So I got a boob job... lets talk about it.
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I talk about my ups, downs, and overall journey of getting a boob job and the journey of getting the implants removed a couple years later.
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I feel like no one tells us as teenagers that our boobs still change and grow in our 20’s. I went from an 32, AA at 19 to a 32,D at 28. No weight gain just changing hormones. Women don’t get properly educated about our bodies.
Im glad you came though this safe and happy.
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For me it's so weird, I have about B or C cup but however much weight I gain they don't grow, it's so weird, other women who got fat have giant boobs but mine just don't do anything, how?!
@@c.w.8200 From what I read, it's genetically how we carry our weight. Mine's alllllll in the hips, thighs, and the tum. Small B since high school and not a damn thing has changed at almost 30. 😂
No way???
I didn't know this was possible
I’ve realized that my problem with boob jobs isn’t that the woman got it, but that the woman felt she needed to get it. But some women do it for their own positive and personal reasons and not because of peer or societal pressure. As long as the woman doesn’t feel “forced” to get it, there’s nothing psychologically unhealthy about boob jobs and many women feel more confident afterwards.
I hear what you're saying but a lot of times societal and peer pressures turn into personal reasons. Like if people paid the same attention to boobs that they pay to say knees, no one would ever say they're say they're too small or big or lopsided. And 90% of boob jobs would never happen. The problem is society. It's the same with nose jobs.
@@propogandalf yeah, it’s hard to break apart how much is unhealthy societal pressure and how much is driven by personal factors.
Well, if men were not so shallow, women would not be pressured
There is no way someone gets herself cut for no health reasons without being forced.
My body is unbalanced and I have much bigger bottom than upper part. After having a boob job I stopped starving myself and now feel so chilled about my body. Btw I did pretty small size. And yeah if not breastfeeding I probably would still hesitate.
I did the opposite as a teenager. Mine were very large (borderline DDD) and extremely uncomfortable to me both physically (I am otherwise very small) and mentally. Got surgery at 16 to get them reduced to a B. It was one of the best decisions of my life.
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i dont understand how we all grow randomly as if nature is blind to aesthetics and symmetry/ proportions. i hope in the future we could all evolve somehow to influence the physical structure and growth of our bodies. thats would be soooo cool
Even mine were big that I was really uncomfortable but as I age they somewhat shrink and am comfortable now with my C cups now😃
@@AkeoGreen2059 that's great to hear!!
@@jJust_NO_ Ik it's so damn random! And it doesn't even seem to be genetic as well. Everyone in family has bigger Brest than me but I have soo small, I hate them. Why can't we decide how our bodies look since we have to stay in them for the whole life 💀
I was a stripper for 5 years in my early twenties. I've always been an A cup and I didn't even get those until I was 17. After working around so many women that had breast augmentations I decided that I just didn't want one. They looked great in clothing but when the clothes came off maybe 5% of them still looked good. I learned to love the boobs I had. It's funny how you can be so insecure about something that other people find beautiful. In this case it's completely understandable. If I had uneven breasts I would have done exactly the same thing. I'm glad you're happy with your end result.
Thank you for sharing that. Definitely provides a different perspective. I grew up dancing ballet for 12 years and many other types .. and was “praised” for having a “dancer’s body” (light and petite) and so being an A cup didn’t matter while I was a young ballerina… but it’s definitely caused plenty of insecurities in my adulthood (and even as a teenager- 26 now)… though your perspective of being around women, all the time, with those results, and seeing the less pleasant aspects of them, creates a different layer of consideration into those types of body modifications. Anyways. Thanks for sharing your story!
I feel like A cup girls rarely ever realise the multitude of cute clothing options they have. Love your boobs, they make you look younger in many ways.
I’m 29 and have always wanted boobs. I’ve had offers to get boobs paid for me by multiple men (even my current bf) but I like my tiny body and big booty. I love my small A cups as well. Hell they’re cute 😂 I’ve been tempted a lot but I still don’t feel comfortable enough to do it. So last year I said that’s it. I’m embracing the itty bitty titty committee. 🎉❤ do what makes you comfortable!
Yeah mine are slightly uneven
Thank you for your service woman
You and my icon, Dolly Parton! I love openness about this. It's not a bad thing to get plastic surgery. It's bad to get it and feel like a fraud all the time because you're too scared to admit the work done.
Yeah why do people hide this? As for me I’m proud of it, that’s great to share such experience. I had a nose job and a boob job and that’s great that we have such opportunities nowadays
Yes! I had plastic surgery last year and I'm happy to tell everyone and their dog. I paid good money for my new eyelids I want everyone to see them! 🤣
@@juliesilent Because they think people are too dumb to notice 👀
@@DiamondsRexpensive lol
to be honest my groupmates at the university didn’t notice anything😂
If you do everything in a right and natural way people just think you’re beautiful and don’t think about surgeries
@@DiamondsRexpensive or may be people from my university are so dumb I don’t know😂😂😂
i love how honest she is. i want more “influences” to be like this
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you know its acting right?
@@IStMl exactly. This next level is Hollywood producing influencers to influence the influencers
Yeah no ...
I can’t wait for her to talk about her tummy lipo
Thank you from the bottom of my heart. As a young woman who is incredibly self conscious I’ve been considering plastic surgery for a while for this one particular area. It’s so refreshing to see a video like this from anyone, but ESPECIALLY Haley freaking Kalil. ❤
No matter where you fall on the spectrum, there will be people who appreciate it, so don't worry about looking the way you think others would prefer, just worry about what you want for yourself solely internally. Many traditional models are very slim, and many social media figures have crazy curves, and both are appreciated by different audiences. And as far as romantic partners, the are men who like nearly flat, and men who like absurdly large, and everything in between, and women who prefer less traditionally feminine presenting partners, and women who's tastes are more in line with what male taste is stereotyped as. No matter what you've got, plenty of people will find it beautiful, so only worry about what you want for yourself, then just find the people who appreciate you for what you are and what you want to be.
The internet warps our perception, but in real life fitting a mold is nowhere near as important.
My mother is in the throws of brest cancer and while your journey isn't the same as hers, I'm so thankful you talked about this. The procedures are similar and you talking about it has the potential to help a lot of women 💜 especially about the Lymphadema (the fluid build up). It's not discussed enough and a serious risk - so glad you had the compression and massages to help 🙌🏻
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thank you for addressing this topic. not a lot of people are honest about these types of topics. you're the realist, love you Haley ❤
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William's ok with this?
🔸A lot of ppl arent honest about this is because how society makes them feel about it tho.while one person has to be accountable, society doesn't have to be accountable because a group of ppl said it & they all have different spectrums of opinions.
🔹So if you say something, ppl be like oh thats not me, thats the other ppl which is true that some part of society isnt toxic.
🔹but that doesn't mean society isnt the issue. Its time ppl stop bashing ppl so ppl don't have to feel like they need to hide it in the first place.
🔹so i m happy shes honest but i m dont blame ppl that arent honest about it at all, i blame the toxic side of society that doesn't even hear ppl out or try to understand them/present their opinions politely.
🔸Its as she said, you have something thats different you get teased, you change it & you get teased/bullied & judged for changing it.
🔹that being said,i m not Pro/negative about cosmetic surgery i just feel different ppl may need different things.
🔹so sometimes solution might be plastic surgery & sometimes it might not be & its ok if the person took an informed decision.
🔹but when they didn't & sometimes they are risking their lives due to too many surgeries & they may need to see a therapist due to lack of self esteem due to being conditioned by superficial parts of society.
🔹what we can do is be kind about our doubts & worries because we care about the person & not because we view it as some social sin.
🔹Plus whats odd is the audacity people (so called angelic "kids") Have to bully people for no reason, they ll bully you no matter what size of chest you have, just some are bullied more than other.
🔹oh you have big chest, you get body/slutshamed, have small then you still get body shamed as not feminine enough etc, if its uneven then its even worse.
🔹either way i m happy it turned out ok for her tho.
Honesty is great. But if someone is a ****, then their honesty is just going to make them act openly like a ****. I mean, this woman acknowledges that people are made to feel insecure about their bodies and then actively propagandises for an industry that promotes and profits from that insecurity. She deserves nothing but contempt.
This is so good to know. I have been considering a fat transfer since I was probably 19 and I've never heard anything about how painful it can be. Thank you for being so candid about your experience!
Thank you for being open about this. It’s a good reminder for me to not compare myself to others. I’m glad you went and did what made you happy. I recently been going through my own plastic surgery procedures to get rid of my very old (10+ years ago) self harm scars on my forearm. When I initially decided to go ahead with the surgeries I NEVER thought I’d be so open about it. I was planning to get it done and pretend like it never happened and make up some wacky and fun story for it. Instead now, I’m so proud of the progress (before/after) and since it’s a lesser known procedure (for this particular use case), I want to share my experience with it too in case someone else is looking to maybe do the same because, for me, it changed my life for the better.
You are amazing. Letting us see the "human" side of yourself that everyone is trying to hide in social media, I very much appreciate it. I lost my 9 year old dog in September 2022 when I was living in NYC, far from home and him (I'm from Colombia), so your stories make me feel understood, as if you have listened to my story. You really seem like a very nice, genuine and loving person. Thank you Haley, please never stop doing TH-cam like this.
I just got my implants removed after 19 years and 2 surgeries. Mine were silicone and they ruptured twice. I have never been so happy to have my natural boobies back. I wish I had never gotten them. So many surgeries.
I had mine 29 years 2 sets my second set ruptured with a mammogram. Wish I never got them!
What a refreshing human being! Thanks for sharing a little of yourself with the world. I wish there were more people like you.
You're so real Haley, it's refreshing to see a transparent celebrity who's not ashamed of their story.
Have a great 2023.
"Real" is very much the wrong word for someone who has had plastic surgery.
she is real because she was honest and open about it. its people like you who make people feel like they need to have plastic surgery@@omp199
@@omp199 Plastic surgery might have made parts of her body look different (as you say, not real, but it is still taken from other parts), it doesn't make her any less of a person than she was before. If anything, it helped to shape who she is today, so please think twice before you criticise her for changing the way she looks. It's her body, not yours.
Normally not the type of channel I watch, but the transparency on this channel is it.
I was a B all through high school. Wanted a boob job, didn’t get one. Then I had my kid. I was a DD while nursing and went to a C when I was done. I’m perfectly happy with my C’s. Not a reason to have a kid, but def a bonus. 😉
Well mine got bigger after breastfeeding too, but they also got saggier🙈definitely would prefer to have perkier B.
That’s why i’m waiting to have babies 😂
I've been an A-B, and after breastfeeding A- . I have a good butt though, I'll work my strengths!
@@blackangel4431 🙄
@@comradeleppi2000 you okay?
Thanks for sharing this with us and being so honest about everything!
I got implants in 2018 after a weight loss of 40kg/88lbs. I started getting exhausted very quickly at only slight acitivity very soon after I got the implants. Doctors couldn't find anything besides a lot of autoimmune reactions that came out of nowhere. In 2019 I was completely bedbound at the age of 25, not even able to hold my own phone on my worst days. You can not imagine how awful that was and how scared you are, especially when everyone tells you it is a MENTAL ILLNESS!!!
Finally, in October 2019, I got the diagnosis Chronic Fatigue Syndrome because of ASIA Syndrome (Auto immune/inflammatory disease induced by adjuvants). I was the first case in my country Austria that got the explantation paid by the health insurance because of that diagnosis.
You people can not believe how awful doctors treated me, especially older male ones. I have no idea why no one believed that I had no energy and no force left in my muscles. Besides that my salivary glands and my thyroid were attacked by my immune system. And I also got scleroderma antibodies.
End of story: My body not only attacked my implants (anti polymer antibodies), but also my own body to a very big extent.
I am getting better, but noone can tell me if I will ever be at 100% of power again.
You've been so strong
Keep fighting girl
You'll make it!🥺
If you don’t mind sharing, did you get them removed?! May you be well ❤
@@JessicaDarling2 Yes, I got them removed in April 2020 and luckily even health insurance covered it, because they realized it was implant-related. Luckily it has been going upwards since then! Unfortunately I still struggle with weakness in winter, but it seems to get better over the years.
I'd love to hear about any other cosmetic procedures you've had (if you've had any). There are so many procedures that a lot of "average" people don't even know about, that celebrities get but then deny getting and claim it's natural. Things like skin treatments, hairline laser treatments, fillers, implants, brow lifts, microblading, lash extensions, and more. I just hate the lying and hypocrisy lol. Most of the time, it's obvious when a celebrity has had work done, even if it's hard to pinpoint exactly what was changed. The lying makes it seem like they believe their fans are stupid. And if they'd rather not talk about it, they can always say that instead of completely denying it.
Same and totally agree on those ‘subtle’ treatments people don’t talk about, although they do make a difference. I’m pretty sure Haley has lip fillers and almost sure she has done a nose job too.
I want to know how celebrities people get rid of stretch marks.😂
@@kyladanae probably some sort of laser treatment, but idk lol
@Kyla Danae I have seen some "makeup" tattoo treatments for it, where they basically just fill them in with your skin color.
@@erinh2244 oh yeah, I have heard of that. I think it can be used to cover other scars as well.
You are truly inspiring to me, just being your beautiful self and not afraid to be open about personal things like this. I have had depression for over 2 years now and I have never told anybody in my life till this day. I've been bullied for quite some time and since then I always adapted to the personalities of others and never ever told them anything personal that they could judge me for, just so that I would be accepted. I wish I could be vulnerable around others but society's often so harsh and judgemental lately that I just end up keeping everything to myself most of the time. So Haley, thank you for sharing this and letting me know that it's alright to share your shit sometimes :)
Loved this video and hearing about your journey. Have you ever shared how you got into modeling after being someone who was teased for their looks?
It’d be easy for so many women to hate on you and feel envious but your whole personality and your content really makes that hard to do! It’s refreshing and very entertaining and insightful.
The flip side of this is that if I were to get a breast reduction as mine are really big, or get skin removal once I lose weight, I wouldn't be judged as much for it. Society likes to try and deem what's acceptable and what's not. But this was your decision with your body and no one else has a say in that. Thank you for speaking up! There's lots of conversations that need to happen more
I am anxiously waiting for the ✨Haley’s Ted Talk✨ about the red light origin story lol. Also I honestly feel like if MORE people talked about their plastic surgeries, LESS people would be tempted to get unnecessary surgeries and really be thoughtful about the work they get done. Thanks for starting the convo Haley!
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*TED - Technology, Entertainment, Design
This woman is actively propagandising for the cosmetic surgery industry. You are deluding yourself if you genuinely think that anything she is doing is going to reduce the number of people tempted to have cosmetic surgery performed on them. The only way to reduce the number - if that is really something that you want - is for people to encourage acceptance of natural bodies and rejection of cosmetic surgery.
That was so sweet of the doctor to hang up all your printed pictures. Way to show that he really cared and took your thoughts and wants seriously
I’m 43, breast implants at 26 after having my daughter AND my body still was changing at 26 after a baby. No problems but they still aren’t perfect and never will be but that’s OK!! I love ‘em! No regrets! Love love love how you ended this video with basically love your story bc it’s who you are and no regrets bc it’s part of our journey. This world needs more influencers like you ma’am and less Kardashian! I never ever comment on TH-cam but I discovered your channel this morning and I’m hooked! See so much me in your story it’s crazy!!! Thank you!! 😘
I appreciate you talking about the bad parts of getting a boob job. It sounds scary - the cold room and metal bed. And the pain! That scares me off of implants. And the biggest of all, getting fat transferred - having to gain 25 lbs.. that's so much effort!! Thank you for sharing your experiences, Haley.
Absolutely LOVE how COMPLETELY honest you are!!! Thank you ❤️
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Thank you for being so transparent ❤ I love these TED talks! Please keep them going
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My poor cousin was a triple E at 15. My uncle got her a boob reduction due to the back pain she experienced as she was only 5'5" and still growing. After a reduction she grew to a DD. She has lived with it although even that size on her small frame is still painful for her back. So as a result, she works out regularly to have a stronger core to support her chest size.
“Only 5’5” 😭
Doesn't she have this condition called breast hypertrophy? Boobs keep growing and growing nonstop throughout the years. To me, that's pretty scary😵
In wht world is 5 ft 5 a small frame. Thats above average height for females.
@@bleaktripod3266 I meant to say 5'2". And yes for triple E that is too small either way. I am 5'7" which in my world is average and even double d does not have the back to support the weight. It's called experience my sweet troll. Experience. And major amounts of chronic pain.
That poor girl. I hate how oversexualised big boobs are especially by men. I know this is seemingly off topic but this comment has made me think of the fact that I have seen multiple men being upset about breast reductions and some husbands even having the audacity to cry about it and demand to have a say in that decision.
It reminded me how little men care that we literally suffer from such big boobs and chronic pain indeed is fucking unbearable. I too feel like I am slowly noticing that I have chronic back pain from my breasts and to relief myself I either have to lay down or when I am at my desk I can actually lay my girlies on the table and lean forwards. Idk how to explain it lmfao, but my chair is pretty low and thus my upper body reaches the perfect height for me to be able to use my desk as a way to lift them off.
Glad you were honest and confident enough to talk about this. I wondered if you would. Talking about these sort of things can only have a positive influence.
What a ridiculous thing to say. Talk can be negative just as much as it can be positive. This woman acknowledges that people are made to feel insecure about their bodies and then actively propagandises for an industry that promotes and profits from that insecurity. That sort of talk is only going to be a harmful influence.
Oh, and "propaganda" has three a's, just so you know.
I’m such a sissy when it comes to pain. There is no way I could go through what you have. You are a trooper. I just subscribed to your channel so thankful I found you. Love your videos already. ❤️❤️❤️
You are such a great voice on the internet! These types of things need to be talked about!
Thank you so much for encouraging open conversation. Loved this ❤️ Hope more TED talks are on the way 🙏 Take Care 🍀
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Thank you. People don't realize how incredibly PAINFUL surgery is. It's horrendous! Any surgery! That being said you look amazing, thank you for sharing.
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Think about what you are saying before you say it. You are right that surgery is horrendous. There's not just the pain, but all sorts of possible complications that can do long-term harm to people, not to mention the expense and all the resources that are needed to carry it out. If it is not required to sort out a serious medical problem, surgery is a terrible thing. Cosmetic surgery is particularly bad, because it is so unnecessary: it's just the result of people's insecurity about their bodies. And yet this woman is actively propagandising for the cosmetic surgery industry: an industry that promotes and profits from that insecurity. And you are encouraging her by saying that she looks "amazing", thereby helping to validate what she is doing and feeding the narrative that plastic surgery makes people look amazing.
I mean, she does look amazing. Amazingly artificial. Amazingly weird. Don't encourage her.
@omp199 baby, you woke and chose to type all that out for a stranger? Relax a little, people will do what they want to do no matter what you say.
@@melindahmkhwanazi You said yourself that surgery is horrendous. And yet countless people are having themselves subjected to it every day for no good reason. That should bother you. Have some empathy.
@omp199 I do believe it's too great a risk. As someone who has a husband and kids, I have a lot to lose. But, at the same time, people will never stop doing what they want to do. All we can do is watch on, and when I compliment her, I am hoping she hears me, and this be her last surgery because God knows she drop dead gorgeous.
Empathy is there, but so is freedom. I hope she knows she's perfect as she is.
I loved this🥰Thank You Haley, for being so open and honest about your experience.
I recently discovered her channel. And I just wanna say that this video made me love her a lot more?
I (19F) have relatively small boobs and I’ve never really cared for them but social media makes me sometimes think that I’d look better with bigger boobs, and I won’t lie I felt the same when I saw Hayley’s shorts for the first time. It was a slight feeling of “oh I wish I had that too”
But now I’m watching this video, and seeing Hayley being open about the procedures she’s done just makes her seem so much more…human? and it makes me feel like I don’t need to live up to an unrealistic beauty standard.
I realized that Influencers getting a crap ton of work done and then claiming it’s “natural” is so harmful to young girls (I don’t care about my body but even I felt affected by it) so seeing Hayley being so open is a breath of fresh air :)
I can't comment on how you'd prefer to look for yourself, obviously, but as far as social reception goes, plenty of people don't find small breasts unattractive, I mean, look at most models (traditional, not social media influencers). Larger breasts grab more attention in thumbnail short format internet content, sure, but the dynamic is completely different in real life. Also it's even different situationally, with different outfits looking better or worse for different sizes, going both ways depending on the pieces. Also, smaller breasts often present better when unsupported and uncovered, so while they may not grab as much attention on the street, a close partner would appreciate them.
It seems like it isn't a big deal to you anyways, which is great, but also to anyone else that may read this, focus on yourself as a whole, mind and body, not just body, and focus on your body's function, not its form. If you're healthy, you'll always look good, but if you focus on looks, you may not live healthy. And put real, conscious effort into picking the people around you, good people who help you grow and feel comfortable with who you are without having to change.
If anyone wants to change how they look to fit their own internal goals, go for it, work hard for it, as long as it doesn't harm your health, but never let the internet tell you how you should look. For every look that's popular on the internet, you can easily find plenty of both men and women in the real world who aren't into that look, which is to say, you don't have to look a certain way to still be attractive to a very large part of the population.
Media makes these things seem much more important than they are. Please do nor feel bad about them, Im sure they are just fine. Medical procedures have risks and can have problematic consequences.
@@noncog1 I hope everyone sees this comment. So well worded! thankyou
@@noncog1 "if you're healthy, you'll always look good" words to live by!
@@marvelgeek147 Thank you!
Thank you for your transparency and sharing this part of your journey. Really amazing to hear that you’ve had positive end results after the final surgery and it works for you. That’s really what’s most important.. I’m sure there can often be hesitation about any type of body modification or surgery about the end results being worth it, and for you it seems like you’re satisfied and that’s great ! I have always had a petite frame and part of the IBTC… I’ve looked into the different types of procedures and options … and idk if I ever will get augmentation surgery or not, or just learn better ways to accept the body God gave me without those modifications.. maybe they’ll grow if I ever have children, or maybe they’ll always be this size. Mostly just praying I one day marry a man who loves every part of my body, whether I do or don’t ever have that type of surgery. Really appreciate your courage to share your experience, and also stressing the importance of being fully educated and doing all the necessary research before making a long term decision.
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Thank you. This was so enlightening. You are a sweetheart.❤️
I’m 62 years old, and I’d really like to get a lower face lift:/ what I see in the mirror doesn’t match how I feel inside, ya know? But everyone tells me it’s crazy, dangerous and can ruin my face. It’s all so scary. It’s hard to learn to love what the exterior alters to be. 💕
There's a doctor on TH-cam, Dr. Gary Linkov, who is a board-certified plastic surgeon. I just watch his videos about different procedures 'for fun' - I personally don't want any plastic surgery - but if you do perhaps his videos will help you learn about the risks, etc? You do you! / Feel good in your skin, however that is! :D
@Janice Ervin
talk to your dermatologist about it, because “everyone” doesn’t know shxt what they’re talking about. the horror stories they’ve heard are probably based on outdated practices, misinformation, and their own insecurities.
there are so many advances in modern technology nowadays. look into ultherapy, which is a non-invasive procedure. face lift, without “surgery”. it naturally encourages your skin to produce collagen and you will look younger as months go by.
it’s even better to consult to various dermatologist. no two doctors are the same, some are better fit for you than others.
Thank you for sharing your journey. Not enough people talk about the fat transfer option to breast surgery and being truthful and transparent about the recovery process. And also sharing your Breast implant removal process. I don’t think this is talked about enough.
Omg. You nailed it. The world tells us we're not good enough. We fix what we're made to feel isn't "good enough." We're judged for fixing what's "not good enough." That pretty much sums up what it's like being a girl (and some boys) in the world today.
Not just America x
@@GypsyChlo Thanks. Correction has been made.
And not just girls!
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@@christya2488 ♥
Remember telling my mom I was sick and didn't wanna go to school. The real reason was the bullying I have received from classmates, up until high-school I was acting like someone else trying to fit in. Then I grew up, embraced who I am,, for some reason a lot of those girls making fun of me ended up looking for me, the guys on the other hand turned out to become loosers. Lesson in life. Always stay humble
Thanks so much for opening up! We’re loving the longer format! ❤
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Thanks for sharing your story 😮. I love how transparent you are and feel like you’re one of my friends ❤
I was teased in school too! Look at us now girl? They wouldn't tease us now! I also had tiny breasts, they literally didn't grow properly. I had one bigger than the other, they looked deformed and I was so self conscious. I feel your pain. You're a wonderful person and I love your channel. I know I don't know you, but I feel like I'm watching a friend 😌 much love!
No matter what anyone says, the cruel and hurtful things that people say to you when you are young stay with you your entire life. The bright side of being bullied is that it often enhances your ability to have empathy for others and be less judgmental. It makes you a better judge of character, being able to see the rhinestones from the diamonds in this sea of souls. Through sharing your personal experience, it will give others who might be lost and in pain an opportunity to look to your example for solace and encouragement. The anger and resentment brought about by prolonged harassment can be converted into an indefatigable drive to conquer goals that most people could not even dare to dream. I am happy that you are pleased with the results of your surgery, but I am sad that ugly people compelled a spirit who was already a beautiful swan to go above and beyond to not feel like an ugly duckling. I believe most bullying is derived from jealousy. My belief is that evil energy always desires to snuff out the good in people, particulary those who have a rare shine to them who can be a major force for the good. You are a unique and precious soul. Yes, you are a beautiful muse, but it is your personality that is the shining star. You have a fantastic sense of humor and your love for your puppers is endearing. It shows that you have great compassion and concern for the most vulnerable in this world. As for bullying, I have experienced similar pain and triumph in life. I deeply appreciate your experience, as it mirrors much of my own. I see nothing but success and a fulfilling, spiritually rich future for you, Haley. Bless you!
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You're such a kind person I hope you surround yourself with others alike
@@iamthebean940 If more people were kind like you the world would be a peaceful and happy place! :)
@@clarissaflowers6200 I actually screenshotted what you wrote to read in the future again... Thanks you x2 :)
@@iamthebean940 Thank you so much! Your wonderful comment made my week!
Your energy and honesty is unmatched ❤
I love how genuine you are
So cool of you to take us thru this journey in your life ❤❤
I definitely STAN/ADORE/LOOK UP to you Haley! Thank you so much for opening a platform for women and men who went through/thinking about plastic surgery. I support those who choose to undergo that but at the same time, celebrities tend to lie/hide from the reality creating this perfect image rather than a realistic experience. We're all humans and allowed to become the best versions of ourselves in our own way. I definitely agree with you when you said we can do what we want as long as we are not harming anyone else. Thanks for spreading positivity and love. Love you! Wishing you a beautiful day like you!
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This woman acknowledges that people are made to feel insecure about their bodies and then actively propagandises for an industry that promotes and profits from that insecurity. She is purely a harmful influence.
Thank you for being open ! The truthfullness is so helpful. And you look great !
Haley i just love you I went through a breakup last week and i was sad but watching you makes me happy and confident. WE WANT TED TALKSS HALEY
Breast abnormalities pop up in my family from time to time. One cousin and I are lopsided like you were. She’s a C/A and I’m DD/C. Another cousin was DDD by 12 and her daughter reach that by 14. The oversized cousin got government assistance for a breast reduction taking her from an H to a C and improving her quality of life so much.
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Maybe they are overweight? İt is impossible to have H when skinnh
@@Trivelakick wrong.
@@charito9396 It ıs very very very rare to be %15 body fat and have H.
@@Trivelakick but not impossible. Genetics play a huge role.
Haley you are so so pretty (inside & out) I never ever in my life (60 yrs old) cared about criticism coming from people I was not close to. Your generation (I have a son your age) is so obsessed about what others think. NO try to work it out. At the end of the day what matters is how YOU feel. Even your "dog scar" consider it as a medal which will heal in time. In my opinion the bandaid looks soooo cute on your cheek carry it with pride until its removed.🌹🌹🌹
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young minds are always susceptible to others judgements.
at 33 im so heavily identified with beauty standards.
maybe it will disappear when im 40s 😂
The woman in the video is actively promoting the very attitudes that you seem to dislike. How can you not see that? Don't praise someone who is part of the problem.
Thank you for sharing this story, it's so genuine and insightful and I'm really glad it came out exactly as you had wanted ❤
Good talk! I had implants when I was 19. It was a painful recovery feeling like an elephant was sitting on my chest! I was insecure my whole life about my body and my small chest. I don’t regret my decision one bit. I’m 34 now and will need to get my implants redone in the next 5 years
I was teased for the opposite reason, I had big boobs in high school. I went from being flat to 34C, I swear it felt like over night. By the time I was a senior I was 36D. I have always had boobs regardless how much weight I lost. I got picked on so bad, I was told I stuffed my bra, during the summer my family were members of a local pool. I had grown men gawk over me at 15-16…… I would wear a shirt when that would happen which was basically the weekends since people were off from work. I was in my 30s (I am 47) before I was happy with my body, my ENTIRE body.
Oh my God. My heart cried out for what you have to go through that too on a such a young age😢 . As women we have to go through so much mentally and physically for all our life. we should support each other so that we can talk about these issues like you did and can learn from each others experiences instead of shaming eachother and judging people. ❤
omg, this video is everything. I did a nose job and my look change so much. And did not get the nose I want. so for 1 year, I was in depression. Now I get used to it but I always think about revision, also scared as hell. Seeing this video makes me believe there is a always solution for any surgery. I'm so happy you find the right doctor to fix the problem. I hope that i can find the right doctor to fix me as well. thanks for the video.
I had braces for two years and almost died from the pain and the side effects 😂… any change, addition, or removal to your body comes with a lot of pain. Thanks for sharing your story 💗
Thank you for being open and telling your story. You are so blessed that it turned out well.
I should type my testimony about my breast cancer and all my obstacles but not today
I feel you. I had inflammatory breast cancer, it's an extremely aggressive type.
My chemotherapy worked wonders, and knocked it out! I also had radiation, but choose against surgery. This because of a side effect of the chemo, neuropathy in both feet causing chronic pain. I also was not eligible for reconstructive work, possibly permanently as a status. I
also could write a book, but will simply wish everyone well. :) Happy New Year!
@@katherinechase3674 Hello and thanks for the well wishes. Wishing you good health & happiness in your future!
Great video. Thank you for being so honest. I was skeptical but you delivered an earnest, relatable story. Much respect.
I am such a fan of your content and you are gorgeous but more than that so funny and talented. I love these non Ted talks because you really get to see such a genuine authentic and real side and also so helpful the advice. I really appreciate that you are so multi faceted and deserve all the success
Thanks for sharing! I would never consider this but I’m sure it has helped people. I just can’t imagine I’m glad you’re doing so well ❤
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Love the honesty! I was super flat in high school and thought about it until a Doctor told me every 10 years I would need to remove old implants. So I learned to embrace being part of the itty bitty committee and best part was going bra free by buying clothes that don't need bras if you are an A cup. I feel comfortable in the body I have. Hope more people could be happy with their bodies.
I have small boobs and men told me that I’m perfect. I don’t get how; but they think my boobs are fine 😂
I also have small boobs but my issue is one is smaller than another which is almost nothing. That's the real problem for me
Thank you for your transparency around your plastic surgery. Plastic surgery in itself isn't really the problem. The real issue is celebrities lying about having surgery done and saying if you do these exercises or purchase this lip kit you too can look like me.
This was a wonderful talk, I forwarded it to my girls. All the best, Brian.
so proud of you as this is a topic lots of people struggle to talk about ❤️
She’s brave, it’s awesome…hopefully it helps other folks out there
She describing her high school, literally made me emotional because I went through the same thing
I used to get bullied too. But I had the last laugh because teenagers kill in themselves in cars. Hahahaha yea
Thank you for your lovely talk😊💙I'm glad you are doing better now
Pls do these ted talks once in a while :) its like soo refreshing and calming. I love it.
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Thank you for being honest❤️
I really like hearing your stories and your honesty :) Thank you for sharing with us. Hope you’re feeling amazing in 2023!
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I'm all for it! If it's an improvement you want, do it! I've had plenty and a breast job. You are the only person who's opinion matters! Go for it ❤
Yes body autonomy!! I found you through your shorts, and while I love your humorous content, I REALLY enjoy this serious stuff, too.
Thank you so much for talking about this, Haley! I wish this was a more openly talked about topic. As part of the ibtc I've always considered the possibility of getting mine done but never took the plunge (I had health issues that took priority). Now hearing about implant illness I'm glad I never did. Having already struggled for years to get my health issues taken seriously (i.e. no they're not in my head! 🙄), I hate to think what I would have had to go through on top of all that 🙈
But I've also always wondered what they actually feel like for the person on the inside of their body (I've never heard anyone describe it before). Does it feel like skin stretched over a foreign object with no sensation past that "layer" of skin/muscle? Does your chest constantly feel compressed in a way? Is it like an internal sensation of permanently wearing a push-up bra? Always been curious 🤔
Dude. Literally same!
Having implants feels weird. It’s been over five years since I’ve yeeted mine but they did cause me to lose sensation in my breasts. Have you ever had whiplash? It kind of feels like lingering whiplash when your shoulders are just tight and forward
@@thehollyannrose Oh wow! Thank you for answering my question 💕 Hope you don't mind me asking, but has sensation come back at all since getting rid of them or is that gone for good? (like permanently severing a nerve?)
I've had mine since June and the only time I can actually feel them is when I like bend over fold myself in half and stay like that for a bit lol I went from the smallest a cup to a decent c..it did take a bit to feel okay running though lol
I’ve always wondered how they felt too! I personally wouldn’t do it for myself, but I’ve dreamed of how it would feel to have bigger boobs 😂
And a sweet coworker of mine had breast cancer and then got breast implants because she felt insecure about losing her breasts. She then learned around time of pandemic that the exact ones she had in were causing cancer in people!! She is okay, she of course then soon as possible went to remove them. But how crazy and sad to suffer an illness and then practically put it back inside your body.
Two different boob sizes are totally normal. Some are a bigger disparity than others. One of mine is a DD the other is a large E. It’s very noticeable but I try to own it. It’s so easy to be insecure about literally everything about yourself. The things you could love in someone close to you could be the thing they despise in themselves and vice versa. Glad to see you owning your story and yourself for who you are.
I try to think of my uneven boobs as 'variety' 😉
May be DD and E will not be that much noticeable as both are bigger. But mine is A with almost nothing. That's my insecurity. I am trying to own it.
@@lillychawla9079 small boobs have so much character to them in my opinion, and saves your back haha so many prefer smaller over larger from what I’ve heard. But your opinion is the only one that matters. I’m glad you’re trying to take it in your stride. I hope you learn to fully accept it down the line ❤️ it’s a hard journey
Man, the bruising from some surgeries?! I had a relatively minor knee procedure back in '07 and the surgeon warned me that it'll hurt like a knee replacement because, in his words, "it's not like we'll be gentle, you're unconscious after all!" Seriously, bruised from mid thigh to mid shin and keenly aware that they dug around a LOT in the knee joint. Felt like they went at it with a chisel and hammer.
Good on you for sharing your stories. You're right, there's SO much we just don't talk about....for what? If we're ok talking about things then we should. I'm really glad you had the opportunity to have your surgeries properly revised and that you were able to have that momentous feeling of, "this is the body I was supposed to have, this is right." I'm really happy for you. Thanks for sharing with us, thanks for your videos and skits, keep up the good work, and I hope 2023 brings you everything you need.
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WOW! Thanks for sharing this. Seriously this is so vulnerable and confident. I love it!
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Well I'm at the point of my life where I've realized that I don't care, would I prefer having bigger boobs? Yes. Do I care that I'm rly flat? No. Because no matter what I look like an no matter what I do or don't do to my body, it my choice an I'll slay the day away until the day I die. I know that we all will and w should always be confident, and there's more to life than looks. 💖💖
Bruh I'm not angry I'm trying to be inspiration 😂💖
Not saying you want bigger boobs because of guy's but if that's one of the reasons. The truth is most guys don't care at all about boob size unless it's completely flat.
You should talk about your Glow up story!! I know you joke about it a lot but it’s always inspiring to look over aesthetic transformation of being a duckling to a model.
You are the bestest! Love these little chats about life!!! ❤️
Technology is amazing, and your willingness to be so open about such a sensitive topic is more so. Thank your for sharing your story. it puts a new light on an industry that is fraught with peril and greed.
Thank you so much for sharing your journey and also your personal struggles and triumphs, in the end it's how you feel and who you were supposed to be. I developed very early (Dolly Parton like)when I was in fourth and fifth grade I had a very slight frame little bit of curve 120 lb and a size D ish chest. And I had a breast reduction when I was about twenty-seven and when I woke up from my surgery, more myself, I have the breast size I should have had. 🦋
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No judgement! You’re a lovely person for sharing your personal journey❤
@@haIeyybayleeofficial huh? Is this for real? How do I Telegram? Is that an app?
I love these videos because it’s like I’m hanging out with you even when we are far away ❤
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Girl I get you. I'm in the same situation because I've got a chest malformation. Yay! I truly needed to be the kid with the most issues since birth. And pectus exacavatum had to be one of them. Where your ribcage instead of sliglty coming out it dips in. Which causes me to also look slouchy. A lot of people tell me I'm not standing straight. Or that my shoulders are coming in. But for me, it physically hurts to straighten my shoulders outwards. It's like forcing yourself to tip toe for the rest of your life without the support of a heel or wedge. Just tip toeing in the air. And my mom has told me about surgery to fix both problems. But i refused for very valid reasons. I'm afraid of pain. I wouldn't want to do surgery on my bones now that I'm already developped and stopped growing, because it will hurt the hell out of me. And I'm scared. So scared I almost cry everytime I get an injection despite it not hurting at all in the end. And also I don't give a fuck. A man should love me for who I am not judge my body. If you love somebody you love them entirely. And to be honest, I found really good bras that look natural on me. So much so I forget about the issue entirely. I can wear this model with almost everything. Except very low cut or strappy stuff because it's a t-shirt bra. But I have others that hide really well. And I tourned the worst bra into one with interchangeable straps and I only wear it now with clear silicone straps when needed. And I'm happy.
for me I used to slouch a lot in my teenage years and the podologist made me do some foot exercises, gave me a shoe insole and made me wear heels (not big), and I got so much better, he said the root of the posture, spine etc. starts with the feet; but I understand your problem is in your ribcage... Just googled 'pectus excavatum pictures' and it looks somehow poetic, literally looks like they are almost heartless, it's kinda cool. Anyway, hope you manage it well ^^
@@ei6728 what's funny is how my mom was sure I had this condition despite it has never been diagnosed on me. Because to her credit I didn't look like I had a caved in chest as a child. But it started to show more as I was developping during puberty. I told her I didn't believe her. That you can't diagnose someone by looking on the Internet. But then I gave up. Because yes, you can't diagnose someone using some random online article. But you also can't deny my ribcage doesn't cave in. Expecially after other doctors doubled down on it and acknowledged the issue was there. So yes my ribcage is pushed in for some reason. And in some cases it needs to be surgically fixed by putting a special metal bar in between to reshape the ribcage. I won't get it fixed probably unless I go through extensive therapy because I'm 21 and I know for sure at this age it's going to be a long painful ride. The only thing I have to look out for is weight gain. Which is quite hilarious considering I can barely put on weight because of my stomach issues. Basically a specialized doctor told me to control potential weight gain and that I should stay on the skinnier side or else I may put too much pressure on my chest. And because my ribcage already dips in, it can put pressure on my lungs making it hard for me to breathe. Well that's not funny at all.
Also I forgot to mention I had flat feet and got them surgically fixed since i found out when I was 12 and it was too late for it to be cured with special insoles. I rememeber being told I was still in the clear because my foot would probably still grow so I wouldn't feel much pain but guess what? I had a pair of converse shoes that were 7 years old when I threw them away. So my foot hasn't grown since I was 12. I bought a new pair last year and used the old shoe as a size guide. I can't have anything good happen to me.
@@nikitatavernitilitvynova sometimes bad luck is simply unjustified, I don't think bad things usually 'happen for a reason', it sucks to have health conditions and that's all there is to it, even if it sounds harsh, one just has to cope. Good thing is you can see, smell, hear, walk, etc. and most importantly you can think ^^ you write eloquently
Thanks for sharing your story and your surgeon! :)
i love these ted talks so much they are amazing please keep doing them❤❤
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Thank you for sharing and being so honest! There really isn’t a lot of information from women who actually did it so this is very helpful❤
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I was a model in the 60s, 70s, 80s and early 90s. I didnt really get boobs till my 4th child. Now I have wind socks. Love to get them refilled. I have no shame so I'd discuss it too. Proud of you girl.
You’re so beautiful! I had a book job back in 2009, with all the issues with people are saying about breast implant illness, I’m saving up money to explant. Much love from Pennsylvania ❤
I got one in 2005 and have health issues. I hope to also get an explant soon
I'm so glad I decided to wait till I was done having kids. I actually started liking the boobs I already have. All the crazy stories about breast implant illness, really glad I didn't got them then
Are you experiencing anything at all or this is preventative? This is the oneeeee thing that's kept me going under the knife - but being in LA and there being a few amazing surgeons I'm always tempted. Just very very very scared of BII AS IM ALREADY a very "sensitive" person (caught a - to this day still unknown as to the cause - infection in 2012 and just about almost died from toxic shock, so yeaaaaah 🥴 ...made me hyper aware of what comes close to and inside my body for sure). Thanks for any info. I hope you are healthy and everything works out the absolute best for you ❤️
Hi all. Maddie of the vlog "Tangerine Travels" had her boob implants removed due to health issues. She talked about it in the channel. Btw, she & her former BF have separated, so she now has her own channel (Maddiegold) but the vid about the explant is on the TT channel. Good luck on your plans for explants.
I just had explant due to some health issues,
you're super honest and im here for it
I have had 3! It's fine. My last one was in 2018. Glad to see people opening up about stuff like this.
Thank you for sharing this journey 💕
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FINNALY someone who talks about their surgery and owns it. I have no problem with plastic surgery BUTTTTTT when people lie about it that’s what pisses me off
She explained why people lie about it.
Thanks for being so honest Haley! Boob jobs are definitely no walk in the park. And it's true what the other comments are saying, our breats can grow still, into our 20s. So it's always best to do our research and know what we're getting ourselves into.
Also, I once heard a guy say, if a man loves you, he'll love your boobs too.
When I saw your title, I was judgy. But then I watched. Good on you for doing this and talking about it.
Thank you for sharing. I love honest discourse around plastic surgery. Getting implants was one of the best decisions I've ever made for myself (at the age of 39). I just wanted my body to be proportional, for shirts and dresses to fit. It's so hard when you need them to fit your waist and hips, but have nothing in the chest area. They just hang down and never look right. I'm so much more confident in and out of clothes now. The healing was definitely more painful than I expected, but they are amazing. My surgeon is an absolute artist. They don't look "fake." And frankly I didn't care if they did. No one would know except my partner anyway. I encourage everyone to what feels healthy for them, and mental health is so closely tied to how we see ourselves.
sometimes people really say bad things about you, i am in school and there is always rumors about you and people can be mean, but you dont have to care about it. Thats something i have learnt :))
Hayley, Respect to you for your honesty.
Your experiences, your attitudes are real and relateable.
Love the content of your channel.
You deserve the best of everything.
Cheers Amigo.
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@@hayleebayIeeofficial Thankyou for your reply, it made my day!.
I'm no good with the IT stuff, is this a DM?.
Thanks for being AWESOME!.
Cheers Amigo