preach on both mother and father's day, cause they're doing your parents work for you. Be grateful!
Best comment 👌 hands down
Lmao sad but true
Maybe they can save some of em out there for us before TH-cam cancels them.
@@workemail6283 They won't. TH-cam makes them money. They wouldn't want to hurt their investment.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🔥🔥🔥🔥
Honestly, their FWB relationship started going downhill as soon as she caught feelings and didn't say shit..... Also, the look she gave when he said he hooked up with someone else gives "I'm about to kill a bitch" vibes 😂
They don't even come of as friends. It comes off like he's just using her and she's pathetic and lying to herself.
Aba saying stop embodied my emotions right there. "Abortion could make us closer" is some new stuff I've never heard before.
Edit:
Homegirl needs a backbone.
@Jakobi Office How can she have a back bone of she's getting her back blown?
it has helped by realizing if you're irresponsible enough to accidentally get pregnant, then you would be irresponsible enough to leave that little mutha fka "AcCiDeNtAlLy" in a car, on the hottest part of the day, I rest my case.
@@GreyGrim its disgusting but true😔
She needs some self-esteem and a therapist.
@@Phantom73949 barsssss 🔥🔥🔥
I can't believe people really thought he was into her. She's clearly 3rd or 4th on his list. Dude was even like "i couldn't fall head over heels in love with you". She needs to bail and stop wasting her time.
Exactly.
hyuck hyuck hyuck
Hyuck Hyuck Hyuck😝🤘🏾
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@StairStation's Football Edits OMG! I was thinking of doing the same thing after "Hyuck" but didn't end up doing it. 😏
hyuck hyuck assemble
*I Hope So*😂
Preach is an extrovert that has been forced to be an introvert. Aba is an introvert that youtube has made a extrovert. Thank you guys. You aim for truth.
Been single close to two years, 5 mins in, It’s reinforced the fact I either just happy to be alone or the dating scene is a complete shambles. The fact that she says “it could bring us closer together”, when this topic kills so many couples. She’s willing to completely disregard her morals and it shows how woefully unaware and in denial this girl is… and he’s hooking up still and you’re not, come on fam!?
She's committed to him but is in denial. Her words say fwb but her overall actions say she's in a one sided relationship
I don't think she is disregarding her morals I don't think she has them to begin with.
Could bring us closer together.....
Yeah she is desperate for him. She wants to be in a relationship so bad.
She probably an Asian girl rebelling against strict parents by living in the big city and having FWB with a white guy. It's gonna be years before she starts considering morals or anything approaching traditionalism
[Umm, nobody's looking at the body language? Not a shrink or even amateur psychologist, but either he's loaded and/or she's trying to pull away to force his more aggressive response!
I'd warn him from fwb in this case, she's almost certain to baby-trap his butt when she decides either he has to commit (weds,) or she wants her own bundle of joy like all her friends have or family pressure or her own ticking biological clock!✌🏼💊]
She wants to get wifed. Why would you even need to get "closer" if you don't want anything long-term? Ain't hooking up as close as you need to be?
Double strategy, play the fun game, and after goes serious (i don't play games anymore), you get the cake and got to eat too, but if you were not serious from the beginning, who will believe you later?
Why would you give vagina away for free if you want to get wifed? Who raised these morons?
She doesn't want to be wifed...party girl just want to hold him down with guilt (baby probably not his)
Aka a pick me
Shes playing the long con.
It’s not “losing a baby”. You don’t make a decision to lose your wallet.
Yea she was stone cold about killing it. Like the baby was nothing more than getting a mole removed or a haircut.
Semantics
@@GoldenBoyDims lol
@@GoldenBoyDims maybe? But aren't the semantics what make us human
Who cares how they worded it? 😂 It's their decision and it sounds like they've made it
"Why can't I be your significant other?" Aba: "Why can't you🥺?"
Had me dead. Lmao
I think she took the laws of equivalent exchange too literal.
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OH NO I LAUGHED TOO HARD AT THIS
Where’s a philosopher stone when you need one.
Awwwwwww~ 🤣
They might as well turn their kid into a talking dog.
What gives it away he doesn't feel her that way is the not putting her first or even second for plans. Whenever a guy wants to hang out he will make time for a woman he's feeling
Yup, that goes for men and women both. It’s just how people are you know? If you had the choice to go to Disneyland or to the Post Office to run an errand for free, which would you choose? Everyone would choose Disneyland. & so if a person doesn’t hit you back and triple books/flakes, then you obviously ain’t the “Disneyland”... it’s sad. I’ve been through this a couple times. It really sucks. It’s totally messed up. Instead, he’s holding onto her as something to do when he’s got nothing else to do, while consistently hooking up and developing feelings (at least for her); and he’s treating her like an inconvenience... I’d say it’d be a much better choice for him (and people LIKE HIM) to just go on a few dates and stop seeing them altogether... it almost seems like she’s a chore and the only thing that’s happening is that he’s enabling her to her own demise... because he’s selfish and can’t go without a Plan C for the night...
Yikes.
Sorry haha I’m rambling but I just know how bad this hurt. I hope she finds someone who likes her. Heck, if she wants she can hit me up! Lol. He really doesn’t know what he’s losing.
Exactly, goes both ways too. If a woman wants to hang out with you she will be there.
@@ItsSamStone This pattern is more common with women, to get free food from men who believe they have a chance. He is playing the game women played long time, friendzone is a codename for: i know what you want, but i will keep you along because is useful to me. Now people are surprised a few men can play the same way.
She made Preach go cross-eyed with that mess.
3:35 Damn, Creaky Floor wasn't having anything of that statement right there, you can clearly hear how pissed he was.
Creaky Floor should do a mixtape 🔥
I get the feeling that if he finds someone else to be fwb with this chick might go into complete depression especially after “an abortion would bring us close together “ like what woman says that? 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
Psychos.
An abortion brought two couples I know closer.
They went through a difficult time together and were there for each other.
It's sick to think about that ahead of time though. Idk wtf that was about. Couples fell apart due to abortions too
It seems girls are skipping Sex ED classes uh.
I think this is why he came on the show with her.
She's delusional from love, she likes him so much that she sees anything as potential factors/situations that could make them get together. She want him so bad when he doesn't even want her all that much yet he's still telling her whatever she wanna hear 💀💀
(Don't worry tho I don't think she's gonna go through a depression if that ever happens, I mean maybe but hey she's probably gonna make it !)
Taking a shot instead of having to face the answer, "because he's just not that into me."
@황의건 lol. I was referring to the girl in the video, not myself.. I've been married 12 years to someone who adores me and that I adore..knock on wood - lol
This has got to be the most immature "friends with benefits but I totally don't have any feelings whatsoever, like unless you do."
It's any wonder why people are emotionally scarred from stuff like this.
Maybe publicly seen but I’ve experienced worse.
They usually aren't.
Overdramatic but ok.
"Y'all not friends with benefits y'all are just messy" - Aba 😂😭🤣😂😭🤣😂😭🤣😂😭🤣 so true
I can’t imagine being friends with benefits. 🤢 Too much room for drama and misunderstandings
It can work if boundaries are formed at the beginning and they keep to them.
@@eileennwachukwu7620 exactly
Not always. Ive had friends w benefits that were significantly older than me and had more money. With that, i never saw a future with them and contrastly they didnt see a future with me. But sex worked and it worked for years with 1.
@@eileennwachukwu7620 I’m just not built for it 🤷🏽♀️
@@critiquemytechnique1135 exceptions to the rule don’t negate the rule. From what I’ve seen, it rarely works out amicably
15 minutes of Aba trying to pretend he's not high af.
You right LOL
Dude is on some alien shit.
Geeked out lolol
Dawg lmaooo
Their eyes are both low lol
Friends with benefits almost always either ends with one side catching feelings that the other doesn't reciprocate or they both catch feeling which is more rare.
This is so sad. She wants a relationship and he’s just adding bones to his closet.
@Mam Shak wasn’t blaming anybody…just pointing out the mismatch.
She's willing to add baby bones to her closet, too
@Mahesh K nah she want him
Losing a baby has broken tons of strong marriages.
It's not losing it, you don't chose to lose things. You don't chose to lose your car keys, wallet, or charger. Killing a baby breaks a lot of marriages, yes.
@@MidnightSnackx choose*
@@MidnightSnackx damn... pro life huh. I was trying to cover miscarriages when I used the word lose. An abortion is always a hard decision, no one wants to do it. It's like euthanasia, you can call it killing your dog or dad but at the end of it, you did lose your dog/dad.
Well sure killing a fetus is technically right but hey we breed, factory farm, and eat mammals that can experience suffering that is way way more than any fetus can.
I looked into when brains can start to start to experience pain on a physiological level and I do agree that late-term abortions can be called "killing the baby", that is like 1% of all abortions and that just means we should make it cheaper, easier to abort the fetus before it becomes cruel to abort.
So no, it's not killing, and it's not a baby, that is the wrong way to conceptualize it. Abortion should never become an alternative to conception but a zygote is not that different from a sperm cell imo, so unless I'm committing mass murder when I fap, I think it's ok.
But hey, maybe I am wrong, maybe there is a god, and every time a zygote is formed, god puts a human soul into it. If that is the case... god save us all cause we are killing 56 million innocent infants every year for reasons like career, finances, and unsure of how good of a dad the father will be.
@@AdityaPrasad007 pretty sure there's woman who had abortions after 5 moths to seven look up Dr Phil. Episode.
@@AdityaPrasad007 They used lose in the context of an abortion, and I love how you missed that part. I'm...not gonna sit here and write an essay about how x, y, and z are incorrect, I'm just gonna say that it's misrepresentation to lump miscarriages and abortion in the same came, misrepresentation to the point of, one could even suggest, deceit. I'll just conclude with a Reagan quote: "The common trait amongst those that support abortion is they weren't aborted."
I’m an adopted child. Glad my parents decided to have me so I’m able to join you all today. 😎
Glad to have you join us, Lynda
Welcome, Lynda.
Hi! Do enjoy your stay!
That said, if your mom (because that's the only opinion that matters) decided not to have you, you wouldn't be sad.
@@akoilngas1215 so the fathers opinion doesn't matter at all? What kind of sht is that.
They sound like they are still in high school. Why are maturity and responsibility drastically decreasing nowadays. Some people need to mentally grow up.
I see this more and more with adults I interact with on a daily basis. Grown ass adults stuck in the high school mindset getting out in the real world and maturing at a snail's pace. Yet they're legally old enough to use their vote to change the country. It's scary stuff man.
@@xXRazorbacksXx
I agree with almost all of what you said, except that last part. Don't worry about votes. When countless votes are cast by corpses, You know the entire show is BS. Don't take that the wrong way, I'm not politically inclined in any direction - I believe red vs blue is a manipulation of the minds of the masses. When states can settle tied elections with a coin toss... You know the entire show is BS (yes, that has actually happened, and is legally still in effect, last I checked). You know when polling machines are about 2-3 decades-out expired tech, yet still being used... THAT THE SHOW IS BS. Voting isn't real. Political parties aren't real. Its a SHOW... Don't worry about the votes of these two /fuck buddies/. :)
I grew up socially underdeveloped because of severe anxiety and general lack of social awareness but at least this generation is slowing down so i can catch up :)
@@xXRazorbacksXx ok but I don't like it when people are trying to force me to vote when I have no idea what I am voting for I'm 22 and I chose to not vote but I get threatened all to hell for not voting it's an endless cycle of confusion
@@vikingmetaldragon don't want this to be a political thread buddy
Shes in a relationship, he isnt.
He just wants to stay friends, and she wants to marry him😂😭
The term is booty call.
He doesn't want her as friend, the benefits are more than enought.
Seriously she looks desperate.
☝️My thoughts exactly: as for him they aren't even friends.
then she should not have lied about her feelings
Honey…HE DOESNT WANT YOU. It’s ok. Really, it happens to the best of us.
But the first part of change is acceptance.
Lmao
She is betting her life
It's like gambling or lotto, the bigger the prize and fewer the odds of winning, the more desperate people bet.
Can’t wait for the “where are they now” web series that follows up on these cringefests in 5-10 years so we can all watch these people facepalm at the memory that they ACTUALLY & SERIOUSLY SAID THESE THINGS. There will be so. many. regrets for having these conversations immortalized on the internet.
Yes!
Web series would be called "The Dark Side of the Cringe" 😂😂.
Never settle. This is just one person waiting for the other to fall in love with them.
As Aba said "you two are just messy"
That sums it up.
Perfectly.
Don't ever let a man tell you twice HE DON'T WANT YOU sis...🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Let her know
💯
Say it louder cause sis at the back of the bus 🤦🏾♀️
Yeah I’m guessing you ms strong and independent lmao good luck being alone forever
He is giving mixed signals though. He said “maybe, possibly yes” to the first questions but his actions say otherwise. It’s sad she doesn’t know her worth and wait to find someone who will make her his plan A.
Honestly when you showed the comments of people thinking he's actually into her I was kinda surprised. I'm a 21 year old virgin and even I could tell that she's into him more than she wants to admit, and he's just leading her on and testing his options. That relationship is doomed from the start.
maybe its because when the producers asked if they could be more than friends, she didnt seem to react very positively
That comment has 12K likes.... the hell is wrong with people
Women get infatuated with sex and drama she wants him and to him it was just a fling he is still looking for someone he likes not her
Yeah but I bet if she wanted *YOU,* you'd have notta damn clue! That's why you still a virgin imma bet you! I know homie got game, you're just cursed like the rest of us guys to *never* know when a woman is coming on to you.
Her: "Come up in my room and fu*k me, I'm so horny. Like for real, I think you're hot.
Any Guy: "HAHA! Oh my God you're a riot!"
Her: Whatever, I'll be in my room then so.... Gonna be naked...
Guy: *45 mins later* I've been here for a while, and she's still not done changing.. I guess I'll send her a text on my way out, I've gotta work tomorrow..... HA! She already text me! "srsly wtf get in here n fork meeee!" oh my God she's hilarious! I hope she invites me to hang out again!
Man... I wish she seriously did want to fu*k tho... That girl is fiiiiiiine!
... She'd never be into me though.
Oh well... At least we're friends.
Sorry, just came to my mind when you said 21 year old virgin, and even you knew. You know when it's anyone else, but never yourself... Haha. I'm not sure if you care or not that you're a virgin (don't give me an answer to that, not my business). If you are bothered by it, I can assure you it'll happen in the blink of an eye, and then you'll be spending all of your time with the punanna, on the punanna, or in pursuit of the punanna. Enjoy your freedom while it lasts.
Take care brother. Do lots of dumb shit with your bros while they aren't in committed relationships and don't have kids. In about 8 years tops those friends won't exist anymore basically. Yes I'm 29 before you ask lol.
@@manny3095 Even then, it's obvious that she's pretending.
She didn't say "losing a baby" might bring them together she said MURDERING A BABY would bring them together. Murder brings people together in strange ways.
Her saying "I would probably have an abortion " like she is saying"I'll prob go to the store and buy milk"
hmm i’ll think about killing it. idk probably. it’s actually gross lol. what a right to have and this is supposed to represent empowerment and feminism. killing babies represents feminism everyone.
Eh you know "pro choicers" worked really hard, and I mean really hard, to indoctrinate to their followers that abortions are "simple medical procedures" like "any other small procedure" so now they sound super dumb and get defensive when called out.
@Rusty Howe for real tho lmao
@Rusty Howe that is your choice, I do not know why they are so angry about, whats the point of fighting so hard for a choice when they are not going to respect peoples choices?
@Rusty Howe who has told you to get an abortion? When people announce they are pregnant I congratulate them on being a parent I don't tell them to abort wtf???
We live in an age of anything goes and no accountability. Parents need to teach their children Character and Integrity instead of waiting on the schools to do it....because the schools won't.
Comments like this will save us.
Very true this world disgusts me…
What an absolutely stupid and dangerous reason to force people to have a child they don't want.
@@matthewharris8819 what an absolute shitty excuse to MURDER an innocent HUMAN BEING that has no to blame about you are being dumb enough to not even use a condom properly
"He treats her like Plan C" and that's why she's wet for him.
Facts my dude, facts.
Nailed, it is something a had seen a lot of times, yet refused to accept as fact.
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My boi got game.
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Friends with benefits are not literally friends. It's just a cute, PG way to say the other person is a hookup.
i always saw it as a hookup you can just hang with and enjoy yourself between sessions
This was one of the worst conversations I have seen. How would that make you closer? That hurt my soul and my head.
It's not "losing" a child. That would be terminating a child. Let's get our terms right. And if terminating a child brings you closer, you might want to examine your humanity.
This comment right here!
You are terminated!
It's not a child, it's a fetus. Please, you don't know what it's like to be a woman and have that pregnancy scare.
@@ayomidetejuoso3455 Evolution says it's a *human* child. Evolution didn't ultimately result us to constantly have birth defects.
@@ayomidetejuoso3455 a fetus is a human being in one of their early stages in life. No difference as an elderly person is a human being in an elderly stage of life.
I don't feel bad for women. They're adults.
Unless the parties involve are heavily, and I do mean HEAVILY Anti child or no child no way abortion could ever bring two people closer together. Either the father or the mother is gonna feel guilt about killing off their own child and then before they know it the guilt would of eaten away at them and will cause problems within the relationship if it hadn't already imploded on itself already.
Any normal person feels guilt and shame about killing a baby. To be that anti-child is to be anti-human, which is sociopathy. Abortions aren’t the same as any other routine medical procedure, but people like to make it seem like one.
I paid for an abortion for my ex when I was 20.
Some relationships have straight up ended bc of abortion one way or another. This is worse than when some people are having major issues in their relationship and say "You know what let's bring a child into this world so it can fix our problems". Insanity...Just when I thought I've heard it all wtfff
@@maineman5757 Did it bring you closer together?
@@taddy_mason4197 Well I was leaving for the military and didn't want any baggage so thankfully no.
You letting a dude with a half-ass mustache and a weird looking face, treat you like a 3rd option?
Love yourself, sweetie! 💜
In a few yesrs shes gonna be like "where are all the good men at...!?!?!?!? " lol!!!!
You letting a girl with a half-ass makeup and a weird looking face, treat you like a boyfriend when you have made it clear your not interested?
Love yourself, sweetie! 💜
I don't drink but this might make me start.....
I am getting into mocktails. Want me to make you one but with alcohol? 😆
@@DJUniMekaju Send it on the rocks
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_If you do, drink the sweet stuff._
_It helps lighten the sorrows of sadness._
@@theafflictionvhs17 Noted ✍🏿
For me, it is strange to see how people normalize abortion without analyzing the emotional aspect of killing or eliminating your child, also the way the couple in the video handles their relationship, seems to me very irresponsible and naive.
Eh its just a fetus
yeah, it's even weirder that she acknowledges it would be emotional/traumatic(hence, why it would "bring them close together") It's like she's pre-planning a traumatic event to rope him into a relationship, at the cost of their kid. Damn.
@@TheLivingPizza4 a fetus is 'just' a life
@@TheLivingPizza4 the fetus could become a baby, then human tho
@@TheLivingPizza4 I really want to believe you are trolling. The thought that there's more than just a couple people in our entire country that not only think like this but believe they are firmly on the moral High Ground is baffling.
I'm surprised no one has made a comment on the dude's "moustache" yet. On top of the sadness that is this girl being into him and he not into her and everything we also have to look at those rat whiskers? Hotdamn
Bro I was thinking the same, I was like my guy you'd look a lot better if you just go clean shaved.
The comments are coming bro. Seen a few 😂😂
I knew I couldn't of been the only one. The mustache gives him a very punchable face
[To be fair, maybe he's young and not capable of growing a more manly set of face-whiskers as yet! But he prolly looks younger than what he wants others to see him as! Kinda in the same boat; for Halloween it's super-easy to pass for✂️asian! And almost to the exact meme: without my beard, I seem like a schoolboy in my face!✌🏼😂]
I was wondering about the pedo stash lol
In the beginning I got the feeling he was more into her based on how they answered the questions, but when she started asking questions not on the card I was like "ohhh he's just playing the game"
People: when she asks "who was it?" and you can't say or hear "none of your business," you're in a relationship.
Sounds like I’m about to make myself single.
Hm what if the other person has/had an STD?
@@k.d.2589 special pleading
@@haraldisdead Hm wouldn't avoiding the question that might point out an instance where it would be reasonable to ask who someone had sex with without being in an exclusive relationship be special pleading on your end? 🤔 And technically every connection you have is a different sort of relationship, so to clarify: do you mean exclusive/committed relationships?
Edit: Nevermind, I looked into some examples of special pleading, and it doesn't apply to anything here. There would have to be a rule that someone is using an irrational excuse to try to be exempt. Asking who someone had sex with to avoid getting STDs isn't an example of that. It's a perfectly reasonable question even if you're not in a committed relationship.
They both giving me the creeps...creeparooni
I looked at the thumbnail and facepalmed probably the hardest in my life
“Are you afraid of commitment.”
“I’d say yes and no.”
Chefs kiss.
Ever see the movie "True Lies", this dude is definitely the used car salesman. I bet he has his version of a spy briefcase.
GIMME THE GODDAMN PAGE!
A very accurate description😂
This made me bus out laughing. I love that movie. And he is definitely the used car salesman.
He even looks a bit like him 🤣🤣 o
Ahaha 🤣🤣
This is one of the problems a lot of people face when it comes to dating. You think that just because you’re not getting what you want staying with em through any type of relationship can just magically open the door. It usually don’t. Short term satisfaction leads to long term issues. If I knew shorty personally I would tell her to be honest with what she wants and if she can’t have it let it go. It’ll suck but that short term hurt is better than get you guts rearranged by a nigga you got unreciprocated feelings for and actively associate with.
And then when they're getting what they need in a marriage they leave because there are no tingles.
I'll never understand how women leave so prematurely when they don't feel the spark but they'll stay with toxic and try to make it work
@@PrincePetti just like some ppl gambles instead of saving money.
Short term thinking and scarcity mindset.
That "what the fuck" from Aba at 4:52 was so genuine I felt it.
When you are watching and listening to the awesomeness that is Aba and Preach and then you get distracted by Preach pushing his bresticles together lol.... Though the whole friends with benefits thing rarely works, One of the parties normally develops feelings that the other can not or will not reciprocate, this is turn causes stress and tension between them and ends badly.
"What would happen if we got pregnant?"
Me: "Wait there's a WE? When? Where? As in Oui? Je ne comprends pas"
This is one of the only places where my highschool french class comes in handy.
We as the sperm and the egg created a baby. Not eggs and eggs.
Come on, sois pas irresponsable ;)
We (oui) are having a baby or abortion
I’d find out if it was “we”
I think that was more of the gender inclusive shit that’s so popular right now
Je ne comprends rien maintenant
A family is what makes you CLOSER, not abortion.
_Even the baby wants an abortion.._
Depends. Some couples have a baby to save a relationship and that doesn't go well either.
Well for some people.
A family doesn't always make you closer. Many times a family is what breaks you apparent as it doesn't go as planned. One wanted that family the other didn't.
@@Gabster1990 facts
It's amazing how little people talk about their situations, maturity goes a long way.
Friends with benefits is essentially when the girl is in the friendzone
THIS was one of YALLS BEST REACTIONS. I love the pick for the video and the analysis. More in this niche guys
She's not even picking the card. Lol. She said fuck that game, I got my own questions.
“I have love for you” yasss the class F*boy line 😹 girl please do better. I’m so baffled as to how he can even.......💕
Mustache game.
The D
Envious much?
She has never lost a baby if she is that cavalier.
I mean from what I know abortion usually destroys relationships…. Especially if one of the people in the relationship wasn’t completely onboard with the idea. The amount of girls that I know who have been coerced into them by their boyfriends is actually really fucking sad.
So is the amount of women that have had abortions without consulting the man on if he wants his child killed. I get it the child grows in the woman but a child is half genetic material of each parent. When I rent a storage Locker and store things in it that doesn't make the things belong to U-Haul or whatever storage place.
Mazohyst of Decadence by Dir En Grey. They released the song to bring awareness to abortion being the primary contraceptive in Japan in the 90s-2000s.
@@jimjangles8345 true, I’m a girl so I’ve only mostly heard of other girls being coerced into abortions by men or parents but I’m sure there’s many men out there that didn’t have a say on their child’s life. It’s fucked up.
I just found out my girlfriend is pregnant today. What a video to have pop up the same day. Luckily we both want it.
Good on ya, mah man
congratulations, don't pay attention to this crazy woman
congrats
Thanks guys
Aw, congratulations!
That’s like saying having a kid together will make your bond stronger.
Edit: I’m not saying it can’t happened but it doesn’t all the time.
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It often does for some people. Of course its not for everyone though. Depends on how committed the people are.
No she said not having a kid will make them stronger
@@callmeosho7792 I obviously Ik that which is stupid and I’m using her logic get it?
@@callmeosho7792
That’s literally the message!
What the actual f**k is wrong with her?
If I hear "Make us closer" in a conversation like that that I would immediately stop sleeping with that person.
Me and my husband started like this. He caught feeling first. Then a few months later I got pregnant. I wasn't gonna get one. But i told him because it wasnt part of the plan , he could bounce and I would take care of it myself. After a few weeks he said " let's do this". We've been together 24 years and married 22 July 03. We have a great marriage. People always tell us we give them hope for real love for themselves.
That’s really cute.
That's beautiful
Happy for you guys!
9/10 not planning for a kid turns ugly but I'm glad you got so lucky.
I’m glad it went well
Damn, 3 minutes in and the cringe factor is off the charts. This generation is f-ed
Completely f-ed.
[On the plus side, s*x dolls and bots will be commonplace in the very near future! Hopefully also man-made wombs, so socializing won't even be necessary, period!🤖💊]
Unfortunately I feel the same way 😔
I wonder which generation raised her 😳🤔
@Dick Izzinya It definitely did the internet just makes everything more visible now. Kinda like how older people think crime is the worst its ever been bc its always reported somewhere even though violent crimes have on a steady decline since the 90 s
I've been the messy person in a friends with benefits relationship before, and I've also been the person who liked the other person more than they like them before. Neither is fun. I would not recommend
Dude took a sip of drink after she said abortion.
"Killing our child before they have a chance to exist could make us closer."
Like a sadistic black magic ritual.
Yeah that's a witch... blood scarifies to improve their relationship. Dude RUN!🏃
@@milkcookies2008 I mean it sounds like they would both want to go the abortion route. Just that the guy would want the relationship to end afterwards while the girl would want it to continue... might as well end it now
@@aisherwasher6959 tru it created a clean escape form the toxic relationship. But if he going to be doing to women on the regular than he needs a vasectomy.
@@Koozomec
Well, abortion culture has generally coincided with child sacrifice and what not throughout history.
Aba and Preach sooooo much respect for the level of importance and weight you bring to these important conversations and life experiences that are often handled with less concern than a late night fast food order.
When he apologises for triple booking, and flaking at the last moment.
Her: "It's okay"
Me: "NO it's not OK!!!!"
He does not respect her and she reward him with x3s.
That just mean he has game and a the perfect strategy.
@@Koozomec bro what 😂😂. Its ok to get pum pum but don’t say its the perfect strat. Game is not just going around and hurting woman. We all go through a stage but there comes a time where you need to grow up
@@phoenix-king779 Just as stated by the other commenter, it works for him with 3 chicks at least.
Objective -> Means->Methode->Outcome
@@Koozomec wtf does this even mean
@EmberXYZ there are multiple ways to get pum pum. Many of which are healthier
Nobody should ever be in a friends with benefits relationship... you are NOT someone's friend when you are capable of having "casual" sex with someone you like, because there is no such thing as casual sex. It always affects at least 1 person negatively.
Killing a child together... would make you closer.... what...?
Except abortion is not "killing a child" it is terminating a pregnancy. A fetus is not a baby until it forms into one not more than an egg is a baby chick until it forms into one. There is a process. You terminate the process, there is no chick. You make scabbled eggs instead.
Someone skipped sex ED classes am I right
@@SourStrawberrys What moment do you believe someone becomes human? Conception? 8 weeks? 20 weeks? At birth? I'm just curious
I'm assuming this 100%.. but I think in her head it was meant like how other things that might be bad bring people together. Like commiting a crime with someone, being in a hostage situation brings the hostages together, or like being in an awkward social interaction might bring people together. But she is blinded by the feelings she can't admit to having.
Killing shit is pretty good for bonding, and babies ARE really bad at defending themselves.. almost a no brainer.
This is why people need to adhere to well defined, pre-defined, standard categories of relationships, with known obligations.
Yup. And if you don't want to procreate and have someone else make decisions for your offspring, use birth control until you're ready to have kids. Applies to both sexes.
@@greent16 Can't wait for that Vasalgel for men my guy. It's gonna change things.
@@greent16 The thing is birth control and condoms aren’t as much a guarantee as people think. I’d say don’t have sex with someone you aren’t willing to raise kids with (or take responsibility for their wellbeing in general, tbh), but at least people shouldn’t be trying to reinvent the wheel with each individual relationship like they’re doing something unique.
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@@brittybee6615 I agree. People want to have it both ways. Casual sex with whoever and no consequences. Then they have a snit if the other person wants to keep or lose the pregnancy.
I don't understand how many people just sleep with people who don't see them as a long term thing.
He did way more than smoocherinos.
Anyone that's been in his shoes knows exactly what's going on. He was dirty for how he talked about the possibility of the relationship. That was all, "I know this is what you want to hear, let me string you on a little. Cause I already told you this isn't going any further..."