So I used to be married… let’s talk about it

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  • @Ikykwktlk
    @Ikykwktlk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19647

    Tell me why I was already overthinking whether she's gonna try and troll us in the middle of it again or not

    • @miss_B_
      @miss_B_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +410

      wait this isn't satire? she actually was married?

    • @mimisma.
      @mimisma. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +251

      ​@@miss_B_ yes..
      this is my most liked reply ty

    • @meganthings
      @meganthings 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

      Yes to a football guy

    • @paulasaenz5726
      @paulasaenz5726 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      @@miss_B_yes but he cheated on her a lot

    • @laavanya2335
      @laavanya2335 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      same

  • @aribariplays
    @aribariplays 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5250

    "just because a chapter ends, doesn't mean the book is over" is a beatutiful quote haley! thanks for being comfortable to share this with us!

    • @josephkingsford8480
      @josephkingsford8480 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How pathetic is your life?

    • @Ven_Videos
      @Ven_Videos 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      was about to comment this haha also ill be your first reply :)

  • @TheMorganGibson
    @TheMorganGibson 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12341

    I love how you said, "just because a chapter ends, doesn't mean the book is over" bc that is SOOOOO TRUE!!! I am gonna start quoting that to my family & friends ❤

    • @jv3dee
      @jv3dee 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      I SEE U EVERYWHERE OMG

    • @dorikin333
      @dorikin333 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Get a life lmfao

    • @Urfavuk
      @Urfavuk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@dorikin333don’t speak to her that way

    • @Urfavuk
      @Urfavuk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@dorikin333and atleast her life has a purpose

    • @KSV776
      @KSV776 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@dorikin333you think your funny but your not your stupid

  • @Senpaischick
    @Senpaischick 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1751

    I got married at 21 and wow I look back at how young that is to get married. I was still in college, living with my family and boom got married and moved in with a man I had met six months prior. FF to 2024 and we’re still happily married and bought our first home together. ❤

    • @southernbygrace3274
      @southernbygrace3274 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

      Same. I was 21 and hubby was a month shy of 24 when we got married. We will celebrate 24 years of marriage this spring. Congrats to you!

    • @currentlywaiting1081
      @currentlywaiting1081 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      I’m 20 and engaged! I will get married after my 21st birthday, is it young for marriage and starting a family? Most people would say yes, but he’s 27 and has a home and a good job and most importantly he’s a good man and committed to having a family and a stable relationship, I’m so ready for the marriage life and hopefully I will have a long relationship like you guys ❤

    • @southernbygrace3274
      @southernbygrace3274 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      @@currentlywaiting1081 It all depends on the couple, the circumstances, the maturity.

    • @LSSYLondon
      @LSSYLondon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@currentlywaiting1081 The problem is not young marriage. It's young marriage and having kids. Being a DINK where you have the freedom to travel and your body is still healthy and in good shape is different than being a SINK relying on a man, when your body is ruined, your health is in decline thanks to sleepless nights and the hundreds of complications from pregnancy... those are the ones that hit 30 and get divorced and lament losing their 20's.

    • @Senpaischick
      @Senpaischick 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      @@currentlywaiting1081 I don’t think it’s young but I do believe if you have any goals of dreams you want to accomplish I’d do them before having children. Children while enjoyable do get in the way of a lot of things. If your dream is to be a wife and mom, then fulfilling them should be your number one priority! Congratulations on your pending nuptials!

  • @roxanahernandez5157
    @roxanahernandez5157 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3902

    The fact that really famous female influencer is telling her audience that there ARE good men out there makes me so happy!! There really are such beautiful men in this world! Like more than you can imagine. Finally good men are getting appreciation 😊

    • @leonardomeloni69
      @leonardomeloni69 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +98

      Yeah exactly
      İt's so surprising to see a "there are many good men" from a woman on social media nowadays
      İt really hit me deeply

    • @TheBluestOfThemAll
      @TheBluestOfThemAll 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      And look at how they’re talking about her in the comments😢

    • @Paula-um3js
      @Paula-um3js 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      The worst people always seem the loudest on social media because it creates them a lot of drama attention (and lot of people talking and arguing about them). But definitely good people exist too.
      Possibly helps that she doesn't necessarily have bad traumatizing experience, they just didn't match as a couple.

    • @songoku-jx3cb
      @songoku-jx3cb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Imagine how underappreciated men are in 2024 that its shocking to see a woman even just say there are good men out there .

    • @songoku-jx3cb
      @songoku-jx3cb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@TheBluestOfThemAllall i see are positive comments . Maybe you only notice negativity.

  • @hilderenshof2476
    @hilderenshof2476 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +760

    This is the healthiest and best advice an influencer has ever given someone on the internet. Props to you

    • @johng6637
      @johng6637 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I thought "Don't eat Tide Pods" was much better

    • @PalinKeller-jt2sg
      @PalinKeller-jt2sg หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ikr she’s turning into our therapist

  • @CountryCath
    @CountryCath 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1567

    Being 54 and being married 18 years to my best friend
    After losing my soulmate the day before we were to wed when I was 25
    I thought I would never find anyone else
    Life has a way of working out
    Thank you Haley for sharing your journey ❤️

    • @Victoria_Loves_Jesus
      @Victoria_Loves_Jesus 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

      wow.. so sorry that happened!
      i'm glad Love found you ❤️

    • @CountryCath
      @CountryCath 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

      @@Victoria_Loves_Jesus
      Thank you that means a lot to me.
      I was very blessed to have my husband come into my life.
      Also that he understands that I still miss my soulmate
      Life has a way of saying
      We must go on
      Remember the past
      While grabbing hold of the future

    • @dakota.7617
      @dakota.7617 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Oh wow, she passed the day before the wedding. That’s insane

    • @CountryCath
      @CountryCath 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Yes he did

    • @sarahamelia4101
      @sarahamelia4101 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      Thank you for sharing your story. The person I was going to marry (we had plans to get engaged this year), changed his mind a couple of months ago and needs space to work on himself. It feels like I will never be happy again.

  • @Twisted_Osianna
    @Twisted_Osianna 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3297

    william is very lucky to have you because you actually seem like an amazing person

    • @Lynthechickennugget
      @Lynthechickennugget 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

      You know William is fake right?

    • @Cupcakegirlll
      @Cupcakegirlll 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +454

      @@Lynthechickennuggetshhhhhh… dont ruin the joke

    • @ILoveWillow903
      @ILoveWillow903 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

      I’ve been genuinely questioning if William is real

    • @yoyok__
      @yoyok__ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +171

      ​@@Cupcakegirlll What joke? William is real. Just because we don't see him doesn't mean he is non existent. STOP SPREADING MISINFORMATION!!!

    • @tsvreiya
      @tsvreiya 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

      @@yoyok__is this sarcasm 😭

  • @Dani_dinosoar
    @Dani_dinosoar 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6629

    I like how she tells story’s on TH-cam videos now
    Edit:you guys are nerds stop correcting my spelling😾‼️

    • @BLACKPINKINURAREAAAAAA
      @BLACKPINKINURAREAAAAAA 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      Especially good for people who don't watch or aren't allowed to watch TH-cam Shorts

    • @Aag-wr2gq
      @Aag-wr2gq 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +92

      @@BLACKPINKINURAREAAAAAA Who is not allowed to watch TH-cam shorts

    • @Emmmmm-lol
      @Emmmmm-lol 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      IKR

    • @BLACKPINKINURAREAAAAAA
      @BLACKPINKINURAREAAAAAA 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

      Some people's parents do not allow them to watch TH-cam Shorts because you can't control what comes next, and it could be something they can't watch

    • @Shaaydiia07
      @Shaaydiia07 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Aag-wr2gqchildren, I can’t count how many times I’ve come across porn videos while scrolling through youtube shorts. It’s a very good thing to not be allowed on that side of TH-cam.

  • @PreppySlayperiod
    @PreppySlayperiod 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +454

    I love that you are respecting his privacy. Most people don't care after divorce and just reveal everything. You are so sweet for caring about his privacy and preferences! 💗💗💞💞

  • @PaintingsbyT
    @PaintingsbyT 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +345

    For the first time she seems like an elder sister and not trolling us ❤

  • @addie-rw8py
    @addie-rw8py 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1027

    "just because a chapter ends, doesn't mean the book is over." we need more TH-camrs that are so honest and real with us. we love you haley.

    • @josephkingsford8480
      @josephkingsford8480 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who's we? Is "we" the pathetic losers of Generation Clueless?

    • @johng6637
      @johng6637 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow, how profound. Right up there with the great philosophers who write greeting cards.

    • @addie-rw8py
      @addie-rw8py 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@josephkingsford8480 not that deep omfg

    • @addie-rw8py
      @addie-rw8py 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@johng6637 haha it's not that deep. i didn't think i was saying anything special. and when i say "we" i mean her subscribers.

    • @addie-rw8py
      @addie-rw8py 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@josephkingsford8480 clearly the fact that you took your time to comment this breathtakingly clever comment means you're probably also part of "generation clueless."

  • @gei4116
    @gei4116 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Thank you Haley this is one of the best advices I have literally ever heard from someone you’re so open and honest yeah you’re like untouchable. Thank you as someone who struggles with mental health your videos and just everything you do helps a lot.

  • @sroses23
    @sroses23 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I can relate to your story in my life. Thank you for giving me advice and being open about your life in this way. You are helping young women out there know that divorce is okay to talk about and happens and being civil and kind to one another shows respect and friendship. You’ve moved forward in a lovely positive way and it’s admirable. You also bring so much laughter to others and have kept your positivity. ❤ I love your channel.

  • @TheMorganGibson
    @TheMorganGibson 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +564

    Thank you so so much for being so open about your life, I appreciate that about you so much ❤❤❤❤

    • @haleyybaylee
      @haleyybaylee  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +345

      We live & learn & grow!! So it’s important to talk about our past!! But my ex loves his privacy so I try to talk about it as little as I can for his privacy 😊

    • @TheMorganGibson
      @TheMorganGibson 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      @@haleyybaylee I 1000% agree!!!

    • @Emmmmm-lol
      @Emmmmm-lol 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Fr

    • @SiennaG013
      @SiennaG013 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@haleyybayleehaylee, i love your content💓keep doing what you do because you are such a big Inspiration to me!!🥰

    • @SILLY_GOOSE.
      @SILLY_GOOSE. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@haleyybayleeHi.

  • @ponodude101
    @ponodude101 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    This just popped up in my recommended. I absolutely love the positive message! Glad everything worked out for both of you, Haley. Good luck to everyone on finding what makes them happy!

  • @Digitalhunny
    @Digitalhunny 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Hi Haley, I didn't realize just _how_ much I needed to hear this. Thank you SO much! 😘💕💕

  • @kenwhitfield219
    @kenwhitfield219 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Beautifully said! I’ve always believed that when someone captures a piece of your heart, she remains there no matter what happens between us.

  • @paolabueso
    @paolabueso หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Beautiful message! I’m glad you shared this experience in such a respectful way while also trying to give a positive message to your subscribers. Well done! 🙌💖

  • @ultranina13
    @ultranina13 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love this! Honestly, I feel lucky to have been friends with all of my exs. The breakups were sad, but mutual.

  • @raven_1031
    @raven_1031 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    So touching and an amazing PSA. Thank you Haley 🩷

  • @jacksonhoopah
    @jacksonhoopah 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    this is such a mature way of telling a mature story, thank you for telling us. We love you!

  • @jimikrakorn6132
    @jimikrakorn6132 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow. Amazing depth, wisdom, and authenticity. Refreshing and so edifying. Many thanks.

  • @juliebaird9946
    @juliebaird9946 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Haley, I love the way you are on your channel. You are just having fun with it, with a little bit of 'real' thrown in there occasionally. Such a pleasure to watch! Thank you!❤❤

  • @KurtisHall
    @KurtisHall 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    You just gave us more reason to love you, Haley. It's obvious that you and your ex-husband still really care about each other...and your advice about relationships is PRICELESS for encouraging your younger viewers to keep hope alive even AFTER a breakup happens. Thanks for sharing this!😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @Zani_Jadi
    @Zani_Jadi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Dude, thanks for sending a positive and insightful message to so many people

  • @phenomcnon7864
    @phenomcnon7864 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    aww that's so sweet of you to share your story. it's so encouraging and positive & many people out there definitely feel comforted because of what you said

  • @Luke22022
    @Luke22022 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That is a wonderful message, thank you for sharing your wisdom.

  • @opheliaocean3782
    @opheliaocean3782 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    A lot of people in the comments section are saying "don't get married young!" But I think the most important thing is that you know exactly what you're getting into when you're getting married. It just so happens that it is mostly young people don't know what to look for in a marriage, but that doesn't mean no one should get married young. I am 20 and engaged to a God-loving, empathetic, emotionally intelligent (I could go on for hours) man, and we agree on life goals, finances, future children and life style, etc. As long as you have your priorities straight and pray to God for advice and direction, marriage will be much clearer and easier.

    • @nancycasillas3861
      @nancycasillas3861 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen! I couldn't agree with you more 👏🤍 well said, same here!

  • @sandman.38
    @sandman.38 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Haley is like a second mother that didn't deliver, but always delivers 🥺

  • @crybaybie
    @crybaybie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, Haley. Your message made my day. Truly God sent. ❤

  • @WHOWHATWHENWHERE
    @WHOWHATWHENWHERE 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It is VERY important to surround yourself with good people. Good message!

  • @SMJSelena
    @SMJSelena 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    This was wholesome and I needed to hear the part about how if one amazing relationship ends it doesn't mean it's the last one. I have broken up a few months ago after a 4 year relationship with someone who is amazing but we just don't want the same things for the future. But I just can't imagine finding anyone else who will be as great as he was. I'm not in a rush or anything, but I also shouldn't lose hope for the future and this helps, so thank you ❤

  • @bibliobibuli_
    @bibliobibuli_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    love these honest vids haley! would love to hear more of your wisdom ❤

  • @LuxuriousLenay
    @LuxuriousLenay 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this beautiful story and great encouraging advice. ❤

  • @user-vz1sj8ep2o
    @user-vz1sj8ep2o 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That was beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story!!

  • @emilyetallman
    @emilyetallman 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    I’m your age, I’m glad you’re sharing your wisdom and being such a good role model for younger women that might be going through the same ❤ we need more influencers like this in the world.

  • @Clara-yi5on
    @Clara-yi5on 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    I’m so glad that you chose to surround yourself with people that understand that and appreciate you as a human ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @parthparekh1
    @parthparekh1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just love how you talked about it with utmost sincerity and maturity ! 👍

  • @IvyConway24
    @IvyConway24 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really needed that last bit about people who love you and how life goes on. thanks Haley

  • @jojie_cakess
    @jojie_cakess 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    ykk what i love about you is that you def have 2 sides to your personality; you have your funny, humorous side and your real side. you always need that in a person! love ya, haley :)

  • @ema8146
    @ema8146 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I thought the title said “I used to be a mermaid… let’s talk about it” 💀💀 like ok cleorrr

    • @beckyharding6571
      @beckyharding6571 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I mean, if anyone had been one... 🤷🏻‍♀️🤣

  • @Me_851
    @Me_851 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow Haley these were great messages thanks for sharing this with us! You've truly taught me a LOT in this video❤

  • @skb4055
    @skb4055 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Now THIS! This is why I appreciate your content! I LOVE the real Hayley! Real love continues. It’s passion that ends and later becomes a negative emotion. Thank you so much for sharing this.

  • @CayCay_luvs
    @CayCay_luvs 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Love you sooo much Hailey you’re the best at being funny, hilarious Especially at giving advice
    ❤❤❤

  • @ZoeRazzino30
    @ZoeRazzino30 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I think it is so great that you made sure to respect his privacy. Respect💖!

  • @checreates
    @checreates 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Haley this was so incredibly profound!! I follow for the comedy but got a whole heartjerker today. I’m here for it!

  • @n-da-bunka2650
    @n-da-bunka2650 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are an AWESOME role model for humanity! We need more like you. Keep up the great attitude and honest sharing!

  • @Kalivahcide
    @Kalivahcide 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +464

    I needed to hear this today, Haley. My story is pretty much the same. Got married way too young, it sucked, now I'm gathering the courage to tell my husband I want a divorce. I love him, but I can't love him as a wife, only as a friend. I'm hoping one day that we can look back at this and learn from our mistakes. P.S. don't get married young.

    • @zal5989
      @zal5989 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

      I think marriage at young or old age doesn't matter..it matters who we are getting married to and how the couple takes forth marriage together

    • @chinabonebearings7359
      @chinabonebearings7359 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      free ride is over huh

    • @perrystuart8035
      @perrystuart8035 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@zal5989 yep. women just have a hard time taking accountability for their actions. THEIR selfishness needs some sort of excuse at all times lol

    • @headintheclouds02
      @headintheclouds02 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chinabonebearings7359 That's so cruel of you to say that.

    • @Bammazz
      @Bammazz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      I've been married for three years, and we've been together for 9 years, and it's a roller-coaster for sure!! BUT we've never been so in love as we are now, so hppy in each others company. When we gave eachother our yes'es (we married at 22 y) it was for better AND for worse!! There is so much hope! And I believe marriage is work, not a fairytale as Hollywood want's us to believe. Who knows, if you stick to your promise, mybe you'll be blessed beyond measure in a couple of years? Rooting for you!

  • @SleepyStrawberryy
    @SleepyStrawberryy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Your words so kind!! I really look up to you Haley 🫶

  • @Mia-wv4hi
    @Mia-wv4hi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am glad you are doing well! I love your content and I look forward to seeing your content! It is so inspiring to see you give such amazing advice!

  • @briisokay1
    @briisokay1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really needed to hear this right now. THANKYOU SO MUCH

  • @baguettegurl
    @baguettegurl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is actually such an amazing video I’m glad you guys stayed friends and it wasn’t toxic and you’re both happy

  • @_.alesha.13._
    @_.alesha.13._ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    Okay this is such a wholesome thing but i was still waiting for her to troll us throughout this whole video 💀

  • @Minitayto
    @Minitayto 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's so encouraging ❤tysm God Bless u

  • @reframingwiththerhythm
    @reframingwiththerhythm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Diving timing in sharing this from a divine human being, thank you for being here and being you, Haley

  • @Lowkey_LuLu
    @Lowkey_LuLu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Haha I was literally going through all your videos until I found out you were married but I wasn’t sure if it was real so I’m glad you made this to clear it up lol ❤😊

  • @catg2282
    @catg2282 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Your take on your divorce is so mature and understanding Haley, it really shows how you ended your relationship.

  • @romelynduenas3249
    @romelynduenas3249 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just what I need to hear today. Thank you, Haley!

  • @demellanon9169
    @demellanon9169 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OMG my heart! I needed to hear this today! Thanks Haley!

  • @keiramann8805
    @keiramann8805 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I just got rejected, and it broke my heart. I needed this right now, thank you Haley.

  • @myarken.659
    @myarken.659 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I love your videos sooo much

  • @stellawyatt7538
    @stellawyatt7538 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for sharing this Haley, makes me so happy to know that you're happy

  • @SVUE-jj9jc
    @SVUE-jj9jc 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great insight and advice for others. You were brave at that age and that experience helped you gain your superpowers as an influencer. Thanks for sharing

  • @r.t.birlove7908
    @r.t.birlove7908 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    this was such a nice reminder. although i am 19💀, i went through only rough relationships and on top of that my parents are divorced and were the worst couple so i kinda lost faith in men and overall love. but this made me hopeful🥹🥺 love u so so much haley as always!!!!!😭💗

    • @meganthings
      @meganthings 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Stay up, you’re young and got plenty of time to find hope in love! It’s out there, but it’s tough these days, I wish you luck and a happy life 🌈☀️

    • @Iris_too
      @Iris_too 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      can't you guys spot a single good nice guy? i come from Asia and rarely see divorce (atleast around myself) here people know how to commit to a relationship and not abandon it.

    • @yoonshub
      @yoonshub 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​​I'm from Asia too, and let me tell you in my country divorce rates are very low because it's seen as taboo and usually people get stuck in it due to family and societal presure. Even though things are changing slightly now this still prevails here. In the case here with such relationships (not all, just the problematic ones)there is no commitment or loyalty. Just saying but now it's indeed hard to spot a good guy..guess it's different in my place compared to yours despite both of us being part of asia@@Iris_too

  • @salexxx_
    @salexxx_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love how open she is ♥️

  • @lexa_power
    @lexa_power 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for being open about being divorced. As a young divorced woman, it’s hard to talk about. Need more public figures like you to be open about it so we can remove the shame.

  • @Avamoneta
    @Avamoneta 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This changes nothing Haley!! Love how you are and who you are because it’s just a symptom of being human and very relatable! Thanks Haley!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @unbeatabel
    @unbeatabel 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I'm so happy you and William found each other, you guys are meant to be, match made in heaven❤

    • @thedynamiclife2485
      @thedynamiclife2485 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Have u seen william before? If yes, who is he?

    • @N08R76H
      @N08R76H 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thedynamiclife2485he’s a joke

  • @Bibbleslayys
    @Bibbleslayys 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +644

    Just because a chapter ends, doesn’t mean the book is over ☺
    - Haley 2024

    • @bagel011
      @bagel011 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      so true Bibbleslayys

    • @josephkingsford8480
      @josephkingsford8480 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You DO know that's not an original quote, right?

    • @Haris-gh1kn
      @Haris-gh1kn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@josephkingsford8480🤓

    • @Riley-ithc
      @Riley-ithc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@josephkingsford8480 nobody cares ☠️

  • @Madi71135
    @Madi71135 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this. Thank You so Much!❤

  • @asTAEticOT7
    @asTAEticOT7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    that was the best advice ever - girl thank you so much for this. I love you and your ex stayed positive over this situation, it's nice to see that they're actually some good people out there than can accept divorce and their marriage now working out. I wish you a lot of luck with the relationship you are in. I'm positive your bf will love you for who you are 💗💗

  • @cloeee._.
    @cloeee._. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

    I think that it’s good you guys remained friends, sometimes people aren’t meant to be in love but they are meant to be friends

  • @jamiepaszek
    @jamiepaszek 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I read the title as "I used to be a mermaid" and was like, that tracks, tell me more

  • @voidisbliss1705
    @voidisbliss1705 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really needed this, thank you so much ❤

  • @mozygirl5529
    @mozygirl5529 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for sharing this with us Haley and being vulnerable we're just glad ur happy

  • @andiegoldsmith
    @andiegoldsmith 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    It’s important to be able to understand if you love someone romantically or love them as a friend.
    It’s nice when you open and honest like this. Your so funny but you know when we need a pep talk ❤

  • @justinfelt748
    @justinfelt748 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is amazing, Haley!😊😀💙💙💙💙💙💙🌷⭐💖💖💖💖💖💖🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇👍

  • @ruthvogels
    @ruthvogels 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aww this is so short but so powerful and sweet thank you for sharing this with us❤❤❤

  • @Chiquibaby2804
    @Chiquibaby2804 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I couldn’t have seen this at a better time ! I really needed to hear this today

  • @bbg.annaliese
    @bbg.annaliese 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    aw she’s so nice about it

  • @Chief
    @Chief 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    love how ur storys always have a lesson, cmon sesame street queen

  • @RashmiKamath1201
    @RashmiKamath1201 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love your funny content but this is what I need more of, please!!❤

  • @MagneticUnicornVlogs
    @MagneticUnicornVlogs 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing, Haley ❤

  • @sagegreeeeeeen
    @sagegreeeeeeen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I’m so glad that you guys ended it well and you’re still friends!

  • @petiteetoile8376
    @petiteetoile8376 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    That's so cool that you guys loved each other and yourselves enough to do what was best for both of you. And that you are still friends to this day.
    The whole feeling like there's no good guys out there is too real tho😅

    • @redesignedlife777
      @redesignedlife777 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This video is a skit. She trolling on divorce videos that people put out and this is what it usually sounds like too a T.

    • @Iris_too
      @Iris_too 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@redesignedlife777 no, she's not.

  • @living7063
    @living7063 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So true Maám
    You've started to raise my expectations
    Now I wanna be someone who would at their good behavior even in bad situation. And also find someone who'll always have my best interest in heart !

  • @marvinlusk7303
    @marvinlusk7303 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have problems detecting sarcasm and some forms of humor. I have always wondered who/how you really are. Thank you for this insight into your personal life. I now consider you a dear and hilarious friend, that, unfortunately, I will never meet in real life. Keep shining on, Babe!

  • @dasta7658
    @dasta7658 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Got married 4 months after turning 20. 11 Jan 24 cracked out 27 years of marriage, been together 29 years.

  • @NotElla.Y
    @NotElla.Y 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I love you so much it is great that you guys are still friends ! ❤

  • @Misskerrylou86
    @Misskerrylou86 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl true words of wisdom you are gorgeous amazingly beautiful and so kind and smart it’s lovely to hear advice off someone like you ❤

  • @alohatvj
    @alohatvj 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are truly inspiring to watch. Love ❤️ ❣️ your videos 😊.

  • @MooseTheDuce
    @MooseTheDuce 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I’m glad things worked out for you ❤ and that you found William

  • @SaraBeth_W
    @SaraBeth_W 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    It’s so sweet you guys were able to remain friends

  • @ajachaotic
    @ajachaotic 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this!! What a great message

  • @ThePicklepoopie
    @ThePicklepoopie 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for this pep talk! 💖

  • @trevornelmes9331
    @trevornelmes9331 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I got married when I was 21. My wife was 20. In a few weeks time, we will have been married 44 years.

    • @myshapagla7414
      @myshapagla7414 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God bless ya❤
      God bless ya❤❤❤

  • @Avocado_OBSESSED
    @Avocado_OBSESSED 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    😭😭😭 because of this girl I thought there'd be some type of troll😭😭😭😭

  • @checheapenteng-takyiako372
    @checheapenteng-takyiako372 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The way I thought it was going to end up being an ad. But she was acc serious. Werk Haley!!!!! Thanks for the words of wisdom. I will disown my brother tomorrow.😊

  • @hsd287
    @hsd287 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Oh im so sorry u went through this i hope ur ok and great friends with that guy all the best ❤👍🏻